I remember in one of your videos you said you don't believe in abortions because your mom once told you to not get pregnant in Varsity, but if you do, she would accept you and the baby, even though she would be disappointed so ja, that abortion part was surprising to me.
The son part broke me 😭😭 please make an application to the Childrens court for the video to be taken down .😭😭 Act 38 of 2005. “For the best interest of the child”
Owamie must start with her own videos because some of us haven't forgotten of her video slut shaming Khanyi Mbau's daughter a few years ago. And the girl was underage. She has spoken about other people's children. She is such a hypocrite. She does vile things to others under the "I'm an entertainment blogger" but when it's done to her then she is a victim.
One thing we need to understand is that Owamie is very vindictive and she won't play the role of a 'bigger person'. She loves to have the last word.. I like it because it's entertaining as foolish as it looks. Vele I was surprised that Owamie chose to be quiet 😅😅it was too good to be true😂😂 Continue guys, we are here☕
I followed your divorce series because of how educational it was to me. I don’t need to hear his side of the story. You stood by him for the longest and he broke your trust by cheating and you left. Anyone using this as a one up on you is crazy
Promise will always have an upper hand because she is always calm Owamie will adress akwatile and a sprinkle of insults. Stupid husband " that Fool ai I really thought you were gonna ignore her this time around . Imagine if you kept quiet Ninja 😢 kodwa ke its my opinion its also your life. We still love you❤
Kanti why are you guys reasoning like 2 year Olds? Owami was responding to Promise insinuating infertility ku owami. And Owami said as a mom you do not say such things because you are not God. Manje I don't understand your reasoning. Make it make sense mama
As a Mom, I don't think that's painful at all. It's facts, no one has a lock on anyone's lives, ya'll love exaggerating things cause you don't like Owamie. Leave her alone. Stop watching her hawu.
Even if your sister wanted to abort, abortion is a legal medical procedure in South Africa and she has autonomy over her own body. Abortion is not a file bathong, it’s 2023 let’s educate ourselves.
Exactly!! Gape the way they are going on it's like abortion is the end of the world. I believe most people who fall pregnant while still young do think of abortion, some end up not going through with it however it is a thought that crosses many people's minds. If Owamie thought of it at some point, it's not the end of the world. She saw how bad the situation at home is & wanted to protect her sister. A lot of people go through this.
Teenage pregnancy it’s very normal for one to think of terminating . Speaking from experience.nothing to be ashamed of cz at the time you very confused n not knowing how will things turn out but the fact remain one chooses to keep and love their child
Yhooo how i wish Owami was my sister, she's so straight forward. I love you so much Owam when you said you don't post people's child * that alone means a lot*❤❤
Mara Thembuluwo why nikho attack muthu wa wrong? dont you think big guy needed this opportunity to also say his side after you spoke about him? Im a ninja and I feel like promise was fair she never took sides
They keep calling us a cult but guys I’m forever team Owamie❤️ it’s so clear to see that Promise has beeeeeen a fan! You know those people who pretend to admire you yet deep down they don’t like you. It’s actually sad sana and it’s women’s month!!!! Promise is VILE. And as a woman if you support such then nawe you’re a problem. You don’t have to be an Owamie fan to see past Promise’s bad character.
Promise has pull me Down syndrome read Ayanda Borothos book she beautifully explains this syndrome and she calls it the Dudu Syndrome, Promise has that she’s dangerous
Pick me women will always stand up for a man, even if they came home with an STD. And they’ll fight women who don’t see amadoda as accomplishments hey?
@@NdofayaSobethu86 pick up a criminology textbook and see where the hatred/fear of men comes from. Attend courts, volunteer at orphanages, go help out at a police station and go see what your peers have done to people.
Promise drove all the way to Bloemfontein to Interview Owamie's husband just because Owamie commented on Promise's published TH-cam video about her cheating husband's baby mamas and what not - it's commentary bathong!Promise has got the nerve to act all poised and holier-than-thou while she is vile and vindictive.Also this thing of not loving and embracing her husband's kids she puts it so nicely like it's not problematic.Usile usile u-Promise!!
@Nelly..28 You need to be intelligent to figure out that Promsie is Psycho level petty, the intentions for interviewing Big Guy were bad from the start.If you listen carefully in the beginning, she was there to come for Owamie but Big Guy was chilled and set the tone for the interview.Promise being the smart ass that she is, she played along.But her questions were vile, she only held Big Guy accountable nyana for the cheating but then they switched and both blamed Owamie and said that she had already checked out of the marriage because "no one leaves their marriage for a husband who is chatting up girls on Facebook".You need to be smart to catch the drifts of that interview because Promise is calculated.Also how she carefully selected the clips for the trailer, clearly vile, shock factor, definitely coming for Owamie.And then the "26 000 views" thank you message, clearly she did the interview for clout.But you believe what she says not what she does akere, says a lot about your intellect🤷
Exactly I might leave cause my man said futsek once, just because u stayed cause yours said it 10 times it don't mean our deal breaker are the same.... But she will learn, with her age she will see. Same way she learnt when she used to be on high horse because other people where single and she was married.
I am team Owamie I love her a lot however we shouldn't mislead her by agreeing with all she says. She has the right to tell her experience about marriage kodwa why hail insults at his ex? Dom kop,a fool etc. It's not right and insulting his mom was wrong no matter what they may have done to her but insulting elders made me think twice abt her upbringing. I wish she could take kindly to constructive advises. In this case Promise was neutral she only gave Big guy a chance to tell his side of the story. His name has been dragged in the mud for too long. Owamie plz share ur story but reserve some respect for him. We learn a lot from ur experience❤❤
She simply lacks class. This is not the kind of woman any man should risk introducing to their family. I hope her current bf is seeing the red flags...unless he is prepared to have his family insulted on social media one day. Don’t you get tired of all this chaos in your life Owami? Court cases, lawsuits, fights, your health issues? Or are you one of those people who thrive on drama?
