What Is A High Value Man? High Value Men Defined ©
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As a Black man, most of us grow up looking to rappers and other bullshit as role models. THIS right here is the type of influence we need to see more of
@Jaheim care I said most of us. If you're an exception to that then I commend you.
@Jaheim care that’s just like when women tell Kevin “but not all women” 🙄
Facts Brah!
agreed
@Jaheim care got a low male right here we high males can sense that shit
Real “High Value” men:
1. Are emotionally intelligent
2. Have a purpose
3. Take care of themselves
4. Have high self-esteem
5. Generate their own self-esteem
6. Are assertive
7. Know power dynamics
8. Are honest to their own value systems
9. Have a growth mindset
10. Take responsibility
Kevin's 6 things that identify a high-value man are mainly speaking about a man's status and influence. He does not emphasize these 10 deeper qualities you are speaking of. These 10 speaks more to the Core Values and inner qualities of a man.
In this video Kevin seems to come more from the corporate/ business perspective where it hard to truly be yourself. That can lead to always trying to be impressive; living an unhappy, superficial life to fit in or garner status and/or attention.
@@SAMotivation thanks for the feedback!!
This is so much more important than what Kevin said, all respect to him.
This is it💪🏿
Those are the inner qualities but the outer results should be at minimum $10k a month. If you aren’t making a minimum of $10k, it means you’re still learning to master self aka those qualities.
To me High Value men aren't just who have higher income and great social status. High Value men are those who put their family first, are respectful and have great leadership skills in whatever status they're on.
Think of it in business terms: The market is a collection of different markets. There are different market segments, each with their own demands but they will still have these 6 factors in varying proportions. How do you put family first if you're overstressed with bills and so on? How do you build leadership skills if not with other ppl of influence? Etc. But you're right, it's relative to your conditions. Kevin mentioned that when it came to income (10K in Atlanta but reflect it on your conditions)
Well I kinda agree but that's just a valued man he's talking about the top 10 percent of people and unless you're willing to put in the work to make 6 figures then good luck competing
I will tell you from my experience, I have couple of men in my family with 6figure income. Yes, they've great social circles, higher class life styles and are able to afford private school for their children and yoga class for their wives.. but I assure you that they aren't very good husbands or fathers.
I'm not talking about someone who's homeless or jobless. . I'm talking about someone decent with average income that can take care of their families.
did you listen to the video?
So to me Blessed means blah blah blah but it actually means happy? People use the term o we have been blessed. But that context does not always make sense. We have been happy? Meaning you can’t be happy again???
1. Money- 120k yearly or 10k monthly
2. Duration- 3-5 yrs consistency
3. Group acceptance [by other HVM]
4. Network [of other HVM]
5. Visibility [position & income linked]
6. Utility [usefellness to others]
U folks sold out for money
@@AfG_313 how so
@@novelenterprise everything revolves around money for u guys out in the western world. You guys belittle humans who don’t have the latest shoes or clothes you guys belittle humans for not making enough money. Your part of the world has failed. Democracy has failed look at the state u Americans are in rite now. This guy you guys look up to is nothing but a phony. Power is shifting as well power will not be in the western world for much longer just know this
@@novelenterprise a dogs life or a cats life has more of a meaning to you western people than humans do. I can go on and on and on. Your govt purposely makes u guys go astray
@@AfG_313 u have me confused with a white person 🤣
The black community in particular is going to miss this man, thank God he left a legacy that benefited some of us, and may we continue that Legacy.
Don't speak for all of us. 🖕🏾
But his advices is for the rest of us right as well?
Or no?
@@wolfnoggin2165 yes, of course you can still take his advice
@@wolfnoggin2165 of course...he is representing ALL men everywhere.
What do you mean, miss him? What happened to him?
"Work harder on yourself than you do on your job." -Jim Rohn
It is a scientific knowledge that work creates valor. Hard work must create high value
I like that.
Say it !
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Then dont complain when u get a weak ass paycheck either 🤷🏿♂️
This video made me realise how much more work I have to do before I can even begin to consider myself as high value!
Hello....how are you
yeah, no. If you’re looking for the attention of other men then maybe. But most women aren’t attracted to this mindset. as long as you have a good heart, provide for your wife n kids, n can communicate effectively, you’re a “high value “ man. Don’t let this guy make you think you have to be rich n have a group of other rich men to be considered “ high value “
@@angelinabrambila4806 I have proof this mindset works
another trait i consider high value is being in good physical health, i must go to gym or do any phyisical sport
@@angelinabrambila4806 that's what an average woman would say and Still Not want that man who dosent have high value or standards.
