@@emmavrijburg6676 Happened to me and I never hated another human so much in that very moment. Dog owner (friend of my grandma) comes along, I ask if the dog is friendly and can be pet, she says yes so I approach as calmly as I can and just give the dog my hand to sniff and this thing straight up bites me. Thanks dog owner and screw you -.-
Imagine that dog, with the "partial attack training" bites and latches on. Poor dog would have a death sentence. And the owner would act like it was the person's fault that the dog bit them.
Well the dogs have behavior issues but they're caused by their humans almost every time There was one episode with a dog that suffered panic attacks. The panic attacks weren't caused by the humans but the humans failed to understand the dog was having panic attacks so instead of trying to help the dog they tried to correct him and exasperated his panic attacks instead
Also, it should be FORBIDDEN to offer attack training for dogs owned by untrained people, it should be mandatory to have some sort of certification to be allowed an attack dog.
@@casastuart210 there's a big difference between instinctively attacking intruders and trading a dog to attack. The dog trained to attack thinks its a game and if not trained right may start attacking anyone unprovoked Training an attack dog(one trained to attack) is a full time job and really should only be legally allowed with people who prove they know what they're doing
You are very correct but unfortunately the entire "industry" of dog ownership and dog care and everything in between is virtually unregulated and every piece of advice is a suggestion you can happily ignore even to the detriment of the animals and everyone around you and it's not illegal as long as you aren't provably abusing an animal. It's nuts.
Wow, Tony is majorly rude Josie. "It's not that bad." "You need to calm down." He talks over her, interrupts her. He downplays her concerns. He values the dog over his wife!
So despite her not wanting another dog he gets one, partially attack-trains it and seems perfectly happy that she's so miserable. He WANTS her to leave him, getting that dog was his spineless way of making her life SO miserable that she would leave him. Narcissistic, misogynistic and deeply deeply selfish husband. Poor woman.
I'm totally with you on the narcissistic, misogynistic and deeply, deeply selfish husband part, but I think you're giving him way too much credit in saying he wants her to leave him and getting the dog was his spineless way of making it happen. I can't believe he's ever thought that far ahead, or with that level of complexity-- or deferred gratification-- in his life. I also doubt he's ever given that much thought--or any thought at all, for that matter-- to what another person's reaction/response to his behavior might be. I think he works on a much more primitive level...as in, "Ungh...me want. Ungh...me get!" Then a bunch more "me, me, me's," then maybe a flash of red for "danger" (representing the pinnacle of his sensitivity to his wife's reaction), another grunt, "Me want!" and home we go, with another dog, happy and pleased with himself and his new canine friend.
there are a lot of times people jump to this conclusion way too quickly over virtually nothing. this is absolutely not one of those times. the guy gaslights everyone in the room and borderline has a temper tantrum when anyone does anything that isn't exactly the way he wants it
Exactly the most important part of attack training is releasing on command and not attacking unless there is an actual threat. I saw a video made by a protection dog trainer. He said that a true protection dog won't attack unless told to or if they or their handler is attacked. He also said they will release on command. The video as basically going over actual protection dog vs dangerous aggressive dog
Also starting to bite train whithout foundational obedience is absolutely INSANE. Watching him handle her obedience work left me underwhelmed to say the least.
Lol tony is the one with separation anxiety. Not Sasha. This episode always makes me laugh at him. And feel bad for his wife but proud of all of them too. Tony letting control go .... Wife connecting with Sasha. And Sasha getting calm and learning not to attack the door or trees
Yes and he is comparing it into caterpillar 😂 that if your putting it out of their natural environment 😄 and i was like Helloo if you want it to be natural then dont own a dog let it out on the wild 😂😂😂 he has lots of ideas without sense in their life 😅
He’s not gonna get Sasha bred but he might secretly get someone to do it or let her out when she’s in heat so she ends up pregnant. He refuses to have her spayed. He has a secret agenda behind his wife’s back.
@@Doggie-125 Yeah. It totally would. My gripe with this sentence is that it makes it sound like the dog is a trophy, a passive thing that you show off. It's a bit like saying your child is your prized possession.
Hahhahaha I was thinking the same thing haha that big dog is what a chihuahua sees in the mirror hahaha I love these videos I have 2 chihuahuas an I want to invite Victoria to meet them cos they arnt yappy they dont bark all the time they are really sensitive and gentle wee dogs the only thing is they don't like it when they arnt with there mummy (me lol) but will tolerate being looked after by there granny (my mum lol) for the night and they have fallen in love with the guy who lives above me they won't let him pass them when he gets home from work he has to come into my garden and give both pups a hug and kisses then play ball with them hahahaha honestly it's like a human child custody arrangement l 😂😂😂 haha
"the ovaries are there for a reason" yeah but not all dogs will procreate, and thank god for that. I was surprised that Victoria didn't take them to a shelter so they could see for themselves that this world doesn't need more dogs
The hormones produced by the ovaries actually are important to a dog's health, I learned that the hard way. Just watch them closely when they're in heat, it's not that hard.
