Guys before you marry a person,make sure you visit their family and not with the intention of charming them and proving to them how best makoti you can be. Your intention should be to study them, check their interaction and conversations. There is a lot you can learn before you decide to move on with marrying in the family. Just know that their son is one of them. He can look like he is different and better than his fam, but just know he shares the blood with them.
Ausi that thing doesn't always work, because as a girlfriend they will play nice. You just need to make sure you study your partner and don't ignore red flags. Marriage doesn't fix a person. Problem here is that, she ignored bad behaviour and thought they will change eventually. Owamie was probably desperate for love to a point of accomodating everything because of her issues with father and no mother to find comfort in.
@@malebs8332 problem here is I did the same mistake of what I am talking about. Malebs, some of the red flags come in the form of his interaction with his family that you ignore. My ex hubby, used to have so much anger towards his mom. He was the sweetest person but the minute his mom tick him of the wrong way, it was the only time he would show rage. I hear you my love and that is why I stress that when we are introduced to families, we should not always want to play nice and be aiming only to charm the clan, we need to study the clan while playing nice. We need to open our eyes. I am not saying this to put blame on us who failed to get signals. I am just advising those who will still be going through that road. i really wish someone had said something like that, I don't know if I would listen though because wow, women in love 🙌🙌🙌
This ex mother inlaw sounds like she played a very big role in making owamie who she is today …. She taught you how to talk and gossip about people when you’re u guys sat under that tree 😅… you gotta give her that credit 😂today you are a very good gossiper my ninja
Isikigi sichithwa ekuseni, amanzi okugeza as soon as you done achithe, especially emzini wabantu. Don’t kipita and be a burden.... young son was not spoiled. You can’t be expected to leave your room coz ubhuti unentombi.
It's him wanting to play hero to you by carrying your bath water and the chamber and playing victim to his mom that he is abused . Dude pick a side🤣yhoh ha.a
I always get SHOCKED at how people can fabricate lies and say you said something/did something when you didn't at all. Like what was going on in your head when you thought and thought about creating lies? Why na? Yho ha.a guys
iyoo they put you through a lot. your former parents-in-law are dramatic. why was the dad-in-law always addressing issues (instead of mom in law) , hee bathong
Correct me if I'm wrong Owamie, I've been a ninja for some time now. You used to say that your ex is into IT and you never mentioned that he is a teacher. Is there a reason why you couldn't say that he is a teacher?
U get teachers who graduated i other degrees outside of teaching then just go do that one year course to qualify as an educator i think its called PSG or something
Queen Ninja I am listening to your story and its exactly the same as my marriage. My mother in law used to swear at me all the time and played victim after. I spent my whole salary on that family and got nothing at the end of the month because that was the only time they would be happy. My husband used to sit and watch while I was abused that family. Thank God I made it out. Mind u I was only 18 when I got married. Yhoooooo I almost went crazy there.
She eloped after her mother's passing... She was a nursing student at the time. (Something about her father kicked her and the sister's out from their home) Above all I think she married out of love. Nothing more, even paid for her own lobola later on . 😉
My biggest worry in this story is why we’re they poor if the father is a nurse. For a village like places they should be balling coz cost of living is low. The father has something to tell us
My thoughts exactly, I think he had another woman n realised he’s wife was stupid hence he was not permanently in that house, if he had another woman I wouldn’t blame him, from the stories Owami has shared that woman was DRAINING chiiilllllee 🤣🤣🤣 I’m convinced that man lived a double life 🤣
He obviously has another woman where he lived, And he left the village dummy, to enjoy that unplumbed house. That is why he didn't want her working or watching TV, she'd soon realize her life was below average
If they hate you,they hate you my sister.The bad part is while you are still investing in them innocently,thinking they are family,the pretense wil shock u.Ladies must do thorough background check b4 they commit I tell you. But this story z such an eye opener to all the young girls out there.
This is why living with inlaws is a no no. I would rather go home then he can go home we will visit each other. But I must say I am blessed in the husband department coz my hubby stands up for me coz some abo mamazala are just rude and like to throw their weight around when you are in their house.
Owamie said "I suffered myself yooo". That was too funny...but not funny. Life be lifing out here. A life of non-stop meetings and kangaroo courts with in-laws is just not on. That is ABUSE.
