dude its a common error all he said was "i dont like him" "i dont wanna go and etc. the mother thought the program was best for him because she trusted the adult just like parents do with schools in after school programs. she cant tell what her child is going through just by him saying that so stop blaming the mom she didnt and never purposely ignored her child
@@militarycrosssans6983 but she didnt even ask why. She just brushed off her own child. I would be interested what happened, cause at first he liked it. Also it happened twice. I think people have reasons for blaming her.
@@tochkakipeniya1978 and i think people need to think that not everyone is the same. she didnt get his secretive hints. how in the heck would she know why she would think he didnt like it because he is being forced to engaged in activities thinking her child is safe she thought that is what he is meaning. i never said the mother wasnt in the wrong
@@militarycrosssans6983 the fuck she thought, from what was that thoughts!? Maybe molesters thinks that their victims like it too, thats why they dont ask for a permission, so all of them are good now. Dont freaking choose by yourself what feel another person. ASK! Especially when its your child. If you care ofc.
It's definitely not okay that his mom didn't take it seriously. I look forward to a world where adults take time to fully understand kids who call out for help. Because it's so difficult to most of them, it should never be taken too lightly.
@Young TH-camr now, I'm not critiquing you, but that doesn't really help the mom understand what's going on. This is a case where the police should maybe be involved. If he just stopped seeing Pete because he was stubborn, Pete would likely just continue with it.
He didn't tell the mom charlie was touching him inappropriately. He just said he didn't wanna go and that it was boring, so naturally the mom would think he's trying to avoid it because he just didn't want to, plus the mom probably makes him go because she's busy during that time. It's not the moms fault, and after charlies friends mom told charlies mom, she finally understood better.
Yeah but you gotta be careful because kids sometimes misunderstand or say things the wrong way and nobody wants to get an innocent person into trouble believing that it was sexual abuse. I wouldn’t want to misread the situation and hurt someone who’s possibly innocent. People lie. Even kids.
@@blackqweenmars I know that, and I'm not trying to say you should just believe what kids are saying. Just that people should take time to listen to what the they experienced. Then the adult can define whether or not it was sexual abuse. And contact the police if necessary. It's okay for the mom to think that maybe he's just overreacting. What's not okay is when she's just assuming he is, and not asking for more information regarding Pete, and pointing out what the boy is really accusing him of.
Military Cross Sans first of all watch your mouth! 2nd he told her that he didn’t want to go to group because someone made him do things he didn’t want to do! So you rewatch it
@@dfwuleelee4319 1st of all i can say what the hell i want ur not my parent or boss besides ur not the owner of youtube either i can say and or do what i want 2. literally every kid can say "they make me do things i dont wanna do" the parents are thinking the person is forcing the kid to be in activities because they trust their child is safe so clearly as i said u need to rewatch it cause the guy literally said he disguised what was happening so the mother didnt know her child was in danger
Military Cross Sans okay but she should’ve asked him what he was making him do and I never said I was your parent or the owner of TH-cam you dumbass and why you coming at me when there are other people in the comment section with the same opinion as me so go yell at everyone else in this comment section
His mom said “You might hurt his feelings” Boys mom is the enabler. Abusers #1 gateway is a neglectful parent. The mom is more worried about someones else’s feeling than her own sons💔
But he was vague with it. “He forces me to do things I don’t want to do” might just be him saying that Pete was encouraging to participate in group activities that he considered boring. We know what’s happening of course but she doesn’t. I would examine the situation more before I accuse anyone. Kids sometimes misunderstand things or lie to get people into trouble. I’ve had kids say that I said things I didn’t before.
i cant really blame her, the whole point is that you cant be vague with someone in situations like that, you need to be straight and say you're being abused
L Charlie's Mom W Carlos' Mom I hate how some adults cannot understand a cry for help from a child, as a simple as a "it's boring I don't like it" sounds..it's like a siren to them. Kids don't fully understand what to do in a situation like that which is why adults must be alert when their kid feels uneasy about someone or something.
For some parents, things like a youth group/afterschool clubs are necessary for reasons like work. Parents won't stop if they're kid says something ambiguous like "its boring," but, at least every decent parent, would stop if the kid says something like "person x is making me touch them" or "person x is touching me"
@@sv_du Yeah but tone and how many times they repeat it should be alarming itself, some kids will not say specifically whats going on because they fear they will get in trouble for doing so or fear theyll get that person in trouble.
Ok, but its a youth group, and a lot of kids don't like that stuff. So, him saying that its boring is really not a subtle cry for help in other people's eyes
I don't have an abusive mother. But she is just so ignorant that i had to try and calm my younger brother down myself about we had issues with things that we had no help with shit. Having often mental breakdowns sucks. Always feeling alone. Trying to calm my brother down was not plesant. I do NOT understand people who want abuse. 😔😔😔😭
Random Unknown Person it’s not a masochist dumbass. masochists like the be hurt during sexual encounters. people who want to or wish they were abused are attention seekers. they want a reason for people to care about and notice them.
Random Unknown Person Lol, fine. idk why you'd wanna use autism in a way that is no help whatsoever to what you're trying to say. I honestly dunno why ppl who do this exist at this point-
I’m glad you were there for him. Your mom sucks and she shouldn’t have been neglectful. Because that’s a form of abuse. You helped your brother with abuse and many kids don’t even have a sibling to help them. Be proud of yourself.
When I saw 2:06 His reflection in he window was speaking up bit in the real life he kept his mouth closed. That was what he wanted to do and what he was doing
If A child has a sudden disdain toward someone and tells you this person makes them do things they don't want to, that's a massive red flag you should never ignore.
Told my mum my sister touched me inappropriately first time it happened. "I'll SPEAK to her" it didn't even do anything to help and then I told my dad. "She's not molesting you, get over it" I tried to tell and I couldn't. My parents are no longer my parents in my eyes. And my sister is not my family.
Shame how his own mom failed at protecting him. When a child says that someone makes them uncomfortable, no matter what it is, they shouldn't just brush it off.
Is the Mom a bad person? No. Like Darrius said, she WAS glad she found out about and understood the abuse her son was going through. But is she wrong for not asking more questions about why her son didn’t want to go? Yes. If she dug deeper, and tried to find more information on why her son was being avoidant, she could’ve potentially stopped the abuse sooner. Always be curious folks.
If I was the mom: Charlie: it's because pete makes me do things I don't want to do... and I don't want to see him anymore... Me: Well... what does he make you do exactly? Charlie: I'm uh... I'm very scared to say... Me: Sweetie, you can tell me anything. I promise I wont be angry at you, because if pete is doing something bad to you then I need to sort it out. Because I'm your mother and I love you. Or if Charlie first said "I dont wanna go anymore. It was boring." I would say "Is something going on there that's bothering you? Is someone not being very nice and upsetting you?"
Well if her son said she didn't want to be around a guy anymore and he didn't want to go back to that camp she should have listened and there must have been some red flag that she failed to recognize
My grandfather on my dad's side did very hamulating things to me when I was a kid and teenager growing up and then he molested me and I had to go in serious detail with lawyers in order to make him face justice but I could face him in court because I was so frightened and terrified but thankfully I didn't because he confessed. I've suffered nightmares ever since on and off and I have PTSD.
