were under an extermination. hunger games, the purge, heck even hazbin hotel all show it. the hunger games started much like how the mr beast squid games started!
When my daughter was this age she needed permission to get her ears pierced. I can't believe the world we live in now. If I had to do it all over again I think I'd probably home school. I'd work with other moms to form a homeschool group. To keep the kids safe from what's going on like this, like school shootings, I can't get over the world we live in now. :(
@@AmbivalentMindI get comments censored too. Is there a way you could change some of your words by putting in things like * instead of using all the letters or things like that? I'm going to try. Wow, so because you are a detransitioner you are getting censored? Wow. That is insane and so wrong on so many levels.
@@AmbivalentMind same. Mine are deleted daily. I cant comment on anything about this because I seem to be red flagged especially on here and also I was BANNED from X for talking about child marriage in the massive Muslim religion... billions upon billions of people. Yet I cannot say a word about it. My comment here likely will get taken down as well. Its really sick. This is censorship at its very finest.
My friend is a medical malpractice attorney. He said they're getting ready for the HUGE influx of cases where patients and families go after these doctors.
Good and find out if they will go after doctors that use LUPRON on children. I took it for 1month even though they push for it to use every 3 months and let me tell you the terrible side effects. LUPRON is given to children as a puberty blocker but they also give it to others like my gynocologist pushed it on me to allegedly shrink my uterus fibroids. I elected to just take a month shot instead of every 3 months and it was the worst experience on LUPRON in my entire life mentally they give this to kids ....
Yeah, for some reason, aspies are affected by body dysmorphia. I think they just want to fit in and they figure might as well go all in if into a certain thing.
I don’t think at that age they don’t know what they want, not mature, and why besides money are the surgeons doing that type of surgery, they should think twice about it and lose their license.
Our main problem is being deprived of identity, that's called depersonnalisation. We feel like we don't know who we are but at an atrocious deep level. Also, we always have to erase and restart with new people because of the social anxiety. I can't explain you better English ain't my mother tongue. Maybe it's not the same for everyone but maybe this is quite approaching the reasons why so many if us end being ''born again'' by transitionning
As an autistic person, I can say being uncomfortable in your own body is part of the package. That doesn't make me trans. That just means there are things about being female that I don't like. I hate that there are people convincing autistic young people that they are trans. We have enough problems without that because we are trying to survive in a world that is too much, too fast, too loud, etc. for us. I think whoever put that kid up to having that surgery should go to prison, and those doctors should have their licenses revoked as well as face prison time.
We’ve stopped telling kids that puberty sucks. How can you feel comfortable in a body that’s changing daily? This information used to be part of health class.
I remember hearing about it in health class. Unfortunately that health class was a little too late because it was in sixth grade, and I had already gone through the worst part of puberty in fifth grade. It doesn't help that autistic related social and emotional delays as well as sensory issues don't play nicely with puberty or the female cycle at all. Not to mention the raging hormones that all teenagers get regardless of whether they are developmentally ready to deal with them or not. My cycle played hell with my sensory issues for decades until I got on birth control for PMDD which affects autistic women disproportionately.
As an autistic female myself I’m appalled at this insidious “gender affirming care,” especially with the autistic population. I think more like a guy & most of my friends have always been male, but I am heterosexual & I don’t now, or have I ever, thought I was born in the wrong body for my brain. It’s medical malfeasance for these doctors to be doing this to young people, especially those in the vulnerable populations. This story is so disturbingly sick & twisted. Those doctors are devoid of humanity & should be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law.
Pretty sure they call it "top surgery " because most the people can't pronounce "double mastectomy " especially kids. But top surgery is easy sounds less threatening too
@@Shannon_Robbie don't know hiw it is when one has surgically been transformed to a man, but, in an interview I watched quite a while ago, the young woman did say that she is experiencing problems with keeping her surgically created vagina open. Maybe the surgery was not as successful as planned but it does raise questions.
@@ElisabethChytil-hw4fs The horrifying thing is, that's normal. It's not a vagina, it's an open wound trying to heal so they have to "dilate" it every day to prevent that. It's barbaric. 😢
Very likely there is no way to detransition from a surgery gone wrong like this. They won't find any tissue to reverse things. Maybe only a ileostomy to help in this specific case...?
There is no way to go back. That's part of what makes these surgeries so dangerous. People have to understand the role of surgeons. They are not supposed to be people's primary healthcare person, so they aren't going to follow along with these pts for years. They should attempt to fix any issues that result from this surgery, but the, many are out of their depth with complications and aren't humble enough to bring the case to a different specialist. There is also an inherent disincentive to admit to any complications because all surgeons want to "keep their stats up".
Just like alcohol laws, no one should administer transgender surgery before the age of 21 years old. However, the transgender movement is about achieving the depopulation goals of UN Agenda 2030. Hospitals, doctors, and psychologists are being given monetary incentives for the castration of our young, instead allow at least 1 year of therapy prior to hormonal therapy/surgery and the full disclosure of lifetime side effects and pharmaceuticals due to this irreversible surgery..
It has the highest rate of complications, of any cosmetic surgery. Even worse, it's sold as NOT just being "cosmetic", even though it's being done to people in perfect physical health, without any evidence-based diagnostic criteria. The ONLY other time in recent history, where surgery has been use to treat psychological issues, is when they used to do transcranial lobotomies- Now considered EXTREMELY unethical, and one the 20th century's worst medical scandals.... Pretty sure we're seeing the 21st century's worst medical scandal, with so-called "gender affirming care"...
I stopped wanting any trans surgery when I heard about the revision rate. What absolute bs. I will not use tax payer money to go from 36aa to inhumanly flat with massive ugly scars that will only look worse in 20 years. It’s not masculine.
Hi Buck. I have a sibling who’s autistic, 16 years old, and believes they are a trans-man. I’m suspicious it’s more to do with feeling discomfort in their own body due to autism. When she went into school one day, they put a set of pronouns on her desk. She came home saying “I’m non binary”, that then changed to “I’m a trans man”. It just came out of the blue one day. The doctor did a 30 minutes assessment and handed over the papers for my parents to consent to Lupron (hormone blocker). My parents haven’t signed the papers. The psychiatrist has now blocked my parents from participating in appointments because where I’m from there is no age for medical consent. If my parents want to participate in these appointments they must have permission from my sister. This is what’s happening Buck.
Please tell your parents to look up the smpc (summary of product characteristics) for the different forms of Lupron, check which conditions and which kinds of patients it's approved for (NOT for transition!!!), and what the side effects have been in the patient groups they have studied (NOT physically healthy people who used this for transition). Your parents should ask whether your sister's use, which would be experimental, is part of a clinical trial and if so, what the clinical trial number is and where they can find all the official documents from the FDA about this clinical trial. Your parents will learn and should try to get your sister to see that puberty blockers have ONLY been approved for precocious puberty (a physical health condition where a very young child starts puberty, before age 9 for boys and 8 for girls or something along those lines) and for adults with certain types of cancer or severe endometriosis, and in those cases they try to only use the drug for a short period of time like some months, NOT years, due to the risks of (severe) side effects. I think these drugs work on the brain, so this shouldn't be taken lightly. There's other ways your sister can minimise the effects of female puberty: she could perhaps go on a form of birth control where she can reduce her periods or even temporarily stop them (this is also by using drugs and this should be carefully thought about too!), she can work out targeted areas/do specific workouts to get a more androgynous body for instance by working on losing any excess ph. at if she's currently larger, weight training for her upper body etc. She can experiment with fashion to find a style and type of garments that minimise areas of the body she doesn't like, and she would do well to meet adult lesbians and adult tomboys to learn it's ok to be a masculine woman, that it's ok to be gay.
Also: if I were your parents, and also you if you feel like it, I'd keep a diary/logbook of all of this for future reference if your sister finally comes around and starts blaming y'all for not protecting her, etc.
I'm a nurse I've cosigned hundreds of surgical consents. So I looked up and watched male and female bottom surgery. I also looked into the history. These young people aren't even remotely getting the preop teaching they need for a valid consent. Including the fact that this is highly experimental surgery with a very high complications rate. If this surgery was being preformed on animals the animal rights people would be screaming and busting into labs to free them. But no we are experimenting on the most vulnerable amoung us. I am so very sorry these young people not only died but suffered years of torture before their deaths.
They actually are doing these surgeries on animals and we are fighting to save them. Sadly, so many people are brainwashed to think these surgeries are "necessary" just as people are brainwashed to think meat is "necessary" or that humans are omnivores (we're frugivores). The brainwashing from lobbyists paid for by corporations and these surgeons is outstanding. It's killing us, the planet, everything
There cannot be informed consent if patients are not being informed about everything that can happen, the complications and side effects that occur with these procedures. These doctors are lying by omission.
@@mariewheeler5626 She or he (the nurse OP) did not co-sign for trans surgeries. He or she is merely saying that she/he is a professional who works in surgeries and knows what a true, valid consent looks like. And that based on his/her research the people who have undergone these surgeries were not given enough education to consent to these procedures.
We need to blame the politicians, the doctors, the so called gender affirming clinicians, and the extreme trans activists for this atrocity shame, shame , shame!
The whole freaking “most prestigious professional organization for American pediatricians “ has been endorsing this stuff for years. And there is absolutely NO. EXCUSE. Any physician who did nothing to stop the craziness of this and just went along with the whole sick, un-scientific program deserves some kind of very serious, sobering consequences.
I saw a Walgreens ad yesterday about a kid getting his flu shot and Covid shot, and I got upset. I realized I was so ANGRY at the actor playing a doctor because doctors have been so dishonest about so much in the last few years. I’ve been a nurse for 30 years, and I cannot imagine what these poor kids have been through, and we are still allowing it to happen to more misguided patients. It is infuriating, and shameful, and I’m embarrassed by the actual malfeasance that is being promoted as medical care. It is truly sadistic.
My niece is 19 years old and autistic. Last year, she wanted to be a man and changed her pronouns. Within one freakin year, my sister helped my niece get top surgery, and she's trying to get bottom surgery. I am so disgusted with my sister for being a terrible mother. Me and my family are really worried about this girl changing her mind when she is older and regretting what she did.
Her mom should be ashamed! Granted she may think she’s doing the right thing but she should have done a lot of research before supporting this nightmare .
Ive always told my kids if it cross there mind think strong and hard on it due to the permance of it and the off chance u regret it i wouldnt just automatically accept it unless its of true certanity it who they are
99% of mothers that do this to their children are horrible and depraved. My cousin did the same to her healthy straight (he wasn't fem at all) 9 year old boy. So so sad. She dresses him up in 50s cos play. I've never seen him smile since before this. It's heart breaking. These women have munchausin syndrome bi proxi
My child has autism, had typically’enthusiasms’ which last approximately 2-3 years at a time. At 16, came out as trans, I fought it, 2 years later, he woke up and said he was happy in the skin he was in, I thank God I fought and stopped the speed of the medical system that wanted him to transition immediately. Autism needs time, it needs to be treated separately. I feel your pain watching this happen 😢
My daughter has aspergers. Around 7 she wanted to be a boy. A year later..a bunny. I'm serious. She never wanted to change herself though. It was like she was just curious about what it's like to be someone else. Being autistic with special interests..I shielded her from that gnostic idea of mind over body..where one can just will their bodies to be something else. I thank God she never went down that road.
no, you know why they wont get to prison right away. People believe in consent until the consent form is signed. These adults or parents of children signed consent forms. If you do NOT hold the ones accountable for signing the consent. Do you know what consent forms do??? They cover the doctors butt for liability. Im sure you have signed several consents in your lifetime. Does it excuse the doctors? No but it does remove responsibility to some capacity. Doctors cant perform any surgery without consent forms. However every person has the opportunity to say no to surgery before any forms are signed. That choice is never taken away. People always want to blame the doctor but never the one who chose it and consented, literally never. I always see people want doctors held accountable only. You will never see things change if you dont hold the person who consented accountable. The parents are 100% accountable for their children and if they continue as adults, then it falls onto their shoulders as adults. They're essentially already breaking the oath to do no harm but its become socially accepted by many to do so. If you know anything about law and medicine. Doctors and any medical personnel have medical malpractice insurance and they pay a LOT for this. They have this insurance because people would want to charge them for just about anything, even if its within the bounds of ethical medical practice. They also have really good lawyers. So it would be a case that would spend a lot of time in court rooms. Choices ALWAYS have consequences and when you consent to these treatments. It doesn't come free of consequence for either party. Sometimes I think the lifetime patient is a consequence enough. However I dont believe anyone should die at the hands of doctors and failing the patient in their hands, I want to be very clear about that. This individual did not deserve to lose their life and sadly it make take these cases to turn another page that society is refusing to admit to right now; of what consequences are there of these surgeries.
