Regarding Apathy and Self Sabotage - Decently Indecent #14

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  • @superawesomefuntime2162
    @superawesomefuntime2162 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You said the two words that were on my mind. I have so much empathy I ended up consciously telling myself I don't care.

  • @shinykazuo
    @shinykazuo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The fact that some people don't have their own voice in their head makes a lot of sense but at the same time is unthinkable to me. My inner voice literally never stops.... Like ever.

  • @vincentsvaluables6756
    @vincentsvaluables6756 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love the solo episodes and deep talks man. Take care

  • @Alissa.Noel.
    @Alissa.Noel. 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey Leon, I’m really loving the content and seeing you discuss real things about you. As well as the well rounded actual real life things you’re discussing. It’s refreshing and I can relate in so many ways. It’s great to hear and I’m thankful you created this additional channel. Genuinely, Thank you. Love and blessings to you and the beautiful family❤

    • @DecentlyIndecentYT
      @DecentlyIndecentYT  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      hey Alissa, glad you can relate to some of the topics here... thanks for listening

  • @Schtoinkus
    @Schtoinkus 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I think of the internal dialogue thing a lot, like I see someone do something dumb and I remember "there are people that actually do not think in their head" and it explains a lot

  • @Kovitlac
    @Kovitlac 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I really loved this video, Leon - thanks 😊 I heard some things that definitely sounded a lot like me, and some that didn't describe me at all. I've found that talking to my therapist about this kind of stuff has been really helpful. I know it's not for everyone, but I think it can be for understanding reasons why we self-sabotage and methods for combating it.

  • @rebected1222
    @rebected1222 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really felt called out on the empathy part. Like hearing about climate change, and the election. How badly our own government in Norway is handling our power and overall economy. Plus everything else, makes it difficult not to get depressed. Like I get sent TikToks about stuff like that from my bf, and had to tell him to stop cause it just gets too much for me. I cant work if I hear too much about this. And I also struggle to turn off my work brain and take time to relax and actually be there for my friends and family.
    I really like your laid back talks, it really helps with my anxiety. Have watched you for so many years now and its just a highlight of my week to watch your content. So thank you

  • @misselise1237
    @misselise1237 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Happy Saturday to you and the family 🌺

  • @docholliday9741
    @docholliday9741 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow. I was just talking to my wife how my business has stagnated and I’ve become someone I don’t recognize. My drive to push forward or succeed is overshadowed by the feeling of “why bother?”. And I don’t know where it’s come from. I do pretty well financially but over the last six months I’ve watched my numbers decline.
    I just feel so tired all the time and have had to fight harder and harder to keep up the day to day routine let alone push myself further. It’s never been who I am and I don’t understand it

    • @DecentlyIndecentYT
      @DecentlyIndecentYT  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      i'm there with you brother, we'll fight through it together even if we don't know why it's happening.

  • @b2rad
    @b2rad 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hell yeah been waiting for a new ep 🙌

  • @jankcitycustoms
    @jankcitycustoms 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    oh man, I stopped using facebook around 2014 because my feed was 80% conspiracys and 20% people complaining about meaningless shit. I could fuck up my mood for a whole day just from scrolling for 10min.

  • @panninggazz5244
    @panninggazz5244 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    in ones 40s you get more aches and pains....biut worry not, they go away after just a few short years and you will find that your 40s and 50s. you are the strongest ever! seriously.....enjoy

  • @superawesomefuntime2162
    @superawesomefuntime2162 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've said it for year; the opposite of Love is not Hate, if I hate you I'm thinking about you. But not caring about you...

  • @Southern_Made
    @Southern_Made 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’ll be honest I’m extremely self sabotaging, my worst enemy is me. I’m doing a whole lot better tho in the last couple years. I’m a psychology student with a B average so I’m doing my best not to F that up….

  • @jointhefist1016
    @jointhefist1016 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Feel that Leon and Adam Ragusea could have a good video together

  • @yourearidiculouslunatic8435
    @yourearidiculouslunatic8435 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’ll give you that apathy has it’s negative connotation. I would only like to suggest that there is such a thing as toxic empathy.

    • @DecentlyIndecentYT
      @DecentlyIndecentYT  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      i agree... toxic positivity is def a thing though

  • @andrefourie4530
    @andrefourie4530 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have not been such a frequent viewer as I've said I'll be. Sorry.