OP didn't go to far at all. Too many people are allowed to act like entitled Jerks already. We need to nip these issues in the bud as early and often as possible.
2 years at $1500 a month is $36,000. She was literally paying them to bully and disrespect her. The kid didn't have a chance growing up there. It was a good thing it was stopped. You do not produce a productive, respectful adult by teaching kids to manipulate for money and be entitled... and bully. I hope she is doing better now.
Op: Anyone with a disability has every right to support in dealing with issues that come up in life, and this was plain wrong of your niece to do and your sister to allow happen.
What your niece did was cruel and mean!! Tell your husband!! She should be ashamed of herself and her mother should have put a stop to it!! I have stronger words than snarky for her!! I'm just to much of a lady to say them!!! Don't worry about their feelings!! Horrible, horrible people. You are awesome and strong and absolutely a survivor!!! ❤️❤️❤️
Born in the 50s, I was taught never do we stare at, mock, or say hurtful things about people who are physically or mentally disabled. We are all people. I worked a job where I was often around teens, and they talk the talk about how you treat different people, but did not walk the walk.
Thank you! I was born in 1950, I was about 3 or 4, I asked my grandmother about a friend of hers, whose legs were bowed at wide angles. I was a toddler and asked if the lady was broke. My grandmother explained that the lady had a misfortune in her life that left her like that. That she wasn't broke, and that people sometimes have problems and I should never make fun or criticize them. I was a toddler, but I can still see that woman and remember my grandmother talking to me about it, these 70+ years later.
Story 1, NTA. Parasite NEEDS to learn what happens when you bite the hand that helps you. It's on her for being so entitled and vile to her own sister. And to encourage her daughter and not apologize just shows her true colors.
At the end of it all the sister Isla continued to refuse to accept any blame. The last scapegoat was the husband and I'm sure she still refuses to admit anything was ever her fault. She's toxic. OP, stay away from her.
Kind of reminds me of my own story. I was born with a physical handicap, that would worsen through time. I never could run, just walk, I fell a lot and was bullied at school, like a got beaten up every single day for the first four years. My parents always told me, it had to be my own fault and the other children would have a reason to treat me like that. And my parents also verbally and physically abuse me every day, because my clothes were ripped up and sometimes there were bloodstains of them, when I got home. The rest of the family always told me, too, it was all my fault, since I was born with a handicap, that stressed my parents and made my father become an alcoholic. But life got much better after school, I learned a well paying profession and after getting out of an abusive relationship, I uilt up a good life on my own, with a great job, good friends and a nice rented apartment. And I promised myself, no relationship for the next at least two years. And a few weeks later I met my now husband in a bookstore. Bookstores obviously are great places to meet husbands.😅 After fighting my feelings for that man quite some time, I gave in and started dating him. I told him after our first kiss, that I would need a wheelchair soon and was unable to have children on my own. He just said "okay " and proposed soon after. Yes, after only a few weeks of relationship he proposed because his army job made him move away that time. Long story short, I accepted, we got married a year later and are now married for more than 27 years. My father in law was once asked, why his son married a cripple and my father hit that guy's face once and broke the jaw. My FiL is a stonemason and apparently, that job gives you a powerful punch. 😂 So my in laws are now my family and on my side only my sister was invited to the wedding,
STOP giving $$ every month to sister who has a good paying job and husband who does not work because he doesn't want to. STOP being their ATM they don't pay back!!
I can tell you strait up, if someone was giving me $1500 a month & helping out by babysitting when i needed help, there is NO WAY I would allow my child to do what she did & i would have nothing but praise & gratitude for ALL the help. Over 2 years OP gave them $36k + extra when needed & babysat regularly for a family that used her, abused/ridiculed her & lied about needing money.
I wish someone would give me even $500 a month. I would be praising them and appreciating them to the sky and back. I even praise the government for giving me my Social security check each month, even though it is my money. But, you have to be taught to be thankful for what you get.
Isla is just a meanspirited, cruel sister to OP. She and her husband fought all the time. That's no excuse to let your child mock her disabled aunt. That's no reason to allow your daughter to bully other kids. Isla was just bad news. At least OP grew a spine and syopped sending Isla money. And Isla divorced her deadbeat husband. Isla and her daughter will always be thoughtless, shallow, mean bullies. But OP will be so much happier keeping her money in her pocket and going LC with them.
