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- A highly sensitive person or HSP is someone who feels more deeply about things. They may cry more easily, prefer alone time to recharge, and display higher empathy. In fact, the personality trait was first researched by Dr. Elaine N. Aron in 1991. All of her important findings have been published in various articles and in her book The Highly Sensitive Person. amzn.to/2DZh4yW
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Psych2Go
Hey thank you I'm a omnivirt (I think I got no clue)
But there's this girl that never talks at my school
( I think she's a introvert)
And I love her
( I've said hi and told her jokes ... She smiled at me 😊)
Theses things are helpful to Lear about people like her
....
Thank you
Psych2Go I share those videos with my roommates, besides, thanks for making this content!
Thanks Edek! @She Wolf35, we do have a video on that actually haha. Can you look it up? @the hat club, you mean ambivert? I'm glad these videos can help you gain better understanding of people :)
Psych2Go I really appreciate your videos. :)
I do deep thinking but the fact is that its not effective. One thing is analysing deeply and other is it actually being useful but in mine case it's many times not
Does anyone else feel guilty when they complain about their problems knowing there’s someone that has it worse?
I do! I hate sharing my problems with others
@@aasthasaxena2330 Same! I feel my problems aren't important enough so I care for my friends problems instead
yezzir
All the time; but that's the thing, even though there's always a deeper pit of hell, it doesn't invalidate the level you're on.
Yes I really do
Does anyone else end up crying when they're in an argument?
Yup or immediately afterward.
Bronie Law I start to cry during debates in class😩😩😩
Yuppp :'(
I get so frustrated and angry but I can't shout at them or hit them so I just cry afterward.
SOFT
i literally hate being so sensitive. My friends are jokingly rude, and i get so upset even when i know they are joking. I’ll stay, be sad, and cry for days, even though it was a joke. I start assuming they hate me if they even act a bit annoyed, and i assume they’d want me gone if they need a bit of space. I hate it all, I wanna be able to feel fine
Don't hate being yourself pls. My friends are toxicly rude too, they only care about themselves, and talk about themselves, but I learned
If you actually hate having to talk to people like that, just let them talk and randomly walk away, if they will come again for you, they're surely fake friends, because they wanna have you listening to them 24/7...
You should love yourself and feel what you feel...Don't be hard on yourself because the others don't understand or do jokes about u....The friends who will understand u would love u believe me...And lastly I purple u....Take care and I am sure there would be someone who will completely understand u and comfort u
And there's nothing wrong with being sensitive...You r who u r and that what makes u unique and classy
Wow that's me
same :/
As someone that’s been told “stop being so sensitive” all their life and grown to hide their emotions because of it, this video has made me feel so validated as it’s all I’ve wanted to hear my whole life.
Yea :(
Yep
' u are so sensitive!' I wish that expression was used as a compliment and dint have a negative connotation.Imagine being told ' u are so intelligent' ,' u are so pretty' and in same vein ' u are so sensitive'.That would be so awesome
I grew up hearing that from my dad too (and partners since then). For example, someone makes a negative comment about something and I think it's about me. But ya hearing someone yell "you're so sensitive!" when you're already feeling bad about something.. I learned to just not say anything
Also a HSP cares alot about others' opinions. Negative comments affect them easily and they often like to be portrayed as a happy person to the world hiding their true feelings.
OMG so truuue
Maheen Aqeel Yes!! I feel this so much
Yes and no, Mahheen. It also depends on your self esteem and learning not take everything personal. Also, there can be codependant issues to look into...
Oop i’ve been called out haha
true
I can’t like every comment, but same.
Hahahah litterly feel the same!
Meee
Same
SAME
Same
Anyone else just now seeing this in 2022? Man I wish kid me saw this, I relate to every level. Amazing video.
yes
Oh hi lan
Honestly, same.
2023 🙋🏽♀️
Hey im a 63 year old male. Its like a door I never knew was there that happened to open up while dealing with a narcissist. I finally have an understanding, I wish I had way way earlier.
My dad would get so mad at me for being sensitive, saying I always take things to heart. I spent my late teens and most of my 20s putting up an angry, hard shell around myself to protect myself from pain, which just pushed everyone away and I ended up in an abusive relationship. After a few years of therapy, I learned my self worth, how to deal with my sensitivity, assertiveness, and how to let my guard down. Therapy really helped me, and I hope of anyone reads this and resonates, will consider seeking therapy too.
Hey can u help me
I feel like my whole soul is crushed when someone raises their voice at me :(
I know that exact feeling mainly by my mother and father it feels like a sledgehammer hitting you in the chest
Hahaha thats me
Me too just ,so relatable
I can relate to that... Idk how many times I've cried in class when my teacher yelled at me. It's embarrassing.