This is a powerful comment from a proper African child. Owami lacks morals and respect. Not even Julius Malema will marry such because he’s just as rude. It’s worrisome, no future in law will want such a makoti with such a mouth diarrhoea. It’s not right to speak about BGs mom swearing or even swearing at ex-husband like he’s not a man fit enough for another woman. Haai 🤧😷
Small Guy sat there in that podcast wearing his humble & modest hat, coming across as innocent & blameless… And then proceeded to mention the ‘unaliving’ of an innocent child who shouldn’t have been dragged into this whole saga. Him coming for Owamie is probably justified, but Ray? That was low 🚮
Mara do we not all call some of our exes names depending how the relationship ended…why are we so bothered when Owamie insults hers…also its been insults both sides mos.
@@Zikhon granted but not 3 years later. 3 years and you're still hot and bothered about an ex? Psychopath behaviour. She's obsessed with Big Guy. She's obsessed with Promise. She'll never heal because you people hype her up, she'll forever be stuck in this sad cycle instead of moving on with her life.
Yeah because was she not the one talking about the oxygen of Promises children... Was she not talking about Lynn's children. Its giving narcist because was she not the one saying Big Guy can tell his side of the story. She is just a drop in these TH-cam metaverse...
Umnikile Indaba zakhe straight! This content felt like I was sitting face to face with Owamie, ndimane ndikhuza - sipping on my drink 😂🙈...I enjoyed it shem🤭I agree with Owamie, leave us divorcees alone. Some women me included, will not tolerate a cheating partner and there's nothing wrong. It's best to just stay in your lane wena Cinderella and drink your water. PERIOD!#TeamOwamie!
the unfortunate part is this is your real life the both of you, for us viewers its entertainment and we log off and get to our normal lives but for you, you are living this off or on the internet, make a decision that will heal your soul and give you peace of mind also pray sometimes for guidance because wow at this rate you will look back and regret sometimes fighting doesn't really necessarily mean dragging people to the earth's crust for viewership, integrity, self respect and maturity is an attractive trait as we age at some point you will need to introspect on how far you want to go or keep fighting people left right and center, this wont end well for you both but hey continue, we are entertained.
If Owamie was this good person that people believe her to be then she wouldnt be still bashing her husband 3 years later. In life there are some people who know how to play victim and they know how to manipulate people. I am scared of being an ex of such kind of person. Thats why I disappear from a person who starts saying bad things about their exes during the early stages of dating because I start to imagine being the ex at a later stage
I love a queen that stands up for herself ! Vele it would be stupid for owamie to not make money from the attacks she's getting her way, she's just turning lemons into lemonade ❤😊
I think you need to watch that podcast then you’ll understand that in everything Big guy said he said it out of respect. He would always disagree to calling you names . He made sure he protected your dignity. He never called you names and he never made you look or sound like a mad person. But you are calling him all sorts of names . Wamie you need to heal love and pray so you can see that Big Guy is not the enemy here. He never painted You badly he admitted that he did you wrong . Mara yoh you still going on and on . Sometimes leave some things unsaid just to keep your dignity sane. It’s not everything you need to comment on. A wise woman keeps her peace.❤
Protected her dignity by leaking that VN she sent him 2 months ago? Accusing her of wanting to abort Ray, insinuating that umdlisile, claiming that he earned way below what she has told us and etc etc? Haii wena, be serious
I asked myself hore what is promise's husband say about her wife that goes so far to speak to another woman's ex about their divorce 🤔.... if she respect her husband so much what was she doing ko freestate. Owami you spoke the truth in my opinion... I will also come for her. You chose to keep quiet but she seems to be adamant about your life. To be she gives me an impression of a bitter woman she needs help.
Ee bo Promise' s channel is about everything marriage, business ke business. Similar way you people tell Owami to collect her coint ha e dume for other content creators shame yhooo le ya tena.
People that still use people's educational background to attack are stupid😂. Ka 2023?! SA was lead by a whole man with grade 5 hle... HOMOLANG LE SKA RE BOLEDISHA KUDU
They seem to have missed that part. That entire interview was based on Owamie using muthi on Big guy, her not bathing, how much she made and her sister and Ray... With a touch of "we not fighting"... The narcissist way. Blow a punch and then act "nice"
@@rorowamanteko1725 Lol I also found it weird how people kept saying Promise was unbiased and whatever. She kept throwing shade at Owamie and asking irrelevant questions for her own gratification.
This was your chance to ELEVATE IN SILENCE & MAINTAIN the little DIGNITY you had left after that Vile Voice note that became the Highlight and IS Now an IMPRINT of You & your "BRAND" I beg REST OLady you are Self Destructing. Where are your friends and family?
Above everything else may Ray grow up to see how much you stood up for him…may he walk around knowing that he has an army of women who would go to war for him❤🫂
Don’t get me wrong,I am team Owamie I am a nja,but big guy also had a right to talk about his side of the story…that interview went very well and promise handle it well, I don’t get why Owami is this angry
My point exactly. I am also on Owamie’s corner however, Big guy has a right to share his story the way he sees fit. Just like how Owamie shared her side. Owamie lashing out like this is gonna seem like she doesn’t want him to share his story.
But batho ba Promise ba swana le ninjas. Promise wa lwa, same as you 🤦♀️, le bo Lerato kganyago ( you also fought with her). Honestly, I do not see any difference between the two of you.
The difference is that Owami said she has a diploma kanti she was expelled and Promise is a graduate 🎓 and have class I guess when you do well in class, class follows you😂😅
I get that you are hurt but Owami you need to introspect your life Lala, I pray you find peace in this life🙁Raising a Child having some much negativity 🥺scary stuff. Le rotang bana Owami?? 💔
This just popped up on my TL and I decided to watch all of it. I love you Owami❤️. You're so bold lala and u always stand up for yourself. When they go low, go lower shibhubhu. Never allow anyone to step on ur head. Powerful woman right here!
