Getting Cheated On Sucks

[@betsybabf748]

I found and married the right guy when very young. I never even worried about cheating with him. Then when I was 41 he died on me, leaving me with 5 kids to raise alone. Never saw that one coming. I met so many widows who found out their husbands had been having affairs which they didn't discover after after he died. When cleaning my husband's closet I found two boxes hidden in the ceiling and took 2 days and lots of crying to open them, devastated it was my turn to discover my life was a lie. When I opened them, the boxes were filled with all the cards the kids and I ever gave him. He did lie. He said he was just a tough guy when he was really a completely sentimental softie. ❤❤ I feel so guilty for even questioning him.

[@RickTyploosion]

Damn sorry for your loss.

[@Mama_Bear524]

That was a really good twist. I’m so sorry for your loss. Must’ve been so hard to lose him and have to navigate parenting alone and grieving.

[@TrixxOfficial747]

Mourn his death, but don’t forget to celebrate his life. You have a family to remember him by, and memories to cherish forever. I’m sorry for your loss, but thankful he had such an impact on your life, stay strong

[@thaloblue]

This is all very traumatic for you to go through - grieving him and then hearing the stories of other widows. There is such a thing as secondhand trauma. I am not qualified to diagnose you or anything, but I am familiar with my own secondhand trauma experience. Sometimes trauma is contagious. It sticks to people in ways we don't expect. I have very intense, emotionally excruciating, and downright terror responses to stories of sexual assault despite never being victimized that way personally. It just happened to people around me enough, vividly enough and emotionally enough, that the trauma passed itself onto me. I retained a panic response and avoidance symptoms. It kind of reminds me of how you describe your experience; the crying and fearful avoidance specifically.
I say all that to say that we cannot choose whether we will or will not endure a secondhand response to trauma. Trauma is devastating and has a ripple effect outside of its own events and its own victims. It wasn't abnormal or even mean of you to question your late husband. Our brains are literally designed to isolate and keep track of patterns in our environment. I do not know how often you interact with other widows, but this could potentially be a sign to restore yourself after engaging with certain relationships or environments.
It is incredibly valuable to have a community of people you can relate to and grieve with, so I'm not suggesting leaving a support group or not talking to other widows anymore... It's more a suggestion to check in with yourself after you hear something particularly difficult. It might sound odd, but hearing hard things on a full belly with as much sleep as possible is much easier than processing someone else's trauma on an empty stomach or a sleep-starved brain. I know that's tough with 5 kids and probably way tougher with 5 grieving kids. Idk, I'm just hoping to maybe save you some time and fatigue. I would hate for you to feel like you had to relive that in a similar way at any point.

[@andrewdominick1000]

That's so beautiful how sweet

[@betsybabf748]

Best marriage advice my late husband and I always gave: "Keep the fights clean and the sex dirty."
It's true. Stay respectful and fair, even during the worst disagreements, and keep that passion alive, putting in the effort through every chapter of your life.

[@Mama_Bear524]

Sorry for your loss. That’s great advice.

[@DecentlyIndecentYT]

love that!

[@willowmoon3461]

I loved this show Leon…so much resonated with me. I’m about to turn 50 and 2 years ago I met my future wife…after a lifetime of shitty, toxic relationships, I was done. Then in walked this amazing, intelligent, goofy, beautiful, infuriating, compassionate woman. I 100% agree that it’s about trust, respect, honesty and communication. For the first time I feel like I’m in a truly healthy relationship. I’m still healing and still have battle wounds and PTSD, but her love, patience and compassion knows no bounds. We hear stories from our married friends about arguments they’ve had, or the way they speak about one another and feel so blessed that we have such a strong, heathy bond. I can’t wait for June 2025 when I can finally call her my wife. Thank you for sharing your story, and keep hunting those critters for Mrs Lush 💜

[@DecentlyIndecentYT]

Amazing! Thank you for sharing!