I almost cried when my friend raised his voice at me...... I cried after since I can't take it anymore..:(
does anyone hide and cry and just wait till their eyes aren’t puffy anymore so that your problems don’t trouble anybody 😔✌️
triplechoi me👋 I bury it all
Wow, that is so stupid. Hahaha, no, no one does that.
me...if its still puffy i'll say its because i sleep late and my mom will get angry saying im losing sleep cuz i keep scrolling on my phone
All the time
@@jimmyj4044 Hm I wonder if you are serious or I got R/Whoosh'd
Am I the only person who cries all the time when someone close to me yells at me......???
Nooo
Me tooo
I do as well.
This used to happen so much to me but eventually i reached the mindset that everyone is meaningless and and don't matter, and then the next day everything ok, and it happens all over again, it's suffocating
My mom: *talks to me about grades like she’s mad*
Me: *almost cries*
My mom: Why are you crying
Another time after she talked to me about grades
Me: *sobbing but I think quietly*
Her from another room: Stop crying!!!!
someone: stop being so sensitive.
me: oh wow! i should’ve tried that sooner!
Rhat :P HAHAAHH
Felt that
So true they think we're sensitive because we want to
ive never related to something more i-
DJ Banana RIGHT
I think everyone in here relates but when we get mad we automatically start crying instead of actually acting mad😂
Exactely
I'm getting mad and crying at the same time
yess it happens to me all the time ._.
I got so sick of crying all the time that I got angry...now im always angry and have outbursts even I think are kind messed up.
*sigh*
So me
Reading so many comments from my fellow HSP’s as an HSP who is learning the value of how we’re made and seeing so many of you suffering and saying it isn’t fair I just want to give you all a big, warm hug and say: I love you. You’re perfect just the way you are. Please hold on because the world needs us! This hard, cruel world needs some depth and meaning and love and care. Your sensitivity can often feel like a weakness but it can also be your strength. I’m rooting for you and sending peace and love your way ❤️
Thank you for this ❤️❤️
Oh my goodness, this means more than you will ever know, thank you!
As an INFJ and HSD, it's a pride to watch this educational video 😇
parent: **arguing with me**
me: **yells in defense**
also me: **voice cracks for no reason and starts crying**
This is probably the thing that aggravates me most. I want to be angry and intimidating, but instead I just break down and cry
Fallen Angel Same.
@@asha_vere thisssssssssssssssssss
Damn the voice cracks ways get me :((
exactlyy
I can’t believe everyone doesn’t feel like this lol
*Laughs in nervous*
LITERALLY
!!
And I am glad for them 😂
I feel exactly the same way. sometimes I feel other people are so careless.
I didn't even know this was a normal thing, I didn't know it was something other people felt until I watched this video. Thank you for this! These are all so perfectly explained and they helped me understand me more and why I have those traits I do. I'm looking forward to discussing this more with my therapist! I really love this channel.
when I was younger, my mom would constantly have to tell my siblings to leave me alone because “you know she’s sensitive”. Those would be her exact words. I never thought anything of it, just knew I was sensitive to literally everything and I was an overly emotional child.
In high school I would always tell my friends, all the time, that I felt like I would feel emotions deeper than everybody else. When people would be sad, I’d be crying. When people were happy, I was ecstatic. When people are scared, I’m having a panic attack. But again, I never did research, I just thought I was weird and felt stuff way deeper than I should’ve.
I’m 24 now, and this is the first time I’ve heard anyone actually address these traits and I’m so glad I came across this video!!
Me trying to hold my emotions and tears
My friend : hey-
Me: ༼;´༎ຶ ༎ຶ༽
LMAO
LMAO sometimes when I'm fine and I'm able to hold my tears my friends then try comfort me, but it just makes me cry even more.
Holy shit that ASCII(?)
Nah i have a poker face ..... sad thing tho
😂
Me: slightly crying
Person: are you crying?
Me: *starts sobbing*
mood :(
Omg, yes!! It happens to me every single time!!!!!!
It's even worse for me because stupid 4 to 9 year old me cried about absolutely everything and now in middle school everyone seems to know that and I just don't try making friends any more because someone will tell them about how much I cried and when they do know they don't want to be around me worrying I will cry.
Me: not crying
Someone: don't cry
Me: starts crying even tho I'm not sad
BTS CHIMMY YYYYYYAAAAASS! I'm sorry I had to. 😂 also this happens to me aswell
This is exactly me! Few people understand the struggle of being an introvert, overly emotional and highly sensitive. Not good at jokes, always take things seriously and feel so helpless can't make decisions easily.
not me crying realising this was something normal and people like me does exist.. literally every point correlates with me and i feel so comforted.. thanks for this video
Is it just me or is it when someone comforts me when i'm crying, It makes me cry more...?