No one should be bullied. Disability is a touchy subject, dependent on the person. I have a friend that is a above the knee amputee and he doesn't mind the jokes and makes his own about it. He told me one day, that he asks if it's okay in whatever group he's in. Last year, he was a body double for his Halloween decorations. Scared kids silly to suddenly sit up and offer them candy.
My wife almost stroked out when I dressed up as a peg leg pirate. A group of drunk guys asked me what it cost.pointing at my peg leg. I told them my leg. While at the beach on Bellows Air Station, some kids came up and asked my what happened. I told them I lost my leg. One kid asked if I didn’t know where I lost it. I pointed out to the ocean and said a shark bit it off, right here. I’m waiting for him to come back for a rematch. I count myself as lucky that I only “lost” my leg below the knee. Thankfully VA has taken good care of means that I can still do everything I did before. Well maybe a bit slower, but it beats being dead.
@@Odd_Interaction Absolutely!! I love your attitude about it. My friend lost his in a forklift accident. He just got his prosthetic last year and returned to work late last year. Having a good attitude goes along way towards getting back on track.
My Grandmother was in a wheelchair. She went to a fund-raiser where they were doing joke fines to raise money. My uncle finned her for bringing her own chiar to the dinner. My grandfather got finned for pushing his wife around.
@@katrinamoriarty I ended up with four different legs. The VA prosthetic people hooked me up with some nice artwork (actually cotton designed t-shirts that I bought) and three of them have different “tattoos”, since the leg I lost had a nice tattoo. My wife said she didn’t think I could get my money back for it. I laughed and said I have three rotating tats now. She told me "There's something seriously wrong with you."
I think Op did the best thing by cutting off her sister. She was giving her the money because of her DEAD BEAT HUSBAND and it took her sister relying on her own income ONLY to see that she had been Ignoring her child being a Bully, and her Husbands Abuse by Refusing to contribute to the family in any way. OP had to cut her off in order for her to Realize she was better off without him, and She needed to Divorce him. Maybe if OP had only supported her for Few Months insted of these past YEARS she would have been More Respectful and Understanding of others Plights.
I lost my left leg in a near-fatal auto accident when I was 30 years old and have many other physical scars and challenges from it including financial. Although I grew up in a disfunctional home, none of my family members have ever treated me like OPs sister and niece did, even when in my many struggles I turned to self-medicating with alcohol and burned many bridges with them by begging for financial help that they knew would fund the ensuing alcohol addiction I struggled with. I was supernaturally healed from my addiction 6.5 years ago and I've been slowly rebuilding these family relationships as they see me rebuilding my life; living financially responsibly and building my own business with the goal of finally breaking the chains of government disability "benefits" that have kept me from my greatest ambitions as a creative soul for so many years. So yeah, as a fellow survivor I can't even imagine how cruel and heartless these people could be toward a supposed loved one who went through so much! ✌️💖🖖
But the grandmother also raised OP too. It is not guaranteed that they will turn out the same as adults. Isla is also jealous that OP has money and a rich husband where she has a LOSER who is allergic to work (15 years BSing about developing a video game and turned down 2 million dollars because the people he contacted wanted to make changes to it...please. He's a piss poor liar on top of everything alse.
There is a saying that i thought everyone was well aware of. "Don't bite the hand that feeds." When someone is giving you money, when they babysit, when they are doing so much for you and you're benefitting so much from them, you DON'T mock them to their face. You don't mistreat them, because guess what? When you bite the hand that feeds, the hand will stop feeding, and you are left to figure it out for yourself. This brat and her mother took a hard bite of that hand and paid the price
Life lessons for sister & niece: • Actions have consequences. • You reap what you sow. 🌾 • Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. • Don’t bite the hand that feeds you.
