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- "It shouldn't be an act of feminism to know how your body works," says gynecologist and author Jen Gunter. In this revelatory talk, she explains how menstrual shame silences and represses -- and leads to the spread of harmful misinformation and the mismanagement of pain. Declaring the era of the menstrual taboos over, she delivers a clear, much-needed lesson on the once-mysterious mechanics of the uterus.
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Funny thing about this is the fact that I went to watch this in another room when my father walked into the living room
It's not funny. What's the problem in being free talking about your period? Hope you're just joking and that this didn't really happen
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Riddhi Vaze -
As you should!
I think the mental health aspects of periods should also be discussed. There is still an entire world of people who think that PMS is imaginary and that hormone levels don't affect your mental state or cognition.
@@PacificPier that's alot to unpack right there. Is the crime scene display the myth or the outdated fish market? Is the fish market truly outdated? Is the fish market and the crime scene display the myth and the multimedia stream the only progress to be made? Or is this a scenario where the hero chooses the right path and avoids all siren calls? The multimedia streams are truly a beautiful stage but are they only a stage? What IS the right path? Find out next time on....
Not to mention the people who have to put up with your PMS also suffer mental health issues YOU caused by releasing YOUR PMS upon them.
You damaged people, and still haven't come to recognize it - yet ask those you've hurt for help and understanding.
We forgive you.
Because we love you.
But now you know, you are the cause of others anguish and mental dis-ease by 'flaunting' your mental die-ease caused by the disruption of your hormones.
*You are disruptive in your very nature of being*
@@robertdenham9541 seems like you might be having a deeper concern that reflects issues of your own. You can't control another person, only how you react to them and if this is how you react to someone who "inflicted their PMS" on you, you might want to get that in check. I am sorry that someone made you feel this way. Contrary to common belief, women don't feel proud or at all happy to "inflict" their PMS on others. Generally most people lack the wisdom to see from context.
@@robertdenham9541 furthermore, noting that women are disruptive in their very nature of being is just gross. (Edited to remove unnecessary self deprecation). Aristotle sucks btw. He felt that women were incomplete men but his philosophy was incomplete.
Zero Cartwright that was f***ing funny.
Everyone at school just talks about it like it’s normal...’cause it is.
We have to call it "red" at school
At my school all the teachers and guys think it’s taboo and gross, but all the girls will walk up to a group of kids and ask for a tampon no big deal.
In my school if we want to talk about it, we do, 'cause it isn't wrong to talk about it
When I was a child it was imposible to talk about this at school....most girls thought it was gross. Glad to know this is changing.
im the only one at school that talks abt it like its normal 'cause it is
She spoke so well, thank you for addressing it! Your book "The Vaginal Bible" was amazing. Nobody should shrink away from this topic. We need to talk about this.
She didn't mention it but studies show that giving birth (normal delivery) is 2nd most painful thing in the world, 1st being burnt alive. Imagine the pain a mother takes to give birth to her child. Made me think twice before I hurt my mom in anyway.
For those of you saying "but we can talk about periods" are disregarding that in many cultures it's taboo and there are still a lot of people, especially older generations and some men, who are extremely uncomfortable discussing it. She mentioned things I've never heard of before.
we can't and we don't seriously talk about periods, if women are not allowed to skip school or work at least one day a month. i have struggled for my whole life to convince my bosses that i simply can't come to work that day and they didn't want to hear about it. even an unpaid day off / month was very hard to get.
So why talk it on youtube? Why not go and them?
Yeah I remember learning about a village in Africa who separates the women on their period who makes them stay in one room for the entire time they had it. I wish people were more familiar and comfortable with it.
Y'know we women can break such stupid "rules" right? Like someday, we still would HAVE to talk about it
As a woman, I am Uncomtarble about getting it it makes me sad every time.
She went from stand-up comedian to doctor real quick. Great talk.
Most of my male friends have no idea of the significance of menstruation pains.
For some women, periods cause crippling pains. I was oblivious of this until I was 21 (when I started dating my now wife). It's astonishing how under-discussed menstruation is - in pretty much every society in the world.
Cause it's taboo and it shouldn't be our society just needs to grow up cause this is normal for girls and there's nothing to be ashamed of. When the boys learn about it they'll understand how to help their female friend, girlfriend, fiance or wife when the period occurs.
