@@alise4377 yeah the job I was offered fell through, they haven't got back to me with a start date but currently working on breaking into tech, working on portfolio rn so I can start applying. Hopefully things work out. And dude same here, most of my friends are employed with cool careers or have successful businesses, I pulled up snapchat last night and saw one of my highschool friends promoting an event he was running while in a frickin Lamborghini Urus, and I'm here sleeping on a sofa lol. It made me depressed but hey, I'm only 23, and as long as I stay consistent and try my best, but at the very least stay consistent I'm sure I can turn my life around and gain a solid career foundation. And I yeah, degrees don't mean much tbh, depending on what you get one in tbf. Like I have a degree and it really doesn't help, in fact it hinders me, as jobs I would like in the degree field wouldn't hire me while lower paying jobs in different fields wouldn't hire me because I was "overqualified". I'd say just get a skill that's high paying and you can learn online for free, preferably in tech as it gives you freedom as well as high earning potential, and get a portfolio and start applying or freelancing. Hope that helps, we can make it out of our situations.
I am and it's overwhelming everytime. You tend to loose confidence, and also feels lazy to work on your skills. Sometimes you are over qualified for job and sometimes under qualified. Also thinking to change the field. Especially change to IT due to high lucrative salary. Unable to control your mind. And then you got headache and you go to sleep and this process repeats.
im crying while watching your video😢 ive been unemployed 4 years.. throughout those years i tried to sought for job but those industry or company doesn't give me the chance to prove my skills and knowledge 😢
I've been stuck too, my advice is to learn new skills, work on a project and at this rate take any job to get you in to the world again Have faith! You can break out of this!
I always say this to people I meet. If u can't get Employmed.......be the Employer and give yourself and other people the chance to live how God needs u to.
Idk what to do… I’ve been unemployed for a couple of months now and it honestly suck. I stay with my parents and I don’t want to be a burden to them. I wish a company would just hire me everyday but no hope 😢 I’ve been having headaches and both my eyes feel swollen from the back because of stress. I try to stay positive but that doesn’t work. My parents tell me that it’s fine but I know they are suffering for me. I can’t imagine how I’ll ever manage to live life when they are gone, I think I’ll end it when my parents are gone.
I'm 22 when you applied for multiple jobs and they even or haven't called you back. When you are being persistent, you try and try. This is why it's hard to find a job no one giving people chances.
@@user-xr8eq1ol5s It's a mixture of environment and philosophy. If you are unemployed, chances is that you get depressed. But it's still better than being unhealthy
Iam unemployed for 4 months now. I worked in a private bank in my region for some years and saved some decent amount of money. I gotta tell you the feeling is exactly the same as compared to those earlier time when I had a job. It's just human nature. We get bored easily
Slowly coming to terms with my first unemployment in a long time. I only feel depressed if I stay home all day. But if I leave the house to do job apps or just ride my bike somewhere, it feels more like a "normal" day. Luckily I stay with family that wont just kick me to the curb too
I can relate. In my 28. I am fired from my workplace that been "using" me for almost 5 years . Still searching the new job to pay rent, bills etc. Literally alone as orphan. Refused to live with families nearby. I hope the best for you.
I am sorry to hear that. I’m sure you will be valued as a person, don’t give up! You are a piece of the puzzle, and the puzzle can’t be completed without you.
I am the exact same. I have friends that are doing really well in life in terms of a career and then I am just hear clueless. Life likes to be tough sometimes.
Yeah it's kinda depressing as I'm in my 20s and still live with my parents and places of work are not hiring. And people are really judgmental and I try not to think about it too much 😢
I literally just quit my job and I’m at this phase of unemployment literally trying my best not to loose my mind whilst I literally do nothing at home but eat, sleep, clean, repeat 🥴
UPDATE * Whatever happens it all happens for a good reason and if you’re at a phase where you feel awful, just remember and believe that ‘ this shall pass ‘ Fast forward …. I’ve found another job and is 100x times better than where I used to work previously 🫶🏻. Sending good energy to all reading and going through the same phase.
I'm unemployed but I'm willing to work but no employer is giving me a chance so I have to gamble, recycle to get money extra money I get money from my SSI btw
it sucks working a 9-5 I don’t wanna work for nobody especially ur not even making good money but I need a job cus I need money, content creators/ rich ppl r so lucky
Wake up and go to gym as the first thing in the morning! Don’t even think about it. Wash your face,change your clothes and go! If you don’t have the job you want, create one or one that will lead to that😊
I have been sitting around since age 24. I have had my share of not going back to school And then going back to school. In my free time I write journal and listen to music and podcasts and working out. Hopefully something changes soon. I know I am going back to school this year thoguh.