Don't forget that you ones married that fool...let her marry her cheating husband she will Divorce him on her terms 😏 just like you divorce on your term
If your lawyers were effective the defamation would be resolved by now no matter what. So youre showing us that you're willing to sound like a lawyer singer just to prove a point. Lol wtf ma'am.
Owamie and Promise hate each other and are obsessed with one another because they are basically the same. Personally I'm entertained😂, this won't end anytime soon. May the best (the most vile) woman win bafazi❤.
It's the human nature when you are angry and esp for sm1 who made your life a living hell at some point. Fool kwa aah..he deserves it coming from Owamie
46:10 now I understand why your so pissed and why you replied. Kids are off limits and a married woman should know this I'm 30yrs old and I never use kids to fight shame. Xolo Owam❤
That’s the only platform that big guy can tell his side of the story. I think Owami is upset because we now know the truth, more things that she was hiding.
You don’t need a man to cheat on you 10 or 20 times! The minute that man cheats once it opens your eyes soooo wide! It opens your ears sooooo wide. And believe me staying is hard because you are there asking yourself what if he does it again, you are always on edge., Trust is ruined, and working on building it is sooo hard.
Call me bias mna I will stand by Owamie Shem. I have seen the comments under promises vlog with big guy and most of them are praising big guy for being calm and articulate and some see a narcissist. Mna I see what Owamie went through and I stand by u Owamie wethu Kuba kaloku amadoda anjeya ake abe 2 faced. Futhi ke Xa umntu ene hidden agenda soze ungaboni
I wish Owamie one day would consider therapy….. Anyway, I don’t think this is about Ray, the son… I’m glad you got the taste of your own medicine…. Niyafana nje🚮🚮🚮just that Promise has a bit of class🤭 You opened the door Mama now deal with it, the only fool here is you who doesn’t know how to control your emotions….Grow up Owamie, learn to take accountability, pick your battles, apologise if you have to no one is perfect Sis & shut the door wheeee🙇🏽♀️
The most important thing is that Ray is not her son. If I gave birth and somebody went on and on about taking care of my son and claiming him, id lose it.
😅😅😅 you said it! And Promise is educated she controls her emotions very well if it was about Ray she shouldn't be commenting here to spread this remember Ray wouldn't discover Promises video and now she is putting petrol to it to spread like wild fire mxm so disappointed shame she is vile this one if she could think of poisoning her own family what would stop her to do the termination tjoo tjoo bored
Wena you’re like me. I’ll be like “I’m gonna stay away from this drama and not give you any satisfaction”. 2 minutes later I’m back at it dragging a fool to satan’s doorstep and back 😭😭🤣🤣🤣
You and I are cut from the same cloth🤣🤣🤣. I don't do well with the whole "bigger person" thing. I grew up without a mother guys, I've always had to defend myself so nje bigger person ushonile wethu🤣🤣
I was so proud that my Queen Ninja does not entertain negativity anymore kanti ke i'm wrong TH-camrs are gonna use her cause she always fall for the trap of giving them attention all in the name of defending herself
“It was an innocent interview” my foot! She knew what she was doing and that was the plan. To touch you where it hurts. I hope she’s ashamed of herself (if she has a heart). There was no need to talk about Ray and worse to advertise her content using that clip 😭.
True, children should be left out and protected. Now Ray will now know he was to be aborted by the mother...oh my God...how did Promise allow this information to go public?😭😭😭
After this video, if someone picks a fight with Owamie, clearly that person is either brave or stupid. Owamie left no stone unturned. Promise must be restless wherever she is ... yhoo 😢😢😢😢😢
She will heal the day ebuyela back to BG..you can't fight an ex you claim to have no feelings for for 3 years ngeke usis wants ama love back and she's irritated because uBG has moved on and seems to be happy in his new relationship
@@sinenhlanhlabhengu7942 Right? Well I don’t necessarily think ufuna ama loveback, I think akakholwa and it makes her so mad ukuth uB.G is doing so well without her.
One thing about bringing your personal problems to the internet you will think you right bcoz they will tell you to speak your truth meanwhile they would never hang out their laundry to dry outside. Her and her ex are toxic they must just go for councelling and move on. For 3 years she's been dragging his fam and most people where laughing about it now its sour that Big speaks few bad things about her. The only thing i find it wrong was to speak about the child and to Owami as well was to swear at his mom that way. Other than that if she can dish she must be able swallow fullstop. She needs to privately heal, she has more than 2 years to speak her truth this is not healthy. Her channel is about her fighting. Peace is the new success. I like Owami thou but lets tell her the truth dont give 2cents about the other lady and i dont see any wrongs with that interview especially that they dont get along. Shes was'nt bad at all. Truth be told.
With all the information you gave here. It was very easy to find the “house” and address. Property24,Parkhurst, 3.9 million??? 😭💔 this is getting out of hand
Owamie how far are you willing to go for unyana wakho? Yonke lento is scary. Owamie must you come to every fight you are invited to?Mabizw asabele, they call you answer
Being an aunt and being an actually mom who birthed the child is not the same thing. When you finally have yours one day you will understand that you are not a mom just coz you pay financially for him
I remember in one of your videos you said you don't believe in abortions because your mom once told you to not get pregnant in Varsity, but if you do, she would accept you and the baby, even though she would be disappointed so ja, that abortion part was surprising to me.
Thaaaank you
@@boldlyowamie in another video you spoke about wanting your sister to do an abortion so we’re confused lala 💆🏾♀️
@@theright-y8lwhich one is that one now😳
Stay confused 🤷🤷🤷
@@theright-y8l I thought am the only 1 remembering she said that on 1 of her videos.
The son part broke me 😭😭 please make an application to the Childrens court for the video to be taken down .😭😭 Act 38 of 2005. “For the best interest of the child”
These people are playing dirty. Now they involve kids for views.