[@missfitbrat271]

God bless!
I’ve had some weird complex about dating younger guys. Dating all the way back to when I was 14 and had my first bf in middle school. I was born in April and him in August and it was “weird” for me. Tf?
Fast forward, I swore off anyone younger and much older and tried to stay close to my own age. I finally relented a tad and dated someone about 5 years younger than me and it proved to be fruitless and confirmed my bias. Everything just sucked and everyone had commitment issues and excuses.
Finally had a man approach and to my total surprise: I didn’t ask how old he was or grill him, I just went with it. After discovering his age (he was barely 25 and I was 37) I just thought whatever… it’s probably gonna be what it’s always been but I’m not doing anything so might as well just relax until the inevitable.
I’m now 39. He’s gonna be 27. We live together and it’s genuinely the healthiest relationship I’ve ever been in in my whole life. He communicates. He’s loving as hell. His family is truly wonderful and not judgmental at all. I often forget I’m much older than him since we are constantly goofing around and cracking up.
Glad you are where you want to be!

[@thewickedzaku]

Congratulations
I found my person as well late last year. I was pretty focused on killing myself with the life style I was living in. She came into my life and instantly moved mountains to be with me. Never been happier.

[@NeighborhoodBasketCase]

You feel like the wise older brother with an equally cool wife I never had

[@samirbhatia5211]

It hit home when you mentioned how a certain side of someone covers it when they drink. My ex would become the most accessible touchy person with any man every time she would drink.

[@harperwood3562]

My husband and I met at work as well. (Shhh! Scandalous…office romance!) Almost 27 years later, still together. You nailed it in respect, honesty, support, patience with each other when disagreements arrive, and faith in the relationship. I lucked out with Mr. H. I have great respect for Mrs. Lush, watching Lush Life and what she shares and how she’ll comment. You lucked out with Mrs. Lush.

[@orismetal]

I'm from Greece, been watching since the early tomato mafia days. I've been through toxic relationships and situations that made me handle these people better when I'm around them also filter/screen people that deep in them are malevolent but are wolves on disguise. Thank you for keep trying to help others and yourself Leon! It's the only way we can evolve. Much love from Greece brother ❤

[@OfficialNice]

damn we needed the insightful, solo, and long form leon. this was just as good as the 20 principles video.

[@Mama_Bear524]

All this is so well said. I love my husband more now after 24 years together than I did when we were younger. I’m so glad I have him in my life. I feel very lucky. And we’ve gone through some hard shit.
Happy Mother’s Day to Christine 💕

[@ekomark]

Good judgment comes from experience; experience come from bad judgment.

[@MsLenepigen]

TBF that job you had in sales, that you hated, also taught you lessons on the path to become a content creator for a living.
It’s funny how we have experiences in life that seem awful and like a waste of time, but then later down the line they were all valuable stepping stones to something great.

[@bigdraycountry764]

Me seeing the title: "NNOOOOOO!! They such an awesome couple!! Why Mrs. Lush do that!! 😢"
Something minutes in listening with my earholes: "Ohhhhh....ok. Nevermind, Mrs Lush you still cool!" 😅
Also, oh Leon, youre awesome too. 👌

[@drearmouse9510]

"I wasn't punching you, I was hitting you!" -Leon's ex probably.
Nice episode, man. Some rly good stuff ya covered here.

[@thaloblue]

Oh my GOD my mother would use that shit on me. Unfortunately it worked and I truly believed she never hit me. She definitely hit me in the face at least once. Other times she would throw shit at me. Both of my parents did, actually. I was remembering my childhood one day, idk what specifically, and my friend got sad. She said "I always hoped you didn't have physical abuse on top of all the other shit you faced... I guess not." Now, her boyfriend's mother used to beat him with extension cords, so I was like "waiiit what are you talking about my mother would NEVER." And then that trend went around on tik tok "He doesn't hit me, he just ..." And I realized that my mother behaves in a manner towards me that is extremely similar to an abusive boyfriend. She expects about as much emotional work from me too. I've disowned her. My friend's mom is now my godmother. I highly doubt given both of my parents' absolute torture of their children that any of us will ever trust anyone enough to partner up. Already my youngest siblings are talking about how they never want to marry or have children and they're barely 15 years old. How does someone not perceive themselves as a failed parent when 0% of your five children want to repeat your lifestyle? IDK, my parents have the confidence of gods.

[@drearmouse9510]

@@thaloblue Goddamn, glad ya got outta that. Shit can really screw with the head. Dunno how ppl lile that convince themselves theyre in the right.. absolutely mind blowing.

[@thaloblue]

@@drearmouse9510 thanks :) she sucks but I am trying my best to rise above and do right by those kids if I can.