My advice: To anyone in this position, I recommend working on a project/learning a skill to add meaning to this time It also really helps keep you a bit busy and helps break up the dreaded 'job search' Exercise helps as well, calisthenics, running, yoga (from yt videos) All these can be done for free. Lastly know that you are not alone in this epidemic. Hope this helps
Been unemployed for almost 8 months now.. I have enough money saved so finance is not the problem, it's how I have no routine and every day ends up being the same that's the problem... but then I felt the same way when I had a job so maybe the problem is within
That's how i exactly feel. Iam also unemployed for 4 months now. But Iam thinking of joining again. sitting at home doing nothing making me crazy day by day. The job atleast keeps me busy and Focus.
@@user-eb1cg1cm3e Have you considered relocating to a safer, more stable and more economically prosperous country? I am in Europe. Engineers are always in demand, I think. Happy holidays, my friend. Praying your situation will improve soon.
I hate that I relate to this now, while seeing all of my peers working 🥲 Im living off my parents' money and its extremely stressful and depressing for me for being a burden BUT still couldn't find a job although im a postgrad with first class.......
Its 4.20 am in India i literally crying and searched for what to do when you are jobless and this video pop ups i am jobless for 9 months i have no hope now my savings became zero i am with my mom i feel like a trash and useless my friends,family and even my parents cornered me i tried everything still no job i thought only i am going through this but after seeing the comments i got to know that i am not alone but whatever the pain depression anxiety anger on myself is not a joke i am blank i dont know what to do next and i got break up right after i got fired in the company i am completely broken i still can't get over him and i still couldn't find a job the continuous rejection from every where made me to think like i am the useless and ugliest person on the earth...i lost hope in god as well...i faced a lot this year i am still suffering alone cant even sleep continuously for five hours i will wake by panick attack every one hour i look like a trash my body becomes weak i have no idea what to do next...pls take me god i dont want live anymore this is my only prayer nowadays...
Been unemployed for 6 years. Living with my parents. It’s a living hell. What’s worse, is being told that everything I want is being paid for. What an arrogant and ignorant statement. Things I’ve wanted have gone out of stock because I didn’t have the money to pay for them. No travel. No luxuries whatsoever. Expired makeup. No latest fashion. No going out with friends to nice places. I don’t have a penny in the bank. No money for a wedding. It’s a living hell. My worst nightmare. I can’t wait for the hero who’ll sweep me off my feet and get me the hell out of here. I can’t wait to have a job and meet him after work. Unemployment is worse than death. It’s the worst torture. It ruins your self esteem, corrodes your brain, corroded your skill set and intelligence and leaves you with nothing. Unemployment is not a break. It’s death. You can request a break from work which ensures that you still have the job. Employed people live the BEST life. They work with like minded people, socialise and travel far more than unemployed people do. There’s nothing worse than boredom. Unemployment and boredom are the biggest curse. A job is never more difficult than being unemployed. At work, you achieve targets everyday. You know that you’re climbing the career ladder. It’s very difficult to wake up with NO purpose, no achievement and nothing to look forward to. You become less attractive in the dating world because you don’t live like a responsible adult. You also don’t have any recent achievements. No personal growth which is strongly linked to career growth. There’s no personal growth sitting at home and doing nothing at home. That includes all domestic work. It doesn’t teach you planning or critical thinking. You can’t get a top job by using unemployment or sitting at home, as work experience on a CV. Having a job and living alone or with your fiancé/spouse, is the best life. Nothing beats having it all. Top job, a house, love, kids, travel and luxury. Only lucky people get it all. Blessed people are on their 4th and 5th job while some people haven’t gotten their first job. It’s not true that companies aren’t hiring because they never post the same job vacancy twice, which means it’s been filled. Companies ARE hiring.
Six years is an inordinately long time. What have you done to change things up? Any new courses to improve your skills or get into a new field? Have you tried using alternative methods to applying for jobs online, like walking into shops with a 'now hiring' sign? Have you tried doing some online kind of job to freelance? Clearly, something is wrong and you need to make changes.
