Hey, everyone! Today I’ll be reacting to some crazy TikToks from trans women who claim to get a monthly period just from taking estrogen… this’ll be good haha. Leave your thoughts in the comments!! See you on my livestream tomorrow (Wednesday) at 12 noon PST! Love, Buck ❤❤❤
Thet have no idea what it is like. They never will. It makes me sad that we now live in a sociaty where the narative is pushed to say I am this and this so dare to say something,just swallow it is so much healthier for you. Ofcourse oestrogen has a affect to a human body, however it is not the only aspect of menstruation PERIOD.
What bothers me the most of trans woman claiming to have their periods is that they just reinforcing stereotypes of periods. It reminds me extremely of teenage boys mimicking the girls when they want to skip sport. Or the old fashioned question when we get in an argument. No. We have also mood swings or simply an opinion outside of our periods. And yes there are girls who love taking their periods as an excuse for skipping sport class (it is highly suspicious if you have your period every Wednesday in the last two school hours). But most woman go working, do sports and live there normal lifes. And if the pain is that intense that you can't do this you should go and see a doctor checking for endometriosis.
And if the hormones are off by just a bit then no periods. Which could mean lots of different health issues. Something trans women don't have to worry about!
Exactly Buck! No Trans woman is worried about staining her light colored slacks. No Trans woman is worried about pregnancy. They need their own vocabulary. Thank you for being a sane voice.
Exactly, there were times of walk in front of my friends so they could check if I was leaking, get up from chairs and immediately have a quick look to make sure nothing has come through into the space I'd been sitting. Checking that menstrual products weren't showing if you were going swimming or in tight pants. There's just so much more to it!
Good grief! Do these muppets not understand biology? When did they grow a uterus, womb or fallopian tubes??? And a period IS a technical term fool!!!! And no, you don't experience it to... YOU DO NOT MENSTRUATE! IT IS NOT PHYSICALLY POSSIBLE!!! And I find 'cis' insulting! And you are not "assigned" a gender at birth! I give up!
The group of people who claim that they have "real" periods and they dont understand how that could be offensive to biological women just baffles me. They're so quick to be offended by *every little thing* that doesnt 100% agree with what they project. But its somehow _not okay_ for biological women to be offended by their claims of how _horrible_ their periods are?! Um, I had HORRIBLE periods for my entire life. I eventually had a hysterectomy because I had golf ball sized tumors in the walls of my uterus. So *forgive me* when I laugh and roll my eyes when you complain about how bad it is for you and your "envy pains" 😂
Amen sister! I had a bilateral oophorectomy and have been in surgical menopause since age 37 because of my very real bad periods and constant endo pain since the age of 12. My life has been ruined because of all of this, so it’s pretty offensive that these men try to claim they even have any idea what it’s like. I hope you feel better now. Big hugs ❤
When a doctor asks me the last time I had a period, I don’t mention when I was bloated, moody, cramping. I say the last time blood came out of my vagina due to my lining shedding. It’s very simple. Thank you for standing up for us Buck.
Exactly, these men seem to think their symptoms are a periods. No, it’s like you said, a period is when you bleed. Next up they’ll claim their back pain is labor pain.
My rage about this situation is how women have grown up being mocked for PMS, humiliated for staining themselves, and shamed into not talking about what their bodies experience openly yet men who have NEVER experienced these things talk to us like they're experts? Know how I know you don't actually have a period? You seem to actually want one.
I'm so disgusted. None of them ever had to walk down the hallway in high school, clueless to the fact that they were bleeding through their jeans and no one said a word til their friend came up. If they ever went through that, I don't think they'd be so preachy.
As a 34 year old woman, I am so happy to finally learn that the periods I have experienced for the last 20 something years were just symptoms of digestive, emotional and hormonal stuff. All this time I thought it was just my uterus throwing a fit coz I didn't give it a baby that month🤦🏾♀️ Silly me
Exactly cause all that matters to them is “their truth.” They don’t believe in objective truth. Moral relativism. They see the word “woman” as a label/group someone made up to keep them out not as a biological distinction. That’s why their mantra is “GENDER IS A SOCIAL CONSTRUCT.” If you take that away from them and dismiss this new wave outlook on gender as separate from sex and reality, their whole argument will fall apart and no one will support this crap and all the bandwagoners will move onto the next popular thing to believe in. I’ve seen a lot of people most of whom are straight project their issues with society and gender norms onto the LGBT community as though the whole reason the community exists is to deconstruct gender which isn’t a gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transsexual view on things, but rather an ideological view on things. So, they think if they like to dress in opposite gender clothing that makes them a different gender or gay which is ironic cause they are using stereotypical “gender norms” (which they said they are against) to justify their newfound identities. It’s the I am special too movement lead by a bunch of miserable insecure people with identity crises who think that’s makes them LGBT.
It's like a man telling a woman that labor pain can't be as bad as being hit in the nuts, please when you get hit in the nuts the pain last what maybe an hour try pain for 12 hours than having to be cut open because the baby gets stuck then the pain afterwards of dealing with the incision and still having to take care of a baby.
Amen..that person says they want to be an ally, and then calls us cis and terf, which are both super offensive. And guess what? We don't need you to be our period allies. Like what are you even TALKING about? We don't even call each other period allies, because it's ridiculous! Also, stop telling us you feel like you're having a period when you have no idea what that really means! I'm so beyond over this. 😊
Assigned male or female at birth makes sense with intersex people only. There used to be a time when babies born with ambiguous genitalia got operated on and then were never told that they were born intersex and either assigned the sex their parents favored or simply female, because the surgery is easier to perform. Or they were assigned female at birth because they are males with a chromosome defect that blocks the development of male genitalia.
@@DellaStreet123 The only people that would really apply to is people with Swyer Syndrome. Somewhere between 1 in 20,000 and 1 in 100,000 births. That would be someone who has XY sex chromosomes but is anatomically female or has XX chromosomes but is anatomically male. They usually go by anatomy in that case. But it's kind of a coin toss as to what the person should be considered. For anyone else, it's pretty easy. About 99% of the time, just look between their legs for the answer. If they have anatomy that makes that difficult, do a DNA test. XY for male. XX for female. If they have a genetic anomaly like XXY, males have Y chromosomes. Females don't. But the term, "intersex" can mean any kind of anatomical variation from the norm. So, it's a very imprecise and misleading term.
I was assigned male at conception. Not by a doctor. The fact that he correctly identified me as a male just proved that he had good eyesight. It reminds me of a dog we had when I was a kid. Our goofy neighbor asks if the dog is a boy or a girl. So, Princess rolls over on her back and spreads her legs.
My question for these people continues to be: why do women have to give up our terms, our spaces, our experiences to include trans women but men don’t have to give up anything? Women are expected to make room and include anyone that wants to be one of us. We’re told we have to give up our comfort and our womanhood. Our words are taken from us. I don’t care what anyone wants to do as an adult, but why are women being told to basically sit down and shut up? It’s misogyny with a new face, honestly
As a male, I strongly encourage you to stand up for your womanhood. It distresses me that much of your voice has been quelled by a government that is way more interested in enforcing non-binary bathrooms than dealing with violent crime in this country. People like Riley Gaines are heros in my book. She’s taken a stand to say “Enough is Enough. Biological born males have significant physical advantages over biologically born females, no matter what they choose to call themselves”.
I'd like to see and hear their Reaction to Shoving a TAMPON up their penis. I bet they'd pass out from the pain. And if they've had "Penal Surgery" to make their Penis into a "FAKE Man-made Vagina" then there's no reason for them to insert Tampons.....they won't Ovulate (and Menstruate if the Egg isn't Fertilized by Sperm) because they don't have a WOMB for a Fertilized Egg to Grow in. It's Basic Biology and they Refuse to Accept that Reality. Because they're Brainwashed and Deceived, into believing the Lies fed to them by the Woke People in Positions of Power and Authority. Like psychiatrists and Doctors and Surgeons and the Trans community and Politicians ECT..... it's a Mental Health Issue. They need to Fix their MINDS, Not their Bodies.
It's biologically impossible. I have endometriosis. It's extremely painful. If you don't have a uterus, ovaries or fallopian tubes,you don't get a period. You may have hormonal effects...but it's not a period.
My mom had to go through 3 doctors before they would finally go through with a hysterectomy. They were only going to take part but once they got in they had to take everything because there was so much scar tissue. My mom was nearly 50 when this all this happened. She would be laid up in bed for days. She had endometriosis and PCOS
I’m so sick and tired of this bs honestly. I’m not a “people who menstruate” or a “cis woman” I’m a woman not prefix no substitute. These people need to make up their mind. If having a uterus, ovaries, menstrual cycle, giving birth, etc doesn’t make you a woman why tf is there now an obsession with periods and being able to give birth.
Me too. Thankfully mine have gotten very short and light as I've aged, but YESTERDAY i had the worst cramps. It felt like someone was scraping their fingernails along the inside of my uterus and for me, the flow was heavy (I'm sure to many other women, that heavy flow for me would be very light). There's a big difference in that vs abdominal cramps like these men claim they're having and it's a period. I'm sure you can back me up. There's a difference between period cramps and abdominal cramps. Unless you have ever had a uterus, you aren't going to understand the difference. Just like these Transwomen.
Some can't let us have anything. It reminds me of when narcissistic people mimic interests and traits to take on the identity of their victim. It messes with your mind.
Totally agree, I have seen forums where men verbally "compare" the "treasures" they have "found" going through sanitary bins in ladies toilets. It just disgusts me at this point.
I am a transwoman on 150mcg estraderm patches, and I am sure that we don't have periods. Menopause like symptoms might be accurate. After I started testosterone blockers, I started to have hot flashes at the end of 3.5 day patches life cycles, which stops when the patches are replaced. It's just hormonal fluxations. This is delusional behaviour, and it's disgusting.
Consider yourself lucky (in that regard) that the cycle is started over and over again. Peri-menopause lasts for 10 years on the average, and menopause is forever. It is something that makes most women think. On one hand, those annoying period issues are gone. On the other hand, you are now sterile. While all transwomen who have completed their transition are sterile, most "cis"-women are not, so it does make a difference. Also, you may experience things like loss of libido and vaginal dryness.
I’m a old gay man, and I consider myself a feminist. Even being a part of a minority as gay man, I still have the male privilege. I worked with women, I have many women as friends, and I see how hard it’s for women to walk in a world dominated by men. I worked with women that went to work when they were in pain because their periods. See a trans woman, talking about period, and comparing that they can’t stay at home when they are having “cramps” it’s infuriating, when I know most of the women don’t have the luxury to stay at home because their periods. If you’re a biological women and you are reading this, I want you to know that I admire you and I respect you. No I’m not transphobic.
I try to be as understanding, emphatic and accepting of everyone but ... I find it really offensive when trans women claim to have periods. I suffer extremely heavy period with all the horrible things that come with it. A biological male, even with hormonal fluctuations which can cause similar symptoms, cannot have a period or ever fully understand how periods feel.
I absolutely relate 100% with your post. Not only have I had painful periods my entire life, I'm now legit going through Menopause and it's SO much more than just simple hormonal issues of fluctuation. It affects every single part of your being. So it's more than insulting when a biological man, tries to "Transplain" Periods, Reproduction and Menopause. I am one of these people that is more than done with these absolute LIES.
This is just my opinion, and I think you are a good person for trying to be understanding and accepting, but there comes a time when you can just skip that. And this is that time. These folks don't need understanding, they are living a fantasy, or straight up fucking with people. In that case laughing in their faces is entirely appropriate.
I feel you. I even ended up on the ER needing blood transfusions due to excessive bleeding from my heavy periods. They could never understand what it is we biological women have to go through.
Furthermore ,real women have always tended to be v private about what is a very intimate part of life for them .Trans women are invading a private space ,v v ignorant .
As a breast cancer survivor that was basically forced to have a double mastectomy and go on a drug that stops my hormones, some of these folks just piss me off. Having my breasts amputated and going into menopause early, is not a fun experience, nor do I wish it on anyone. Calling me a TERF is not different than calling someone else a derogatory name.
God bless you being a survivor!:) My mom has beaten it twice (post menopause), once with chemo, 2nd time single mastectomy. Her medicine might be similar/the same as yours, keeping her estrogen levels low. It causes her to have menopause symptoms even worse than when she actually had it naturally, bless her heart! I wish you the best and keep being the strong WOMAN you are! :)
Imagine curling up on the bathroom floor, unable to even make a sound because of the pain tearing through your body, unable to stop blood from getting all over the floor because you're in too much pain to care. You'd take a hot bath or take some medicine, but it does nothing. It's 1am. You're lying down because you just stopped throwing up from the pain. The cold floor is the only thing that makes it even a little better. And after a while, you fall asleep, alone on the bloody floor. Now imagine someone sees you and says, "Gosh, I just wish I had your experience."
Ugh, this brings back terrible memories. I used to suffer so much in my early teenage years. Going on the pill and taking loads of ibuprofen helped in later years, but it still wasn't a walk in the park. Had a hysterectomy at 44. Best thing ever. These people are nuts.
As a biologically born female and living that way my entire life, I am sick and tired of this newly constructed label in the trans community of 'sis woman'! What the H_ll is that??!!! I am a woman without the 'sis' attached. I refuse to be labeled as such! Straighten them out Buck. I appreciate your honesty and protection of the children. Thank you
@@stacyyoustcis is not only hate speech bit is also inaccurate. Women a bit a subcategory of their own sex. There are only men and women in this world, regardless of how they feel, that remains true
Imagine being so mysoginistic, you don’t realize that you are literally MANSPLAINING a period. Thank you, Buck. You, Blaire, and Marcus, have been refreshing to listen to
They are my golden trio too! They are the kind of trans people I want to be an ally for, not those mentally unstable snowflakes who threaten you with cancellation if you don't feed their delusions. I applaud Blaire, Buck, and Marcus for going against the current to show decent person rationale in an intolerant and toxic community of snowflakes. It's baffling that they don't seem to be doing that much from a rational and common sense pov, but compared to what is forced down our throats, it's a complete breath of fresh air.
Honestly, I think that one old trans lady was trying to explain hormonal menopause to other trans women, which is only as weird as a trans man explaining it
Why don’t we talk about the psychological aspect of having a period. Has a trans women ever been worried about what not getting their periods mean. They thought they might be pregnant when they didn’t want to be. How about the devastation some women feel when they get their period because it means they didn’t conceive the child they want so much. Has a trans women ever worried that the rape they endured by their father, uncle brother, friend may have resulted in a pregnancy? Stop insulting women with this talk.
or been forced on birth control when your young because your period is too "heavy" & causes PMS or other health affects. (not that your sexually active) Or been told "why would we freeze you for an iud removal/insertion" - Or have health issues brushed off (like GI issues) as its probably just your period.
@mylifasjen: a lifelong lesbian I did not go through the am-ii-pregnant terror part of my period so I hadn't thought about the very powerful point you make, thank you so much for something to really think about. There are things about being raised a girl that someone who was raised a boy simply will never know, and vice versa. I could transition tomorrow but I will never make a Pinewood Derby car with my Dad. It's not bad, it's not good, but I'm a liar if I refuse to acknowledge that yes, it IS different.