I work with autistic young people, they are extra vulnerable to exploitation. I am so upset for Yarden, I wish I could make him feel better but its too late. Thanks for highlighting the tragic, horrific, abuse that these vulnerable people are put through. One day we WILL bring those responsible to account. Keep ALL receipts.
I work with autistic kids and I’m an auntie to an autistic nephew. My nephew is happily married and has kids of his own now. But when he was a kid he was mercilessly picked on when he was a kid. As he got older he was confused about who he loved. I told him I didn’t care if he dated boys or girls, I would still love him to pieces. Maybe confused isn’t the right word. I know my brother in law couldn’t handle the fact that his son might be bi. He actually hated the notion. And told him so on many occasions. So it might’ve been fear of what his parents would do if they found out his truth. The kids I’ve worked with have been through similar situations though not necessarily going through what my nephew has. But the stories are similar in that someone treats them differently because of who they are. And none of it right. Even if any of them do make this choice, they deserve to be treated with respect. To botch a surgery like that and then not care for him after these so-called doctors ruined his life and health is beyond comprehension.
I'm glad you are talking about these situations because they usually go under the rug. The only one that hit prime time was Jazz-s surgery that had to be redone.
These are horrible stories but NEED to be told. Thank you Buck for talking about them. This is not gender "affirming". Its diabolical what these surgeons are doing to young people. 😢
The sad thing is, these surgeons are getting huge kickbacks from the government for every single sex reassignment surgery they perform. Most people don't know this. This is part of the agenda to destabilize the traditional family. These poor children are suffering unimaginable physical and emotional pain, all to promote this sick agenda. 😢
Big pharma is making money hand over fist off these poor young people. If someone “transitions” or even de-transitions these young people will be on medication for the rest of their lives. Also let me just say that I honestly don’t think any of felt good about ourselves during puberty. It’s just part of life.
My generation always said “love the skin you’re in”. Love yourself. You don’t need others to validate you. You just need to love YOU. It’s okay to be however you are. Please stop thinking that changing yourself is the answer.
I'm so happy that real transgenders like you Buck and Blaire White are promoting the TRUTH despite the vitriol from the tolerant left. Chloe Cole is another young woman who is speaking against this madness. You have my full support. Subbed!
I think you'd probably find that Buck, along with Blair White, Marcus Dib and others, would prefer to be referred to as transsexual and not transgender. The former is a non-delusional person who recognises the fact they have a mental disorder and will never be able to change their biological sex. The latter is a fully delusional nutcase following nothing other than a trend which is causing inconceivable harm to young people with impressionable minds propped up by a collective of militant activists who will take extreme action against anyone who oppose their narrative.
We won’t know for a very long time, if ever. When people question the ethics of the new and flourishing specialty of gender care, they are told they are transphobes, it’s hate speech, etc, etc. so people were afraid to speak up.
What makes it even more heart breaking is that a lot of these young people are encouraged to isolate from the people who truly love them. The ones who would be most likely to report and speak out. That will also make it harder to track
The fact that these doctors don’t follow the “do no harm” policies anymore is frightening. Thank you, Buck, for bringing these stories to the light. Someone truly needs to.
As a gay man, I always knew I was a man and wanted to grow up to be a man. But, there was a while when I thought that, in order to get a man when I'm older, I'd have to be a woman. Even though I had no desire to be one. I could easily see kids transitioning for many reasons NOT related to gender dysphoria
I am a woman but when I was a child, sometimes I wanted to be a boy, just because I thought boys had the better deal in life. Also not dysphoric or anything.
Me, as a gay man aswell, was very confused when I was young for not being as masculine, competitive and very into girls like my other male friends. And I questioned myself a LOT why I behaved more likely as my mother and older sister than to these friends... Many of these kids are being hit with the old propaganda "your life sucks? Here's the solution!" that we all know it's a scam but they are too inexperiented to know that. But the sad part is, if you disagree or point out that is wrong, they call you transphobic etc
I'm autistic, as the boy in this video. A few years ago, I found various places such as Reddit communities that made me think I was a male and that I was born in the wrong body. Of course, this is when I was at my unhealthiest, mentally and physically. When I got diagnosed with Autism and started going to therapy, my "gender dysphoria" had dissipated. It's scary to think what could have happened if my parents were more "accepting". Although I'm glad that transition has helped the lives of so many people, like Buck Angel, I think we need to be extra careful when transitioning those with mental disorders, like myself. Especially younger people, like the boy in this video. RIP
It distresses me as an older autistic woman (45) to see that nobody explains to young autistic people that everyone feels weird in their body when young, but that it's especially complicated for an autistic young person to adapt to a changing body during teenage.
A bit of gender confusion is a normal part of maturing. No way should any surgery like these be done Untill a person is at least 18. How can one say they don't want to be something that they have yet to experience? Even 18 is probably still too young.
I'm autistic almost same age as op and it's ok to have the gender and sexuality confusion but ultimately you figure out what makes you happy and comfortable. I dealt with a pronoun user they're insufferable
This is Crazy......2 young people dead before age 25. I think that people with autism are very very easily convinced that this is an option to their problems. I feel so so bad for the detransitioners whose lives have been changed forever. As you say all of the time....... more and more gatekeeping and like you had Buck comprehensive therapy and living at least a year in the other gender than your biological sex.
I am autistic and could see how i could have been influenced in this way as a kid. I suspect that autistics tend to have a different relationship with gender that makes us very vulnerable to the ideology.
Every autistic girl I know immediately falls prey to the stupid “nonbinary they them” thing after meeting some of those, no matter the age. Autistc guys have more sense for some reason, and they want to act like it’s hateful to gatekeep transition for people who “changed pronouns” directly after watching a drag show, which isn’t even trans by the way, it’s people who want attention and i struggle to understand why drag is so important to the “community” we have to involve children in it.
@@robertmontgomery1310More of these people need to speak out. But probably the fear of embarrassment and ridicule stops them. They need to know there are people who care and support them. How many more painful deaths until something is done.
This is exactly what I’ve been thinking through this entire video. There are plenty of us that have been talking about the risks of this kind of surgery, but people get so indoctrinated into the group think and don’t listen to ANYONE other than those that are parroting what they want to hear. And then the ones speaking against it are called phobe$. Idk what the solution is, but I do know this won’t be the last sad story we hear like this. There is a push to have much younger children going through these surgeries, & we will sadly see many, many more cases turn into tragedies just like this poor kid.
@@NicoliRavioli117 I feel sorry for the kids that this happens to. But no matter what we say, we are the biggots until its too late. They will call us names just the same for warning that this might bot be the best way to go of you are still under age/ hormones/ brain hasnt fully developed yet etc..Just look at what happened to JK Rowling.
That's how liberals operate in the face of reality. I'm not sorry for a single trans person, because if you are not smart enough to grasp the reality of trans medical procedures, no matter what rosey picture doctors are painting, then you are literally too stupid to live and deserve everything you get.
Unfortunately, most people in the psychiatric profession push “gender affirmation”. It’s the equivalent of telling a schizophrenic that all of their delusions are real. My wife is a psychotherapist and she is disgusted with the psychiatric “community”.
@@SuzyQ528 You can get great counselling at the clinics. A counselor is cheaper than a psychologist or psychiatrist. You can go to them at any clinic that's meant for low cost care. They aren't qualified for meds, so they can't push them, that's what I meant by they can't push meds. They are only there to listen to you and help you walk through your issues. My son loves his.
As an exnurse I find it utterly reprehensible that surgeons are doing this to young people in confusion. They need all the love and support to help them find a path to health and happiness. I am disgusted predatory surgeons are capitalising on all this confusion. Its vulture like behaviour, not healing.😢😢😢
Unfortunately, it seems surgeons don't deal with mental health or ideological mumbo jumbol they just operate on demand per schedule and without full disclosure on the surgeries they 'perform'. They're paid to, it seems, via insurance 'scams' do the job. Butchering, in this field, by any other name. Grotesque and shame on their greed and lack of scruples
It’s not just surgeons it’s a whole money making system. There is pressure in Australia for psychologist,psychiatrists etc to support this gender confusion. Even laws that say you “must affirm their identity” if they feel like they maybe the opposite sex. Yet we have always been taught to explore such thoughts in the past.
I am a sepsis survivor from having my breast implants removed after they made me sick. I felt my body dying and was saved by an infectious disease doctor. It was horrific and terrifying. Being so close to death changed my view of life.
@@Ladybug5915 big extremely mindful of it sweetheart. It is recurrent. Especially within the first two to five years. Don't underestimate anything. If you feel feverish go to the doctor and let them know that you had sepsis before. The mortality rate is horrifying. Just really pay attention to your body and don't be afraid or ashamed or embarrassed to go to the doctor even more often than you probably need to because it is something you must pay close attention to. My beautiful and wonderful wife of 21 years died a year and a half ago from sepsis and I am still not doing well at all
Look she said "he wish someone would have lead him and giving him hope by saying he's perfectly fine the way he is in his own body " We've tried that , we get called transphobic and blasted out of context.
True, and states have to be performative (Minnesota) by virtue signalling about what they refer to as conversion therapy! POS Walz did that over three years ago and made it a big news deal! This state has been opened up to every vile, debased "sanctuary" supposed seeking population!
The number of supposedly straight people that are trans activist and fully support this criminal mutilation is global. These activists will not be told and will not accept facts, even when its even from obituaries like this. They will side with the Doctors who have become very rich while the deluded & confused transitioner is fatally ill Human race is on a rapidly increasing spiral to the ABYSS and OBLIVION
I would love to know the whole story. Who performed the original surgery and where was it done ? Some folks in the USA get cheap surgeries done abroad then return home too quickly, resulting in complications (aka disasters.) And did he actually refuse any repair options doctors needed to do ? Some things cannot simply be 'put back' once removed. I ask these questions because I know someone for whom this became a reality. He made a hasty decision, flew to South Asia for surgery, returned to deal with infections and a huge amount of regret that the work could not just be 'put back.' Sadly, he chose to take his own life. B., RIP. We need to go back to 'transitions' being rare, adult only, and surgery being preceded by YEARS of mental counseling and therapy.
@@allthingsharbor this is not surgery but body mutilation... it's also criminal to lie to people and tell them they can change s e x, that's not possible. these 'surgeons' should never do this to anyone
I was just diagnosed as autistic last month. This absolutely breaks my heart. I swear the trans lobby is targeting autistic people. It's maddening and heartbreaking.
Be weary of accepting any identification "they" give you. You're just a person. Just a life. Just a soul in a body trying to figuring out things with your own attributes and obstacles. Don't identify as anything.
As an RN and an ally to the LGBT community I am posting this with nothing but your best interest at heart. YOU CAN NOT CHANGE YOUR $EX. What a surgeon creates to replace your removed male appendage IS NOT A V@GINA and what a surgeon takes out of your female body and replaces with some grafted skin and a pump IS NOT A P3N!S. Transgenderism is clearly a real thing but it's rare and people who truly have these feelings and have body dysmorphia have to first and foremost get a highly qualified therapist to help figure things out, and move on after that with medical transition if that's the best course to take. And by medical transition I am NOT talking about bottom surgery. If top surgery is needed to alleviate the distress associated with body dysmorphia then by all means that's something to work though with your therapist before making a final decision on that.