Yoh I went on a roller-coaster trip of emotions watching this story time . Yoh ay life iskorokoro shame . Im So happy you came out of this whole situation. May you continue to prosper and build yourself up
Any man who weds you knowing very well he can’t provide and financially protect you and the possible kids you will have, is taking you for a stupid fool. A work horse a donkey that will struggle with him and his family. Never fall for it. Getting married as a man means you are a head of household who expects submission and respect which means you must provide and creat a legacy for those submitting to you. Stop being desperate ladies. There’s no reward for struggle love and hardship in relationships and marriage.
@@G.DD3SS definitely, but they don’t want to here that though. Marriage is such a big “achievement” for most women they jump straight into struggle situations with broke toxic men who still don’t even have enough appreciation for your choice to struggle with him 😂, they still cheat and they still allow their impoverished family to take advantage of you and disrespect you. Never!!
Guys before you marry a person,make sure you visit their family and not with the intention of charming them and proving to them how best makoti you can be. Your intention should be to study them, check their interaction and conversations. There is a lot you can learn before you decide to move on with marrying in the family. Just know that their son is one of them. He can look like he is different and better than his fam, but just know he shares the blood with them.
Ausi that thing doesn't always work, because as a girlfriend they will play nice. You just need to make sure you study your partner and don't ignore red flags. Marriage doesn't fix a person. Problem here is that, she ignored bad behaviour and thought they will change eventually. Owamie was probably desperate for love to a point of accomodating everything because of her issues with father and no mother to find comfort in.
@@malebs8332 problem here is I did the same mistake of what I am talking about. Malebs, some of the red flags come in the form of his interaction with his family that you ignore. My ex hubby, used to have so much anger towards his mom. He was the sweetest person but the minute his mom tick him of the wrong way, it was the only time he would show rage. I hear you my love and that is why I stress that when we are introduced to families, we should not always want to play nice and be aiming only to charm the clan, we need to study the clan while playing nice. We need to open our eyes. I am not saying this to put blame on us who failed to get signals. I am just advising those who will still be going through that road. i really wish someone had said something like that, I don't know if I would listen though because wow, women in love 🙌🙌🙌
I once had a friend from Lesotho she used to say that to me
Good advice right there,I love them ninjas.
This ex mother inlaw sounds like she played a very big role in making owamie who she is today …. She taught you how to talk and gossip about people when you’re u guys sat under that tree 😅… you gotta give her that credit 😂today you are a very good gossiper my ninja
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣I never expected it😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I love how much you have healed ❤️🥺😂😂 it’s beautiful to sit and laugh about the past😂
I LOOOOOVE your story times! We need more!!!
Please
Listening to this story is draining me. I can only imagine how much it was draining for the person who was actually going through it. 😩
Yoooh! It's stories like this that makes me grateful that my impatience literally overpowers anything, it's like I shut down then it takes over.😑
@@queenm2723 💯💯💯 saves you from a lot.
@@queenm2723 Ngingaphuma ngathi ngiyebuya, ngishiye amasimba omuntu eDubhayi!
The pills part😂😂😂😂😂 this woman was an actress🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hawemaaaa ngihleke I’m in ICU about to die right now 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lmao😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I’m so dead
I can relate to so many aspects of your story 🤕 .. Thank God for moving on and Healing 🙏🏾
😂😂😂😂😂 it's the mother in law rotating with the sun the whole day for me. Tendencies zo mama osile😅😅😅
i enjoy these life lessons story times and your hair is so nice queen ninja
Gal you've been through a lot,God will really bless you,you were trained for a good life
Yoh imagine your mother in law saying "we can go outside and fight" 😂😂😂😂😂😂
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Wow! I had no idea you’re left-handed, ninja!❤
I enjoyed this story time😂😂 u should definitely do another one.. Shem you been through the most ay.
Yoh Njnja your BIGGEST win in this life is leaving that family!!💯
😂😂😂I wish we could record our comments. The taking pills part wants to eliminate me😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
We always need a part2
Thanks for sharing your story with us - enjoyed watching this. Yeah no, you have been through it shame. 🌟
Can we have part 2 please, I'm so invested in this tea chiiii
Your hair grows so fast. Amazing
Isikigi sichithwa ekuseni, amanzi okugeza as soon as you done achithe, especially emzini wabantu. Don’t kipita and be a burden.... young son was not spoiled. You can’t be expected to leave your room coz ubhuti unentombi.