But this too need to involve children in their arguments cos both had involved their children one way on another
Owamie must start with her own videos because some of us haven't forgotten of her video slut shaming Khanyi Mbau's daughter a few years ago. And the girl was underage. She has spoken about other people's children. She is such a hypocrite. She does vile things to others under the "I'm an entertainment blogger" but when it's done to her then she is a victim.
@@zb182say it louder we havent forgotten about Khanyi Mbau daughters video, when the wheels turn she makes noise this one
@@zb182I think we've established that she's just a horrible person. Horrible human being.
Owamie the day u start taking ownership, U will realise u started a fire....
One thing we need to understand is that Owamie is very vindictive and she won't play the role of a 'bigger person'.
She loves to have the last word.. I like it because it's entertaining as foolish as it looks.
Vele I was surprised that Owamie chose to be quiet 😅😅it was too good to be true😂😂
Continue guys, we are here☕
😂😂😂😂
This is not over! Please they must both keep being foolish😂😂🍿 this is why we're on the internet.
Low-key I love how messy Owamie can be at times. It's not always my cup of tea but I will tune in... All the time! 😂😂😂
@@mellypete2736 sisonke😂🤣😂
and I am so shook that she did this yhoo after we begged her not to respond iyhoo le ntombazna hayi I give up am shush
Mara le wena you said alot about his family, but he never cried
I followed your divorce series because of how educational it was to me. I don’t need to hear his side of the story. You stood by him for the longest and he broke your trust by cheating and you left. Anyone using this as a one up on you is crazy
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Thank you
Thank you sweetie, well said!!!
Well said ✅
Yeah! We have learnt a lot from her story.
I’m not for the mess and I don’t always agree with Owamie, but no ways, Promise moves weird.
Me too
One thing about owamie, she's not a coward, stand for yourself girl ❤
Valley, that is what I like her most for.
Y'all be praising stupid people 🚮
Promise will always have an upper hand because she is always calm Owamie will adress akwatile and a sprinkle of insults. Stupid husband " that
Fool ai
I really thought you were gonna ignore her this time around .
Imagine if you kept quiet Ninja 😢 kodwa ke its my opinion its also your life. We still love you❤
Truth, yhoooo this one thinks too highly of herself.....
Nna I am team Owami for life 🤞🏾😭. Ungdlisile lo mama because she does no wrong in my eyes
Me too😂😂😂and I have tried to sit and assess both sides before commenting but nohh man! Team Owamie for life🫶🏽
@@neosjournal_ Same Sis Same🤣🤣❤️
Me too 😂😂😂😂
KKKKKKKK exactly. I love her too 😆
😅😅 me too shame!
She was in your WhatsApp all along???? WAT A FANNNNNNN😂😂 She's a ninja
They even hid statuses from her 😭🤣
Owami watched the entire interview stop lying nje, you know everything that shared on that interviewed
Stop calling him a fool, it doesn't make you smarter. No matter how much you hate him. Leave the bitterness, your doing good in Life.
Imagine 😂😂😂 drink water lalal
but it’s true hle…
Why are you touched? You clearly need a glass of water.
True hey, instead it makes her look even dumber because she can’t seem to control her emotions….you don’t have to be rude to get your message across 🩶
Lapho uBig guy showed so much maturity..she's the one that comes across as foolish.
I’m with Owamie on this one!! Why did they involve baby Ray in their shinanigans??!!! Ay ngeke that Promise lady is an opportunist of note 🗑️🗑️🗑️
Why did Owami talk about people's Hiv status? She must also feel the pain she has been inflicting on others, hakaaaa
@@amukelanimaswanganyi4838 Whose HIV status did she talk about? I don't watch everything she uploads, so must have missed it.
Guys kids are off limits period. No excuses please, No justification.
The interview with Owami"s ex was really needed. She conducted that very well. Look how mad Owami is right now. Vindictive & mad
But I remember when you said she does not have a lock on her children, that is a painful thing to hear as a mother,
Kanti why are you guys reasoning like 2 year Olds? Owami was responding to Promise insinuating infertility ku owami. And Owami said as a mom you do not say such things because you are not God.
Manje I don't understand your reasoning. Make it make sense mama
As a Mom, I don't think that's painful at all. It's facts, no one has a lock on anyone's lives, ya'll love exaggerating things cause you don't like Owamie. Leave her alone. Stop watching her hawu.
@akhozilnkangana4772 this people love confusing stories nd dem self
Even if your sister wanted to abort, abortion is a legal medical procedure in South Africa and she has autonomy over her own body. Abortion is not a file bathong, it’s 2023 let’s educate ourselves.
Exactly!! Gape the way they are going on it's like abortion is the end of the world. I believe most people who fall pregnant while still young do think of abortion, some end up not going through with it however it is a thought that crosses many people's minds. If Owamie thought of it at some point, it's not the end of the world. She saw how bad the situation at home is & wanted to protect her sister. A lot of people go through this.
@@mbalifisher Agreed sis🙌🏽
Abortion is legal homicide lala. Where the mother pays inkabi to end her child.
True, I would never judge anyone for even thinking of terminating a teenage pregnancy
Teenage pregnancy it’s very normal for one to think of terminating . Speaking from experience.nothing to be ashamed of cz at the time you very confused n not knowing how will things turn out but the fact remain one chooses to keep and love their child
Yhooo how i wish Owami was my sister, she's so straight forward. I love you so much Owam when you said you don't post people's child * that alone means a lot*❤❤
And she's educated, n business woman, she dsnt rely on TH-cam
Because she said so?
Mara Thembuluwo why nikho attack muthu wa wrong? dont you think big guy needed this opportunity to also say his side after you spoke about him?
Im a ninja and I feel like promise was fair she never took sides
They keep calling us a cult but guys I’m forever team Owamie❤️ it’s so clear to see that Promise has beeeeeen a fan! You know those people who pretend to admire you yet deep down they don’t like you. It’s actually sad sana and it’s women’s month!!!! Promise is VILE. And as a woman if you support such then nawe you’re a problem. You don’t have to be an Owamie fan to see past Promise’s bad character.