This explains me so much 😢 I have the privilege to love with my bf family and other reasons for that. But still I have that blessing to do that until I find a better job that I can feel good in and not feel overwhelmed and stressed everyday
Feels better to know I’m not alone but I’m not okay…I’ve applied to over a 100 jobs in 1 month and it’s either some mlm misleading scheme or door to door sales with a nice title. I re édit my resume to fit job descriptions and all… I can’t help but feel hopeless sometimes
Can actually break the loop by learning a course or a skill and start your online biz to make u busy I am also doing this same routine on the video .but I find a lil bit of purpose by learning something new and using the skill to start my own biz and (fail) Failure keeps your blood pumping and learning more
My parents says I’m not trying on looking for a job but those job websites goes in circles to nowhere, it’s frustrating. So time consuming I easily move on. I don’t got the drive to apply to more than 1-3 jobs in a few days. Unemployed and inattentive adhd perceives as lazy or not doing the obvious to take care of my self and get a job….. 😐😤😭🥺
Yeh not long turned 25 and I’m unemployed currently. Any job I do get never lasts or is 0 hour contracts they just get rid of me like it’s nothing. It’s a horrible feeling getting older and doing absolutely nothing with your life. All your old friends are doing stuff and successful? Know that feeling. Was a passenger in a car accident when I was 18 really put me off driving for years.finallly started to learn to drive and had a good jobs life was coming together and then covid hit. Lost my job driving tests cancelled and then my theory expired again within lockdown. I rlly feel I was robbed of 2/3 years of my life during covid 19. I guess some people would say try harder and these are excuses but they are genuine reasons I have struggled. Now I’m stuck trying to figure it all out from square one again:/
Jobs are out there you just to be willing to do the work no one wants to. I was unemployed for about a year in my early 20s and instead of complaining about it I went through about a 100 applications a week every for any and every job I could find. Found a job building furniture for a police academy for their class rooms and also running Ethernet cables through the walls and ceilings of their offices and class rooms. Had no clue how to do either but I learned on the job and now have two more skills and experience to add to future resumes. Then I found a decent manual labor job in the agricultural field and it’s been where I’ve been at for years worked went from seasonal part time and worked way up to permanent full time worked straight through covid with it. Moral of the story is you gotta be willing to do odd jobs you might now have experience in or take jobs you don’t wanna do in order to get work. But every job will add more skills and experience and make it easier in the future.
I’m not unemployed or in my early 20s anymore, but I do some of those things too. It’s depressing but a hard cycle to break. Side note: that comforter is cute
Imagine I would eventually ends up in this situation like this girl in the video. I been hustlin right after i graduate highschool and luckily for me. I have been accumulated large amounts of capital before i consider taking a break for the first time in 12 years.
This is why I invested my working money into marketing and day trading. Working 9-5 was not it. Lol. Now I just scan the market for 10-20 min making a steady income at least up to 1,500 a day and spend the rest of my day doing nothing. Life is alright I guess.
Imagine thinking you can live life for free, i started in mcdonalds worked all the time didnt call in sick onve then i found a catering company agency they saw how hard working and consistant i was i got a CPT roll wanted to change careers so i persued a apprentice and all the money i saved up went onto a college course i now work in a engineer company and make just a lil more than living wage and now buying a car up front its all in the mindset and no none of this was given to me i just respected my parents unlike you😊
Hey, If this helps anyone… living with your parents until you’re ready to move out IS OKAY. Don’t worry about the people who aren’t paying you or your bills. Especially if you have a plan, if you don’t, make one. Be kind to your parents, give them rent money to show your gratitude, help around the house and any job even a cashier is a start. Don’t feel shame for protecting and building your financial future in a way that suits you, don’t move in with a room mate and pay $1k/mth for a box if you don’t have to!
22. With my grandfather. What do people expect you to do? Even if I get an interview my anxiety and speech impediment ruin it. I don't like being a burden but I don't have the tools most people have to perform well. Suicide seems super logical. If I'm always getting ghosted then why not be a ghost? Ya feel me?
@@Frogman1212 dude i am also insanely struggling but there is hope and light! Don‘t give up! YOU are not alone in this world! 4 days ago i was feeling terrible now but every day is a new day! Take slow steps! Try everyday something new and your confidence will rise. 100 % i can guarantee.
Im a college student (20 years old), but i feel worthless without a job (part-time). Heck, i barely learnt anything in college at all... I think everyday what should i do in my life, I want to get a part-time but im not confident that i'll do well. I say to myself that i should learn my course more that i've picked but never end up studying it anyway.
I'm 24 and doing masters,living with parents,will have to wait for few years more for a job. Till then just have to listen others unsolicited advices and one more thing" When will you get married?"😂
she does have a roommate so she/he probaly pays the Bill's but me personally She would have been out. also the main question is how does she even go out to eat and get a iphone 12 maybe with saving like the guy above me said
What’s worse, is depressed and stressed people who see stress and depression everywhere, because they’re unhappy with their income not increasing and their marriage falling apart, and want you be stuck in your parents house, and claim that you’re stressed and depressed like them. They want to force depression on you, so that you’re not social, entertaining, don’t go out, don’t get a top job or marry an eligible bachelor. The worst is jealous, unemployed and single people or people in bad marriages, who glorify your unemployment and single life because they don’t want you to be well off and they certainly don’t want you to date an eligible bachelor or marry one. They offer shit unsolicited advice. Advice that goes against your skill set, sensibilities and goals. What you’re dying for, they advice against. They don’t want you to achieve your dreams. They want to hold you back from being the best that you can be, surrounded by people who are good for YOUR sensibilities but make them insecure. They want to hold you back so they advise you against everything they don’t have. People show their true colours. One day, I’ll tell my eligible bachelor about the stupid advice people have me and he’ll be disgusted. One day, when I become super successful and I live the best life, I’ll write a book about all the nasty statements and advice people gave me, which has resulted in me being 33 years old, single and unemployed with no friends and no future. They wasted my time with their stupid shit. It’s been a shit experience. I’ve lived my worst nightmare. I’ve fallen to the lowest degree possible. It’s only upwards from here and I can’t wait.