Owamie, loving the glow 😊😊😊😊😊you look so beautiful. The makeup 👏👏👏👏👏
Please keep these stories coming, I enjoy them so much
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂gal u are the best story teller in the history of story tellers kore i laugh so hard when u even demonstrate how she cried
You've been through a lot my Queen Ninja I can't wait for part 2...3..&4🤣🤣
28:27 😭😭😭😭😭I’m laughing I can’t breathe. Your story telling👌
“What have I ever done to you?” 😭😭🤣🤣
Not you drawing chile😭😂😂👏🏾☕
Yoh Owamie bosejele mosi wena, staying with the in laws is a no no
Owamie, you're looking STUNNNG. 👌🏾😍
Wow, my Ninja! 😘🤍
Thank you for sharing your life experiences as Makoti 💕 😉.
Koti, it is your Zulu for me 😂😂😂😂
Please don’t kill me ka the pills part 😂😂💔 yoh dead
You're a glowing ninja 🔥👌❤️🔥❣️
Did you try to encourage him ku build at home the time things where good between the two of you?
As for let’s go out fight😂😂😂😂😂 shuuuu it was a lot
Yho you’ve been through it kodwa Ninja 😬
Part 2 pls 😳😄
some people stay hey just for umshado.... look at beautiful and happy you are now
Ninja I really enjoyed this story time ,but you forgot to link the video you made when you had moved into the two bedroom ?
Mina Owami I really enjoy your story times more 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
The story times are actually better than the entertainment gossip
Ninja your father had two wives please tell us how you grew up with you other father's children.
Please do more storytimes Ninja ❤️
Yhoo ninja nna I live for these stories shem 😳
Pill part looooool
We need a part 2,3,4 etc🤣😂💯
We need part 2 bathong.. Yhooo Ur mother in-law was something else..
I cnt stop looking at ur neck matching ur face waaaw❤
Part 2 please
So much Drama u went through queen ninja 😂😂😂
Part two please 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Interesting story times
Its sad but the way Owami tells these stories yoh its funny 💀😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂We suffer resale ba banyane
It's him wanting to play hero to you by carrying your bath water and the chamber and playing victim to his mom that he is abused . Dude pick a side🤣yhoh ha.a
that part of the mother inlaw drinking pills and you just watching, i would've done the same thing sham. 🤣 she was so manipulative so disguesting 🤮
I always get SHOCKED at how people can fabricate lies and say you said something/did something when you didn't at all. Like what was going on in your head when you thought and thought about creating lies? Why na? Yho ha.a guys
I need part 2 of this story time
Part 2 please and start the part 2 with a repetition of the pills part 😂😂 ka dlala but part 2 please
Prt2 pls
Bathong as for taking pills in front of you😂😂Owamie o di bone mo life'eng shem😂😂😂
They were willing to sleep in the dining area for yall??oh wow
Yess part two please
Kgale odi bona shame…
Your Hair Ninja 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
Definitely part 2...yho the pills part🤣🤣🤣🤣psycho xeim lo mama
Mother in law was crazy xeim🤣🤣😂😂😂asoze mntakabawo
Been waiting for this🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lool it’s mother in- law taking pills for me😹😹😹 how manipulative and dramatic jonga uke wayiphila I- movie Owamie😂😂😂😂
Oh yes I am very much interested 🥰
Mi mother inlaw does that, just sit 🪑 & bad mouth ppl passing her 🏠. Nothing positive comes from her 👄
Not the mamezala acting like she's dying looooool....usathana wamama
Part 2 please 👏🏼👏🏼💪💪💪
Imagine roaches traveling with Wami from Venda😂😂😂
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Oh my goodness 😳 Asoze kaloku 😂😂😂😂
Your story times are the best,in my culture a Makoti is also not allowed to sleep at their inlaws bedroom. .
Ninja I am here for ngosi
We need part 2
Not the pills sana😩😂😂
Living with inlaws!
iyoo they put you through a lot. your former parents-in-law are dramatic. why was the dad-in-law always addressing issues (instead of mom in law) , hee bathong
😂😂😂🤣🤣 Your ex mother in law was a drama queen
Correct me if I'm wrong Owamie, I've been a ninja for some time now. You used to say that your ex is into IT and you never mentioned that he is a teacher. Is there a reason why you couldn't say that he is a teacher?
She mentioned it several times in her previous story times
She mentioned it countless times
U get teachers who graduated i other degrees outside of teaching then just go do that one year course to qualify as an educator i think its called PSG or something
She has said he was a teacher several times. In one of her story times, she said he even lied on her to the Head Teacher.