This guy is a total covert psychological abuser, any time Josie gets upset (well within her rights whether he agrees with her or not) he speaks to her like she’s being OTT and irrational when it seems to me just from a 40 min video that she has probably put up with a lot of ridiculousness with this man and is just mentally exhausted. The fact he also says he wants to get Sasha to have a litter and keep one when he doesn’t even know how to/care to train her nevermind care for her pups and train one of them too.. get this man in the bin Josie. The way he SMILED when he thought Sasha wasn’t going to listen to Josie, eugh
Victoria, after binge watching dozens of your videos it is clear to me that the humans in most, if not all, of them need couples counseling. Their issues are creating an environment that is unhealthy for their fur babies. I really love watching you tackle the hard job of retraining the humans first so that the dogs can live up to their potential. You should get certified as a couples counselor. You definitely have what it takes to do the job❣️
She didn't date him. She most likely dated the love bombing, passionate personification of the man he thought she would fall in love with, made her think she was the perfect guy until they were married and then he turned into himself once she was committed. That's what narcissistic trauma bonding does.
@@greaterthanme876did you learn all those terms from some repulsive predator like Bailey Sarian? It seems a pet narc is the must have accessory these days
We didn't see the worst of it, as bad as he was he was still on camera trying to entertain the audience and look like the fun loving, easy going good guy with a sense of humor. You can bet behind closed doors when there is no one left for him to entertain, he's likely 10x worse.
@@greaterthanme876 Man, I don't even want to think about that. Yet, it happens way too often. People get stuck with partners who are so bad that they can't convince themselves to leave because of fear or not seeing it themselves...
I would love to see a follow up with Sasha in a year if she's kept training. She's such a smart and interesting dog, she's a TH-cam channel I'd follow. Love the search and find pup journey. Amazing!
If she stays with him she's in for one hell of a battle and his controlling will become worse; Narcissists' always think they are right and everybody else is wrong; I hope she has the strength to make the right decision.
Don’t get married. You’ll end up with spouse 1, 2, and 3 breaking up like it’s not marriage. Marriage is not sacred to all, and until death do you part , for better or worse , richer or poorer, sick and in health. It’s not for you
I always get very upset when I see "out of control" dogs; particularly, Chihuahuas. I've had three dogs in my life, a GSD, a Fox Terrier and her love child and now a Chihuahua. They all the up lovely, lively, and calm. There is quite a bit of mischief, but no pulling, no unnecessary barking. The Chi is gentle, very good with children; she's the darling of the neighbourhood, I feel so sorry for dogs who learn to be aggressive and uncontrollable instead.
Unfortunately, many people do not discipline/train their chihuahuas properly. I'm wheelchair bound and have had more problems (attempted bites, peeing on me or the chair, aggressive behavior, etc.) with chihuahuas than all the big breeds combined. Some dogs just get narky about the chair, which I understand, but owners need to control their dogs. I love well trained dogs, but ill disciplined ones are a menace.
What kind of drugs is he on for the scratch marks to "feel like driftwood, it gives you memories" and for his wife's bitten leg to be "no problem she got into the line of fire"? he's lucky Josie didn't have an actual chunk taken out of her leg but then again he'd probably say "it's just a scratch no big deal" and the crap about the master and dog being one?
I read through quite a few comments and while I agreed with their assessment of Tony's behavior, I wondered why none pointed out that the title concerns Lerna the chihuahua but the episode was 98% Sasha. I was impressed at the change in Tony's attitude. He enjoyed dancing the tango with Josie. I felt relieved that once Sasha became more controllable, Lena seemed more relaxed. I wish she had been much more involved in the episode than she was. Victoria has always been a godsend when it comes to couples who are not on the same page.
Victoria, this was an awesome video! I actually laughed out loud at some of the interactions between the couple. You were terrific Victoria, with all the suggestions you came up with. Tango? who'd a thought?? lol. Excellent video! Thanks Victoria!
The problem was somethin he caused the dog to have. He's got probs He's projected onto the dog. Theor marriage has deeper Issues that he's replacing with the dog & focused on that Instead.
She seems so nice and reasonable.... I'd say RUN, JOSIE, but who knows how she even fell for the most self-centered, most clueless, biggest man-child EVER in the first place. I can't imagine he was ever any different, so it looks a bit self-inflicted? I don't know. He's just really SOOOOOOO bad, I'm annoyed just watching 20 min of his "takes".