"Their presence is noticed when it's gone" was a good way of explaining point 6
Will forever strive to be a man of high value thanks to you... prayers up to his family❤
Sadly im 34 yrs old and been preaching this to my friends for 13yrs. Unfortunately you cant force friends to think bigger.
What are they doing w there life?
Amen
Sometimes u gotta leave people behind cause they’re gonna slow you down
F@@@ them just level yourself up
If your reading this Jesus(John 3:16)loves you and you’re high value to him wether you make 10k a month or not there’s no price nor value on your soul. Stay blessed everyone ♥️🙏🏾
wow that is truly amazing and well said thank you
But that in itself seems to contradict what he is saying. I thought one of the attributes that he didnt point out was 'Greed' and 'Selfishness'. I dont know if your picture of jesus lines up with his picture of jesus!
@ Earth Angel I totally agree, I believe a lot of times people define themselves by how much money they have but money does not
define who you are as a person it is a tool to get things that you want.
Halleluyah!
Give to Caesar what belongs to Caesar. HVM is an earthly concept which has nothing to do with loving Christ or vice versa. Even in sports, athletes are valued differently- same goes in the workplace
This is exactly what young black men need an education by a brother who is together and comes as genuine who speaks truth now that's real!!!!
Not just young black men. Anybody I am from Argentina and learning from this.
sweden over here!
Trinidad over here
She stresses young black men is because generally Kevin is talking bout our community
@@2Smoovv yes sir. I feel you. I’m Mexican and I see the struggle y’all got. I love seeing my African American brothers doing great things. 💪🏼 We gotta stick together.
Usefulness to the group is the most underrated. The amount of opportunities, growth, and good things you can experience increases almost exponentially once people know and trust that if they give you a phone call, things get done. And you never know how many people are checking your LinkedIn before they make that call -- it eliminates so much 'selling' you have to do if no one had any idea who you are / who vouched for you / what you do.
The usefulness piece, for some people, is viewed negatively. I guess it's how they think. Usefulness is mutually beneficial in the context he explains it. When he mentioned Linked In, most people have accounts that are for the most part, verifiable.
1. Money (10k/ month ATL)
2 Consistent numbers over time (3-5yrs)
3. Group Acceptance (separation)
4. Network of High Value Men and Others
5. Visibility (position LinkedIn level)
6. Useful to Others and the group
I wish I had this level of mentorship 20 years ago, but I'm glad I can access at least this much now. Next goal is to be where I can access you paid services. thanks, KS.
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Kevin, your channel has come a LOOONNNGGGG way since you started out bro. Keep doing your thing G.
The evolution is unreal 🙏🏾🔥
EXCELLENT Kevin! You've just laid out the blueprint and book of instructions for the men who want to seriously step up their game! I only wish your commentary had been available when I was a young man! Thank you Kevin!😏👍🙂
He changed a lot of lives. Salute this brother. RIP KS The Godfather
Strive to build yourself into a man of character and strength, a man of discipline and self-control, a trustworthy man who puts his skills in the service of others and you will be fulfilled in life.
If masculinity and manhood are topics that interest you, feel free to challenge yourself with some ideas on the Mastery Order and challenge back if you have other points of view.
We can only become better men if we engage in challenging discussions.
Looking forward to hearing your points of view.
All the best to you!
It will take 10 to 15 years for me to be high value. I got time.
Gio Roche 10k a month still aint no money. I still feel broke.
@@b3at2 its "starting"
Ignore the haters on the way up. 'Cause once you reach your goal, they will want to be your (fake) friends.
Fam 10k a month is doable. It shouldn't take you 10-15 years. Find what will make the biggest impact QUICKLY. Learn to program how to manage projects. You can do this brother. 2 years TOPS.
Galva Tron FACTS!
High Value Male;
1. Money (Minimum 10k per month)
2. Proven Performance Over a Length of Time (3-5 years)
3. Group Acceptance (of Other HVM)
4. Network (of HVM first then others)
5. Visibility (Position & Income are easily understood at a Glance) ie. CEO
6. Utility (Useful to the Group and Others)
Our definitions of high value are different which is expected because this is all subjective but a high value man for me and many women is a man with class someone who can be a good father figure and husband. This 10k minimum is not as necessary as being a good husband and father someone who is a loyal hard working man that works hard to put food on the table. A min of 10k isn’t necessary but being financially stable is. My father doesn’t earn that much but knows how to save and be financially stable and provide for us and he has more value than the man in this video (or a drug dealer who can technically check everything on your list) or a CEO cause he makes sacrifices for his children and wife and puts family first. A man can be rich narcissistic cheater and a horrible person to marry and check everything off your list. Which is why I would respectfully disagree.