Oh my god- I'm sorry but I made this comment a year ago and y'all are still replying-- wow.
@@rain22738 same! It’s like you feel guilty or bad and you think that they are comforting you out of pity or you think your a waste of their time
same!! i thought i was the only one. i hate letting them see me cry
Same! Like I immediately start thinking that I don't deserve that person, and the thought of them caring about me makes me cry for some reasin
@@ayurmy4667 Same...
Yess!!
it kinda sucks because i can't handle harsh jokes and sass without getting offended deep down, but it also made me good at choosing my words and keeping secrets.
Good job.
There are lots of people who use profanity and I get offended real easily.
@Carl Johnson If everyone had low sensitivity, then there wouldn't be someone that I could talk to that is more like me :c
😥 it gets me in trouble all the time...
Yeah dude, same here.
I can identify with so many comments in this thread but let me tell you that as a Person with HSP it's really important to find a good environment and workplace in your life.
I'm a RN who just started med school and I can tell you I am so excited that I am going to be a doctor because due to my HSP I feel like I can read into my patients' minds so well and can identify their needs without them even telling me what it is. HSP is not particularly a disadvantage even though I tend to have problems with it when i am in an argument for example and my mind just shuts down due to the overwhelming emotional response it created.
Find your bubble, work on yourself to be better and go for your goals. HSP is a gift as well as it is a burden!
3:30 this is where i'm like ''now the other meals feel sad because i didn't pick them''.
*parents raises their voice at me*
*starts crying like a baby*
Literally my mom yelled at me for the first time in a while.... I cried.. in front of everyone, I didn’t even wait till I was alone
this hits close to home
sucks when you're a 20 year old man
@@rad1264 I'm 22, buddy. You're not alone.
I’ve just turned 18 and I still can’t handle my religion...
"You prefer to exercise alone"
I prefer to not exercise.
Naomi oh my god, me
I prefer to not even think about exercise
YAS ME
Naomi same :")
hahahahaha same. 😂
i literally hate it so much when people tell me to stop being sensitive. like, i cant control my emotions. i cant do anything about it. saying "dont be sensitive" really doesnt help, in fact it worsens my day. people need to stop saying that.
If someone tells you not to be so sensitive, tell them to not be so insensitive!
I never thought I would found a video that is literally what I am :D
Boy, I love psychology and philosophy
My whole life is just “sorry” to everyone 24/7.
I can relate to this so much
BlueFoxx haha yeah same
I say thank you often
omg same
Rafay Aftab I say thank you to Siri
honestly i usually don't even want to cry but my eyes just betray me and then everyone thinks i'm weird and a crybaby because i cried over a joke
Same i can't make myself not cry
I can relate :
I used to research how to get rid of my tear gland, I don’t want to appear weak but I just can’t help with it
I can relate😥
Same. I'll cry even when I feel calm or neutral about something. People always act weird and ask what wrong, when in reality I'm just chilling.
I guess introverts on extreme levels(like me lmao) are highly sensitive. I mean that might be true because whenever someone insults me or talks behind my back I just can't stop thinking about it and it makes me sad, but I try to ignore it and play some video games to cure that issue.
Oh i agree with you very much. Especially video games😂
SPOT ON. I can't believe what you said about the restaurant menu...OVERWHELMING. Thank you. I would add two more. 9. You occasionally get over stimulated and PISSED OFF. 10. You feel great joy and enthusiasm over small things.
Okay stop telling everyone about me.
Right. I feel exposed 🙈
Bruh..... 😂
same
Mood they straight up exposed me
When someone is yelling at me or I feel that someone is disappointed in me, I get this like sinking feeling everything feels right. Then I start to cry and no matter how hard I try I can’t stop the tears. And I always feel embarrassed when I do that especially when I’m in school.
i try so hard not to cry but then my face gets so hot and i can’t hold it in
I feel super sad. I hide it around people and honestly then cry.
I'm like that too :(
Honestly I decided hiding it is better for everyone I guess, I want people to stay happy, I want to save those I can in any way possible. Being sad doesn't make them any happier.
IconicQueen'04 you described it perfectly! For the longest time I couldn’t figure out how to describe that feeling. It happens to me a lot. I honestly hate it. It’s made me cry for the stupidest things. Like at work, I asked so many questions (I don’t like doing things wrong so I need to know exactly what I’m doing) and the person training me was annoyed with all my questions (I pick up on emotions well and it was extremely obvious) and then I couldn’t stop crying and being emotional for hours. It wasn’t a good day at work to say the least
And the worst part is that society doesn’t take it seriously. “Don’t be so sensitive!”-they say. As if we chose to be this way, as if we could change ourselves. “Change your race, or your eye colour (not taking colour lenses into account).” Easier said than done, right?! Basically, they’re telling us to change our personality. And they do not realise we sometimes wish we could…. Wish so much…….