Honestly as soon as a man questions anything to do about my menstrual cycle and they are not my partner, I will get offended. A woman 's mensis is very personal. And none of the business of a man, any man I do not want to share my experience with. I will not answer kindly to being questioned about my experiences by anyone who is not a woman. And regarding pregnancy, I cannot stand how trans women talk about that experience and make less of it. Men will never know the excitement we may feel when we are ovulating and trying to conceive. Men will not know what it feels like to be pregnant or to lose a pregnancy. To feel your hormones change. Of even when you are post partum and dealing with the hormones during that time. Just like I will never know what it feels like to be a trans man and on hormones. I cannot fathom why this is so hard to understand for some trans people 🤷🏻♀️
Buck you made a great point by saying "nobody cared about periods before this trans period stuff" - you're so right. Some places are providing containers of free tampons in male and female bathrooms, as a way to make trans people more comfortable. In all my years of having a period, WHERE WERE MY FREE TAMPONS? All my life they maybe had a machine (that charged btw) that maybe was in working order, but most often not. We were expected to always be prepared and handle our needs on our own. But NOW they're handing out free, conveniently placed products? Yeah ok. The whole thing is stupid and destructive. Thanks for speaking out on these issues, it's desperately needed.
Im 55 and worked front line mental health for 30 years and i can barely understand the illness these people display. Why the obsession with being a victim and why must they convince us they have "periods"? They do not come across as kind or loving people who i want to learn to understand rather i avoid them (it is not difficult to identify them) The grin is classic "dupers delight"
Manic phase, personality disorder: borderline,narsdistic attention seeking disorder, psychotic phase in psychotic depression, schizophrenia have gender dysphoria phase and also bipolar during manic phase among teens and young adults,usually till age 20 and something.. just look their eyes,the way they speak( theatrical, seeking attention, manipulative), argumentative, at the edge of aggression etc...
@@celeste8157 no it is not narcizsm per se. Narristic person would be er ever allow themselves to look like this.this is narcism as a part of more serious mental illnesses..common trait of all of them is psyhocis, traits of narcism, aggression, drastic shifts in emotions... Observe the look, faces and way they speak..
I'm sure some of them cut themselves on the thigh just to act like they're having a period. On Reddit you can see men asking how they can fake period blood. How disgusting. They find women to be like a Halloween costume.
There’s a few TH-cam tutorials teaching males how to make fake period blood using egg whites, cornstarch and food coloring…it’s absolutely a fetish. They get off on the idea of having a period, as well as being treated as if they have a period, which is why they want to convince us so badly.
It is like dressing up like a soldier and claiming PTSD when you never served. It makes me madder than it should. I and others have SUFFERED badly for decades with very little accommodation or compassion. And now our misery is being treated like a costume piece. It infuriates me. Aside from it being physically impossible to have a period these people do not have period cramps. Cramps are caused by clots, tissue and thickened blood trying to get through your cervix. Which they also do not have. So shut the front door and nobody wants to hear your voice but yourselves.
@@ashleycesario6089 In cisgender women the cramps experienced are not solely due to the contraction of the uterus, but are also influenced by hormonal fluctuations and their effects on the body. Estrogen affects the way the gastrointestinal (GI) tract functions. When estrogen levels change, it can cause disruptions that lead to GI issues like cramping. Thus is why transgender women have cramps similar to yet not the same as cisgender women.
@@cardamon_co no, they are in no way related. I am not cis anything. I am a woman. I know what period cramps as opposed to different gut cramps we are also blessed with feel like and where they come from what with it actually being a real thing happening in my body SINCE I ACTUALLY HAVE THE REQUIRED ANATOMY. That is gaslighting bs. It is delusional behavior.
@@ashleycesario6089 Being a woman isn’t just about biological experiences like periods or pregnancy. Some women, cisgender or transgender, may not experience these, but they’re still women. Transgender women have their own unique experiences and challenges. The terms ‘trans’ or ‘cis’ just give more context to a woman’s journey. They don’t make anyone less of a woman. We’re all women, each with our own unique experiences. That’s what truly matters. Let’s respect each other’s journeys.
I know these are males because they have the balls to appropriate womanhood then tell women what the word "period" means. I normally dislike the term "mansplaining" but it fits so well here - "Thank you kindly, good sir, for mansplaining to us lady-folk that we have been mistaken for generations, imagining our periods were the portion of our monthly cycle when we bleed. What ever would we have done without instruction on how to woman from these gentlemen?!"
“Period is not a technical term” correct. The more technical term is menstruation. “Period” refers to the ‘time period’ during a 28 day cycle during which a woman expels blood and other fluids from their uterus via their vagina. Cramps and pains are a side effect of this period in their reproductive cycle, not the period itself. If you don’t have a uterus, if you don’t have a vagina, and if there is no bloody discharge, you are not experiencing a period, you are experiencing the side effects because of forged hormones.
It's difficult to argue with delusional dysmorphia, as the parents of anorexic children know only too well. I am not sure how they get periods as their 'vaginas' are closed off inside.
Yeah. Exactly. I was on hormones for something else (not trans) as a biological female, and I experienced pms-like symptoms, and it was nothing comparable to my actual pms, but that’s not called a period. My period is when I bleed. I find it odd to try and co-opt that name that has a very specific meaning.
Stop trying to change the definition of "period," you loon. And stop making up bizarre preudo-scientific fantasies about biology, too. What the hell are "forced hormones" supposed to be?
Thank you for telling the MtF trans people that the language they use when they take about getting a period is co-opting the biological female experience!! A biological male can NEVER describe what it's like to have a period, have menstral cramps, get pregnant, have a child. You can imagine and be empathetic but not an expert. Time to let biological women lead this space.
True, they have no idea what a period is or what PMS/PMDD is and none of it's fun. I get PMDD and for any of us out there that get it, I'm so sorry and I understand, I literally had to be put on antidepressants because my anxiety would get to the point where I couldn't get out of bed to live life normally, getting anxiety attacks on the way to work each month, so until they get stuff like that, I don't want to hear it
I am so sick of this. I’m done having kids. I don’t need my period anymore. If someone wants it, they can have it. I’m so irritated that people think this way. Teachers and parents have failed them. I’m ashamed to be part of my generation who probably raised these entitled people.
😁🤪😝😆😁 Laugh out loud, hold my belly and roll across the floor in laughter is what I think about a man who claims to have ever had a period. I can’t even get mad at it. And to the rest of you real women put their who heard it don’t even give them your energy, validation or acknowledgement by getting mad at it and sharing your anger with them because they are not worth it. Why is this my response: Because anyone who actually had a real period, or to use the technical term, menstrual cycle, wouldn’t need to make a public claim about having one. Whether you have cramps, bloating, cravings, headaches, mood swings, etc or not, because these symptoms are not the same for every woman, NOT person, BUT WOMAN, as I was saying, THE BLEEDING FROM YOUR VAGINA, speaks for itself, loudly and clearly. So you really don’t need any man standing on a soap box or screaming from the rafters or just talking out the side of his butt to anyone who will listen and validate his delusions about having a period with is a scientific impossibility: due to the lack of ovaries, fallopian tubes, uterus and ovum. Gotta all of those, not just one, not some, but all, every single one of have a period. But if you had one, you would know that. And if you had a period you wouldn’t have a need to convince anyone of it, because you wouldn’t need, because no one would question it, because it is a natural part of being a woman, whether a woman likes having one or not. We do not choose to have a period, and we are not assigned one at birth, it just comes with the plumbing. And I have noticed how none of these fake women refer to “their period” as a menstrual cycle. My guess would be because they know they don’t have one because they can’t have one. But gentlemen, I personally wish you could have one😜😝, with the excruciating pain and uncontrollable bleeding that shows up when you don’t expect, when you plan it because you are trying to a political or social point, but when you are in class or at work, when you are wearing that favorite outfit and you didn’t bring a change of clothes or a pad or tampon, and you are worried about being embarrassed or worse. I wish you you could experience that, because if you could than you would probably want to have and talk about having a period about as much as we real, actual women want our real actual periods. Honestly, I would give you mine, if I could. I have never been as happy to have it as you men claim to be. But it is easy to sing the joys of bleeding once a month out of your vagina, when you don’t have a vagina and thus you don’t bleed out it. No, I am really not angry about this nonsense of men claiming to have periods, because it is nonsense. I’m really am very amused and also a little sad that something is so wrong with these men that they would claim to have a biological function that they can never have just to feel validation and love. Gentlemen you don’t need a period to matter. We all matter. We may not all matter to the people in our circles, but we all matter to God our creator. And we, every single human that has ever lived, is living and will live, was fearfully and wonderfully made, as a individual by the creator himself and that alone makes each and everyone of us enough, whether we have periods or not. It is not better to period or not period, it just is.
As someone who *suffers* from endometriosis and severe dysmenorrhea, requiring surgical intervention, I can't tell you how this makes me feel. It makes me want to cry. Now I understand when Buck talks about his feelings about people "appropriating a medical condition." This isn't cute, it isn't fun, it isn't feminine and girly; these are ugly life changing chronic illnesses (one of the top 10 most painful diseases known to mankind), and 1 in 10 women live with it, usually with no diagnosis. The amount of suffering and grief caused by menstural/pelvic pain/sex-based conditions can not be comprehended by those who haven't experienced it. Thank you so much Buck for your compassion. I cry whenever I hear you talk about what you went through with your atrophy, there are many similarities of experience with chronic pain conditions like mine, so I know you understand how life-altering these diseases can be.
Thank you friend. This nonsense is so misogynistic I just cannot believe more people on that community are not calling it out. Thank you for the love. In solidarity with truth❤️
100% agree. I have PMDD and the fact that men are out here trying to make our menstrual cycles a shared experience is so fucking off putting. They want to be cutesy about experiencing self-inflicted hot flashes and cramps and buy tampons for the f of it? How about they take on the 5-day cyclic vomiting, shivers, headaches, and debilitating cramps that no pain med can tolerate too? The misogyny and sheer entitlement is unreal.
I said in another comment I know a few people who suffer from endometriosis.. one had to go through early menopause in her late 20s to help combat it. I am deeply sorry you have to go through it. I wouldn't wish it on anyone. I also know people who struggled with fertility because of it. Wishing you the best ❤
So far they all define menstruation with reference to _their_ symptoms, but one of the important aspects is that an egg cell which had the potential to become an independent human... hasn't done, and is being expelled. Sometimes that egg was actually fertilized, and the period is a tragedy because it means there has been a miscarriage. Other times it is still sad because the person was trying to become pregnant. And the rest of the time, when it isn't so emotionally charged, there is still the reminder that every month the opportunity to have created life is passing by. That whole aspect of womanhood seems not to register with these people, and it is generally undervalued by their sponsors on the left. Every woman is more than herself - and whether someone's morality is pro-Life or pro-Choice, the life or the choice is significant, which means menstruation is also significant. And it's the moral weight - of carrying all of our lives - that we should admire women for, more than the physical discomfort. All of us were only one period away from never having existed.
That's the most poetic thing I've ever come across about this aspect of women's period that, for the most part, is overlooked, and in particular at this time, when men are literally ridiculing it.
@@Cynni393fertility and natural hormonal balance go hand in hand. It might take a while to get those back if you've been on birth control for a long time. Look up Dr Fit and Fabulous aka Jamie Seeman and consider supplementing zinc if it's a copper IUD.
Exactly! It’s the same “nothing counts unless a man says it counts” male gaze. They cannot hear how obnoxious they are because they are used to the privilege of being male.
I'm 60. I'm a biological (real) female. Endometriosis cost me the ability to have children. It was monthly (plus) misery and then left me childless and heartbroken. For a man, you know, the ones we always chastise for not have the mighty uterus (and therefore not able to address the rights of their own unborn children) to all of the sudden have a period and STILL NO UTERUS, you're not having a period. Mine stopped when they took my UTERUS.
Biological women wear. sanitary napkins and tampons because they are on their period which means they're bleeding. We do not call our period PMS. My normal period lasted for 2 weeks , I was always a heavy bleeder, and now biological males get to tell me what a period is.
Not only that there is also the pain that we biological women have to suffer during that time. For example I am 27 years old and my period last 1 week but I have to take acetaminophen and buscapina fem, because the pain makes me go to the bathroom at the night having difficulties to sleep.
I know this is an older comment but my God I can relate. Birth control actually caused me to have two separate periods for literally THREE MONTHS! It was awful and so painful, I already have issues storing iron and that made me severely anaemic. Finally found a birth control that didn't have that side effect (I even needed the rod removed when trying to find birth control that worked for me because when it didn't stop for two weeks I noped out because I couldn't bare the though of going through that again, even with the doctors telling me it may settle after a year). I went on the minipill which was the only thing that we found that didn't make my periods go nuts. I actually have a daughter now because of the minipill failing (or potentially failing due to me being sick). I wouldn't change it for the world as my long term partner and I wanted kids anyway, just happened a few years earlier than planned but like I said wouldn't change it for the world, but that may not be the case for other women. This is literally something that trans people don't have to worry about, so making out they have periods too or even wishing for it is so frustrating.
I remember me and my husband were watchig a comedien years ago, and he had a bit about how women were always so quiet about their periods, if men got periods they would boast about it, shops would have to stock super max high absorption pads for how massive their bleeding was.😂😂, here we are, men not having any tact about "their" periods all over the internet😂😂
We have an older comdian in Germany too who said the same years ago. If men would have their periods, they wouldn't carry Tampons around in a very discreet manner. NO, the would have MATTRESSES for period pads and call their best friend to tell them that they are currently bleeding to death and they must take them to the hospital NOW 😂 It was hilarious.
Exactly, because quite unfortunately, it's a very male typical psychological situation... I always wonder why these "trans" people act so much like a man and not like a woman they supposedly wish to be.
It's because they weren't shamed into being quiet about it lest The Men thought they were unclean the way we were. There is a lot of shame socialised into girls and personally, I think that's why a lot of this behaviour is so jarring - a lot of trans women don't realise how shite it is being a woman and how badly they'll be treated (by men) just because they are living their lives. Anyway, that was a tangent.
When I had my periods, since I was 11, it was very very painful, utter hell painful. Seeing creatures like these smirking about the pains, makes me very angry. I feel hurt, angry, mocked and abused by those people.
How on earth do you think this sort of bizarre, pseudo-scientific denial of biological reality could possibly be "sensible and mature thinking?" Buck has completely lost touch with reality, and so have you.
As someone with pcos, extremely painful and extremely bloody (sorry for the visual) periods have been a part of my life. These little s***s can come talk to me when they spend 1 week every month (sometimes 2 weeks) feeling like they're being kicked in the woohhaaa, have countless underwear and pants ruined because no tampon or pad can withstand that much flow, and spend half the day in the bathroom because the intestines also decide to join the party.
Yes! I went through a spell for about 6 months where I was bleeding through Super Plus Tampons in 30 minutes to an hour 2-3 days of my periods. Sleeping on puppy pee pads to not damage the bed because I was going to wake up a bloody mess even wearing an overnight pad with the tampon. It was awful. End up so dizzy you can barely even exist. Takes a few days after everything is over to even start to feel human again. These people have no idea what they're saying. They aren't having a period. And I wouldn't wish one on them either.