I honestly hope the niece gets her stuff in order and learns to treat others properly. Also, i don't want to say it, but i hope OP's sister doesn't reclaim custody of the niece unless she's actually made to put in the effort to repair things and ensure the niece stays on the right path of not bullying others. I do feel OP should maybe invite the niece to a counseling session with her where OP discusses what she's been through due to her disability so the niece understands exactly why you don't do anything to hurt someone with a disability.....if OP reads this, please let her know that I truly sypathize with her fully and I hope she thinks through how she's going to help the niece going forward. Also, maybe get the tax people to investigate whether OP's sister claimed any of the money she sent her on her taxes or spent it all on house changes, because it was a pretty big amount of money total over several years based on the numbers alone....but that is op's call to make
I have nothing against One legged Monsters from Folklore or Mythology being used as a costume. But its a different story if they are being a random monster, not justifiying why dressed up like this, just to mock and bully you.
Op did not go to far her sister was taking advantage of and bad mouthing Op in front of her niece now maybe her niece will come down a notch and learn some manners !
S1: I would think that one out of two daughters seems to be a decent person, is not good. Heck OP’s mom raised Isla from north and look how well that worked out.
How exactly is stopping unwarranted financial support and not standing in the way of a bullying complaint payback and revenge? The assistant and other parents from the school would have filed the complaint whether OP wanted them to or not and unless she was willing to pay a substantial amount of hush money to keep the bullying quiet then she had absolutely no power to intervene. It is completely logical and morally correct to stop financial aid to a family using that money to buy luxury goods and home remodeling. If they were actually struggling with money for food or utilities it would be a different issue but they weren't. At 13 years old you are old enough to know and understand that your actions have consequences and that you can't just hurt other people because you feel hurt. Kathy is 100% better off in the custody of her grandmother and needs some intensive behavioral therapy ASAP.
OP sister and niece are horrible people you don’t make fun of someone disabled, and the people who thought it was OK need to grow up. If she did it in a way, that was to honor her aunt that would’ve been different.
i think this a win, win win situation, op stops subsidizing her misrible sister, who cut the dead weight srounging man that made her unhappy, meanwhile the daughter, gets the help she needs to heal from the trauma of her perents. as an add on the school loses a bully, i can see no loss here
Story 1. Some thoughts. OP said "It took time but I now love myself and accept how I look" and then a bit later "I decided that im going to let it go" (when referring to the insensitive costume) She then immediately DOESNT let it go... and lets this mockery destroy her self worth. Here is the problem... Either you have self worth... or you dont... Mockery or mean words wont change that. Love yourself truly, and if you do, it doesnt matter what other people say, as you can brush it off like crumbs from your shirt... its irrelevant, you are stronger then that. While I can empathize with OP's story, she is rather fragile about her accident and should probably seek some therapy to ACTUALLY move past the damage and grow into a stronger and better person. Remember you cant "love yourself" and "be worried about what people think" its one or the other... important life lesson there.
Family often attacks the one who stops helping. It is because they dont want that family member to go to them for help next. So they bully the one that is capable of helping.
Bullying is never right but I thing that, reverting the popular saying if you find an apple in the grass, probably the tree is probably pretty near by. That girl's mom was a bully too, not in the notorious way that it shows in a man or schoolchildren. More like not realizing that other people have feelings, guts and mind. Everybody else is like cardboard silhouettes, no feeling, not-people. Then when you react, wow! Like the victim claims to be a human being and how is that possible? Such a nerve! s for th
I'm still chuckling at the mispronounced name, i was away from my phone so couldnt see the text, all i could hear was the name and it baffled me. But then i was spelling it out in my head and realised that i probably knew the name and its a name i love when pronounced right but to look at, unless someone tells you, its not obvious. Isla is not pronounced like 'Eez-la', it's pronounced like 'Eye-la'. It's originally from the Spanish word for island which is actually pronounced with the S but isn't generally used as a name. But at some point the Spanish word was adopted into the Scottish language (not sure at what point) and became commonly used as a girls name but the S in Isla was 'dropped' or not pronounced, again, not sure why but possibly for the softer sounding name 🤷🏻♀️
I could see the costume being justified if the niece gave a nice speech about how much she respected her aunt and her resilience through life. A speech about overcoming struggle. But that clearly did not happen. Sad that once again, the disabled must go through so much in life even against their own family. 😕
Sorry, Mr Reditto, Isla is pronounced “eye-la”. It’s actually the name of an island off the west coast of Scotland. Please don’t think me nit-picky, it’s just so you will know how to pronounce it,if there is a next time. Thank you for your great work, I love it !!! XXXX
First off before you help out anyone financially. Sit down with them and do a budget. Introduced them to Dave Ramsey or a financial planner and get their butt correct. Then see what the need is. Help out if you can and help them get set up for a better future and yes husband should get a freaking job the lazy butt
ISLA I believe is pronounced EYE-LA Like ISLAND is NOT "EES-LAND" the only redeeming factor to the number of mispronounciations is if you are not from North America (Candana or USA) I had previously "taken a break" from your channel for days up to a week so I did not leave angry comments thinking you knew better. I mean Hello triggering ADHD and Bipolar crap
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Bullying is never okay and I'm glad you cut off financial support to your entitled sister and niece.