Discovering I have the INFJ personality as well as being an HSP has made a significant turning point in life… I love and accept unapologetically who I am because I thought I was odd, crazy and worse; depressed. Hardly do people understand me and why I feel deeply the way I do; trying to explain to them only makes it worse. Finding a partner who can relate with me on a deep level has been so challenging that I often wonder; perhaps I am better off being alone. But I pray and hope I meet someone who understands and accepts me
Am i the only one who gets angry easily but also Happy easily
Same.
Same with my brother
Girl noo i am exactly like that to😂
Me too but I tried to control my anger before I regret what I have done
Mee
I FINALLY UNDERSTAND WHY I CRY AFTER EVERY INTERACTION WITH MY PARENTS AND THEY ARE NOT ABUSIVE
wow literally same
Same
Same. My dad... just the way he would say my name when I was growing up (even if I wasn't getting in trouble), I'd start crying before I even went to him to find out what he wanted and I just assumed I was in trouble. Pissed him off so much. Smh. My mind is my own worst enemy
@@destree6348 When my parents do so much as give me too much attention which isn't even much, even if they wanna help me, I have to hold in tears.
@Nanner I understand exactly what you're saying. So much can be so overwhelming
I wish somebody could understand how hard it is to be yelled at and just cry alone and deal with it. I feel like i'm alone and wish somebody could help me. But nobody understands or is listening. I'm always embarrased to cry so i try to hold it in. When someone is trying to comfort me it just makes it worse. And sometimes i think about running away from my home.
7 out of 8 signs I experience. Horror movies I’m fine with (monsters, the paranormal & ghosts, etc). But movies dealing with S. Assault, domestic abuse stuff like that, I stay far away from those. They actually make me mad, sad and helpless. After having a stroke I noticed that how I processed things was completely different than before it. Even now, almost 4 years later, and it hasn’t really changed but learning more about it has helped deal with it.
It’s so embarrassing when a teacher yells at me and I cry. I wish I wasn’t so sensitive
Edit: Thanks for the likes it’s nice knowing I’m not the only one
Same D:
It’s stressful because literally none of my friends understand my condition and always pull mean jokes on me...:(
Sketching Skies •0•* ikr and they make me feel bad
when a teacher talks to me I cry
fuckkk same:(
When someone gets angry at me or screams at me, i just stay calm but inside im feeling super stressed and its super hard to hold up the tears :((
Especially at school or at home and public spaces, im sure im not the only one
@Muchinoi it happens to me all the time.
You're not alone, for me is the same
My dad has anger problems so at a very young age I got accustomed to the book of curse words and insults, so I don't even cry anymore. I just kind of shut down for 30 ish minutes. TH-cam always helps lol.
@@imw4497 aw are you doing ok now? If you're not feel free to talk to someone, we're always here for u :) ❤
@Muchinoi aw, is everything alright now? If not, please talk so someone, we care about you ❤
My ex made me feel really bad for crying when he would raise his voice, and i would try and suppress my emotions. It ended up hurting me a lot and losing a sense of myself when he left for someone else. I was never aware of the term HSP until now. It makes so much sense. In super empathic to the point where i feel everyones emotions and i can't help but cry. So thank you so much for making this 💗
Despite the fact I was often bullied being a HSP and my narcissistic partner took a great advantage of it I'm still a HSP. Thank you for making me understand there's nothing wrong with that.
I started crying at the "you need parents who nurture your sensitivity" because that's exactly what I don't have
Isy VD same 😞
Isy VD, soooooooo true
@S̸h̸e̸r̸ 15 You saying you're being ungrateful reminds me of my own situation. I've been slowly figuring out the toxic behaviour of both my mother and grandmother. I am really attached to my mother, so admitting to myself and others that she did things that weren't right and that hurt me a lot was such a difficult process. In this family as well, when you voice your pain and anger that was caused by something they did, you are suddenly ungrateful. The word gets thrown around a lot. And I only recently realised that that isn't how it should be. That I should be able to voice when they hurt me without getting a list of all the things they did for me thrown in my face to make me swallow my emotions and stop confronting them. In this family, it feels like no love is unconditional. And at times I'm still so angry at them. Even though my thoughts haven't gone to such extremes, I do feel like I understand where you're coming from. I hope you'll be able to break away from the toxic situation. I'm working on that myself as well.
