Your Guy Is Emotionally Unavailable And Here Is How I Figured It Out

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ความคิดเห็น • 55

  • @susan5048
    @susan5048 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Ladies don’t waste your time with emotionally unavailable men. You are fighting a losing battle.

  • @leahsamaniego4507
    @leahsamaniego4507 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I have to believe that there is a level of immaturity here in addition to being emotionally unavailable. And this doesn’t seem to change easily over time. My one friend is this EXACT person. He dates people for 1-2 years then they leave because he won’t commit. He’s 57- never married, never had kids, never even lived with a partner. And his longest relationship with the woman (who was abusive by the way) that he says “was the one that got away” was only 4 years.

  • @thatkatt_
    @thatkatt_ 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    “They run through all of you like f***n trains” 💀😂😂😂

  • @Saylerk9
    @Saylerk9 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    My question is: Don't they realize their patterns? I told the dude a lot of what you have said here then left, blocked and I am not waiting, moving on. Very frustrating and heartbreaking. 💔

    • @ElliotScottDating
      @ElliotScottDating  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I made a video for tomorrow that kind of touches on that. The answer is kinda lol

    • @Saylerk9
      @Saylerk9 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @ElliotScottDating all good, love your content. It has been helpful to navigate through heartache.

    • @CleanSweetHome
      @CleanSweetHome 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      What a child😂😂

    • @karasmusic123
      @karasmusic123 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Send them to Adam Lane Smith to help them work on their avoidant attachment wound.

    • @BrooklynBaby100
      @BrooklynBaby100 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @Saylerk9 They do and then they learn how to do better with the next girl at times. One of the worst men I met was a total POS but it took me awhile to know that. Our last few arguments I made comments about his lack of ambition and how I had wanted to move to a different city. I left him. Later on, guess what he actually got off his butt and moved to the city. He wrote me a letter telling me how I didn’t realize the impact I had on his life and how not to settle for less in life and he wanted me back 😅They’re a bunch of idiots. I mean that’s nice and all but I couldn’t do it he really screwed up the first time around. 😅

  • @braskevful5760
    @braskevful5760 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I was the girlfriend, met his parents, friends. Still no living together, no ring, 4 years passed. He kept saying how much he loved me until i asked him to make the decision - we move in together or break up. He broke up via text...

    • @teadororudy
      @teadororudy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Ugh! I’m so sorry. There are so many men like this out there now. It seems like the norm, not the exception. So sick of wasting my time. About to give up on men and dating. Stay strong.

    • @teralecole316
      @teralecole316 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@teadororudyDecentering men is the only way to get your power back.

    • @jessicahitchens6926
      @jessicahitchens6926 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Jesus. Please listen to your intuition next time.

    • @jessicahitchens6926
      @jessicahitchens6926 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      It is the norm...not the exception to the rule.

  • @ZombiexMuffins
    @ZombiexMuffins 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    God this opened my eyes. He flipped at the 8 week mark when he planned on commiting. Now he's on apps chasing down the next person to fill the void.

    • @flyandshy00
      @flyandshy00 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Maybe because he got the kitty? Or maybe because he didn;t get it. If a man switches - he never liked you in the first place. I man never pushes a hot woman, unless she's too clingy, weird, has some psychological issues, but that's exception, so it might be looks, why he's ghosting etc.

  • @Sparksflymich
    @Sparksflymich 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    well.. elliot you’re always right.

  • @RobinTaylorMusic
    @RobinTaylorMusic 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Yesss the board is back!!

  • @jessicahitchens6926
    @jessicahitchens6926 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thanks for telling the truth. I'm picky with whom I listen to. And you are so correct how the market is full of these losers and con artists. And it has nothing to do with " he is just not interested in you". I hate that book and the film was nonsense back in 2008.

  • @JD-de5mq
    @JD-de5mq 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is like pure math, thank you so much!!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @marielcarranza2958
    @marielcarranza2958 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Facts, Elliott! Facts!! You rock!!🔥🔥🔥 💯💯💯❤❤❤

  • @ohgodwhy6640
    @ohgodwhy6640 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love the set up. Keep up the great work.

  • @jL0cA
    @jL0cA 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    👏👏👏 thank you Elliot for always being honest and spot on

  • @Kate.Sangalang
    @Kate.Sangalang 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    From my experience, what Elliot is saying is 💯

  • @jeanetteperez79
    @jeanetteperez79 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for finally explaining this!!!! It was always a missing puzzle piece of information for me. Thanks Elliot 💜💜💜

  • @silverwitch5490
    @silverwitch5490 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Exactly what I needed to hear right now.... The best video about this topic that I've watched. Thank you for making things so clear and understandable! ❤

  • @proudestmommy
    @proudestmommy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love this format

  • @hope3894
    @hope3894 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love the blackboard explanations!

  • @delsolvandenbrink9084
    @delsolvandenbrink9084 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you so much for this

  • @NNV337
    @NNV337 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi Elliot, it turned out exactly as you have decribed herr with my short and long term relationships. Honest and Perfect explanation 👌

  • @laylaote1316
    @laylaote1316 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Perfect explanation. 💯happened as you described

  • @Heidys_autodetail
    @Heidys_autodetail 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Have been binge watching your videos. Wish I had guidance like this in my 20s

  • @jenniferangela8
    @jenniferangela8 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    8:46 “15-20 yr age gap, I don’t care it’s Jennifer A.!” lol 😇

  • @Heidys_autodetail
    @Heidys_autodetail 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Have been binge watching your videos. Wish I had guidance like this in my 20s. Thank you for your content. So greatly appreciate it ❤

    • @ElliotScottDating
      @ElliotScottDating  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You are so welcome!

    • @Heidys_autodetail
      @Heidys_autodetail 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ElliotScottDating Will keep on watching 😊

  • @sairahussain7342
    @sairahussain7342 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Ah I needed to hear from my favourite dating coach … ❤️

  • @sunnydayz3577
    @sunnydayz3577 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Great video! You are dead on. This exact same thing happened to me right down to the last detail! I trust your advice! ❤️👏

  • @chloemae_
    @chloemae_ 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The Elliot Scott cooking show 😂

  • @roxy7255
    @roxy7255 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This makes me feel better my ex would always be umming and uhing one day I was the one for him next I wasn’t.

  • @amandat392
    @amandat392 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Can an emotionally unavailable man says I love you?Mine never did we where together for just over a year .So true about hitting that wall he did and things changed sooooooo much..I couldn't take it anymore so am now doing no contact.

  • @crystalmermaid439
    @crystalmermaid439 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Do these guys ever come back?

  • @Sunnysideup01
    @Sunnysideup01 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I find 50 plus year olds are the worst in this category

  • @claracruz9066
    @claracruz9066 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for the clarification. I thought you were referring to sex...😂😂

  • @mailmebaby555
    @mailmebaby555 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Ladies, when you waste your time on emotionally unavailable men you are also emotionally unavailable because if you were available you wouldn't fall for people who are vague, give you half a$$ed answers and make you doubt whether or not they want to see you.
    If you really weren't ok with it, you would look around and see a really nice guy that adores you for being you. But if he's a high caliber cream of the crop guy, he won't wait long because he's looking for a wife, not a mystery.