What’s worse, is people psychopaths who live with their parents for money and inheritance and claim that you should live with your parents because they’re getting old. So when I finally do get a job and get married, my parents will be OLDER than they are now. They don’t need to be taken care of. And I most certainly am not volunteering. Leaving behind an adult daughter who has no love, kids, friends or job, is called SHIT parenting. Not good parenting. Luckily, my parents don’t want me to live with them and never asked me to do so. I’d be embarrassed to have a 33 year old adult child live with me unemployed, single and no social life. I wouldn’t glorify it or parade her in front of people. I’d be ashamed of not doing enough to ensure that she’s independent. I’d see it as a personal failure and curse. Not as a blessing. I certainly wouldn’t get up everyday and go about my day, as if it’s normal to have a 33 year old adult child live with me.
It may be that you are clinically depressed and need therapy to tackle underlying problems before you can move forward with life. Your issues are clearly not just unemployment.
This is me. I just live with parents lol. And I would love to work but nowhere is hiring in this shit economy. I've given up.
I feel that half the time 😅
@@chiakisummer I literally just got a job xD. Already make more than my fam now 🤣. Life lookin up.
Same, my life for the past two years, and everyone my age either has a job, is married with kids, or is getting a master's degree
@@alise4377 yeah the job I was offered fell through, they haven't got back to me with a start date but currently working on breaking into tech, working on portfolio rn so I can start applying. Hopefully things work out. And dude same here, most of my friends are employed with cool careers or have successful businesses, I pulled up snapchat last night and saw one of my highschool friends promoting an event he was running while in a frickin Lamborghini Urus, and I'm here sleeping on a sofa lol. It made me depressed but hey, I'm only 23, and as long as I stay consistent and try my best, but at the very least stay consistent I'm sure I can turn my life around and gain a solid career foundation. And I yeah, degrees don't mean much tbh, depending on what you get one in tbf. Like I have a degree and it really doesn't help, in fact it hinders me, as jobs I would like in the degree field wouldn't hire me while lower paying jobs in different fields wouldn't hire me because I was "overqualified". I'd say just get a skill that's high paying and you can learn online for free, preferably in tech as it gives you freedom as well as high earning potential, and get a portfolio and start applying or freelancing. Hope that helps, we can make it out of our situations.
@@alise4377 holy crap never realised I wrote such a long response lol. Sorry about the dump, totally understand if you don't wanna read all that lol 😆
Tell me the truth don’t lie to yourself who is in there late 20s and jobless.
I am 26 and I am jobless
Same here bro😢
You’re not alone.. trust me
Hugs. Same bro
I am and it's overwhelming everytime. You tend to loose confidence, and also feels lazy to work on your skills. Sometimes you are over qualified for job and sometimes under qualified. Also thinking to change the field. Especially change to IT due to high lucrative salary. Unable to control your mind. And then you got headache and you go to sleep and this process repeats.
@@HarshitaPattnayak same problem here bro
im crying while watching your video😢 ive been unemployed 4 years.. throughout those years i tried to sought for job but those industry or company doesn't give me the chance to prove my skills and knowledge 😢
I feel this exactly. It's humiliating
I've been stuck too, my advice is to learn new skills, work on a project and at this rate take any job to get you in to the world again
Have faith! You can break out of this!
Same
4 years bro hit a Walmart
I always say this to people I meet. If u can't get Employmed.......be the Employer and give yourself and other people the chance to live how God needs u to.
Idk what to do… I’ve been unemployed for a couple of months now and it honestly suck. I stay with my parents and I don’t want to be a burden to them. I wish a company would just hire me everyday but no hope 😢 I’ve been having headaches and both my eyes feel swollen from the back because of stress. I try to stay positive but that doesn’t work. My parents tell me that it’s fine but I know they are suffering for me. I can’t imagine how I’ll ever manage to live life when they are gone, I think I’ll end it when my parents are gone.
I'm 22 when you applied for multiple jobs and they even or haven't called you back. When you are being persistent, you try and try. This is why it's hard to find a job no one giving people chances.
Omg this, I’m 28 and I’m in month 10 of unemployment. The rejections and ghosting is insane
@@zoeygrflomg how do you do it? about 1 month for me n Im so sad even though I don’t wanna work a 9-5 but I still need a job I need money
@@itssLaury Do what babe?