"Period justice" had me rolling. 😂 I can't believe that I have to repeat this over and over, but here I go: The definition of a period is the discharge of blood and uterine lining through the vagina. If you have cramps without discharge of blood and uterine lining, it's not a period. If you have mood swings without the discharge of blood and uterine lining, it's not a period. If you have bloating and constipation without the discharge of blood and uterine lining, it's not a period. Period.
If you have XY chromosomes and you're bleeding from one of the holes you were born with between your legs, it's not a period, it's a problem. Go see a doctor.
The last one really was the most offensive. You said it perfectly, they were never invited to the table. Forcing yourself into the discussion and telling women how it is in their own space is wild to me and the exact opposite of being any type of "ally". Suddenly now that biological men want to pretend to have a period its a serious topic to fight for time off work and all this other stuff?!? They really need to get back into whatever lane they belong in and stop trying to dismantle all the progress that was fought for by both the LGBT as well as women. We do not want you wrecking our space like you have the LGBT. Get. Out. Thank you Buck for being such a solid well rounded human being ❤
I don’t understand their obsession with wanting to have one. I was on birth control for years to avoid it and was happy as hell when I got a hysterectomy
As a woman who is currently on her cycle and lying in bed because of cramps, I cannot tell you how much these people piss me off. No ovaries, no uterus, no eggs, no lining equals no menstrual cycle. A woman’s body was intelligently made, from our hormones to our body parts, around our ability to carry children and continue the human species. Nothing will ever change that.
@@kimt1776 I love myself the way I was born but still a transexual guy, that doesn’t mean you don’t love yourself and I also love God. Throw another one at me.
@@kimt1776 No hate quite like a judgemental Christians attempt at love. I suggest you re-read your Bible. Not judging your neighbor needs to be more firmly planted in your heart and mind. Weird thing to say to someone being kind and showing empathy... on a trans man's channel. How did you even end up here? Or does Buck also hate himself in your eyes? 🤔 Don't be disguising hate as fake kindness for no reason, it doesn't land like you think it does. It makes you sound arrogant, fake and uneducated. Not every trans person denies their birth sex or experiences prior to transitioning. Projecting negativity that you feel towards extreme leftists onto others accomplishes nothing. I suggest you pray for yourself before praying for others. If you want a hand finding verses to aid in your growth out of that place, let me know, and I can name some. (I study both the Christian Bible and the Tanakh daily, in both personal and work life.) Please do better. 🙏 Jesus would be deeply disappointed in you if he could have witnessed that as you hit send, and we both know that is not something you want.
@@cartergomez5390why did you transition if you don’t mind me asking. I assume that at some point you must have deeply disliked yourself /your female body. To damage yourself physically and hormonally in such a way. Assuming that you are taking testosterone that is. Taking the opposite sex hormones is very dangerous. The prevalence of type one diabetes in trans identifying men is ten times that of gen pop. I’m sorry if my question sounds disrespectful , please understand that I’m genuinely curious and concerned by this recent explosion in teen girls transitioning. It’s so clearly a social contagion, similar to the virgin suicides of the 70’s, aneorexia outbreaks and even tik tok Tourette’s more recently. If it wasn’t then there’d be as many if not more older women transitioning too. That doesn’t mean that what you feel isn’t real or valid. Just that you’ve been grossly let down by the “medical” industry.
Imagine mansplaining a period... To a woman... Who has periods. Bad ones at that. When did it become acceptable to validate people's delusions? We need to open state hospitals again.
We need to stop using the trans word “cis”. We are all male and female; if you are trans and act like (but are not actually) the other gender, then you are a trans male or trans female. Trans women are not women- stop appropriating female culture!
I didn’t even know what CIS meant I had to ask my 17yo daughter ffs y can’t I just say I’m a person 🤷🏻♀️ wtf would these people who have their “period” without a uterus do if they had to suffer what it’s like to have endometriosis where u can’t even move with extreme pain. I’d actually love to hear their answers on that.
The moment cis was used, I said I am not a cis. I'm a woman. "She" freaks when somebody uses the wrong pronoun. Do not use your "preferred" descriptions on me.🤬 I needed meds to get through two + weeks of each month. I'm so glad that's done with. By comparison menopause has been a breeze. To my sisters who suffer with this I hope you get relief.😪
I have had heavy 7 day periods from day 1 with cramps, vomiting, bloody accidents, and humiliation. Some women have unbelievable periods and need to stay home. I had heavy periods; but, did not become bed-ridden with cramps and never took off work for it. When I was 56 yrs old I had fibroid tumors in my uterus and was put on birth control to slow the excessive 10 day periods with a super tampon and a maxi pad overfill in 1hour. I got anemic and then a common cold turned into pneumonia and I almost died. 30 days in intensive care in an induced coma for the pneumonia. Then 4 month recovery before I had a partial hysterectomy to stop the period problem. And I still went through menopause because I kept my ovaries. So, no I don't think trans-women should have a voice in the female reproductive issue.
I get very nauseous, lightheaded, fatigued, shakey, and I feel really drained and just generally unwell. My cramps get so bad, I roll up into a fetal position in my bed with a heating pad. It is horrible! They have no idea and quite frankly, they couldn't handle it!
As a woman who started their period at 10 1/2, yes you read that correct, and had a complete hysterectomy at 30 years old I can say that I DO NOT have a period anymore and I take hormones as well. It’s my understanding trans women take estrogen and progesterone. So do I. I don’t get a period. And I am honestly offended that what we women experience with our period is treated so flippantly. I had heavy bleeding for five to seven days every three weeks. Add in the migraines, exhaustion, breast tenderness, nausea, sleep deprivation, and stomach issues and I had maybe two days a month that I felt good. Not to mention when they did the hysterectomy and removed my ovaries I had a cyst that was pre cancerous. A pre cancerous ovarian cyst at 30 that most likely would otherwise have not been noticed in time. Women run the risk of getting and dying from ovarian cancer, uterine cancer, cervix cancer and breast cancer. In my opinion all of women’s health issues were put on the back burner for years and now they are being mocked. I am not a cis-woman or a terf and I think labeling us as such just adds more evidence to the complete disrespect women receive on a daily basis and have for decades. You want to say you’re a woman, great. Don’t disrespect biological women in the meantime. It doesn’t make you more of a woman to get a period. But mocking women by pretending to get a period makes you an asshole.
I’ll be honest this actually makes me insanely angry. I have struggled since I was 13 with hormones and my period. To have a man say that they have a period and they know what it feels like is extremely insulting. I am now going through perimenopause and it is hell. They have their own thing they are going through and they need to stop taking from women. These are very sick individuals. And we are women, not cisgender!
I don’t want to offend, but I feel like woman are having to fight for their existence again. But my observation is that trans woman have that confident male energy that woman don’t have, like how men hold so many positions of power, I see this generation of trans woman having have same level of confidence… Are men experiencing any similar situations? Like are trans men being as pushy? I don’t know how to articulate this. I just feel bad for trans people experiencing any hate because of this minority of people
@@ashpash2977I haven’t seen trans men being nearly as aggressive or pushy as trans women. In my honest opinion, I think there’s a heavy undertone of misogyny in modern day trans women. They seem to want to be above women and tell them that they no longer have any voice in their own spaces. It’s very aggressive male behavior and entitlement disguised as wanting to be a part of the woman club.
@@ashpash2977My honest belief (and I'm not speaking about all, I'm addressing the loud minority of buttheads online and in media) is that the male ego cannot be destroyed with hormones. A transwoman still has a lot of advantages compared to biological woman. This is hardly talked about loudly within the community. And why would it? Men don't want to be put down or have competition, so the prominent transwomen follow that same route. (And by prominent, I mean the ones who put women down and call themselves superior)
I’m suffering my period right now and I have something called dysfunctional uterine bleeding, I’m lying on a folded black towel (a huge one btw) atm, afraid to move, the pain is so bad all I can do is lie here in bed and pray that tomorrow my bleeding has slowed so I can go to my uncles funeral. Every time I go to the bathroom right now, it requires a clean up of blood from toilet seats, blood drips from floor, changed underwear, changed pyjamas (everything has to be BLACK btw), scrubbing it from beneath my fingernails and NOT being able to get it out. That’s how much blood there is. My hips hurt, my back hurts, when I stand I feel like my uterus will fall out. There are huge chunks (the size of Oreo cookies) of blood clots and lining falling out of me. I can’t go out because I bleed through everything (toxic shock syndrome means no tampons btw) and I can’t sit anywhere because I may stain seats. All I can do is lie in bed for days and wait for the worst of the week to pass, having to pretend to men in my family like I’m NOT bleeding and just tired. I don’t sleep for days because every half hour it’s a pad change, I’m afraid to sleep for the worry of waking up saturated, of the worry of standing and blood running down my legs, staining my bed, my carpets, and getting everywhere (and it’s happened) - and then the rush of having to clean any of that up before someone sees it of course. And these transwomen think their fking period is valid and they suffer MORE?! NO. Just no. It makes me so bloody angry they need THAT much attention they fake THIS, and act like they suffer MORE. They can’t BEGIN to understand and they should feel BLESSED they never will.
@@vikicha13 nhs won’t help me and just told me to “get on with it”. They told me I’m not entitled to a gyno because I’m not in a relationship. Can’t afford to go private so have been left to suffer. I can’t even make an appointment for any condition that they don’t consider “an emergency” as sinxe covid they’ve gotten away with GP blocking. Basically it‘a something they’ve just condemned me to endure.
I had bad periods when i was younger. No where near what you're going through but i would be on the bed rolled in the fetal position with a bucket next to me for 3 days. I was a heavy bleeder and also slept with a towel under me. Thank got it mellowed out in my late 20s. Now in my late 30s i feel kinda normal. I dont understand WHY people want these. I was always so sick and miserable messy and uncomfortable. Its gross. Ill say it. Its frickin gross and messy. And they WANT it. I just don't get it.
It's sad to be made to feel like you have to "hide the evidence" from men in your family.Maybe they should see it so they know exactly what you are going through.I went through the same thing you are I hope it gets better for you.
@@debra1363 Yeah that made me more sad. If men are as strong as they say they are then why do we always need to shield them from the truth and all our suffering? She shouldnt have to hide any of it especially while goong through H_LL.... She should be helped. But no, we face these traumas alone while still taking care of men, but are STILL called w e a k!!
As a former woke liberal, who is so disenchanted with the direction the Democratic Party has been going (especially the last few years), why do these people feel comfortable demanding other people’s attention? It’s obnoxious. They are what I think of the liberal agenda because too many people have let complaining, unwell people steamroll over them. Thank you Buck, you and Blaire were actually my first introduction into more conservative thinking, and you reinforced that we all need to think for ourselves, not eat up what someone else demands of us
They don't want a period. They just want to validate their "womanhood" by appropriating something specific to women and girls and twist it into whatever they want. Everything that defines a woman has to be adjusted to define them. It started ever since these people (not trans people, the psychos pushing this) came for the word woman and it's not going to stop there.
"Why don't you not call it menopause? Why don't you not call your period? Why don't you call it something else cuz those two words are taken.." I love this guy 😆.
The one saying justice, periods are much more than what you think. A menstrual cycle, is every month (cycle). Menstruation is the ripping away of the uterus lining once a month, when they have not got pregnant, bleeding from the vagina for 5-7 days. Some are lucky and the bleeding is minimal, other have severe flows, crippling abdominal and back pain. Buck, you are amazing calling these idiots out.
The words "man" and "woman" were taken and meant something specific too. You can't tell people they can just take and change some words but not others. This is what happens when we let females call themselves men and males call themselves women.
I'm a transsexual from Canada who works as a night cleaner at a hotel. I transitioned in the late 90s and I have to put tampons in the guys washroom. Funny thing is I'm the only one calling this out at work because everyone is afraid to call out this idiocy. This does not happen its all in there heads. I will say I experience some mood swings and hot flashes but that's the end of it. I seriously praying 🙏 that 2024 is a better year where our community snaps back into common sense, but I seriously think it's going happen. This nonsense has to stop.
@rhondastephens2036 things were OK till all these clowns started redefining the whole trans experience. It's made things more complicated going out day to day 🙃
It's pure psychosomatic symptoms...you can't have muscle cramps of the uterine system if you don't have the organs/structures in question. It demeans actual menstrual cycles and the troubles that can happen.
have to say i have huge respect for you, i really appreciate the down to earth common sense! being able to accept reality and understand that it's ok would be so freeing for them
You are such a breath of fresh air. This society is infected with this nonsense to a point of dystopia. Thank you for actually making sense. Through your content I have learned that not all trans people are critically broken beyond repair. Keep up the good work…
I feel so bad for transsexuals, and I’m so glad that I know the difference now. I wish everyone understood this, especially my fellow “progressives” who support this movement.
You said it best in this video, Buck - "There's nothing funny about it. Its such a private space (for women to have a menstrual cycle)..". YES. Its never been fun, its nothing to gawk at, and half of women dont experience intense pain. For a man to put it in light and dramatize it is exactly what I never wanted as a young woman, or a grown one now.
Idk I felt intense pain when I was cramping every month during my period. But, I noticed after giving birth that my cramps now every month don't hurt as much.
I'm experiencing perimenopause right now... Menopause is so close. That's coming after decades of monthly, sometimes irregular, menstrual periods. Part of the experience for females... Exclusively.
I am a former trans female to male. When I started hormones in 2012, someone in a transmen support group corrected me when I used the term “biological”. They told me to use “cis”. That was the first stupid thing I heard. I told people that I wasn’t a biological male. I was a transman. Throughout the nine years that I was on testosterone, I saw the trans community get crazier and crazier. I abruptly stopped the hormones in 2021. Them and they? Biological men stating they are getting periods? Trans women going in women’s sports and spaces, and teaching and confusing children in schools about transgenders, and more. I think you are one of the few transgender people that I like because you state things as they really are and you don’t tiptoe around all these growing demands of orientations, pronouns, and this craziness that has seeped outside into the minds of undeveloped children in schools.. It’s is great to see you pushing back at this. We need so many more trans people on both sides to push back on all this craziness. Transwomen, biological males, will never understand because they never had periods. I am done tiptoeing around the trans community. We are starting to see more young people regretting. All this craziness will backfire and cause the transgender world to self-destruct.. It will also hurt biological gays and lesbians and then more people will resent transgenders.
I'm so happy that you're talking about this Buck - I know a lot of trans women and a few of them will say they're experiencing period pain and PMS and stuff like that - and it always offended me and I couldn't figure out exactly why it offended me... I think part of it is how periods are often actually traumatizing for biological women - and I don't understand how someone who was born biologically male will even know what period pain feels like, because the pain comes from an organ they don't have... for some reason it's upsetting to me, and a few other bio women who have opened up about it.. trans women, please don't say you're having an experience you're not having - you don't HAVE to have periods to be valid - just be honest.
Even my friend that’s a trans man finds this insulting. If you’re not ovulating, you’re not getting pms. If your uterus lining isn’t shedding, it’s not a period.