[@_Dark222Angel_]

Don't tell me how it feels to be punched 😅

[@Khozeee]

The dynamic camera for this situation is an awesome touch by the way!

[@cdonnelly5566]

Crazy high quality right? Respect the game

[@braedynlaube3377]

Wow thanks for that Leon, very timely. I’m 20 and just got out of a ridiculously similar situation in the sense of a girl w trust issues cheats on u. She was my first long term relationship and it ended a month ago and I have been struggling of course but I feel like I’ve been handling it in a mostly healthy way, focusing on my priorities like the gym and work and school etc. but idk y but you seem to be the only person I could find talking abt something similar in a way that truly enlightened me. Especially when you talked abt how you had “almost PTSD” from ur past relationship you would feel guilty abt doing something normal like hanging w ur friends. I didn’t even realize how much trust my ex lacked in me until I saw this podcast. So thank you so much for that Leon!!! Absolutely love the content

[@wigtorqued11]

I absolutely LOVE hearing and learning about my favorite people and what they're about! Me and my husband are obsessed with you, your wife and son! We also totally respect and understand the importance of privacy so when someone is willing to share on such a personal level, our love, respect and admiration for you just LEVELED UP!! Your videos are so therapeutic for us! We laugh, chant and scream along with you because you say exactly what we are thinking and feeling! The ignorance and craziness in life these days is just too much!! So thank you and Mrs. Lush! And thank y'all so very, very much for sharing when you surely didn't have to!

[@louannthornton3297]

I have the same reactions to his videos…he says out loud what’s in my head watching things 😂

[@pedromata3931]

I’ve always liked your main Chanel videos but I really jive with this you should plug it more often, I only found this bc of your community post

[@1pamby1]

Being a healthy adult is a constant act of bravery. Cowardice locks you into things you dont want.

[@theWAVEzarr]

I absolutely love the one on one feeling this video had, just a one on one i would want so many more pods with just leon talking and telling stories. this pod was awesome!

[@jodiestarks556]

I met my husband in college and we are now coming up on 26 years. It’s not been easy. We’ve had to deal with our own histories, and sometimes it still comes up. We have two adult children who seem to be well adjusted human beings, so I tell myself “We must have done something right.” I think the advice you gave here is great. If it is important to your partner, it needs to matter to you. No one said you had to love (or hate it) it as much as them, but it still needs to be important.

[@juleshoffman1074]

Your reflections provide insight into how you grew and learned from hard phases in your life. Thank you for being vulnerable in sharing some of the painful experiences that shaped you into the person you are now. This podcast helps to provide a barometer of sorts, informing others they are not alone, that we all suffer from heartbreak and loss. Resilience and hope are precursors to well-being, and you nailed the description here.

[@L8-APEX]

This was really good man. Great perspective and advice. Do more of these

[@vincentsvaluables6756]

Dude I really enjoyed this. Would much rather hear more of this type of stuff, your perspective/opinion on things, stories, current events, etc. If you could find a cohost that you could do that with, that’d be cool too. I find you really relatable and entertaining. Sometimes I feel like sitting a guest down, getting their life story, etc, takes away from that.

[@nickschmeck3095]

Its insane how closely your story resembles mine, i'm at the break up with the crazy girl part.

[@darklightsUK]

4:37 I totally get what you mean with your name idea. My little gaming “crew” is called organised chaos, which I named, I kinda see it as the perfect analogy for me and my life, chaotic as fuck but somehow in a slightly autistically organised way. Strange paradox but I soooo get it.

[@MisatoBestWoman]

As a 26 year old man, who’s been married for only a few years, but I’ve found the one who lights my heart with a fire of passion every time I look at her or give her a hug. I believe her and I will be together forever and I’m so happy for all the adventures we share!

[@chrisskupic100]

I really appreciate this video. I never say that but this was one of the most real videos I've ever seen.i just really wanted to say that I appreciate this and i appreciate you as a person. This was great.