I totally agree with you. Promise o sele hle
Pe😅Qpaaaqpa.
😅😅😅😅😅 A
Aaa Alqolioqoololpk😅w😅La😅imik😅llpp Mpo kaaw
Petty gang, petty gang we are the petty gang mntase 😂
Promise has pull me Down syndrome read Ayanda Borothos book she beautifully explains this syndrome and she calls it the Dudu Syndrome, Promise has that she’s dangerous
He was telling his side of the story. You have been telling your side of the story. Owamie le wena man agggg man
The minute she says "that fool" aiii lo owami wenu😂😂😂
Pick me women will always stand up for a man, even if they came home with an STD. And they’ll fight women who don’t see amadoda as accomplishments hey?
Amen!!!!! Exactly!
true that one
And you'll do anything to show the hatred against men, bcz we're monsters and you're all Angels you can't do no wrong.
@@NdofayaSobethu86 pick up a criminology textbook and see where the hatred/fear of men comes from. Attend courts, volunteer at orphanages, go help out at a police station and go see what your peers have done to people.
@@NdofayaSobethu86stop reaching bra!
Promise drove all the way to Bloemfontein to Interview Owamie's husband just because Owamie commented on Promise's published TH-cam video about her cheating husband's baby mamas and what not - it's commentary bathong!Promise has got the nerve to act all poised and holier-than-thou while she is vile and vindictive.Also this thing of not loving and embracing her husband's kids she puts it so nicely like it's not problematic.Usile usile u-Promise!!
Wait was promise biased or you just kissing
@@Nelly..28 they kissing, cause that's Promise's job aswell. They know nothing about Promise's podcast, they only know this last video about BG.
How ironic, isn't this dirty rat Owamie doing the same thing? 😂
@Nelly..28 You need to be intelligent to figure out that Promsie is Psycho level petty, the intentions for interviewing Big Guy were bad from the start.If you listen carefully in the beginning, she was there to come for Owamie but Big Guy was chilled and set the tone for the interview.Promise being the smart ass that she is, she played along.But her questions were vile, she only held Big Guy accountable nyana for the cheating but then they switched and both blamed Owamie and said that she had already checked out of the marriage because "no one leaves their marriage for a husband who is chatting up girls on Facebook".You need to be smart to catch the drifts of that interview because Promise is calculated.Also how she carefully selected the clips for the trailer, clearly vile, shock factor, definitely coming for Owamie.And then the "26 000 views" thank you message, clearly she did the interview for clout.But you believe what she says not what she does akere, says a lot about your intellect🤷
@@monicadhlamini2019 leave the intentions and answer the question was she biased?
I think there is no manual on marriage. Each household decides what works for them. No need to educate anyone about their own marriage.
Exactly
Exactly I might leave cause my man said futsek once, just because u stayed cause yours said it 10 times it don't mean our deal breaker are the same.... But she will learn, with her age she will see. Same way she learnt when she used to be on high horse because other people where single and she was married.
Now why did she make it seem like she never knew you on personal level 💀
🤣🤣🤣 That part!
Crook😂😂
Yhooo I was shocked 😂😂
Abantu a Basile they like dat nd will make u look like u de evil one
I am team Owamie I love her a lot however we shouldn't mislead her by agreeing with all she says. She has the right to tell her experience about marriage kodwa why hail insults at his ex? Dom kop,a fool etc. It's not right and insulting his mom was wrong no matter what they may have done to her but insulting elders made me think twice abt her upbringing. I wish she could take kindly to constructive advises. In this case Promise was neutral she only gave Big guy a chance to tell his side of the story. His name has been dragged in the mud for too long. Owamie plz share ur story but reserve some respect for him. We learn a lot from ur experience❤❤
She simply lacks class. This is not the kind of woman any man should risk introducing to their family. I hope her current bf is seeing the red flags...unless he is prepared to have his family insulted on social media one day.
Don’t you get tired of all this chaos in your life Owami? Court cases, lawsuits, fights, your health issues? Or are you one of those people who thrive on drama?
This is the comment I've been looking for.
Exactly
This comment should be pinned ❤❤emotional intelligence we are in our 30s now raising babies
This is a powerful comment from a proper African child. Owami lacks morals and respect. Not even Julius Malema will marry such because he’s just as rude. It’s worrisome, no future in law will want such a makoti with such a mouth diarrhoea. It’s not right to speak about BGs mom swearing or even swearing at ex-husband like he’s not a man fit enough for another woman. Haai 🤧😷
Owamie talks about people for a living. I don’t see why she can’t talk about her own life, on her own channel
I don't see why other people can't talk about her either.
Small Guy sat there in that podcast wearing his humble & modest hat, coming across as innocent & blameless… And then proceeded to mention the ‘unaliving’ of an innocent child who shouldn’t have been dragged into this whole saga. Him coming for Owamie is probably justified, but Ray? That was low 🚮
Promise is definitely her husband’s karma. They deserve each other.
The silence was too good to be true😔😔
Sani this Girl is disappointing 😞
😂😂😂 She was planning world War 🤣🤣🤣. Mrs Putin🤣🤣🤣
she is doing good thing by making money out of the drama,she is smart.
Liiissttteeennnn
@@Nelly..28So others can talk and she can't..
Make it make sense
Ten past 4 😂😂. Love it for you queen ninja.
Speak your truth ❤
i love thiss
Indlu iyawa!😅😂
Nothing but the truth..keep doing a great job, I love how you handle her
Please don't call him a fool, at least just give him dignity as a human being
No she is mad for Ray ….
After he said she smelled???
A fool she stayed with for years. She's the bigger fool.
Mara do we not all call some of our exes names depending how the relationship ended…why are we so bothered when Owamie insults hers…also its been insults both sides mos.