@@NdlovukaziFab its the same as u studying chemistry but ending up in logistics whats difficult to understand
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣protect Thembuluwo at all costs. Best story time in the history of all story times
Queen Ninja I am listening to your story and its exactly the same as my marriage. My mother in law used to swear at me all the time and played victim after. I spent my whole salary on that family and got nothing at the end of the month because that was the only time they would be happy. My husband used to sit and watch while I was abused that family. Thank God I made it out. Mind u I was only 18 when I got married. Yhoooooo I almost went crazy there.
Story of my life even though I am not married my baby daddy's family
Part 2 please
😂 mother in-law said " catch me outside how bout that "😂 please we need part 2
Lol Just Katleho 👀😂
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😆 that's what came to my mind and I scrome "cash me outside how bout dat"
Imagine if you had stayed home and not worked...where would you be right now. You are smart woman Owami
Were you kicked out at home?, can we get a story time on how and why you left home?
I also wanna know
She eloped after her mother's passing... She was a nursing student at the time. (Something about her father kicked her and the sister's out from their home)
Above all I think she married out of love. Nothing more, even paid for her own lobola later on . 😉
One thing about HURT it's REAL to the person who has experienced it‼️ sometimes you even wonder how you made it out
My biggest worry in this story is why we’re they poor if the father is a nurse. For a village like places they should be balling coz cost of living is low. The father has something to tell us
My thoughts two
My thoughts exactly, I think he had another woman n realised he’s wife was stupid hence he was not permanently in that house, if he had another woman I wouldn’t blame him, from the stories Owami has shared that woman was DRAINING chiiilllllee 🤣🤣🤣 I’m convinced that man lived a double life 🤣
He obviously has another woman where he lived, And he left the village dummy, to enjoy that unplumbed house. That is why he didn't want her working or watching TV, she'd soon realize her life was below average
This story time proves that no matter what you do, or buy for your inlaw if they hate you they hate you
If they hate you,they hate you my sister.The bad part is while you are still investing in them innocently,thinking they are family,the pretense wil shock u.Ladies must do thorough background check b4 they commit I tell you.
But this story z such an eye opener to all the young girls out there.
I enjoyed this video Owami, Please post more stories....You have suffered yoh💔 glad you're pushing P and living your best life ❤
Ninja u are an amazing story teller we need a book nd part 2 pls, love your story times♡♡♡!
Haiboooo 😂It was your exs mum taking pills part for me
😂😂😂😂😂😂 it’s the pills for me
You saw things Yoh…
This is why living with inlaws is a no no. I would rather go home then he can go home we will visit each other. But I must say I am blessed in the husband department coz my hubby stands up for me coz some abo mamazala are just rude and like to throw their weight around when you are in their house.
Getting married to a struggling man with no vission and no means to protect and provide for you as the woman submitting to him is the bigger no no.
I agree coz if he is broke and asking for maroko from the parents it kinda makes it difficult for him to stand up to them.
Owamie said "I suffered myself yooo". That was too funny...but not funny. Life be lifing out here.
A life of non-stop meetings and kangaroo courts with in-laws is just not on. That is ABUSE.
Yoh I went on a roller-coaster trip of emotions watching this story time . Yoh ay life iskorokoro shame . Im So happy you came out of this whole situation. May you continue to prosper and build yourself up
Ma'am you even brought a notepad for demonstration and stuff 😂
You were living a fotsek of a life
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Part two please of a 2room backroom❤️❤️❤️😂😂
Lol uthanda indaba ninja
Owami? This hair style suits you girl, you look beautfull👌
Any man who weds you knowing very well he can’t provide and financially protect you and the possible kids you will have, is taking you for a stupid fool. A work horse a donkey that will struggle with him and his family. Never fall for it. Getting married as a man means you are a head of household who expects submission and respect which means you must provide and creat a legacy for those submitting to you. Stop being desperate ladies. There’s no reward for struggle love and hardship in relationships and marriage.
True. Never marry a man whose not prepared for marriage. That preparedness includes finances.
@@G.DD3SS definitely, but they don’t want to here that though. Marriage is such a big “achievement” for most women they jump straight into struggle situations with broke toxic men who still don’t even have enough appreciation for your choice to struggle with him 😂, they still cheat and they still allow their impoverished family to take advantage of you and disrespect you. Never!!
But is it all worth it mara😭😭I would personally not share this😔
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