It’s like you are talking about my ex husband. He would go fetch his daughter, leave her with me and go to groove. The last time he did it he even locked us in the house and came back around 7am. That was my last straw and I left for good that week. I will come share my story 1 day❤️
That's bastard Moghel 😂😂 I just was always scared of marriage until today and im 45 and dating a 53year old divorced man for 6 years now. It's working for us Oprah and Stagman vibes, I still freak out about marriage 😂😂😂
I think as women some of the behaviour that we accept and tolerante while dating is the exact behaviour that causes problems when married. We also need to accept our responsibility for this part.
Hello Queen Ninja,thank you for the wonderful episode..I was in a relationship with someone who would abuse me physically,emotionally and still Cheat on me and i still wanted to be married to him but God did not allow it to happen..I now thank God that i left that relationship.God Is Good All The Time..
My marriage ended there and there,,weekend getaway,,coming back home on sunday as if nothing happened and it was his first time,,to just vanish for a weekend, guess what on Monday i went straight to the divorce lawyer😢😢this things is not alright at all
True. There are women who are married but single. Deprives of the fun side of marriage and even sex while the husband is doing everything outside , having amazing sex outside and enjoying traveling with another. Please let's love ourselves . owning a certificate when hubbys heart, time and sex owned by the other woman is not marriage. U r being played . u r married to that piece of paper not the person
😢Mmmm i nearly lost my 46yrs old dauhter through marriage. She was hospitalized bcoz of derpression for 3weeks in hospital and when she came out she devorced and completed her degree. Now she bought a house and living a happy life with her two kids 25 nd 13
Ba bogadi a se ba genu shame😅 Learnt this the hard way myself, that time I considered and loved them the same way I love my own relatives😊 Their son is never wrong in their eyes shbubu, even if he's a serial cheat!
My ex narcissistic husband does this currently with the kids, drive straight go drop them at his cousin's place then they both refuse me access to my own kids, then I have to literally go to Police station and report them, he did it recently on the Father's day, he has never spent time with the kids never and his family side with him. I will never regret leaving that toxic marriage
I went through divorce, in the midst of it I lost my mom, in loosing my mom her family turned against me because of jealousy . Even their ants will gossip about me. I kept my distance in a broken heart, but with a belief that God will work out. I still believe in a miracle , gradually things are falling into place. I learned not to over share ,I learned to keep to myself . Things got better with Therapy
Hmm...🥃Divorce is a complex and multifaceted experience, not an end goal or achievement in itself. However, it's important to recognize that every situation is unique, and sometimes divorce may be the healthiest option for all parties involved, especially in cases of irreconcilable differences or when there are harmful circumstances present.
This matter right here really hits home 🏠 and I am at that stage where I am leaving with someone but leaving alone . Not married but been together 8 years . I broke the engagement and to be honest , it’s the best thing I did not wanting to marry this person. 😢
Just this other day. I was making my calculations of my marriage life, you know I cried over how God really loved me even bfr I knew Him. Becos for starters, God saved me from killing a person n get to jail, cos really, marriage life can turn you into a monster, a person that you really never was. 😢 I really can relate my baby. I guess I must be as old as your mom, but marriage hurts started ages back, but if you cnt endure nonsense you are never wired like that. We really thank the Love Of God upon us. That's the Greatest Love Of All
This woman reflects a lot about me 💖💖🥰 I’m too focused on getting myself a job, start with my career journey and be financial independent 💚💖🫰 I want to have my own money and live happily 😌
My story is very triggering 😭my in laws never loved me from the beginning’ I was comforted by the fact that hubby loved me until he had a glf that my mil took her in to stay with her😂 yati sometimes it feels unreal but then I still can’t get my mind to accept that drama
Akere marriage is an “achievement” used to flaunt over other women? Women marry walking red flags just for the sake of being Mrs validation only to become motivational speakers when it ends. It’s exhausting. Women need to prioritise and love themselves more. Being a wife is not the ultimate sign of achievement and happiness in life. Men don’t fuss and obsess over marriage and relationships the way women do
The biggest mistake that many people make is that of thinking that divorced women hate marriage! Yet I believe that married women can learn a lot from divorced women!