OP didn't go to far at all. Too many people are allowed to act like entitled Jerks already. We need to nip these issues in the bud as early and often as possible.
2 years at $1500 a month is $36,000. She was literally paying them to bully and disrespect her. The kid didn't have a chance growing up there. It was a good thing it was stopped. You do not produce a productive, respectful adult by teaching kids to manipulate for money and be entitled... and bully. I hope she is doing better now.
Nta. The niece is a bully and one day she is gonna get it and then some. She also is a thief
Op: Anyone with a disability has every right to support in dealing with issues that come up in life, and this was plain wrong of your niece to do and your sister to allow happen.
What your niece did was cruel and mean!! Tell your husband!! She should be ashamed of herself and her mother should have put a stop to it!! I have stronger words than snarky for her!! I'm just to much of a lady to say them!!! Don't worry about their feelings!! Horrible, horrible people. You are awesome and strong and
absolutely a survivor!!! ❤️❤️❤️
Born in the 50s, I was taught never do we stare at, mock, or say hurtful things about people who are physically or mentally disabled. We are all people. I worked a job where I was often around teens, and they talk the talk about how you treat different people, but did not walk the walk.
Thank you! I was born in 1950, I was about 3 or 4, I asked my grandmother about a friend of hers, whose legs were bowed at wide angles. I was a toddler and asked if the lady was broke. My grandmother explained that the lady had a misfortune in her life that left her like that. That she wasn't broke, and that people sometimes have problems and I should never make fun or criticize them. I was a toddler, but I can still see that woman and remember my grandmother talking to me about it, these 70+ years later.
I wouldnt give sis no more money
Story 1, NTA. Parasite NEEDS to learn what happens when you bite the hand that helps you. It's on her for being so entitled and vile to her own sister. And to encourage her daughter and not apologize just shows her true colors.
At the end of it all the sister Isla continued to refuse to accept any blame. The last scapegoat was the husband and I'm sure she still refuses to admit anything was ever her fault. She's toxic. OP, stay away from her.
pretty sure op's sister is a narcissist
They were wrong for making fun of OP. Sister and Brother-In-Law are freeloaders, and cruel.
Kind of reminds me of my own story. I was born with a physical handicap, that would worsen through time. I never could run, just walk, I fell a lot and was bullied at school, like a got beaten up every single day for the first four years. My parents always told me, it had to be my own fault and the other children would have a reason to treat me like that. And my parents also verbally and physically abuse me every day, because my clothes were ripped up and sometimes there were bloodstains of them, when I got home.
The rest of the family always told me, too, it was all my fault, since I was born with a handicap, that stressed my parents and made my father become an alcoholic.
But life got much better after school, I learned a well paying profession and after getting out of an abusive relationship, I uilt up a good life on my own, with a great job, good friends and a nice rented apartment. And I promised myself, no relationship for the next at least two years.
And a few weeks later I met my now husband in a bookstore. Bookstores obviously are great places to meet husbands.😅
After fighting my feelings for that man quite some time, I gave in and started dating him. I told him after our first kiss, that I would need a wheelchair soon and was unable to have children on my own. He just said "okay " and proposed soon after. Yes, after only a few weeks of relationship he proposed because his army job made him move away that time.
Long story short, I accepted, we got married a year later and are now married for more than 27 years.
My father in law was once asked, why his son married a cripple and my father hit that guy's face once and broke the jaw. My FiL is a stonemason and apparently, that job gives you a powerful punch. 😂
So my in laws are now my family and on my side only my sister was invited to the wedding,
STOP giving $$ every month to sister who has a good paying job and husband who does not work because he doesn't want to. STOP
being their ATM they don't pay back!!