Yes, and vaginas are mucous membranes, not skin. It sounds like it would end up like the folds of obese people's skin, getting fungal and bacterial infections because skin does not do well when it stays wet/moist and touching other skin. It begins to break down. Mucous membranes are meant to stay moist, skin is not.
Thanks so much for making people more aware of the horrors of "bottom surgery". I was a nurse in Miami. I would be floated to a surgical ICU the staff called "the Frankenstein unit". It was filled with bottom surgeries gone wrong. We got them flown in from all over the world. I used to fake cry and fake illness just so I wouldn't have to work there.
It's 25 but yeah. They worry you will regret it or change your mind. I had mine done at 25. You have to sign a paper a few months in advance to prove it isn't a rash or impulsive decision.
Yeah... This is so absurd. Women can't tie their tube even though tied tubes can be reversed, but if that fails, there is still IVF since you can still retrieve egg cells from ovaries with tied tubes. ...... But gender surgery, that is irreversible sterilisation.... This really doesn't make sense.
I had to sign a paper saying I knew and agreed to my then partner now husband having a vasectomy even though he was 39 and we had 4 children ! This is in UK and 25 years ago so might be different now but just goes to show how much has changed!
Sad? ?Nah, he let himself be convinced that he was a female in a man's body and didn't listen to the "transphobes". I don't feel any sympathy for this guy and he was old enough to figure it out for himself. Sure he had some form of autism but the same goes for me and I managed to reach the age of 47 with learning from my own mistakes and even have a normal life with a family.
Thank you for sharing! This is so sad!! I have a son (living as a trans woman), who wants the surgery and I’m praying he changes his mind! I’ve been saving videos like these to share with him because he needs to be informed! 🙏
Please tell your son that an old granny from the middle of nowhere wants him to know GOD DOESN'T MAKE MISTAKES. He is exactly who he was created to be. He's Blessed to have such a wonderful Mama. I'm praying for both of you. ❤❤❤
Transexual woman here. Yes...a therapist is a great thing, but, is only one piece of the puzzle to dealing with gender dysphoria. It also depends on what therapist you go to. The first one I went to was a certified psychologist. She pushed hormones on me within 35 minutes of meetings her. However, the second person I saw was a therapist. Yes she was liberal, which made me skeptical, but she never once pushed anything on me. We were there to figure out why I was having those feelings and we went over everything about my past that I could think of. We left no stone unturned. She never once said I was transgender. Your child needs to find a therapist that will help them figure themselves out, one way or another. It's not about convincing your child if they are transgender, or convincing them they are not. It's about seeking mental and emotional counseling to make sure the decision they are making is right for them. Convincing someone who is a transexual that they are not a transexual, is just as damaging as convincing someone who is not a transexual that they are one.
These "doctors" took an oath to do no harm.... They are... They broke their oath and they are still in practice.... Key word, Practice... Horrifying... Absolutely horrifying.
Gender AFFIRMING care would be to help him to come to terms with his body not to mutilate it. Adolescents with autism innately understand that they are different than their peers and often suffer with feeling of loneliness and rejection. The new “woke trans culture” promises acceptance and community but the cost of admission is the sacrifice of your body and self.
That is not what gender affirmation care is. By definition, from WebMD, it is "Gender-affirmation care refers to treatments, ranging from surgery to speech therapy, that support a transgender or nonbinary person in their gender transition."
@@GiraffeLoverJen The medically misleading definition of AFFIRMING care is kinda my point. The medical community has abandoned providing the care needed to help patients come to terms with their biological gender. They are no longer even trying to do this. Instead they’re affirming children’s false and likely transient beliefs with treatment protocols that are irreversible, largely experimental and carry with them very high rates of complications and adverse events like cancer, cardiovascular disease and more. True persistent Gender Dysphoria is exceedingly rare and the medical community’s participation in medically transitioning large numbers of gender confused kids while ignoring their underlying neurological, emotional, social or psychiatric needs is unconscionable and unethical. They are taking physically healthy children and turning them into permanent patients who will always be dependent on the medical system to treat their artificially created life long chronic medical condition. These permanent patients will also most likely require ongoing medical interventions to address the damage done to their bodies and to treat developing illnesses resulting directly from this “Affirming Care”.
Great job keeping up this IMPORTANT conversation!! I have 4 grandkids I and talk to them all the time about what is going in the world. Kids need to be able to get TRUTHFUL information!!!
Had this been a thing when I was in HS in the 90’s I might’ve been doomed, because being SA’d made me not want to be myself. I blamed it on my body but there was no real outlet for that. People weren’t normalizing drastic body mods and tomboys becoming dudes. (I’m not trying to disregard anyone in true dysphoria) I just think a lot of untreated SA vics are going to find themselves in this situation because it’s the thing right now.
Im a trans guy and I’d like to imagine I could find a tomboy or feminine man to be with but they all think they’re “they thems” or extremely low-effort trans men or women.
Buck, as an old Lesbian, my heart goes out to these poor victims, their families and to you.. We never thought our struggle for equality would turn into this bur lately, I've had my doubts about if it was worth it. Some people blame us and our fight to be free to live and love, how and who we wanted for this crisis. Jeez, were we just so naive, to believe that things would get better? Ugh..every time I see a story like this my heart becomes so heavy. 💔
I'd say things did get better, so much better that the pendulum swung too far. Instead of being attacked for being gay or trans, it's become popular, a fad, and anyone who speaks out against it is villainized as a homophobic right winger.
I hear ya. Same with the women’s lib bs, I joined right in at 17, just wanted to be free. Found out too late, o took the wrong road, no family, no children…but hey I’m free!?!?! Much love.
This isn't the fault of the LGB community at all, IMO. This is the fault of the activist medical quacks that seek to profit off the pain & confusion of the people they swore to do no harm to. Just my cis hetro-normative opinion.
A 15 year old isn't old enough to buy tobacco, alcohol, or get tats because they are not old enough to make those decisions but they can make a decision to chop things off that can kill them? what sense does this make? Thank you for sharing.
Thank you Buck for caring about our children. And bless you for your sacrifice and bravery to speak against these assaults against the most vulnerable of our precious youth.
There are mothers who are having their child’s fathers criminalised for not wanting their sons mutilated, is there really any hope for society when there are mothers who care more about looking woke, than they do about their children’s welfare.
@@seewobble7048 no, at night when I try to sleep, I have trouble because I hear the cries of the perishing. I have to tell people about the Gospel of Jesus Christ. He loves you, and wants you to come to him just as you are. He doesn’t want your money, he doesn’t want you to memorize a rule book. He wants you to be part of his family.
@seewobble7048 It’s not a cult. It’s a way of life, depending wholly on God and Jesus for your redemption by His sacrifice on the Cross. It’s a choice, a gift that you can accept. I would like to add though, there are cults who use the name of Christ to control their subjects. Also, even if you think believing in Jesus is a cult, there is no justification for mutilating children.
Buck, thank you so much for what you do. This poor kid had surgery at 19, fucking heartbreaking outcome. Horrifying. I lived as a proud ftm on T for 4 years and had mastectomy. I was planning my phalloplasty consult when I found your TH-cam channel. The first video of yours I watched about bottom surgery shook me to the core, and I realized that we really are Guinea pigs to these surgeons. They get to have fun like they’re playing with play-doh made of body parts and ruin peoples lives and walk away consequence free. These surgeries should not be so freely accessible. The fact that it’s being done on children, literal babies as young as 12, is just truly evil. Once I discovered you and Blaire honestly I deconstructed my whole identity. I’m now 8 months into detransition and so much healthier in every way. I am so relieved I didn’t pursue the hysterectomy my ex was encouraging me to get. Thank you for making these stories known, the world needs far more people like you
As an Autistic person, I'm deeply hurt by what he went through, at around the same age I hated my body and wanted to transition but I didn't have the money and my parents were strict, I eventually got psychological help and ended up choosing to not transition, I realized I wasn't trans, and now that I'm watching TH-camrs like Buck Angel, I realize that I made the right decision, all these botched plastic surgeries are scary, we cannot let greedy incompetent Doctors do this anymore, most are in it for the money, they don't care about people's well-being.
I hope this insanity ends soon. The doctors most definitely must be punished, but so should all the politicians who are complicit in supporting this ideology.
I shared this with 3 of my trans friends... one of which is detransitioning and we support her fully. They are heartbroken that cowards now run the medical field and are affraid to be thorough and and confident this would be the right move. Due to a fear of being a bigot or something else
The mainstream media goes out of their way to make sure we don’t hear these stories. I’m so grateful to Buck for making sure these people aren’t forgotten.
Lost my best friend of four years a couple of months ago because of my political views. I didn’t even bring it up and I’m not even that much of a conservative. It was just the fact that I was a centrist that made them leave. They also said that they wanted to be trans and went be he/him. He would get mad at me when I accidentally misgendered him and when I told him about the dangers of getting bottom surgery (that he said he wanted but did no research on) he was like “welp anything to be a boy. Who cares.” He would threaten me with SH and suicide if I said anything or tried to help him. He even influenced me to be trans, not speak to my family, get surgery, and cut myself. My mental health was so bad when I was friends with him and I’m glad it’s over now. He was 12 when I cut him off finally. I’m so thankful that you speak up about this type of thing.
@ProchoicePeopleAreSociopaths Let's hope he grows out of it 🙏🏼 amd doesn't end his own life before he does. This is so sad. Have been Terrified for my Grandkids being in Cali schools. Thank God Trump won. Hopefully all this gets turned around and people can recoup their sanity.
@@TheUnderCoverMother2020 Thankfully my parents wouldn't allow me to until I was older. But still, if they had said yes, my life would be very different rn.
THANK YOU so much for spreading awareness on this. 21 years old. This is completely unacceptable and AVOIDABLE. Thank you Buck, you are doing something very important ❤❤❤❤ RIP Yarden, you didn’t deserve this❤❤
My son is a 35 year old high functioning autistic. He's really nice, intelligent and fortunately did not grow up during this crazy time of gender confusion. The autistic have challenges connecting with the average neuro-typical individual. But despite their challenges trying to understand and relate, they're as deserving as anybody else to have a connection with another person. To take advantage of their loneliness and confusion, as they try to fit in, and make them lab rats and permanent pharmacological customers is horrific. God will judge them for these crimes against the innocent! I'm just heart broken 🥺😭!! Thanks buck, love you!❤
Like your son, I was blessed to be born before this became a trend. It's hard for us to find a way to fit into the world, and puberty is often even worse for us than for non-autistic kids.
This is absolutely heartbreaking 💔😭Rest in Peace Yarden❤️I’m soo sorry for all the suffering you went through. This should have never happened! I can’t believe those monsters are allowed to do surgeries on people without giving full disclosure of the risks and that it doesn’t actually change your sex biologically, nor make make you any happier to begin with in most cases. They should have an obligation to say all that and to reverse the surgery if asked and to keep the patients safe during and after surgery. Absolutely unacceptable! Thanks for raising awareness Buck you’re amazing as always❤
This is fucking tragic. This poor poor kid, he must have been in so much physical and emotional pain. Thanks Buck for sharing his story and giving him a voice.
This is absolutely heartbreaking. We should be able to trust our health care providers... much love and many prayers for, Yarden, all he loves and his final wishes. Lord hear our prayer.
My daughter has been living as a male for the past 5 years. He is now 23 and really wants top surgery as well as bottom surgery. I am so terrified that something like this will happen to him. This is so horrific. So many young people are being butchered by doctors. Please pray for my child. I pray that he won’t have this surgery. I’ve heard so many stories about regrets that most people have about surgery. Thank you and God bless all of the people who regret having surgery. God help them.
