Confessions of an "Emotionally Unavailable" Man...(part 2)
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- Confessions of an "Emotionally Unavailable" Man...(part 1)
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My question is why won't they just stay single 🙄 because this type of behavior is a form of abuse.
Because they’re operating from a state of inadequacy and unworthiness which leads to needing that validation
Exactly emotional abuse
They know what there doing
Love this
It is. Everyone has experienced some form of trauma but to used tht as excuse to pull other ppl into their mess, is another form of abuse. I think it’s silly but oh well. Some women would still try to save them
I just broke up with someone like this (also an Aquarius). He messaged me saying he loves and misses everything about me, but while I was trying to be with him it felt like he didn't like me at all. He protected himself from being hurt that he broke every part of me. I feel bad for him, but people like this should NOT date unless they are willing to get therapy.
SN...this is also a distant avoidant attachment.
Shiit Girl Same here!! 😢 He's Aquarius and emotionally unavailable so he wanted only fwb or be my Sugar Daddy lol I was so heartbroken that I've Never felt anything worse I poured my heart n soul and still gets nothing in return.. I broked up with but still text me like nothing happened!! I don't even understand despite having other suitors who treats me even better I still fall for him... I guess my abbandonment issues and my empathetic nature has to do with it but damn I'm trying no contact to moved on but he still text.. I can't block him even if I want to 😢
If the Aquarius man has a lot of Sagittarius and Gemini placements. They are so flighty... I keep away from Gemini men and water signs too. Do my head in.
Block him. You need homeopathic medicine and counselling.
It was my first time experiencing someone like this; just unfortunate I got very close to his children. I mentioned to him that he’s emotionally detached and he answered he had to be. That’s when I walked away.
You chose your peace and the peace of your family, this is a sign of true self-respect!
Same
Good for you.
@@Confessions089 I'm not sure where you are from but here in Texas when someone says good for you that means we really don't give a fuck LOL but thank you
@@Confessions089 🤣
"It's almost better not to have a relationship at all than to be in a half-hearted relationship!" #facts Nothing cures the fear of being single forever like the experience of a relationship with an emmotionally unavailable man!💯
Lonliest 18 yrs of my life, ex hubby posted on Facebook:
"People who does not have inner peace struggles to make redemption for their actions, therefore unable to forgive themselves and heal. They become a victim to self punishment."
Brother I don't know you BUT so proud of your awakening halleluYAH
I just accepted I am an unemotionally available partner, seeking therapy and trying my best. Keep doing you and I hope to see a part 3 soon.
Wow...nothing but love on your healing journey family...this will easily be the most rewarding experience of your life
You’re so right, they have to heal on their own because nobody can do it for them.
Healing is key 🗝️ to a healthy relationship! I did the work to be healed now and am praying one day my future partner will be heal too. Your on a great path🤗
There is nothing more beautiful than two WHOLE people coming together within a relationship! I have no doubt you will attract your spiritual equivalent
Your Part 1 & 2 are my intros to You. Yes to Part 3 when Time allows. I'm realizing only recently that not only was I involved with emotionally unavailable/distant guys, but also that I, too, have been emotionally unavailable/distant. Been doing the work, but I see there's still more to unearth. Thank you for your candor.🌻🌻
Much love to you sister!
It takes a deep level of introspection and honesty to accept these shadow aspects, but only from this place can we truly heal, and let go of those things we've been holding onto that truly never did serve our highest good!
Vulnerability is out greatest measure of courage. Value all your work ❤
Appreciate the love as always Jayde:)
Thank you for sharing because, when a love one is like this, it’s alarming because you care about them so much, so it’s nice to get a view on what’s going on and finally understand.
Interesting when saying being emotionally unavailable to protect oneself but it also prevents the other person from getting hurt...and i read comments of people in relationships with emotionally dead partners....too many.
You were a classic Fearful avoidant!
Thank you for sharing. Still healing from the hurt caused by an emotionally unavailable man.
The worst thing! God said earlier before my emotions got entangled to let him go and work on himself!
As you return to a state of wholeness, how you have greater wisdom, and a deeper trust in your discernment🙏🏾
I dated one. I’ve never experienced it prior to this. He told me he never really let me in because he felt that I was better than him, and eventually I’d leave. I did leave. But because he cheated. Had I not found the videos on my own, I would’ve never known.
Thank you for being this honest❤
Even though many of the women I dated including my soon to be ex wife has stated this to me.
And just to show how lost I was, at the time. I am just understanding what emotionally unavailable really is. After reviewing this video I understand even the fear I was experiencing. Which led to controlling. I am in therphy. But I feel it my be to late for me at my age. I hoped others don't
Wait to long to embrace their issues and experience real LOVE
Wow well said
Thank you!