@@zoeygrfl being unemployed 😩 especially for 10 months u said?
@@itssLaury yes 10 months idk I just finally accepted it I guess, I did try applying for hundred jobs but I got no offers at all :/
Life is depressing
It’s really not
@@user-xr8eq1ol5s It's a mixture of environment and philosophy. If you are unemployed, chances is that you get depressed. But it's still better than being unhealthy
Iam unemployed for 4 months now. I worked in a private bank in my region for some years and saved some decent amount of money. I gotta tell you the feeling is exactly the same as compared to those earlier time when I had a job. It's just human nature. We get bored easily
Yea 💀💀
We all need money
Slowly coming to terms with my first unemployment in a long time. I only feel depressed if I stay home all day. But if I leave the house to do job apps or just ride my bike somewhere, it feels more like a "normal" day. Luckily I stay with family that wont just kick me to the curb too
Found a job yet?
What are job apps?
@@greengrassofhome Yeah at costco
@@daphucc7777 short for job applications
@@daphucc7777 app is short for application. so they meant job applications
I can relate. In my 28. I am fired from my workplace that been "using" me for almost 5 years . Still searching the new job to pay rent, bills etc. Literally alone as orphan. Refused to live with families nearby. I hope the best for you.
Why were you fired? Did you do something wrong?
I am sorry to hear that. I’m sure you will be valued as a person, don’t give up! You are a piece of the puzzle, and the puzzle can’t be completed without you.
I've been like this for 6 months and I'm really depressed. I do have money but I feel worthless
I am the exact same. I have friends that are doing really well in life in terms of a career and then I am just hear clueless. Life likes to be tough sometimes.
How are you doing now?
@@kumadori9627 actually pretty great, remote work, great pay and 2 hrs of work a day.
Yeah it's kinda depressing as I'm in my 20s and still live with my parents and places of work are not hiring. And people are really judgmental and I try not to think about it too much 😢
I understand too. But I always to people I talk to. If u can't get Employed.......be the Employer and give yourself and other people the chance
I literally just quit my job and I’m at this phase of unemployment literally trying my best not to loose my mind whilst I literally do nothing at home but eat, sleep, clean, repeat 🥴
UPDATE * Whatever happens it all happens for a good reason and if you’re at a phase where you feel awful, just remember and believe that ‘ this shall pass ‘
Fast forward …. I’ve found another job and is 100x times better than where I used to work previously 🫶🏻. Sending good energy to all reading and going through the same phase.
@@ditsheni'm happy for you stranger
@@ditshen what are you working as? please pray for me too! I am struggling :(
I'm unemployed but I'm willing to work but no employer is giving me a chance so I have to gamble, recycle to get money extra money I get money from my SSI btw
Same here.. I gave soo many interviews but no one's hiring😢me..
What do you do now?
@@Overflowersonly find a creative way to start a business or make money
Have any other ideas on how to make some money without officially working?
I have ssi too
You should never gamble to make money really coz it’s not always gonna be a win jus saying
it sucks working a 9-5 I don’t wanna work for nobody especially ur not even making good money but I need a job cus I need money, content creators/ rich ppl r so lucky
Wake up and go to gym as the first thing in the morning! Don’t even think about it. Wash your face,change your clothes and go! If you don’t have the job you want, create one or one that will lead to that😊
I have been sitting around since age 24. I have had my share of not going back to school
And then going back to school.
In my free time I write journal and listen to music and podcasts and working out. Hopefully something changes soon. I know I am going back to school this year thoguh.
How old are you now? Good luck with your endeavours.
@@greengrassofhome 27
My advice:
To anyone in this position, I recommend working on a project/learning a skill to add meaning to this time
It also really helps keep you a bit busy and helps break up the dreaded 'job search'
Exercise helps as well, calisthenics, running, yoga (from yt videos)
All these can be done for free.
Lastly know that you are not alone in this epidemic.
Hope this helps
YOUR THOUGHTS REALLY RESONATE WITH US!!
Been unemployed for almost 8 months now.. I have enough money saved so finance is not the problem, it's how I have no routine and every day ends up being the same that's the problem... but then I felt the same way when I had a job so maybe the problem is within
That's how i exactly feel. Iam also unemployed for 4 months now. But Iam thinking of joining again. sitting at home doing nothing making me crazy day by day. The job atleast keeps me busy and Focus.
I'm jobless engineer and that is quite my daily routine!
Are you still jobless? I think there are lots of jobs out there for engineers.
@@greengrassofhome I'm from the middle east which torn by wars and tyranies regimes...we are in dire and bleak situation ...your prayers 🙏 please...
@@user-eb1cg1cm3e Have you considered relocating to a safer, more stable and more economically prosperous country? I am in Europe. Engineers are always in demand, I think.
Happy holidays, my friend. Praying your situation will improve soon.