@@Comeback180 I get her point, but as a male I just want to mention that the anti patriarchy speech is very unfair.
I didn't choose to be born male.
I didn't choose to be born in a patriarchal society.
I don't perpetuate it either.
And you girls can talk about periods as much as you want. Just change the subject every now and then so it doesn't become boring.
You wife is very lucky, many men don't even know what their patner goes through during her periods.
@@luishenriques6364 i mean, living in the patriarchal society is pretty unfair too, lol. good for you and im glad that you don't perpetuate it, but it still exists and negatively affects many people, and affects the way people subconsciously feel about particular subjects, periods being one of them. and.......okay, its definitely not something we talk about 24/7, and no, we really can't talk about it as much as we want. people see talking about periods as "complaining", making excuses, being vulgar or unsanitary, etc. which is another reason as to why the patriarchy sucks lol. women perpetuate it as well.
@@aparnaga1182 i mean, while im glad this guy is open to understanding, i dont think we should be seeing her as being "very lucky". this should just be the norm.
Thank you for explaining cramps! That explains so much about what people around me go through.
I agree but I just wish she explained why some people like myself don't get cramps during their periods but only during ovulation...
I’m not sure if this is just my school or country, but periods were explained very well in class and I didn’t know myths like it being toxic even existed.
yeah same for me, it was way before i got my period too, so when i did, it was all very clear whats happening....
in my school period was barely mentioned. here there is even myths like "you cannot wash you hair when you're in your period" and such things like that lmao
Because when you get to the period, the sentence is already over.
You can start a new sentence...
@@muyou6589 But then we talking about an old period before we talk about a new one.
Mu You Here's a sentence for you; r/whoooosh
J S Sounds like you need to go there bud. She just added to the joke.
Damn
I am a 55 year old woman who has openly talked about periods since I was a teen. I've never called it by any name other than menstruation or period. I know that my being open, especially around friends, it has helped them to do the same.
We sure don't have to talk about it 24/7 but when it naturally comes up, let's be honest and let's call it by its name.
yeah i feel you, whenever i just casually mention my period to a friend they instantly feel like they unlocked a new achievement that im comfortable with them, so they also feel closer to me😁
Thank you so much for this video. I suffered from pain for years be google helped me managed the pain. Not the many doctors I have seen about my problems, but the wealth of information I have found over the internet that isn't afraid to talk about it.
I always share my period and ovulation stories .. 42 years old never had a problem talking about it and never felt any shame if it .
I loved everything about this TED talk!!!! Preach Girl!!!!!
Very VERY insightful, thank you!
Thanks for this. Talking about periods should not be taboo.
I'm crying watching this... but I do think that's due to my day 1 of period. Haha
This was interesting and i'm glad its the kind of thing that can reach a lot of people. I was hoping for something a bit more in depth, but I guess the video length is what it is.
Finally. Thx for speaking out!
And you taught me a lot.
Great talk! Thank you so much
Thanks for sharing x helps a lot.
wait your saying really painful cramps are like 2nd stage of labour when your pushing!! Women are hella strong
As a woman I completely agree
Yes, as a woman, I also can concur that's what it feels like.
I thought this was going to be a TED talk on why men won't talk about periods.
I thought it was about punctuation and time travel. Imagin that disappointment!
me too haha
Because men don't have experience in this...um....field, only a girl knows the pain which we experience during periods. You know she didn't mention it but by studies we know that giving birth (normal delivery) is 2nd most painful thing in the world 1st being burnt alive.
@@aparnaga1182 They do have experience. The women they're sleeping with, living with, or raising will have periods once a month for a week. They will be around a woman who is suffering from cramps. They should be able to pick up tampons and not be embarrassed, which many men I know are. They should at least have a curiosity about it, and want to discuss it. Anyways, thanks for coming to my TED talk.
Next time I get my period I’ll tell my mom I’m having a baby
That's not how that works
@@picklepie5127 lol
I seen someone saying that we should normalise periods in society and one of the reply’s were like “we don’t talk about our poo or pee so why should we talk about periods”............when I think of normalise it isn’t running down the street screaming that I’m on my period. its going to the toilet and opening a pad without being scared someone will hear me...it’s when I should be able have a zipper on my body instead of my waist for fear of leaking.....it’s being able to tell someone that you need a paracetamol or heating pad for your period cramps without feeling shame...........that’s what normalising periods mean to me🤷🏻♀️💙
Thank you so much for this.
