They should emphasise more that there can be a sexual arousal component to the abuse as well. The abuse might turn you on, because this is the only way your body knows how to deal with it. This doesn't mean you wanted the abuse to happen and even if you wanted some of the sexual attention, it still is abusive. This part of the abuse might be one of the most confusing and difficult aspects to deal with. If the abuse starts early enough, you might become a highly sexualised person before you even know what the meaning of sexuality is. Therefore this aspect of abuse can never be your fault.
Thank you so much for talking about this. It's natural for our bodies to feel "aroused" even when the touching is inappropriate and wrong. That "aroused" feeling is a biological response. It doesn't mean that the victim is at fault for "enjoying it" or that the victim actually wants to be inappropriately touched. Grooming, touching, and arousing are all part of the perps plan to "mess with your head". The perp knows that what they are doing could cause their victim to feel aroused and that it's psychologically damaging. They hope that is what keeps you quiet.
Best way to explain it is that the body and mind are separated. We love are bodies and can’t do anything without them but they also do certain things we don’t like. Nobody can control there body’s biological desire to reproduce but we are still aware enough to mentally separate abuse and healthy relationships.
How to confuse a sexual abuser: “No no don’t touch me there this is my no no square, That’s what I told YOU!, but YOU didn’t seem to care it’s my secret little spot and I don’t wanna share, no no don’t touch me there.
@@snail8755 Please try to get help abaout it, somebody will help, if not an adult then a friend or the counselor. I am very sorry whats happening/happened to you
I dont understand how adults can doubt a child that tells he/she has been abused i mean, why would a child lie about that? well i bet that happens sometimes but most of the time they are telling the truth.
Exactly and even if it is a lie it is still a major red flag because why would a kid know about abuse (since most of us never see videos like this or ever get talked to about anything sexual) and why would they feel the need to say something about a person that is so serve in the first place
This is one year old but sometimes kids lie out of fear of being judged, thinking that it’s their fault and afraid to be blamed, growing up in a (usually religious) family where things like this would be blamed on the kid, etc.
I think a lot of adults are so desperate to believe their child is safe and isn’t hurt that they ignore it because it’s painful to think about. And that’s an understandable instinct, as long as you don’t follow it. It might hurt to think about your child being hurt, but it’s hurting them way worse. That really the problem to me - not the instinct to doubt or diminish it, but acting on that instinct. Even if your child had lied about something similar before, you STILL need to believe them, because the reality of the boy who cried wolf is that the effort checking for wolves will take, even if there might not be any, isn’t worth the risk of what would happen if there is a wolf. Plus a child lying about SA specifically had to have learned that concept from somewhere and if you don’t know where, then someone has hurt or is hurting that child even if it isn’t who they say it is. That’s the only time I think kids are inclined to “lie” about it - as a dry run to practice telling what’s actually happening/to see what the process will be like/to see if they will be believed.
Please tell her. I've been sexually abused by my dad 10 years ago. Today was the day i finally spoke to a psychologist about it. I feel relief. It's not my secret anymore. I trying to heal from it now since my mental health changed drastically for the worse in those 10 years i kept it to myself. My mom still doesn't know, but if i could turn back time i would have told her immedialety if i had the knowledge back then what i have now. I could have prevented so much pain and my dad would have been punished for it. Im 22 now so it's a lot harder to have him punished for somehing that happenend when i was just a child.
@@Adriana-cw1rb oh feel sorry for you..but Happiest things you recover it and you started a new life ..and now don't tell your mom ..its effect your mental pressure and try to to be happy..God Bless You
There is no foolproof way to protect children from sexual abuse, but there are steps you can take to reduce this risk. If something happens to your child, remember that the perpetrator is to blame-not you and especially not the child.
I must agree, I'm Brazilian and I heard a case on TV where a girl of just 9 years old was abused by her stepfather, unfortunately when she went to tell her mother about the abuse, the mother didn't believe it and even reprimanded the child for making up stories, situation really sad look 🤦🏻♀️
But i steered! And I always sat in his lap i loved my dad he was supposed to be my grandpa but my dad died so I called him dad if any of you are confused
The person who sexually abused me was almost arrested for it in 2017. The police knocked on their front door and gave them a warning and a slip of paper. But they were almost taken under custody.
My classmate did this to me when my grade is sophomore I'm a bit and he touched my private body parts and even my butt. I was so nervous and felt disgusted all the time so I'm scared and never forget about it.