@@isyvd I hope you make it out of that environment friend. My family especially my brother are real energy suckers and it used to bother me so much that it seemed like he didn't care for my mental health at all. But I learned to forgive him and forgive myself for letting him take the joy out of me. I realized that I was giving him that power not knowing that I had a choice. It took years and I am still working on it every day but now I am kinda thankful for him pushing me to be a strong willed human being. Even though I could of learned some other way. Sorry for long response but I wanted to show you that there is hope and I hope you find it wherever
Same but my father is a narcissist and my mother is someone who don't know anything. Everything she ask my father and lead to anger.
do you guys cry easily? because i do
I do
@@ifeomaagbasi9644 a lot of people hold it inside their chest but i donno why i can't.i just have to let it out
@@jimineepabonojams567 I myself also try to keep it in. But it depends on the situation. Sometimes, I can't help it and sometimes I hold it in till it builds up and let it all out at some point.
@@ifeomaagbasi9644 yeah sometimes it just blows up out of nowhere.
@@jimineepabonojams567 yup
Does anyone else cry from getting upset or sad, and then get even more upset and start crying because you're mad at yourself for crying?
I've been through a group of friends recently, where later I learned they don't accept me who I am.
I would always come to the group to hang out, but I couldn't say or ask something "dumb, " or else I get teased for it. Even if I don't say anything, I get teased at. Jokes that I couldn't handle, I would just cry, and be sad about it for days. It really sucked
Best option that I did was to leave. It was hard, but I feel so much better now. Also, it was important for my mental health.
you did the right thing
1. You feel deeply and tend to be more emotionally reactive
2. You prefer to exercise alone
3. It takes you longer to make decisions
4. You pay attention to subtlety and small details in general
5. You are highly conscientious and have extremely good manners
6. You are prone to having anxiety or depression especially if you’ve had bad past experiences
7. Violent or horror movies are not your cup of tea
8. You work well in team environments
Ellie Matthew nope ig im not this cause i do not have good manners i used to eat with my fingers😭
Keila Sanchez you don’t have to have all qualities lol. Also eating with your fingers isn’t necessarily bad manners, part of my family is Filipino and it’s part of our culture to eat with our hands. I like it!
I don’t work well in teams at all because I’m scared I won’t know what to do or I’m wrong
I was literally looking for this, thanks
Ellie Matthew i like horror and violent movies tho
Alternative Title: Calling me out for 7 minutes
Same
LMAO YEAH
Lmao 😂 same
LMFAOO
This isn't a joke you sick bitch
fun fact: lots of the symptoms of being a hsp are actually symptoms of hyperempathy in autism, and often autism in afab people is misdiagnosed as just being a highly sensitive person, because of how differently afabs are raised as compared to amabs !! if anyone has any questions, feel free to ask :D
Also HSP isn't a diagnoses!! Its not even in the DSM5!! Its just the ableist version of autism!!!
Thank you! So glad to see someone saying it! It’s also similar with ADHD and other neurodivergences
Hi! What are afabs and amabs?
@@rebeccas2801 hi, I was diagnosed with adhd but sometimes I think I'm just using it as an excuse for my poor habits:(
That's what my father would always tell me. I just need more discipline, it's all in my head, and it's something I can control.
can you tell me about what you know about ADHD and how would you explain it to a neurotypical who doesn't believe in neurodivergencies?
@@janetheobscure3426 AFAB = Assigned female at birth, AMAB = assigned male at birth
The comments break down
60% "I hate being a HSP"
30% "I can't believe that other people feel this way too, I feel understood"
9% Deep insights and speculation into the psyche of HSP that really make you think
1% How being a HSP correlates with certain personality types.
But seriously, as an HSP myself, I really love seeing how we've flocked to the comments and made a small community to vent, support and discuss this, sometimes harrowing, but undoubtedly, special part of our identity. :)
Team HSP!
Sensitive people should be treasured. They love deeply and think deeply about life. They are loyal, honest, and true. The simple things sometimes mean the most to them. They don’t need to change or harden. Their purity makes them who they are.
I wish everyone felt that way.
It is hard when no one takes the time to be gentle and kind.
I love this.
As a not really sensitive person, I actually really appreciate sensitive people and love them. Ily guys 🥰
@@Me-us2rf True.
@@glittermoog4823 😊
Sign number 9: You cry any time you get criticized, even when it was meant to be constructive.... it’s me all the time.
EDIT: Thanks for all the likes.. never had anywhere near this many! It’s nice to know i’m not the only one with this problem
YEP!
I cry when teachers talk to me, I had a panic attack when one shouted at me
Me too! I can’t stand it! Omfg 🥺
Me too
I’m quite very sensitive and introverted but the thing is I’m a guy so when I cry I will mostly be told to man up.
Everyday I always wonder why I'm very sensitive about a lot of things. This channel has been a big source for me this weekend.
I have NEVER seen a video that explained all of what I'm feeling right now sooooo well!
Me: *cries*
Someone: why are you crying? Dont cry!
Me: *cries even more*
Tbh i hate it when people surround me and ask questions while i cry. Like, that only makes me feel MUCH worse and makes me cry even more!