Buck! Well done! Thank you for being a resounding & positive voice on this issue! I’m standing giving you an ovation & a nod of gratitude & encouragement. Please don’t stop standing for truth! I’m a veteran professional educator and I cringe at the way the world is regressing. YOU are a reason for me to have hope that things can turn around for the better. This is a precedent conversation that you’ve lead and you are making a monumental difference. I’m proud of you! A+!
As an autistic person, I can also vouch for the experience of discomfort in my own body. Thankfully(?), I was born in the 80s and this sort of rhetoric wasn’t being pushed for profit during my teenage years when I struggled with my mental health and developing female body. This was LONG before I knew I was autistic. I was diagnosed this year after years of internal and external struggles. There is a part of me that is very much at odds with the adult female version of my body, as I have always been very sensory and easily overwhelmed by attention. Adding puberty, and the sexualization that society brings with it, amplified that discomfort that I still deal with to this day. Although it has become easier to manage now that I am aware I am on the spectrum. Had I been a teenager during this current time, I could certainly have seen myself becoming confused about my gender identity and believing myself to be trans and “experiencing gender dysphoria,” since a lot of my awareness and discomfort are around my female sex organs, especially my breasts. But it’s not because I am uncomfortable being a woman, it’s because I’m uncomfortable in my adult body and being perceived by the world (that latter part has always been). I’ve always been a “tomboy” that had to grow into feeling comfortable in being perceived as a “woman,” but it has nothing to do with my gender identity or being trans, if that makes sense. It is because I am autistic. Now, obviously I can’t speak for every autistic person, this is just my personal experience. But I have often thought my discomfort in my body growing up during this time could have had dire consequences and my heart goes out to Yarden, his family, and all who suffer from misdiagnosis. It is a real thing! I grew up in an era where trans people had to fight for their rights, like Buck has stated, and were medically vetted by multiple professionals for what seems like YEARS before transitioning in with the goal of passing or being stealth. The way trans identity has been turned into a fast food industry of gender reassignment for profit by the medical industry at the expense of human lives is deeply concerning. And I also want to say, I allow for there to also be valid trans autistic people, but I think the number of people identifying as “trans” is a huge problem because I don’t believe all of them are trans, but dealing with many other mental health issues, unresolved trauma, and/or sexual kinks, as Buck has stated in many videos.
This is why "be careful what you wish for" and "the grass is always greener" stories are so universal. If you could magically have all the things you think would make you happy, it usually doesn't fix all the problems you have within yourself. You have to work hard to change yourself inside and your mindset and better yourself.
@@ConservativeGrouchThat's not even close to the same thing as gender dysphoria 😑. Please educate yourself before making such vapidly stupid comments.
I'm actually so very surprised my 14 yr old daughter hasn't been sucked into this trap. Every single feeling these kids say she feels too like not being comfortable in her own body and she just wants to be normal....those feelings are real but with proper help it can be worked through. She's proof of that. She's so susceptible to things it's a literal miracle she hasn't gone down this path
Pretty sure that's normal for teenage girls to not be comfortable with their bodies. I went through it myself, but only ever went as far as crossdressing before growing out of it.
@piranhapout she has autism and severe ADHD. Her being influenced is really easy to do. For a girl who goes through puberty with autism is way different than when I went through puberty. And not only that she grew 5 inches in a few months which made her gain a bit of weight. So she went from 5ft 3 to 5ft 7 and 115lbs to 140lbs. She has stretch marks places I didn't even know you can get them like behind her knees. She's been able to channel her uneasiness and uncomfortablity into volleyball because she dominates from her height and power. If she didnt have volleyball I just shutter.
Please please educate her, talk to her that 99% perfect is also ok even less that that too,she’s your daughter that’s perfect enough,you love her, her family loves her, she’s made the way she is for a reason, please please do everything you can to encourage her otherwise, with love from someone who also cares
i have autism too. i was uncomfortable with myself in a different way (not my body, but i felt EXTREMELY ugly and weird). of course girls growing up in this new generation have to worry about so much more in schools. peers telling them it's absolutely normal to transition and anyone who tells you otherwise is a bigot. it must be so scary but please keep reminding her she is beautiful ❤
This is beyond heartbreaking. And gross malfeasance. Buck, please keep sounding the alarm until all our young ones are protected! Thank you for all you are doing!!
The trans activists are as guilty as the medical profession who are as guilty as the politicians. Years ago I said that lawyers will be rubbing their hands together. I have a teenager and have had to deprogram her on a regular basis so she remains grounded in reality. This stuff is rammed down their throats every day. The schools are on the bandwagon, social media etc etc. All guilty Maranatha
Buck Angel…. I stumbled upon your channel today & I have to say THANK YOU! Thank you for bringing light to how lethal both physically & mentally this whole child mutilation epidemic that’s going on! My heart is broken for these souls suffering & these mutilators should go to prison for life. A life for a life! 💯💯💯
Changing the oath and twisting this treatment into helping against a problem. When most often it does not. As the problem remains. And they just add another one.
No Buck. You DO NOT APOLOGISE FOR THIS. this is a god damn public service you are performing. This shatters my heart. How the F is this ok ? How ? Pls. This beautiful angel lost his life. Omg. I can’t even. 😢
As crazy as it sounds, these doctors aren't hurting one bit for patients. They are incredibly busy with people that completely believe they have gender dysphoria.
Not only has the medical industry ignored the needs of autistic individuals, in general, they are even using them as guinea pigs. Can’t describe the extent of my contempt for medical practitioners that do this.
Having real clarity gives me a different angle on this. Stoicism is the antidote for this. The more stoic you are the less susceptible you are to outside influence. These people are being manipulated by their doctors and they system.
I actually scrolled across something similar to what you’re talking about at 4:59 on Facebook last night. A trans woman made her last post on Facebook talking about how she wishes she was happy and apologizing to her ex wife and kids. And then her obituary was shared 3 days later. Very sad.
We wouldn't let a 15 y/o get a tattoo...but we'll let him take life altering hormones. SO messed up.
frfr, hormones should be taken at 16, and surgery at 25; WHEN YOU HAVE A FRONTAL LOBE ! :disstressed:
>nonawolf7495< it's a highly experimental surgery too.
were under an extermination. hunger games, the purge, heck even hazbin hotel all show it. the hunger games started much like how the mr beast squid games started!
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When they are 25 I am pretty sure they will change their minds
When my daughter was this age she needed permission to get her ears pierced. I can't believe the world we live in now. If I had to do it all over again I think I'd probably home school. I'd work with other moms to form a homeschool group. To keep the kids safe from what's going on like this, like school shootings, I can't get over the world we live in now. :(
Modern day lobotomies. We’re gonna be judged so hard in a few short decades. Rightfully so.
@@AmbivalentMindI get comments censored too. Is there a way you could change some of your words by putting in things like * instead of using all the letters or things like that? I'm going to try. Wow, so because you are a detransitioner you are getting censored? Wow. That is insane and so wrong on so many levels.
@@AmbivalentMind Its Google that owns YT. They are very much pro censorship and anti-free speech.
@@donnaknudson7296And isn't it infuriatingly disgusting that we have to play these bs word games!? I wonder why we continue to tolerate it?
Mine get removed too. It's universal censorship!! 😡🤬
@@AmbivalentMind same. Mine are deleted daily. I cant comment on anything about this because I seem to be red flagged especially on here and also I was BANNED from X for talking about child marriage in the massive Muslim religion... billions upon billions of people. Yet I cannot say a word about it. My comment here likely will get taken down as well. Its really sick. This is censorship at its very finest.
My friend is a medical malpractice attorney. He said they're getting ready for the HUGE influx of cases where patients and families go after these doctors.
I sure hope so. That's the only thing that could possibly stop this damaging trend.
Hey🤷🏽♂️u wanted your 🍆 chopped off. Sounds like a YOU problem, sodomites. 🥰
they asked for it tho unfortunately
Good to know that these attorneys are readying themselves for this because we are DEFINITELY going to need them.
Pray for these men and women!
Good and find out if they will go after doctors that use LUPRON on children. I took it for 1month even though they push for it to use every 3 months and let me tell you the terrible side effects. LUPRON is given to children as a puberty blocker but they also give it to others like my gynocologist pushed it on me to allegedly shrink my uterus fibroids. I elected to just take a month shot instead of every 3 months and it was the worst experience on LUPRON in my entire life mentally they give this to kids ....
My son is autistic, he changes his mind a hundred times per day.
Yeah, for some reason, aspies are affected by body dysmorphia. I think they just want to fit in and they figure might as well go all in if into a certain thing.
I don’t think at that age they don’t know what they want, not mature, and why besides money are the surgeons doing that type of surgery, they should think twice about it and lose their license.
This crazy this about feeling people never do this wrong in God's eyes 👀
Autism is a NO GO. a diagnosis of autism IS THE PROBLEM. NOT GENDER DISORDER. As a female I will not suffer autistic maleborns in my restroom.
Our main problem is being deprived of identity, that's called depersonnalisation. We feel like we don't know who we are but at an atrocious deep level. Also, we always have to erase and restart with new people because of the social anxiety. I can't explain you better English ain't my mother tongue. Maybe it's not the same for everyone but maybe this is quite approaching the reasons why so many if us end being ''born again'' by transitionning
As an autistic person, I can say being uncomfortable in your own body is part of the package. That doesn't make me trans. That just means there are things about being female that I don't like. I hate that there are people convincing autistic young people that they are trans. We have enough problems without that because we are trying to survive in a world that is too much, too fast, too loud, etc. for us. I think whoever put that kid up to having that surgery should go to prison, and those doctors should have their licenses revoked as well as face prison time.
Thank you❤
We’ve stopped telling kids that puberty sucks. How can you feel comfortable in a body that’s changing daily? This information used to be part of health class.
I remember hearing about it in health class. Unfortunately that health class was a little too late because it was in sixth grade, and I had already gone through the worst part of puberty in fifth grade. It doesn't help that autistic related social and emotional delays as well as sensory issues don't play nicely with puberty or the female cycle at all. Not to mention the raging hormones that all teenagers get regardless of whether they are developmentally ready to deal with them or not. My cycle played hell with my sensory issues for decades until I got on birth control for PMDD which affects autistic women disproportionately.
THNK YOU!!
As an autistic female myself I’m appalled at this insidious “gender affirming care,” especially with the autistic population. I think more like a guy & most of my friends have always been male, but I am heterosexual & I don’t now, or have I ever, thought I was born in the wrong body for my brain. It’s medical malfeasance for these doctors to be doing this to young people, especially those in the vulnerable populations. This story is so disturbingly sick & twisted. Those doctors are devoid of humanity & should be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law.
I dont think it should be called bottom surgery , i think we should call it what it is and that is genital mutilation .
But many people say they're happy and it's functional.
Pretty sure they call it "top surgery " because most the people can't pronounce "double mastectomy " especially kids. But top surgery is easy sounds less threatening too
@@Shannon_Robbie don't know hiw it is when one has surgically been transformed to a man, but, in an interview I watched quite a while ago, the young woman did say that she is experiencing problems with keeping her surgically created vagina open. Maybe the surgery was not as successful as planned but it does raise questions.
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Umm ummm umm 🤔. Sad society
@@ElisabethChytil-hw4fs The horrifying thing is, that's normal. It's not a vagina, it's an open wound trying to heal so they have to "dilate" it every day to prevent that. It's barbaric. 😢
So that’s why doctors say detransitioners are rare - they refuse to let them detransition.
I’ve also read that there has been little to no tracking of people AFTER they’ve done cross-sex hormones and/or surgery.
Very likely there is no way to detransition from a surgery gone wrong like this. They won't find any tissue to reverse things. Maybe only a ileostomy to help in this specific case...?
There is no way to go back. That's part of what makes these surgeries so dangerous. People have to understand the role of surgeons. They are not supposed to be people's primary healthcare person, so they aren't going to follow along with these pts for years. They should attempt to fix any issues that result from this surgery, but the, many are out of their depth with complications and aren't humble enough to bring the case to a different specialist. There is also an inherent disincentive to admit to any complications because all surgeons want to "keep their stats up".