I can tell you strait up, if someone was giving me $1500 a month & helping out by babysitting when i needed help, there is NO WAY I would allow my child to do what she did & i would have nothing but praise & gratitude for ALL the help.
Over 2 years OP gave them $36k + extra when needed & babysat regularly for a family that used her, abused/ridiculed her & lied about needing money.
It wouldn't matter if I was getting ZERO from my sister or anyone I would NEVER allow my child to do what she did to ANYONE!!
I wish someone would give me even $500 a month. I would be praising them and appreciating them to the sky and back. I even praise the government for giving me my Social security check each month, even though it is my money. But, you have to be taught to be thankful for what you get.
I have a sneaky SUSpicion that "sister" was the biggest culprit behind the evil gossip at the Salon (or whatever)
Op who cares if YOUR sister gets upset. Ugh please raise your kids to stand up for themselves when bullied. Not be a doormat
That is so cruel and ignorant 😢
Isla is just a meanspirited, cruel sister to OP. She and her husband fought all the time. That's no excuse to let your child mock her disabled aunt. That's no reason to allow your daughter to bully other kids. Isla was just bad news. At least OP grew a spine and syopped sending Isla money. And Isla divorced her deadbeat husband. Isla and her daughter will always be thoughtless, shallow, mean bullies. But OP will be so much happier keeping her money in her pocket and going LC with them.
No one should be bullied. Disability is a touchy subject, dependent on the person. I have a friend that is a above the knee amputee and he doesn't mind the jokes and makes his own about it. He told me one day, that he asks if it's okay in whatever group he's in. Last year, he was a body double for his Halloween decorations. Scared kids silly to suddenly sit up and offer them candy.
My wife almost stroked out when I dressed up as a peg leg pirate.
A group of drunk guys asked me what it cost.pointing at my peg leg.
I told them my leg.
While at the beach on Bellows Air Station, some kids came up and asked my what happened.
I told them I lost my leg.
One kid asked if I didn’t know where I lost it.
I pointed out to the ocean and said a shark bit it off, right here. I’m waiting for him to come back for a rematch.
I count myself as lucky that I only “lost” my leg below the knee. Thankfully VA has taken good care of means that I can still do everything I did before.
Well maybe a bit slower, but it beats being dead.
@@Odd_Interaction Absolutely!! I love your attitude about it. My friend lost his in a forklift accident. He just got his prosthetic last year and returned to work late last year. Having a good attitude goes along way towards getting back on track.
My Grandmother was in a wheelchair. She went to a fund-raiser where they were doing joke fines to raise money. My uncle finned her for bringing her own chiar to the dinner. My grandfather got finned for pushing his wife around.
@@katrinamoriarty life happens, especially when you write a blank check to Uncle Sam.
@@katrinamoriarty I ended up with four different legs. The VA prosthetic people hooked me up with some nice artwork (actually cotton designed t-shirts that I bought) and three of them have different “tattoos”, since the leg I lost had a nice tattoo.
My wife said she didn’t think I could get my money back for it.
I laughed and said I have three rotating tats now.
She told me "There's something seriously wrong with you."
I think Op did the best thing by cutting off her sister. She was giving her the money because of her DEAD BEAT HUSBAND and it took her sister relying on her own income ONLY to see that she had been Ignoring her child being a Bully, and her Husbands Abuse by Refusing to contribute to the family in any way. OP had to cut her off in order for her to Realize she was better off without him, and She needed to Divorce him. Maybe if OP had only supported her for Few Months insted of these past YEARS she would have been More Respectful and Understanding of others Plights.
I lost my left leg in a near-fatal auto accident when I was 30 years old and have many other physical scars and challenges from it including financial.
Although I grew up in a disfunctional home, none of my family members have ever treated me like OPs sister and niece did, even when in my many struggles I turned to self-medicating with alcohol and burned many bridges with them by begging for financial help that they knew would fund the ensuing alcohol addiction I struggled with.
I was supernaturally healed from my addiction 6.5 years ago and I've been slowly rebuilding these family relationships as they see me rebuilding my life; living financially responsibly and building my own business with the goal of finally breaking the chains of government disability "benefits" that have kept me from my greatest ambitions as a creative soul for so many years.