Great video.👍🏻
So glad this exists!
You are so on point. I love you. ❤️❤️
It’s a fine thing to be a woman, to have the ability to naturally grow life inside of you. But bleeding is Painful. I love girl talk like this 🙂
@Adasia Embry : Yes!
Kudos to all the women in the world!! 👏👏👏👏
Fantastic!
“The way we break that curse is knowledge.”
Every curse.
You mean the curse of believing that every problem that women have to endure (especially not being able to talk about her period) is because of male oppression.
I'm here to let men know, it's OK to savor the flavor.
@@mr.balawis9948
Given medical research today, having painful periods is still excavated by the patriarchy.
@Kurt E. Clothier
Given research funding and that even my university refused to stock Female mise (I was short a project and though about the rat-addiction vs health (social) live experiment since the original didn't even specify they used only male animals) (in budget and pre approved by the ethics council)... it'll take more than being a motivated bachelor of education.
Beautiful Jen
Dr. Jen is my hero!
I celibate my moon time and find it sad that in today's culture, women are told to hate their period. sad times
Helpful.
Bro when I was 11 and heard that my best friend got her first period, I asked my mother abt it and it was about growing up n stuff. So I instinctively assumed that talking about it was normal
The next day I asked, ALL OF THE GIRLS IN MY WHOLE CLASS, IF THEY HAD THEIR PERIOD YET
I can’t with past me 😭✋
EXCELLENT!!
When it comes to gynecology SHE IS THE BEST. BRILLIANT LADY 👏
and that's on PERIODT
😁
Nice
Excellent! Thank you!
This was an extremely informative talk on menstruation and also very entertaining. I learned a lot in just 12 minutes. More people, both men and women, should know what is packed into this TED talk. Thank you Dr Gunter for providing so much information, in so little time, with so much humor.
It is not only in the US.. ! In China, they use the metaphor "my aunt is here" to indicate she has menstruation.. and to complain all the inconvenience !!!
When I was younger, guys at my school would say " Oh the painter's in!"
This still needs to be on every school curriculum, world-wide.
i'm from india, and back in the days, when women got their periods, they weren't allowed to go even near temples or religious places, let alone inside them. also, they weren't allowed to take a bath, they weren't allowed to sleep in the same room as the rest of their family (even their husband, if they had one, though they most probably did) and they were considered impure. luckily the condition about this is improving but there are still many rural areas where these taboos are believed in.
I only ever had cramps that pained me out of sleep when I used any other pads than Poise. I wonder if the way some companies make their pads influence the amount of pain women face during their period. What would be the specific factor in pads that causes dire period cramps ?
Idky but I have secondary amenorrhea and love talking about periods, but whenever I'm talking about or reading about periods, I start getting cramps.
Also, does anyone else have secondary amenorrhea? I've never met someone in person who has it and very little people online.
I think she’s awesome 👏
This is what’s important in 2020
Considering that it affects half of the world's population, yes, it is important.
Bravo
There’s another Gunter? Omg I didn’t think their was more!
Yo
Gunt3r Strider yoooo GunterNation looks like I found some Name family
@@drgunter1336 Us Gunter's are an intrepid lot! Always a pleasure to meet one of the family.
Gunt3r Strider right back at ya M8!
there*
Does anyone have a link to the study she cites for menstrual pains and second stage labor?
yep, that's kinda sus, if it is true then don't they get used to it.
It's sooooo true though.
Plz provide subtitles
I'm in pain just hearing it
Some of these comments from ignorant men...!! Great video and the comment section clearly demonstrates why we need videos like this.
We are very lucky to have families that are open minded. There are many people in the world who are still don't talk openly about periods. Families don't tell their kids that it nothing to be ashamed of to talk about a biological process. So the girls never talk about their period problems. After getting married when they conceived many of them faced complications in their pregnancy. Some couldn't even conceive and many miscarriages happened. Just because parents thought it should not to be talked about.
I myself had PCOD problem, if my parents had not addressed it, If they didn't speak openly with me about it, maybe after grew I wouldn't be able to consieve a baby. To this day that idea scares me. But thanks to my families support I told them my problem and today I'm PCOD free. In the old days such cases were very rare, because their life style was healthier than ours. But now when 1/10 women or girls are facing this problem we should speak about it, only then they will reach us to get help. Thank you so much for this video!