Like what Rachel said on friends, "No Uterus, No Opinion". Buck, you are amazing, and you always keep me informed about these narcissistic people. Keep up the good work! 👍🏻
I always described my period cramps like being “stabbed with a dull ice pick,” simply for illustrative purposes. I had uterine fibroids, so mine were more severe than most and occasionally left me vomiting, curled up on the floor of the shower because lying in bed meant that I would bleed everywhere. On everything. At its worst, I was bleeding through HEAVY DUTY ADULT DIAPERS every hour. I had hot flashes. I gained so much weight. I was always bloated. I had gender dysphoria. The tumors in my uterus were eating all my estrogen and progesterone and caused what I like to describe as a cross between menopause and masculinizing HRT (I had high T at the time but didn’t know it). Trans women can experience PMS symptoms. This isn’t a new thing since it’s caused by hormonal fluctuation. But the cramps? Those are gas pains. If you have never had a uterus, you could never know the pain of having uterine muscle contractions so severe you can’t stand up. You’ll never know what it’s like to have to literally throw out clothes almost monthly because there’s too much blood to clean up. You’ll never know the shame of wearing light colored pants and starting a week early. It’s so disheartening to me to see people claiming to experience something they could never physically experience.
I've been through the fibroids thing...my symptoms weren't as bad as yours, and I thought that it was hellish. You really did go through hell. When I finally ended up in hospital and found out what was going on, they asked if I got dizzy (no) or very tired (a little), and they were amazed that I could function. I was just used to it, I guess. The one doctor that I spoke to gave uterine artery embolization as an option, which I ended up having, and it was a life-changer.
You cannot experience PMS (PREMENSTRUAL SYNDROME) if you do not have A MENSTRUAL CYCLE! They are not female!!! They are experiencing symptoms of taking cross sex hormones! Ffs wtf is wrong with humans being absolutely idiotic!
😂😂😂 delusional craziness. Stop insulting stop degrading real women with real periods real menopausal systems. No trans bleeds. No womb no eggs no uterus no connection to female biological DNA. Stop GASLIGHTING women.
So, I'm a transexual woman and about 9 months into hrt, my body started rejecting the estrogen that was taken in the form of patches. After running some tests, my endocrinologist found that my hormone levels were similar to a menopaused woman. So yes, I had hot flashes, I was getting tired more easily, I was a bit short tempered, but no, my reproductive system was not slowing down, because I don't have a uterus and ovaries. My doctor also warned me that even though I take the same amount of estrogen weekly, my body will not absorb it as efficiently as I grow older, which happens to everyone. Our bodies will all slow down as we get older, biological male or female, but this is not a trans woman going through menopause, because we don't have the equipment providing the hormones, this is the body EMOTING. Yes, I do have hormone fluctuations on a somewhat monthly cycle, but this is not menstruation, this is just the body doing its thing. I don't get trans women talking about tampons. It's okay to support access to female hygiene everywhere. You don't need to co-opt the whole thing to be supportive. Anyway, thanks Buck for once again showing the world that not all trans people live in rainbowland. The sooner this trend is over, the sooner we can just walk in society without being automatically label non-sense cultists just for trying to be ourselves. The world needs to know that more than ever because we are currently losing ground in social acceptance because of all the nonsense on social media and it saddens me.
The idea of a vagina fashioned out of flaps of skin with no self cleaning properties, makes me feel ill. A real vagina would self clean. If you have sex where does the sperm go? It goes nowhere, it ends up just festering away and eventually smelling gross.
Buck, I just love you! Thank you for being the voice of reason. You are doing a great job. I would love to see more acceptance and you are doing a great job TRYING to explain to them how that can be more possible. ❤
Why are you inventing imaginary men? Not to mention, why do you think anyone would want to have a conversation with you, when you are clearly out of touch with reality?
I’ve never been angrier in my life than hearing a man say “yeah, we should get time off work for periods, right ladies?” I have to be on medication bc I was dry heaving over a toilet for 2 days per month…which started when I was in middle school.
I have PMDD and I'm miserable for 2 weeks before. I'm restless and tired at the same time. My moods are crazy, irritated, headache, nausea and diarrhea. I get it. I'm 39 and got my period at 11 and have had those symptoms since the first one. I'm also anemic from heavy flow. I quit birth control last year. I'm terrified of blood clots. I'm fat too.
@@shawtygotlo1same here. I got on birth control when I was 18 solely for my periods. While it has reduced my more severe symptoms, my periods are still pretty awful. Well, at least I don’t have ovarian cysts anymore. Small blessings.
I had awful hormone imbalances with precocious puberty, to where I was bleeding heavily and I couldn’t get out of bed my cramps were so severe, I would’ve loved to have that week off from school every month
As a biological female who is still female, I appreciate people like you speaking out against the stupidity of some of these ignorant people. Thank you.
I sure wish I could think my way OUT of getting a period!! I adore you Buck. Thank you for saying everything out loud that needs to be said on these topics.
I'm a woman and I won't pretend to know how excruciatingly painful it is to be kicked in the ⚾️🏀. I DO know what it's like to be a 10 year old girl sitting on the toilet passing blood clots while vomiting in the trash basket because the pain is so bad. Then being told that you will spend one week a month, for the next 40 years, enduring this torment.
I had horrible pain every month for decades with my period. That is something a man can never understand. I am so sick of this. But of course women had better not say a word. If we do then we are transphobic. Enough is enough. It is time for women to take back women's spaces.
I’ve never been angrier in my life than hearing a man say “yeah, we should get time off work for periods, right ladies?” Male entitlement at its finest.
Yeah and they choose to do this to themselves... Not to mention that they don't have the reproductive system to have the period they are complaining about... Since menstruation is about renewing the lining of the uterus, which they don't have, they can't menstruate... And therefore can't pre menstruate... Also called the period
Show of hands, (well, metaphorically) how many of us biological women showed up to work, school or other function while having an actual period? In pain, fearful that you'll bleed through a pad or tampon, not being able to get to the bathroom to attend to your sanitary needs when necessary? And these clowns want time off for fake ones? My heart goes out to all the women who suffer with fibroids, endometriosis or other female related issues that cause their periods to be agonizingly painful and with excessive bleeding. I was lucky to have never experienced those issues, but I can imagine how insulting this is to them.
You know... If i missed my period, but still feel some discomfort and the emotional stuff, im pretty sure i don't call it a period, i just call it a hormonal imbalance.
right? these people are HORMONALLY IMBALANCED... because they are taking hormones not meant for their body its pretty much bound to happen. its like they are completely obtuse not to realize whats actually happening. its not a period. you're just imbalanced from the hormones you are taking (that may be fighting with your bodies natural hormones)
When I was peri-menopausal, I had blood pouring out of my vagina so that I had wear double protection, which only lasted for about half an hour. These periods went on for weeks. Even the pill didn't help. It was painful and so embarrassing. Believe me you do not want this
I find it offensive and even insulting how those people claim to have period pains when in reality they don't have any. They can't. They indeed might have hormonal fluctuation, because of added hormones to their bodies but those hormones doesn't make them grow fallopian tubes, uteruses and other female organs. I always had extremely painful and heavy periods, now is my first year without them thanks to progesterone because I wasn't able to enjoy daily life with weeks or months of pains. I might sound pretty upset, because I am and on top of that I have flu and fever 😂 Oh yeah and I'm not a menstruating person, nope, I'm a woman. 😂
Thank you for being a voice of reason. So many in that community are just gaslighting and coopting the language. Even at my work now, whenever we have professional meetings, they want everyone to go around the room and share their pronouns. It isn't necessary and it feels more like a "test" to see who is willing to play along with this nonsense and who might need to be sent to the re-education camp for more indoctrination...
I just can't deal with these AGP'ers! They are so insulting to real women. If they had a single clue how much a period suks or how much menopause suks they would learn to shut the heck up!! Love you Buck for exposing all this crapola.
I beat cervical cancer, and I have endometriosis. It is absolutely debilitating. I'm now on the depo shot to try to control the bleeding and pain. Just like when that trans woman said that she wanted a uterine transplant so that she could have an abortion. I have lost several pregnancies because of my endometriosis, and because my cervix was removed I can no longer carry a baby to viability, so seeing stuff like this offends me beyond belief.
Please research Xiang gong, it‘s a special Qigong exercise that is easy to learn and might help with your problems. Learn it live from a proper teacher, the videos online are bs. All the best.
I mean, if you still call a trans-women 'she', you deserve to be lectured by a biological man of how he has as valid experience of womanhood as you. That was what started this madness in the first place. There are no trans-women, just biological men who have deep-seated issues and pretend to be women.
Hello, I've been following you since I saw you on Unapologetic with Amala Ekpunobi. I love the work you do and value everything you have to say in this field.
I feel the same way about Buck. His voice on these matters is so important! And how could anyone NOT like Buck?! He's one of the most likeable, genuine, caring people ive come across on TH-cam and I will always support him in any way i can! I found Buck through Blaire White ❤😊
Hey, everyone! Today I’ll be reacting to some crazy TikToks from trans women who claim to get a monthly period just from taking estrogen… this’ll be good haha. Leave your thoughts in the comments!! See you on my livestream tomorrow (Wednesday) at 12 noon PST! Love, Buck ❤❤❤
Just watched your video, I have never laughed so much at these fools 😂 mental health problems alive and kicking!! Love you Buck ❤
That smirk of theirs is the psychological tell of a Duper's Delight smile. Watch their eyes, too.
Kind of like a trans man insisting they got their bio girlfriend pregnant.....
Thet have no idea what it is like. They never will.
It makes me sad that we now live in a sociaty where the narative is pushed to say I am this and this so dare to say something,just swallow it is so much healthier for you.
Ofcourse oestrogen has a affect to a human body, however it is not the only aspect of menstruation PERIOD.
What bothers me the most of trans woman claiming to have their periods is that they just reinforcing stereotypes of periods. It reminds me extremely of teenage boys mimicking the girls when they want to skip sport. Or the old fashioned question when we get in an argument. No. We have also mood swings or simply an opinion outside of our periods. And yes there are girls who love taking their periods as an excuse for skipping sport class (it is highly suspicious if you have your period every Wednesday in the last two school hours). But most woman go working, do sports and live there normal lifes. And if the pain is that intense that you can't do this you should go and see a doctor checking for endometriosis.
No ovaries no eggs no uterus no lining?No menstrual cycle!
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If you don’t have female organs but there’s bleeding in the genitalia area, then see a damn doctor something is wrong!
Exactly!
And if the hormones are off by just a bit then no periods. Which could mean lots of different health issues. Something trans women don't have to worry about!
And nowhere for all that blood to come out
Exactly Buck! No Trans woman is worried about staining her light colored slacks. No Trans woman is worried about pregnancy. They need their own vocabulary. Thank you for being a sane voice.
Thank you ❤
Just the way buck talks about our periods you know he has so much more respect. Its a reality they're trying to take i dont understand why
Exactly, there were times of walk in front of my friends so they could check if I was leaking, get up from chairs and immediately have a quick look to make sure nothing has come through into the space I'd been sitting. Checking that menstrual products weren't showing if you were going swimming or in tight pants. There's just so much more to it!
Trans women would not have been cast to a red tent to bleed outside the home for 7 days in pre female sanitary care times.
Good grief! Do these muppets not understand biology? When did they grow a uterus, womb or fallopian tubes??? And a period IS a technical term fool!!!! And no, you don't experience it to... YOU DO NOT MENSTRUATE! IT IS NOT PHYSICALLY POSSIBLE!!!
And I find 'cis' insulting! And you are not "assigned" a gender at birth!
I give up!
The group of people who claim that they have "real" periods and they dont understand how that could be offensive to biological women just baffles me. They're so quick to be offended by *every little thing* that doesnt 100% agree with what they project. But its somehow _not okay_ for biological women to be offended by their claims of how _horrible_ their periods are?! Um, I had HORRIBLE periods for my entire life. I eventually had a hysterectomy because I had golf ball sized tumors in the walls of my uterus. So *forgive me* when I laugh and roll my eyes when you complain about how bad it is for you and your "envy pains" 😂
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Thanks Sis! Sorry you suffered. These guys know nothing about the laundry list of conditions we live through in a life time.
Amen sister! I had a bilateral oophorectomy and have been in surgical menopause since age 37 because of my very real bad periods and constant endo pain since the age of 12. My life has been ruined because of all of this, so it’s pretty offensive that these men try to claim they even have any idea what it’s like.
I hope you feel better now. Big hugs ❤
I don't know anyone who smiles when talking about menstrual cycle pains.
Agreed
When a doctor asks me the last time I had a period, I don’t mention when I was bloated, moody, cramping. I say the last time blood came out of my vagina due to my lining shedding. It’s very simple.
Thank you for standing up for us Buck.
Omg this hit the nail on the head. Mic drop that girl. ❤🎉
Yes!
Exactly, these men seem to think their symptoms are a periods. No, it’s like you said, a period is when you bleed. Next up they’ll claim their back pain is labor pain.
@@mystic22g4 dnt give them ideas😅😂
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My rage about this situation is how women have grown up being mocked for PMS, humiliated for staining themselves, and shamed into not talking about what their bodies experience openly yet men who have NEVER experienced these things talk to us like they're experts?
Know how I know you don't actually have a period? You seem to actually want one.
AND WE’RE TOLD WE’RE NOT THE ONLY ONES WHO HAVE PERIODS NOW…THE VENUS SIGN HAS BEEN TAKEN OFF MENSTRUAL PADS AS WELL…
Preach
I'm so disgusted. None of them ever had to walk down the hallway in high school, clueless to the fact that they were bleeding through their jeans and no one said a word til their friend came up. If they ever went through that, I don't think they'd be so preachy.
We still get the bullshit where if we are upset a guy suggests that you must be on the rag...🫥
Of course they want a pretend period because if they ever experienced one they wouldn't want it.
As a 34 year old woman, I am so happy to finally learn that the periods I have experienced for the last 20 something years were just symptoms of digestive, emotional and hormonal stuff. All this time I thought it was just my uterus throwing a fit coz I didn't give it a baby that month🤦🏾♀️ Silly me
Great comment!
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Well neither was correct but keep guessing sunshine.
Lowkey best sarcastic comment ever😂
“My uterus throwing a fit” 😂😂😂 I laughed out loud at reading this!
They want us to respect their language and space, whilst ignoring ours. Buck you’re always spot on.
Exactly cause all that matters to them is “their truth.” They don’t believe in objective truth. Moral relativism. They see the word “woman” as a label/group someone made up to keep them out not as a biological distinction. That’s why their mantra is “GENDER IS A SOCIAL CONSTRUCT.” If you take that away from them and dismiss this new wave outlook on gender as separate from sex and reality, their whole argument will fall apart and no one will support this crap and all the bandwagoners will move onto the next popular thing to believe in. I’ve seen a lot of people most of whom are straight project their issues with society and gender norms onto the LGBT community as though the whole reason the community exists is to deconstruct gender which isn’t a gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transsexual view on things, but rather an ideological view on things. So, they think if they like to dress in opposite gender clothing that makes them a different gender or gay which is ironic cause they are using stereotypical “gender norms” (which they said they are against) to justify their newfound identities. It’s the I am special too movement lead by a bunch of miserable insecure people with identity crises who think that’s makes them LGBT.