My parents abused My dads asian Moms british They separated My mom sexually abused me And my dad put me in a hospital at 16 for no reason saying i was "sick". Well boo hoo Pray 1 day I will B a strong Woman and mother unlike ma mum.
BearFingerz If it’s appropriate, like washing you, or helping you put on clothes. Although I don’t know why a mom would do that when they’re not below the age of 8. If anyone is touching you, and is making you uncomfortable, that’s not okay. Doesn’t matter if it’s a parent or not, if it’s inappropriate, they should stop.
This is pretty much what happened to me. I told my mom I didn't want to be around my friend's dad. She asked why and I told her a half truth. I said he just makes me a tiny bit uncomfortable when he hugs me so much. She stressed to me how important it was to tell her if anything else was going on, but I said that was all. I told her enough that he wouldn't get in trouble but maybe I wouldn't have to see him so much. I'd rather do everything I could to avoid him than actually tell the truth. I'm glad videos like this are made to help teach kids how to deal with this kind of thing.
Sorry, I can understand that that must have been hard for you. But at one point you should have told the whole truth. Cause by not telling, you give your friends dad the opportunity, to do it to other kids too. Maybe even his own kids.
@@jasminschmalzl9734 Yeah I should have. I wish I had, but I was 11 and I didn't want him to get in trouble. Luckily there were different aspects of the situation that made me almost 100% sure he wasn't hurting the daughter. I do understand though that there's no way I could have been fully sure, and it wasn't the right thing not to tell. I still wonder today if he is still hurting people in Portugal because I didn't tell sooner. At least now that I'm older I know better and have told the police what happened. I didn't mean to imply in my comment that I did the right thing, or that this is what other kids should do as well if they're in trouble, so sorry if I made it sound that way.
Mothers and fathers are just regular humans we don't have mind reading abilities so it is some times hard to know what your child means if they don't talk about it. You see your child's behavior has changed but if they don't want to or can't talk about what is going on you can't use a crowbar to open some one up all you can do is to be patient and try to figure out what is up with your child. If you are being abused tell your mom or your dad or a friend even straight up what is going on feel no shame because it is NEVER your fault as a child or as a teenager.
Kids aren’t responsible for telling the whole story, the parents are responsible for seeing what’s wrong Them not wanting to go anymore is reason enough.
I’ve luckily never been abused, but I want to say this: If you, a friend, a relative, and more are getting abused in any way, please tell somebody you trust. Abuse in any way is NOT ok.
i hope that if some one ever comes to you you listen. its the hardest thing in the world to speak up. its truely terrifying. there are no words to put together when it comes to the fear and terror that runs through a person even from the memories of what happened. i still deal with physical pain from the sexual abuse i live through.
For situations like these it's important to find these clues and help your child give more detail, even if it seems like everything’s safe and perfect and sounds like it’s out of laziness. It’s only causing more damage to your child to leave it to him or her to add their story detail where once the nasty memories are out the kid then breaks down which in this case he’s afraid to do and doesn’t want to talk about it. So there’s not only sexual abuse caused by the coach here (which I’m not sure how he’s permitted and trusted to work around minors since this has obviously happened before) but also neglect from his mother for not using enough brain cells to communicate with her son more to ensure he’s not being harmed everyone should know that it’s wrong to be so dismissive towards a child in this way this is a lot of stress added to the trauma of a situation that no child should ever have to face. So for god sake help them!
It's sad when your parents don't believe you when you say those things to them, when I told my mother I was abused, she didn't believe me and she actually blamed me. If anyone goes through the same situation, I'm here to help go through the same situation, I'm here to help you.
No child should have to go through that! No one should go through that! Telling is the second hardest part of it all, and I apologize to anyone who has gone through something like that.
I know what this was like. I remember my grandma telling me that when I mentioned what happened I referred to it as "him tickling me weird", instead of saying what it really was(but to be honest I didn't know what sexual touches and sex actually was, I just knew that I was uncomfortable). That is until my 6th grade class showed a video about a young boy dealing with an older men trying to touch him inappropriately, how we shouldn't let it happen, and how we should speak up about it. That was when I knew that I needed to speak up about what was happening.
It breaks my heart knowing this kind of stuff happens to kids. My son is the most precious thing in my life and if he ever comes to me and says something like this happened to him I'm ripping several heads off
Man these psa are kind of addictive to watch I almost watched every video because these are realistic and inform about real life thing that happen to people
Oh my gosh, can you guys stop talking about how she didn't take the hint? He said he just thought it was boring, and didn't wanna go, but she saw nothing truly wrong with that. Had he told her that "Hey, Pete did some gross things with me, I don't wanna go!", she would've beaten Pete up and apologized for ever letting him go there. Might even call the cops, too. He didn't specify because he didn't wanna remember the pain. Most victims feel like this, too. Helpless and scared. So no, she couldn't take a hint. He specified to Carlos's mom, who then told his mom.
Exactly why this video was made, to educate kids and parents on how to communicate. Parents watching this will take note that a kid not wanting to go may not just be moody or bored or any of the other typical reasons they don't want to go. Parents don't always know what signs to look out for and that's why videos like this are important--to help both the parent and the child. I mean, look up Gary Plauche. He ignored signs that may be obvious today, but things were different in 1982 and he didn't know what we know now. His son was thankfully rescued and rehabilitated, and Gary, feeling broken and guilty, put a bullet in the abuser's head. He clearly loved his son and never wanted anything to happen to him, like any sane parent. DON'T DEPRICATE--EDUCATE!!!
If i was Charlie's mother, i would say to him "What does Pete make you do exactly? You can tell me Charlie, im your mother. If something bothering you, it's my job to understand what's happening to my son and then make it right" in a way to make sure Charlie has courage to explain in a more understood way
Telling someone something important especially your parents is VERY hard when I’ve had to do this I actually had my best friend tell her mom so that her mom would tell my mom, I didn’t have the guts to tell them what I was going through, but luckily my friend was there that night and she actually saved my life and she wasn’t even there physically. With the abuse I suffered from my father (mental and emotional and rare cases of physical) I never told my mom because when I would she would confront him and then he’d come and hurt ME for telling her it was actually the night my friend saved my life that I was finally getting the help I needed I was sent to the hospital and then sent to another place a mental facility for kids and it was honestly horrible BUT there was one good person there that I finally told about my abuse and I was too afraid to tell my dad what he was doing to me mentally so the lady asked if it would be ok if while on the phone with them, she’d explain it. It’s been about 3 years now and my dad and I had a therapy session together and we finally made him understand the importance of his actions and he’s really changed, I’m finally happy. When trying to tell someone like an adult or a parent and they just “reject” this like the kid in this video you won’t want to tell them. If someone tells you they don’t want to go somewhere anymore or they don’t like someone anymore DONT assume ASK them why, that’s all they need to tell you is for you to LISTEN.
