The MOST REALISTIC new york city vlog you'll ever watch. Or your money back.
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 29 ต.ค. 2022
- Genuinely I can't believe I'm putting some of this stuff on the internet. If this isn't the most realistic new york city vlog you've ever watch then I quit lol. Living alone in nyc can be an interesting experience to say the least... let's start glamorizing the every day mundane energy!! I am willing to lead the 'messy aesthetic' for new york city creators. If you really want to know what it's like living in new york city, then please watch all the way through. Leave a comment to say hey!!
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Your channel just got recommended to me and I am SO glad I found you. THIS CONTENT 👏🏾. Thank you for not being a 20-year-old millionaire influencer living off a smoothie all day while traipsing through her “day in the life” in SoHo. I always talk about normalizing actual life and as a fellow NYC-er (in non-glam BK!) I can totally relate and appreciate. Keep up the great content! ✨
Omg 😭 thanks for such a nice comment!! So glad you stumbled upon my video! Love that you’re in bk ✨
lol your talking about Mai Pham right 😂
@@hasaneats I had the same thought 😂
Same! So happy I found you! Thank you being so honest and transparent ✨
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Thank you for keeping it real. I am so so tired of seeing all the influencers who live in NYC just living up the great life, showing off what 90% of us don’t live. They are really stuck in their own bubble!!
💓💓💓 I totally get it. Good for those though who worked their way up to get to that place!! it is important to show there are other ways people live here definitely and branch outside the bubble
Honestly nothing makes me feel better than seeing the “unaesthetic” life online. The messy house, the uncool clothes lol, and talking about how hard it is to just keep up with life. I live alone and am out of the house 10 hours a day for work, and with a plethora of health issues, my house is always a constant mess. And then seeing every influencer’s in tact house and the time to work out and eat well and socialize always makes me feel like I must be doing something wrong.
the uncool clothes hahahhaha. I'm honored. damn you work hard, you got this!
@@ChelseaCallahan hahha totally did not mean it as a backhanded compliment!! and if i did subconsciously, then i was also insulting myself
I love this so much . The anti aesthetic. You had to literally blur out something on the floor. The garbage bags and laundry soap haul. this is my life. I'm 38.
The blur was her underwear lol
girl, you have an elevator and a laundry in your building. YOU ARE LIVING THE NY DREAM (crying laughing face emoji heart) love the original content, I totally relate!
And a dishwasher! Man I would kill for one of those. I miss not having to hand wash everything
I love these non-aesthetic vlogs because they ARE such an aesthetic. It’s a cozy, homey vlog that just makes you feel like everything is alright, and you’re surrounded by the things you love.
As a native of Queens, I love this video!! this is the most accurate life of a typical New Yorker! Not those “aesthetic 24/7” videos we see on TH-cam I get so tired of them, everyone always trying doing the same thing lol but there’s just something so special about that New York grit and hustle
Definitely!
Girl I’m 40. I spend all weekend gathering up the mojo to get myself together enough to do what you did. Thank you for sharing - the struggle is real
Watching it from Germany, almost crying how thankful I am to see something so real and human. Thank you, thank you for filming it and sharing
I live alone too, except I'm 20 and live in England.. so kinda the other side of the pond, but I find your content to be extremely relatable. It's hard to maintain your space, cleaning every day is difficult when you work five days a week and struggle with anxiety. I feel seen. Thank you for putting out this content, it really makes a massive change compared to the glamorised and 'aesthetic' content you see other creators producing. And I think you are right, an average, messy life certainly can be aesthetic, you just have to reframe your mindset
Yep totally ! I am disabled and cleaning is just a pain, I feel like people want to pretend those things are normal when for many of us ( more than we want to admit ) it's a real struggle, you're doing great ! x England is marvelous hope you have an awesome time
You talking about having Thyroid issues and being unmedicated is literally the most relatable thing I’ve seen on TH-cam, I struggle with the same problem. It’s so hard to get anything done when your body feels exhausted all the time. I used to blame myself for years thinking I was just lazy or weak when all I needed was medical help. My place was also messy most of the time due to pushing most of my energy to get through work. You got this! It will get better, I will start treatment soon and I hope it will change my life🤞🏻
This is exactly why I subscribed to you. You show the realistic REALISTIC New York and the reality of living as a self sufficient working adult. Your honesty is so valuable! You’re such an insightful human that I love your content nyc or non-nyc related! Just love to hear your thoughts.
Looking forward to more videos!
Serena wow thank you for taking the time to write that comment!! Really appreciate you being here and watching! 💕 have a great week!