[@louannthornton3297]

The thought I had as I was listening to you is…that your children will be very proud of you when they get old enough to watch and understand and appreciate….they will see their dad as a complex, multidimensional man that continued to learn and grow as a human. 💜

[@stovetopsue1]

I love watching you and Mrs. Lush. Y’all crack me up and now I love y’all even more after hearing y’all’s story!! You are stand-up guy! Y’all two keep up the great work…for y’all’s relationship AND us on TH-cam! ❤😂✌🏻

[@stephanieen9309]

Absolutely love these new videos. Took me 10 years to find a respectable boyfriend, and I'd go through all my hardships 100+ times if I knew I'd end up with him again. Thank you for sharing

[@simeonwashington6837]

glad i came back into the Leon Lush fold. loved this conversation

[@DecentlyIndecentYT]

🙏🏼

[@guyadamniederhauser2998]

Class. Thank you for sharing your story. I felt myself narrating my own right along with you. More of this please.

[@bigbadsauce92]

I stumbled upon the Lush's shared channel this year and I wanted to let you I appreciate both you and Mrs Lush. You both have very grounded, understanding stances on life, love, whatever. Leon, you have a great balance going on with your life and your channel. One of the big things I look for in creators are people who challenge themselves and their viewers to grow and be happier. Even when you criticize the more scandalous or egregious videos you watch, you have a way about it that feels comfortable. When you talk about subjects that aren't so nice, you do a wonderful job making the environment feel safe and open to vulnerability.
Your insecurities are valid and that's a part of what makes us humans. You and Mrs Lush have great heads sitting upon your shoulders and I appreciate you both.
Edit: shout out to the *one* "subscriber" who is the only person to hit thumbs down on your videos. The person quite literally hits dislike within ten minutes of your upload. They are insanely jealous of what you've got.

[@lordfreezpop8916]

You can always add Nigel back 😂

[@bigdraycountry764]

Yes. I 2nd this Nigel idea!

[@metabebop]

*I feel for anyone that has been cheated on and have extremely little sympathy for cheaters. My heart bleeds for those that go through this torture. I know from my own experience just how brutal it is this is something I never want another to experience. It is nothing short of cruel*

[@tentinquarantino3005]

Something about the way this guy thinks and speaks reminds me of dialogue from Bojack Horseman. As well as some of the lessons he has to share. Definitely subscribing to your new channel, i only regret not discovering it sooner

[@DecentlyIndecentYT]

Appreciate you 🙏🏼

[@ToxicStrats]

I appreciated this you a g man

[@cookdoggnc1]

Enjoyed just as much as the funny content. Lots of overlap to my own experiences. Digging the new format.

[@ahsatan8997]

Needed this thank you. Five year relationship ending in fraud has deeply affected my last three years. It’s …betrayal is..anyways

[@whillb]

As a long time subscriber, I can appreciate some content from you without much need to look at the screen. I “watch” TH-cam on the side while gaming. I do watch your other videos too, both with and without Mrs. Lush 👌

[@LaurenJanisheski-lx9ij]

I’ve been a fan of your show and your second channel with your wife for a while, I love this style up the good work!

[@pat75suz]

This was so amazing, insightful and heartfelt. I felt like you were talking to me, one on one. Beautiful and loving, my friend. 💝

[@Dropafella]

Cool switch up I definitely like this style of content, respect brotha

[@wiscogirl81]

The best relationship advice that was bestowed upon me was: (not necessarily in this order lol)
1. You know you're ready for a life commitment (marriage or life partnership), which is when you both go from "I & me, to us & we" mentality
2. Never go ever go to bed angry
3. Never air your "dirty laundry" to others
4. Keep the "fights" fair, and the sex dirty
5. Never stop "dating" eachother
6. Know when to keep your mouth shut, it's not always about being right, but being heard.
7.. If it's not working, don't be afraid to throw in the gloves, but if you have kids do your absolute best to be the best co-parents you can be.

[@rebeccaclum124]

Man, how much I relate to this is insane. I truly believe we need to go through the hard and awkward stuff to shape us. Props for sharing your story, my dude.

[@darklightsUK]

More videos like this! Was really good just listening to you talk for a while. Very much enjoyed.

[@Chikanini]

I absolutely enjoyed this. Im sure it resignates with a lot of people! Keep on plucking, you'll find the hot seat as you did with Leon Lush. I love the deep background story. I watched the entire thing. the story behind your success is adventageous. I am myself a 37 year old male who was in a similar situation that moved into a weekly motel! Now my life is amazing!