this reminds me of what happen to me when I was around 8 or 9 years old I was touched by our neighbor and I didn’t say anything because I thought it was okay even though I was uncomfortable but it just sink in to me when I am teenager and I felt like my feelings were invalid because it happened a long time ago and wasn’t even that deep so I never spoke about it to my parents only to close friends I’m glad this channel is spreading awareness about this kind of things so more people would realize that there is something wrong and would call for a help
These types of parents scare me,you should always trust your kids.Especially if they say they are being abused.and bro this mom should care abt her kid the friends mom tho is amazing
When i was little in Y2, i have been bullied my entire life...and i got beaten up a lot in class and when it was time to play outside and i got jumped on pushed all the time and punched all over my body, and i was so alone in school..that i wish that I wasn't, i only had one friend called Casey and she got bullied with me and I didn't want her to get bullied with me but it kept happening until Casey left me...and then i was completely all alone till Y6 and i met a girl called Megan, we are still best friends till this day and yes i still get bullied, but it's very hard to tell why your being bullied cause you don't know why my name is Kelisha and I'm 11 now and i have to do online school cause my school is shut down, but hope you enjoyed my bullying story...
I understand the parent probably couldn’t imagine someone so nice to her kid, do that... but she also should’ve sat down and talked with the kid. Sometimes they say random things, but they also might be hinting that they wanna talk
I am so glad there are videos like this to help children and their families on sexual abuse and how it is never okay. When I become a parent, I always want my child to tell me anything and to let them know it's okay to tell me even if it hurts. And for parents to really pay attention to their children's behavior and words.
My mom honestly, ALWAYS knows if something is wrong with me. I guess it's because I make a face that tells something is wrong. But when I'm upset about something personal I keep telling her that i didn't want to talk about it. But when she gets a feeling something is wrong, she keeps asking me about it until I speak. My mom is a great mom, and I don't know what I'd do without her.
It's sad when you're too young, doesn't understand what's happening (think it's normal), want to find help but can't find the right words for it to say to others... When you grew up and just realised it, the damage was already done. But that doesn't mean you can't heal, doesn't mean you are broken. Whatever happened to you was not your fault, don't blame yourself. Love yourself. Never forget to love yourself first before anyone else. Surround yourself with positive people that support you. Share your emotions with people you trust to help you and protect you. Your emotions matter. You matter. Don't forget that.
I remember when I was living with my uncle with my other aunt as my guardian. I couldnt say anything much because of my autism, let alone because I was a kid, and everyone always told me to spit it out, which caused me to freeze up even more. I was abused by another kid and thought I was going to die and never go to heaven to see my mom, so not knowing what to do I just waited for myself to pass. They thought I was on drugs, even though I said repeatedly I would never be on them and hated them. Shows how much they listened. Even though they came to comfort me, it was only under threat of any punishment was I made to be put back in line. They didnt bother to investigate, and even when I tried to explain, i was just made to ignore my own feelings and assume i was wrong. Even when i had a mental breakdown after returning to the place where i was molested, they still ignored how I reacted and I never liked bowling since. Even after seeing how I didnt like bowling, they still didnt know. How is someone who was made to deny his feelings, not even knowing his feelings, mocked for even showing feelings, supposed to even BEGIN to express or explain things, especially when most of the autistic ways he expresses himself is inappropriate? But yeah, even though I have aspergers and have never, ever lived a normal life, never was made to go out, was made to fear the world, you wanted me, in all of my issues, to have a normal life? Go fuck yourself.
Same happened with me, I was little and told my mom I didn’t want to go there and she never knew why she always told me “do you not love them?” And I would answer “I just don’t feel like it right now” I waited 13 years to tell her and when I did she finally understood. Don’t trust anyone with your kids always be there and make sure they know what’s wrong from right
A little before 2:17, you can see charlies reflection on the window, which is different to his actual expression, indicating his feelings are way more different than the actual expression and explanation of his reason
what the mom did was abuse which was child neglect and it's different cause she didn't understand what he meant but the fact that some parents know what's happening and they don't do anything about it which is really sad
i feel so bad no one should have to go through this. please speak up about this kind thing it will not just help you but others so they do not have to go through it.
Some kids hint what they want through their actions, or hides in words stating what is going on. Some even fake it and pretend everything's OK. That they are OK. When they need help. Sometimes we ask help so much, but continuesly keep getting ignored, that we give up on asking for help.
I went tho sexual abuse by many people b4 and let it happen. But its thr geatest relief you will ever feel once u make it stop, it was all uncomfortable and sad at first but then you realize who da fuck you are and be that independent person and get threw it, and now rather then getting scared and sad, i get PISSED when someone does that now, so that it stops right then and there. Just teach yourself to be mad faster abt it from the start cuz when u get mad enough (and u will when it comes to that) itll defiantly stop it and give u courage to. Now, i dont let no body do that shit to me and idc if i loose the closest ppl to me, you and me are more important than that so dont be afraid to do smth or tell cuz ur awesome so no matter who it is dont be afraid of no bitch
I had a similar experience with my youth pastor father Roy it was pretty normal at first but then we got physical emotionally I wasn’t up for it and I got the guts to tell my mother videos like these help other victims
Sorry that happened. It's really tough for that to happen. It's a good thing TH-cam channels (like this) are made to help kids speak up more about these issues.
When I was 6 years old my dads friend was weird around I even got a weird vibe around him I told my mom and she said "Your probably just afraid of adults because of your age." Then when we went back the next day to hang out he then led my family to a room and everyone got bored and left then it was just me and him in that room meanwhile everyone was downstairs he then got up and started touching and tried taking off my clothes I told my mom again and she told my dad he was not happy he befriended his "Friend" and called the police on him to this day I am healthy and happy.
