I totally think that OP has moved on. She was just helping the girls he stalked and bullied to get as much evidence for their lawsuit. She even said how happy she was in her new life. Not going back to creepy. 😻😃😻
OP, I'm sure you don't want your son exposed to his father's pervy views on women. It is best to just distance yourself from him, period. Having him apologize to these women is just fueling the fire. You're making him approach these women who are fully aware of who he is and what he's done. Your demands could be putting them in danger. THIS IS NOT A GAME. HE HAS A SERIOUS PROBLEM WHICH COULD GET OUT OF CONTROL AND HE COULD HURT ONE OF THEM, then what will you do. Apologies will not help if something bad happens that you directly instigated just to get back at him. You've already suggested that these women press charges SO LET IT GO.
Listen to others saying they are creepy. My friends did not like my ex (3rd husband) he was “creepy” to others and it turns out that he was selling my underwear’s & buying others online & more gross things I’d rather not say Good luck & be safe. If you want your son to be better, keep him far away.
She was groomed herself while younger, that's probably why she didn't think he was a creep, she's still in her feelings about him!! She's doing too much! She got a man now! She needs to Move on with her life!
What she was doing was gathering all the evidence against her ex husband. By tricking him to record himself apologizing to the women he had taken photos. This was to be used against him in the court of law.
I haven't even finished this story and all I can think is RUN RUN RUN YOUR HUSBAND IS A SERIAL KILLER!!!!!!! OP will be on on an episode on Investigation Discovery. Omg
I don't think OP is going to go back to him, getting him to apologize to his victims could help them move on and she might of been hoping he would see that what he did was wrong. Having him record it was proof that he actually did it. I wouldn't of said 'no' after that, I would of said something like 'I don't think that was all of them' I'm sure some wouldn't want any contact with him so he couldn't tell them.
OP seems to be caught up in a revenge type action. She has a new man, (which is too soon), but still is going after her ex?!! NO! Just walk away, don't stay involved in his creepy life, since he sounds mentally unstable!! And since your son will naturally look up to a father figure, stay away from EX & expose him to normal men, so that he can grow up stable!!!
Watching this video it made me think Before OP moves into her new relationship she should be divorced from Barry otherwise if he did cheat She is no better than him and if she really wants to get a divorce from him and get away from him She needs to decide what she wants to do stick with it and I’m sorry stop all the drama
With regards to the last comment, what OP did to Barry might be unnecessary, but by no way indicates that she'll move back with him. If she was, why would she file for a divorce? Wouldn't OP risk her career by dating someone who punched a coworker? For people saying she's playing a dangerous thing, I don't think so. While what Barry did was creepy, and illegal, never does OP mention him striking her or any woman. The only person he struck was a security guard, and given his reaction, I don't think he has the gut to threaten OP. Barry may be mean, but he seems to at least understand how much trouble he's in. I agree that OP shouldn't have asked him favors, I mean, just get on with the divorce, stop wasting your time, but I don't think she's in danger or gonna hook back up with Barry.
What happen to for better or for worse. 1 thing goes wrong and it automatically goes to divorce. Yeah he's got problems and needs help but ruining the whole marriage over it. Thats just stupid.
Feminism created this. By telling men that their natural proclivities and the things that they find interesting and like are wrong and abhorrent. Men appreciating women is not a bad thing, even taking random pictures of women they think are pretty is not bad. Granted this one took it a little too far and was beginning to look like the beginning of Norman Bates, but that's how Norman became like this because his mommy pushed him into a corner and didn't let him Express himself with women. Then all of his desires and wants got twisted up in psycho town and became what they eventually were. Did this guy go too far? Yes. Did he have an unnatural release of his frustrations with not being allowed to be a man and do things his instincts told him he should? Again yes. Women need to watch out and protect themselves from the man. Who was driven crazy by the society women have helped create.
How old are you? Because I'm still young enough to pass as 30s to GenZ who get into my Uber and chat freely (knowing how highly suspicious they are of "old people") and they literally exclaim "omg I thought you were 30s! 😂" But I'm old enough to remember when men were free to literally grab women. Grab waitresses. Smack em. Grab em. Hug em. Kiss em. Freely. And they'd laugh and she had no rights to stop it. Oh she could slap him. But they'd laugh more. Feminism REDUCED this to the point that when you see the fewer ones who slip through the cracks, you've been plmanipulated by anti-feminist repetition and false rhetoric it's womens fault. Why do you think men are all over the internet repeating repeating repeating repeating insults about women? It's manipulation.
You are ok until u find something better. What u are doing is screwing up ur son. Makes me sick how quick you can just throw away a marriage. U made sure u had a back up plan when things went bad with ur marriage.
OP…either love him or leave him. No one ☝️ else here or there would stay with such a creeper!👀 He’s disgusting and troublesome. Your life is a precious gift and you have to see the light and flick him out of your mind…live your best life, there’s still time and potential for you to find happiness and a better mate. That saying goes… ‘You can do better!’ 💐🫶🤗
The biggest red flag is how FIL reacted to his son's behavior. It is obvious that FIL is just as bad or worse. Likely MIL needs an intervention.
I totally think that OP has moved on. She was just helping the girls he stalked and bullied to get as much evidence for their lawsuit. She even said how happy she was in her new life. Not going back to creepy. 😻😃😻
I think she wants the recordings of him apologizing to help the court case.
Op please for ur safety DON'T go back to that loose
In my opinion she is giving him payback for his actions. She is messing with his head like he creeped out the others
OP, I'm sure you don't want your son exposed to his father's pervy views on women. It is best to just distance yourself from him, period. Having him apologize to these women is just fueling the fire. You're making him approach these women who are fully aware of who he is and what he's done. Your demands could be putting them in danger. THIS IS NOT A GAME. HE HAS A SERIOUS PROBLEM WHICH COULD GET OUT OF CONTROL AND HE COULD HURT ONE OF THEM, then what will you do. Apologies will not help if something bad happens that you directly instigated just to get back at him. You've already suggested that these women press charges SO LET IT GO.