[@DecentlyIndecentYT]

🙏🏼

[@mramazingxd4851]

i enjoyed the hell outta this format and content, keep it coming brotha

[@flacsmada]

Im a navy corpsman, been watching you for years and didnt realize you were in the navy... So, glad you shared lol

[@pascalswager9100]

I struggle still from being cheated on 11 years ago. Been with him from 13yo, I'm 42 today actually. He did it on one of the worst days of My life (I miscarried) and he did that to Me! with his Cousin's Mrs, of all people! I'm on antidepressants now and in counseling. It was My "water shed moment" it changed how I view life, love and people in general. I got a lot out of this Leon, thanks mate. ❤ from 🇦🇺

[@missredherring1753]

I'm so sorry for the loss. It hurts so badly especially going through something as painful as that

[@thaloblue]

What a filthy dog... I am so sorry for your loss.

[@maytriarc1956]

TBH when I saw this video was almost an hour long, I thought to myself “nope, not doing that.” Yet, here I am at the end of it thinking, “WOW Leon! You hooked , lined and sinkered me!” Thoroughly enjoyed! ❤️ to you and Christina. Hope I spelled her name correctly.

[@rebeccaluis2883]

I loved the top tips of 2023, and I love your channel 🎉😊

[@user-sg1hq1oo3r]

Thanks man. I appreciate you and the honesty.

[@workoutyourself1]

Love this Leon! Low key love that this is a smaller group of us here. At least for now 😊

[@francis_siddhartha]

This was one insightful soiree.
(Jk, appreciate your videos, man)

[@DecentlyIndecentYT]

That damn word! Lol

[@BoomerSage]

Oh man i cant believe i forgot i followed this channel. Now i got a backlog of peak podcasts to listen to at work

[@mjg90i]

Thank you for doing this show ong always thought you were a cool dude with the advise or life experience from the main channel and this just confirms my suspicions very real very insightful very enjoyable content

[@user-jv3bq8kr3b]

More Mrs lush, I'd love to hear more of both of your stories

[@traviswiebe9571]

Beauty video, I relate big time.

[@2twokisses]

I'm sorry you went through this but I'm sure this experience helped shape who you are today. It's funny how these lows make us better people. I'm not surprised you met your wife shortly thereafter. She exudes this kind of caregiving, warmth, and patience vibes with commitment to the team that you guys are. I think you two have a great, healthy relationship. Now you seem a bit embarrassed and even ashamed of that previous relationship. It is a common residual of toxic relationships usually felt by the one who was abused. I bet you don't like using the word "victim", however, is what is. It also means you came out of the right side of this thing. Good share..

[@art1cwolf774]

Bro I fw with this heavy

[@DecentlyIndecentYT]

Thanks for listening!

[@troyyoung3087]

love this bro,much love from New zealand

[@troiennist1410]

I really enjoyed this Leon! I'm glad i found this channel, didn't even know it was a thing until today ❤.

[@carlanajarro1582]

I needed this. Currently going through a breakup and it’s very hard having faith in finding someone to grow old with. When you thought you found the one and they promise you the world and they hurt you and cheat on you, giving up on the dream is easier. After hearing you, I’ll keep an open mind on allowing myself to trust and love again some day. Thanks Leon.

[@DecentlyIndecentYT]

Hoping the best for you, keep your head up

[@alexanderd6011]

This one slapped. Thanks Leon.

[@317NEETz]

I’m a simple man Leon makes content I consume

[@kyleaxling6516]

This experience you shared with us is so damn similar to my situation right now. I'm in that part where I found a room for rent on facebook marketplace in this 4 bedroom place after having my partner cheat on me with their coworker while we were living together. It's been really hard. I'm 21 as well. Like I said, so damn similar. And your advice really has lifted my spirits about it. And hopefully I'll be able to find the right person someday too. Thanks leon ♡

[@jacksonsmith2544]

Leon has helped me through some things in my life and its great to get to know the man behind the mafia of tomatoes.
been around since 15K subs, have a good day :)

[@harperwood3562]

Foray is the word you’re looking for…

[@andreklugel6846]

You are the first person, whose channel I subscribed to. I have been following you for years, and it's crazy how I actually already know one, or two of the things that you talked about, in this video. I just remembered them from random times in the past, when you've mentioned them, since I've seen so many of your videos over the years, from your, (now), three TH-cam channels. It's kinda like when you have a friend for a long time, and you just kinda learn about them and their life, from little tidbits of information that they give you over the years. It's like you're just one of my boys. If I were to somehow run into you in real life, it would be weird, bc I know so much about you, and you've made my crack-up so many times, that it would feel like running into one of my friends. Except that you would have no idea who I was, lol. Regardless, it takes balls to put yourself, and your story out there like that, (think Eminem, lol). At the same time, it humanizes you, and that vulnerability is what people are drawn to. Keep killin' it, bro.