it’s very difficult though, in a situation where the child might be too young to even know words that could describe what they’re going through, the parent should 100% understand it by “I don’t like them” “ I don’t wanna be around them anymore”
8-17-19 I had been helping my little cousins with some work and 1 of them the answer they put to a certain question on the page made my gut say something was wrong that there was a deeper meaning to the answer the rest of my family just laughed at it but I waited till I was alone with that cousin and asked what they meant by it I knew their mom wasn't a good mother and that was part of the answer the question was I love you more then? and my cousin put mom she was saying she loved our grandma more then her mom I asked and slowly with a few more carefully thought through questions it was revealed that my cousins were being physically and emotionally abused there's 3 of them the twins who are 8 and the youngest 6 I talked to the twins I didn't ask the youngest for obvious reasons but it was revealed the youngest was also being bullied at school no one would know or even think that they were being hurt because they were always running around happy but I always had the feeling it was partially faked more because I seen signs of things I also went through so I seen things others didn't from having experience and dealing with similar issues emotional and tiny bits of sexual and physical abuse they were to scared to speak up out of fear of the reaction of their abusers I was able to convince them to speak up and that I would help them do so I'm 16 and ever since they were born once I got past the jealousy of having to share attention my protective instincts kicked in I always looked out for them and provided comfort not to mention them being around helped me though some very dark parts of my life they were the light when I was severely depressed and suicidal while going through the abuse they don't know how much they've helped I've kept it a secret to protect them but them just being them made me feel needed I was the only one they listened to and they would fight over me they saved me I stayed alive and spoke up when I overdosed and worked hard to get better for them so when I found out they were being abused it really hit me hard I wasn't gonna just stand by I wasn't gonna lose them if I could do something before that there had been a girl who I wanted to help but couldn't and I was so angry at myself for it for not doing more when the only choice I had was to walk away I got over that but I was determined this time I may not have been able to help that girl but I had options this time and it was family so I was gonna do something I promised them that I was gonna help them and the twins clung to me crying and saying they didn't wanna lose me and I kept telling them I wasn't gonna let that happen so we went to their dad and they said dad but couldn't go further so I finished and asked if we could talk in private and now their dad knows and so does our grandparents and my mom and I made sure they knew it wasn't their fault and if something more happens to tell their dad I came out and started crying I ran inside the garage and cried I'm the type when something bad happens I feel it very deeply and this was my cousins who it was part of my job to protect and help but I couldn't do more then get the truth out and I think it hit harder because I knew how they felt from experience I hope their gonna be ok but I did what I could I helped them speak up and comforted them but even days later it still hurts I talk to my therapist tomorrow so I'll talk to her about it I just wish I could do more for them and hope this doesn't go deadly as some cases do and that my cousins get through this without major damage both mentally and emotionally
This happens to adults too. I told our church leaders that a woman kissed me in the cheek and I didn’t feel safe or comfortable being there. This was after they said that no one is allowed in your personal space without your permission. They said they didn’t think it was sexual and that I should talk to her about it. I don’t know if it was sexual or not, but she violated my personal space. And that is not ok. Instead of talking to her, I just don’t want to go back. I don’t know why they didn’t handle it. It’s sad that a lot of people don’t get to go to church and hear about Jesus because the church is allowing this. It’s unacceptable.
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I hate it when parents don't believe their kids in situations like this... Some even kick their kids out when it comes to things like this!
dude its a common error all he said was "i dont like him" "i dont wanna go and etc. the mother thought the program was best for him because she trusted the adult just like parents do with schools in after school programs. she cant tell what her child is going through just by him saying that so stop blaming the mom she didnt and never purposely ignored her child
@@militarycrosssans6983 but she didnt even ask why. She just brushed off her own child. I would be interested what happened, cause at first he liked it. Also it happened twice. I think people have reasons for blaming her.
@@tochkakipeniya1978 and i think people need to think that not everyone is the same. she didnt get his secretive hints. how in the heck would she know why she would think he didnt like it because he is being forced to engaged in activities thinking her child is safe she thought that is what he is meaning. i never said the mother wasnt in the wrong
@@militarycrosssans6983 the fuck she thought, from what was that thoughts!? Maybe molesters thinks that their victims like it too, thats why they dont ask for a permission, so all of them are good now. Dont freaking choose by yourself what feel another person. ASK! Especially when its your child. If you care ofc.
@@tochkakipeniya1978 @Military Cross Sans both of you please stop fighting
lets all give a round of applause to the best friend's mom
My mom said she isn’t my best friend
Argenis Nuñez Perez ok?
For real though!
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Yes
Perents need to watch this. TAKE A HINT
Im sorry but ur pfp ur name everything just fits perfect with the comment-
@ArtisticFox oof spelling
Imma watch these videos now and hopefully be a good mom in the future
i laughed
bc ur profile pic
I hope I'm a good mom...I hope my kids can talk to me...
It's definitely not okay that his mom didn't take it seriously. I look forward to a world where adults take time to fully understand kids who call out for help. Because it's so difficult to most of them, it should never be taken too lightly.
@Young TH-camr agreed. Pete is a horrible man😡. STAY SAFE :)
@Young TH-camr now, I'm not critiquing you, but that doesn't really help the mom understand what's going on. This is a case where the police should maybe be involved. If he just stopped seeing Pete because he was stubborn, Pete would likely just continue with it.
He didn't tell the mom charlie was touching him inappropriately. He just said he didn't wanna go and that it was boring, so naturally the mom would think he's trying to avoid it because he just didn't want to, plus the mom probably makes him go because she's busy during that time. It's not the moms fault, and after charlies friends mom told charlies mom, she finally understood better.
Yeah but you gotta be careful because kids sometimes misunderstand or say things the wrong way and nobody wants to get an innocent person into trouble believing that it was sexual abuse. I wouldn’t want to misread the situation and hurt someone who’s possibly innocent. People lie. Even kids.
@@blackqweenmars I know that, and I'm not trying to say you should just believe what kids are saying. Just that people should take time to listen to what the they experienced. Then the adult can define whether or not it was sexual abuse. And contact the police if necessary. It's okay for the mom to think that maybe he's just overreacting. What's not okay is when she's just assuming he is, and not asking for more information regarding Pete, and pointing out what the boy is really accusing him of.
When a kid tells you they don’t want to go somewhere because they don’t like someone making them do something that they don’t want PAY ATTENTION!!!!!
bro rewatch the video he only gave her subtle hints that kids say when they dont wanna go to school she wouldnt know u lip tard
Military Cross Sans first of all watch your mouth! 2nd he told her that he didn’t want to go to group because someone made him do things he didn’t want to do! So you rewatch it
@@dfwuleelee4319 1st of all i can say what the hell i want ur not my parent or boss besides ur not the owner of youtube either i can say and or do what i want 2. literally every kid can say "they make me do things i dont wanna do" the parents are thinking the person is forcing the kid to be in activities because they trust their child is safe so clearly as i said u need to rewatch it cause the guy literally said he disguised what was happening so the mother didnt know her child was in danger
Military Cross Sans okay but she should’ve asked him what he was making him do and I never said I was your parent or the owner of TH-cam you dumbass and why you coming at me when there are other people in the comment section with the same opinion as me so go yell at everyone else in this comment section
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2D: Yes
3D: *What*
Thought the same. I like the 2d style. They should stick to that...
I WAS THINKING THE SAME
Huh
IKR IT WAS SO GOOD-
Dear Jesus what is *that* 😂😂
I love how they include every gender cuz anybody can get sexually abuse ☹️
Right
Yeah like I’m so ticked off only girls get sexual abused and guys are predators
So true!
Absolutely 💯
true,,,
My mom is extremely religious but she’ll never not care
Its an animations it won't be as human emotionally driven, and that's subjective. Religious moms can care.
I am very religious myself and I would be very VERY concerned if this was going on
Fuck parents raise hell
@@purplejuiceyt2829 Hell yeah
@@Ricokenyy it. Can. Happen.
His mom said “You might hurt his feelings” Boys mom is the enabler. Abusers #1 gateway is a neglectful parent. The mom is more worried about someones else’s feeling than her own sons💔
But he was vague with it. “He forces me to do things I don’t want to do” might just be him saying that Pete was encouraging to participate in group activities that he considered boring. We know what’s happening of course but she doesn’t. I would examine the situation more before I accuse anyone. Kids sometimes misunderstand things or lie to get people into trouble. I’ve had kids say that I said things I didn’t before.