@@greengrassofhome شكرا جزيلا...Thanks and God pless you
@@user-eb1cg1cm3e which country in middle East are you Egyptians.
Idk if anyone relate, I search on reddit and quora being in 20s etc
I hate that I relate to this now, while seeing all of my peers working 🥲 Im living off my parents' money and its extremely stressful and depressing for me for being a burden BUT still couldn't find a job although im a postgrad with first class.......
Just keep trying, some people fail many many times before they are successful.
Now imagine someone without a job and without money.
Its 4.20 am in India i literally crying and searched for what to do when you are jobless and this video pop ups i am jobless for 9 months i have no hope now my savings became zero i am with my mom i feel like a trash and useless my friends,family and even my parents cornered me i tried everything still no job i thought only i am going through this but after seeing the comments i got to know that i am not alone but whatever the pain depression anxiety anger on myself is not a joke i am blank i dont know what to do next and i got break up right after i got fired in the company i am completely broken i still can't get over him and i still couldn't find a job the continuous rejection from every where made me to think like i am the useless and ugliest person on the earth...i lost hope in god as well...i faced a lot this year i am still suffering alone cant even sleep continuously for five hours i will wake by panick attack every one hour i look like a trash my body becomes weak i have no idea what to do next...pls take me god i dont want live anymore this is my only prayer nowadays...
May the LORD bless you and change your situation and make your life fruitful
Been unemployed for 6 years. Living with my parents. It’s a living hell. What’s worse, is being told that everything I want is being paid for. What an arrogant and ignorant statement. Things I’ve wanted have gone out of stock because I didn’t have the money to pay for them.
No travel. No luxuries whatsoever. Expired makeup. No latest fashion. No going out with friends to nice places. I don’t have a penny in the bank. No money for a wedding. It’s a living hell. My worst nightmare. I can’t wait for the hero who’ll sweep me off my feet and get me the hell out of here. I can’t wait to have a job and meet him after work.
Unemployment is worse than death. It’s the worst torture. It ruins your self esteem, corrodes your brain, corroded your skill set and intelligence and leaves you with nothing. Unemployment is not a break. It’s death. You can request a break from work which ensures that you still have the job.
Employed people live the BEST life. They work with like minded people, socialise and travel far more than unemployed people do. There’s nothing worse than boredom. Unemployment and boredom are the biggest curse.
A job is never more difficult than being unemployed. At work, you achieve targets everyday. You know that you’re climbing the career ladder. It’s very difficult to wake up with NO purpose, no achievement and nothing to look forward to.
You become less attractive in the dating world because you don’t live like a responsible adult. You also don’t have any recent achievements. No personal growth which is strongly linked to career growth. There’s no personal growth sitting at home and doing nothing at home. That includes all domestic work. It doesn’t teach you planning or critical thinking. You can’t get a top job by using unemployment or sitting at home, as work experience on a CV.
Having a job and living alone or with your fiancé/spouse, is the best life.
Nothing beats having it all. Top job, a house, love, kids, travel and luxury. Only lucky people get it all. Blessed people are on their 4th and 5th job while some people haven’t gotten their first job. It’s not true that companies aren’t hiring because they never post the same job vacancy twice, which means it’s been filled. Companies ARE hiring.
Six years is an inordinately long time. What have you done to change things up? Any new courses to improve your skills or get into a new field? Have you tried using alternative methods to applying for jobs online, like walking into shops with a 'now hiring' sign? Have you tried doing some online kind of job to freelance? Clearly, something is wrong and you need to make changes.
This explains me so much 😢 I have the privilege to love with my bf family and other reasons for that. But still I have that blessing to do that until I find a better job that I can feel good in and not feel overwhelmed and stressed everyday
The sad life we share as the people who didn’t make it in life😞 we went wrong
Feels better to know I’m not alone but I’m not okay…I’ve applied to over a 100 jobs in 1 month and it’s either some mlm misleading scheme or door to door sales with a nice title. I re édit my resume to fit job descriptions and all… I can’t help but feel hopeless sometimes
Its the same in 30's & 40's
I'm 22 yr old unemployed
I’m 21 and unemployed. I’ve never worked in my life. My source of income is loved ones
@@Mary-pt8jmfr bruh
Same. I’ve applied to places and never heard back man it’s depressing 😭
I am literally the same way too its so hard :(
I'm 24, literally same ..
~ then suddenly ends up in an alternate world as a powerful mage
I struggled to get an engineering degree and now I am jobless. I just don’t want to live anymore
I quit my design degree after 2 years. Ever since then...jobless. fml
Can actually break the loop by learning a course or a skill and start your online biz to make u busy
I am also doing this same routine on the video .but I find a lil bit of purpose by learning something new and using the skill to start my own biz and (fail)
Failure keeps your blood pumping and learning more
I recently escaped this, my routine is wake up-mobility exercise- job study at the cafe till midnight.
oh! so I’m not alone 😊
This is so true.