Amazing how the movement claiming to be for equalities says biology was just a construct and supports them, right?
I can't love this comment more.
Trying to force your bizarre delusions about biology on us is not respectful. You should stop doing that.
@@AlternateAlibi Nothing "brilliantly said" about this delusional nonsense...
I'm sure they wouldn't want the "symptoms" of my endometriosis 😑
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I feel you!
What does that have to do with anything?
Yea, we will see how quickly they change their mind.
@@thewarriorbunny you don't really get this whole "reality" thing, do you?
I feel like there is nothing more “mansplain-y” than a trans woman telling women about menstruation.
Exactly
It's like a man telling a woman that labor pain can't be as bad as being hit in the nuts, please when you get hit in the nuts the pain last what maybe an hour try pain for 12 hours than having to be cut open because the baby gets stuck then the pain afterwards of dealing with the incision and still having to take care of a baby.
@@silvermist7103 Amen sister 👍
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@@Wyledgirl30 yep, they can’t help themselves, just like a leopard can’t change its spots
Someone needs to tell these people that being constipated is not a period. 😂😂😂
Miralax, 100oz of water and increased fiber will help their belly pain.
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Or having diarrhea cramps women know the difference between period cramps and having diarrhea cramps men don't know that
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I was not assigned a Cis woman at birth I was just born a woman. I am fed up with this. Buck Angel thank you for standing up for us women.
Amen..that person says they want to be an ally, and then calls us cis and terf, which are both super offensive. And guess what? We don't need you to be our period allies. Like what are you even TALKING about? We don't even call each other period allies, because it's ridiculous! Also, stop telling us you feel like you're having a period when you have no idea what that really means! I'm so beyond over this. 😊
Assigned male or female at birth makes sense with intersex people only. There used to be a time when babies born with ambiguous genitalia got operated on and then were never told that they were born intersex and either assigned the sex their parents favored or simply female, because the surgery is easier to perform. Or they were assigned female at birth because they are males with a chromosome defect that blocks the development of male genitalia.
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The only people that would really apply to is people with Swyer Syndrome. Somewhere between 1 in 20,000 and 1 in 100,000 births. That would be someone who has XY sex chromosomes but is anatomically female or has XX chromosomes but is anatomically male. They usually go by anatomy in that case. But it's kind of a coin toss as to what the person should be considered. For anyone else, it's pretty easy. About 99% of the time, just look between their legs for the answer. If they have anatomy that makes that difficult, do a DNA test. XY for male. XX for female. If they have a genetic anomaly like XXY, males have Y chromosomes. Females don't. But the term, "intersex" can mean any kind of anatomical variation from the norm. So, it's a very imprecise and misleading term.
I was assigned male at conception. Not by a doctor. The fact that he correctly identified me as a male just proved that he had good eyesight. It reminds me of a dog we had when I was a kid. Our goofy neighbor asks if the dog is a boy or a girl. So, Princess rolls over on her back and spreads her legs.
This stuff started
6/26/15
The bigger question is why is the government and the medical industry pushing for this to be accepted
They get paid for treating them.
The medsmedsmedsmeds
The answer is: They're not. They are, in fact, extremely hostile to trans people. What you posted is a delusional fantasy invented by bigots.
My question for these people continues to be: why do women have to give up our terms, our spaces, our experiences to include trans women but men don’t have to give up anything? Women are expected to make room and include anyone that wants to be one of us. We’re told we have to give up our comfort and our womanhood. Our words are taken from us. I don’t care what anyone wants to do as an adult, but why are women being told to basically sit down and shut up? It’s misogyny with a new face, honestly
Thank you! You identified it perfectly!
As a male, I strongly encourage you to stand up for your womanhood. It distresses me that much of your voice has been quelled by a government that is way more interested in enforcing non-binary bathrooms than dealing with violent crime in this country.
People like Riley Gaines are heros in my book. She’s taken a stand to say “Enough is Enough. Biological born males have significant physical advantages over biologically born females, no matter what they choose to call themselves”.
I'd like to see and hear their Reaction to Shoving a TAMPON up their penis. I bet they'd pass out from the pain. And if they've had "Penal Surgery" to make their Penis into a "FAKE Man-made Vagina" then there's no reason for them to insert Tampons.....they won't Ovulate (and Menstruate if the Egg isn't Fertilized by Sperm) because they don't have a WOMB for a Fertilized Egg to Grow in. It's Basic Biology and they Refuse to Accept that Reality. Because they're Brainwashed and Deceived, into believing the Lies fed to them by the Woke People in Positions of Power and Authority. Like psychiatrists and Doctors and Surgeons and the Trans community and Politicians ECT..... it's a Mental Health Issue. They need to Fix their MINDS, Not their Bodies.
Amen!!! You are correct. I could not say it any better.
Amen Sister! I could not have said it better myself!
It's biologically impossible. I have endometriosis. It's extremely painful. If you don't have a uterus, ovaries or fallopian tubes,you don't get a period. You may have hormonal effects...but it's not a period.
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Same here. I am a DES child. Endometriosis was a terrible thing. It cheapens our story for these idiots to Coop real female function.
My mom had to go through 3 doctors before they would finally go through with a hysterectomy. They were only going to take part but once they got in they had to take everything because there was so much scar tissue. My mom was nearly 50 when this all this happened. She would be laid up in bed for days. She had endometriosis and PCOS
Yup that’s a fact !! 🖖🥳✨🥰
(5…4…3…2…1…) “Trans periods ARE periods!” 🤦🏻♂️.
I’m so sick and tired of this bs honestly. I’m not a “people who menstruate” or a “cis woman” I’m a woman not prefix no substitute. These people need to make up their mind. If having a uterus, ovaries, menstrual cycle, giving birth, etc doesn’t make you a woman why tf is there now an obsession with periods and being able to give birth.
You seem very confused. Might I suggest you stop reading bizarre delusions on the internet?
😂 “Joining the table you were never invited to.” 😂 I appreciate you and your perspective. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you❤️❤️❤️❤️
I am a woman. I do not need to be "invited" to be a woman. Kindly stop being riddiculous.
I’m on my period right now and trying not to be infuriated by men’s fetishization of our bodily functions 😤
Me too. Thankfully mine have gotten very short and light as I've aged, but YESTERDAY i had the worst cramps. It felt like someone was scraping their fingernails along the inside of my uterus and for me, the flow was heavy (I'm sure to many other women, that heavy flow for me would be very light). There's a big difference in that vs abdominal cramps like these men claim they're having and it's a period.
I'm sure you can back me up. There's a difference between period cramps and abdominal cramps. Unless you have ever had a uterus, you aren't going to understand the difference.
Just like these Transwomen.
If they would like to take the peeing while sneezing/coughing/ laughing that I experience from giving birth to 2 whoppers, they can have it! 😂
Some can't let us have anything. It reminds me of when narcissistic people mimic interests and traits to take on the identity of their victim. It messes with your mind.
Me too
Totally agree, I have seen forums where men verbally "compare" the "treasures" they have "found" going through sanitary bins in ladies toilets.
It just disgusts me at this point.
I am a transwoman on 150mcg estraderm patches, and I am sure that we don't have periods. Menopause like symptoms might be accurate. After I started testosterone blockers, I started to have hot flashes at the end of 3.5 day patches life cycles, which stops when the patches are replaced. It's just hormonal fluxations. This is delusional behaviour, and it's disgusting.
Thank you for this comment 👏🏻 🫶🏻
Thank you for the common sense comment. I agree, taking hormones, can cause symptoms, but not a period.
Thank you for your voice of sanity and common sense!
Consider yourself lucky (in that regard) that the cycle is started over and over again. Peri-menopause lasts for 10 years on the average, and menopause is forever. It is something that makes most women think. On one hand, those annoying period issues are gone. On the other hand, you are now sterile. While all transwomen who have completed their transition are sterile, most "cis"-women are not, so it does make a difference. Also, you may experience things like loss of libido and vaginal dryness.
Thankfully we have Gays against Groomers and Trans Women like you!❤
I’m a old gay man, and I consider myself a feminist. Even being a part of a minority as gay man, I still have the male privilege. I worked with women, I have many women as friends, and I see how hard it’s for women to walk in a world dominated by men. I worked with women that went to work when they were in pain because their periods. See a trans woman, talking about period, and comparing that they can’t stay at home when they are having “cramps” it’s infuriating, when I know most of the women don’t have the luxury to stay at home because their periods. If you’re a biological women and you are reading this, I want you to know that I admire you and I respect you. No I’m not transphobic.
What a lovely and supportive statement.
Thank you so much.
@@DivaClariceWilliams 😘
@@ehrenmulleanglewoodpecker 😘
Thank you
As a 40 year old woman who has struggled with horrific periods and the pain associated with it, these “woman” make me so ANGRY 😤 😡
I consider them men. They were born men
It makes you angry that other women have periods? You should see a therapist about that, tbh... And why is woman in quotes?
Because they aren't women. They're TRANS women. There's a difference.
@@MarissahXoxo Stop inventing imaginary men, rapist.
@@CherryFlavoredFox0180 Because women aren't women? Ok Karen, off to the loony bin with you, you're clearly delusional...
I try to be as understanding, emphatic and accepting of everyone but ... I find it really offensive when trans women claim to have periods. I suffer extremely heavy period with all the horrible things that come with it. A biological male, even with hormonal fluctuations which can cause similar symptoms, cannot have a period or ever fully understand how periods feel.
My most recent one two max dose painkillers didn't touch the pain was so intense! These men are ridiculous
I absolutely relate 100% with your post. Not only have I had painful periods my entire life, I'm now legit going through Menopause and it's SO much more than just simple hormonal issues of fluctuation. It affects every single part of your being. So it's more than insulting when a biological man, tries to "Transplain" Periods, Reproduction and Menopause. I am one of these people that is more than done with these absolute LIES.
This is just my opinion, and I think you are a good person for trying to be understanding and accepting, but there comes a time when you can just skip that. And this is that time. These folks don't need understanding, they are living a fantasy, or straight up fucking with people. In that case laughing in their faces is entirely appropriate.
I feel you. I even ended up on the ER needing blood transfusions due to excessive bleeding from my heavy periods. They could never understand what it is we biological women have to go through.
Furthermore ,real women have always tended to be v private about what is a very intimate part of life for them .Trans women are invading a private space ,v v ignorant .
TERF rhetoric 🤣 they don’t get periods! That’s that. My god dude… us lesbians/WOMEN are so sick of them doing this. Love u Buck!!!
As a breast cancer survivor that was basically forced to have a double mastectomy and go on a drug that stops my hormones, some of these folks just piss me off. Having my breasts amputated and going into menopause early, is not a fun experience, nor do I wish it on anyone. Calling me a TERF is not different than calling someone else a derogatory name.
God bless you being a survivor!:) My mom has beaten it twice (post menopause), once with chemo, 2nd time single mastectomy. Her medicine might be similar/the same as yours, keeping her estrogen levels low. It causes her to have menopause symptoms even worse than when she actually had it naturally, bless her heart!
I wish you the best and keep being the strong WOMAN you are! :)
WARRIOR WOMAN!!!!
Also any chemo menopause survivors who get their period back get to go through menopause TWICE.
You go girl!!!
Stay safe live well you are awesome xx
Imagine curling up on the bathroom floor, unable to even make a sound because of the pain tearing through your body, unable to stop blood from getting all over the floor because you're in too much pain to care. You'd take a hot bath or take some medicine, but it does nothing. It's 1am. You're lying down because you just stopped throwing up from the pain. The cold floor is the only thing that makes it even a little better. And after a while, you fall asleep, alone on the bloody floor.
Now imagine someone sees you and says, "Gosh, I just wish I had your experience."
Ugh, this brings back terrible memories. I used to suffer so much in my early teenage years. Going on the pill and taking loads of ibuprofen helped in later years, but it still wasn't a walk in the park. Had a hysterectomy at 44. Best thing ever. These people are nuts.
As a biologically born female and living that way my entire life, I am sick and tired of this newly constructed label in the trans community of 'sis woman'! What the H_ll is that??!!! I am a woman without the 'sis' attached. I refuse to be labeled as such! Straighten them out Buck. I appreciate your honesty and protection of the children. Thank you
Cis? Sounds like "Sissy" and I don't like it.
No cis, just woman.
Why do you have to say BIOLOGICAL born female... What other kind of female is there? You seem confused...
@@stacyyoustcis is not only hate speech bit is also inaccurate. Women a bit a subcategory of their own sex. There are only men and women in this world, regardless of how they feel, that remains true
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Imagine being so mysoginistic, you don’t realize that you are literally MANSPLAINING a period.
Thank you, Buck. You, Blaire, and Marcus, have been refreshing to listen to
Spot on!!
They are my golden trio too! They are the kind of trans people I want to be an ally for, not those mentally unstable snowflakes who threaten you with cancellation if you don't feed their delusions. I applaud Blaire, Buck, and Marcus for going against the current to show decent person rationale in an intolerant and toxic community of snowflakes. It's baffling that they don't seem to be doing that much from a rational and common sense pov, but compared to what is forced down our throats, it's a complete breath of fresh air.
Honestly, I think that one old trans lady was trying to explain hormonal menopause to other trans women, which is only as weird as a trans man explaining it
Have them LOL!!! 😂😂😂
@@IngPeace there is no "old trans lady", that's a dude and he looks like he is barely past 30.
Why don’t we talk about the psychological aspect of having a period. Has a trans women ever been worried about what not getting their periods mean. They thought they might be pregnant when they didn’t want to be. How about the devastation some women feel when they get their period because it means they didn’t conceive the child they want so much. Has a trans women ever worried that the rape they endured by their father, uncle brother, friend may have resulted in a pregnancy? Stop insulting women with this talk.
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or been forced on birth control when your young because your period is too "heavy" & causes PMS or other health affects. (not that your sexually active) Or been told "why would we freeze you for an iud removal/insertion" - Or have health issues brushed off (like GI issues) as its probably just your period.
@mylifasjen: a lifelong lesbian I did not go through the am-ii-pregnant terror part of my period so I hadn't thought about the very powerful point you make, thank you so much for something to really think about. There are things about being raised a girl that someone who was raised a boy simply will never know, and vice versa. I could transition tomorrow but I will never make a Pinewood Derby car with my Dad. It's not bad, it's not good, but I'm a liar if I refuse to acknowledge that yes, it IS different.
Honestly as soon as a man questions anything to do about my menstrual cycle and they are not my partner, I will get offended. A woman 's mensis is very personal. And none of the business of a man, any man I do not want to share my experience with. I will not answer kindly to being questioned about my experiences by anyone who is not a woman.
And regarding pregnancy, I cannot stand how trans women talk about that experience and make less of it. Men will never know the excitement we may feel when we are ovulating and trying to conceive. Men will not know what it feels like to be pregnant or to lose a pregnancy. To feel your hormones change. Of even when you are post partum and dealing with the hormones during that time. Just like I will never know what it feels like to be a trans man and on hormones. I cannot fathom why this is so hard to understand for some trans people 🤷🏻♀️
@@saedoll2507 yeah my friend is on birth control poor thing😢
Buck you made a great point by saying "nobody cared about periods before this trans period stuff" - you're so right. Some places are providing containers of free tampons in male and female bathrooms, as a way to make trans people more comfortable. In all my years of having a period, WHERE WERE MY FREE TAMPONS? All my life they maybe had a machine (that charged btw) that maybe was in working order, but most often not. We were expected to always be prepared and handle our needs on our own. But NOW they're handing out free, conveniently placed products? Yeah ok. The whole thing is stupid and destructive. Thanks for speaking out on these issues, it's desperately needed.