[@keb8907]

I’m really glad I watched this. It was very insightful and he said a lot of things that I actually realized recently and I completely agree with. I’m glad you decided to do this channel

[@titanguy9992]

This is really good do more these keep up the good work

[@emrec9536]

This was really good. Keep up the good work.

[@harperwood3562]

Third time is a charm…the Cheesecake Factory story! Remember you and Mrs. Lush talking about it in Lush Live. Good stuff.

[@strobestruck]

Damn, I didn’t know I needed to hear this when I clicked on the video. Thank you

[@Seibertz]

New channel? Let's goo!

[@harperwood3562]

Like this format very much.

[@harperwood3562]

Just found this on Apple Podcasts and subscribed. Will be traveling Saturday and will listen to the rest!

[@DecentlyIndecentYT]

appreciate you!

[@jackieraulerson2005]

“Interrogate” your prospective partner when they are drunk and you are not. As the saying goes, “A drunk mind speaks a sober heart.”
Thanks for your story.

[@beechball82]

I love this, genuine conversations, and I hope you continue to share #relateable ❤ (42 in 4 days! Brain feels like 20 body feels 60 😂)

[@NPettipas]

Absolutely loved the episode. Always tend to. Definitely reminds me of my husband and I. I was in such a toxic relationship and it hit me on my birthday how terrible he was with his miserable lies and I knew I was finally done. I decided one night not long after to go out and just enjoy a night out on my own and that ended up being the night that I met the most amazing man, whom I've barely been apart from for over 15 years now, married for 12. He definitely had PTSD from his past relationships and us realizing together how a real relationship should be was transformative. We've had fights like any couple but would always end up happy and we have learned from them. Now we have a beautiful daughter and enjoy different things together that we wouldn't have on our own, but are still able to do our separate things without any issue, like yearly trips with the guys, because of the fundamental trust we have. It's an amazing feeling when you can share a trust with someone like that.

[@jewelzbtully4934]

Very relatable & wise advice. My marriage is built on the 3 great pillars; trust, honesty & respect. I was a lil squeamish when you mentioned the mice. Lol However, i think it was an excellent analogy.
Another thing to remember before going into any relationship.... you have to love yourself before you expect anyone else to.

[@NoVaSac]

I loved this one on one format, im 19 turning 20 soon this year, I have been wanting a relationship for a bit now but ive had some of these same trust issues that hold me back from even trying, needed this this morning, thanks Leon

[@jerryrussell278]

From an OG hipthruster, this one slaps bro! I soo relate with the PTSD from a toxic, failed relationship and for me, it was compounded with an inability to forgive myself for being so oblivious to it.

[@JenniferFinchum]

What a great honest video ❤

[@jointhefist1016]

Speaking of, you should try to stream now and then, if you're still interested
I personally really enjoyed them

[@DecentlyIndecentYT]

It’s coming back soon!

[@hjwilsonable]

You are good at this , I enjoyed the listen 😊

[@Whitesquall123]

Thanks for opening up Leon. You never know who you are helping by showing a little bit of vulnerability.
My story isn't exactly like yours, but I had to deal with a cheating ex and had to reprioritize things & rebuild my life.
And there was a time where I thought having a stable, loving and respectful relationship wasn't in the cards for me.
But I can happily say, despite going through that shit time I'm now happily married to my best friend. And we just had our first kid.
So to anyone reading this, if you happen to be going through a rough patch and it doesn't seem like it'll end - trust me, it will. Just focus on rebuilding yourself in a positive manner and things will get better.

[@diaseph]

Being burned a few times myself, this was very relatable. Appreciate what you do brother 👍

[@Mildred4178]

Respect is vital, everything stems from it but it's so easily lost. It's been 2 years since my 10 year relationship ended, there was no cheating that I know of but he sure thought I was. The silence and miscommunication created resentment over so many years that couldn't be fixed. Now I'm 39 and have to online date, Its the reason I've waited 2 years to start, I dread it! Holding out hope I'll find my person. Love this topic and style video, although a good brainworms video is a nice escapism.