I want to tell my story but m still scared 😢and not yet financially stable.. My story is worser 😭😭he😭 even manipulate every divorce I've ever tried putting for years now!
There are times when I even think I should just give him his lobola bc bcos everybody is now thinking that he even educated me, meanwhile I had to work my way out n ended up with 2 degrees n a diploma. But today, I'm here, everybody regards me with respect n believe you me, my children hv grown up n trust me we are oceans apart bcos of divorce, that's sm of the results when one got married to an elite in the community. Everybody blames you forever.
Yah owami i must point out that am impressed with the way u do your work u improving language competence wise yoyr vocabulary etc its tops by the way am a language teacher u shifting levels continue dear 🎉🎉🎉🎉
What you are talking about it's very true we married women we are too embarrassed to talk about our marriage issues, it's a lot most of us we are not happy but in public we pretend to be okay. We are married but alone in that marriage
Ooh Nkosi yami Simphiwe love so much ,as young lady i wish one day i can meet her,she is beautiful and powerful❤,i know her from tiktok ,her words made me to reject that ring, coz things were wooow.
Love this queen Ninja❤❤. Wise words from a wise woman. She stayed focused 🤘all the way now she's living her wonderful life. I bet that 1 will try to find the husband and interview him🙄
The dad’s side of a family always doing deputy satans duties to women who are married to their son/relative….. Hayi fok!! Big ups to this type of content Owami, you’re doing great. Such an organic interview👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
itjooooo hle I'm not married mara 18 min 30 second I was that girl the family knew (nywirinywri makhoti Makhoti mxcim 😂😂😮)but I didnt know there was another steady..and I broke up noBafo because every word you said before 18 min was us !!! gas lighting bona disappearing acts ..sorry seems to be the hardest word...... jigijigi he wants to get married ...life is good ...whooooo ka molahla last week 😂😂😂🎉🎉 damn your story I dodged a bullet ... love you guys... ok let me carry on ... shap bafwethu
What an intelligent woman. Please please tell every woman what you said here, Education, education and education. Am investing more in my daughters education than my son because I would be broken to see my daughter in toxic relationship because she cant afford herself
We are still going to have a lot and lot of podcasts in our lifetime. The youth of today to be honest we are starting marriage on a wrong foot. We only want a marriage tittle we don't prepare for marriage. We refuse pre-marital counselling thinking we are too much in love and marriage is not a playground. The problems the guest is talking about you can easily see that there was no pre-marital counselling here. My dear youth please no matter how much you are in love with your partner, get pre-marital counseling first by your pastor and a professional marriage counsellor. And ladies avoid marrying groovists at all cost, they hardy change
I can 💯 agree with her that we really pretend in our marriages. Their families will always be like we are creating wrong character out of their son/brother. I have taught my friends never to tell me if they see him with a woman they should go confront him and let him know in future if your wife finds out I would not be the one and I would have warned you. This way it helps me not to stress and get worked out
Simps was married to a narcissistic boy who refused to grow up! Divorce is scary and so destructive, but sometimes it’s the necessary difficulty that you need to save your sanity and your life!
Your show is very interesting mam. Just try to interrupt your interviewe less and allow them to speak, and you should speak and ask questions when necessary🙏🏾🚶♀️
I literally couldn't finished this the interviwer interupt to much. Please see one interview off the shining light show it will help you alot on how to allow your guest to talk about their story without interrupting throughout the whole show
Yoh no. As women sithwele kanzima. I am in the same situation. Trying to empower myself so that I do not lack financially and that I can provide for my son well.