Wow Thx for sharing this, I thought I was alone in this feeling, I still live with family though
My parents says I’m not trying on looking for a job but those job websites goes in circles to nowhere, it’s frustrating. So time consuming I easily move on. I don’t got the drive to apply to more than 1-3 jobs in a few days. Unemployed and inattentive adhd perceives as lazy or not doing the obvious to take care of my self and get a job….. 😐😤😭🥺
This is drastically relatable
as an unemployee i can confirm its video is too accurate
Yeh not long turned 25 and I’m unemployed currently. Any job I do get never lasts or is 0 hour contracts they just get rid of me like it’s nothing.
It’s a horrible feeling getting older and doing absolutely nothing with your life.
All your old friends are doing stuff and successful? Know that feeling.
Was a passenger in a car accident when I was 18 really put me off driving for years.finallly started to learn to drive and had a good jobs life was coming together and then covid hit. Lost my job driving tests cancelled and then my theory expired again within lockdown.
I rlly feel I was robbed of 2/3 years of my life during covid 19.
I guess some people would say try harder and these are excuses but they are genuine reasons I have struggled.
Now I’m stuck trying to figure it all out from square one again:/
Jobs are out there you just to be willing to do the work no one wants to.
I was unemployed for about a year in my early 20s and instead of complaining about it I went through about a 100 applications a week every for any and every job I could find.
Found a job building furniture for a police academy for their class rooms and also running Ethernet cables through the walls and ceilings of their offices and class rooms. Had no clue how to do either but I learned on the job and now have two more skills and experience to add to future resumes.
Then I found a decent manual labor job in the agricultural field and it’s been where I’ve been at for years worked went from seasonal part time and worked way up to permanent full time worked straight through covid with it.
Moral of the story is you gotta be willing to do odd jobs you might now have experience in or take jobs you don’t wanna do in order to get work. But every job will add more skills and experience and make it easier in the future.
Well done. Inspiring story.
This should be the top comment. You have to start somewhere, you can't expect to land a 6 figure job just outta college. It's simply unrealistic
I’m not unemployed or in my early 20s anymore, but I do some of those things too. It’s depressing but a hard cycle to break. Side note: that comforter is cute
Thanks for sharing ❤.
There’s a lot of fast food jobs and retail for temporary employment.
So true sister!
This is called being a NEET.
Spot. On.
I am above 35 and living with parents 😂
I’ll do it as long as I can.
@@mustasheolll2020 Staying with your parents is chill but 35 is overkill mate, that's not healthy
@@Mythication If my parents don’t mind and i’m saving cash, don’t see the issue. But I’m only 21 rn.
DAMNNNN
@Mythication HAHAHAH...HOW CAN YOU MARRIED LIKE THIS LOL
Same situation but u go outside eat but i don't go anywhere from my home😢
Be a traditional housewife
A Tuesday in your early 60’s.
Imagine I would eventually ends up in this situation like this girl in the video. I been hustlin right after i graduate highschool and luckily for me. I have been accumulated large amounts of capital before i consider taking a break for the first time in 12 years.
R E L A T A B L E😢
This is why I invested my working money into marketing and day trading. Working 9-5 was not it. Lol. Now I just scan the market for 10-20 min making a steady income at least up to 1,500 a day and spend the rest of my day doing nothing. Life is alright I guess.
how much money did you start with? how much time did you give yourself to learn day trading?
Wow 😢😢😢 at least I got some productive things out the way.. me and happiness
Imagine thinking you can live life for free, i started in mcdonalds worked all the time didnt call in sick onve then i found a catering company agency they saw how hard working and consistant i was i got a CPT roll wanted to change careers so i persued a apprentice and all the money i saved up went onto a college course i now work in a engineer company and make just a lil more than living wage and now buying a car up front its all in the mindset and no none of this was given to me i just respected my parents unlike you😊
I just quitted my internship after 1 month because pay was to less it was barely covering up my monthly expenses so i left i quitted my internship
You should only quit a job if you have another one lined up, in my opinion. How is quitting to become unemployed supposedly better?
I've had a lot of success by skipping the job application. No application until I've spoken to the person I'll be working for.
Hey, If this helps anyone… living with your parents until you’re ready to move out IS OKAY. Don’t worry about the people who aren’t paying you or your bills. Especially if you have a plan, if you don’t, make one. Be kind to your parents, give them rent money to show your gratitude, help around the house and any job even a cashier is a start. Don’t feel shame for protecting and building your financial future in a way that suits you, don’t move in with a room mate and pay $1k/mth for a box if you don’t have to!