@@sparklingflames9268 you just described a regular man, there are tons of the type of man you just described.
@@nikinpatel6305 its not valuable to neglect your family because of $$
@@sparklingflames9268Well said t
good video
its not all about the money though
some make good money and they are still beta men
trash kinda person
your MIND is your greatest asset
IF YOU WANT more favorable outcomes
you need to INCREASE your overall value
I HAVE MY OWN HIGH VALUE MAN VIDEO COMING BEFORE THE END OF THE YEAR STAY TUNED
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What’s wrong w beta men? What is the defiant too?
Bravo!!’ 👏🏽
"There are no High-Value-Loners." Wow, that was a bit of a slap in the face, but frankly, I think I needed to hear that.
Shit...I think loners are just different breed of people...I'm a loner and I choose to be that way, I just like to grind and spend time alone...I'm sure your the same
Yeah, I got the career, but social awkwardness kills my HVM...
@@josephjohnson1057 Once you have the money part down you can simply learn and practice the other parts. Continue to put yourself in those socially awkward situations, look at how others are interacting and how they carry themselves.
I agree with building your "network" by recognizing and fairly rewarding other professionals who are excellent at what they do. If you are "high value" in all of the other ways, you don't necessarily need to be valued by society though.
@@algorerhythms2975 I believe we are talking about high value in mostly in terms of intersexual dynamics.
I used to think 10k a month was a lot of money. It’s actually very doable and entry level to high value status. Once you start getting yourself established, it’s not hard to go well beyond this.
Your right but 6 figures a year is still 10 percent of all humans that matters. It’s a huge accomplishment to reach that goal
It's all about supply and demand. If you are in high demand, your value is high. If your are not in high demand, pinpoint the areas where you need to improve on, work on them and see your value increase.
Never, ever, ever let another man define you
AMEN
The modern version of a “high value man” is sooo shallow and weak. I’d rather have a man who can hunt and fish, build anything, think independently, work with his hands, have common sense, courageous enough to face things that scare him, and strong enough to protect us and our home by himself if necessary. I’ve been married to such a man for 37 years, and I’ll take my blue collar engineer over these self-absorbed, silly men any day of the year.
You got tools can that do all that or buy it instantly , this isn't the 1880
I have a credit card and access to supermarket
@@emopaki good luck with all those things when your Internet goes down or you lose your wallet.. or zombies ofc
Then, that is the type of man you value. He is high value to you, but in the larger society, that doesn’t quite cut it.
u love a simple man who can do many life skills that's amazing I wish more women were like u society just puts pressure on men to make alot of money so they can attract women
Mr. Samuels , you quickly becoming a national treasure. You message stings...but not as much as living with failure does. Thank you for bringing a message, and a road map, to turn one's life around.
The problem I have with this message is he acquainted high value as in meaning with lots of money, and it’s deeper than that.
Like he said. Value is determined by the market. To someone like Rihanna or Beyoncé “10k” a month could potentially be low value.
Money is important. But your value based off of your money is going to be dependent on the type of women you’re going for. It’s shades of grey to it rather than black and white .
Si Yeh LeTre LEADER OF ADOS AFRICAN BLACK SOLUTIONS I’m going to need you to further elaborate before I can agree or disagree with you.
Yeah, someone can earn 10k a month but be in 200k in debt. Therefore low value. Its the "Net Worth" one needs to look into.
Acceptance from women don't matter ,you either gotta have looks or be a killer to please women
So worldly thinking!!!!
He is being inclusive. If you are worth more then great. Above all character speaks volumes of your value
Loving the truth this station makes me have to confront within myself. Thank you again and again.
Like. Kevin always say. You are winning. Sista. Keep. Progressing and grinding. ✌️✌️❤️❤️💯😊
As a man, he burnt my soul. It was well needed
Tanja's Testimonies 10k a month? Who ever he is, he’s getting all the ladies 😂🤣😂. He aint picking no single
Mothers .
@@b3at2 Hello, I'm not sure if you are assuming I am a single mother? I physically cannot have children. I can't tell if you are speaking in general terms. Be blessed.
The fact it took that long Speaks Volumes......
This man was so on beat and never missed one. He was living what he was preaching because to this day I still cant get over the fact he gone. He looked healthy and well minded that you cant help but think he was set up. But like I said he lives what he preaches 🤝
He left us blue prints and warnings. Let's get to work and bring up the young ones beneath us
I agree mostly with what my brother usually says but when it comes to the definition of a “high value” person, this video only scratches the surface. When speaking on the value of men, we can’t speak on this without mentioning integrity, endurance, empathy for your group/family/community, compassion and willingness to ensure that your family group is protected not only physically but also emotionally, mentally and spiritually. These qualities are super important when it comes to being a “high value man”.