So yeah, as a fellow survivor I can't even imagine how cruel and heartless these people could be toward a supposed loved one who went through so much!
✌️💖🖖
Good for OP
Remind yourself, everything happens for a reason. PS, your Mom raised your sister.
But the grandmother also raised OP too. It is not guaranteed that they will turn out the same as adults. Isla is also jealous that OP has money and a rich husband where she has a LOSER who is allergic to work (15 years BSing about developing a video game and turned down 2 million dollars because the people he contacted wanted to make changes to it...please. He's a piss poor liar on top of everything alse.
There is a saying that i thought everyone was well aware of. "Don't bite the hand that feeds." When someone is giving you money, when they babysit, when they are doing so much for you and you're benefitting so much from them, you DON'T mock them to their face. You don't mistreat them, because guess what? When you bite the hand that feeds, the hand will stop feeding, and you are left to figure it out for yourself. This brat and her mother took a hard bite of that hand and paid the price
I wonder how much of the plan to milk OP was lazy BIL. He seems the catalyst for all of OP sisters problems.
EDIT: I apologize
Life lessons for sister & niece:
• Actions have consequences.
• You reap what you sow. 🌾
• Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
• Don’t bite the hand that feeds you.
I honestly hope the niece gets her stuff in order and learns to treat others properly. Also, i don't want to say it, but i hope OP's sister doesn't reclaim custody of the niece unless she's actually made to put in the effort to repair things and ensure the niece stays on the right path of not bullying others. I do feel OP should maybe invite the niece to a counseling session with her where OP discusses what she's been through due to her disability so the niece understands exactly why you don't do anything to hurt someone with a disability.....if OP reads this, please let her know that I truly sypathize with her fully and I hope she thinks through how she's going to help the niece going forward.
Also, maybe get the tax people to investigate whether OP's sister claimed any of the money she sent her on her taxes or spent it all on house changes, because it was a pretty big amount of money total over several years based on the numbers alone....but that is op's call to make
I have nothing against One legged Monsters from Folklore or Mythology being used as a costume. But its a different story if they are being a random monster, not justifiying why dressed up like this, just to mock and bully you.
Op did not go to far her sister was taking advantage of and bad mouthing Op in front of her niece now maybe her niece will come down a notch and learn some manners !
OP just walk away it's not worth
S1: I would think that one out of two daughters seems to be a decent person, is not good.
Heck OP’s mom raised Isla from north and look how well that worked out.
13 year old tweens can be absolutely cruel especially if they have horrible parents who haven't taught them basic manners.
Thanks for giving the male character a mustache.
It's really nice to look at and enjoy the vedio. 🙂
How exactly is stopping unwarranted financial support and not standing in the way of a bullying complaint payback and revenge? The assistant and other parents from the school would have filed the complaint whether OP wanted them to or not and unless she was willing to pay a substantial amount of hush money to keep the bullying quiet then she had absolutely no power to intervene. It is completely logical and morally correct to stop financial aid to a family using that money to buy luxury goods and home remodeling. If they were actually struggling with money for food or utilities it would be a different issue but they weren't. At 13 years old you are old enough to know and understand that your actions have consequences and that you can't just hurt other people because you feel hurt. Kathy is 100% better off in the custody of her grandmother and needs some intensive behavioral therapy ASAP.
OP sister and niece are horrible people you don’t make fun of someone disabled, and the people who thought it was OK need to grow up. If she did it in a way, that was to honor her aunt that would’ve been different.
i think this a win, win win situation, op stops subsidizing her misrible sister, who cut the dead weight srounging man that made her unhappy, meanwhile the daughter, gets the help she needs to heal from the trauma of her perents. as an add on the school loses a bully, i can see no loss here
It wasn’t the niece, that sophisticated move had to be “sponsored” by an adult!
what a fairy tale romance between op and her husband
Story 1. Some thoughts.
OP said "It took time but I now love myself and accept how I look" and then a bit later "I decided that im going to let it go" (when referring to the insensitive costume)
She then immediately DOESNT let it go... and lets this mockery destroy her self worth.