The other day i was at a restaurant with my dad and i was wearing a black floral dress with a very slight v-neck. nothing too revealing but the i did notice that the waiter kept looking at my neck and kept looking at me the entire time, he was around our table even. When dad went to wash his hands the waiter mouthed me to come outside and i felt disgusted thankfully dad came before he got any closer but since that day i avoid wearing that dress cause i don't feel nice wearing it anymore
You should wear the dress when ever you want! Shame on that waiter. But if you don’t want to that is perfectly fine but just remember that waiter was probably just raised wrong.
If they even recognize it at all. If the person doing this has authority and trust enough, this might not even be the case. I am from de 'beware of stranger danger' generation. Nobody ever told me it could happen by the hands of someone I loved and trusted. Nobody explained to me that if your need for attachment is great enough, you might even mistake it for love. Nobody explained to me how my body could get accustomed to it and even yearn for the forbidden contact, as my soul wandered off into seperate realities. These are the difficult things that don't get explained often enough, that are so often misunderstood and poorly judged out of fear, shame and resentment. I share your hope, but Children often have no way of recognizing these things.
As someone who was sexually abused by my best friend at the age of 10-12 I understand how hard it is to recover from this. at first tbh i didn't realise that it was SA. I even trusted this boy so much i let him around for sleepovers. It was a massive mistake because when i was sleeping he took off my clothes and underwear. he started to touch me in places that aren't appropriate at all. (I found this out via cctv in my mum's house) This happened when i was 11 years old. When I was 10 he would touch me when i had my clothes on and he would make me touch him forcefully. Once i turned 12 he tried to r^pe me however i stopped him by st^bbing him in the chest with my house keys. I have never told anyone until up to this point.
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@@lalalalaaarry747 I am so so sorry to hear that, but don't let this get you down. You are bigger and greater then those feelings of shame could ever hope to be, and I'm really happy you decided to vent our your feelings even if its online. You got this I rooting for you
@@lalalalaaarry747 hey i hate what happen to you hope your doing good, happened to me too...im only saying this because my name and everything is changed so my identity is pretty much confidential :) my stepdad does the exact same things to me at night telling my mum hes just checking on us or if were sleeping. I feel like literally dropping dead whenever i see her trynna be lovey duvvy with him. I have a couple pages of what i want to tell her one day (i didnt tell her yet, its been 2-3 years) but if i dont tell her im going to disappear one day....tough but yh...
I’m sorry but I can’t with that “BS4” **inhales deeply and exhales hard puts hands together into a praying position over mouth opens eyes wide and then falls out of chair and bangs on the table while crying and laughing and screaming**
So I am 11 (11 now or 10 whatever, I still look 10-) and I have lived this type of abuse with some guy on the internet not going to tell anyone what he was asking for but I kept saying "no" and it stoped...kinda--
I am so sorry that you identified with some of the things in the video. Did you talk to someone about what actually happened? It’s important to speak to someone near you who is willing to listen and take action to keep you safe. Take care ❤️
am I the only one taking this thing seriously and everyone else is joking in the comments? Also if a sister or brother touches you or a friend like if you are playing a game and he/she touches your private part on accident and it doesn't make you feel comfy would that be considered abuse?
Not necessarily, it can be a genuine accident, but it just depends on how they handle the situation and if they apologize or not. If they notice they did, they should always apologize. But it can be tricky because if they "accidentally" touch you, they could cover it up by lying and saying it was accidental, when in reality they meant to touch you. If they keep on accidentally touching you , or they notice and never apologize, tell a trusted adult.
that horrendous CGI has sexually abused my eyes. on a serious note, this channel MASSIVELY oversimplifies this issue to the point that they actually aren't helping anything.
