What To Do With A Guy That Is Emotionally Unavailable?
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 11 ก.ค. 2024
- What To Do With A Guy That Is Emotionally Unavailable?
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honestly the best thing to do is walk away… and find someone who’s actually ready and willing for a relationship. in my experience waiting around, adapting and acting like u dont want more just leads to dissapointment, him being complacent and taking u for granted.
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Honestly, if you find yourself being attracted to emotionally unavailable men, and then trying to adjust your own behavior in hopes of winning his affection, earning his love or somehow changing him (to become someone who finally feels, sees you and openly shows love for you?), then it might be a good idea to reflect on your childhood and ask yourself why you’re doing this..
All true!
Even if he is unavailable....
Nobody says you are supposed to get him as a partner, but your classy attitude and non-aggressive attitude will show him and make him remember
that one day as he gains his emotional strength and willigness, its possible for him to find true purpose in relationhip
no matter whether it will be with you or with some other classy woman.
He will remember: I met few classy women who did show me a way, but at that time I wasnt prepared for relationship
but he will feel happy that such classy good women exist, who dont punisdh him, who dont force him to be with you, but who give him option to chose from
If you remain calm and classy and give him option, to believe in love,
it has many values
you start liking yourself for being classy calm, not pushy woman, non-judgmental woman, who is able to maintain being calm and happy for your own mental strength
second it will make you realise, this way you really inspire men to change and have option, to really chose good women and nolt following some apps
you will inspire other women to be classy, not pushy, not judgmental about men and their mental transformation
you will increase the possibility to really attract someone who has the same attitude and mindset about relationship.
and even if you wouldnt attract good guy, you know that with right mindset you may remain happy
even women without man, are able to live happilly, because they have classy and nice girlfriends.
My situation now and he's in and out. Smh I'm shutting down and not putting no more effort just basic friendship. If he wants me, he needs to put in the work
Any updates ?! Im in same situation 🥲
Me too I love him but he's doesn't love me it's hurt
Why deal with that guy! Just move on…..
Run….as fast as you can!
With emotionally un- available guys, it's really important to talk..........about the weather. And when you want to go deep....ask him... exactly what kind of weather does he like?
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Emotionally unavailable means he wants sex with no commitment.
In reply, just cut his sex meetings, meet in public places, do nonsexual activities and have fun yourself.
it's excatly my situation now...thanks Alex for this info...
I hope this video was able to help you!
Honestly I really love your advice dearest may God keep blessing you
Thank you so much! I appreciate you!
Alex Tnx you a lot to be honest becouse of you I realize my mistake about relastionship I'm so needy and begging now I slowly understand kick out that kind of emotion I have
I’m going through that situation now. He admitted he is hurt from his previous relationship, he scares to be in a relationship. I back out and told him to just want to be friends and not more. Not giving him more than what you cannot handle
Thank you so much for watching! I hope this video was able to help you out!
Thank you Alex for helping!
Thank you so much for watching! I'm glad this video is able to help you!
he was 3 years emotionally unavailable and then it turned out he slept all this time with mother of his kids. Im done.
I'm so sorry to hear about this!
This is great Alex, gotta enjoy the moment yes 🥰
Thank you so much for watching!
Great advice, so much to remember! Omg! I’m soaking it in! Thank you
Hi there! Thank you so much for watching! I appreciate your support😊
NP! ☺️
Thanks again, Alex…
You helped me yesterday through one of your videos. Instant help! The table turned and I’m here now, a happy woman equipped to know herself more and find her happiness in a relationship and marriage. Thank you, please.
Thank you so much for your support! I'm always happy to help!
@@FrenchRelationshipExpertthank you and true!
Honestly Alex you are doing well,well done png girl ❤❤❤❤
Thank you so much for watching! I appreciate you!
I've done exactly what you teach here, without knowing! When he said he need a break, he need to breathe, I said to him that I understand, that I have a lot going on in my life too, my job, my hobbies, blablabla. When we talk, we keep a light conversation. He isn't in love again, but he still talking to me, I hope he really change his mind.
It's good that you keep the conversation light. Let's hope he changes his mind :)
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert thank you! I'm watching your videos, and I can say I've been learning more with you, than any other coach in my country, in my mother language!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽
@@raphaellaamorim1876any update? Did he come back around?