No why would they... they are experimenting on these children. You also might not hear a lot from them because they commit suicide
They’re becoming more and more common
And people have the cheek to call you a transphobe. You are an educator and a voice of reason in the midst of insanity.
People need to realize that gender can not and should not be treated like a fashion. Sadly, that's what is happening these days.
They invent diagnosis just to market cray like fashion...you are absolutely 💯 correct ❤
Just like alcohol laws, no one should administer transgender surgery before the age of 21 years old.
However, the transgender movement is about achieving the depopulation goals of UN Agenda 2030.
Hospitals, doctors, and psychologists are being given monetary incentives for the castration of our young,
instead allow at least 1 year of therapy prior to hormonal therapy/surgery and
the full disclosure of lifetime side effects and pharmaceuticals due to this irreversible surgery..
Gotta be in with the "PRIDE MONTH" crowd!
Looking into the fact that this was first attempted during Germany in the 1930s
"Shake what ya Mama gave ya." It has meaning !
Has anyone had a SUCCESSFUL bottom surgery?! Every story I hear about it is tragic! Why is this surgery allowed?
It has the highest rate of complications, of any cosmetic surgery.
Even worse, it's sold as NOT just being "cosmetic", even though it's being done to people in perfect physical health, without any evidence-based diagnostic criteria.
The ONLY other time in recent history, where surgery has been use to treat psychological issues, is when they used to do transcranial lobotomies- Now considered EXTREMELY unethical, and one the 20th century's worst medical scandals.... Pretty sure we're seeing the 21st century's worst medical scandal, with so-called "gender affirming care"...
I stopped wanting any trans surgery when I heard about the revision rate. What absolute bs. I will not use tax payer money to go from 36aa to inhumanly flat with massive ugly scars that will only look worse in 20 years. It’s not masculine.
@@baconsarny-geddon8298Absolutely well said.
I’m thinking no.
After the Jazz Jennings fiasco, I'm surprised anyone wants bottom surgery.
How many revisions has that poor kid had now?
Hi Buck.
I have a sibling who’s autistic, 16 years old, and believes they are a trans-man. I’m suspicious it’s more to do with feeling discomfort in their own body due to autism. When she went into school one day, they put a set of pronouns on her desk. She came home saying “I’m non binary”, that then changed to “I’m a trans man”. It just came out of the blue one day.
The doctor did a 30 minutes assessment and handed over the papers for my parents to consent to Lupron (hormone blocker). My parents haven’t signed the papers.
The psychiatrist has now blocked my parents from participating in appointments because where I’m from there is no age for medical consent. If my parents want to participate in these appointments they must have permission from my sister.
This is what’s happening Buck.
Omg!!
Please tell your parents to look up the smpc (summary of product characteristics) for the different forms of Lupron, check which conditions and which kinds of patients it's approved for (NOT for transition!!!), and what the side effects have been in the patient groups they have studied (NOT physically healthy people who used this for transition). Your parents should ask whether your sister's use, which would be experimental, is part of a clinical trial and if so, what the clinical trial number is and where they can find all the official documents from the FDA about this clinical trial. Your parents will learn and should try to get your sister to see that puberty blockers have ONLY been approved for precocious puberty (a physical health condition where a very young child starts puberty, before age 9 for boys and 8 for girls or something along those lines) and for adults with certain types of cancer or severe endometriosis, and in those cases they try to only use the drug for a short period of time like some months, NOT years, due to the risks of (severe) side effects. I think these drugs work on the brain, so this shouldn't be taken lightly. There's other ways your sister can minimise the effects of female puberty: she could perhaps go on a form of birth control where she can reduce her periods or even temporarily stop them (this is also by using drugs and this should be carefully thought about too!), she can work out targeted areas/do specific workouts to get a more androgynous body for instance by working on losing any excess ph. at if she's currently larger, weight training for her upper body etc. She can experiment with fashion to find a style and type of garments that minimise areas of the body she doesn't like, and she would do well to meet adult lesbians and adult tomboys to learn it's ok to be a masculine woman, that it's ok to be gay.
Also: if I were your parents, and also you if you feel like it, I'd keep a diary/logbook of all of this for future reference if your sister finally comes around and starts blaming y'all for not protecting her, etc.
Truly and deeply evil doctors and surgeons.
Omg!! Where are you from that this is happening??
Everybody involved in the industry needs to have their medical license permanently removed, and spend the rest of their lives in prison.
I'm a nurse I've cosigned hundreds of surgical consents. So I looked up and watched male and female bottom surgery. I also looked into the history.
These young people aren't even remotely getting the preop teaching they need for a valid consent. Including the fact that this is highly experimental surgery with a very high complications rate.
If this surgery was being preformed on animals the animal rights people would be screaming and busting into labs to free them.
But no we are experimenting on the most vulnerable amoung us.
I am so very sorry these young people not only died but suffered years of torture before their deaths.
They actually are doing these surgeries on animals and we are fighting to save them. Sadly, so many people are brainwashed to think these surgeries are "necessary" just as people are brainwashed to think meat is "necessary" or that humans are omnivores (we're frugivores).
The brainwashing from lobbyists paid for by corporations and these surgeons is outstanding. It's killing us, the planet, everything
There cannot be informed consent if patients are not being informed about everything that can happen, the complications and side effects that occur with these procedures. These doctors are lying by omission.
Because it cannot be conveyed, too many risks😮
Why are you cosigning knowing your patients are "lab" specimens?
@@mariewheeler5626 She or he (the nurse OP) did not co-sign for trans surgeries. He or she is merely saying that she/he is a professional who works in surgeries and knows what a true, valid consent looks like. And that based on his/her research the people who have undergone these surgeries were not given enough education to consent to these procedures.
My heart is breaking for this poor boy.
The surgeons and therapists who encouraged and allowed him to do this are absolute GHOULS.
We need to blame the politicians, the doctors, the so called gender affirming clinicians, and the extreme trans activists for this atrocity shame, shame , shame!
The whole freaking “most prestigious professional organization for American pediatricians “ has been endorsing this stuff for years. And there is absolutely NO. EXCUSE. Any physician who did nothing to stop the craziness of this and just went along with the whole sick, un-scientific program deserves some kind of very serious, sobering consequences.
I saw a Walgreens ad yesterday about a kid getting his flu shot and Covid shot, and I got upset. I realized I was so ANGRY at the actor playing a doctor because doctors have been so dishonest about so much in the last few years. I’ve been a nurse for 30 years, and I cannot imagine what these poor kids have been through, and we are still allowing it to happen to more misguided patients. It is infuriating, and shameful, and I’m embarrassed by the actual malfeasance that is being promoted as medical care. It is truly sadistic.
@@sassybarr2012 So true. It's sad
Don't forget the pharmaceutical companies. Every trans person becomes a customer for life.
If the Democrats win, they’ll probably be paying for these to have these operations
When are these medical "professionals" going to finally be held accountable for their malpractice?
WHEN?!
My niece is 19 years old and autistic. Last year, she wanted to be a man and changed her pronouns. Within one freakin year, my sister helped my niece get top surgery, and she's trying to get bottom surgery. I am so disgusted with my sister for being a terrible mother. Me and my family are really worried about this girl changing her mind when she is older and regretting what she did.
Her mom should be ashamed! Granted she may think she’s doing the right thing but she should have done a lot of research before supporting this nightmare .
Ive always told my kids if it cross there mind think strong and hard on it due to the permance of it and the off chance u regret it i wouldnt just automatically accept it unless its of true certanity it who they are
99% of mothers that do this to their children are horrible and depraved. My cousin did the same to her healthy straight (he wasn't fem at all) 9 year old boy. So so sad. She dresses him up in 50s cos play. I've never seen him smile since before this. It's heart breaking. These women have munchausin syndrome bi proxi
My child has autism, had typically’enthusiasms’ which last approximately 2-3 years at a time. At 16, came out as trans, I fought it, 2 years later, he woke up and said he was happy in the skin he was in, I thank God I fought and stopped the speed of the medical system that wanted him to transition immediately. Autism needs time, it needs to be treated separately. I feel your pain watching this happen 😢
My daughter has aspergers. Around 7 she wanted to be a boy. A year later..a bunny. I'm serious. She never wanted to change herself though. It was like she was just curious about what it's like to be someone else. Being autistic with special interests..I shielded her from that gnostic idea of mind over body..where one can just will their bodies to be something else. I thank God she never went down that road.
OMG this is SO UPSETTING!!! Surgeons need to be charged and prison sentences NEED to be given!!!
In the USA, they are encouraged by the Obama death care system which pays for all this as necessary care. Upside-down and backwards.
This is nuts, imagine waking up with your rectum gone and your bowels coming out. Jesus.
There will eventually be a class action suit, the victims will get a pittance, the lawyers will get rich, but the victims will still be victims.
It is extremely difficult to prove Malpractice, especially proving causation, especially if it's Legal by Law.
no, you know why they wont get to prison right away. People believe in consent until the consent form is signed. These adults or parents of children signed consent forms. If you do NOT hold the ones accountable for signing the consent. Do you know what consent forms do??? They cover the doctors butt for liability. Im sure you have signed several consents in your lifetime. Does it excuse the doctors? No but it does remove responsibility to some capacity. Doctors cant perform any surgery without consent forms. However every person has the opportunity to say no to surgery before any forms are signed. That choice is never taken away. People always want to blame the doctor but never the one who chose it and consented, literally never. I always see people want doctors held accountable only. You will never see things change if you dont hold the person who consented accountable. The parents are 100% accountable for their children and if they continue as adults, then it falls onto their shoulders as adults. They're essentially already breaking the oath to do no harm but its become socially accepted by many to do so.
If you know anything about law and medicine. Doctors and any medical personnel have medical malpractice insurance and they pay a LOT for this. They have this insurance because people would want to charge them for just about anything, even if its within the bounds of ethical medical practice. They also have really good lawyers. So it would be a case that would spend a lot of time in court rooms. Choices ALWAYS have consequences and when you consent to these treatments. It doesn't come free of consequence for either party. Sometimes I think the lifetime patient is a consequence enough. However I dont believe anyone should die at the hands of doctors and failing the patient in their hands, I want to be very clear about that. This individual did not deserve to lose their life and sadly it make take these cases to turn another page that society is refusing to admit to right now; of what consequences are there of these surgeries.
I work with autistic young people, they are extra vulnerable to exploitation. I am so upset for Yarden, I wish I could make him feel better but its too late. Thanks for highlighting the tragic, horrific, abuse that these vulnerable people are put through. One day we WILL bring those responsible to account. Keep ALL receipts.
As a mom of an autistic child this is scary.
I love my son and he knows he's a boy, he loves his little sister and sticks up for her daily.
I am an autistic adult woman.. I was sooo vulnerable in my younger years.. I am so glad there were no social media when I was a youngster..
They even try to target older autistics I got targeted by one on Instagram because I ally with buck and Blair on these issues.
I work with autistic kids and I’m an auntie to an autistic nephew. My nephew is happily married and has kids of his own now. But when he was a kid he was mercilessly picked on when he was a kid. As he got older he was confused about who he loved. I told him I didn’t care if he dated boys or girls, I would still love him to pieces. Maybe confused isn’t the right word. I know my brother in law couldn’t handle the fact that his son might be bi. He actually hated the notion. And told him so on many occasions. So it might’ve been fear of what his parents would do if they found out his truth. The kids I’ve worked with have been through similar situations though not necessarily going through what my nephew has. But the stories are similar in that someone treats them differently because of who they are. And none of it right. Even if any of them do make this choice, they deserve to be treated with respect. To botch a surgery like that and then not care for him after these so-called doctors ruined his life and health is beyond comprehension.
Thanks Buck for your kindness, compassion, and thorough reporting. You do good work!
Thank you for naming and shaming the doctors who did this. And if they try to push back, YOUR DEFENSE IS THE TRUTH.