I have an uncle white a skin condition that makes some of his body white and black his name is Donny and the second I saw him I got bad vibes it was at a family reunion and everyone loves him he winked at me twice and kept calling me over and had me sit on his lap and he touched me in uncomfortable parts I haven’t told anyone but my sister and two friends but they said I was overreacting
my uncle alwyys bought me stuff i wanted like chips or esrphones and stuff, the first time it happened was when i was 8 he touched my thighs and even went further, i was young so i thought ir was ok,when i was 9 the touching never stopped, thats when i entered the internet and told my online friends who werw a lot older, they kept saying it but who knows what i thought, at 10 it got worse,im 11 now and it still hasnt stopped :(
Please tell somebody please. Have you told your parents about it?? I understand you're in an overwhelming situation right now. I went through the same exact thing, but please. Not telling anyone is going to cause even more damage to you, and it won't stop. It isn't normal for him to be doing that to you. Im begging you, please tell one of your parents or just any adult that you trust. I understand that you might not feel comfortable telling your parents, but atleast tell a teacher or someone. I'm so sorry you are going through this, nobody should have to experience something so traumatic. I know this comment is a month old, but I really hope things turn out better for you.❤
both my parents touched me, even today they stil do. I tell them to stop it. They never listen. I've told them that I'm not comfortable with it and they won't stop I don't know what to do anymore.
But, bigger issue and worse than this is physical abuse and mental abuse on childs, It's 99% out of 100% population and it is very clear to identify, but still we are not fighting for it
My dad sexually abused me for no reason, i cant say no because dad will get angry, i was kid getting sexual abused for the first time, but now its over, dad is still here and i said not now, dont do it again please. I can't tell mom about this, she will banish me for months, please dont call the police, my dad was still nice to me when i got 8 to 10 scores.
This Confusing Huh What!!!! Eh Ohh No This is Disturbing????? a Ran Away From Home with on 🤳🏻📱 My Friends came back to save me From a bad boy Abuser. Last time I got hurt like Kate Bishop with Bruises
I got abused by my Uncle Jeff he was really close to me so I trust him a lot and then soon he starts touching me in a harassing way tht I could not handle it and then he just let our parents to leave me in the house alone with him our parents couldn't think tht he would do such kinda thing to me they really trusted him eventhogh I hint them several time the thing tht they did was they let me to stay with him when their hanging out. One night he just start kissing me harshly tht I could not make it , I just wanted to say this to my parents but then I realized tht they wouldn't litsen to me finally I leave the home and now leaving peacefully... *Ema Steve Please care about your daughter/son while their associates with external persons
I got sexual abuse to but I told my mom when he was getting arrested I was really confused what was going that time I felt like I was in a room all day with a man
sometimes it not that easy to just say no or tell someone especially if its a relative because then you start thinking about the consequences and it scares you
I was sexually abused bu my step father for two years...and i was touched by an older boy and a boy who was a double my age...all of this took place from the ages of 4-6...im 13 and i just confided in my counselor about this she was the first person i ever told..im scared...i dont know what will happen....and it made me feel sick...i felt like i was gonna throw up and i was suoer dizzy and had the worst headache...it felt awful but at the same time...i felt relief...i hid this secret for so so long...and i finally shared with someone... please reach out for help. It may feel scary and awful in the beginning but in the end you will thank yourself for it. Trust me ❤
I didn't know that was sexual abuse the internet someone told me to get this weird game and they did one of the things this video said for sexual abuse
Idk if I’m stupid or not but whenever someone knows I’m 15 and asks for nud3s I send them still because I don’t want to risk making anybody upset and I don’t want to make anyone angry im trans btw pronouns are she her
Those people are taking advantage of you. You don’t owe them anything. Even if they feel bad or upset because you didn’t send them those pics, it’s wrong for them to feel angry and it’s not your fault. Never ever show your body to anybody over the internet. Always remember that it’s not your fault and that those guys are not owed too see your pics. Good luck.
Fuck them ! You don't owe them anything ! I know it's hard because I'm a bit of a people pleaser myself but you don't do something that make you uncomfortable just for some pervert on the internet. I'm not mad at you, don't get the wrong idea. I'm mad at pedo. If anyone makes you uncomfortable, stop engaging and block them. I hope you're okay now
I have been sexually abused by a high school boy who were older than me as a 8th grader when I was 13 and he touched me on my bottom. He forced me to touch the part between his legs by actually grabbing my arm/hand to touch his private parts but I didn’t. We were sitting together in the bus since there were no seats. And he told me not to tell anyone. So, I kept a secret for a few years. It made me feel sad, angry, disgusted, scared, and anxious about it since I thought that something bad would happen and I didn’t know what to do about it so I kept it secret till 10th grade. I decided to tell my mom and she understood me. Only my mom and dad knew what happened. A few years later during post Covid, he dropped out from school and I felt reviled since I was so nervous that it would happen again. Since that incident, I learned a lot about how to protect myself for that if it happens again. I am planning to tell my school eventually so he doesn’t do it to anyone else. I can still remember the trauma and the situation since it is always on the back of my mind. I am constantly looking around to make sure that nobody else does this to me the same way I went through it. I also don’t like being touched on my private parts, my back, or my shoulders since it reminded me of the abuse that I went through because of that person who did it to me and it made me uncomfortable, disgusted, scared, and anxious.