[@thelonewanderer6208]

I'm not sure where this is going to land on the comment richter scale, or if you will ever even see see/read this. But, I started watching and tuning into your main channel during a really turbulent time in my life as a younger dude. I had just graduated from college during the peak of covid and was dealing with the loss of a really near and dear person in my life, and just felt super lost and not sure where my place was.
Watching your videos was a big positive part of my day and I could just unload and just get a good laugh and really connect with your content.
On a really bad day, I had just decided to get out of the house and out of my head and join my sister on a local shopping trip. I had really hated leaving the house at the time and just had felt so low about myself and just life in general.
Long story short, as I headed into a store I was sure I was going to not really enjoy being in with my sister, I turned my head and saw the one and only Leon Lush. I felt like the biggest weirdo on planet earth thinking about walking up to you, but it was one of those things where I just said "Fuck it" in my head and just walked up to say hi.
You were just as cool and down to earth as you are in your videos, and it meant the world to me just being able to say "what's up" and have you realize I was one of your viewers.
I really hope you keep these types of videos up, because you're good people, and a great story teller. Sorry for the long story, but I just had to pop in and give a personal anecdote. This type of content transcends in helpful ways and I hope you know that. And I hope you know you've helped me more than I could ever repay.
Cheers, Leon
-Pete

[@DecentlyIndecentYT]

Cheers Pete, that means a lot! I remember seeing you and your sister (in target I think?) I’m glad you said hello!

[@thelonewanderer6208]

@@DecentlyIndecentYT Whole Foods! That was my first time ever going in there and was debating on just sitting in the car while my sister ran in to grab the stuff she needed. I don't want to name the shopping center just because the internet is weird, but it was super cool seeing you there and with Mrs Lush. Super cool experience and glad you are pursuing this type of content, down to earth and a great watch.

[@NeonHOBBITT]

Thanks for this video man it resonated with me a lot, and I’m sorry you had to go through that but I’m happy you found your wife.

[@TanyaRando]

I've been in relationships where the booze mattered to them more than I did, and they refused to believe what an asshole they were while drinking. It ended up with me having an unhealthy attitude towards anyone drinking when they were my partner, I started anticipating the problems before they happened.

[@andrefourie4530]

Funny thing happened. A year ago a went for a job interview and the manager asked and also said that he really needs an honest employee because the other guys he had kept lying. Then after getting the job and also moving in with my manager, he cheated on his wife and lied to me and also wanted me to lie to his wife. A bit of brainworms I think to pretend to be in desperate need of an honest person but then constantly lie and try to force them to lie. Anyway, I hope this comment is valid to the topic.

[@workoutyourself1]

One note, if we can get real life photos to go along w the stories you tell would be awesome. I specifically would love to see the next John Mayer era Leon 😂

[@imurhuckleberry1762]

“Pharmaceutical sales” Frosty’s baby batter or devils lettuce?

[@Nakaza94]

If you have an issue with mice try getting a cat or two. When our cat disappeared last year (we live in a rural area so he was probably killed by a fox) I started discovering mice droppings around the house. Over the course of the next two months we caught 17 mice in traps that we set around the house. During that period we adopted another cat (a feeble thing of barely two months found abandoned downtown) and once she got a taste of a mouse that was caught in a trap that she was able to reach before I did, we stopped having mice issues.
The only problem you might find with this is the fact that cats will sometimes leave a dead mouse at your doorstep. I'm not sure if the leave the mouse for later because they are full at the moment or because they want to show you they are earning their keep. Regardless, if your wife has a phobia that could be a problem.

[@jeffreyd7796]

Cool vid Leon, it takes alot to open up.

[@darklightsUK]

Only 2 mins in but couldn’t agree with you more on the whole “long form conversations with good people” best thing ever man. I would love to sit and chat with you for a while!
I am about to start making TH-cam videos… so hey, never know, give me a few years and maybe I’ll have enough of a following for you to want me on your podcast! Or even just a chat without it needing to be a video/public in any way. You seem like the kinda person I really get along with.

[@chrissallen87able]

It terrifies us too Leon, not gonna lie.

[@immortalmkd1867]

Leon you are so fucking hilarious and an awesome dude all around! I'm from Boston and I swear we could've been best friends growing up lol.