I'm glad you are talking about these situations because they usually go under the rug. The only one that hit prime time was Jazz-s surgery that had to be redone.
Dr. Are getting a big payout by the government just like with covid.
These are horrible stories but NEED to be told. Thank you Buck for talking about them. This is not gender "affirming". Its diabolical what these surgeons are doing to young people. 😢
I agree with you.
It’s a money machine, it’s only affirming the surgeon’s bank account
It's schools too, promoting this to these impressionable young people. Telling them if they are sad it's because they're transgender 😢
The sad thing is, these surgeons are getting huge kickbacks from the government for every single sex reassignment surgery they perform. Most people don't know this. This is part of the agenda to destabilize the traditional family. These poor children are suffering unimaginable physical and emotional pain, all to promote this sick agenda. 😢
Big pharma is making money hand over fist off these poor young people. If someone “transitions” or even de-transitions these young people will be on medication for the rest of their lives. Also let me just say that I honestly don’t think any of felt good about ourselves during puberty. It’s just part of life.
My generation always said “love the skin you’re in”. Love yourself. You don’t need others to validate you. You just need to love YOU. It’s okay to be however you are. Please stop thinking that changing yourself is the answer.
I thought this same thing.
I thought this same thing.
I thought this same thing.
I'm so happy that real transgenders like you Buck and Blaire White are promoting the TRUTH despite the vitriol from the tolerant left. Chloe Cole is another young woman who is speaking against this madness. You have my full support. Subbed!
I think you'd probably find that Buck, along with Blair White, Marcus Dib and others, would prefer to be referred to as transsexual and not transgender. The former is a non-delusional person who recognises the fact they have a mental disorder and will never be able to change their biological sex. The latter is a fully delusional nutcase following nothing other than a trend which is causing inconceivable harm to young people with impressionable minds propped up by a collective of militant activists who will take extreme action against anyone who oppose their narrative.
I'm a 64 year old straight mother and grandmother... I thank you for your honesty and outing this crazy new world foolishness... keep going 💪
How many people have died in this same manner, slipping through the cracks, voiceless and unnoticed?
Rest in Peace and Rise in Glory, Yarden.
We won’t know for a very long time, if ever. When people question the ethics of the new and flourishing specialty of gender care, they are told they are transphobes, it’s hate speech, etc, etc. so people were afraid to speak up.
What makes it even more heart breaking is that a lot of these young people are encouraged to isolate from the people who truly love them. The ones who would be most likely to report and speak out. That will also make it harder to track
As a nurse, who works homecare/hospice, I'M HORRIFIED, listening to this.
You're a bright light, Buck. Please continue to shine a light on things the msm doesn't deem worthy to cover.
The fact that these doctors don’t follow the “do no harm” policies anymore is frightening. Thank you, Buck, for bringing these stories to the light. Someone truly needs to.
We can thank capitalist private insurance for gutting any sincerity to the Hippocratic Oath
As a gay man, I always knew I was a man and wanted to grow up to be a man. But, there was a while when I thought that, in order to get a man when I'm older, I'd have to be a woman. Even though I had no desire to be one.
I could easily see kids transitioning for many reasons NOT related to gender dysphoria
I am a woman but when I was a child, sometimes I wanted to be a boy, just because I thought boys had the better deal in life. Also not dysphoric or anything.
Me, as a gay man aswell, was very confused when I was young for not being as masculine, competitive and very into girls like my other male friends. And I questioned myself a LOT why I behaved more likely as my mother and older sister than to these friends...
Many of these kids are being hit with the old propaganda "your life sucks? Here's the solution!" that we all know it's a scam but they are too inexperiented to know that. But the sad part is, if you disagree or point out that is wrong, they call you transphobic etc
They're transing the gay away.
So, you're gay if you're a man who wants a man. Live your life as a gay man and be happy.
Perfectly said@@rpmgrlca
I'm autistic, as the boy in this video. A few years ago, I found various places such as Reddit communities that made me think I was a male and that I was born in the wrong body. Of course, this is when I was at my unhealthiest, mentally and physically. When I got diagnosed with Autism and started going to therapy, my "gender dysphoria" had dissipated. It's scary to think what could have happened if my parents were more "accepting". Although I'm glad that transition has helped the lives of so many people, like Buck Angel, I think we need to be extra careful when transitioning those with mental disorders, like myself. Especially younger people, like the boy in this video. RIP
"so many", actually it's a tiny few who genuinely have gender disphoria.
My heartbreaks for this young person 😢. These surgeon's need to be held accountable!
RIP Yarden. You deserved so so much better!
It distresses me as an older autistic woman (45) to see that nobody explains to young autistic people that everyone feels weird in their body when young, but that it's especially complicated for an autistic young person to adapt to a changing body during teenage.
A bit of gender confusion is a normal part of maturing. No way should any surgery like these be done Untill a person is at least 18. How can one say they don't want to be something that they have yet to experience? Even 18 is probably still too young.
I'm autistic almost same age as op and it's ok to have the gender and sexuality confusion but ultimately you figure out what makes you happy and comfortable. I dealt with a pronoun user they're insufferable
They got my neice at 14. Her sister had just passed away and instead of helping her cope with grief, they put her on hormones. ,
This is Crazy......2 young people dead before age 25. I think that people with autism are very very easily convinced that this is an option to their problems. I feel so so bad for the detransitioners whose lives have been changed forever. As you say all of the time....... more and more gatekeeping and like you had Buck comprehensive therapy and living at least a year in the other gender than your biological sex.
As an autistic person, yeah we can be influenced pretty easy, even high functions
I am autistic and could see how i could have been influenced in this way as a kid. I suspect that autistics tend to have a different relationship with gender that makes us very vulnerable to the ideology.
Those are just the ones we are hearing about. Thousands are mutilated with horrible medical complications. Isn’t this criminal?
Every autistic girl I know immediately falls prey to the stupid “nonbinary they them” thing after meeting some of those, no matter the age. Autistc guys have more sense for some reason, and they want to act like it’s hateful to gatekeep transition for people who “changed pronouns” directly after watching a drag show, which isn’t even trans by the way, it’s people who want attention and i struggle to understand why drag is so important to the “community” we have to involve children in it.
@@robertmontgomery1310More of these people need to speak out. But probably the fear of embarrassment and ridicule stops them. They need to know there are people who care and support them. How many more painful deaths until something is done.
The thing is, there are plenty of us that warn against this. Especially with kids. We are called bigots when we do.
This is exactly what I’ve been thinking through this entire video. There are plenty of us that have been talking about the risks of this kind of surgery, but people get so indoctrinated into the group think and don’t listen to ANYONE other than those that are parroting what they want to hear. And then the ones speaking against it are called phobe$. Idk what the solution is, but I do know this won’t be the last sad story we hear like this. There is a push to have much younger children going through these surgeries, & we will sadly see many, many more cases turn into tragedies just like this poor kid.
@@NicoliRavioli117 I feel sorry for the kids that this happens to. But no matter what we say, we are the biggots until its too late. They will call us names just the same for warning that this might bot be the best way to go of you are still under age/ hormones/ brain hasnt fully developed yet etc..Just look at what happened to JK Rowling.
That's how liberals operate in the face of reality.
I'm not sorry for a single trans person, because if you are not smart enough to grasp the reality of trans medical procedures, no matter what rosey picture doctors are painting, then you are literally too stupid to live and deserve everything you get.
And called conspiracy theorists 24/7.
I don’t care what they call me. They are mutilating their patients, and being paid to engage in what amounts to state sponsored torture.
I'm astonished that bottom surgery ever happens without catastrophic complications.
These people needed professional psychiatric help, not surgery.
They needed Jesus Christ the savior!
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Unfortunately, most people in the psychiatric profession push “gender affirmation”. It’s the equivalent of telling a schizophrenic that all of their delusions are real. My wife is a psychotherapist and she is disgusted with the psychiatric “community”.
@@SuzyQ528 You can say not to the pill pushers. Also you can opt for counselling, which is really better in some ways. And they can't push pills.
@@SuzyQ528 You can get great counselling at the clinics. A counselor is cheaper than a psychologist or psychiatrist. You can go to them at any clinic that's meant for low cost care. They aren't qualified for meds, so they can't push them, that's what I meant by they can't push meds. They are only there to listen to you and help you walk through your issues. My son loves his.
BUCK! Keep up the good work! You're always so kind, and your heart is always in the right place, which we don't always see these days.
As an exnurse I find it utterly reprehensible that surgeons are doing this to young people in confusion. They need all the love and support to help them find a path to health and happiness. I am disgusted predatory surgeons are capitalising on all this confusion. Its vulture like behaviour, not healing.😢😢😢
Unfortunately, it seems surgeons don't deal with mental health or ideological mumbo jumbol they just operate on demand per schedule and without full disclosure on the surgeries they 'perform'. They're paid to, it seems, via insurance 'scams' do the job. Butchering, in this field, by any other name. Grotesque and shame on their greed and lack of scruples
It’s not just surgeons it’s a whole money making system. There is pressure in Australia for psychologist,psychiatrists etc to support this gender confusion. Even laws that say you “must affirm their identity” if they feel like they maybe the opposite sex. Yet we have always been taught to explore such thoughts in the past.
So he died after having totally unnecessary surgery which has a 100% failure rate? How surprising.
Sarcasm's not necessary. Choose better vocabulary for some authentic compassion. Tragedy
Bottom Surgery == Fast-track to SEPSIS!!!
I am horribly traumatized by sepsis.
Almost died from sepsis myself. Grateful every day that I survived it.
I am a sepsis survivor from having my breast implants removed after they made me sick. I felt my body dying and was saved by an infectious disease doctor. It was horrific and terrifying. Being so close to death changed my view of life.
@@Ladybug5915 big extremely mindful of it sweetheart. It is recurrent. Especially within the first two to five years. Don't underestimate anything. If you feel feverish go to the doctor and let them know that you had sepsis before. The mortality rate is horrifying. Just really pay attention to your body and don't be afraid or ashamed or embarrassed to go to the doctor even more often than you probably need to because it is something you must pay close attention to. My beautiful and wonderful wife of 21 years died a year and a half ago from sepsis and I am still not doing well at all
I'm so so sorry for your loss @@Sn0wShepherd
@@Sn0wShepherdGod bless you 🙏 I am so sorry for you're loss of your beautiful wife. She will be with you always. ❤
Look she said "he wish someone would have lead him and giving him hope by saying he's perfectly fine the way he is in his own body "
We've tried that , we get called transphobic and blasted out of context.
True, and states have to be performative (Minnesota) by virtue signalling about what they refer to as conversion therapy! POS Walz did that over three years ago and made it a big news deal! This state has been opened up to every vile, debased "sanctuary" supposed seeking population!
The number of supposedly straight people that are trans activist and fully support this criminal mutilation is global.
These activists will not be told and will not accept facts, even when its even from obituaries like this.
They will side with the Doctors who have become very rich while the deluded & confused transitioner is fatally ill
Human race is on a rapidly increasing spiral to the ABYSS and OBLIVION
If i had a dollar for every time i was called, "transphobic" just for mentioning that kids will regret transitioning when theyre older...
These surgeons need to be jailed for medical malpractice
What about depraved heart murder?
Jail isn’t a big enough punishment
Genital mutilation
yes!
Psychologist too! They give the prescription to a lot and validate the diagnosis for gender reaffirming surgeries to be done
Thank you for having a platform where you speak the TRUTH!
Docotors did such severe operations to a completely healthy body, that that person died? That's a dark crime
criminal!
it's worse than crime, it's monstrous beyond belief, what kind of deranged psycho does that to young vulnerable people
There are only benefits to doing it wrong, they make $$$ on the revisions and the clientele don't rat them out.