It's really hard to talk, but communication makes a world of difference. Also remember that there is ALWAYS someone who loves you and is willing to help you. God loves you, I love you, and I'm sure there is a bunch of other people that do too. You could even contact authorities if you feel the need. Hang in there, it won't last forever. But I cannot stress enough that communication is going to help you more than your abuser will hurt you. Hope this makes you feel better God bless you🥰
Yea..It happened to me before...:( I..Was sitting with a boy when I was in third grade.. (Also it was the first day of class ) And then he...kinda tried to touch my private spot..I was almost crying..then he said oop I dropped My eraser then he went down to grab the eraser.. But he was actually trying to get his hands under my skirt..then I joined my legs together and tried to ignore him..then he got up and said FUCK U :'( and then he pushed me... I said noting but there were tears in my eyes..as I grew up he bullies me..then when I went to Fifth grade he was sitting behind me..I turned around..to get something from my bag pack then he...said Boobs while showed a weird something squishy touching hand action ;-; and I got mad and hit him with my book then I turned around but as the future came he almost killed a classmate of mine then he got transfered to a other school! Now I'm in sixth grade Eh online classes also I met a child predator on the Internet when I was in forth grade :'(
That's not necessarily sexual abuse if that's all he's doing. When I was younger me and my friends would do that to each other as a joke. As long as he's not like touching it for long periods or other places
This happed to me i wasn't sure at time if it was sexual abuse by my step father because it didn't happen often, there were times when he poke my boob by "accident " while playing with the dog because i was holding him, or the time during a family movie he usually touches my mother upper thigh then instead he started touch mine i thought is was an "accident " to but then he continue even after i smacked his hand several times away from me. i felt like i was the crazy one even though i was a teenager it didn't seem real that it could be my step father.
Hey if you want my opinion here it is... first of all if you want to talk to someone you trust like a friend or a close family member or your parents, but you don't know how.. you have to be confident on yourself. You can even try thinking what your gonna say before you say it a couple times. And I'm sure the person you tell will understand. And don't tell yourself they won't. Don't doubt because then you can talk yourself out of doing it. If you tell yourself u can then u can but if u say u can't you won't. Speaking to your parents can be difficult but if it helps just start talking to them about a anything. Start a conversation and then when u feel the time is right say, I have something I've been wanting to ask or tell you, and they will listen. Remember they are your parents not strangers, so just think of them as your friend. Dont be scared just do it! Ik it's hard but if u push through it you'll feel so much better! I believe in you! - also sorry this was so long hahaha.
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If anyone needs to talk, I'm here. I've been through this and made it out the other side. It does it get better, and I'm proud of you for being here. :)
They should emphasise more that there can be a sexual arousal component to the abuse as well. The abuse might turn you on, because this is the only way your body knows how to deal with it. This doesn't mean you wanted the abuse to happen and even if you wanted some of the sexual attention, it still is abusive. This part of the abuse might be one of the most confusing and difficult aspects to deal with. If the abuse starts early enough, you might become a highly sexualised person before you even know what the meaning of sexuality is. Therefore this aspect of abuse can never be your fault.
This is exactly what happened to me
Thank you.
This was the most shameful part of my abuse for me. Ugh.
Thank you so much for talking about this. It's natural for our bodies to feel "aroused" even when the touching is inappropriate and wrong. That "aroused" feeling is a biological response. It doesn't mean that the victim is at fault for "enjoying it" or that the victim actually wants to be inappropriately touched. Grooming, touching, and arousing are all part of the perps plan to "mess with your head". The perp knows that what they are doing could cause their victim to feel aroused and that it's psychologically damaging. They hope that is what keeps you quiet.
Best way to explain it is that the body and mind are separated. We love are bodies and can’t do anything without them but they also do certain things we don’t like. Nobody can control there body’s biological desire to reproduce but we are still aware enough to mentally separate abuse and healthy relationships.
🎵hey don’t touch me there
this is my no-no square🎵
To bad this channel wasn’t around when I was a kid cause boy I’ve been through some shit
Oh I'm sorry..
