Ep #1: How to Stop Yelling at Your Kids with Dr Laura Markham | The Child Psych Podcast
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- Most parents think that if our child would just "behave," we could maintain our composure as parents. The truth is that managing our own emotions and actions is what allows us to feel peaceful as parents. Ultimately we can’t control our children or the hand life deals them-but we can always control our own actions. Parenting isn’t about what our child does, but about how we respond." ( Dr. Laura Markham)
Tania Johnson and Tammy Schamuhn - psychologists, play therapists, and moms- interview one of the world’s leading parent experts on how to stop yelling at our kids, how to put in limits while still being gentle, and on how to bring peace back to our homes!
Such great advice. I was crying 10 minutes in and cried on and off throughout because I finally got some solid advice on how to help myself work on my yelling
"Just stop and shut your mouth" - This is where I will start today. Great video.
If I would have heard this before.... This is so good and clear advice
There’s also of a- kissing happening in the video, hard to watch. It’s annoying. Stop worshipping this person and just get the content out.
10:18 gold. Stop yourself earlier and earlier in the process
8:30
Great tips thank you very much
Wow you're a blessed lady...thanks for the advice.
Underrated video!
Brilliant interview with the Queen of Peaceful Parenting!
Incredible advice!
And the shouting messes with even you the parent, before even the child. I have been trying so hard to work myself out of the shouting, and each time i do not shout, it feels great😊
You tried what exactly?
At 32 min.. after your spiel and the kid has calmed down, I reckon you the parent can express anger or disappointment authentically and ask for an apology. (And without threats and consequences).. otherwise I think many parents just can't identify with this method as they see it as bottling themselves up. The mindfulness in yourself the parent I totally get and internalise, but if you're also upset at a bottle shattering it's not authentic to bottle yourself up the whole way. The child will understand your upset too, without the threats and consequences.
Otherwise I'm a total fan on Laura Markham 😊
i do this. Always I'll breath and then say : "I'm sorry baby, I shouldn't talk like that" I always explain ( and that is every time i catch myself) that " mommy is learning to be better and we are a team and we can do this, when I tell you, you should listen and when you don't listen I should speak politely and remind you" Albeit looking at me with confusion she will listen then.
Oh my god what a load of nonsense
I would recommend giving it a go. You may be surprised at the results. I’ve used this with my children, aged 7, 13, and 18, and I am so happy with the results. 😊
@@oliviathatcher1459how does this work with interpersonal relationships among your kids? Particularly in conflict? I have a 6,5,2 and 1 yr old. The older two especially, are constantly pushing each others buttons