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Thsnks this guy is so superficial the way be talk to woman is ridiculous
@@bernadettealbouras196 Exactly!!! Blk women have it hard enough without a brother tearing her down. Unfortunately that's what that high valued man does. Fk KS!!!
@@stephaniephillips3256 not tearing black women down , he wants women to wake up and be realistic with themselves. For the most part he’s just being honest and realistic. He doesn’t make the women come on his show. They call in and there is a large group of women who says his words actually helped them better themselves. Lastly if what hes saying isn’t true why are men agreeing? And at the same time be being a young male. He’s opened my eyes and plenty others to what mean to be a high vale man.
You are describing High QUALITY.
If you are HVM, then your integrity, endurance, will be recognized by other HVM, "empathy for your group/family/community, compassion and willingness to ensure that your family group is protected not only physically but also emotionally, mentally and spiritually" makes you valuable to YOUR family. The HVM has been around for years. If you don't agree, that is perfectly fine.
I put myself out there as high value when I was younger. Nowadays I keep that to myself.
According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics (BLS), the annual median wage for automotive body and related repairers was $43,580 in May 2019.Dec 4, 2020.
KS is not for Men who are easily in their feelings.
Ironically, men who place their value on monetary worth, as Kevin suggests makes a "high value man", feel less about themselves the less money they make. Kevin says that "You have to make a certain amount of money..." and sets the limit at $10,000.
The very structure of what he defines as a "high value man" in fact acts as the constraint against men. It's as if he (and others who perpetuate these ideas of what make a "high value man") creates the very ideas he claims men should follow. Clever, indeed.
@@jamesheck8970 But it isn't Kevin setting these constraints, like he said, it's the market that is setting them. I'm starting to realize that 100k/yr is really just the new minimum wage a man needs to make before a woman will give him the light of day and even then that alone doesn't make him a HVM.
But isn't he always in his feelings? Just be honest. Just because you feel like you relate to what he is saying, he is "that guy" to you.
@@jemmrich What market? Where is this market? Lol. $100k is just an arbitrary number...
Accountability quickly seperates the performers from the entertainers who can put on a good show.
Numbers never lieq
Lot of value here. Lately I've been connecting my high end clientele with each other based on their needs. It's made my network grow. It's made me more valuable outside of my main service.
What is a high value man?
1. Money (10k per month in Atlanta)
2. Length of Time: Performance Length of Time (3 - 5 years)
3. Group Acceptance (By Other HVM)
4. Network (Of HVM 1st, then others)
5. Visibility (Position, and Income are Linkedin Level)
6. Utility (Useful to The Group and Others)
Sounds more like a resume for a job than being valuable as an actual person. I wouldn't consider any of this "high value" on a personal level. If this is what is considered "high value" on a personal level, then something is wrong , and you are missing the whole point, real talk.
You're right. Because it's bullshit.
The married man making $74,000/yr is high value .
Future isn't high value.
Money, name, status doesn't determine HVM.
It's bullshit to sell suckers on.
FACTS
As I'm new to this man's content, I will say I've learned quite a bit on his list of a High Value Woman he did in another video.. Attraction, Appeal, comforting, agreeable, soothing, disciplined, discerning and good company if I recall correctly.
I appreciate a man's perspective on what he and quality men in general considers a HVW.. the ability to bear children is not the ultimate litmus test to a HVW because any young woman can bear children but be completely ratchet. Even little old ladies are High Value based on what they contribute to society, yes I said it. They teach values to younger women and preserve tradition and culture. One characteristic he did not mention is humility. A woman cannot be of value if she is prideful and unwilling to learn or even unlearn even if she is a 10 in looks.
I have to agree with you as his list is a job resume and has nothing to do with being a High Value Man to a woman. His list is based off the validation of a man-made financial system and secret society type of rules. He just said on #1 Money that the 6 figure was set in the 80s?? What about those things that are timeless from a historical perspective of great men?
Women, in my view, are more equipped to define a HVM because of their innate hypergamous nature that is biologically encoded for survival of the fittest and of the family. They want the strongest man. Hypergamy also applies to his protective abilities.
My view is that a man is high value to a woman and even multiple women in the community defined as such..Protector, provider and a builder. A high value man stands on his convictions of honor and integrity in doing what is right and is disciplined. Men who operate like this will naturally acquire the fruits of their labor... ie. Network, group acceptance, utility, resources.
He is discussing the fruits.. but one thing he does not mention and never will.... there are a LOT of abusive men who are executives and in positions of power and they beat their women either physically and psychologically.