Im 55 and worked front line mental health for 30 years and i can barely understand the illness these people display. Why the obsession with being a victim and why must they convince us they have "periods"? They do not come across as kind or loving people who i want to learn to understand rather i avoid them (it is not difficult to identify them) The grin is classic "dupers delight"
Manic phase, personality disorder: borderline,narsdistic attention seeking disorder, psychotic phase in psychotic depression, schizophrenia have gender dysphoria phase and also bipolar during manic phase among teens and young adults,usually till age 20 and something.. just look their eyes,the way they speak( theatrical, seeking attention, manipulative), argumentative, at the edge of aggression etc...
It's narcissism
@@celeste8157 no it is not narcizsm per se. Narristic person would be er ever allow themselves to look like this.this is narcism as a part of more serious mental illnesses..common trait of all of them is psyhocis, traits of narcism, aggression, drastic shifts in emotions... Observe the look, faces and way they speak..
TBP fan?
Need for attention and thinking that playing victim will get them that
I'm sure some of them cut themselves on the thigh just to act like they're having a period. On Reddit you can see men asking how they can fake period blood. How disgusting. They find women to be like a Halloween costume.
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There’s a few TH-cam tutorials teaching males how to make fake period blood using egg whites, cornstarch and food coloring…it’s absolutely a fetish. They get off on the idea of having a period, as well as being treated as if they have a period, which is why they want to convince us so badly.
Whatever IS bleeding, they are welcome to stick a tampon right in it...
Its' twisted minstrelsy, straight up.
It is like dressing up like a soldier and claiming PTSD when you never served. It makes me madder than it should. I and others have SUFFERED badly for decades with very little accommodation or compassion. And now our misery is being treated like a costume piece. It infuriates me. Aside from it being physically impossible to have a period these people do not have period cramps. Cramps are caused by clots, tissue and thickened blood trying to get through your cervix. Which they also do not have. So shut the front door and nobody wants to hear your voice but yourselves.
I stand with you 💯 percent. They're just whiny little boys who don't understand human biology. It maddens me too
@@ashleycesario6089 In cisgender women the cramps experienced are not solely due to the contraction of the uterus, but are also influenced by hormonal fluctuations and their effects on the body. Estrogen affects the way the gastrointestinal (GI) tract functions. When estrogen levels change, it can cause disruptions that lead to GI issues like cramping. Thus is why transgender women have cramps similar to yet not the same as cisgender women.
@@cardamon_co no, they are in no way related. I am not cis anything. I am a woman. I know what period cramps as opposed to different gut cramps we are also blessed with feel like and where they come from what with it actually being a real thing happening in my body SINCE I ACTUALLY HAVE THE REQUIRED ANATOMY. That is gaslighting bs. It is delusional behavior.
@@ashleycesario6089 Being a woman isn’t just about biological experiences like periods or pregnancy. Some women, cisgender or transgender, may not experience these, but they’re still women. Transgender women have their own unique experiences and challenges. The terms ‘trans’ or ‘cis’ just give more context to a woman’s journey. They don’t make anyone less of a woman. We’re all women, each with our own unique experiences. That’s what truly matters. Let’s respect each other’s journeys.
Excellent analogy!
I am not a sis woman , I am a woman, end of . I hate these labels that are just thrown around . The world has gone mad .
I know these are males because they have the balls to appropriate womanhood then tell women what the word "period" means. I normally dislike the term "mansplaining" but it fits so well here -
"Thank you kindly, good sir, for mansplaining to us lady-folk that we have been mistaken for generations, imagining our periods were the portion of our monthly cycle when we bleed. What ever would we have done without instruction on how to woman from these gentlemen?!"
I like being called a TERF because I know I hit a nerve
I remember seeing a comment on here saying that trans women are mansplaining to women how to be a woman
This just proves you can't take a hormone to unroot your real gender (male, in their case).
"How to woman" LoL... True
I love the old school AOL Messenger emoji there.
😂😂they have the balls 😂 so true!
“Period is not a technical term” correct.
The more technical term is menstruation. “Period” refers to the ‘time period’ during a 28 day cycle during which a woman expels blood and other fluids from their uterus via their vagina. Cramps and pains are a side effect of this period in their reproductive cycle, not the period itself. If you don’t have a uterus, if you don’t have a vagina, and if there is no bloody discharge, you are not experiencing a period, you are experiencing the side effects because of forged hormones.
It's difficult to argue with delusional dysmorphia, as the parents of anorexic children know only too well. I am not sure how they get periods as their 'vaginas' are closed off inside.
Yeah. Exactly. I was on hormones for something else (not trans) as a biological female, and I experienced pms-like symptoms, and it was nothing comparable to my actual pms, but that’s not called a period. My period is when I bleed. I find it odd to try and co-opt that name that has a very specific meaning.
What the hell is "period justice"? Do these people even know REAL women's bodies work?
Stop trying to change the definition of "period," you loon. And stop making up bizarre preudo-scientific fantasies about biology, too. What the hell are "forced hormones" supposed to be?
Thank you for telling the MtF trans people that the language they use when they take about getting a period is co-opting the biological female experience!! A biological male can NEVER describe what it's like to have a period, have menstral cramps, get pregnant, have a child. You can imagine and be empathetic but not an expert. Time to let biological women lead this space.
Thank you, well said.
True, they have no idea what a period is or what PMS/PMDD is and none of it's fun. I get PMDD and for any of us out there that get it, I'm so sorry and I understand, I literally had to be put on antidepressants because my anxiety would get to the point where I couldn't get out of bed to live life normally, getting anxiety attacks on the way to work each month, so until they get stuff like that, I don't want to hear it
I am so sick of this. I’m done having kids. I don’t need my period anymore. If someone wants it, they can have it. I’m so irritated that people think this way. Teachers and parents have failed them. I’m ashamed to be part of my generation who probably raised these entitled people.
I know right! Thank you. “Entitled” is the word.
😁🤪😝😆😁 Laugh out loud, hold my belly and roll across the floor in laughter is what I think about a man who claims to have ever had a period. I can’t even get mad at it. And to the rest of you real women put their who heard it don’t even give them your energy, validation or acknowledgement by getting mad at it and sharing your anger with them because they are not worth it.
Why is this my response: Because anyone who actually had a real period, or to use the technical term, menstrual cycle, wouldn’t need to make a public claim about having one. Whether you have cramps, bloating, cravings, headaches, mood swings, etc or not, because these symptoms are not the same for every woman, NOT person, BUT WOMAN, as I was saying, THE BLEEDING FROM YOUR VAGINA, speaks for itself, loudly and clearly. So you really don’t need any man standing on a soap box or screaming from the rafters or just talking out the side of his butt to anyone who will listen and validate his delusions about having a period with is a scientific impossibility: due to the lack of ovaries, fallopian tubes, uterus and ovum. Gotta all of those, not just one, not some, but all, every single one of have a period. But if you had one, you would know that.
And if you had a period you wouldn’t have a need to convince anyone of it, because you wouldn’t need, because no one would question it, because it is a natural part of being a woman, whether a woman likes having one or not. We do not choose to have a period, and we are not assigned one at birth, it just comes with the plumbing.
And I have noticed how none of these fake women refer to “their period” as a menstrual cycle. My guess would be because they know they don’t have one because they can’t have one.
But gentlemen, I personally wish you could have one😜😝, with the excruciating pain and uncontrollable bleeding that shows up when you don’t expect, when you plan it because you are trying to a political or social point, but when you are in class or at work, when you are wearing that favorite outfit and you didn’t bring a change of clothes or a pad or tampon, and you are worried about being embarrassed or worse. I wish you you could experience that, because if you could than you would probably want to have and talk about having a period about as much as we real, actual women want our real actual periods. Honestly, I would give you mine, if I could. I have never been as happy to have it as you men claim to be. But it is easy to sing the joys of bleeding once a month out of your vagina, when you don’t have a vagina and thus you don’t bleed out it.
No, I am really not angry about this nonsense of men claiming to have periods, because it is nonsense. I’m really am very amused and also a little sad that something is so wrong with these men that they would claim to have a biological function that they can never have just to feel validation and love. Gentlemen you don’t need a period to matter. We all matter. We may not all matter to the people in our circles, but we all matter to God our creator. And we, every single human that has ever lived, is living and will live, was fearfully and wonderfully made, as a individual by the creator himself and that alone makes each and everyone of us enough, whether we have periods or not. It is not better to period or not period, it just is.
As someone who *suffers* from endometriosis and severe dysmenorrhea, requiring surgical intervention, I can't tell you how this makes me feel. It makes me want to cry. Now I understand when Buck talks about his feelings about people "appropriating a medical condition." This isn't cute, it isn't fun, it isn't feminine and girly; these are ugly life changing chronic illnesses (one of the top 10 most painful diseases known to mankind), and 1 in 10 women live with it, usually with no diagnosis. The amount of suffering and grief caused by menstural/pelvic pain/sex-based conditions can not be comprehended by those who haven't experienced it.
Thank you so much Buck for your compassion. I cry whenever I hear you talk about what you went through with your atrophy, there are many similarities of experience with chronic pain conditions like mine, so I know you understand how life-altering these diseases can be.
Thank you friend. This nonsense is so misogynistic I just cannot believe more people on that community are not calling it out. Thank you for the love. In solidarity with truth❤️
100% agree. I have PMDD and the fact that men are out here trying to make our menstrual cycles a shared experience is so fucking off putting. They want to be cutesy about experiencing self-inflicted hot flashes and cramps and buy tampons for the f of it? How about they take on the 5-day cyclic vomiting, shivers, headaches, and debilitating cramps that no pain med can tolerate too? The misogyny and sheer entitlement is unreal.
I said in another comment I know a few people who suffer from endometriosis.. one had to go through early menopause in her late 20s to help combat it. I am deeply sorry you have to go through it. I wouldn't wish it on anyone. I also know people who struggled with fertility because of it. Wishing you the best ❤
So far they all define menstruation with reference to _their_ symptoms, but one of the important aspects is that an egg cell which had the potential to become an independent human... hasn't done, and is being expelled. Sometimes that egg was actually fertilized, and the period is a tragedy because it means there has been a miscarriage. Other times it is still sad because the person was trying to become pregnant. And the rest of the time, when it isn't so emotionally charged, there is still the reminder that every month the opportunity to have created life is passing by. That whole aspect of womanhood seems not to register with these people, and it is generally undervalued by their sponsors on the left. Every woman is more than herself - and whether someone's morality is pro-Life or pro-Choice, the life or the choice is significant, which means menstruation is also significant. And it's the moral weight - of carrying all of our lives - that we should admire women for, more than the physical discomfort. All of us were only one period away from never having existed.
I love your point here. I'm 31 in a few days and this spring I'm getting my birth control taken out, periods are not just an esthetic
Excellent explanation and clearly descriptive of the creative process bestowed upon women from their own birth to the birth of another human being.
That's the most poetic thing I've ever come across about this aspect of women's period that, for the most part, is overlooked, and in particular at this time, when men are literally ridiculing it.
@@Cynni393fertility and natural hormonal balance go hand in hand. It might take a while to get those back if you've been on birth control for a long time. Look up Dr Fit and Fabulous aka Jamie Seeman and consider supplementing zinc if it's a copper IUD.
Exactly! It’s the same “nothing counts unless a man says it counts” male gaze. They cannot hear how obnoxious they are because they are used to the privilege of being male.
I'm 60. I'm a biological (real) female. Endometriosis cost me the ability to have children. It was monthly (plus) misery and then left me childless and heartbroken. For a man, you know, the ones we always chastise for not have the mighty uterus (and therefore not able to address the rights of their own unborn children) to all of the sudden have a period and STILL NO UTERUS, you're not having a period. Mine stopped when they took my UTERUS.
Biological women wear. sanitary napkins and tampons because they are on their period which means they're bleeding. We do not call our period PMS.
My normal period lasted for 2 weeks , I was always a heavy bleeder, and now biological males get to tell me what a period is.
Not only that there is also the pain that we biological women have to suffer during that time. For example I am 27 years old and my period last 1 week but I have to take acetaminophen and buscapina fem, because the pain makes me go to the bathroom at the night having difficulties to sleep.
2 WEEKS?! I have 5 day periods, 14 day periods sounds like pure misery.
and they claim they know better
I think men just wanna take back control over women again lol
I know this is an older comment but my God I can relate. Birth control actually caused me to have two separate periods for literally THREE MONTHS! It was awful and so painful, I already have issues storing iron and that made me severely anaemic. Finally found a birth control that didn't have that side effect (I even needed the rod removed when trying to find birth control that worked for me because when it didn't stop for two weeks I noped out because I couldn't bare the though of going through that again, even with the doctors telling me it may settle after a year). I went on the minipill which was the only thing that we found that didn't make my periods go nuts. I actually have a daughter now because of the minipill failing (or potentially failing due to me being sick). I wouldn't change it for the world as my long term partner and I wanted kids anyway, just happened a few years earlier than planned but like I said wouldn't change it for the world, but that may not be the case for other women. This is literally something that trans people don't have to worry about, so making out they have periods too or even wishing for it is so frustrating.
I remember me and my husband were watchig a comedien years ago, and he had a bit about how women were always so quiet about their periods, if men got periods they would boast about it, shops would have to stock super max high absorption pads for how massive their bleeding was.😂😂, here we are, men not having any tact about "their" periods all over the internet😂😂
Ricky Gervase!
We have an older comdian in Germany too who said the same years ago. If men would have their periods, they wouldn't carry Tampons around in a very discreet manner. NO, the would have MATTRESSES for period pads and call their best friend to tell them that they are currently bleeding to death and they must take them to the hospital NOW 😂 It was hilarious.
I remember this, how they would boast about blood loss and how crippled they were for half the month 😂
Exactly, because quite unfortunately, it's a very male typical psychological situation... I always wonder why these "trans" people act so much like a man and not like a woman they supposedly wish to be.
It's because they weren't shamed into being quiet about it lest The Men thought they were unclean the way we were. There is a lot of shame socialised into girls and personally, I think that's why a lot of this behaviour is so jarring - a lot of trans women don't realise how shite it is being a woman and how badly they'll be treated (by men) just because they are living their lives.
Anyway, that was a tangent.
When I had my periods, since I was 11, it was very very painful, utter hell painful. Seeing creatures like these smirking about the pains, makes me very angry. I feel hurt, angry, mocked and abused by those people.
Have you tried not being a bigot? You'll find not being a bigot an excellent cure for these paranoid delusions of persecution.
@@ancuruadh6027 because the truth is bigotry. Of course!
@@ancuruadh6027Hey gaslighter, we all see right through you.
I'm so encouraged that there are 10,000 people liking this video and others from this content creator. So much sensible and mature thinking!