Eish life is unfair because we met wrong partners and pretending to be good yet they are destroying you emotionally...physically and spiritually and the in laws approve that cheating.....no peace of mind and eventually depression occurs 😂😂😂
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It’s like you are talking about my ex husband. He would go fetch his daughter, leave her with me and go to groove. The last time he did it he even locked us in the house and came back around 7am. That was my last straw and I left for good that week. I will come share my story 1 day❤️
What a pig! So sorry you had to go through that
They are so Selfish, Ungrateful and Entitlement mentality!
Yoh 😢
Hope you've healed ninja😢 thats really sad.
Can't wait
I love this lady man. She’s calm, intelligent and articulates herself so well. His loss
Very calm❤
I love this girl.She is so intelligent and inspirational.
My ex husband used to disappear for the whole weekend and come home in the morning hours of Monday..im happy he's out of my life..that bastard
😂😂😂😂😂It's the bastard for me
That's bastard Moghel 😂😂
I just was always scared of marriage until today and im 45 and dating a 53year old divorced man for 6 years now. It's working for us Oprah and Stagman vibes, I still freak out about marriage 😂😂😂
No one notices your sadness untill it builds up to anger, then you are labelled the bad person.
True
Very true
True and be labelled as "a bitter " women
Very true!
Very true
"Its like giving your husband a gun and hope he won't shoot you" yoh Owamie! 🔥🔥🔥
Owami has grown shem, the quality of questions she is asking... wow!!
Owamie your content on his channel is so necessary! Keep doing the Lord's work, you are called to do this.
I think as women some of the behaviour that we accept and tolerante while dating is the exact behaviour that causes problems when married. We also need to accept our responsibility for this part.
SAY IT. women will ignore all the red flags, when ish hits the fan, they blame the in-laws. You allow it, it becomes a habit
Owami has really good questions, she covers everything and leaves no crumbs!
Big up girl for encouraging women to go to school.I support you 100 percent
Hello Queen Ninja,thank you for the wonderful episode..I was in a relationship with someone who would abuse me physically,emotionally and still Cheat on me and i still wanted to be married to him but God did not allow it to happen..I now thank God that i left that relationship.God Is Good All The Time..
I think I’m in the same boat now
My marriage ended there and there,,weekend getaway,,coming back home on sunday as if nothing happened and it was his first time,,to just vanish for a weekend, guess what on Monday i went straight to the divorce lawyer😢😢this things is not alright at all
You're a very strong woman. I pray all women one day/eventually get the same determination.
I salute you dear, he messed around and found out💪
Hau
I'm really proud of your strength. You're a force to be reckoned with. You'll be okay ❤️❤️
@Ponchables Thanks cc,,we need to choose us first
True. There are women who are married but single. Deprives of the fun side of marriage and even sex while the husband is doing everything outside , having amazing sex outside and enjoying traveling with another. Please let's love ourselves . owning a certificate when hubbys heart, time and sex owned by the other woman is not marriage. U r being played . u r married to that piece of paper not the person
😢Mmmm i nearly lost my 46yrs old dauhter through marriage. She was hospitalized bcoz of derpression for 3weeks in hospital and when she came out she devorced and completed her degree. Now she bought a house and living a happy life with her two kids 25 nd 13
I was depressed and admitted and new that it was time to divorce
TJO MAMA WENA UR HOW MANY YEARS ?ON SOCIAL MEDIA WUU M NIT JUDGING
Is there age restrictions @@dorcramps6779d?
You're a good mother. Other's would have told their daughter to endure.
In marriage we pray read the Bible marriage is difficult without god
Ba bogadi a se ba genu shame😅 Learnt this the hard way myself, that time I considered and loved them the same way I love my own relatives😊 Their son is never wrong in their eyes shbubu, even if he's a serial cheat!
And they always know when their son is cheating.
@@kamogelokoloane5182 They definitely do majority of the time.