@@Zikhon granted but not 3 years later. 3 years and you're still hot and bothered about an ex? Psychopath behaviour. She's obsessed with Big Guy. She's obsessed with Promise. She'll never heal because you people hype her up, she'll forever be stuck in this sad cycle instead of moving on with her life.
😅😂I'm laughing coz you and Promise 🤲same Whatsapp group, leya tshwana shame.
Problem is when you have a lot to say, you end up contradicting yourself.
It's an emotional balance thing... Let's us be fair.... This made alot of us cringe having watched the said interview....
Yeah because was she not the one talking about the oxygen of Promises children... Was she not talking about Lynn's children. Its giving narcist because was she not the one saying Big Guy can tell his side of the story. She is just a drop in these TH-cam metaverse...
@@marianlandsberg3775more like emotional intelligence
Angimuzwa ukuthi uthini I doubt I will finish this video.
I'm sorry about what happened with your son Owamie, I actually understand where you are coming from❤
Umnikile Indaba zakhe straight! This content felt like I was sitting face to face with Owamie, ndimane ndikhuza - sipping on my drink 😂🙈...I enjoyed it shem🤭I agree with Owamie, leave us divorcees alone. Some women me included, will not tolerate a cheating partner and there's nothing wrong. It's best to just stay in your lane wena Cinderella and drink your water. PERIOD!#TeamOwamie!
the unfortunate part is this is your real life the both of you, for us viewers its entertainment and we log off and get to our normal lives but for you, you are living this off or on the internet, make a decision that will heal your soul and give you peace of mind also pray sometimes for guidance because wow at this rate you will look back and regret sometimes fighting doesn't really necessarily mean dragging people to the earth's crust for viewership, integrity, self respect and maturity is an attractive trait as we age at some point you will need to introspect on how far you want to go or keep fighting people left right and center, this wont end well for you both but hey continue, we are entertained.
If Owamie was this good person that people believe her to be then she wouldnt be still bashing her husband 3 years later. In life there are some people who know how to play victim and they know how to manipulate people. I am scared of being an ex of such kind of person. Thats why I disappear from a person who starts saying bad things about their exes during the early stages of dating because I start to imagine being the ex at a later stage
I love a queen that stands up for herself ! Vele it would be stupid for owamie to not make money from the attacks she's getting her way, she's just turning lemons into lemonade ❤😊
I think you need to watch that podcast then you’ll understand that in everything Big guy said he said it out of respect. He would always disagree to calling you names . He made sure he protected your dignity. He never called you names and he never made you look or sound like a mad person. But you are calling him all sorts of names . Wamie you need to heal love and pray so you can see that Big Guy is not the enemy here. He never painted You badly he admitted that he did you wrong . Mara yoh you still going on and on . Sometimes leave some things unsaid just to keep your dignity sane. It’s not everything you need to comment on. A wise woman keeps her peace.❤
Protected her dignity by leaking that VN she sent him 2 months ago? Accusing her of wanting to abort Ray, insinuating that umdlisile, claiming that he earned way below what she has told us and etc etc? Haii wena, be serious
Best comment here. She NEEDS deliverance ❤
You keep on calling Biguy a fool? Nah my queen❤ he is a human being too. Respect
This is not about Ray.
Bingo!! 💡
You are 100% right
It's about u den
All of you are content creators, you can create content, she is also creating content. There is no exclusibe rights of content creating
But wena le Promise la swana. The both of you are always in fights Owamie....
You’re right and it’s not worthy it
Owamie you watched that interview ya Big Guy😂😂you know every single detail only thing is you watched it on tiktok instead of youtube.
Bingo 😂😂
This man took your sister in n her pregnancy, pls giv this guy flowers, other man will never do that
Calling him a " fool" doesn't make you wiser
💯💯💯💯💯 Like why
“Highlighting their flaws doesn’t mask yours”
What if the shoe fits though? Kuthiweni. Im just asking.
I repeat… HE IS AFOOL
So true Owami must heal period
I asked myself hore what is promise's husband say about her wife that goes so far to speak to another woman's ex about their divorce 🤔.... if she respect her husband so much what was she doing ko freestate.
Owami you spoke the truth in my opinion... I will also come for her. You chose to keep quiet but she seems to be adamant about your life. To be she gives me an impression of a bitter woman she needs help.
Ee bo Promise' s channel is about everything marriage, business ke business. Similar way you people tell Owami to collect her coint ha e dume for other content creators shame yhooo le ya tena.
Shade was thrown on Promise's channel about Owami not being a graduate, she insinuated she used muti on big guy and questioning how much Owami earned.
@@lufunolukhwareni8925 Big Guy said she failed and dropped out, so there's that
People that still use people's educational background to attack are stupid😂. Ka 2023?! SA was lead by a whole man with grade 5 hle... HOMOLANG LE SKA RE BOLEDISHA KUDU
They seem to have missed that part. That entire interview was based on Owamie using muthi on Big guy, her not bathing, how much she made and her sister and Ray... With a touch of "we not fighting"... The narcissist way. Blow a punch and then act "nice"
@@rorowamanteko1725 Lol I also found it weird how people kept saying Promise was unbiased and whatever. She kept throwing shade at Owamie and asking irrelevant questions for her own gratification.
@@Yassmiinn. The way she was interested in how much she made and then laughing at the 34k yuuu😭
This was your chance to ELEVATE IN SILENCE & MAINTAIN the little DIGNITY you had left after that Vile Voice note that became the Highlight and IS Now an IMPRINT of You & your "BRAND" I beg REST OLady you are Self Destructing. Where are your friends and family?
Does she even have friends? Also it's a risk, next thing she'll discuss your fallout on camera
Owamie are you really okay??
Above everything else may Ray grow up to see how much you stood up for him…may he walk around knowing that he has an army of women who would go to war for him❤🫂
I may not agree with Owamie on certain things. However she does not take her foot off cheating married men and I love that🤣
😂😂😂
😂
I was so happy thinking Owamie will ignore that interview.