How on earth do you think this sort of bizarre, pseudo-scientific denial of biological reality could possibly be "sensible and mature thinking?" Buck has completely lost touch with reality, and so have you.
@@ancuruadh6027we all see your gaslighting.....
As someone with pcos, extremely painful and extremely bloody (sorry for the visual) periods have been a part of my life.
These little s***s can come talk to me when they spend 1 week every month (sometimes 2 weeks) feeling like they're being kicked in the woohhaaa, have countless underwear and pants ruined because no tampon or pad can withstand that much flow, and spend half the day in the bathroom because the intestines also decide to join the party.
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Yes! I went through a spell for about 6 months where I was bleeding through Super Plus Tampons in 30 minutes to an hour 2-3 days of my periods. Sleeping on puppy pee pads to not damage the bed because I was going to wake up a bloody mess even wearing an overnight pad with the tampon. It was awful. End up so dizzy you can barely even exist. Takes a few days after everything is over to even start to feel human again. These people have no idea what they're saying. They aren't having a period. And I wouldn't wish one on them either.
“The intestines decided to join the party”. Yes!!! I finally got an IUD to get me through till I hit menopause. The period poops were the worst😢
"Period justice" had me rolling. 😂
I can't believe that I have to repeat this over and over, but here I go:
The definition of a period is the discharge of blood and uterine lining through the vagina.
If you have cramps without discharge of blood and uterine lining, it's not a period.
If you have mood swings without the discharge of blood and uterine lining, it's not a period.
If you have bloating and constipation without the discharge of blood and uterine lining, it's not a period. Period.
Maybe they have a zit discharge periods , this is pure insanity😂😂😂
also, cramps in your uterus feel very different from gas cramps.
@@graceg3250 Absolutely right. Uterine cramps can't really be compared to anything else, it's a very unique sensation.
Absolutely, maybe translunar periods for them is nose bleeding, just sayin‘😊@@graceg3250
If you have XY chromosomes and you're bleeding from one of the holes you were born with between your legs, it's not a period, it's a problem. Go see a doctor.
The last one really was the most offensive. You said it perfectly, they were never invited to the table. Forcing yourself into the discussion and telling women how it is in their own space is wild to me and the exact opposite of being any type of "ally". Suddenly now that biological men want to pretend to have a period its a serious topic to fight for time off work and all this other stuff?!? They really need to get back into whatever lane they belong in and stop trying to dismantle all the progress that was fought for by both the LGBT as well as women. We do not want you wrecking our space like you have the LGBT. Get. Out. Thank you Buck for being such a solid well rounded human being ❤
I don’t understand their obsession with wanting to have one. I was on birth control for years to avoid it and was happy as hell when I got a hysterectomy
As a woman who is currently on her cycle and lying in bed because of cramps, I cannot tell you how much these people piss me off. No ovaries, no uterus, no eggs, no lining equals no menstrual cycle. A woman’s body was intelligently made, from our hormones to our body parts, around our ability to carry children and continue the human species. Nothing will ever change that.
Hello! I’m a transexual guy and I don’t have periods anymore but I remember how painful and heavy they were, I felt like I was dying 😢
@@cartergomez5390please seek help. I pray you learn to love yourself. God made you perfect just the way you were born.❤❤
@@kimt1776 I love myself the way I was born but still a transexual guy, that doesn’t mean you don’t love yourself and I also love God. Throw another one at me.
@@kimt1776 No hate quite like a judgemental Christians attempt at love. I suggest you re-read your Bible. Not judging your neighbor needs to be more firmly planted in your heart and mind. Weird thing to say to someone being kind and showing empathy... on a trans man's channel. How did you even end up here? Or does Buck also hate himself in your eyes? 🤔
Don't be disguising hate as fake kindness for no reason, it doesn't land like you think it does. It makes you sound arrogant, fake and uneducated. Not every trans person denies their birth sex or experiences prior to transitioning. Projecting negativity that you feel towards extreme leftists onto others accomplishes nothing.
I suggest you pray for yourself before praying for others. If you want a hand finding verses to aid in your growth out of that place, let me know, and I can name some. (I study both the Christian Bible and the Tanakh daily, in both personal and work life.)
Please do better. 🙏 Jesus would be deeply disappointed in you if he could have witnessed that as you hit send, and we both know that is not something you want.
@@cartergomez5390why did you transition if you don’t mind me asking. I assume that at some point you must have deeply disliked yourself /your female body. To damage yourself physically and hormonally in such a way. Assuming that you are taking testosterone that is. Taking the opposite sex hormones is very dangerous. The prevalence of type one diabetes in trans identifying men is ten times that of gen pop. I’m sorry if my question sounds disrespectful , please understand that I’m genuinely curious and concerned by this recent explosion in teen girls transitioning. It’s so clearly a social contagion, similar to the virgin suicides of the 70’s, aneorexia outbreaks and even tik tok Tourette’s more recently. If it wasn’t then there’d be as many if not more older women transitioning too. That doesn’t mean that what you feel isn’t real or valid. Just that you’ve been grossly let down by the “medical” industry.
Imagine a man telling women what a period is or is not and how does it feel. The ultimate disrespect.
Cultural appropriation
Our society has forgotten the word NO!
Imagine mansplaining a period... To a woman... Who has periods. Bad ones at that. When did it become acceptable to validate people's delusions? We need to open state hospitals again.
@@Kinosec-10 Yes that is also true!
BTW Luv you name! 🙂❤
...single fathers and male gynecologists exist
Insanity. Period is actually a biological phenomenon. WTF is wrong with people.
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Period justice portion just was wow … blew my mind . Thanks for your advocacy the right and truthful way .
I AM NOT CIS. I’M A WOMAN.
Thank you, Buck. I’m so happy you’re here in the world as a voice of reason. 💗💗
Exactly how I feel. These people can do whatever they want, but NOT at the expense of half the population eg biological women
We need to stop using the trans word “cis”. We are all male and female; if you are trans and act like (but are not actually) the other gender, then you are a trans male or trans female. Trans women are not women- stop appropriating female culture!
I didn’t even know what CIS meant I had to ask my 17yo daughter ffs y can’t I just say I’m a person 🤷🏻♀️ wtf would these people who have their “period” without a uterus do if they had to suffer what it’s like to have endometriosis where u can’t even move with extreme pain. I’d actually love to hear their answers on that.
Right there with you sista.
The moment cis was used, I said I am not a cis. I'm a woman. "She" freaks when somebody uses the wrong pronoun. Do not use your "preferred" descriptions on me.🤬 I needed meds to get through two + weeks of each month. I'm so glad that's done with. By comparison menopause has been a breeze. To my sisters who suffer with this I hope you get relief.😪
I have had heavy 7 day periods from day 1 with cramps, vomiting, bloody accidents, and humiliation. Some women have unbelievable periods and need to stay home. I had heavy periods; but, did not become bed-ridden with cramps and never took off work for it. When I was 56 yrs old I had fibroid tumors in my uterus and was put on birth control to slow the excessive 10 day periods with a super tampon and a maxi pad overfill in 1hour. I got anemic and then a common cold turned into pneumonia and I almost died. 30 days in intensive care in an induced coma for the pneumonia. Then 4 month recovery before I had a partial hysterectomy to stop the period problem. And I still went through menopause because I kept my ovaries. So, no I don't think trans-women should have a voice in the female reproductive issue.
My periods were like that too. I am still anemic.
I get very nauseous, lightheaded, fatigued, shakey, and I feel really drained and just generally unwell. My cramps get so bad, I roll up into a fetal position in my bed with a heating pad. It is horrible! They have no idea and quite frankly, they couldn't handle it!
they don't have a female reproductive system ... only a male one
As a woman who started their period at 10 1/2, yes you read that correct, and had a complete hysterectomy at 30 years old I can say that I DO NOT have a period anymore and I take hormones as well. It’s my understanding trans women take estrogen and progesterone. So do I. I don’t get a period. And I am honestly offended that what we women experience with our period is treated so flippantly. I had heavy bleeding for five to seven days every three weeks. Add in the migraines, exhaustion, breast tenderness, nausea, sleep deprivation, and stomach issues and I had maybe two days a month that I felt good. Not to mention when they did the hysterectomy and removed my ovaries I had a cyst that was pre cancerous. A pre cancerous ovarian cyst at 30 that most likely would otherwise have not been noticed in time. Women run the risk of getting and dying from ovarian cancer, uterine cancer, cervix cancer and breast cancer. In my opinion all of women’s health issues were put on the back burner for years and now they are being mocked. I am not a cis-woman or a terf and I think labeling us as such just adds more evidence to the complete disrespect women receive on a daily basis and have for decades. You want to say you’re a woman, great. Don’t disrespect biological women in the meantime. It doesn’t make you more of a woman to get a period. But mocking women by pretending to get a period makes you an asshole.
Anybody that argues that misogyny isn't alive and well and prevalent today needs to be directed to the Trans Women bs. It's insanely disrespectful
Misogyny never went away. It might be somewhat improved in Western countries, but has continued unabated in the rest of the world.
I’ll be honest this actually makes me insanely angry. I have struggled since I was 13 with hormones and my period. To have a man say that they have a period and they know what it feels like is extremely insulting. I am now going through perimenopause and it is hell. They have their own thing they are going through and they need to stop taking from women. These are very sick individuals. And we are women, not cisgender!
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I don’t want to offend, but I feel like woman are having to fight for their existence again. But my observation is that trans woman have that confident male energy that woman don’t have, like how men hold so many positions of power, I see this generation of trans woman having have same level of confidence…
Are men experiencing any similar situations? Like are trans men being as pushy?
I don’t know how to articulate this.
I just feel bad for trans people experiencing any hate because of this minority of people
@@ashpash2977I haven’t seen trans men being nearly as aggressive or pushy as trans women. In my honest opinion, I think there’s a heavy undertone of misogyny in modern day trans women. They seem to want to be above women and tell them that they no longer have any voice in their own spaces. It’s very aggressive male behavior and entitlement disguised as wanting to be a part of the woman club.
@@ashpash2977My honest belief (and I'm not speaking about all, I'm addressing the loud minority of buttheads online and in media) is that the male ego cannot be destroyed with hormones. A transwoman still has a lot of advantages compared to biological woman. This is hardly talked about loudly within the community. And why would it? Men don't want to be put down or have competition, so the prominent transwomen follow that same route. (And by prominent, I mean the ones who put women down and call themselves superior)
I’m suffering my period right now and I have something called dysfunctional uterine bleeding, I’m lying on a folded black towel (a huge one btw) atm, afraid to move, the pain is so bad all I can do is lie here in bed and pray that tomorrow my bleeding has slowed so I can go to my uncles funeral. Every time I go to the bathroom right now, it requires a clean up of blood from toilet seats, blood drips from floor, changed underwear, changed pyjamas (everything has to be BLACK btw), scrubbing it from beneath my fingernails and NOT being able to get it out. That’s how much blood there is.
My hips hurt, my back hurts, when I stand I feel like my uterus will fall out. There are huge chunks (the size of Oreo cookies) of blood clots and lining falling out of me. I can’t go out because I bleed through everything (toxic shock syndrome means no tampons btw) and I can’t sit anywhere because I may stain seats. All I can do is lie in bed for days and wait for the worst of the week to pass, having to pretend to men in my family like I’m NOT bleeding and just tired. I don’t sleep for days because every half hour it’s a pad change, I’m afraid to sleep for the worry of waking up saturated, of the worry of standing and blood running down my legs, staining my bed, my carpets, and getting everywhere (and it’s happened) - and then the rush of having to clean any of that up before someone sees it of course.
And these transwomen think their fking period is valid and they suffer MORE?!
NO. Just no.
It makes me so bloody angry they need THAT much attention they fake THIS, and act like they suffer MORE. They can’t BEGIN to understand and they should feel BLESSED they never will.
I had uterine polips and had severe bleeding and pain. Once removed, it got better. I experienced the tons of blood everywhere plus insane pain. ..
@@vikicha13 nhs won’t help me and just told me to “get on with it”. They told me I’m not entitled to a gyno because I’m not in a relationship. Can’t afford to go private so have been left to suffer. I can’t even make an appointment for any condition that they don’t consider “an emergency” as sinxe covid they’ve gotten away with GP blocking. Basically it‘a something they’ve just condemned me to endure.
I had bad periods when i was younger. No where near what you're going through but i would be on the bed rolled in the fetal position with a bucket next to me for 3 days. I was a heavy bleeder and also slept with a towel under me. Thank got it mellowed out in my late 20s. Now in my late 30s i feel kinda normal. I dont understand WHY people want these. I was always so sick and miserable messy and uncomfortable. Its gross. Ill say it. Its frickin gross and messy. And they WANT it. I just don't get it.
It's sad to be made to feel like you have to "hide the evidence" from men in your family.Maybe they should see it so they know exactly what you are going through.I went through the same thing you are I hope it gets better for you.
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Yeah that made me more sad.
If men are as strong as they say they are then why do we always need to shield them from the truth and all our suffering?
She shouldnt have to hide any of it especially while goong through H_LL....
She should be helped.
But no, we face these traumas alone while still taking care of men, but are STILL called w e a k!!
As a former woke liberal, who is so disenchanted with the direction the Democratic Party has been going (especially the last few years), why do these people feel comfortable demanding other people’s attention? It’s obnoxious. They are what I think of the liberal agenda because too many people have let complaining, unwell people steamroll over them. Thank you Buck, you and Blaire were actually my first introduction into more conservative thinking, and you reinforced that we all need to think for ourselves, not eat up what someone else demands of us
“You were never invited to the table” great quote from Buck
Why would anyone want a period is beyond me? I'd happily give mine up in a heartbeat!
Same!!!!
It can be achieved via meditation, check out toltex school or the book, the good darkness to learn more
They don't want a period. They just want to validate their "womanhood" by appropriating something specific to women and girls and twist it into whatever they want. Everything that defines a woman has to be adjusted to define them. It started ever since these people (not trans people, the psychos pushing this) came for the word woman and it's not going to stop there.
This!🤣
I’m with y’all girls.
"Why don't you not call it menopause? Why don't you not call your period? Why don't you call it something else cuz those two words are taken.." I love this guy 😆.
The one saying justice, periods are much more than what you think. A menstrual cycle, is every month (cycle). Menstruation is the ripping away of the uterus lining once a month, when they have not got pregnant, bleeding from the vagina for 5-7 days. Some are lucky and the bleeding is minimal, other have severe flows, crippling abdominal and back pain. Buck, you are amazing calling these idiots out.
The words "man" and "woman" were taken and meant something specific too. You can't tell people they can just take and change some words but not others. This is what happens when we let females call themselves men and males call themselves women.
I'm a transsexual from Canada who works as a night cleaner at a hotel. I transitioned in the late 90s and I have to put tampons in the guys washroom. Funny thing is I'm the only one calling this out at work because everyone is afraid to call out this idiocy. This does not happen its all in there heads. I will say I experience some mood swings and hot flashes but that's the end of it. I seriously praying 🙏 that 2024 is a better year where our community snaps back into common sense, but I seriously think it's going happen. This nonsense has to stop.