A man isn't high value if he lacks honor and integrity but has the full list. Just as a woman can be high value in all areas but lesser on the attractive scale. A high value man does not need validation or approval of other men, he just IS. Self development is a high value trait.
He just skipped the fundamentals. He's favoring elitism lifestyles for men in the masonic order of secret societies. I'm pretty sure he's read 48 Law of Power.. Yes men do love power by design but he has no true power if he is prideful and abusive behind closed doors.
Proverbs 16:18 Pride goes before destruction and a haughty spirit before a fall.
High Value man are those who risk their lives just to keep the electricity on for an entire city. There are many calibers of wonderful men out there.
It is good content overall to get people to think but not everything is gospel.
Take the meat and leave the bones.
@@ShinySilverBunny This is one long-ass comment, but I read it in it's entirety.... and, I have to say that I agree with you 100%.
I almost bought into all the BS sold by this and other similar content creators after an unexpected divorce, but couldn't ever agree with their way of determining male value.
I'm not going back to the plantation, oh hell no! But I could never live by their code. Ever.
@@denverabrahams3535 😆 thank you and yes I know it was long.. I appreciate the reply. Yes take the meat and leave the bones. Sorry for your divorce I can't imagine what thats like. It's all subjective. His target audience is the black millennial in a more sexist manner for rich men in metropolitan areas.
The overall high value of a man is his mind set and family values, not what's in his pocket, if what's in his pocket is taken away tomorrow what would his value, principal and purpose be. (Money does not necessarily mean you are king in the jungle)
The Most High can give you that. Currently on my journey.
if you lose your money, your wife will leave you too, no matter your family values. (on a bounce of probabilities)
@@robert8930 not if she a real one. However, if the man was the reason for the loss of the stability of the household, well then he should have thought about that before he blew it all away. This goes for the woman too by the way, but I mentioned man because you did
This definition does not apply to business. Did you even watch the video?
Compare Drake - who is literally making ppls careers - to BlocBoy JB whose career was made by Drake. Only one is truly high-value because of influence he has on the market.
Kevin's high-value men are literally less than 5% of men. Your definition is too soft and doesn’t fit into reality.
Y'all need to take your feelings out of financial affairs or die weak.
A mans value is in his pocket...period dont lie to yourself
I make over 6 Figures a year!
Currently in The Philippines!
The U.S. Dollar goes far here!
Plenty of Beautiful & Submissive Women! No Feminist Crap!
SYSBM!
You've earned your *'Lord'* alias!! 👍 Respect! 👍 👍
For sure I can't wait to visit The Philippines when they open back up lol
I hope to join you one day. Women in the U.S. are getting more toxic every year.
@@sagatuppercut2960 Same here
@Si Yeh LeTre LEADER OF ADOS AFRICAN BLACK SOLUTIONS Truck driver is the industry I'm studying for right now. I've taken one of my test and passed I need to pass the last 3
Such a complex topic broken down so simply. The man's a legend.
The market is what defines "high value man". I think we should all remember from our marketing classes that there's rarely a product that satisfies all segments of the market. Target which you want, they have different demands and calibrate accordingly
Focus on your character. Your character makes you high value and high quality.
To keep it 💯...
I rather have money. And no one knows I got some change. Cause tryin to live up to what other folks interpretations/ concept or standard of a high value man... is subjective from year to year.....
or rather... from generation to generation. "high value" (on men) in the past, was considered a famous merchant who had a lot of conections and options to transport their fares. tho on today's society is not that much different, it has become a little bit more complex. There's more competition out there and different ramifications or fields wich define a high value person and now and the world is connected as a whole thanks to internet.
You can't be a true player in the game of life with some support!! Kevin is right when you are trying to succeed in life, it's a team effort in the long run. In the beginning it is you...that man / woman get the ball rolling. But in the long run, it's about using the resources (contacts) that keeps the success. Just food for thought 🙂
How many times does Kevin have to tell you this.... He's doing this broadcast again because you're not getting it.
Spot on! Whiners need food, and Kevin's cutting off their supply!
Well yes and no in this context he is making sure we know what he means when he says HVM, I guarantee you his definition is not the only one as he didn't invent the term.
HVM could me something a bit different to someone else, he is defining his view and definition so there is no confusion when having a discussion.
People that don't qualify need the rules changed.
It's funny how people care about something as silly as the term HVM.
@@willib1 that’s a bar.
High Value Man is a GODLY Man with principles and values that's not stuck on beauty because everyone has to get old
The income part is easy. The hard part is having a network and utility. This was excellent and humbling.
Right? How do you network? I’m thinking you have to be funny or have some type of charisma?