Here is the problem... Either you have self worth... or you dont... Mockery or mean words wont change that. Love yourself truly, and if you do, it doesnt matter what other people say, as you can brush it off like crumbs from your shirt... its irrelevant, you are stronger then that.
While I can empathize with OP's story, she is rather fragile about her accident and should probably seek some therapy to ACTUALLY move past the damage and grow into a stronger and better person.
Remember you cant "love yourself" and "be worried about what people think" its one or the other... important life lesson there.
Yasss queen! WRITE THAT CHECK, OP!
Family often attacks the one who stops helping. It is because they dont want that family member to go to them for help next. So they bully the one that is capable of helping.
Your voice would be excellent in a horror cartoon or similar....you do angry so well! 😅
We definitely need someone to tell us not to be Doormats.. OP has her friends... Like I do...
Bullying is never right but I thing that, reverting the popular saying if you find an apple in the grass, probably the tree is probably pretty near by. That girl's mom was a bully too, not in the notorious way that it shows in a man or schoolchildren. More like not realizing that other people have feelings, guts and mind. Everybody else is like cardboard silhouettes, no feeling, not-people. Then when you react, wow! Like the victim claims to be a human being and how is that possible? Such a nerve!
s for th
Thanks!
Is OP also blind? I’m mid way.
To me that seems cruel.
I'm still chuckling at the mispronounced name, i was away from my phone so couldnt see the text, all i could hear was the name and it baffled me. But then i was spelling it out in my head and realised that i probably knew the name and its a name i love when pronounced right but to look at, unless someone tells you, its not obvious.
Isla is not pronounced like 'Eez-la', it's pronounced like 'Eye-la'. It's originally from the Spanish word for island which is actually pronounced with the S but isn't generally used as a name. But at some point the Spanish word was adopted into the Scottish language (not sure at what point) and became commonly used as a girls name but the S in Isla was 'dropped' or not pronounced, again, not sure why but possibly for the softer sounding name 🤷🏻♀️
The ess is not pronounced in "isle" or "island" either. Or "aisle."
There is a Spanish saying, "don't mention the noose in the house of the hanged man." It is a polite thing to do, to avoid triggering people.
Yes! Tell him
I could see the costume being justified if the niece gave a nice speech about how much she respected her aunt and her resilience through life. A speech about overcoming struggle. But that clearly did not happen. Sad that once again, the disabled must go through so much in life even against their own family. 😕
If you want a good self esteem you always have to call out people who bully you or mock you. Just put up with mockery is never a good idea.
Not the a whole
Did OP report the $1500 a month additional income to the IRS?
Sorry, Mr Reditto, Isla is pronounced “eye-la”. It’s actually the name of an island off the west coast of Scotland. Please don’t think me nit-picky, it’s just so you will know how to pronounce it,if there is a next time. Thank you for your great work, I love it !!! XXXX
Just because you're disabled doesn't mean you have to be a doormat
Finally animation
Copying a view of someone is not creative. Most of these stories are petty or silly, this one is just simply unkind
Isla is pronounced "i lah" or Isle la.
So rude of her
Happy Halloween 🎃✨🕯️✨🍭✨👀✨
It's said eye la, not isla
First off before you help out anyone financially. Sit down with them and do a budget. Introduced them to Dave Ramsey or a financial planner and get their butt correct. Then see what the need is. Help out if you can and help them get set up for a better future and yes husband should get a freaking job the lazy butt
You were a fool not to notice. Hope this has taught you to keep your eyes open and connected to your brain.
Second two minutes ago
ISLA I believe is pronounced EYE-LA
Like ISLAND is NOT "EES-LAND" the only redeeming factor to the number of mispronounciations is if you are not from North America (Candana or USA) I had previously "taken a break" from your channel for days up to a week so I did not leave angry comments thinking you knew better. I mean Hello triggering ADHD and Bipolar crap
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Ummmm what is with the blind person stick in the animation??? That’s all sorts of wrong……
Good lord man! Pronunciation!
Holy S!ht, that title is word salad.
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Once again my dude you got a major name wrong. It's pronounced eye-la. Maybe Google it if you don't know how to say it.
Oh, get over yourself already
Your mocking and weird voice inflections really ruined this story. Made it feel like you were mocking op too, and felt gross to listen to.