Batseba Se sengwe le Se seng ka ngwana bona ke Di friends le digirlfriend TSA ngwana bona
I never understand married men who leave their wives and go to groove, should there be a break in uthi who's supposed to protect your family 👀
So true, imagine coming back home and your wife, daughter and nanny were raped because you were at groove…
My ex narcissistic husband does this currently with the kids, drive straight go drop them at his cousin's place then they both refuse me access to my own kids, then I have to literally go to Police station and report them, he did it recently on the Father's day, he has never spent time with the kids never and his family side with him. I will never regret leaving that toxic marriage
How old are the kids
Hope this get better. This poor behaviour is encouraged and it’s very bad.
I love this lady from tiktok! So excited to watch
What is her name on ticktock
@@PanaNorBobo Empresssims0
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I have a sister in -law my brother will never bring another woman around me, I wouldn't care what his reasons were 😊
That’s why you are @brideofchrist 😂❤️
I believe you😊❤🎉 brideofchrist
Same, I would expose him immediately
I am that sister that nobody wants cause on God I'm exposing the truth idc
I went through divorce, in the midst of it I lost my mom, in loosing my mom her family turned against me because of jealousy . Even their ants will gossip about me. I kept my distance in a broken heart, but with a belief that God will work out. I still believe in a miracle , gradually things are falling into place. I learned not to over share ,I learned to keep to myself . Things got better with Therapy
😢Simphiwe u describing my marriage of 12 years with my ex. The pain, the humiliation, the mental abuse. Yooooh guys
Ncese oe ❤
I think we need to have a segment where you interview mothers-in-law... Hay ngekhe
😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂Dankie
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Futhi lento yokulwela abantwana bese bayoshiyiwa nama girfreinds and wives is pure nonsense 😢
Hmm...🥃Divorce is a complex and multifaceted experience, not an end goal or achievement in itself. However, it's important to recognize that every situation is unique, and sometimes divorce may be the healthiest option for all parties involved, especially in cases of irreconcilable differences or when there are harmful circumstances present.
You worded it perfectly
I really love how real she is and how she’s also acknowledging her flaws and part
This matter right here really hits home 🏠 and I am at that stage where I am leaving with someone but leaving alone . Not married but been together 8 years . I broke the engagement and to be honest , it’s the best thing I did not wanting to marry this person. 😢
Simphiwe is also such a great MU. Wish you all the best Sims, you are a beautiful lady and deserve all the happiness in the world.
Just this other day. I was making my calculations of my marriage life, you know I cried over how God really loved me even bfr I knew Him. Becos for starters, God saved me from killing a person n get to jail, cos really, marriage life can turn you into a monster, a person that you really never was. 😢 I really can relate my baby. I guess I must be as old as your mom, but marriage hurts started ages back, but if you cnt endure nonsense you are never wired like that. We really thank the Love Of God upon us. That's the Greatest Love Of All
This woman reflects a lot about me 💖💖🥰 I’m too focused on getting myself a job, start with my career journey and be financial independent 💚💖🫰 I want to have my own money and live happily 😌
The way im addicted to owamis page😢😢 i so wish I could meet you🥺❤️❤️❤️
My story is very triggering 😭my in laws never loved me from the beginning’ I was comforted by the fact that hubby loved me until he had a glf that my mil took her in to stay with her😂 yati sometimes it feels unreal but then I still can’t get my mind to accept that drama
When you are a follower and your people find their way to each other ❤.
The story had a potential, but it just wasn’t told well. I’m comparing it to all the other stories that were told in the this very same platform.
Congratulations 👏 my sister. You opened your eye 👀 and your wiseness to go out on that relationship
Akere marriage is an “achievement” used to flaunt over other women? Women marry walking red flags just for the sake of being Mrs validation only to become motivational speakers when it ends. It’s exhausting. Women need to prioritise and love themselves more. Being a wife is not the ultimate sign of achievement and happiness in life. Men don’t fuss and obsess over marriage and relationships the way women do
True.