Is this a Ted Talk for 80 year old women because I talk about periods to all my friends/kids lol.
Joanna Aniela that’s good! I do know some people that are uncomfortable with period talk or think it’s a private matter that shouldn’t be discussed publicly with others.
@@edelga04 I've never come across someone who seemed uncomfortable discussing it but that's maybe because I'm not uncomfortable with it. I'm glad it's being addressed though if it's a struggle for some because periods are a huge indicator of a woman's health.
Joanna Aniela agreed! We just need to educate others and remove any stigma associated with talking about periods. Your awesome for creating a safe environment for your kids!
@@edelga04 thanks! I want my son to be knowledgeable as well because my husband who's a college graduate was clueless about how it all worked.
Yeah. Everyone talks about periods in the newer generations. Maybe some older parents are uncomfortable. But we talk about them in class, in social settings, guy girl conversations. Etc etc.
As a male citizens from germany i am very confused about period shaming and i can certainty say most of the people in europe are confused as well about this topic.
Because we learn in school, about the ago of eleven, that period is a natural and complex system in the female body.
So, to shame a woman or girl about period shaming is kinda a sign for stupidity. Like Ms. Gunter says about nosebleeding.
Also i start wondering how worse are the social problem in the USA when period shameing is a thing? Maybe we need a TED talk about that.
In the end, great talk! I enjoy it! Beside the blaming over the patriarchal society, at 2:17, because that dosent exist in europe or at least in germany - but maybe in the US?
Don't take it personally. Patriarchal society doesn't mean you. It means that systematically pretty much worldwide menstruation is treated as a dirty thing we don't address. For example in India it is still hard for women to have access to menstruation products, they are put out of the house so they don't bleed everywhere, that would be like, not having access to toilet paper, can you imagine.
As a woman living in Germany, I can assure you the patriarchy is alive and well in Germany.
@@LauraTheRed Is that so? Because after my research, there are now proof or facts about a powerful patriarchy in germany.
Hello, can I translate this video and repost it in my page on Facebook?
I see no reason why not lol
This is absolutely amazing. Thank you man for an enlightening message and thanks Ted talks for everything.
Deeply moved by the speech. Well done!
After reading the title, but before watching the video, my guess is, "You're not talking to enough hockey fans."
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Heh, sorry. I will watch this video tomorrow. I'm curious about this topic.
Wow. Thank you. Looking at reddit threads I was SHOCKED at the lack of knowledge. Some men actually think blood comes out in one boom💥 Haha
sweetwildflower they’re either morons or they’re pulling your leg.
YES
Let’s talk about it!
True
I think that this is something everyone should know. Even now, in my own religion, (Islam) women who are menstruating are restricted from doing many things.
We aren’t allowed to do many things, such as:
Joining in usual prayers
Stepping into a mosque
Touching anything of religious value
Talking to males about periods.
After doing some research, it says in the bible too, that a woman who is menstruating is impure. ANYTHING she touches is now impure.
Things like this are of course, not something that we can change.
But the things that happen because of them can.
While on Umrah (a Pilgrimage) I was left alone in the hotel for 2 hours by my parents because I had cramps. I wasn’t on my period, but they didn’t take me because I had cramps, this was only the second time, so I wasn’t too upset, but they left me there, and room service came in.
It was a man, and while i Saudi Arabia Too much skin (ankles, wrists) is considered improper, so I was forced to hide in the bathroom. Even then, in Pakistan, I was forced to throw my pads in a bin outside because I wasn’t allowed to let my grandfather see my pads?
I really do think people should be more educated on them, because I experience extreme pain when on my period, but it’s often brushed aside.
“You’ll be fine, stop complaining,”
No, I’m not fine. If I was, I wouldn’t be in this much pain.
Motherwort tea is also really good for period cramps - my mom used to make me drink it regularly, it's pretty bitter, but I rarely had pains because of it. My mom says she never had period cramps because she always had the tea, now I wish I had more of that tea :p
So is heroin
@@crazyprayingmantis5596 Maybe but tea is more nature-resourced than chemicals :)
@@nebobyeoli
So what, Arsenic is a naturally occurring element too, just because something is natural it doesn't mean it's good for you.
By the way, Heroin is made from Morphine, a natural substance taken from seed pods of opium poppy plants.