Thank you so much ❤❤❤
Yes, part 3 please!
Thank you for sharing this!!!!
It’s all love family🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Thank you 🙏🏾
love this
Thank you for having the maturity and humbleness to share your story, which is not an easy thing to do, shows you have healed and willing to speak in order to help others. God bless you for that. I have realised I’m experiencing this emotional unavailability right now from someone. It’s not easy being on the receiving end, it’s quite hurtful.
Yesssss, this! Please keep going Sir. You are much appreciated. God can use whoever he wants to bless people. You are proof! ❤
Appreciate the love sister🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Yes for part 3!!
Coming soon:)
This is wonderful! Please don’t stop making these. How does an emotionally unavailable man feel when his partner confesses their feelings for him?
Aquarius, THANK YOU SO MUCH AGAIN for sharing your heart regarding this relevant men-related issue. This is an overlooked issue in my life that now I want to acknowledge, confront, understand, correct, change and transform. It has deeply negatively impact my current marriage (over 20 years). I am an introvert, sensitive and intellectual man living with a great, supportive, loving wife who is extremely critical.... I still need to fully understand WHY am I, an "Emotionally Unavailable" man, and HOW do I break away from that framework. I am in tune with my specific emotions and thoughts but with many FEARS and beliefs that doesn't enable me to be emotionally expressive and emotionally connected. It's painful living in this reality for years. I just purchased two books entitled: "The Emotionally Unavailable Man: A Blueprint for Healing" - Patti Henry, M.Ed., L.P.C. , AND "The Cure for Emotional Unavailability: Discover the source of emotional unavailability, heal and have positive, successful relationships" - By Stella Smith...... (8/8/23 Tuesday)
Yes part 3 is needed.
I got you fam!
Many Thanks !! You explanation, helped me to understand my ex. Thank you. I'm happy for you, that you are making the process to find yourself. All the best for you.
Mines loves his niece and friends,but treats the women who he has sex with bad..
YES PART 3
Soooooooooooooo helpful. Thank you!
It's all love!
Definitely want a part 3!
Twill be coming soon!
I want as many parts of this as you have!!!!!
You are an amazing man, so glad to hear your on a healing journey, no one should live like this. I just distanced myself from a person like this for my own wellbeing. I totally understand what you are saying because I saw some of the same behavior in the person I just wanted to be friends with. I could see through all the excuses, ego, and unsafe feelings he expressed. I wish him the best.
Thank you for you kind words Nina, I take them to heart🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 and the fact you wish them well is a representation of where your heart is and your emotional maturity🌱🌱🌱
Great information .. thank you
Thank you!
You explain this subject so well, thank you! I had an emotionally unavailable partner, and in photos, nowadays I notice what you call “off, not all the way there.” I wouldn’t be surprised at all if my ex boyfriend saw me as a maternal figure. In fact I never met his mom, but I can say she wasn’t there for him like she should have been. It’s so sad that black men especially go through this, and somehow it’s supposed to guide them because society doesn’t like black people? Screw that, everybody deserves love and deserves to be seen.
I've watched part 1 and now this 1.....I was dealing with a man for 16yrs and I thought I was loosing my Fn mind. I literally gave him MY ALL! All of me....and I feel like I got absolutely NOTHING in return. I finally had to let him go.....still love TF outta him but now I realize there's absolutely nothing I can do that will ever get him to SEE me. I use to think If I love him more or harder, he'll feel it & see it....If I keep showing up for him, he'll realize.....but NOPE.
He says he loves me.....but his actions showed me otherwise. I feel like I've wasted too many years. So sad.
Yes, I let him go.....FINALLY 😔
New subscriber! From one stiff arm to another, lol, I appreciate this discussion and look forward to more
Much love and appreciation family!
Thank you
It’s all love🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Thanks for sharing
Thank you for tapping in🙏🏾
This video really helped me. I’m going through a really rough breakup. I dated one of my best-friends. He ended up being emotionally unavailable and emotionally abusive. It was really hard for me to understand in the moment, and I faulted myself a lot.
I felt awful walking away from him, because he expressed to me that he was afraid to get close to me out of the fear of losing me. I love him deeply, but I had to choose myself. He just kept hurting me. The cycle was draining. I’m in therapy and I’m taking care of myself after so much turmoil.
Again, thank you for this video. It puts a lot of things into perspective for me and it’s helping me heal.
Me to just walked away from a 2 year relationship in the beginning he was there and then he wasn't he made no effort I loved him and understood him but he couldn't so I left. They are the worst to be in relationship with you will end up hurt.