This video was suggested to me by TH-cam. I found it so relatable!! I don’t live in NYC, but I also live alone in a pretty small apartment. I too find it hard to keep the place clean and not messy, and to get all the things done during the weekend. I don’t think I have chronic fatigue, but I do feel like I get tired much faster than most people. So comforting to know I’m not alone! Sometimes I feel like a total weirdo and like something is wrong with me, because people don’t normally show this side of them online. Also, I like Sally Rooney a lot! Thank you for putting your content out there, wishing you all the best ❤
I just noticed the "glamorous" homefront picture in the thumbnail. Made me chuckle. At this point we've all seen a couple thousand hours of youtuber content and it becomes harder not to roll your eyes at the pattern of making everything look like as if it's a pinterest board or Vogue. You come across as authentic, sweet and determined to fight the slog. We can all relate to that. So don't worry and keep going. At the end of the day, it really is just about putting stuff out and nurturing that connection you have with the people who enjoy your content.
Hahaha glad you caught that! I pulled the picture straight from canva 🤣 thanks for watching Henry I appreciate the comment!!
I truly hope your channel blows up because of how real you are. You're genuine, authentic, and a very sweet person. I hope all the best for you, Chelsea!
As soon as you said you've struggled with chronic fatigue, I felt so seen. Even as you were leading up to that bit and talking about doing the dishes and not wanting to clean every day, I had the thought in the back of my mind of like "oh, that's like me. it feels impossible to keep up with chores sometimes bc of my chronic fatigue." Mine is still undiagnosed, so I am not medicated yet. I don't currently have access to healthcare, but I am moving this summer to somewhere I will have that access, so I hope to find answers soon. But just hearing you talk about how it's gotten better gives me a small bit of hope. I can still do chores and things, it just takes me forever and it wipes me out every time.
Hang in there! I hope you get answers soon ❤️
@@ChelseaCallahan Thank you
34 yr old born and raised NYC... this is def one of the better depicted videos of what the city is like for someone who works a regular job and isn't born rich, living in a luxury building... the struggle b real
I love how real you are. No bullshit and smoke and mirrors. It’s refreshing to see a young woman in NYC being honest about the struggles of life and living. Not every moment is joyous, nor should it be.
You are a-okay with me!
I never comment on videos, and this may not get seen, but honestly I love these kind of videos. They're so relatable and I felt like you weren't shoving an aesthetic down my throat in a fancy 8K/mo apartment. I live in a big city, where a lot of people here are living in the fancy sky rise apartments; yet, I literally have to watch where I step when I leave my building bc homeless people shit in front of the bldg door a lot.
It's nice to finally watch something relatable and know that as hard as it is living on my own, I'm not the only one who feels like this. Anyways, love your videos and keep being you! Too many people who vlog are all... the same, but I'm here for the relatable content haha (I need to know I'm not alone haha)
Loved it!! Real, normal people need to post more, not just fancy influencers. Coenzyme Q10 and Cordyceps should help with fatigue, but I'm struggling with that too.
So sorry you struggle with fatigue too! It’s no fun at all. Thanks so much for watching :)
omg thank you!! I've been looking at apartments in NYC and can't understand how these post grad early twenty somethings afford their apartments alone! Everyone I know either makes well over 100k or have roommates in Harlem or deep Brooklyn. Glad to know it's actually normal to be above Central Park. I've started looking at Jersey myself.
I am going through a really hard moment of my life where I am always thinking that the life I have to live is not worth it just because it doesn't look like others. Thanks for showing us the reality, it means a lot, so inspiring
So much love to ya, friend ❤️ thanks for being here!! You got this ❤️
I live in NYC too - in Washington Heights - and it's so nice to see people living similar lives to mine being depicted on TH-cam!
thanks for sharing about the chronic fatigue.... I have Hoshimoto Thyroiditis , was diagnosed at the age of six. thanks for keeping it real, makes the rest of us feel less alone
Also just seeing you wearing the clothes you wear ( if that make sense ) is very inspirational. I know how social media can make people change their whole aesthetic for the sake of a good shot or not being judged. My family is always embarrassed by me when we go out because I like to dress cozy, I don't care if people look, feeling comfortable in our own skin is already hard enough, might as well just be true instead of hiding it !
amen! comfort over everything else always :)
I'm so glad I found your channel. It's refreshing to see a normal, relatable person who doesn't try to glamorize everything and who shows actual real life.
As someone who will put off filming videos because of the pressure of constantly being aesthetic, this was very fun and inspiring to watch. Thank you for the anxious vibes, very relatable! 😄
Getting excited for what you bought at Walgreens is genuinely what it's like living in NYC.