Bless you. I hope the transition improved your life. Thank you for being real.
Nurse here: you never know, a gentleman could have a nosebleed in the Men's lavatory.
@sandydenman6083 it true did but wasn't rushed and spent many years before my final decision .
I hope you are doing great now!
@rhondastephens2036 things were OK till all these clowns started redefining the whole trans experience. It's made things more complicated going out day to day 🙃
It's pure psychosomatic symptoms...you can't have muscle cramps of the uterine system if you don't have the organs/structures in question. It demeans actual menstrual cycles and the troubles that can happen.
have to say i have huge respect for you, i really appreciate the down to earth common sense! being able to accept reality and understand that it's ok would be so freeing for them
You are such a breath of fresh air. This society is infected with this nonsense to a point of dystopia. Thank you for actually making sense. Through your content I have learned that not all trans people are critically broken beyond repair. Keep up the good work…
Thank you friend ❤
I feel so bad for transsexuals, and I’m so glad that I know the difference now. I wish everyone understood this, especially my fellow “progressives” who support this movement.
You said it best in this video, Buck - "There's nothing funny about it. Its such a private space (for women to have a menstrual cycle)..". YES. Its never been fun, its nothing to gawk at, and half of women dont experience intense pain. For a man to put it in light and dramatize it is exactly what I never wanted as a young woman, or a grown one now.
Idk I felt intense pain when I was cramping every month during my period. But, I noticed after giving birth that my cramps now every month don't hurt as much.
I’m on my 7 th pregnancy and for me sadly it’s gotten a lot worse. But I have good support network
I'm experiencing perimenopause right now... Menopause is so close. That's coming after decades of monthly, sometimes irregular, menstrual periods. Part of the experience for females... Exclusively.
Thank you again Buck! You are so loved ❤.
I am a former trans female to male. When I started hormones in 2012, someone in a transmen support group corrected me when I used the term “biological”. They told me to use “cis”. That was the first stupid thing I heard. I told people that I wasn’t a biological male. I was a transman. Throughout the nine years that I was on testosterone, I saw the trans community get crazier and crazier. I abruptly stopped the hormones in 2021. Them and they? Biological men stating they are getting periods? Trans women going in women’s sports and spaces, and teaching and confusing children in schools about transgenders, and more. I think you are one of the few transgender people that I like because you state things as they really are and you don’t tiptoe around all these growing demands of orientations, pronouns, and this craziness that has seeped outside into the minds of undeveloped children in schools.. It’s is great to see you pushing back at this. We need so many more trans people on both sides to push back on all this craziness. Transwomen, biological males, will never understand because they never had periods. I am done tiptoeing around the trans community. We are starting to see more young people regretting. All this craziness will backfire and cause the transgender world to self-destruct.. It will also hurt biological gays and lesbians and then more people will resent transgenders.
Thank you!!!
I'm so happy that you're talking about this Buck - I know a lot of trans women and a few of them will say they're experiencing period pain and PMS and stuff like that - and it always offended me and I couldn't figure out exactly why it offended me...
I think part of it is how periods are often actually traumatizing for biological women - and I don't understand how someone who was born biologically male will even know what period pain feels like, because the pain comes from an organ they don't have... for some reason it's upsetting to me, and a few other bio women who have opened up about it..
trans women, please don't say you're having an experience you're not having - you don't HAVE to have periods to be valid - just be honest.
Even my friend that’s a trans man finds this insulting. If you’re not ovulating, you’re not getting pms. If your uterus lining isn’t shedding, it’s not a period.
If you actually know any of these people that are like these people in these videos buck talks about please put them in their place.
Like what Rachel said on friends, "No Uterus, No Opinion". Buck, you are amazing, and you always keep me informed about these narcissistic people. Keep up the good work! 👍🏻
Im glad you are willing to tell truth and show the proof about alot of things that they hide that is hurting the children
I always described my period cramps like being “stabbed with a dull ice pick,” simply for illustrative purposes. I had uterine fibroids, so mine were more severe than most and occasionally left me vomiting, curled up on the floor of the shower because lying in bed meant that I would bleed everywhere. On everything. At its worst, I was bleeding through HEAVY DUTY ADULT DIAPERS every hour. I had hot flashes. I gained so much weight. I was always bloated. I had gender dysphoria. The tumors in my uterus were eating all my estrogen and progesterone and caused what I like to describe as a cross between menopause and masculinizing HRT (I had high T at the time but didn’t know it).
Trans women can experience PMS symptoms. This isn’t a new thing since it’s caused by hormonal fluctuation. But the cramps? Those are gas pains. If you have never had a uterus, you could never know the pain of having uterine muscle contractions so severe you can’t stand up. You’ll never know what it’s like to have to literally throw out clothes almost monthly because there’s too much blood to clean up. You’ll never know the shame of wearing light colored pants and starting a week early. It’s so disheartening to me to see people claiming to experience something they could never physically experience.
I've been through the fibroids thing...my symptoms weren't as bad as yours, and I thought that it was hellish. You really did go through hell. When I finally ended up in hospital and found out what was going on, they asked if I got dizzy (no) or very tired (a little), and they were amazed that I could function. I was just used to it, I guess. The one doctor that I spoke to gave uterine artery embolization as an option, which I ended up having, and it was a life-changer.
I wish these "women" really did menstrate. Since they do not they need to shut up and stop complaining.
I feel your pain, I had the same problems... can't imagine how anyone would actually want to have this.
You cannot experience PMS (PREMENSTRUAL SYNDROME) if you do not have A MENSTRUAL CYCLE! They are not female!!!
They are experiencing symptoms of taking cross sex hormones! Ffs wtf is wrong with humans being absolutely idiotic!
😂😂😂 delusional craziness. Stop insulting stop degrading real women with real periods real menopausal systems.
No trans bleeds. No womb no eggs no uterus no connection to female biological DNA. Stop GASLIGHTING women.
What in the hell is “period justice”? “TERF rhetoric?” STFU. Thank you Buck, great reaction as usual.
So, I'm a transexual woman and about 9 months into hrt, my body started rejecting the estrogen that was taken in the form of patches. After running some tests, my endocrinologist found that my hormone levels were similar to a menopaused woman. So yes, I had hot flashes, I was getting tired more easily, I was a bit short tempered, but no, my reproductive system was not slowing down, because I don't have a uterus and ovaries. My doctor also warned me that even though I take the same amount of estrogen weekly, my body will not absorb it as efficiently as I grow older, which happens to everyone. Our bodies will all slow down as we get older, biological male or female, but this is not a trans woman going through menopause, because we don't have the equipment providing the hormones, this is the body EMOTING. Yes, I do have hormone fluctuations on a somewhat monthly cycle, but this is not menstruation, this is just the body doing its thing. I don't get trans women talking about tampons. It's okay to support access to female hygiene everywhere. You don't need to co-opt the whole thing to be supportive.
Anyway, thanks Buck for once again showing the world that not all trans people live in rainbowland. The sooner this trend is over, the sooner we can just walk in society without being automatically label non-sense cultists just for trying to be ourselves. The world needs to know that more than ever because we are currently losing ground in social acceptance because of all the nonsense on social media and it saddens me.
Thank you for this comment, my friend! ❤❤
Thank you for adding this. It's nice to hear from sane trans women.
@@KCo-eh3zeyes please! We need their voices to drown out these attention-seekung childish dupers!!
What an intelligent and balanced point of view. Thank you lovely lady. This is the kind of Trans Woman I respect and like.
The idea of a vagina fashioned out of flaps of skin with no self cleaning properties, makes me feel ill.
A real vagina would self clean. If you have sex where does the sperm go? It goes nowhere, it ends up just festering away and eventually smelling gross.
Buck, I just love you! Thank you for being the voice of reason. You are doing a great job. I would love to see more acceptance and you are doing a great job TRYING to explain to them how that can be more possible. ❤
If a man claims to have a period, I don't think I would continue having a conversation with him.
Why are you inventing imaginary men? Not to mention, why do you think anyone would want to have a conversation with you, when you are clearly out of touch with reality?
@@ancuruadh6027these types of males were included in the video, so I assume it's a reference to those type of males. No need to be mad
I’ve never been angrier in my life than hearing a man say “yeah, we should get time off work for periods, right ladies?”
I have to be on medication bc I was dry heaving over a toilet for 2 days per month…which started when I was in middle school.
I have to be on birth control pills to handle the pain it is the only thing that seems to help me
@@karahershey Same, I’ve been on it since I was 15. At the time, I also had such heavy bleeding that I was anaemic, & it also helped with that
I have PMDD and I'm miserable for 2 weeks before. I'm restless and tired at the same time. My moods are crazy, irritated, headache, nausea and diarrhea. I get it. I'm 39 and got my period at 11 and have had those symptoms since the first one. I'm also anemic from heavy flow. I quit birth control last year. I'm terrified of blood clots. I'm fat too.
@@shawtygotlo1same here. I got on birth control when I was 18 solely for my periods. While it has reduced my more severe symptoms, my periods are still pretty awful. Well, at least I don’t have ovarian cysts anymore. Small blessings.
I had awful hormone imbalances with precocious puberty, to where I was bleeding heavily and I couldn’t get out of bed my cramps were so severe, I would’ve loved to have that week off from school every month
As a biological female who is still female, I appreciate people like you speaking out against the stupidity of some of these ignorant people. Thank you.
I sure wish I could think my way OUT of getting a period!! I adore you Buck. Thank you for saying everything out loud that needs to be said on these topics.
I'm a woman and I won't pretend to know how excruciatingly painful it is to be kicked in the ⚾️🏀.
I DO know what it's like to be a 10 year old girl sitting on the toilet passing blood clots while vomiting in the trash basket because the pain is so bad. Then being told that you will spend one week a month, for the next 40 years, enduring this torment.
Me too.
Exactly
Also being told we are overreacting etc.
Been there, done that...way too many times to count! No man will ever experience this and he should be grateful.
I had horrible pain every month for decades with my period. That is something a man can never understand. I am so sick of this. But of course women had better not say a word. If we do then we are transphobic. Enough is enough. It is time for women to take back women's spaces.
Oh I'm hugging your inner child so much. That must have been absolutely horrible as a little girl going through that. 😢
I’ve never been angrier in my life than hearing a man say “yeah, we should get time off work for periods, right ladies?”
Male entitlement at its finest.
Yeah and they choose to do this to themselves... Not to mention that they don't have the reproductive system to have the period they are complaining about... Since menstruation is about renewing the lining of the uterus, which they don't have, they can't menstruate... And therefore can't pre menstruate... Also called the period
It’s a species of mansplaining, too. 🙄
Show of hands, (well, metaphorically) how many of us biological women showed up to work, school or other function while having an actual period? In pain, fearful that you'll bleed through a pad or tampon, not being able to get to the bathroom to attend to your sanitary needs when necessary? And these clowns want time off for fake ones?
My heart goes out to all the women who suffer with fibroids, endometriosis or other female related issues that cause their periods to be agonizingly painful and with excessive bleeding. I was lucky to have never experienced those issues, but I can imagine how insulting this is to them.
@@cymbelinebritain6799
100%
Killing a DEFENSELESS baby in the womb for convenience..WOMEN ENTITLEMENT SO EXTREME IT'S SURREAL
Thank you 🙏 and thank you for not calling us ‘ciswoman.’ I HATE that term, no, I am a woman, nothing cis about it. Biological yes, not cis.
I would like to see men calling themselves - non-women.
These people do a total injustice to the true trans community . Thank you for speaking the truth !
You know... If i missed my period, but still feel some discomfort and the emotional stuff, im pretty sure i don't call it a period, i just call it a hormonal imbalance.
right? these people are HORMONALLY IMBALANCED... because they are taking hormones not meant for their body its pretty much bound to happen. its like they are completely obtuse not to realize whats actually happening. its not a period. you're just imbalanced from the hormones you are taking (that may be fighting with your bodies natural hormones)
When I was peri-menopausal, I had blood pouring out of my vagina so that I had wear double protection, which only lasted for about half an hour. These periods went on for weeks. Even the pill didn't help. It was painful and so embarrassing. Believe me you do not want this
I find it offensive and even insulting how those people claim to have period pains when in reality they don't have any. They can't. They indeed might have hormonal fluctuation, because of added hormones to their bodies but those hormones doesn't make them grow fallopian tubes, uteruses and other female organs.
I always had extremely painful and heavy periods, now is my first year without them thanks to progesterone because I wasn't able to enjoy daily life with weeks or months of pains. I might sound pretty upset, because I am and on top of that I have flu and fever 😂
Oh yeah and I'm not a menstruating person, nope, I'm a woman. 😂
Absolutely friend ❤
Thank you for being a voice of reason. So many in that community are just gaslighting and coopting the language. Even at my work now, whenever we have professional meetings, they want everyone to go around the room and share their pronouns. It isn't necessary and it feels more like a "test" to see who is willing to play along with this nonsense and who might need to be sent to the re-education camp for more indoctrination...
I just can't deal with these AGP'ers! They are so insulting to real women. If they had a single clue how much a period suks or how much menopause suks they would learn to shut the heck up!!
Love you Buck for exposing all this crapola.
Thank you ❤❤❤
I beat cervical cancer, and I have endometriosis. It is absolutely debilitating. I'm now on the depo shot to try to control the bleeding and pain. Just like when that trans woman said that she wanted a uterine transplant so that she could have an abortion. I have lost several pregnancies because of my endometriosis, and because my cervix was removed I can no longer carry a baby to viability, so seeing stuff like this offends me beyond belief.
Please research Xiang gong, it‘s a special Qigong exercise that is easy to learn and might help with your problems. Learn it live from a proper teacher, the videos online are bs. All the best.
I mean, if you still call a trans-women 'she', you deserve to be lectured by a biological man of how he has as valid experience of womanhood as you. That was what started this madness in the first place.
There are no trans-women, just biological men who have deep-seated issues and pretend to be women.
.....did they really said that...?
I cant.... W O W!
The ment@l.
I have severe pains during my period to the point of nausea and beyond! They can certainly have my period if they want it lol
Look up a book called the 'period repair manual' - it's really good and might help you.
Im so happy you exist. Very truthful. You will be greatly appreciated by soo many
Bleed from your uterus for five to 10 days without dying and I may begin to consider calling you a... wait, you don't have a uterus. Yeah, no.
Hello, I've been following you since I saw you on Unapologetic with Amala Ekpunobi. I love the work you do and value everything you have to say in this field.
Thank you friend ❤
I feel the same way about Buck. His voice on these matters is so important! And how could anyone NOT like Buck?! He's one of the most likeable, genuine, caring people ive come across on TH-cam and I will always support him in any way i can! I found Buck through Blaire White ❤😊
I'd like to see Buck back on the Amala podcast with someone worth his time to debate. Blossom derailed every convo with race.
@@KCo-eh3ze yes! Ugh it's hard to listen to, much less see Blossom! She's just NOT likeable at all.
Are you kidding me? No, this person has no idea what they're talking about. Oh my God, this is why we need you Buck, This is why we need you Buck❤😊
Not this is why we need BUCK. We have a brain. And hopefully an intellectual way to work things out for ourselves!
Good straight up dose of sanity right here. Well and succinctly put.