Water seeks it's own level. Josie needs to work on her self esteem and self compassion. She doesn't deserve a narcissist, she deserves better but she doesn't know it.
The act of trauma bonding doesn't start with being yourself, it starts with being a character that you think your target wants. She likely fell in love with a charming, sweet and funny version of him and didn't really see the real him until it was too late. You could see how he tried to charm Victoria and the camera. Victoria and Josie continuously saw through his attempts which is why it was so clear what he was doing. That said, a lot of people in the comments were still tricked into thinking he was a sweet and charming man and Josie was the the controlling one. Trauma bonding is a terrible trick!
These videos are good therapy for me because I just want to give up in misbehaving humans. I find it easy to work with dogs, but I’m learning so much from Victoria on how to manage difficult humans.
He is not a good person he is very selfish he wanted to be in full control of his dog he didn't want his wife to have anything to do with the dog shame on him what are you 10
He doesn’t know anything about dogs and about the responsibility it brings with as an owner.. the way he explained how he was happy the dog bit in the sleeve but he couldn’t get her to let go and then frustratedly quit the training 😂 oh my stars ..
@@jimbob465search and rescue training is something you can do just for fun by hiding from your dog then having someone release them or hiding something from them then releasing them. This dog is to pent up it needs to expend it’s energy so it doesn’t chew and bite.
When he said yes, he should have talked to her about it before wrecking their agreement to start taking time together for themselves as a couple, but things change and it is what it is, she should have said, "Oh, I'm so glad you feel that way, because I took a lover a while back, and while I probably should have discussed it with you first to see how you felt about it, it's done now, and" it is what it is"-- and then given him his own line, as well, if he objected, about the need for him to eliminate his "negative energy" about it.
Honestly, the biggest issue with the couple and the dogs is that the guy (Tony) is DELIBERATELY not giving his wife a chance to form a proper relationship with Sasha. He just wants to focus on having "HIS dog" not "OUR dog." How can the wife learn to love and train the dog to follow her commands if the husband refuses to foster a good relationship? I am the main trainer of our dogs, but I always make sure my spouse learns how to control the dogs and to have FUN with the dogs (aka give treats, play, cuddling, etc). I even let them give the appropriate table scraps everyday, rather than have myself do it. It is a special moment everyday that the dogs have with my spouse that has nothing to do with me and they must behave in order to get the treat.
As soon as i heard protection training- like oh god. This is so dangerous especially with dogs who aren't well trained to follow orders beforehand. If you're not gonna commit to it you're gonna have problems, especially with working dog breeds
A German Shepherd will be enough of a deterrent to someone wanting to harm a person or their property without needing to protection train the dog - the evildoer will move on to an easier target 🐕
I once worked, as a trainer, with a family with a Rottweiler that they wanted to "be mean". I assured them that they would not have to protection-train him. He'd be more than happy to protect them if he sensed danger.
"Sasha's gonna have separation anxiety" lol no. I can't understand how a partner could do this to their significant other, Jozie is a real team player for putting up with all of this and to the point she's at her witt's end, I wish he could appreciate his wife and all she does or I wish she would find someone who would appreciate her in that way.
I am SO glad these two don't have kids. Controlling and dismissive father, mother that gives up after a minute of loud noises, dangerous dogs and strange ideas. They're a much bigger danger to themselves than any stranger.
My neighbor's Shepherd had lots of breast cancer because the people they rescued her from dd not spay her There are a lot of advantages to spaying and neutering.
Is anyone else gonna talk about how less of love the chihuahua(s) received? Sasha was the primary receiver of affection. Affection should be distributed evenly throughout the pack!
Tony be like " you miss daddy😊" the dog " hell no I like her more now" Tony's wife in her head "nope she did not she was good with me not you!!" But not in her head " yeah she did😅😑"
God , I hated this guy . Completely invalidating and dismissive of her feelings. A guy that belittles her, with a smile on his face ugh
Narcissists hate being told what to do; When Victoria told him to go, this would have really wounded him.
"Josie may claim that me and Sahs will have to leave if it doesnt get better." Im sorry "may claim?" He was just horribel
@@gillianbrookwell1678 He is not a narcissist. That term is being used way too often. He is just like a little boy that has to share his favorite toy.
@@gillianbrookwell1678 that guy isnt a narcissist, it's just a man
@@ParadiseAndGin A man child
This man's behavior is UNREAL
Ik i feel bad for the dog
Agreed
“Doesnt it remind you of some nice driftwood?” LIKE, NAUR
Both have issues I think, not the husband only...
@@twilightmarichat1854 I also feel bad for his wife.