@@Makiaveli01just learn how to communicate by also conveying the truth and you’ll gain respect… also knowledge is power
glad to hear you explaining things with a positive tone instead of the typical critical demeaning tone that you typically use.
I like number 6 and the one about networking
I am a real estate investor
But I am a loner and no strong network.
This has awakened me,
I can help I stay in Atlanta and got strong connections
Im 19 still in college (studying veterinary medicine).
How do you form networks, but to the point of seeking approval?
I want to be high value when I grow older.
"more options and more favorable outcomes" short and sweet life lesson there. Thank you Godfather.
Wow, at first I wrote you off, due to the way I was introduced to you... (By a video of you being grossly honest with a black woman). However, I have to say, after HEARING you speak, I can tell you are a high value man. I wouldn’t even need to see how you were dressed, smell your scent, or even know your salary.
That goes to say, your ability to teach is priceless. It’s one thing to know an idea, it’s another thing to even experience something, BUT it’s completely different when you have to explain those very things in a way someone with very little exposure can grasp the entire concept. Bonus points that you can be so logical, that even your haters can’t deny the truth.
Most high value people I know have an above average philosophical and psychological understanding because they are honest to themselves about how society works. So I say all that to say thank you for not only being a highly intellectual being but for having a high emotional intelligence. You were able to get me to go from not wanting to have anything to do with your content, to watching plenty of your videos.
"Their presence is felt when they're there and their absence is felt when they're gone," Straight from the horse's mouth. RIP
Saving these videos
Kevin done touched a whole lot of nerves. lol
True that
Touched???
Dude be dropkicking nerves on both sides
Add "personal masseur" to his resumé
@Salem The Cat It’s just his definition.
@Salem The Cat Agreed. His definition of a high quality man isn’t law.
I appreciate the accuracy in this video. Network and productivity are indeed extremely important to a man of high value. I could not imagine myself where I am, had it not been for a great network of others around me.
In essence, Kevin is showing the core of what a high value man is. I've read some of the comments prior to posting my own. Of course there is more to what makes a high value man aside from his economical status. But, this is a very accurate description of what it means to be of high value by societal standards.
Well done Mr Samuels, thank you.
I've spent my whole life thinking only money was important and now that I have it and stabilized, I learn that I need a network--something I have never put any effort into...
1. More than 10k - Yes - double that
2. Consistency - Yes - more than 10 years at that level
3. Group acceptance - Yes -
4. Network - all friends and colleagues are at similar levels (or higher)
5. Visibility - Yep, executive in high level position
6. Usefulness - Yes, called upon many times
This is good to know. I just stumbled onto his videos and then I learned of his passing. He was very eloquent and I learned quite a bit from his videos. I respect someone who never backs down from his words and doesn't let outsiders influence his positions. May he rest in peace.
What do you do for a living?
@@Stinkmeaner420breathe oxygen
@Stinkmeaner420 it seems more than likely, our friend megaracerx is making this up
@@Stinkmeaner420 i am an executive for a financial institution in Technology. Didn't see this reply. Have been doing this for over 20 years.
@@ManZoneYT 👊🏿respect, ma negrumps
I think #1 should be net worth instead of income. Net worth is the true definition of wealth instead of income
You can work a menial job for 20 years and develop a high net worth. High Net-worth does not equal High Value
Net worth is fine, but it is about cash flow and income. You cannot have a bunch of assets (net worth) that do not sweat. However, most people of high net worth never talk about net worth vs income cause they have both.
@Si Yeh LeTre LEADER OF ADOS AFRICAN BLACK SOLUTIONS Assets are less that than you realized (ex. sell short to make the sale) and debts are more than you realized (ex. more interest payments over time).
Well said!
He has to say income so that him and his fellow dusties that make 100k/year can feel important and claim to be high value. People from different cultures make way more than that but you never see them talking down on their women and claiming high value. AA men are toxic!!!
Appreciate the Man for leaving behind gems... Learn from them and Improve yourself
Kevin was absolutely correct on this topic !
RIP Godfather....thanks for everything you did
The thing is, nobody "high value" is watching this channel...except for shits and giggles. And that's because they don't care about none if this. It's just entertainment.
FACTS
I laugh when people say things like this.
If you are a HIGH VALUED man then you don't NEED to watch this video. This is to help those wanting to achieve that status.
@@EdenSophia118 we watch because it is entertaining.
I was wondering about that term.... most men in the tax bracket he is referring to do not refer to themselves as High value men but I could be wrong... 🤷🏾♀️he is very entertaining 😂
This video is a prerequisite for everyone you bring on your show. There is no point having a conversation with someone who doesn't demonstrate they have this understanding of what a high value man is. Great job Kevin. Much love from Nigeria
It’s crazy how he pre recorded these refreshing summary of things he spoke on in the past before he passed. 😮💨
Thank you for defining and explaining a HVM. I now understand the delineation and I now understand that I am not a HVM -nor do I realistically see that I’ll ever be -which I’m at peace with because there comes a lot of responsibility as a member in that group.