😂😂This comment. Yoh violence ke my dhiye😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hao bathong😂😂
This is facts hey. And those who fail in marriage come back and say the same thing
Tell them wena chomi😂😂
Well done Owamie! You've done it again, queen. And to your guest, thank you for sharing your story. Very empowering!
The biggest mistake that many people make is that of thinking that divorced women hate marriage! Yet I believe that married women can learn a lot from divorced women!
I want to tell my story but m still scared 😢and not yet financially stable.. My story is worser 😭😭he😭 even manipulate every divorce I've ever tried putting for years now!
There are times when I even think I should just give him his lobola bc bcos everybody is now thinking that he even educated me, meanwhile I had to work my way out n ended up with 2 degrees n a diploma. But today, I'm here, everybody regards me with respect n believe you me, my children hv grown up n trust me we are oceans apart bcos of divorce, that's sm of the results when one got married to an elite in the community. Everybody blames you forever.
Ncooo sabonga ngo Yabona Nina 😂😂😂😂😂we love you big time csta,,thanks cc Owami🎉🎉
Wish our continent Africa had such wise women, then life would be good. You are everything Cc.🎉
Very wise woman....kudos to you for walking away.🎉🎉
I dey scream! Yes that’s the spirit let’s build and each other as woman!!
I leart a lot from her story but if she shared more I could've learned more
We here hunny ❤
Looking beautiful as always Ninja😍👌
Yah owami i must point out that am impressed with the way u do your work u improving language competence wise yoyr vocabulary etc its tops by the way am a language teacher u shifting levels continue dear 🎉🎉🎉🎉
& one thing about owami she will compliment her guests🥰🥰
Married but single i felt that😢😢😢
What you are talking about it's very true we married women we are too embarrassed to talk about our marriage issues, it's a lot most of us we are not happy but in public we pretend to be okay. We are married but alone in that marriage
Marking the register 1st😊
Present Ma'am.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Believe me, his family always knows
Ooh Nkosi yami Simphiwe love so much ,as young lady i wish one day i can meet her,she is beautiful and powerful❤,i know her from tiktok ,her words made me to reject that ring, coz things were wooow.
Love this queen Ninja❤❤. Wise words from a wise woman. She stayed focused 🤘all the way now she's living her wonderful life. I bet that 1 will try to find the husband and interview him🙄
🤣🤣🤣 I’m sure that one will 🙄
😂😂IYKYK
🤣🤣🤣🤣Promise.
@@vinoliadieketseng3940 🤣🤣🤣 🤣🤣
Ninja I love the green and white background please use it on both you and the guest
The dad’s side of a family always doing deputy satans duties to women who are married to their son/relative….. Hayi fok!!
Big ups to this type of content Owami, you’re doing great. Such an organic interview👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Deputy satans 😂😂😂😂. You made me laugh while I was crying. This lady's story is trigger for me because I went through the same thing.
@@maytshifularo5415 They are😂😂😂😂 I’m glad I put a laugh in your emotions, I hope you’re ok from whatever that made you cried❤️
Congratulations Ninja on this new edition 🎉🎉🎉
Love the intro,Owamie you are really doing the lord’s work
Well done cc
Sound is perfect and the pictures 🎉😊❤
Thank you ninja, this was great but also felt so short
The way I clicked so fast. Send our love to her.
Wow...she's so well spoken, and she narrated her story so well.
Thank you for your story, Mama❤.
Great conversation ❤ watching from Zambia 🇿🇲
Girl let me start with your video and sound quality👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽. Thank you for bringing this guest, a lot has been covered. I have learned ❤
Sober counsel! Thank you for being open and frank. Take accountability!
Nyala onyele 😭
😂😂In happy's voice
Her Majesty is that you?😂
Loving the intro 🎉🎉🎉❤
Let's go Queen ! Deputy Ninja signing the F in.
Yaaaassssss Shbooboo!!!!