Me too
Bro!!!!🙇🏾♀️
Let Owamie defend herself
Le toxic Maan, u want a person to be torn up and down and she must keep quiet to make yal happy?
And she always gets angrier at the interviewer than the interviewee.
We love that you stand up for yourself. I really hope you will start addressing things without resorting to name calling❤
Amen
Don’t get me wrong,I am team Owamie I am a nja,but big guy also had a right to talk about his side of the story…that interview went very well and promise handle it well, I don’t get why Owami is this angry
She's bitter she's the only one who must always talk about other people and they should not be given a platform to respond.
My point exactly. I am also on Owamie’s corner however, Big guy has a right to share his story the way he sees fit. Just like how Owamie shared her side. Owamie lashing out like this is gonna seem like she doesn’t want him to share his story.
Eish but Promise was too personal asking how much Owamie was making etc personally I wouldn’t be comfortable people knowing about my finances
Interview that’s full of lies but if you listened to the whole video the problem isn’t what they said about her but her child
@@zamamorakile1518talk about her but not her child
Like a Queen, always standing up for yourself and loved ones❤
But batho ba Promise ba swana le ninjas. Promise wa lwa, same as you 🤦♀️, le bo Lerato kganyago ( you also fought with her). Honestly, I do not see any difference between the two of you.
They are the same shame..
The difference is that Owami said she has a diploma kanti she was expelled and Promise is a graduate 🎓 and have class I guess when you do well in class, class follows you😂😅
@@Nelly..28 No you didn't😂🤣😂
I get that you are hurt but Owami you need to introspect your life Lala, I pray you find peace in this life🙁Raising a Child having some much negativity 🥺scary stuff. Le rotang bana Owami?? 💔
Suka wena introspect your own life
@@ronellecandice1536 Lala Uryt? 8 months later u replying to this 🤔
Sadlula lapho dhiye ….
@@mhlox654 he’s I’m perfectly normally, you should introspect,and I’m not Lala
I fully agree with you calling her out for mentioning your kid and sister . The rest of the content in the video was unnecessary
Let her vent, promise went too far😢
@@janetbenson1662yes! She has the time and the platform, let her vent 😂
I love Owamie but I don’t know why I keep cringing whenever she refers to Big guy as “that idiot” “that fool” eish
And if that was said to her there would be a court case by now
This just popped up on my TL and I decided to watch all of it. I love you Owami❤️. You're so bold lala and u always stand up for yourself. When they go low, go lower shibhubhu. Never allow anyone to step on ur head. Powerful woman right here!
I was also one of the woman that left my husband for cheating and I don’t regret it. That Ad of the abortion was really low below even low for her🤮
Don't forget that you ones married that fool...let her marry her cheating husband she will Divorce him on her terms 😏 just like you divorce on your term
Big guy and his sister will also sue you for outing her status. And defamation for his mother and family saying they do witchcraft.
Kore she is dragging this rope to hang 😂😂😂😂
I pray they sue her
@@ketie_ Me too
I also pray they do that
U think Big guy has money to sue? 😂
If your lawyers were effective the defamation would be resolved by now no matter what. So youre showing us that you're willing to sound like a lawyer singer just to prove a point.
Lol wtf ma'am.
She has somehow convinced herself that she's something she's not. It's so hilarious.
@@NeoChilwane lol and wasting money in the process
I watched this more than once. If they go low you go lower😂😂😂
Mr Madlebe was lying 😂😂😂 I can’t with you Owamie. The imitation of his laugh also sent me
When social media drama gets too personal 😭
U were supposed to do interview after calming down,u have so much anger😢
The voicenote that big guy played matches the owamie we see here, name calling and belittling people.
Ka ncane ka ncane uyavela.
She never denied it when people bekunyela entloko ikaka iyanuka bhabha
@@VuyolwethuNdlungwana your defending nonsense
Owamie and Promise hate each other and are obsessed with one another because they are basically the same.
Personally I'm entertained😂, this won't end anytime soon. May the best (the most vile) woman win bafazi❤.
Danko🤣😂🤣
Yes, may the vilest woman win.
Whenever I am bored, I just watch their content. 😂
This time i am with Owami. Big guy le Promise ba u tloaela hampe
But calling your ex husband a fool it's says a lot about you,no offense but it is what it is I'm ashamed
She’s letting anger control her
So much anger bathong, you need to heal Sis 😮
It just proves she belittled this man behind close doors.
A fool is fool, setlaela ke setlaela..
It's the human nature when you are angry and esp for sm1 who made your life a living hell at some point. Fool kwa aah..he deserves it coming from Owamie
46:10 now I understand why your so pissed and why you replied. Kids are off limits and a married woman should know this I'm 30yrs old and I never use kids to fight shame. Xolo Owam❤
But what’s wrong with Big Guy talking to promise? You’ve been talking about him for years. Let it go
That’s the only platform that big guy can tell his side of the story. I think Owami is upset because we now know the truth, more things that she was hiding.
Your most vile moment on the internet will always be the voice note you sent big guy and you will NEVER address that
She must pin this comment!
@@asantsimango2891 keep on dreaming 🤣🤣🤣
😂❤
Nothing will ever match it shame
She addressed it way before it was even leaked sana, but hey!!!! It doesn’t change the fact that it’s very cringe 😬
You don’t need a man to cheat on you 10 or 20 times! The minute that man cheats once it opens your eyes soooo wide! It opens your ears sooooo wide. And believe me staying is hard because you are there asking yourself what if he does it again, you are always on edge., Trust is ruined, and working on building it is sooo hard.
Yep staying is harder than leaving because you're never free
Call me bias mna I will stand by Owamie Shem. I have seen the comments under promises vlog with big guy and most of them are praising big guy for being calm and articulate and some see a narcissist. Mna I see what Owamie went through and I stand by u Owamie wethu Kuba kaloku amadoda anjeya ake abe 2 faced. Futhi ke Xa umntu ene hidden agenda soze ungaboni
Lol it's not bias its untreated mental disorder.