@@crazyprayingmantis5596 Oh okay, I just said that because the first search result on heroin came out as a 'drug', so I assumed as it I guess.
@@nebobyeoli
It is a drug
YAAASSSSSS!!!!!!!! Thanks for FINALLY talking about it. It’s about time we started incorporating menstrual leave in work environments.
YES! Knowing what is happening to your body should not be labeled a feminism movement
So I learned more about what a period is and what treatments are good for pain but nothing about why we can't talk about it. Most of the women and a good amount of my guy friends are cool with talking about it. One dude had suggest a adult pull while I was sleeping so I never had to worry about a mess and I just took a shower the next morning. So yay, didn't really get the video sorry.
I think the title was more of a rhetorical question, rather than the question that the talk was trying to answer. Like, the rhetorical question represents the attitude that they're trying to push
@@petermarsh4578 Most likely. But for a Ted talk I would have thought there was more points or something like that.
Not everyone is as lucky as u, in India it's still not spoken about in the families. The men don't know about the problems the women in the house are facing.
@@aparnaga1182 I forget women even have periods women don't talk to men about their periods they only talk amongst themselves about it I think it's stupid
Yea
Ничего не понятно, но очень интересно, спасибо
Btw, 120mmHg is NORMAL blood pressure on contraction
well actually eating liver really helps maybe in some western countries are not use to eating other animals livers but in eastern countries we eat pig liver casually and it also tastes great tho😂
I talk about periods all the time
ABSOLUTELY LOVE THIS WOMAN!
I'm glad this is here, i can now learn about my other half and why she snaps at me now and then. No, I'm not joking folks
@Jonathan Edward pretty much why i subbed to and am so happy i found this channel. While the people of the world like to melt away in their free time, i prefer seeing stuff like this among others, gaining new knowledge makes a new day worth waking up to
I’m 58 years old and this is the first time I have heard of period diarrhea...
I already knew that when i was in 4th grade. Because i here my classmates always talk about it. I am 38...and a guy.
28% of women? Wow - first for me also.
Well I'm 34 and I wish I could've made it to 58 without ever hearing the term "period diarrhea", unfortunately you blew it for me!!! Thanks a A lot!!! And Yes!!! I'm being very Facetious!!!!! 😠😡😠😡😠😡😠😡😠
Lucky you 😅 Hormones cause IBS for me so every cycle is a joy 😩
Joseph Voll you obviously don’t act 34
7:06 make me wonder about menstrual cups, if the suction is too tight on the cervix can this cause health issues in the long run? Like with blood clots or hinder the menstrual process somehow?
Normally menstrual cups are no problem if you use the right one (they vary in hardness) - that's why more and more people are trying it. But what I recently learned is that it could happen that it shifts a bit and blocks the urinary drainage causing a very painful kidney colic. But it rarely happens and it's easy to fix by putting it out and in again so it's no hindrance but an important hint for everyone who think about getting one :)
Hold on, if your doctor told you to eat liver maybe the doctor was concerned about anemia aka iron difficiency if you bleed a lot and liver has a lot of iron.
Interestingly enough, my dad is just awkward when I talk about my period. My mother is the one that totally shuts me down when I try to talk about it, especially around my father or strangers.
Don't shut that down. It's his fault you have periods....
Sorry, mispelled
It's because girls are conditioned from a young age that we're supposed to be polite and not make others uncomfortable. We are supposed to cater to the comfort of others.
She's hilarious 😂
There is a time and place for everything. Why is that so hard to understand?
check your forehead for tire tracks - I think the point went right over it
Great speech! Bravo!!!!
I got chills when she said "It's Over"
Ok
I don't feel awkward watching these types of videos-
bc i have my *.*
I came here for the comment section alone lol
#MeToo
I love to talk about my periods like something normal and something I’m not ashamed of. Cuz being a woman is good and periods are the reason we all are here lol.
I thought yesterday's video on Afro picks was great but it seems everyday we're getting into more important material.
This channel and everything it represents has turned to rubbish.
brilliant talk! uterus ready choice is from the ovary - NOT the embryo - for menstruation.