Men need to understand and face their limitations and recognize that a good work ethic and good character traits like being a good provider, protector and truthfulness and honesty and commitment will put you just a notch below the HVM group.
Which is unfortunate, you’re just as high value to me as a so called “HVM” Character and integrity means more than money and looks. Looks and money are important but they’re not everything
I believe your value is much higher than his, bcus you're real and he's 100% fake. He just a shell of a man who lives to not teach, but to disrespect blk women. Smh
@@stephaniephillips3256 I'm sorry he hurt you with some of his videos. You are not showing the world what he is with your comment, you are showing who you are. Be stronger.
@@stephaniephillips3256 That's bullshit
@@Camis.locjourney They are average men mate lol
Really good, high quality content. Quite rare nowadays.
Rest up top man, pure wisdom 🧠
Kevin I have to hand it to you… you tell us what we don’t want to hear and that’s what I call respect and loyalty, those who tell us what we want to hear there the ones who end up suffering
I learned so much from this man. He even the playing field for all men.
No one is high valued. Not one person is better than anyone poor or rich. Cause money comes n goes so fast. You can be rich one day the next its gone. So then where is your value???
"Your skin tone has nothing to do with how beautiful you are, beauty is beauty" truth!
I had generated well over $10,000/ month for more than 30 years straight, my network has been tremendous, retired early and not trying to look flashy but have been extremely useful to others so I guess I'm considered a high value man.
I love this guy rip big brother kevin
I did not always like Mr Samuels delivery but I loved his content , it was hard truth .I listened and learned .I do not depend on anyone to validate me so i did not need his approval off who I was and how I looked but I am very sorry he has passed he gave us a reality check as harsh as it was .RIP Kevin .
So, I guess it’s up to Kevin’s, views, definition and interpretation? I love Kevin and most of his content, but, how is beings image consultant any more solid that being a entrepreneur? It’s not really quantifiable. It like being a life coach, therapist or financial advisor? Anyone selling insurance labels themselves as a financial advisor. I am not hating on him, just really thinking about what he said.
Great point. I think he includes himself in that category b/c he’s a “famous” image consultant. But yes on the surface he definitely contradicted himself.
Is the IMAGE CONSULTING business putting him in a high valued position? Is his company bringing in at least 10,000 monthly and consistently? That was his point. Does it matter what type of business it is? No.
You saw through the smoke lmao
Reputation is also important. He may be an image consultant but he also has reputation based also on his name.
You wouldn't trust a Ceo from mergers and acquisition who doesn't have a reputation.
Let me give you an example. An attorney name Harvey Spector is coming after you.
An attorney - ok.
Named Harvey Spector - you going to shit yourself.
The black community needs high character men more than we need high value men. Focusing on the top 5 percent is just a social measuring stick.
the black community doesn't lack character. It lacks WEALTH.
@@Rome.Monroe and morals and ethics .
@@latoyablackmon9033 the people who rule the world are some of the most ruthless and amoral people you will ever meet. Black peopel are way too forgiving.
@Galva Tron exactly.... strong families, mentors, teaching young people directly and by example.
@Roy_ThousandIf this is the most intelligent thing you have to say then in one sentence you've made my point regarding the lack of character.
Now whenever you hear women say, "all men are this or that" these ladies are referring to the men of high value.
OG ✊🏾 Thank you for your words of wisdom and expertise! 2022/08/10 and we’re still here
R.I.P Goldfather! just wow!
I'll tell you a little story. I make over 150K a year as a software engineer but I work for a company. The other day, I was talking to a women about how I was working on a side project to start my own business selling VR games. Surprisingly, despite the VR project probably not making as much money as my original day time job, I saw the women brushing her hands through her hair showing that she was interested in me. In this case, Visibility got me more attention from females than wealth did.I notice if I talk about some job title where I look like I should be powerful but it just so happens to make less money than the boring software job sitting in the office, women feel more attracted.
Forget about the women. Focus on the company. Your Goals are far more important than temporary sensual pleasure you experience by entertaining women.
Bone her, leave her like every other dude did
After reviewing this definition, I can confirm that I meet all of the requirements on this list. I'm just short & boring with no game. Ladies what's good tho? 😎😂
☝️🧐wtf
@📌 Pinned bykevin sameuls ✓ ok Kevin sameuls
Value is in the eye of the beholder. Kevin just shared what he finds valuable. However, Kevin's wants and needs should only matter if you want to win his love and affection.