Imagine your dog bites someone and you say ‘no biggie’… imagine the audacity.
i would never visit them again if i were bitten and the owner just dismisses it
@@emmavrijburg6676I'd report him
he puts his dogs over the safety of his wife .... terrible
@@emmavrijburg6676
Happened to me and I never hated another human so much in that very moment. Dog owner (friend of my grandma) comes along, I ask if the dog is friendly and can be pet, she says yes so I approach as calmly as I can and just give the dog my hand to sniff and this thing straight up bites me.
Thanks dog owner and screw you -.-
Imagine that dog, with the "partial attack training" bites and latches on. Poor dog would have a death sentence. And the owner would act like it was the person's fault that the dog bit them.
I swear… Victoria is more of a couples therapist than anything else. The dogs are fine. It’s the humans who need help.
Haha totally 😂
Well the dogs have behavior issues but they're caused by their humans almost every time
There was one episode with a dog that suffered panic attacks. The panic attacks weren't caused by the humans but the humans failed to understand the dog was having panic attacks so instead of trying to help the dog they tried to correct him and exasperated his panic attacks instead
It is really true that before a dog can be trained, whatever the issues are among members of the family, has to be dealt with. Both of them here.
Vicktoria aways fixs the couples relationship
That is usually the case.
Also, it should be FORBIDDEN to offer attack training for dogs owned by untrained people, it should be mandatory to have some sort of certification to be allowed an attack dog.
Exactly it's too dangerous. Only experienced people should own protection dogs.
It's a German shepherd ffs! If someone attacks the dog will protect!
@@casastuart210 there's a big difference between instinctively attacking intruders and trading a dog to attack. The dog trained to attack thinks its a game and if not trained right may start attacking anyone unprovoked
Training an attack dog(one trained to attack) is a full time job and really should only be legally allowed with people who prove they know what they're doing
@syrusorelio2309 Indeed. And you should always train the release command first. Then the attack. Not the other way 'round and hope it'll work. yikes.
You are very correct but unfortunately the entire "industry" of dog ownership and dog care and everything in between is virtually unregulated and every piece of advice is a suggestion you can happily ignore even to the detriment of the animals and everyone around you and it's not illegal as long as you aren't provably abusing an animal. It's nuts.
I really love when Victoria puts owners in their place.
Same
Wow, Tony is majorly rude Josie. "It's not that bad." "You need to calm down." He talks over her, interrupts her. He downplays her concerns. He values the dog over his wife!
The arrogance and narcissism of him is sickening. Like the world needs more puppies. She should take him to the shelters to see how that's working.
She has issues too🤷, she is just looking for anything to argue with him about.
In other episodes she has taken people to shelters when they refuse to spay or neuter.
As soon as he described the dog as "my prized possession" at the beginning, I knew he was trash...
the dog needs a new home. the humans need to be rehomed
@@spankthemonkey3437nah bro he's the only one causing problems that I'm seeing here
So despite her not wanting another dog he gets one, partially attack-trains it and seems perfectly happy that she's so miserable. He WANTS her to leave him, getting that dog was his spineless way of making her life SO miserable that she would leave him. Narcissistic, misogynistic and deeply deeply selfish husband. Poor woman.
I'm totally with you on the narcissistic, misogynistic and deeply, deeply selfish husband part, but I think you're giving him way too much credit in saying he wants her to leave him and getting the dog was his spineless way of making it happen. I can't believe he's ever thought that far ahead, or with that level of complexity-- or deferred gratification-- in his life. I also doubt he's ever given that much thought--or any thought at all, for that matter-- to what another person's reaction/response to his behavior might be. I think he works on a much more primitive level...as in, "Ungh...me want. Ungh...me get!" Then a bunch more "me, me, me's," then maybe a flash of red for "danger" (representing the pinnacle of his sensitivity to his wife's reaction), another grunt, "Me want!" and home we go, with another dog, happy and pleased with himself and his new canine friend.
@@Alice-xy3fi I hear you, and reckon that's probably closer to the truth!
She got the dogs she wanted, he got the dog he wanted....
@@bettyboop8264 And literally attack trained it but showed it no other form of dicipline. What a spineless loser
No he got a dog that he could "control" to have "control" of his wife. He's awful
Sasha is an extremely gorgeous dog and obviously extremely smart BUT Tony makes it hard for her to be manageable and a good dog.
One of my coworkers has a dog that looks like Sasha, except her dog is a male.
yes she's a working line shepherd which is painfully obvious. they should have got a family shepherd..
@@RunIntoTheForestindeed.
I dont think she is a good looking dog
@@isabelgabilondo1713 she looks fine in my opinion, actually really nice for a German shepherd
This is the most annoying and frustrating man I've seen so far. She really needs to stop ignoring all the red flags and leave this man.
there are a lot of times people jump to this conclusion way too quickly over virtually nothing. this is absolutely not one of those times. the guy gaslights everyone in the room and borderline has a temper tantrum when anyone does anything that isn't exactly the way he wants it
no actually tony needs to LEAVE HER
Woman should divorce this narcissist ASAP.