Again, the mom didnt know
@@blackqweenmars RIGHT!
i cant really blame her, the whole point is that you cant be vague with someone in situations like that, you need to be straight and say you're being abused
@@patrickzalatoris3206 You cant really blame her? Is that cause your inner mother would be pissed & your still under her control?
I love that they show male victims, and in Kim's story, she says "if your boyfriend or girlfriend", showing that women do this too
Ima ruin the 69 likes rn
You said it, shiny
@@mr.classicragememerook96yep
Lgbtq is sin and stems from culture and grooming
I can relate considering that I was sexually assaulted by my uncle when I was 17
WHEN YOUR CHILD DOES NOT WANT TO BE AROUND SOMEONE OR SAY THEY ARE UNCOMFORTABLE AROUND SOMEONE…LISTEN!
id like to abuse this idea. ill just say i dont wanna go to school, they'd listen
@@Cornstarchrr not the same thingm she said uncomfortable, not annoying or boring
@@XCrying_cloudsX then ill say im uncomfortable at school
@@CornstarchrrGeez.
@@Monday.Ieft.me.broken. what? lmao
Fight child abuse everyone
@Pivot GIRL
uno reverse card😂
Yeah! I saw a child being abused by some guy. So I fought, the kid didn't stand a chance against both of us!
Kid named child abuse:*panik*
Yes
Yes!
L Charlie's Mom
W Carlos' Mom
I hate how some adults cannot understand a cry for help from a child, as a simple as a "it's boring I don't like it" sounds..it's like a siren to them. Kids don't fully understand what to do in a situation like that which is why adults must be alert when their kid feels uneasy about someone or something.
For some parents, things like a youth group/afterschool clubs are necessary for reasons like work. Parents won't stop if they're kid says something ambiguous like "its boring," but, at least every decent parent, would stop if the kid says something like "person x is making me touch them" or "person x is touching me"
@@sv_du Yeah but tone and how many times they repeat it should be alarming itself, some kids will not say specifically whats going on because they fear they will get in trouble for doing so or fear theyll get that person in trouble.
Ok, but its a youth group, and a lot of kids don't like that stuff. So, him saying that its boring is really not a subtle cry for help in other people's eyes
I don't have an abusive mother.
But she is just so ignorant that i had to try and calm my younger brother down myself about we had issues with things that we had no help with shit.
Having often mental breakdowns sucks. Always feeling alone. Trying to calm my brother down was not plesant.
I do NOT understand people who want abuse. 😔😔😔😭
Random Unknown Person are you srsly using autism in that way?
Random Unknown Person it’s not a masochist dumbass. masochists like the be hurt during sexual encounters. people who want to or wish they were abused are attention seekers. they want a reason for people to care about and notice them.
Thats emotional abuse them
Random Unknown Person Lol, fine. idk why you'd wanna use autism in a way that is no help whatsoever to what you're trying to say. I honestly dunno why ppl who do this exist at this point-
I’m glad you were there for him. Your mom sucks and she shouldn’t have been neglectful. Because that’s a form of abuse. You helped your brother with abuse and many kids don’t even have a sibling to help them. Be proud of yourself.
When I saw 2:06 His reflection in he window was speaking up bit in the real life he kept his mouth closed. That was what he wanted to do and what he was doing
Wow.
omg so true. Wow you're observant.
Good eye
@@_lavender_pebbles_ You mean eye sight
@@blissfully101 no. Good eye is an expression
If A child has a sudden disdain toward someone and tells you this person makes them do things they don't want to, that's a massive red flag you should never ignore.
I feel so bad for this kid, it's a sad thing that things like this happen.
Okay but can we just give a round of applause to Best Friend’s mom? 👏👏👏
It's good that you're out of that situation now I hope you're life IS THE same non
Told my mum my sister touched me inappropriately first time it happened. "I'll SPEAK to her" it didn't even do anything to help and then I told my dad. "She's not molesting you, get over it" I tried to tell and I couldn't. My parents are no longer my parents in my eyes. And my sister is not my family.
Call 911 and tell them everything, everything that happened that time with your "sister" and that your "parents" don't care
I am so so sorry I hope you are ok now :(
Do you need someone to talk to
Hey, are you okay now?❤
I’m so sorry :(
I wonder why I never seen stories about women abusing young boys? I went through a situation like that.
Because here it is.
th-cam.com/video/R0Ujv3stTZM/w-d-xo.html
Same ☹️
I appreciate how many of these have male victims, because males are silenced even more than females.
I am so sorry that happened to you, and maybe it's not as common....but idk
I am sorry to hear that! That is a important message...
They published a story from a grownup man beinh sexualy abused by his female boss.
I can never fathom why its so difficult for parents to pick up on cues.
Why is everyone saying this? "Its boring" is not an obvious cry for help whatsoever. Parents are regular humans, they can't read minds.
@@isavandebrake9928 true
their EQ is low
Shame how his own mom failed at protecting him. When a child says that someone makes them uncomfortable, no matter what it is, they shouldn't just brush it off.
Is the Mom a bad person? No. Like Darrius said, she WAS glad she found out about and understood the abuse her son was going through. But is she wrong for not asking more questions about why her son didn’t want to go? Yes. If she dug deeper, and tried to find more information on why her son was being avoidant, she could’ve potentially stopped the abuse sooner. Always be curious folks.
If I was the mom:
Charlie: it's because pete makes me do things I don't want to do... and I don't want to see him anymore...
Me: Well... what does he make you do exactly?
Charlie: I'm uh... I'm very scared to say...
Me: Sweetie, you can tell me anything. I promise I wont be angry at you, because if pete is doing something bad to you then I need to sort it out. Because I'm your mother and I love you.
Or if Charlie first said "I dont wanna go anymore. It was boring."
I would say "Is something going on there that's bothering you? Is someone not being very nice and upsetting you?"
Well if her son said she didn't want to be around a guy anymore and he didn't want to go back to that camp she should have listened and there must have been some red flag that she failed to recognize
My grandfather on my dad's side did very hamulating things to me when I was a kid and teenager growing up and then he molested me and I had to go in serious detail with lawyers in order to make him face justice but I could face him in court because I was so frightened and terrified but thankfully I didn't because he confessed. I've suffered nightmares ever since on and off and I have PTSD.
Hope you're doing better❤
PTSD IS THE WORST!!!
@@tourmelion9221 Oh yes it is.
@@tourmelion9221 It's hard to say. May you should speak with you're parents first then a therapist.
Im so sorry that happened i hope your doing better now love 💖
My parents abused
My dads asian
Moms british
They separated
My mom sexually abused me
And my dad put me in a hospital at 16 for no reason saying i was "sick".
Well boo hoo
Pray 1 day I will B a strong Woman and mother unlike ma mum.
I believe in you.