I really like this video. I myself am tight on funds and live alone, so I know what that can be like. I’ve lived in the same garden style apartment for over three years now because I can’t really afford to move. But who are we kidding, roommates suck!
Thank you for the authentic content. It’s a breath of fresh air in the TH-cam community ❤
You are my new hero! Thirty something (✔️… for a few more months), medical issues (✔️), lives alone (✔️), paycheck to paycheck (✔️ … mostly), likes noodles and baths (✔️). 🙌
Haha yes!!!! 💕
New to your channel and already in love. I'm from Harlem and seeing my neighbor in your vlog just made me happy. Loving how real, honest and raw this is.
Your channel and this video was recommended to me this morning and I love how real it is. You show the mess, the struggle, the real stuff you gotta buy, rather than loads of expensive makeup/decoration/other wants, the anxiety you feel yet still taking care of yourself in your own way and pace. I actually admire that so much because it's way more healthier, for me personally, to see something actually relatable on TH-cam vlogs and feel like I'm not alone, rather than envy or failure over seeing someone living the "dream life".
Of course, not trying to dismiss their own hustle to get there, but you know what I mean xD
I just felt less shitty about myself watching this video and knowing that I'm not the only one and that it's okay I'm not where I want to be yet, so thank you so much
I’m so glad you stumbled across my video! Thank you so much for taking the time to write such kind words it made my night 🥹love that we are in this together! Xx
Most people don't live like influencers and that's perfectly fine. There's so much to be appreciated about authenticity, vulnerability, simplicity and humbleness ❤ I've personally always been more drawn to genuine and authentic content from average people than rich influencers.
THIS is the content I'm living for!!! I also have thyroid problems and sometimes I feel soooo weak... then I feel guilty and lazy, like those easy tasks are too much, I hate it. Also - I was living alone for 4 years and it was NOT glamorous. Thanks, I found somebody I can relate to. 💜 Sending hugs from Poland!
As a born and raised New Yorker this video is so great to watch 💖
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I'm so glad that I found your channel! I needed to be in this side of youtube where I can watch videos of other people being themselves and having realistic videos about their lives.
I'm so glad I found your channel! I appreciate your honesty and perspective on life and living it. Thank you for being you :)
Hi Chelsea, this video was suggested to me by TH-cam and I decided to watch it. And I just want to say: THANK YOU. I can relate so well with what you say about living alone & not getting everything maintenance-wise in your home done on a day/during the week. 😅 I’m in the same situation and I thank you for generally sharing so honestly about your day and feelings going through your head. I can relate 100% to everything you say. Keep going, beautiful one, you are doing an awesome job and are an encourager to many 💪🏻💐 Much love from Berlin, Germany. Looking forward to watching more of your videos 😍
I love the honesty . The fact that you don’t put fancy cloth and make up in house for youtube makes the whole thing more realistic
This is awesome content! Nobody talks about this. I've lived in NYC for half my life and this is just how it is. Simple, domestic and not at all with a Rise and Grind mindset anymore. Thanks!
Your videos were recommended to me recently and I love them! Keep being yourself it is refreshing. I too hardly leave the house and feel less bad about it. 30's and single as well. It is nice to know I am not the only one.
I moved to NYC last year as a student, first time in the US and first time living alone. It was quite intimidating at first but now I just love this life!! Great content!
Just wanted to say I loved the transparency of this video. Very comforting and honestly personalized I loved it
Love that you are simply yourself. It's a whole vibe❤
I've woken up on a Saturday morning, turned on my TV, went straight to TH-cam and this video was recommended to me and I'm SO glad that it was! The perfect relaxing vibe that I needed this morning 😊 You've just gained a new subscriber in me! 🎉😘💕
I love the pure beauty of normalcy of this video and the inspiration of your mind set. Thank you.
Your channel is awesome. I think I commented on another of your videos saying similar but I honestly had some of the same feelings you seem to have while living in London. It’s an expensive city and at times it can seem like everyone else is having the time of their lives while you’re broke and lonely, but it gets better ❤
Your video came up as a recommendation, and finally! no more smoothie-a-day NYC vlogs with floor-to-ceiling window views, perfect sunsets and all white furnishings. Love the reality 😉
Just found your channel, and as an empty nester from Iowa, your life fascinates me. I find it so interesting, and I appreciate how real you are. Thank you for not being fake! Thanks for what you do!❤
Thank you!! And welcome :)
I think if the highlight of your day was getting mail and you read the bills or the coupons, I would still watch. Thx for being so upfront. I'm a fan of what you see is what you get.