Same at 50 😅
24 years living with parents no job, questioning everything …
22. With my grandfather. What do people expect you to do? Even if I get an interview my anxiety and speech impediment ruin it. I don't like being a burden but I don't have the tools most people have to perform well. Suicide seems super logical. If I'm always getting ghosted then why not be a ghost? Ya feel me?
@@Frogman1212 dude i am also insanely struggling but there is hope and light! Don‘t give up! YOU are not alone in this world! 4 days ago i was feeling terrible now but every day is a new day! Take slow steps! Try everyday something new and your confidence will rise. 100 % i can guarantee.
2am? That’s quite generous of you dear…
Omg so true
World is poop
Depression is written all over this video.
true
doesn't get any better at 40s.
Don’t we all want to travel the world and make content like everyone else Jesus this is over saturated nowadays
I have been called out hugely
I’m a 19 year old dude. Nothing more accurate than this lol
Why are you not in education? You are still very young.
@@greengrassofhome Im not permanently unemployed, it’s only temporary. Also tried college and it’s not for me so im taking another path in life.
@@thefrog4990it's not for me either :/ there is not only one path, good luck :)
Im a college student (20 years old), but i feel worthless without a job (part-time). Heck, i barely learnt anything in college at all... I think everyday what should i do in my life, I want to get a part-time but im not confident that i'll do well.
I say to myself that i should learn my course more that i've picked but never end up studying it anyway.
I'm 24 and doing masters,living with parents,will have to wait for few years more for a job. Till then just have to listen others unsolicited advices and one more thing" When will you get married?"😂
You never had worked? Bc same
@@prdcr My parent's don't let me work odd jobs because it would hamper my studies.
Don't marry please
me right now
How you are affording rent
Savings I guess
she does have a roommate so she/he probaly pays the Bill's but me personally She would have been out. also the main question is how does she even go out to eat and get a iphone 12 maybe with saving like the guy above me said
@@raemmelparker9012lmao me too. If that person wasn’t paying rent then I’m kicking them out wtf.
Her parents can pay the rent maybe. Some parents take cake of their kids.
What’s worse, is depressed and stressed people who see stress and depression everywhere, because they’re unhappy with their income not increasing and their marriage falling apart, and want you be stuck in your parents house, and claim that you’re stressed and depressed like them. They want to force depression on you, so that you’re not social, entertaining, don’t go out, don’t get a top job or marry an eligible bachelor.
The worst is jealous, unemployed and single people or people in bad marriages, who glorify your unemployment and single life because they don’t want you to be well off and they certainly don’t want you to date an eligible bachelor or marry one.
They offer shit unsolicited advice. Advice that goes against your skill set, sensibilities and goals. What you’re dying for, they advice against. They don’t want you to achieve your dreams. They want to hold you back from being the best that you can be, surrounded by people who are good for YOUR sensibilities but make them insecure.
They want to hold you back so they advise you against everything they don’t have. People show their true colours.
One day, I’ll tell my eligible bachelor about the stupid advice people have me and he’ll be disgusted. One day, when I become super successful and I live the best life, I’ll write a book about all the nasty statements and advice people gave me, which has resulted in me being 33 years old, single and unemployed with no friends and no future.
They wasted my time with their stupid shit. It’s been a shit experience. I’ve lived my worst nightmare. I’ve fallen to the lowest degree possible. It’s only upwards from here and I can’t wait.
Stay strong, sweetie. Ignore people who have nothing positive or encouraging to say.
Yeah it's me😢
This is how I want to end up im only 15 but this life makes me feel happy
This was a nightmare that came true for me, it doesn’t help that I was abused by my father growing up.
We could livestream gameplay together as a podcast haha
I feel so heard
😭😭😭
Yall pls get therapy this seems like the beginning to depression
YEAH IM 27
What’s worse, is people psychopaths who live with their parents for money and inheritance and claim that you should live with your parents because they’re getting old. So when I finally do get a job and get married, my parents will be OLDER than they are now. They don’t need to be taken care of. And I most certainly am not volunteering.
Leaving behind an adult daughter who has no love, kids, friends or job, is called SHIT parenting. Not good parenting. Luckily, my parents don’t want me to live with them and never asked me to do so.
I’d be embarrassed to have a 33 year old adult child live with me unemployed, single and no social life. I wouldn’t glorify it or parade her in front of people. I’d be ashamed of not doing enough to ensure that she’s independent. I’d see it as a personal failure and curse. Not as a blessing. I certainly wouldn’t get up everyday and go about my day, as if it’s normal to have a 33 year old adult child live with me.
It may be that you are clinically depressed and need therapy to tackle underlying problems before you can move forward with life. Your issues are clearly not just unemployment.
God im pathetic
A little bit of job searching?
Where do you even get money from to scroll for hours?!
Sounds like an employed person
Haha so sad
Don’t vote for Biden.
just get knockedd-up multiple times and you never have to work again.
Bruhh 💀