BearFingerz you parents aren’t allowed to just touch your private parts. What type of cult did you grow up in 😭😂
BearFingerz If it’s appropriate, like washing you, or helping you put on clothes. Although I don’t know why a mom would do that when they’re not below the age of 8. If anyone is touching you, and is making you uncomfortable, that’s not okay. Doesn’t matter if it’s a parent or not, if it’s inappropriate, they should stop.
I believe in you
@@BearFingerz if ANYONE touches you in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable. Thats no good!
This is pretty much what happened to me. I told my mom I didn't want to be around my friend's dad. She asked why and I told her a half truth. I said he just makes me a tiny bit uncomfortable when he hugs me so much. She stressed to me how important it was to tell her if anything else was going on, but I said that was all. I told her enough that he wouldn't get in trouble but maybe I wouldn't have to see him so much. I'd rather do everything I could to avoid him than actually tell the truth. I'm glad videos like this are made to help teach kids how to deal with this kind of thing.
Sorry, I can understand that that must have been hard for you. But at one point you should have told the whole truth. Cause by not telling, you give your friends dad the opportunity, to do it to other kids too.
Maybe even his own kids.
@@jasminschmalzl9734 Yeah I should have. I wish I had, but I was 11 and I didn't want him to get in trouble. Luckily there were different aspects of the situation that made me almost 100% sure he wasn't hurting the daughter. I do understand though that there's no way I could have been fully sure, and it wasn't the right thing not to tell. I still wonder today if he is still hurting people in Portugal because I didn't tell sooner. At least now that I'm older I know better and have told the police what happened. I didn't mean to imply in my comment that I did the right thing, or that this is what other kids should do as well if they're in trouble, so sorry if I made it sound that way.
Parents should always listen to their children
Hearing when the predator groom the child makes my skin crawl
Mothers and fathers are just regular humans we don't have mind reading abilities so it is some times hard to know what your child means if they don't talk about it. You see your child's behavior has changed but if they don't want to or can't talk about what is going on you can't use a crowbar to open some one up all you can do is to be patient and try to figure out what is up with your child. If you are being abused tell your mom or your dad or a friend even straight up what is going on feel no shame because it is NEVER your fault as a child or as a teenager.
Every moms and dads make mistakes
Thank you for saying this, people are literally getting mad at the mom for not realising the abuse her son is going through sooner.
We can feel
Kids aren’t responsible for telling the whole story, the parents are responsible for seeing what’s wrong
Them not wanting to go anymore is reason enough.
I’ve luckily never been abused, but I want to say this:
If you, a friend, a relative, and more are getting abused in any way, please tell somebody you trust. Abuse in any way is NOT ok.
i hope that if some one ever comes to you you listen. its the hardest thing in the world to speak up. its truely terrifying. there are no words to put together when it comes to the fear and terror that runs through a person even from the memories of what happened. i still deal with physical pain from the sexual abuse i live through.
Well that's the problem. Finding soneone who you trust 😂
I really didn't expect to cry tonight, no child should ever have to go through that.
My mom always took this kind of thing seriously, that's why I appreciate her.
aw poor charlie but this is so sad that he tried to tell his mom and she didnt listen to him.
Ikr right even his friends mom understands him
@@Sabrina.The_CartoonFan yes
@@Sabrina.The_CartoonFan that because he actually stated what was going on to the friend's mum, but kept being vague to his own
For situations like these it's important to find these clues and help your child give more detail, even if it seems like everything’s safe and perfect and sounds like it’s out of laziness. It’s only causing more damage to your child to leave it to him or her to add their story detail where once the nasty memories are out the kid then breaks down which in this case he’s afraid to do and doesn’t want to talk about it. So there’s not only sexual abuse caused by the coach here (which I’m not sure how he’s permitted and trusted to work around minors since this has obviously happened before) but also neglect from his mother for not using enough brain cells to communicate with her son more to ensure he’s not being harmed everyone should know that it’s wrong to be so dismissive towards a child in this way this is a lot of stress added to the trauma of a situation that no child should ever have to face.
So for god sake help them!
It's sad when your parents don't believe you when you say those things to them, when I told my mother I was abused, she didn't believe me and she actually blamed me. If anyone goes through the same situation, I'm here to help go through the same situation, I'm here to help you.
No child should have to go through that! No one should go through that! Telling is the second hardest part of it all, and I apologize to anyone who has gone through something like that.
I know what this was like. I remember my grandma telling me that when I mentioned what happened I referred to it as "him tickling me weird", instead of saying what it really was(but to be honest I didn't know what sexual touches and sex actually was, I just knew that I was uncomfortable). That is until my 6th grade class showed a video about a young boy dealing with an older men trying to touch him inappropriately, how we shouldn't let it happen, and how we should speak up about it. That was when I knew that I needed to speak up about what was happening.
What’s really sad is that this happens for real and the abuser gets away with it 😔
The system is screwed.
Right
God doesn’t like it when abuse like this happens, especially when it’s being caused by people who are supposed to teach about him.
Exactly. If a person is one of these creeps they clearly shouldn't be hired at all.
This was going on a lot in Ireland at one point.
It breaks my heart knowing this kind of stuff happens to kids. My son is the most precious thing in my life and if he ever comes to me and says something like this happened to him I'm ripping several heads off
Man these psa are kind of addictive to watch I almost watched every video because these are realistic and inform about real life thing that happen to people
Kids always will feel helpless if you don't listen closely
This Is is really Child Abuse But don't worry Charlie someone will cheer you up like your friends, an adult in youth club or anything else. 😁😁😁
You mean this Charlie or Charlie The Cat from that old cartoon commercial that teaches about safety and stranger danger?
thats not funny
it's sad that sexual abuse is something that happens everyday in the world.
Indeed 😔
This is a heads up for all kids...when a mentor says you're his favourite have your guard up
hi john
@@johnsmith8939 hi Smith
Me:Just browsing my recommend
This channel:*Hippity Hoppity Your recommend is now my property*
same here help me
how do i get rid of this man
how do i get rid of this
Can ppl stop replying the same rude thing with different spelling errors each time?
@@flavoredsidewalk 😝😍🤐🤔🤩😜🤔🥵🦀🤔🦀🥵🐓🐓🐓😡🐓😡😍😓🤔😍🤐🤔🥵🦀🤔🤩🦀😯😍😜🤔👁😓🥰😓😍🤔🥵🦀🤔😜🤩🤔🥵🤐😘🥵🦀🤔🥵🦀😘🥵🤐😯😍😓🤔🥵😥🤔👁😓🥰😶🦀😎😶😜🐓😡💞🐓🥵😡💞😎😥🥵😈🤩😜🥰😍😓😯😍🤐🤔😍😓😄😍🤐🥰😥😜😘😡🦀😎🤩💞🥰😥🥰🥵🦀😘😡🤑🤔😶😏 how do i
Dear, Parents
Take a hint and listen to your kids
~ a child
Carlos: My youth teacher has me do things that make me uncomfortable.
His mom: Oh no! Anyways
Oh my gosh, can you guys stop talking about how she didn't take the hint?