Thank u for putting your real life and self out there. I enjoyed it so much. Please don’t stop believing
I'm so happy to see you managed to get out of your formerly sedentary lifestyle and being so productive. You made my day girl!! I hope to see you even more passionate in the near future❤❤
Im so thankful I found this video because social media in the last months have been nothing but "aestheticaly pleasing" and seemed unachievable. And as someone who also has struggled with thyroid issues their whole life this video spoke to me on another level, so thank you so much for filming this and showing a realistic routine and not just going to parties everyday. Definetly gonna be checking out your other videos!
(PS sorry for any mistakes, english is not my first language lmao)
So happy to have found you. Going through my own existential crisis, living alone in a new city. It’s been emotionally taxing and all I want to do is sleep (in my tiny cave), forget all the adventures I’m supposed to be having 🤷♀️ . Anyway thank you for sharing. Sending you good vibes!!
haha seeing you walk the streets of my old neighborhood living the struggle is real! Appreciate you showing the grind of NYC life. Stuff messy and hard. but gotta keep hustling for that dream!
so glad i bumped into your amazing channel fr! :)
Thank you for presenting a real human experience ❤️
Glad I found your channel! thank you for this video, It has inspired me as well to make a realistic day in a life without the glamour of what everyone watches on TH-cam. so thank you! 😊✨
This is the first video I have seen of yours and I've subscribed! So refreshing to see a REALISTIC new york city vlog! 😂 I live in Harlem too and definitely agree that the real New York City life is uptown. Keep doing what you do! xx
Just amazing, loved the video ! Silly me thinking I'm the only one feeling this way in my 30's, struggling with anxiety and living alone and being single and all of that.
just stumbled upon this video and am very grateful for the luck of it. while i don't live in nyc, i'm also living alone in a city and struggle very frequently with a lot of what you talk about - like finding motivation to get essential tasks done and the need for an ~aesthetic~ existence. it was comforting to see my own life reflected in yours. thank you.
I’m a new subscriber here! Loved your video, I can definitely relate. I’m in my 30s living alone and don’t have everything together as I feel I should. Though one thing I must say, you’re lucky to have two days off.. one day off is just beyond tough. I’m with you, I think three day weekends should be a thing globally! Sending you good vibes back! ✨
Been needing this type of vlog in my life! thank you for showing reality! Love this content
Just got recommended your video.
I really like your vibe!
Soon to be living by myself at 21.
Visited NYC once. Was very fun to visit.
I freaking adore you. Thanks for keeping it real. I’m almost ready to leave everything and come to nyc and try and make it work. Your channel is making me feel less anxious to know there’s people doing it that are REAL.
🥹 much love and good luck!!
you made my day today- really enjoyed watching your vlog!- thank you!
That is literally the kind of content i was looking for !!
Just came across your Chanel. Living in the uk and wanted to see what life is REALLY like over the pond. It’s been such a pleasure starting to watch your videos and I cannot wait to watch more.
Many thanks!
And take care!
i randomly searched for nyc vlogs and i am so glad i came across your channel! seems very realistic and relatable without being 'try hard'. subscribed!
So glad you found my channel! Thanks for being here, happy holidays!
First off! This video is so real and relatable. If you have ever lived in not one of the trendy parts of the city, you know. Thanks for posting content like this.
glad i found this video, love your vibes!! thank u sm for keeping it real
It's just ethereal to see a person enjoying a normal life in NYC. I mean the glamour does overpower but somehow basic is always the need.
More power to you!
SO REALISTIC. This is what I, and so many of us needed.
I'm from Long Island, but my parents moved us to Florida 18 years ago.
I'm planning a solo trip to NYC, solo, for my 29th birthday, in hopes I'll wanna move there hehe.
THANK YOU for being so REAL
my bed is also close to my couch and my apapartment looks a bit like yours and it feels so good to be reminded that no an appartment with spare rooms or a house is NOT the norm and i'm doing fine at 26 in this appartment and it's okay and there is so many mid 20's/in their 30's people out there just like me and i loved your content im gonna bingewatch THE ENTIRETY of your channel thank you for posting thank you for sharing it feels good
Just subscribed ☺️ I don’t live in New York City but your content is so relatable! The endless amount of tasks that constantly need doing around the house is exhausting especially when working a regular 8-5, looking forward to seeing more of your content ❤
This was just so validating and comforting. Everything especially the thyroid exhaustion hit home for me. You're not alone, crazy or boring. There's a lot of us in the city along with you. Thanks for sharing.