@cordeliafakude2908 Ninja's Gang gang gang, and that's on period!
itjooooo hle I'm not married mara 18 min 30 second I was that girl the family knew (nywirinywri makhoti Makhoti mxcim 😂😂😮)but I didnt know there was another steady..and I broke up noBafo because every word you said before 18 min was us !!! gas lighting bona disappearing acts ..sorry seems to be the hardest word...... jigijigi he wants to get married ...life is good ...whooooo ka molahla last week 😂😂😂🎉🎉 damn your story I dodged a bullet ... love you guys... ok let me carry on ... shap bafwethu
sign in Queen ninja 🎉
The danger of a victim is built for a long time in the cycle of domestic violence
I loved this and enjoyed it. Thank u Owamie and your guest.
I really understand pple who throw a Divorce Party.
It’s like she is telling my story, only mine has more sad episodes
I just need to gain courage to contact you ninja…❤
This is so relatable to most women, great sheroes on one video.❤❤❤❤❤❤
What an intelligent woman. Please please tell every woman what you said here, Education, education and education. Am investing more in my daughters education than my son because I would be broken to see my daughter in toxic relationship because she cant afford herself
Loving the intro ❤
"Foundation was not sticking on my skin"😂😂 Owamie nenzani lapho emshadweni
😂😂😂😂
I'm glad I came across this interview. I follow her. Love her content too.. Now I fully understand her content background.
Ninja definitely signing in, honey❤️Silaphangoku🥰
Beautiful episode, I have seen this lady on tick-tock. Lovely to hear her story. May God bless her
i wish u asked more questions there is so much left out . this story was just a summary
We are still going to have a lot and lot of podcasts in our lifetime. The youth of today to be honest we are starting marriage on a wrong foot. We only want a marriage tittle we don't prepare for marriage. We refuse pre-marital counselling thinking we are too much in love and marriage is not a playground. The problems the guest is talking about you can easily see that there was no pre-marital counselling here.
My dear youth please no matter how much you are in love with your partner, get pre-marital counseling first by your pastor and a professional marriage counsellor. And ladies avoid marrying groovists at all cost, they hardy change
I can 💯 agree with her that we really pretend in our marriages. Their families will always be like we are creating wrong character out of their son/brother. I have taught my friends never to tell me if they see him with a woman they should go confront him and let him know in future if your wife finds out I would not be the one and I would have warned you. This way it helps me not to stress and get worked out
MaEeeh. Sims my absolute favourite ❤❤❤❤
This episode was incredible. I love that it was dialogue, not entirely, an interview ❤
Definitely one of my favourite interviews.❤
Simphiwe is such a grounded lady. This guy lost a good woman.
Say tht again ❤
Simps was married to a narcissistic boy who refused to grow up! Divorce is scary and so destructive, but sometimes it’s the necessary difficulty that you need to save your sanity and your life!
Your show is very interesting mam. Just try to interrupt your interviewe less and allow them to speak, and you should speak and ask questions when necessary🙏🏾🚶♀️
I literally couldn't finished this the interviwer interupt to much. Please see one interview off the shining light show it will help you alot on how to allow your guest to talk about their story without interrupting throughout the whole show
Owamie loves the stop light
Hi owami. Love your work sesi so much. Keep up the good work. I wish we can hear from men on why are they hurting us like this.
This Woman is still Hurt.. The eyes donr lie. Wish her nothing but healing
Your interviewing skills are really good Owamie❤ love your content
This is so relatable..
I love this interview ❤resonate with my current situation
Happy birthday 🎊. Dope intro☺️
The way our husband's treats us it's like marriage is for the stupid women,I'm on deppression medicine because I'm trying to be strong 😢
Yoh no. As women sithwele kanzima. I am in the same situation. Trying to empower myself so that I do not lack financially and that I can provide for my son well.
I like how she is also accountable of her contribution.
Eish life is unfair because we met wrong partners and pretending to be good yet they are destroying you emotionally...physically and spiritually and the in laws approve that cheating.....no peace of mind and eventually depression occurs 😂😂😂
Looking Gorgeous Owamie 😍😍❤