I would love to know the whole story. Who performed the original surgery and where was it done ? Some folks in the USA get cheap surgeries done abroad then return home too quickly, resulting in complications (aka disasters.) And did he actually refuse any repair options doctors needed to do ? Some things cannot simply be 'put back' once removed. I ask these questions because I know someone for whom this became a reality. He made a hasty decision, flew to South Asia for surgery, returned to deal with infections and a huge amount of regret that the work could not just be 'put back.' Sadly, he chose to take his own life. B., RIP. We need to go back to 'transitions' being rare, adult only, and surgery being preceded by YEARS of mental counseling and therapy.
@@allthingsharbor this is not surgery but body mutilation... it's also criminal to lie to people and tell them they can change s e x, that's not possible. these 'surgeons' should never do this to anyone
I was just diagnosed as autistic last month. This absolutely breaks my heart. I swear the trans lobby is targeting autistic people. It's maddening and heartbreaking.
Demons Always search out the weak
Cults generally recruit from the most vulnerable populations.
They target vulnerable populations in general, I noticed. They've also targeted children as well.
There is no such thing as Autism
Be weary of accepting any identification "they" give you. You're just a person. Just a life. Just a soul in a body trying to figuring out things with your own attributes and obstacles. Don't identify as anything.
Buck... you are a genuine God send for these young people. YOU ARE MAKING a difference 🤗 xx
As an RN and an ally to the LGBT community I am posting this with nothing but your best interest at heart. YOU CAN NOT CHANGE YOUR $EX. What a surgeon creates to replace your removed male appendage IS NOT A V@GINA and what a surgeon takes out of your female body and replaces with some grafted skin and a pump IS NOT A P3N!S. Transgenderism is clearly a real thing but it's rare and people who truly have these feelings and have body dysmorphia have to first and foremost get a highly qualified therapist to help figure things out, and move on after that with medical transition if that's the best course to take. And by medical transition I am NOT talking about bottom surgery. If top surgery is needed to alleviate the distress associated with body dysmorphia then by all means that's something to work though with your therapist before making a final decision on that.
Yes, and vaginas are mucous membranes, not skin. It sounds like it would end up like the folds of obese people's skin, getting fungal and bacterial infections because skin does not do well when it stays wet/moist and touching other skin. It begins to break down. Mucous membranes are meant to stay moist, skin is not.
Thanks so much for making people more aware of the horrors of "bottom surgery". I was a nurse in Miami. I would be floated to a surgical ICU the staff called "the Frankenstein unit". It was filled with bottom surgeries gone wrong. We got them flown in from all over the world. I used to fake cry and fake illness just so I wouldn't have to work there.
@@Idkanythingrlly I am testing my own imagination to visualize a "bottom surgery" *NOT* going wrong.
So sad 😭. His statements are profound and true. Women cannot get their tubes tied before 35 but kids can cut off body parts?
It's 25 but yeah. They worry you will regret it or change your mind. I had mine done at 25. You have to sign a paper a few months in advance to prove it isn't a rash or impulsive decision.
Yeah... This is so absurd. Women can't tie their tube even though tied tubes can be reversed, but if that fails, there is still IVF since you can still retrieve egg cells from ovaries with tied tubes. ...... But gender surgery, that is irreversible sterilisation.... This really doesn't make sense.
I had to sign a paper saying I knew and agreed to my then partner now husband having a vasectomy even though he was 39 and we had 4 children ! This is in UK and 25 years ago so might be different now but just goes to show how much has changed!
excellent point!
Sad? ?Nah, he let himself be convinced that he was a female in a man's body and didn't listen to the "transphobes". I don't feel any sympathy for this guy and he was old enough to figure it out for himself. Sure he had some form of autism but the same goes for me and I managed to reach the age of 47 with learning from my own mistakes and even have a normal life with a family.
Thank you for sharing! This is so sad!! I have a son (living as a trans woman), who wants the surgery and I’m praying he changes his mind! I’ve been saving videos like these to share with him because he needs to be informed! 🙏
Please tell your son that an old granny from the middle of nowhere wants him to know
GOD DOESN'T MAKE MISTAKES.
He is exactly who he was created to be. He's Blessed to have such a wonderful Mama.
I'm praying for both of you.
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50 yrs ago.. I'm grateful my parents let me go thru my tomboy yrs without getting me a sex change.. Born a female.. Still a female.
I'm 50 and still a tomboy 😅
@@rosaliethomas5812and that’s perfectly fine.
My 30 year old wants to have gender affirming surgery and quite frankly I am terrified with these stories.😢
You should be. Show these videos to your child!
get your 30yo to a good psychologist
Transexual woman here. Yes...a therapist is a great thing, but, is only one piece of the puzzle to dealing with gender dysphoria. It also depends on what therapist you go to. The first one I went to was a certified psychologist. She pushed hormones on me within 35 minutes of meetings her. However, the second person I saw was a therapist. Yes she was liberal, which made me skeptical, but she never once pushed anything on me. We were there to figure out why I was having those feelings and we went over everything about my past that I could think of. We left no stone unturned. She never once said I was transgender. Your child needs to find a therapist that will help them figure themselves out, one way or another. It's not about convincing your child if they are transgender, or convincing them they are not. It's about seeking mental and emotional counseling to make sure the decision they are making is right for them.
Convincing someone who is a transexual that they are not a transexual, is just as damaging as convincing someone who is not a transexual that they are one.
Enjoy being here!
He wasn’t a transman, he was a transwoman, right??
These "doctors" took an oath to do no harm.... They are... They broke their oath and they are still in practice.... Key word, Practice... Horrifying... Absolutely horrifying.
Shine the light on these doctors who perform these surgeries!!! Thank you sir!!!
Gender AFFIRMING care would be to help him to come to terms with his body not to mutilate it. Adolescents with autism innately understand that they are different than their peers and often suffer with feeling of loneliness and rejection. The new “woke trans culture” promises acceptance and community but the cost of admission is the sacrifice of your body and self.
That's what I keep saying.
That is not what gender affirmation care is. By definition, from WebMD, it is "Gender-affirmation care refers to treatments, ranging from surgery to speech therapy, that support a transgender or nonbinary person in their gender transition."
@@GiraffeLoverJen The medically misleading definition of AFFIRMING care is kinda my point. The medical community has abandoned providing the care needed to help patients come to terms with their biological gender. They are no longer even trying to do this. Instead they’re affirming children’s false and likely transient beliefs with treatment protocols that are irreversible, largely experimental and carry with them very high rates of complications and adverse events like cancer, cardiovascular disease and more. True persistent Gender Dysphoria is exceedingly rare and the medical community’s participation in medically transitioning large numbers of gender confused kids while ignoring their underlying neurological, emotional, social or psychiatric needs is unconscionable and unethical. They are taking physically healthy children and turning them into permanent patients who will always be dependent on the medical system to treat their artificially created life long chronic medical condition. These permanent patients will also most likely require ongoing medical interventions to address the damage done to their bodies and to treat developing illnesses resulting directly from this “Affirming Care”.
They promise acceptance but in fact they accept nothing and nobody.
@@GiraffeLoverJenThat is in fact what riariaria means I think. You describe how it is and riariaria describes how it should be.
As a nurse of 12 years I only know of one surgery gone right and I’m happy for that person but the rest have all gone wrong. Terribly terribly wrong
I don't think the medical world is being honest about the statistics of failure rate.
Why are you happy for that?
Body mutilation and you're happy for it?
As they should ...
There has NEVER been a successful transition surgery EVER...and there never will be. They have a 100 percent failure rate.
I don’t think that’s even possible. You’re selling a sex change, which can’t be done, so could never “go right”.
The doctors and therapists who pushed him and people like him to this, will need to be held accountable
It’s lots of money for very questionable physicians. Who chooses this for a career?
Oh, they'll all be held accountable one day.
Great job keeping up this IMPORTANT conversation!! I have 4 grandkids I and talk to them all the time about what is going in the world. Kids need to be able to get TRUTHFUL information!!!
Had this been a thing when I was in HS in the 90’s I might’ve been doomed, because being SA’d made me not want to be myself. I blamed it on my body but there was no real outlet for that. People weren’t normalizing drastic body mods and tomboys becoming dudes. (I’m not trying to disregard anyone in true dysphoria) I just think a lot of untreated SA vics are going to find themselves in this situation because it’s the thing right now.
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Im a trans guy and I’d like to imagine I could find a tomboy or feminine man to be with but they all think they’re “they thems” or extremely low-effort trans men or women.
Agree.
I wanted to be a boy for the same reason when I was a kid.
I would have been.
Buck, as an old Lesbian, my heart goes out to these poor victims, their families and to you.. We never thought our struggle for equality would turn into this bur lately, I've had my doubts about if it was worth it. Some people blame us and our fight to be free to live and love, how and who we wanted for this crisis. Jeez, were we just so naive, to believe that things would get better? Ugh..every time I see a story like this my heart becomes so heavy. 💔
I'd say things did get better, so much better that the pendulum swung too far. Instead of being attacked for being gay or trans, it's become popular, a fad, and anyone who speaks out against it is villainized as a homophobic right winger.
2 lesbian friends ghosted me for not being “open” about this. Honestly out of the lesbians I’ve met, you’re rare.
I hear ya. Same with the women’s lib bs, I joined right in at 17, just wanted to be free. Found out too late, o took the wrong road, no family, no children…but hey I’m free!?!?! Much love.
This is just government sanctioned conversion therapy with meds and mutilation.
This isn't the fault of the LGB community at all, IMO. This is the fault of the activist medical quacks that seek to profit off the pain & confusion of the people they swore to do no harm to. Just my cis hetro-normative opinion.
The two people that signed off on his transition should be imprisoned.
A 15 year old isn't old enough to buy tobacco, alcohol, or get tats because they are not old enough to make those decisions but they can make a decision to chop things off that can kill them? what sense does this make? Thank you for sharing.
So true!
This is incredibly heartbreaking. Those "surgeons" are terrible people for not helping him.
They want the money!
Thank you Buck for caring about our children. And bless you for your sacrifice and bravery to speak against these assaults against the most vulnerable of our precious youth.
There are mothers who are having their child’s fathers criminalised for not wanting their sons mutilated, is there really any hope for society when there are mothers who care more about looking woke, than they do about their children’s welfare.
For anyone watching this, no matter what you’ve done, no matter how desperate you are … there is room at the Cross for you.
Encouraging easily led people to go from one cult to another.
Nice 🙃
@@seewobble7048 no, at night when I try to sleep, I have trouble because I hear the cries of the perishing. I have to tell people about the Gospel of Jesus Christ. He loves you, and wants you to come to him just as you are. He doesn’t want your money, he doesn’t want you to memorize a rule book. He wants you to be part of his family.
@seewobble7048
It’s not a cult. It’s a way of life, depending wholly on God and Jesus for your redemption by His sacrifice on the Cross. It’s a choice, a gift that you can accept. I would like to add though, there are cults who use the name of Christ to control their subjects. Also, even if you think believing in Jesus is a cult, there is no justification for mutilating children.
@@seewobble7048I can tell you've been deeply wounded by the cults of Churchianity, but coming to *Christ* is a separate experience.
@@seewobble7048 let it be, they dont understand those structures.... cult is cult.
Somebody should start a database on these deaths and malpractices to STOP these surgeries.
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They did in England and other countries overseas, but nobody in America seems to care😟
Buck, thank you so much for what you do. This poor kid had surgery at 19, fucking heartbreaking outcome. Horrifying. I lived as a proud ftm on T for 4 years and had mastectomy. I was planning my phalloplasty consult when I found your TH-cam channel. The first video of yours I watched about bottom surgery shook me to the core, and I realized that we really are Guinea pigs to these surgeons. They get to have fun like they’re playing with play-doh made of body parts and ruin peoples lives and walk away consequence free. These surgeries should not be so freely accessible. The fact that it’s being done on children, literal babies as young as 12, is just truly evil. Once I discovered you and Blaire honestly I deconstructed my whole identity. I’m now 8 months into detransition and so much healthier in every way. I am so relieved I didn’t pursue the hysterectomy my ex was encouraging me to get. Thank you for making these stories known, the world needs far more people like you
As an Autistic person, I'm deeply hurt by what he went through, at around the same age I hated my body and wanted to transition but I didn't have the money and my parents were strict, I eventually got psychological help and ended up choosing to not transition, I realized I wasn't trans, and now that I'm watching TH-camrs like Buck Angel, I realize that I made the right decision, all these botched plastic surgeries are scary, we cannot let greedy incompetent Doctors do this anymore, most are in it for the money, they don't care about people's well-being.