Kwaze kwazwela Bo.
But you spoke about Sithelo's kids mos
Ave kushesha ukuzwela kuyena kodwa she expects abanye abantu ukuthi bangazweli
At this point Owamie is the one to be called a fool
But what made you think that she will keep quiet? Haibo nina you are ambitious
the award-winning vlogger part🔥
🥂🥂 TO US WHO CAME FROM TIK TOK❤❤
Love you Owami stand up for yourself the real blogger that they blog about ❤
This seems more like serious anger deep rooted issues, don't throw the guilt on Ray. U just know how to play with the viewers emotions Owamie🤔
She’s very manipulative…
True
She forgotten about the HIV people she dragged have kids and calling someone's mother a bitch
I wish Owamie one day would consider therapy…..
Anyway, I don’t think this is about Ray, the son…
I’m glad you got the taste of your own medicine….
Niyafana nje🚮🚮🚮just that Promise has a bit of class🤭
You opened the door Mama now deal with it, the only fool here is you who doesn’t know how to control your emotions….Grow up Owamie, learn to take accountability, pick your battles, apologise if you have to no one is perfect Sis & shut the door wheeee🙇🏽♀️
The most important thing is that Ray is not her son. If I gave birth and somebody went on and on about taking care of my son and claiming him, id lose it.
😅😅😅 you said it! And Promise is educated she controls her emotions very well if it was about Ray she shouldn't be commenting here to spread this remember Ray wouldn't discover Promises video and now she is putting petrol to it to spread like wild fire mxm so disappointed shame she is vile this one if she could think of poisoning her own family what would stop her to do the termination tjoo tjoo bored
Wena you’re like me. I’ll be like “I’m gonna stay away from this drama and not give you any satisfaction”. 2 minutes later I’m back at it dragging a fool to satan’s doorstep and back 😭😭🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂
I have found my best friend 🎉
@@neomanoto2140 guys being the bigger person is not for everyone 😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣
You and I are cut from the same cloth🤣🤣🤣. I don't do well with the whole "bigger person" thing. I grew up without a mother guys, I've always had to defend myself so nje bigger person ushonile wethu🤣🤣
I was so proud that my Queen Ninja does not entertain negativity anymore kanti ke i'm wrong TH-camrs are gonna use her cause she always fall for the trap of giving them attention all in the name of defending herself
“It was an innocent interview” my foot! She knew what she was doing and that was the plan. To touch you where it hurts. I hope she’s ashamed of herself (if she has a heart). There was no need to talk about Ray and worse to advertise her content using that clip 😭.
True, children should be left out and protected. Now Ray will now know he was to be aborted by the mother...oh my God...how did Promise allow this information to go public?😭😭😭
So this was more of a reaction video to the Big Guy interview.I waited and waited for files mara dololo😭😭I am so invested
😂😂😂😂
That's when you know that Owamie has a heart, she's not as vindictive as people make her out to be.
Nothing new the only thing she had on Promise is her hubby cheating and children, and lapho cheating is not a deal breaker for everyone.
@@monicadhlamini2019or she just has no files
@@SiphokaziMbelu-ts3dlyazini,same old
Nah calling someone an idiot or a fool shows no mannerism.
After this video, if someone picks a fight with Owamie, clearly that person is either brave or stupid. Owamie left no stone unturned. Promise must be restless wherever she is ... yhoo 😢😢😢😢😢
Mara mos Owami nawe uyi bully and very manipulative.
Kanty Owami uyo healer nini?😩
She will heal the day ebuyela back to BG..you can't fight an ex you claim to have no feelings for for 3 years ngeke usis wants ama love back and she's irritated because uBG has moved on and seems to be happy in his new relationship
@@sinenhlanhlabhengu7942 Right? Well I don’t necessarily think ufuna ama loveback, I think akakholwa and it makes her so mad ukuth uB.G is doing so well without her.
Heal how sana when that bull frog keeps popping up like constipated shit
Kusazoba busy kuma court ntoni guyz am telling you shame😂......l don't know who is suing who mara kuzoba ne traffic ku courts 😂😂😂😂
One thing about bringing your personal problems to the internet you will think you right bcoz they will tell you to speak your truth meanwhile they would never hang out their laundry to dry outside. Her and her ex are toxic they must just go for councelling and move on. For 3 years she's been dragging his fam and most people where laughing about it now its sour that Big speaks few bad things about her. The only thing i find it wrong was to speak about the child and to Owami as well was to swear at his mom that way. Other than that if she can dish she must be able swallow fullstop. She needs to privately heal, she has more than 2 years to speak her truth this is not healthy. Her channel is about her fighting. Peace is the new success. I like Owami thou but lets tell her the truth dont give 2cents about the other lady and i dont see any wrongs with that interview especially that they dont get along. Shes was'nt bad at all. Truth be told.
I'm always the bigger person but when it comes to my son I loose morals 💯....there I agree with sis O
With all the information you gave here. It was very easy to find the “house” and address. Property24,Parkhurst, 3.9 million??? 😭💔 this is getting out of hand
@@phutimadibana9224 greener pastures maybe?
Ur de 1 who gave us the information
Owamie how far are you willing to go for unyana wakho? Yonke lento is scary. Owamie must you come to every fight you are invited to?Mabizw asabele, they call you answer
Very scary, now if something happens to Promise, people will be pointing at Owamie, no man I don't like this at all.
😂😂😂
Being an aunt and being an actually mom who birthed the child is not the same thing. When you finally have yours one day you will understand that you are not a mom just coz you pay financially for him
I doubt she is only there financially...she loves that boy and some others have aunts who are very cruel towards them so...she is a good mom
@@nthatisidimema9084 It's not the same she is not a mom if you were one you would know.