Edit: its nice to know how much people can relate to me. Have a nice day~ :) theres nothing wrong in being sensitive, remember that.
same last few months i cried after my speech and all of a sudden half of the class started to come near me and told me not to cry and it’ll be alright but i kept crying more ;;
Heartsy Kpopper yeah, it makes you feel more vulnerable and like you’re weakness is on full display to others. I had to give a speech in class, but after seeing the person before me blow it out of the water, I just started immediately crying. I try to find coping mechanisms, and the ones that seem to be the most helpful to me are writing or drawing something near me.
This is what I want NOT to happen and the reason why I try to hide the fact that I'm crying every time I'm with someone else.
@Heartsy Kpopper omg I feel the same.. like for example when I am tearing up or crying, they ask me, "Are you okay?," then I start sobbing even more even if I try to say, "I'm fine" but I cant stop sobbing to answer back.
SAME I so don't want people to come up to me and ask me why I am crying. I mean that is why I avoid crying in public
Does anyone else tend to over-analyze movies to the point people find it annoying to watch a movie with you because you can’t stop pointing at small details such as the color of the clothes representing a change of power or the expression of the character in the back looking uncomfortable?
tjegnrrggbthks me
YES
omg yes I comment on everything and then I feel guilty cause I'm annoying everyone lmao
i tend to do that silently in my head aksjaks
lol yes I pay so much attention to symbolism and to the different settings
Watching these HSP videos make me emotional. It’s like I finally SEEN, heard and acknowledged! I’ve always felt like I was crazy with how emotional I get at times, and how I just feel moods intensely. When I feel joy, it pulsates throughout my body; making me jump or squirm, like the happiness is trying to get out and infect others. On the other hand, when I’m sad, I’m so accepting of death. But then again, I might just be depressed. 😐 lol Great job with the videos, and thank you for making them!
I look back at my childhood, having two narcissistic parents (one not present, or only when she felt like it), it seems so clear to me now what a sensitive soul I was as a child. I became a vegetarian at the age of 10 because I couldn’t understand why people ate animals when they had souls just like us! Still am a vegetarian 29 years later! 🌎 Being an HSP isn’t easy- the constant alone time that it takes to recharge, but I love who I am and so should you ❤️
It does amaze me, not that people eat animals, but that people don't think about them and WON'T. In "The Omnivore's Dilemma," the author describes a "grass farmer" who does raise animals for food, but his position is that people who eat chicken should kill a chicken at least once so they know what it's like and what they're contributing to by eating chicken. If I suggest that people who eat meat should merely look at a VIDEO of the reality of slaughtering cows and what the cows go through, ***I'M*** considered to be the cruel one!!! Like being subjected to a video is worse than being part of the cause of the slaughter of 11 billion innocent creatures every year (the number of animals we kill for food annually in America).
No surprise, I don't eat meat. (It's bad for you anyway. Grim cartoon: two cows headed to slaughter; one says to the other, "If it's any consolation, eating us is killing them.")
I feel like when someone corrects me, even in the most gentle way, I feel like I bothered them doing it wrong the first time and feel bad anyway. Anyone else?
Yeah omg same! Every time someone corrects me on something I’m doing wrong, I feel offended even in the most gentle way because it makes me think they think that I’m an idiot or something and sometimes I want to cry after that happens :(
I just got corrected by my teacher in online school.Now I'm crying. I'm never going to say anything in that subject again.
I have just made a 1st i think self realization. Ive know this to be true before, but this was the 1st time that i acctualy realized it withing myself. My feelings get easily hurt, thats why i am mean and evil towards others. I do it to them, so they feel bad(possibly), and it makes me feel better, but it also a self sabotage kinda. Because i just said something mean in my snap group, and these friends know this truth about me, and i knew it too kinda, but i have never truly realized it. So when i was mean to someone in the snap group, others saw it, and they instantly gave him love. And that hurt me. And they knew it would hurt me. So if someone, who is an emotional GRANDDAD, could explain what this is, it would be great. I have a hugeeeeee ego aswell. And when i say huge, im talking psychopatic lvl. Im not a psychopath, but my ego is on that lvl. Someone pls talk to me.
Oh yes and ive also isolated myself from others, my family also, before corona, because of this stuff i think. I just cant handle myself, when im with anyone. Too much stuff happens to me. Sometimes im cool, but thats rly rare, and short also.