Thak u for your vulnerability and the skill to articulate the mindset without being like a relationship coach. U are genuine, authentic and it shows in your mannerism ❤❤❤
🙏🏾😊💙this means the world to me! I’m not better than the next man, I just want others to experience the freedom that I now experience, that’s it
Just broke off my 2 1/2 yr relationship with an Aquarius. I only bring up the zodiac because Aquas are quirky and at times very stand-offish. What I realized is that it was beyond that, that he was completely attempting to love the people in his life with logic, never allowing his heart to be front and center. I could never pour out my heart to him without looking into his eyes and see a blank stare. I have worked so hard over the last 4 years to address my "shadow side" so I can keep spiritually growing. He would have been an anchor around my foot. Glad his energy is gone, my home is filled with lightness now.
You should be so PROUD of your growth and obedience in doing the work to be the best version of yourself. Thank you brotha!!!
Thank you Divine Masculine for sharing your confession. I know all males are capable of this energy but
being that you are an Aquarius male , this gave me clarity based on my personal experience with ♒️ men .
I love that you said all males are capable, this is truth, we just need to allow ourselves to stop running from the pain, but instead to embrace it, so we can heal
Yes I need a part 3 please 🙏 this has tremendously helped me out with my current relationship
🙏🏾😊 I’ll be releasing it very soon!
thank you! @@aquariuswaive
Yes please do part 3 . I would like to know specifics: how you went about healing yourself?
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 coming soon!
I have been in a relationship with someone who wasn't emotionally available. It was my choice to be in that relationship and it was my choice to stay or not. Was it a good choice, actually yes it was. Why? Because I have learned a lot about myself and am thankful for that. Being attracted to an unavailable man or woman should be seen as a sign that you are not healthy either. If you were you wouldn't have a relationship with an unavailable man/woman. We women should also take accountability. A relationship takes two people to work. If it ain't working it means you both are doing something wrong. Do not, blame it all on the other person, be mature, reflect on your behavior, and change what you don't like or leave.
Part 3 please...
Gratitude 🙌🏿 ❤️🩹
It's all love!
Yep, on one of our dates I actually did see him eyeing another woman. Back then I thought nothing of it, he was just a straight man liking a woman’s top assets, but nowadays I recognize the unfaithfulness and I wouldn’t be surprised if he actually did cheat on me behind my back. Yet it’s so amazing how emotionally unavailable people can also act like these gentle souls. But then they go abandon you. He did it to me. :(.
Litterly what my guy said...every woman is this and that way .. so far i prove him wrong everytime ..🙂. .
Part two please
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I'm an emotionally unavailable woman.
Wow😳
It’s real!
Same
A HEISMAN!!!! 💯
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
These Aquarius men…whew emotionally unavailable.
You explain the unavailable, but narcissist have those very same traits, if I’m wrong please explain, because I was with someone who was an narcissist with the very same traits. I had to go no contact in order to heal and move on. I’m proud that you seek help.
My man somethings like that, he don't like to talk her family he said to me
What’s funny is, this type of man’s claimed machnoness is not actually manliness at all. A real man never runs. Honestly back when my life was so chaotic, my ex boyfriend despite his issues was so comforting I just wanted to hold onto him, and I believed that he wouldn’t be dumb enough to end things, but he did. Everybody’s told me it wasn’t my fault, and they’re right. I really did do the best I could. I felt crazy and still loved him. In fact one of his texts was: “Idk gotta figure stuff out.” So I assume this means himself.
If you are emotionally available she gonna leave you and see u as an emotional therapy pet instead of a real man. Stay woke kings
Yeah, but what about relationships in general though? Family, friends and so on. What did that look like?
What exactly does the healing of this look like?
This makes me miss him and wanna unblock him 😢
What can we do as women instead of walking away to kinda gain that trust again with a man in this situation?
First question I’d ask is where are both individuals, what do they truly want out of life, relationship, and also what are they willing to commit to?
Are you both commit to growth, innnerwork, person discovery, or are you looking to have the relationship be the answer to an internal need
Hi @AquariusWave is it possible that a guy can secretly like you while claiming and acting like they don’t?
Great question! absolutely...
unfortunately, some guys believe they have to put on an act in order to get s3x, will pretend...however not every guy is like this
@@aquariuswaive true. Thank you ✨
What was the catalyst that pushed you to "see the light"?
The pain of having never truly love, and feeling the deprivation of love for myself within myself...come I saw it I couldn't unsee it.
Did anyone leave you? Did it wake you up?
You remind me of the zebra from Madagascar but like a emotionally unavailable one.
😂😂😂 Chris Rock is my spirit animal ♒️