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Real is exactly what I've been searching for! Thanks for sharing that with the Internet, it really is needed more.. keep it real girl!
currently doing the same thing right now, deep cleaning after being sick for several days. I like your take on being easy on yourself and understanding that you’re just a person. there will be dishes and laundry to do and life won’t always be *aEsTheTiC*. hope you enjoyed your ramen :-)
After visiting NYC one month ago TH-cam recommends me a lot of vids about this city topic... And yours is truly the most pleasing to me! I loved it! Nice job! 🙌🏻💕
Fist video in your blog I ave watched. Just LOVE it. My speed, my life, my jam (Spotify).
Once again I'm watching this...I love your vibe and I get it!!! Life is working against us enough for us to pull through...I loved the "quick noodle" comment...here in AZ we do the quick burrito...i love a good shrimp burrito...the need to relax in this quick paced world is hard!!! I absolutely love all your videos
First time watching your channel. Very authentic , your a very sweet person! Thanks for creating this!
My god, I love your channel 🙌 realism is so fresh & authentic!!!
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Found your channel today, and I love it! Very refreshing to find someone talking about real life in other parts of the city where your average person would reside. I'm moving there for work this year and think I'll end up in Harlem, Astoria, or somewhere in the Bronx. Still on the search, but very excited and thankful for your content to get me into a realistic headspace!
All great locations!! Best of luck with your move
Thank you for this. I want to live in NYC one day and these are the blogs I need to see. Keep up the great work.
This is the first video of you that i see, you said something that i felt very heart touching, "it is important to find yout purpose", that meant a lot to me because i am a 28 years old man and for the very first time in my life i started to feel completely lost, without purpose, and with endless existencial questions, recently i red the book Man's Search for Meaning, and it says that as well, i hope you and me and evybody finds the real pourpose and mission in life, nice vid!
It's great mix. Used it during prep sessions in my restaurant.
OMG, the brown water in the bathtub!! I thought I was the only one! Thank you for showing this... I live in a teeny old brownstone apartment in Brooklyn and I guess it's just par for the course. I appreciate your content! :)
I agree on three day weekends! I used to work a 4/10 schedule which rocked! The extra two hours a day was so worth it to have an extra day off. It wasn’t that hard to do the extra two hours as long as I was there already. Ask your employer if that’s something they might consider?
just discovered your channel but really live your vibe and everything! sending you nothing but love ❤️
I love this, nah I can really relate. I love the idea of the beautiful diggs, nice and clean with the friends and fun things to do but that’s rarely the case for me. Sometimes I push myself to have the day to day I desire and many times I don’t force it and do bare minimum. I appreciate this.
3 DAY WEEKENDS SHOULD BE MANDATORY!!!!! PERIOD! This is such a true ass NYC vlog!!!!! Loved seeing this
This is such a treat! I love every second of it. ❤
Your video was completely relatable. I’m struggling with ADHD and paralysis ADHD. I just simply can’t do my stuff and everyday after watching those fantasy aesthetic videos I really felt bad about myself. Thank you so much
Your so refreshing, so glad I found you, it's wonderful to see a normal human and your everyday life. yippee !!!!
I am grateful for the authenticity, refreshing and very brave. Thank you for sharing
Chelsea, my word! This one was sooo good and so real! Brewed some tea to watch your new vid, but forgot the mug comoletely. Just so nice to see you showing this non-glamorous everyday side of life and being open about it!
Thanks for your effort! Really, make more of this kind of vlogs, its very nice and cozy to watch.
WOW thanks so so much for the kind words! This made my day. Appreciate you watching!!
@@ChelseaCallahan Welcome back. Really enjoy your vids
I love you vid! And it’s so refreshing to see a relatable youtuber in their 30’s too. Most of the NYC ‘relatable’ vloggers I see are pretty young and I cannot relate at all lol
Oh man...I was just recommended your channel, and this video was such a breath of fresh air. Thank you so much for addressing this and filling the void that didn't exist with this genre. I'm planning on moving to New York this spring from out of state, and I have ZERO idea what to expect. But I'm so excited for the journey. Love this and just subscribed 😄
Jared this actually made my day!! Thanks for the love. Very exciting on your move and your nyc journey! 🗽
@@ChelseaCallahan agh of course!! And thanks so much, excited to see your TH-cam/New York journey continue from here as well 😌🙏🏻
I just stumbled upon your channel and I absolutely love it. I love how you are just being you and are super realistic. You def deserve more recognition!
🥹🤍 thank you!