I hope this insanity ends soon. The doctors most definitely must be punished, but so should all the politicians who are complicit in supporting this ideology.
Honestly, I don't think parents are without blame, either. They're the first and last line of defense for kids and they're failing.
I shared this with 3 of my trans friends... one of which is detransitioning and we support her fully. They are heartbroken that cowards now run the medical field and are affraid to be thorough and and confident this would be the right move. Due to a fear of being a bigot or something else
The mainstream media goes out of their way to make sure we don’t hear these stories. I’m so grateful to Buck for making sure these people aren’t forgotten.
Lost my best friend of four years a couple of months ago because of my political views. I didn’t even bring it up and I’m not even that much of a conservative. It was just the fact that I was a centrist that made them leave. They also said that they wanted to be trans and went be he/him. He would get mad at me when I accidentally misgendered him and when I told him about the dangers of getting bottom surgery (that he said he wanted but did no research on) he was like “welp anything to be a boy. Who cares.” He would threaten me with SH and suicide if I said anything or tried to help him. He even influenced me to be trans, not speak to my family, get surgery, and cut myself. My mental health was so bad when I was friends with him and I’m glad it’s over now. He was 12 when I cut him off finally.
I’m so thankful that you speak up about this type of thing.
Your friend is a confused child. Theyll grow out of it
You had the surgery?
@ProchoicePeopleAreSociopaths Let's hope he grows out of it 🙏🏼 amd doesn't end his own life before he does. This is so sad. Have been Terrified for my Grandkids being in Cali schools. Thank God Trump won. Hopefully all this gets turned around and people can recoup their sanity.
@@TheUnderCoverMother2020 Thankfully my parents wouldn't allow me to until I was older. But still, if they had said yes, my life would be very different rn.
THANK YOU so much for spreading awareness on this. 21 years old. This is completely unacceptable and AVOIDABLE. Thank you Buck, you are doing something very important ❤❤❤❤ RIP Yarden, you didn’t deserve this❤❤
My son is a 35 year old high functioning autistic. He's really nice, intelligent and fortunately did not grow up during this crazy time of gender confusion. The autistic have challenges connecting with the average neuro-typical individual. But despite their challenges trying to understand and relate, they're as deserving as anybody else to have a connection with another person. To take advantage of their loneliness and confusion, as they try to fit in, and make them lab rats and permanent pharmacological customers is horrific. God will judge them for these crimes against the innocent! I'm just heart broken 🥺😭!! Thanks buck, love you!❤
God bless you 🙏
Like your son, I was blessed to be born before this became a trend. It's hard for us to find a way to fit into the world, and puberty is often even worse for us than for non-autistic kids.
The agony this young man went through - both mentally and physically should never be subjected to anyone. May he rest in Peace 🙏 ❤
This is absolutely heartbreaking 💔😭Rest in Peace Yarden❤️I’m soo sorry for all the suffering you went through. This should have never happened! I can’t believe those monsters are allowed to do surgeries on people without giving full disclosure of the risks and that it doesn’t actually change your sex biologically, nor make make you any happier to begin with in most cases. They should have an obligation to say all that and to reverse the surgery if asked and to keep the patients safe during and after surgery. Absolutely unacceptable! Thanks for raising awareness Buck you’re amazing as always❤
This is fucking tragic. This poor poor kid, he must have been in so much physical and emotional pain. Thanks Buck for sharing his story and giving him a voice.
This is absolutely heartbreaking. We should be able to trust our health care providers...
much love and many prayers for, Yarden, all he loves and his final wishes. Lord hear our prayer.
I was born a year after him and also have an autism diagnosis. I can't imagine how much he felt. I would have loved to be his friend.
My daughter has been living as a male for the past 5 years. He is now 23 and really wants top surgery as well as bottom surgery. I am so terrified that something like this will happen to him. This is so horrific. So many young people are being butchered by doctors. Please pray for my child. I pray that he won’t have this surgery. I’ve heard so many stories about regrets that most people have about surgery. Thank you and God bless all of the people who regret having surgery. God help them.
Buck! Well done! Thank you for being a resounding & positive voice on this issue!
I’m standing giving you an ovation & a nod of gratitude & encouragement.
Please don’t stop standing for truth! I’m a veteran professional educator and I cringe at the way the world is regressing. YOU are a reason for me to have hope that things can turn around for the better. This is a precedent conversation that you’ve lead and you are making a monumental difference. I’m proud of you! A+!
No words can express my anger and sadness. May Yarden rest in peace now.
As an autistic person, I can also vouch for the experience of discomfort in my own body. Thankfully(?), I was born in the 80s and this sort of rhetoric wasn’t being pushed for profit during my teenage years when I struggled with my mental health and developing female body. This was LONG before I knew I was autistic. I was diagnosed this year after years of internal and external struggles. There is a part of me that is very much at odds with the adult female version of my body, as I have always been very sensory and easily overwhelmed by attention. Adding puberty, and the sexualization that society brings with it, amplified that discomfort that I still deal with to this day. Although it has become easier to manage now that I am aware I am on the spectrum. Had I been a teenager during this current time, I could certainly have seen myself becoming confused about my gender identity and believing myself to be trans and “experiencing gender dysphoria,” since a lot of my awareness and discomfort are around my female sex organs, especially my breasts. But it’s not because I am uncomfortable being a woman, it’s because I’m uncomfortable in my adult body and being perceived by the world (that latter part has always been). I’ve always been a “tomboy” that had to grow into feeling comfortable in being perceived as a “woman,” but it has nothing to do with my gender identity or being trans, if that makes sense. It is because I am autistic. Now, obviously I can’t speak for every autistic person, this is just my personal experience. But I have often thought my discomfort in my body growing up during this time could have had dire consequences and my heart goes out to Yarden, his family, and all who suffer from misdiagnosis. It is a real thing! I grew up in an era where trans people had to fight for their rights, like Buck has stated, and were medically vetted by multiple professionals for what seems like YEARS before transitioning in with the goal of passing or being stealth. The way trans identity has been turned into a fast food industry of gender reassignment for profit by the medical industry at the expense of human lives is deeply concerning. And I also want to say, I allow for there to also be valid trans autistic people, but I think the number of people identifying as “trans” is a huge problem because I don’t believe all of them are trans, but dealing with many other mental health issues, unresolved trauma, and/or sexual kinks, as Buck has stated in many videos.
This is SO important for EVERYONE to hear!!!!! Love you Buck! Sending love to ALL, especially Yarden & family. 🙏🏼
This is why "be careful what you wish for" and "the grass is always greener" stories are so universal. If you could magically have all the things you think would make you happy, it usually doesn't fix all the problems you have within yourself. You have to work hard to change yourself inside and your mindset and better yourself.
I didn't really like my body, so I started eating right and hitting the gym.
Um no, this person wanted the surgery and died from complications. This is about medical malpractice..not your opinion about the deceased.
Grow up
@@ConservativeGrouchThat's not even close to the same thing as gender dysphoria 😑. Please educate yourself before making such vapidly stupid comments.
I'm actually so very surprised my 14 yr old daughter hasn't been sucked into this trap. Every single feeling these kids say she feels too like not being comfortable in her own body and she just wants to be normal....those feelings are real but with proper help it can be worked through. She's proof of that. She's so susceptible to things it's a literal miracle she hasn't gone down this path
Pretty sure that's normal for teenage girls to not be comfortable with their bodies. I went through it myself, but only ever went as far as crossdressing before growing out of it.
@piranhapout she has autism and severe ADHD. Her being influenced is really easy to do. For a girl who goes through puberty with autism is way different than when I went through puberty. And not only that she grew 5 inches in a few months which made her gain a bit of weight. So she went from 5ft 3 to 5ft 7 and 115lbs to 140lbs. She has stretch marks places I didn't even know you can get them like behind her knees. She's been able to channel her uneasiness and uncomfortablity into volleyball because she dominates from her height and power. If she didnt have volleyball I just shutter.
Puberty sucks. Just let her know we all go through it and it’s impossible to feel comfortable in a body that’s changing daily.
Please please educate her, talk to her that 99% perfect is also ok even less that that too,she’s your daughter that’s perfect enough,you love her, her family loves her, she’s made the way she is for a reason, please please do everything you can to encourage her otherwise, with love from someone who also cares
i have autism too. i was uncomfortable with myself in a different way (not my body, but i felt EXTREMELY ugly and weird). of course girls growing up in this new generation have to worry about so much more in schools. peers telling them it's absolutely normal to transition and anyone who tells you otherwise is a bigot. it must be so scary but please keep reminding her she is beautiful ❤
This is beyond heartbreaking. And gross malfeasance.
Buck, please keep sounding the alarm until all our young ones are protected! Thank you for all you are doing!!
The trans activists are as guilty as the medical profession who are as guilty as the politicians. Years ago I said that lawyers will be rubbing their hands together. I have a teenager and have had to deprogram her on a regular basis so she remains grounded in reality. This stuff is rammed down their throats every day. The schools are on the bandwagon, social media etc etc. All guilty
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Buck Angel…. I stumbled upon your channel today & I have to say THANK YOU! Thank you for bringing light to how lethal both physically & mentally this whole child mutilation epidemic that’s going on! My heart is broken for these souls suffering & these mutilators should go to prison for life. A life for a life! 💯💯💯
What happened to their first promise to their patients which is, "DO NO HARM!" 🤬🤬🤬🤬
Unless money is involved
Changing the oath and twisting this treatment into helping against a problem. When most often it does not. As the problem remains. And they just add another one.
They stepped requiring that oath.
They changed the Hippocratic Oath, it no longer says do no harm.
@@michellerobinson1318 It is now "First and foremost, make as much money as possible."
No Buck. You DO NOT APOLOGISE FOR THIS. this is a god damn public service you are performing. This shatters my heart. How the F is this ok ? How ? Pls. This beautiful angel lost his life. Omg. I can’t even. 😢
I don’t know how ANY surgeon would dare do these “bottom surgeries”’anymore given the terrible outcomes and pushback…
OH, there are many unethical medical professionals out there..... they want the money!
Thank you for giving this young person a voice.
People need to pull together and get a lawyer for this to be brought before the Supreme Court.
This is the "religion" of the ancients, surfacing.
You don't just go straight to the Supreme Court, you file in the lower courts first. The Supreme Court decides which cases to hear and review.
As crazy as it sounds, these doctors aren't hurting one bit for patients. They are incredibly busy with people that completely believe they have gender dysphoria.
Thank you for being a voice for those who’s voices are being silenced
Not only has the medical industry ignored the needs of autistic individuals, in general, they are even using them as guinea pigs.
Can’t describe the extent of my contempt for medical practitioners that do this.
Guinea pigs they are sterilizing. It reeks of eugenics, the way they're trying to make us all sterile from childhood.
Having real clarity gives me a different angle on this. Stoicism is the antidote for this. The more stoic you are the less susceptible you are to outside influence. These people are being manipulated by their doctors and they system.
I actually scrolled across something similar to what you’re talking about at 4:59 on Facebook last night. A trans woman made her last post on Facebook talking about how she wishes she was happy and apologizing to her ex wife and kids. And then her obituary was shared 3 days later. Very sad.
Omg could you email me the links to that story please😢❤
@@BuckAngelOfficial sent!
@@haleyymillerroh my gosh please share the link, would like to see. So sad 😢
I want to hear more about this tragic story. Sad
Please keep shedding light on this horrific form of abuse