I left my narcissist husband nine years ago; he was bad enough but nowhere near as challenging as this guy. Narcissists never change.
If you’re not saved then yes. I’d move out that’s why you have to be careful who you marry. I’m married . It’s no cake walk for anyone
@@PropertyandCasualtyAgent"not saved"?
You must be a fly on the wall to diagnose and know this family from an edited video.
He is definitely delusional and very controlling
hes a narcissest
Bite training with a young GSD and no follow up is a disgrace. It’s public and animal endangerment and he now is a risk now.
Exactly the most important part of attack training is releasing on command and not attacking unless there is an actual threat. I saw a video made by a protection dog trainer. He said that a true protection dog won't attack unless told to or if they or their handler is attacked. He also said they will release on command. The video as basically going over actual protection dog vs dangerous aggressive dog
Also starting to bite train whithout foundational obedience is absolutely INSANE. Watching him handle her obedience work left me underwhelmed to say the least.
Lol tony is the one with separation anxiety. Not Sasha. This episode always makes me laugh at him. And feel bad for his wife but proud of all of them too. Tony letting control go .... Wife connecting with Sasha. And Sasha getting calm and learning not to attack the door or trees
Yes and he is comparing it into caterpillar 😂 that if your putting it out of their natural environment 😄 and i was like Helloo if you want it to be natural then dont own a dog let it out on the wild 😂😂😂 he has lots of ideas without sense in their life 😅
I felt so bad for the wife having to deal with a husband who just doesnt see that he is the main problem on the dogs behavior so controling as wel
He’s not gonna get Sasha bred but he might secretly get someone to do it or let her out when she’s in heat so she ends up pregnant. He refuses to have her spayed. He has a secret agenda behind his wife’s back.
He is definitely the type of person who would do that. He clearly doesnt give a rip about his wife's boundaries.
@@SugaryPhoenixxx via snooping it does appear he had her bred. ://
@@zamis769snooping=??
@@zamis769can you tell me we’re to do said snooping
As soon as he called Sasha his prized possession I was weirded out and it only got worse
Nothing wrong with that. She’s a gorgeous dog and is incredibly intelligent. I don’t disagree that he was weird about her though. 😂
What's wrong with a dog being someone's prized possesion? would it be weird if someone's cat was their prized possesion
@@Doggie-125 Yeah. It totally would. My gripe with this sentence is that it makes it sound like the dog is a trophy, a passive thing that you show off. It's a bit like saying your child is your prized possession.
@@saddlerrye6725 Ugh
that's the biggest chihuahua I've ever seen 👀
Frfr
Hahhahaha I was thinking the same thing haha that big dog is what a chihuahua sees in the mirror hahaha I love these videos I have 2 chihuahuas an I want to invite Victoria to meet them cos they arnt yappy they dont bark all the time they are really sensitive and gentle wee dogs the only thing is they don't like it when they arnt with there mummy (me lol) but will tolerate being looked after by there granny (my mum lol) for the night and they have fallen in love with the guy who lives above me they won't let him pass them when he gets home from work he has to come into my garden and give both pups a hug and kisses then play ball with them hahahaha honestly it's like a human child custody arrangement l 😂😂😂 haha
😂😂😂😂
It’s an overweight chihuahua… poor thing is unhealthy being that size.. you should always see a dog’s waist line
It’s very very unhealthy. They gave it a ton of food too. That bowl was ridiculous.
Divorce, babe. Divorce.
Exactly
Haha! Exactly. 😂
Yup
@szofika I See what You did there!
Adele is an icon for this. 😅
Say it louder in case she didn’t hear you
Why is the title about a chihuahua when the episode is all about a german shepherd?
I'm wondering the same...
People love to hate on Chihuahuas, so it gets clicks
I guess they couldn't get someone to manage the TH-cam channel who can actually pay attention lol
exactly what I came to the comments for !
Tony is the Chihuahua. 😎
That guy is so inconsiderate of his own wife. He doesn’t care about the stress she’s going through. The dog is messing with the marriage. Wow.
"the ovaries are there for a reason" yeah but not all dogs will procreate, and thank god for that. I was surprised that Victoria didn't take them to a shelter so they could see for themselves that this world doesn't need more dogs
The hormones produced by the ovaries actually are important to a dog's health, I learned that the hard way. Just watch them closely when they're in heat, it's not that hard.
Misogynistic
@@lmp7436they didn’t need a litter of puppies with that problem at home
@@lmp7436the benefits (no risk of uterine or ovarian cancer, reduced risk of breast cancer, no unwanted pregnancy) vastly outweigh the downsides
@@lmp7436 That's completely, totally, 100% untrue.