I'm in the same situation with an avoidant man. He shows interest and initiates all calls and messages but we're not together anymore. He asked to stay friends so I'm being a good friend but he still calls and chats with me in same manner and frequency as when I was his gf. He even introduced me to his childhood besties. I am trying not to be hopeful but it's hard some days 😅😅😅
So true. I can relate ..😢
Thank you so much for watching!
I simply wouldn’t waste my time!🤷♀️
Agreeing that he should take his time allows him space to see other women.
Wow!!!!!! Something I was going through yesterday with a spiritual friend 😢he obviously doesn’t trust after his last relationship
Thank you so much for watching! I appreciate you!
stoicism and blocking emotions are two different thigs.
but its true that when you have goal, job, or household stuff, you need to focus on goal with happy emotions, love empathy gratitude
and healthily resolve negative emotions by not being attached to them, which makes you feel negative emotions are short term, which makes your heart blissful.
My bf was doing exactly the same things ...he is emotionally unavailable.....nd I was doing the same mistake 😮
I hope this video was able to help you!
Hi Alex Why are men so complicated they are hard work. Life itself is stressful and then to have more stress from a man. I’m just looking for a connection with a man fall in love and live happily ever after.
Bonsoir Alex
But I finally drew him out making him laugh it’s that simple!! 😂
Thank you so much for watching!
Hello Alex!.
I meet exactly this men. I need help from you.
Hi there!
I know coach Alex would love to help you with this. I hope you can book a coaching session with him using this link: www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
-FRE Team
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The worst thing to do as well is sleeping with someone and then 2 months later what you’re describing happens!! So first impressions tell me everything! Enough time to walk away!!! 😢
Thank you so much for watching! I hope this video was able to help you!
Soo, we have two opposite ways, how to deal with men, when they're not enough into us.. and how can we tell, if he's emotionally unavailable or just lost interest?
As in why is he keeping the letter. He hasn't put it inside a drawer...
Ah! Thats why he called me narc , because i feel that he's really emotionally unavail. Ill flirt with him one time. Then he gets mad, exactly what he said im narc 🤣🤣, he's insane. I met him dating online. He's so sensitive turn me off , but he is really very handsome, tall, but very sensitive like woman🥴🥴
In this video you say one should communicate emotional things but the first video of yours I watched before this one you said to NOT communicate emotions because it will push him away.
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-FRE Team
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Thanks for watching!
Enjoying the moment with someone who is unavailable will cause to be put in friends with benefit drawer…
Yes! Do not accept a 'friends with benefits' relationship if you are looking for something more serious.
Now Couch Alex., i don't know if he will be back again . At first he was emotionally unavailable. But another girl got his timing. Introduced her his family, went to their family, ...and now he says to me that he only loves this girl that he cheated on me with. Do i really still have chance here??, Please, i need help.# I'm so much heartbroken... I can't do without him
Hi there!
I'm so sorry to hear about what you're going through. I know coach Alex would love to help you with this situation but he would need to know a little more information before he helps you with this. I would highly suggest you book a coaching session with him using this link!
www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
-FRE Team
How long do we go along and keep doing this before he actually becomes emotionally available?
Patience is a virtue, especially in love. Each person evolves at their own pace, and pushing someone to open up before they're ready can be counterproductive. To foster an environment conducive to emotional openness, focus on creating a safe space where your partner feels supported and understood, without pressure or judgment. It's also important to communicate openly about your own needs and feelings while remaining receptive to theirs.
Its my siruation now and few days i think about hos can i finish with him. I feel me emitter, feel i gave so much and have no energi entmore.
I'm so sorry to hear about this!
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert its ok), im very very strong . Its only good for me, i tale it as a big big lessin like in highscool.☺️ but your videos is realt hjelps people and it give like a push a wake up and tale a responsibility for own life. Only i can change it like i want and like i wish☺️
I always attract emotionally unavailable men. How do i stop alex? X
Hi there! I have a vide on my channel that can help you with this! I hope you find the time to check it out: th-cam.com/video/FsSxTmIDm10/w-d-xo.htmlsi=LxTizrqD5jvF06Mz
Hi alex please I need your help
Hi there!
If you want one on one advice, I would highly suggest you book a coaching call with him using this link: www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
-FRE Team
Yeah his emotional unavailable😮🙄
I sent my ex an accountability letter. He has read it, he is keeping it. He has it on top of his drawers. We have been split 6 weeks
Do you know why?
Girl I hope you left that man if he didn’t give you an answer. Find love in yourself babe and keep doing your thing