He said he just thought it was boring, and didn't wanna go, but she saw nothing truly wrong with that. Had he told her that "Hey, Pete did some gross things with me, I don't wanna go!", she would've beaten Pete up and apologized for ever letting him go there. Might even call the cops, too. He didn't specify because he didn't wanna remember the pain. Most victims feel like this, too. Helpless and scared. So no, she couldn't take a hint. He specified to Carlos's mom, who then told his mom.
Exactly why this video was made, to educate kids and parents on how to communicate. Parents watching this will take note that a kid not wanting to go may not just be moody or bored or any of the other typical reasons they don't want to go. Parents don't always know what signs to look out for and that's why videos like this are important--to help both the parent and the child.
I mean, look up Gary Plauche. He ignored signs that may be obvious today, but things were different in 1982 and he didn't know what we know now. His son was thankfully rescued and rehabilitated, and Gary, feeling broken and guilty, put a bullet in the abuser's head. He clearly loved his son and never wanted anything to happen to him, like any sane parent.
DON'T DEPRICATE--EDUCATE!!!
If i was Charlie's mother, i would say to him "What does Pete make you do exactly? You can tell me Charlie, im your mother. If something bothering you, it's my job to understand what's happening to my son and then make it right" in a way to make sure Charlie has courage to explain in a more understood way
Thank you so much for these videos that give children a voice and the words they need so much!
bro when he talked to his friends mom... that broke me am in shambles it was so releaving
This is so sweet and sad and important! Poor Charlie! Thank God for his BFF's mom! His own mom needs to listen better, sheesh!
My mom did the same thing.. didn't care when I told her something happened to me. More like, not even acknowledging it.
I especially love how it’s a male target just to show that not just girls get sexually abused
Telling someone something important especially your parents is VERY hard when I’ve had to do this I actually had my best friend tell her mom so that her mom would tell my mom, I didn’t have the guts to tell them what I was going through, but luckily my friend was there that night and she actually saved my life and she wasn’t even there physically. With the abuse I suffered from my father (mental and emotional and rare cases of physical) I never told my mom because when I would she would confront him and then he’d come and hurt ME for telling her it was actually the night my friend saved my life that I was finally getting the help I needed I was sent to the hospital and then sent to another place a mental facility for kids and it was honestly horrible BUT there was one good person there that I finally told about my abuse and I was too afraid to tell my dad what he was doing to me mentally so the lady asked if it would be ok if while on the phone with them, she’d explain it. It’s been about 3 years now and my dad and I had a therapy session together and we finally made him understand the importance of his actions and he’s really changed, I’m finally happy. When trying to tell someone like an adult or a parent and they just “reject” this like the kid in this video you won’t want to tell them. If someone tells you they don’t want to go somewhere anymore or they don’t like someone anymore DONT assume ASK them why, that’s all they need to tell you is for you to LISTEN.
this reminds me of what happen to me when I was around 8 or 9 years old I was touched by our neighbor and I didn’t say anything because I thought it was okay even though I was uncomfortable but it just sink in to me when I am teenager and I felt like my feelings were invalid because it happened a long time ago and wasn’t even that deep so I never spoke about it to my parents only to close friends I’m glad this channel is spreading awareness about this kind of things so more people would realize that there is something wrong and would call for a help
These types of parents scare me,you should always trust your kids.Especially if they say they are being abused.and bro this mom should care abt her kid the friends mom tho is amazing
When i was little in Y2, i have been bullied my entire life...and i got beaten up a lot in class and when it was time to play outside and i got jumped on pushed all the time and punched all over my body, and i was so alone in school..that i wish that I wasn't, i only had one friend called Casey and she got bullied with me and I didn't want her to get bullied with me but it kept happening until Casey left me...and then i was completely all alone till Y6 and i met a girl called Megan, we are still best friends till this day and yes i still get bullied, but it's very hard to tell why your being bullied cause you don't know why my name is Kelisha and I'm 11 now and i have to do online school cause my school is shut down, but hope you enjoyed my bullying story...
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LoCaL_iDiOt I’m 12 now, my birthday was 5 days ago
I understand the parent probably couldn’t imagine someone so nice to her kid, do that... but she also should’ve sat down and talked with the kid. Sometimes they say random things, but they also might be hinting that they wanna talk
I am so glad there are videos like this to help children and their families on sexual abuse and how it is never okay. When I become a parent, I always want my child to tell me anything and to let them know it's okay to tell me even if it hurts. And for parents to really pay attention to their children's behavior and words.
So sad it can happen in real life I’m glad they makes these videos to teach kids
My mom honestly, ALWAYS knows if something is wrong with me. I guess it's because I make a face that tells something is wrong. But when I'm upset about something personal I keep telling her that i didn't want to talk about it. But when she gets a feeling something is wrong, she keeps asking me about it until I speak. My mom is a great mom, and I don't know what I'd do without her.
Crystal_flower ! Give a round of applause for this mom and all the other nice moms.
@@awful_artist 👏👏👏👏👏👏
"Because Pete was a good influence" ;-; BRUH
It's sad when you're too young, doesn't understand what's happening (think it's normal), want to find help but can't find the right words for it to say to others... When you grew up and just realised it, the damage was already done. But that doesn't mean you can't heal, doesn't mean you are broken.
Whatever happened to you was not your fault, don't blame yourself. Love yourself. Never forget to love yourself first before anyone else. Surround yourself with positive people that support you. Share your emotions with people you trust to help you and protect you.
Your emotions matter.
You matter.
Don't forget that.
i really love these they've helped me through a whole lot :( at least someone cared to make these although Im not a kid it helped me...
"911 is just a phone number"
"And jail is just a place"
What r you talking about who says that
I totally understand and also relate 😢😓 .
I remember when I was living with my uncle with my other aunt as my guardian.
I couldnt say anything much because of my autism, let alone because I was a kid, and everyone always told me to spit it out, which caused me to freeze up even more.
I was abused by another kid and thought I was going to die and never go to heaven to see my mom, so not knowing what to do I just waited for myself to pass.
They thought I was on drugs, even though I said repeatedly I would never be on them and hated them.
Shows how much they listened.
Even though they came to comfort me, it was only under threat of any punishment was I made to be put back in line.
They didnt bother to investigate, and even when I tried to explain, i was just made to ignore my own feelings and assume i was wrong.
Even when i had a mental breakdown after returning to the place where i was molested, they still ignored how I reacted and I never liked bowling since.
Even after seeing how I didnt like bowling, they still didnt know.
How is someone who was made to deny his feelings, not even knowing his feelings, mocked for even showing feelings, supposed to even BEGIN to express or explain things, especially when most of the autistic ways he expresses himself is inappropriate?
But yeah, even though I have aspergers and have never, ever lived a normal life, never was made to go out, was made to fear the world, you wanted me, in all of my issues, to have a normal life?
Go fuck yourself.