@Kurt E. Clothier That's just your Western materialistic bias. There is a secret: Daoism, Meditation, and the Wonders of Serenity: From the ...Professor Stephen Eskildsen - 2015 - Religion "For good discussions on female Neidan and the stopping of menstruation (decapitating the Red Dragon), see Catherine Despeux and Livia Kohn, Women in ..." books.google.com/books?id=qvfdCgAAQBAJ&pg=PA350&lpg=PA350&dq=female+neidan+stopping+menstruation&source=bl&ots=9GJbEbZ2--&sig=ACfU3U0yEftkLbdjebw6sgJzApT8akeHYQ&hl=en&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwj6jeuGsLvnAhVOZc0KHUYZDOIQ6AEwFXoECA0QAQ#v=onepage&q=female%20neidan%20stopping%20menstruation&f=false
Plan International UK hopes it will break the stigma surrounding periods while the NHS says the emoji symbolises the importance of blood donation.
Why can't we talk about pooping? It's way too stigmatized and everyone poops
Blue Note my theory is that things with bad smells become stigmatized or hidden away or not talked about.
We can and do.
and here comes the troll
@@RealBianca I'm being serious
Jen Gunter: why cant we talk about periods?
me, a boy: I don't know, why can't we?
Are you shutting down people talking about that part of their lives more than about tooth brushing? (like many do)
@@fionafiona1146 ? It's literally normal biology, there is no issue with talking about it.
Jen Gunter: "Why can't we talk about periods?"
Me (a boy): "Because it's Fu©king Disgusting!!! That's Why!!!"
hey man, i'm just trying to make a joke here, no offense meant. i'm not a girl, so i've never experienced a period nor do i know the importance of talking about it. i also don't have a part in it. but if it really is that serious, i'll try my best to support it. sorry if i sounded offensive to anyone
Hey! How did TH-cam know that I was on my period. N recommended this video !!!!!!!!!!!!
Ikr, I just started this morning
I m it just started yesterday too hhhh
Me too😂
Because google got good algorithms? It's actually not thaaaaat hard to determine if somebody is on their period from data
theres a one in 4 chance pretty much
What is estrus?....i only understand taht is some sort of...."heat"?
I commend your desire to normalize a completely normal biological function. Curious about the NSAIDS and progesterone, I had no idea that NSAIDS block progesterone and decided I would further research that. Cool lecture.
I read about ibuprofen helping with cramps over 20 years ago in a magazine in a doctor's office. Ironically not from my actual doctor. It was a life changer for me. I had been disappointed by the acetaminophen based meds sold for menstrual cramps and had given up on them long ago, suffering through most of my teens with pain so bad it would make me feel like I was going to crazy. I had to experiment with the dosage but once I got it right I could almost eliminate the pain completely. Now I am in my early 40s and rarely get the intense pain that I did well into my 30s, but I still from time to time get a crampy month and having a couple liquid gel ibuprofen stops it like magic.
I was diagnosed with dysmenorrea which just means painful periods. Doctors would say they didn't have an explanation for what caused it in my case and that it would likely get better as I aged or if I were to get pregnant and give birth. I never did have children but I have noticed that the pain has lessened as I got closer to 40. I had to educate myself about my "condition" and figure out my own treatment plan. Otherwise my monthly suffering would have lasted for over 2 decades.
We can.
Why can't we talk about how awful circumcision is?
I've literally had conversations where women start with "everyone should be able to talk about periods, why are you uncomfortable" and end with "why are we talking about circumcision, that makes me uncomfortable."
I think stopping mutilating babies is more important anyway.
R Nickerson preach
We can, few countries have national numbers as high as the US (and Israel has a slightly lower mutation rate beyond the intended).
I listen to every man complaining about the state of their foreskin... hasn't yet made them vote to stock(all ready budgeted for) period supplys in girl's bathrooms to avoid sending 14 years old's to the opposite end of school when the flow is extra heavy, missing more classes.
We should support each other and end bronze age stigma.
@@fionafiona1146
Schools shouldn't need to provide that stuff. That's definitely not something to waste dwindling budgets on.
@@Richard_Nickerson kids need access, it's definitely something worth contributing to their lives and it's a "Förderverein" (donation association) paying for it, not taxes... nothing would be lost but a few square centimetres space (alias we have to vote on it).
PS the extra cleaning cost of blood splattered toilet seat/cabins (as occasionally happens when without proper technique or supplys) is out of the tax based budget and could sink.
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If it's not taxes, then I have no problem with it. I'm actually happy to hear that such an organization exists.
Edit: The toilets aren't cleaned based on appearance. Every toilet is already cleaned anyway, so some surprise period blood makes no difference.