Stfu
@@AZAZEL_TK
So well explained, thank you Kevin RIP
Sir! You are absolutely Right about all of what your saying. It’s Imperative to be Valued!!
He's allowed his views but I want all the men watching to know that you're still of value--and even HIGH value--even if you don't check most or any of the things on this list. You can check off everything and still be a terrible person. Your life is worth more than just how much money you make.
Vague moralistic words that mean nothing. Over here in reality, over 70% of divorces are intiated by women due to "financial difficulties." So it's evident that money is a huge requirement even if some want to suggest otherwise.
@@bengsynthmusic you're creating a false dichotomy. You don't have to make over 6 figures to avoid "financial difficulties." Financial stability being important for a healthy marriage doesn't mean someone has to be rich to have a healthy marriage or that only upper middle class men have value.
If everyone is high value then nobody is.
Being a man is the greatest gift of all..
Value is subjective. Value is perceived. Ultimately, it seems that a "capable" man is valuable to other people.
They can acquire resources, they can adapt to change, they can survive better.
I have everything but the time required. I'm 2 more years away from that. Instead of men getting mad about the requirements why not ASPIRE to achieve them? In life there are NO participation trophies. Everyone can't be HVM and that makes everything better because once you become a HVM you have less competition.
Well said
Stop telling them there are no participation trophies. They might start competing with us lol.
i don't think people are mad at the requirements, they just saying they disagree with his definition, and mostly with people like you who thinks that anyone who disagrees with their guru is hating or mad
I think any man who aspires to another man’s definition of manhood is no man.
10k a month... I wish 🤣🤣🤣😂 but I definitely want to become a high value man... I just got to figure out the money
People need to know the difference between High Value Men and High Quality Men.
High Value Men = Income
High Quality Men = Personality Traits
thank you...it's sad because I really think this channel is putting some people up for failure by focusing on their income instead of their personality. I can go into depth, but we all should strive to be 'high quality' people not just 'high value', or you'll run into the situation where independently financial others don't need you because all you provided was wealth and no other virtues. The question men should ask is what else do you provide besides 'wealth and financial success'? how do you want others to remember you?
@@deboraha6696 Great points from both of you.
I love the Length of Time Performance 3-5yrs.... consistency always work, focusing on one objective... my man love the content because I always felt this way as a child and never could find the theories or written concepts but I already knew it inside of me. Some things have to be IN YOU not JUST on you....
This is the video i was searching for ever since i came across your videos. Thanks...
This is powerful. I'm definitely looking at ways to expand my network. Thanks
I agree with all of this. But two of the many marks of a high-valued that are essential: respectfulness and emotional maturity. Just b/c someone has a lot of money and connection doesn't mean they're high valued.
Its value they bring to the group, not esteem
Big difference
Performers put up the numbers and their communities reflect their numbers.
HVM live in afluent areas for a reason - their network amplifies their income streams.
The connections bring deals together and deals produce value - both economic and social.
If you had no respect or maturity you wouldnt be part of an affuluent group in the first place.
Triggered...imagine a Vice President of A Private Equity or Tech Startup Raking millions watching this Channel.
Lol, he might agree. Didn't Jeff Bezos start from his garage and now he can own you if he wanted?
The truest sense of high value is in the form of "Net Worth". Now you can't get the "high value" working for somebody who perhaps working for somebody else. High Value is working for yourself as well as getting others to work for you and to your benefit in the end. Strong assets and profits along with little or no debt are what is needed to be that so-called "High-Value Man". A man's net worth is the indicator of high value.
This is a decent piece. Great way to look at high value souls.
A high valued man is someone who is moral, respects women and all beings. High valued men don't belittle women and tell them they are less than desirable and cut them off when they talk.
Omg, are we talking about human beings here?
Wow. This is NOT what I was expecting, but a great video. Worked my ass off and retired at 48. Still make dam good $ but walked away from corporate and moved to Bordeaux France. No contacts or influence. just calm, red wine, a beautiful wife, and sunsets. My personal goal is to keep them by trying to stay/ define a HIGH VALUE man. Maybe you can do a video on staying one after the storm so to speak. Can’t thank you enough for all your personal info. Take care
He was so materialistic! Ability to earn a good income is only one part. Integrity, ethics, etc are just as important if not more important in my opinion.
Dudes are really upset at this breakdown. If your feelings are hurt....IMPROVE
What about doing something you love like art....High value man sounds like a greedy man.
@@Okello_kev aim to be the greatest at what you love. That way people will pay top dollar for your art.
@@Futurebelongs Got it..