I don't think she's going to take him back she's just wants to make sure that he suffers she would be crazy to take him back.
Run OP RUN!!
Listen to others saying they are creepy. My friends did not like my ex (3rd husband) he was “creepy” to others and it turns out that he was selling my underwear’s & buying others online & more gross things I’d rather not say
Good luck & be safe.
If you want your son to be better, keep him far away.
She was groomed herself while younger, that's probably why she didn't think he was a creep, she's still in her feelings about him!! She's doing too much! She got a man now! She needs to Move on with her life!
that man is a predator & needs to seek help or he's gonna end up in jail.
The husband is a piece of work 😂😂
I think OP did what she did to humiliate him
If 3 or 4 woman complain listen to them.
Since he quit his job he better find himself a RICH partner. He needs a jail sentence IMO and sexual predators are dangerous
What she was doing was gathering all the evidence against her ex husband. By tricking him to record himself apologizing to the women he had taken photos. This was to be used against him in the court of law.
He's addicted to corn, his behavior is by product of that💯
I haven't even finished this story and all I can think is RUN RUN RUN YOUR HUSBAND IS A SERIAL KILLER!!!!!!! OP will be on on an episode on Investigation Discovery. Omg
I would have gone no contact!! Requested a restraining order and done a NAME CHANGE and moved!!!! That s just BEYOND CREEPY!!!!
I don't think OP is going to go back to him, getting him to apologize to his victims could help them move on and she might of been hoping he would see that what he did was wrong. Having him record it was proof that he actually did it. I wouldn't of said 'no' after that, I would of said something like 'I don't think that was all of them' I'm sure some wouldn't want any contact with him so he couldn't tell them.
why couldn't security use force? is there a law in Canada forbiddening this?
Maybe, or maybe gathering evidence for her case. 🤔
I don’t agree with waiting . I think once one person is out of the way, on to the next…
Run run fast
OP seems to be caught up in a revenge type action. She has a new man, (which is too soon), but still is going after her ex?!! NO! Just walk away, don't stay involved in his creepy life, since he sounds mentally unstable!! And since your son will naturally look up to a father figure, stay away from EX & expose him to normal men, so that he can grow up stable!!!
Berry the crepper
How can you say you still love him after this?
Watching this video it made me think
Before OP moves into her new relationship she should be divorced from Barry otherwise if he did cheat
She is no better than him and if she really wants to get a divorce from him and get away from him
She needs to decide what she wants to do stick with it and I’m sorry stop all the drama
Divorce
With regards to the last comment, what OP did to Barry might be unnecessary, but by no way indicates that she'll move back with him. If she was, why would she file for a divorce? Wouldn't OP risk her career by dating someone who punched a coworker?
For people saying she's playing a dangerous thing, I don't think so. While what Barry did was creepy, and illegal, never does OP mention him striking her or any woman. The only person he struck was a security guard, and given his reaction, I don't think he has the gut to threaten OP. Barry may be mean, but he seems to at least understand how much trouble he's in.
I agree that OP shouldn't have asked him favors, I mean, just get on with the divorce, stop wasting your time, but I don't think she's in danger or gonna hook back up with Barry.
Where's Nico? How does he act with what's going on?
What a powerful more
What happen to for better or for worse. 1 thing goes wrong and it automatically goes to divorce. Yeah he's got problems and needs help but ruining the whole marriage over it. Thats just stupid.
Trust, that's why divorce
Feminism created this. By telling men that their natural proclivities and the things that they find interesting and like are wrong and abhorrent. Men appreciating women is not a bad thing, even taking random pictures of women they think are pretty is not bad. Granted this one took it a little too far and was beginning to look like the beginning of Norman Bates, but that's how Norman became like this because his mommy pushed him into a corner and didn't let him Express himself with women. Then all of his desires and wants got twisted up in psycho town and became what they eventually were. Did this guy go too far? Yes. Did he have an unnatural release of his frustrations with not being allowed to be a man and do things his instincts told him he should? Again yes. Women need to watch out and protect themselves from the man. Who was driven crazy by the society women have helped create.
What? This is harassment! Come on
How old are you? Because I'm still young enough to pass as 30s to GenZ who get into my Uber and chat freely (knowing how highly suspicious they are of "old people") and they literally exclaim "omg I thought you were 30s! 😂" But I'm old enough to remember when men were free to literally grab women. Grab waitresses. Smack em. Grab em. Hug em. Kiss em. Freely. And they'd laugh and she had no rights to stop it. Oh she could slap him. But they'd laugh more.
Feminism REDUCED this to the point that when you see the fewer ones who slip through the cracks, you've been plmanipulated by anti-feminist repetition and false rhetoric it's womens fault.
Why do you think men are all over the internet repeating repeating repeating repeating insults about women? It's manipulation.
You are ok until u find something better. What u are doing is screwing up ur son. Makes me sick how quick you can just throw away a marriage. U made sure u had a back up plan when things went bad with ur marriage.
No the husband will screw up the son if given access. Seems like you’re a predator too
So she can see Joe but he couldn’t be with other women. That’s weird
OP…either love him or leave him. No one ☝️ else here or there would stay with such a creeper!👀 He’s disgusting and troublesome. Your life is a precious gift and you have to see the light and flick him out of your mind…live your best life, there’s still time and potential for you to find happiness and a better mate. That saying goes…
‘You can do better!’ 💐🫶🤗