I don't think Tony quite understands that when he brought Sasha Home she isn't just his dog anymore she's also Josie's dog as well
That josie didn't want
Seeing the joy Josie feels when Tony is proven wrong makes me feel justice in my heart
This guy's attachment to his dog is borderline creepy.
EXACTLY!!! 😂😭
Sorry he is not borderline creepy, he is full blown creepy !!
This guy is a total covert psychological abuser, any time Josie gets upset (well within her rights whether he agrees with her or not) he speaks to her like she’s being OTT and irrational when it seems to me just from a 40 min video that she has probably put up with a lot of ridiculousness with this man and is just mentally exhausted. The fact he also says he wants to get Sasha to have a litter and keep one when he doesn’t even know how to/care to train her nevermind care for her pups and train one of them too.. get this man in the bin Josie. The way he SMILED when he thought Sasha wasn’t going to listen to Josie, eugh
Victoria, after binge watching dozens of your videos it is clear to me that the humans in most, if not all, of them need couples counseling. Their issues are creating an environment that is unhealthy for their fur babies. I really love watching you tackle the hard job of retraining the humans first so that the dogs can live up to their potential. You should get certified as a couples counselor. You definitely have what it takes to do the job❣️
Tbh I would not be surprised if she had a degree in human psychology
The dogs won't eat food that doesn't have his scent on it OMG DYING LAUGHING.
I know right😂 Basically most dogs are food hoovers!
It was such a male thing to say lol
kinda gross
It continues to amaze me how, beautiful, intelligent and social women like her end up with looneys like him. Truly amazing 🙄
Ikr. Alwayssssssss happens. These poor women
she is the one who dated him@@BLIND_BEAR poor man 😉
@@Doggie-125💀💀
She didn't date him. She most likely dated the love bombing, passionate personification of the man he thought she would fall in love with, made her think she was the perfect guy until they were married and then he turned into himself once she was committed. That's what narcissistic trauma bonding does.
@@greaterthanme876did you learn all those terms from some repulsive predator like Bailey Sarian? It seems a pet narc is the must have accessory these days
Oh my god it’s like he learned how to fly a plane but dropped out of flight school before learning to land
😂😂 never heard that b4
I like it
He's definitely in the running for worst husband of the year.
Red flags on that guy ten fold. Surprised she was still with him, knowing how bad he is.
We didn't see the worst of it, as bad as he was he was still on camera trying to entertain the audience and look like the fun loving, easy going good guy with a sense of humor. You can bet behind closed doors when there is no one left for him to entertain, he's likely 10x worse.
@@greaterthanme876 Man, I don't even want to think about that. Yet, it happens way too often. People get stuck with partners who are so bad that they can't convince themselves to leave because of fear or not seeing it themselves...
I would love to see a follow up with Sasha in a year if she's kept training. She's such a smart and interesting dog, she's a TH-cam channel I'd follow. Love the search and find pup journey. Amazing!
does anyone know if this couple are still together? because josie has the patience of a super heroine around this guy.
If she stays with him she's in for one hell of a battle and his controlling will become worse; Narcissists' always think they are right and everybody else is wrong; I hope she has the strength to make the right decision.
I went snooping and it seems they are. It also looks like he bred from Sasha anyway.
oh come on 😬.... well we knew that would happen. thank you rainbowjo78... you are the true heroine. @@rainbowjo78
@@rainbowjo78 Bruh ._.
She needs to dump him
I wish this show shows the family 6 months after to see how the family is doing
What a failure of a man, pathetic, divorce him you can do so much better than someone who just thinks oh she's just being hysterical woman
Don’t get married. You’ll end up with spouse 1, 2, and 3 breaking up like it’s not marriage. Marriage is not sacred to all, and until death do you part , for better or worse , richer or poorer, sick and in health. It’s not for you
Two minutes in and the gaslighting is one of the worst I've seen 😂
I always get very upset when I see "out of control" dogs; particularly, Chihuahuas. I've had three dogs in my life, a GSD, a Fox Terrier and her love child and now a Chihuahua. They all the up lovely, lively, and calm. There is quite a bit of mischief, but no pulling, no unnecessary barking. The Chi is gentle, very good with children; she's the darling of the neighbourhood, I feel so sorry for dogs who learn to be aggressive and uncontrollable instead.
Unfortunately, many people do not discipline/train their chihuahuas properly. I'm wheelchair bound and have had more problems (attempted bites, peeing on me or the chair, aggressive behavior, etc.) with chihuahuas than all the big breeds combined. Some dogs just get narky about the chair, which I understand, but owners need to control their dogs.
I love well trained dogs, but ill disciplined ones are a menace.