Same happened with me, I was little and told my mom I didn’t want to go there and she never knew why she always told me “do you not love them?” And I would answer “I just don’t feel like it right now” I waited 13 years to tell her and when I did she finally understood. Don’t trust anyone with your kids always be there and make sure they know what’s wrong from right
A little before 2:17, you can see charlies reflection on the window, which is different to his actual expression, indicating his feelings are way more different than the actual expression and explanation of his reason
That's actually a pretty cool Easter egg
@@Kitterinared idk what to say srry-
@@v3lv3tte.thevees it's alr lmao
i lied. it wasnt someone older than me, it was a trusted friend. i didnt wanna break his trust
he doesnt deserve your trust.
3 yrs later and I’m still crying at this
I remember, these videos started playing on my tv, im so glad.
Did you guys really look at the deatail? Oml, the poor boys looked tramatized. I can't rn, I'm literally tearing up.
what the mom did was abuse which was child neglect and it's different cause she didn't understand what he meant but the fact that some parents know what's happening and they don't do anything about it which is really sad
i feel so bad no one should have to go through this. please speak up about this kind thing it will not just help you but others so they do not have to go through it.
Some kids hint what they want through their actions, or hides in words stating what is going on. Some even fake it and pretend everything's OK. That they are OK. When they need help. Sometimes we ask help so much, but continuesly keep getting ignored, that we give up on asking for help.
I wanted to see Pete get arrested at the end after Charlie told Carlos' mother about what he did.
I went tho sexual abuse by many people b4 and let it happen. But its thr geatest relief you will ever feel once u make it stop, it was all uncomfortable and sad at first but then you realize who da fuck you are and be that independent person and get threw it, and now rather then getting scared and sad, i get PISSED when someone does that now, so that it stops right then and there. Just teach yourself to be mad faster abt it from the start cuz when u get mad enough (and u will when it comes to that) itll defiantly stop it and give u courage to. Now, i dont let no body do that shit to me and idc if i loose the closest ppl to me, you and me are more important than that so dont be afraid to do smth or tell cuz ur awesome so no matter who it is dont be afraid of no bitch
uhhh.. what?
I broke down sobbing, AT SIX YEARS OLD telling my mom about what my abuser did to me… he 🍇ped me, sexually abused me, ext… thankfully she beleived me
it’s so important to listen to children when they say things like this. there’s no reason for them to lie 99.9% of the time.
So glad my parents listen to me bc theirs didn’t ❤
Let's give an applause to this kid's (the protagonist of course) mom. Worst.Parent.Ever.
I had a similar experience with my youth pastor father Roy it was pretty normal at first but then we got physical emotionally I wasn’t up for it and I got the guts to tell my mother videos like these help other victims
I really like that these videos appear in my recommendations
Oh my God this made me cry. Something like this happened to me- (it was physical and mental abuse, thankfully not sexual)
Sorry that happened. It's really tough for that to happen. It's a good thing TH-cam channels (like this) are made to help kids speak up more about these issues.
One thing that love about this channel,is that they know the abuses does not have a gender……
When I was 6 years old my dads friend was weird around I even got a weird vibe around him I told my mom and she said "Your probably just afraid of adults because of your age." Then when we went back the next day to hang out he then led my family to a room and everyone got bored and left then it was just me and him in that room meanwhile everyone was downstairs he then got up and started touching and tried taking off my clothes I told my mom again and she told my dad he was not happy he befriended his "Friend" and called the police on him to this day I am healthy and happy.
i like how they show that men can get sexually assulted too
Thath guy is disgusting I feel so sick now from him
@@BearFingerz what do you mean ok-
Always speak up for yourself and tell the truth ❤❤.
it’s very difficult though, in a situation where the child might be too young to even know words that could describe what they’re going through, the parent should 100% understand it by “I don’t like them” “ I don’t wanna be around them anymore”
my kids will never ever be alone with anyone
The school teacher
8-17-19 I had been helping my little cousins with some work and 1 of them the answer they put to a certain question on the page made my gut say something was wrong that there was a deeper meaning to the answer the rest of my family just laughed at it but I waited till I was alone with that cousin and asked what they meant by it I knew their mom wasn't a good mother and that was part of the answer the question was I love you more then? and my cousin put mom she was saying she loved our grandma more then her mom I asked and slowly with a few more carefully thought through questions it was revealed that my cousins were being physically and emotionally abused there's 3 of them the twins who are 8 and the youngest 6 I talked to the twins I didn't ask the youngest for obvious reasons but it was revealed the youngest was also being bullied at school no one would know or even think that they were being hurt because they were always running around happy but I always had the feeling it was partially faked more because I seen signs of things I also went through so I seen things others didn't from having experience and dealing with similar issues emotional and tiny bits of sexual and physical abuse they were to scared to speak up out of fear of the reaction of their abusers I was able to convince them to speak up and that I would help them do so I'm 16 and ever since they were born once I got past the jealousy of having to share attention my protective instincts kicked in I always looked out for them and provided comfort not to mention them being around helped me though some very dark parts of my life they were the light when I was severely depressed and suicidal while going through the abuse they don't know how much they've helped I've kept it a secret to protect them but them just being them made me feel needed I was the only one they listened to and they would fight over me they saved me I stayed alive and spoke up when I overdosed and worked hard to get better for them so when I found out they were being abused it really hit me hard I wasn't gonna just stand by I wasn't gonna lose them if I could do something before that there had been a girl who I wanted to help but couldn't and I was so angry at myself for it for not doing more when the only choice I had was to walk away I got over that but I was determined this time I may not have been able to help that girl but I had options this time and it was family so I was gonna do something I promised them that I was gonna help them and the twins clung to me crying and saying they didn't wanna lose me and I kept telling them I wasn't gonna let that happen so we went to their dad and they said dad but couldn't go further so I finished and asked if we could talk in private and now their dad knows and so does our grandparents and my mom and I made sure they knew it wasn't their fault and if something more happens to tell their dad I came out and started crying I ran inside the garage and cried I'm the type when something bad happens I feel it very deeply and this was my cousins who it was part of my job to protect and help but I couldn't do more then get the truth out and I think it hit harder because I knew how they felt from experience I hope their gonna be ok but I did what I could I helped them speak up and comforted them but even days later it still hurts I talk to my therapist tomorrow so I'll talk to her about it I just wish I could do more for them and hope this doesn't go deadly as some cases do and that my cousins get through this without major damage both mentally and emotionally
I know this has meaning and i shouldnt be making fun of this, but this is almost impossible to read
A Z why writing this in public
frank castle dude, this is serious what if you were sexual abused?
Zaria The TH-camr hit him what do think I’m stupid
Zaria The TH-camr SHUT UP DUDE IM TIRED OF STARTING ARGUMENTS IN THE COMMENTS
ur vids are so educational yet so entertaining
This happens to adults too. I told our church leaders that a woman kissed me in the cheek and I didn’t feel safe or comfortable being there. This was after they said that no one is allowed in your personal space without your permission. They said they didn’t think it was sexual and that I should talk to her about it.
I don’t know if it was sexual or not, but she violated my personal space. And that is not ok. Instead of talking to her, I just don’t want to go back. I don’t know why they didn’t handle it. It’s sad that a lot of people don’t get to go to church and hear about Jesus because the church is allowing this. It’s unacceptable.
am I the only one that cried...at the end