Also. Something about life, or maybe just me. That hurt i felt, when they gave him love, i feel that sooo much more, than what i feel, when im given love. Or maybe i dont deserve love, and noone is giving me it, cause im grown now, and im irresponsible, and still kinda childish, and lazy. The only love i was given kinda, in the past years i think, was when my grandma was cuddling me. Im 22 and i like when my grandma cuddles me. Fuck it. And that feels like nothing, compared to what the hurt feels like. Its so sad honeslty, ive burst into tears writing this part. Im fine now. Welp maybe noone sees this and im writing this to myself yeeeho. Life's simple init m8? Im so confident when im typing on the internet, fb, etc. In real life im such a pussy. Avarage penis also. Life's amazing init girls? Yes it is my g, if u are a pro at sex. 🙃
Finally with people I can totally relate to.. The whole comment section
Yea
Yeahh
Yeah, same here.
The 18k people
hobi_ sflower yess
Being an hsp I once cried in a job interview cus the interviewer insulted me for not knowing some of the question. While I was on my way out she started saying something she thought was an advice but at the end of the sentence said "crying makes you weak" . So yeah..My community does not take mental health seriously.
I think you dodged a bullet by not being picked up there. I hope you find work somewere else where people consider you more, you need to be happy to be productive after all!
I love how simplified this is. It's as simple as this :)
Why did you just explain my whole life in like 7 minutes?
and 8 seconds
Odds are it seems like that cuz ur mind was more focused on introspecting about yours sensitiveness than it normally does. I know this cuz I feel the exact same way :)
Same exceot for the horror movie part, even tho it scares the poop out of me i still love it!
@Hydra Jamm 😂😂lol
Same 😂😂
I'm empathetic but I'm TERRIBLE at trying to comfort someone because I dont know how.
i used to be very conscious about that too, but then i just went by the rule to comfort them how you would want to be comforted
Then you're not really empathetic are you?
L S Are you talking about me?
But like, I'm the kind of person who would just really want some comforting words and a hug but most people I know are pretty reserved and don't like being touched. What do I do in scenarios like that?
PloxD no I'm talking about quiche
I've always felt so alone in this i have felt like I was crazy. That it was me. Thank-you so much for these videos. I never thought there was a name for this.
The most HSP moment I've had: Two of my friends were arguing with eachother and when I said to please stop telling mean things about the other to me one of them lashed out that 'I don't listen and how they needed to talk about it' since feelings. After that I had the whole shabang of an anxiety attack with me losing my vision, hearing voices, shaking and crying. I had nothing to do with it but it still affected me that deeply, and another unrelated person thought that someone died or something since I was in such a mess.
I saw this poster at my school,
*"Don't apologize for being emotional, it shows you have a big heart and you aren't afraid to show it"*
That literally made my day 😣
@@applebottomjeans3284 I'm glad
Inspiring, you must have a good school
@@symbolcest Yes, it's really nice place. I saw the poster at a LGBTQ+ club they had on
I really want someone to say this to me, glad i saw this ♥️♥️♥️
I'm an HSP - I started my own business in social work and healthcare - given the way I am my business is flourishing
I'm an HSP, but I'm highly extroverted. Whenever I'm in a group, I end up being the leader, whether the others like it or not. Neither of my parents are in any way sensitive, nor either of my siblings. It's tough, but it's helped me learn to not get TOO caught up in things. I'm still more considerate and observingly open-minded than the average person, however.
Good video! It helped me learn I'm an HSP.
I'm not highly extroverted, but I lean more towards being extroverted. But I've also been told I might have HSP.
me: *opens video*
also me: *starts crying without no reason*
nezumin hey there, are you okay ?....I’ve got you okay...
i did the same thing when it started to talk about parents
Hahaha
Not laughing at you, just thought it was funny. Sorry uwu
I always start crying for no reason ;-;
me: i’m not highly sensitive
also me: almost cries when people correct me
😂😶
Me too somtimes.
Kayleen H same
me too
I'm*
I don't think I'm an HSP but one think I
can relate to is being very empathetic and feeling other people's pain. I deal with sadness everyday so when others are sad I can sense their energy and I go out of my way to try to help. We gotta help each other out in this world and even if you're not miracle worker at least taking time out of your day to listen to someone can mean a lot to them
I just wish I knew this sooner in life, always felt “weaker” than others due to highly emotional reactions, now I know it has a name. Amanzing vid ❤️
*insert 3rd grade me trying not to cry when the teacher told me to stop talking*
I’m in 6th grade (almost in 7th) and this is me 😭
Sameeeee it traumatized me
@@kristy_krab_pizza me too
Same ! Even with my friends...😔
*insert 8th grade me trying not to cry when the teacher told me that I did something wrong*
Now I'm in 9th grade ._.
I came here to prove my sister was an HSP...
Found out it was me....
the irony XD
Lmao
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I dont believe so
I relate on ALL OF THESE, I’ve been experiencing it lately then once you mentioned them one by one I realized that I’m an HSP.
What hurts the most is when you are in an argument and you can't control your tears because you become so emotionally affected and you know it isn't tear- worthy but people call you names like " crocodile tears" , " trying to gain sympathy", " drama queen"
Does anyone else cry after people show them affection, care or when they are concerned about you?