@@linabasilisk1955yeah....they let them get away with stuff because they're so small. And fail to instill the dog with any real confidence
This guy is an absolute nightmare. Sasha and Josie would thrive without him.
The dog connecting with the wife was a beautiful thing. And the dancing between husband and wife was wonderful! 🤍🕊️🤍🙏
I turned it on, saw Anthony and was like “NOT THIS GUY!”
wait was he in something prior to this?
@@sardonicsardonyx359yep! Sasha the german shepherd
What kind of drugs is he on for the scratch marks to "feel like driftwood, it gives you memories" and for his wife's bitten leg to be "no problem she got into the line of fire"? he's lucky Josie didn't have an actual chunk taken out of her leg but then again he'd probably say "it's just a scratch no big deal" and the crap about the master and dog being one?
I read through quite a few comments and while I agreed with their assessment of Tony's behavior, I wondered why none pointed out that the title concerns Lerna the chihuahua but the episode was 98% Sasha. I was impressed at the change in Tony's attitude. He enjoyed dancing the tango with Josie. I felt relieved that once Sasha became more controllable, Lena seemed more relaxed. I wish she had been much more involved in the episode than she was. Victoria has always been a godsend when it comes to couples who are not on the same page.
Dude with an attitude creates a dog with an attitude. Point blank.
Victoria, this was an awesome video! I actually laughed out loud at some of the interactions between the couple. You were terrific Victoria, with all the suggestions you came up with. Tango? who'd a thought?? lol. Excellent video! Thanks Victoria!
“So I gotta live in a pigsty” 😂
i love it when victoria shatters owners world views
The gaslighting... DIVORCE
I love how Victoria is actually training the owners way more than the dogs
Chihuahuas are so wholesome. This one is adorable :3
Agreed. I'm a chi lover!
The problem was somethin he caused the dog to have. He's got probs He's projected onto the dog. Theor marriage has deeper Issues that he's replacing with the dog & focused on that Instead.
She seems so nice and reasonable.... I'd say RUN, JOSIE, but who knows how she even fell for the most self-centered, most clueless, biggest man-child EVER in the first place. I can't imagine he was ever any different, so it looks a bit self-inflicted? I don't know. He's just really SOOOOOOO bad, I'm annoyed just watching 20 min of his "takes".
Water seeks it's own level. Josie needs to work on her self esteem and self compassion. She doesn't deserve a narcissist, she deserves better but she doesn't know it.
The act of trauma bonding doesn't start with being yourself, it starts with being a character that you think your target wants. She likely fell in love with a charming, sweet and funny version of him and didn't really see the real him until it was too late. You could see how he tried to charm Victoria and the camera. Victoria and Josie continuously saw through his attempts which is why it was so clear what he was doing. That said, a lot of people in the comments were still tricked into thinking he was a sweet and charming man and Josie was the the controlling one. Trauma bonding is a terrible trick!
The guy wants the dog to be dependent on him and wants the dog to be stressed without him my god.
victoria even knows how to dance, that confidence
These videos are good therapy for me because I just want to give up in misbehaving humans. I find it easy to work with dogs, but I’m learning so much from Victoria on how to manage difficult humans.
I didn't expect a dog show to show me how many people live with gaslighting partners😲🤯
yeah that marriage looks rock solid...😂😂
Seems like he loves his dogs more than his wife😂😂😂
He is not a good person he is very selfish he wanted to be in full control of his dog he didn't want his wife to have anything to do with the dog shame on him what are you 10
Poor Sasha it breaks my heart seeing that 😢
She needs structure and a strong handler.
He doesn’t know anything about dogs and about the responsibility it brings with as an owner.. the way he explained how he was happy the dog bit in the sleeve but he couldn’t get her to let go and then frustratedly quit the training 😂 oh my stars ..
anyone ever said simmer down to me, id explode
He does NOT love that dog. He just likes the IDEA of her
"You can't just remove something because it's annoying." Hmm... Lookin at this guy and thinking...
"She's a one person dog" No you want Sasha to only be your dog.
He is too controlling.
Search and rescue would be great for this dog.
So it can find a lost or hurt person and attack them? 😂
@@jimbob465search and rescue training is something you can do just for fun by hiding from your dog then having someone release them or hiding something from them then releasing them. This dog is to pent up it needs to expend it’s energy so it doesn’t chew and bite.
He’s going to give his wife a stroke I feel so bad for her, stressing her out like that. Selfish
I haven’t seen this show since I was a teenager!! I love this show and Victoria’s training methods. So glad I can rewatch it! ❤️
When he said yes, he should have talked to her about it before wrecking their agreement to start taking time together for themselves as a couple, but things change and it is what it is, she should have said, "Oh, I'm so glad you feel that way, because I took a lover a while back, and while I probably should have discussed it with you first to see how you felt about it, it's done now, and" it is what it is"-- and then given him his own line, as well, if he objected, about the need for him to eliminate his "negative energy" about it.