Yes
On Christmas I saw my fam after over a year of not being in touched . And one of my older cousins who I used to be afraid of as a child gave me the Talk of if I ever need him he’ll be there for me no matter what , and I started getting so emotional , and he kept telling me not to cry 🤣 it was a mess hehe (mind you I was never close to him like that ) so it really touched my heart 🤧
@@nomames9890 same, i cried SO MUCH when my uncle died, like really sobbing to tears, and i wasnt even that close to him, i didnt even speak to him or anything, but it just came. Im that sensitive.
Yesss and then i feel and ask myself am i reallybweak??
Oh yeah, I do.
I cry when someone’s insults me or trash talks me I just start to break down
Runt I’m a whole different person now
Same, but I’ll usually insult them back and hide it until I’m alone and nobody will know
same
Same here 😭
Same
A lot of these are me, but I also have Asperger's and ADHD. It honestly amazes me for what I do notice in people. The odd thing is that I absolutely love horror movies; I can't watch shows, episodes, or movies with a lot of deciet and/or certain harmful intentions. It's honestly just weird for how much I do notice, but I dont notice so many other things within conversations.
This video was spot on!!! This so accurately describes me. Psych2Go always has really great videos:))
Sometimes when I’m crying by myself and I’m almost calm someone comes in and asks if I’m ok then I start sobbing again
thats so true
I can't relate cause no one ever talks to me or asks me if im fine :\
When I forget to lock the door, they just walk in and leave really fast, laugh about it, and tell every other person in the room and let everyone know they saw me crying. So that's fun🤠
You just put my life into words
Same.
My best friend: doesn't respond to one of my texts
Me: it's okay I'll ignore her too
Also me: starts crying because she doesn't like me any more
Edit: i was talking about a specific friend and we fought because she talked to me badly... My other friends got my back and gave me so much courage... Althought i was really sad i know now that i have some real friends... Also thanks for all your kind words!!!
Literally me TT~TT happens all the time, you're not alone
Same!!!
My best friend was talking trash about me behind my back.... We haven't talked since a month and she doesn't even know that i know what she did
@@shalinighai9798 omg I am so sorry ..T-T i hope you have better friends now
ME
Thank you for giving us so much space to feel free to express. Love you beautiful people!❤
i never thought that being a hsp has some good things
thank you
We should have an Hsp party. Millions will show up,
We might have the party, but we might all sit or stand at our own corners. We're not that bad are we?
Sounds good. On an open field with multiple campfires under the full moon.
I’d go
No we should have a quiet party lol
Looooooll
Any person: Tone changes slightly after a frustrating situation
My brain: abort abort abORT
me
True
brain; *SOUND THE ALARMS, START UP THE WATER WORKS*
IKR my friends voice raised a bit on a call and I didn’t say anything for the rest of the call until she had to go... ✌🏻♥️😁 it was ok the next day 😊
I swear, just a slight tone change when talking with someone makes me think if I did something to upset them, then think about everything I've done with then and think what it was
Wow, this channel has helped me identify parts of my personality I didn’t even think about, thank you
This video is too accurate and I’m actually gonna cry
*Parents spank you and you cry*
Also parents: shut up and stop crying
You: cries more cause your parents yelled at you*
Sksjkssj holy SHIT I hate this because of how accurate it is dear lord
Ikr,my mom used to say “shut up,or I’ll give you something to cry abt” and it just made me cry harder
It’s funny when my parent tell me something emotional or something I don’t want to cry but my tear drop off somehow lol
Dang... ACCURATE.
@Nick Gurr Oh dont get me wrong, they did that too.
“STOP BEING SO SENSITIVE”
Me: 👁💧👄💧👁 sorry..
Them:OMG STOP SAYING SORRY
Me: ....sorry
You don't need to apologize for being a compulsive apologizer.
@@commentsiguess1263 Ik but then for some reason I feel bad for apologizing so much so I apologize for apologizing so much ...which leads to a rabbit hole of apologizes
Nah I would just cry harder, I would barely be able to breathe
@@leah8894 that’s also true
Ohh,yeah I'm also like u 😔
Yes I am highly sensetive, and over the years I learned (and still learning) to manage my high sensetive traits. What I reconize very well in this video, is when highly sensetivity is not reconized or properly nurished, because that is the environment in which I grew up in.
-My dad asked me if my studies are going good. We talked for a while, when he went away, I cried.
- argued a little about the dent on my dad's car to the random stranger who abused me, I cried
- my mum, hugged me for no reason at all,. I cried.
These are some of the random things, which make me cry almost everyday.
And reading comments, are again making me cry, idk why, when they said, I cried, I started to cry too. Wth !!