It would be chef kiss ! 😂
@@irishelinac LOL...needless to say, I couldn't agree more. Thanks for the laugh!
Tony is the epitome of Making it up as you go along...zero.knowledge 100% ego.
Doe he measure his masculinity by Sasha?!
Yeah, and 11:03 I mean, look whos talking.
Search & rescue is a perfect job for her, she is such a clever dog
Divorce Tony & get the hell out.
I think you guys ought to know that, as of 2023, Sasha HAS had a litter.
So sad.... This man is a nightmare !
VICTORIA IS THE BEST DOG TRAINER SHE IS NOW 13 YEARS WITH HER JOB AND IT IS CLEAR THAT SHE IS PROUD OF THAT 😀🙌👏👍👌
Honestly, the biggest issue with the couple and the dogs is that the guy (Tony) is DELIBERATELY not giving his wife a chance to form a proper relationship with Sasha. He just wants to focus on having "HIS dog" not "OUR dog." How can the wife learn to love and train the dog to follow her commands if the husband refuses to foster a good relationship?
I am the main trainer of our dogs, but I always make sure my spouse learns how to control the dogs and to have FUN with the dogs (aka give treats, play, cuddling, etc). I even let them give the appropriate table scraps everyday, rather than have myself do it. It is a special moment everyday that the dogs have with my spouse that has nothing to do with me and they must behave in order to get the treat.
Nothing more irritating than a deluded husband who completely ignores his wife's genuine concerns!!!
Fantastic job Victoria and you are absolutely amazing and so smart and genius ❤
He does NOT need a dog. 😭 this was so disappointing omg I’ve never seen someone SO clueless about dogs
I hate how this guy totally invalidates his wife😡
That's a very shephard-looking chihuahua. The actual chihuahua doesn't seem that feisty
As soon as i heard protection training- like oh god. This is so dangerous especially with dogs who aren't well trained to follow orders beforehand. If you're not gonna commit to it you're gonna have problems, especially with working dog breeds
A German Shepherd will be enough of a deterrent to someone wanting to harm a person or their property without needing to protection train the dog - the evildoer will move on to an easier target 🐕
I once worked, as a trainer, with a family with a Rottweiler that they wanted to "be mean". I assured them that they would not have to protection-train him. He'd be more than happy to protect them if he sensed danger.
@@vbs4257dogs do not naturally protect like that unless trained to
this couples needs more than Victoria, this dude has some issues beyond dog
I can’t believe this man is asking for more dogs, even though he can’t take of the dogs he has
I was promised a chihuahua in the title-
I’ve been click baited
You guys got the wrong title on this video
"Sasha's gonna have separation anxiety" lol no. I can't understand how a partner could do this to their significant other, Jozie is a real team player for putting up with all of this and to the point she's at her witt's end, I wish he could appreciate his wife and all she does or I wish she would find someone who would appreciate her in that way.
Tony putted up with this too
This poor woman was so stressed she was scratching at her neck. That guy’s gonna send her to an early grave.
This women is an angel. This troll doesn't deserve her.
He wants to defend the household but the defense is dangerous for the household.
Why do I have the feeling Sascha miraculously got pregnant some time after the episode. 🤔
She did! His social media showed she had pups.
@@bugloverspiderlover8490 noooooooo!
@@bugloverspiderlover8490God, I hope he sold the puppies to more responsible owners than he is!
Cuz Tony sneaks around!
I am SO glad these two don't have kids. Controlling and dismissive father, mother that gives up after a minute of loud noises, dangerous dogs and strange ideas. They're a much bigger danger to themselves than any stranger.
There was not one word about a feisty chihuahua...
Run away from him Mama 🏃♀️ 😂
Listen to Victoria! Stop being rude!
My neighbor's Shepherd had lots of breast cancer because the people they rescued her from dd not spay her There are a lot of advantages to spaying and neutering.
Is anyone else gonna talk about how less of love the chihuahua(s) received? Sasha was the primary receiver of affection. Affection should be distributed evenly throughout the pack!
The dog clearly isn’t stimulated enough she is what looks to be a WORKING LINE german shepherd they have a lot of energy and require so much exorcise
Let’s hope for the sake of his wife that they get a divorce
I have no idea how she’s made it this far
OR they get help/couple counseling. Anyways most marriages end in divorce, so sometimes it's best to try to fix problems, before you just give up.
That chihuahua sure is huge!!
Tony be like " you miss daddy😊" the dog " hell no I like her more now" Tony's wife in her head "nope she did not she was good with me not you!!" But not in her head " yeah she did😅😑"