HOWS TOUCHING THE CHILD
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Krystal Jenzy yeah don’t we all
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The graphics are good ngl
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How to confuse a sexual abuser:
“No no don’t touch me there this is my no no square, That’s what I told YOU!, but YOU didn’t seem to care it’s my secret little spot and I don’t wanna share, no no don’t touch me there.
So basically, rap battle
just me i don’t think so but I can imagine her voice saying that 😂
just me no from the boys but hers is the best ngl
Uhm this is an important subject-
•Kuro• this is my 2nd time seeing one of your comments hi
thank you for teaching about victim blaming and how it's wrong.
Thank you for learning and understanding the causes of sexual abuse bot
@sprite
not a bot but thank you
@slutgirlreborn1155 u mean sexual abuse is right now??
@Slut Girl Reborn would you like if someone touched you in a way you didn’t like? Hmm? Ok, that’s what I thought.
@slutgirlreborn1155 it's wrong, would you blame a child for being sexually abused, oh also groomed?
"You need to tell a trusted adult." That's the problem.
because there are no trusted adults anymore
I'm pretty sure there are good adults. I hope you manage to find them. Or just call the CPS/ police
@@amask99 I can't report it though
@@snail8755 Please try to get help abaout it, somebody will help, if not an adult then a friend or the counselor. I am very sorry whats happening/happened to you
@@helloimliving8878 I don't have proof
I dont understand how adults can doubt a child that tells he/she has been abused i mean, why would a child lie about that? well i bet that happens sometimes but most of the time they are telling the truth.
Exactly and even if it is a lie it is still a major red flag because why would a kid know about abuse (since most of us never see videos like this or ever get talked to about anything sexual) and why would they feel the need to say something about a person that is so serve in the first place
Yeah like adults sometimes lie about it, but kids wouldn’t lie about abuse
This is one year old but sometimes kids lie out of fear of being judged, thinking that it’s their fault and afraid to be blamed, growing up in a (usually religious) family where things like this would be blamed on the kid, etc.
I think a lot of adults are so desperate to believe their child is safe and isn’t hurt that they ignore it because it’s painful to think about. And that’s an understandable instinct, as long as you don’t follow it. It might hurt to think about your child being hurt, but it’s hurting them way worse. That really the problem to me - not the instinct to doubt or diminish it, but acting on that instinct.
Even if your child had lied about something similar before, you STILL need to believe them, because the reality of the boy who cried wolf is that the effort checking for wolves will take, even if there might not be any, isn’t worth the risk of what would happen if there is a wolf. Plus a child lying about SA specifically had to have learned that concept from somewhere and if you don’t know where, then someone has hurt or is hurting that child even if it isn’t who they say it is. That’s the only time I think kids are inclined to “lie” about it - as a dry run to practice telling what’s actually happening/to see what the process will be like/to see if they will be believed.
Just say "Stop don't touch me there!,this is my no-no square!"
Also did anyone know about the bs4?
• A x l e R b l x • StOP DOnT tOUcH ME tHERe THIs Is mY nONO squaRE
I didn't watch sex video I'm checking this
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That hapennd...to me....im a girl...I havent tell my mom im scared...
Please tell her. I've been sexually abused by my dad 10 years ago. Today was the day i finally spoke to a psychologist about it. I feel relief. It's not my secret anymore. I trying to heal from it now since my mental health changed drastically for the worse in those 10 years i kept it to myself. My mom still doesn't know, but if i could turn back time i would have told her immedialety if i had the knowledge back then what i have now. I could have prevented so much pain and my dad would have been punished for it. Im 22 now so it's a lot harder to have him punished for somehing that happenend when i was just a child.
@@Adriana-cw1rb oh feel sorry for you..but Happiest things you recover it and you started a new life ..and now don't tell your mom ..its effect your mental pressure and try to to be happy..God Bless You
tell mom: ❌
Tell billions of random people: ✔️
you should say that 😡
But know told us so why?
When ur schools sends you this: 👁👄👁✌️
Tel me
Why would ur school send you that XD
CoyoteHOOHOO :3, Uhhh because this is an actual problem in society children need to learn
😭😭that's really nice of the school tho
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There is no foolproof way to protect children from sexual abuse, but there are steps you can take to reduce this risk. If something happens to your child, remember that the perpetrator is to blame-not you and especially not the child.
I must agree, I'm Brazilian and I heard a case on TV where a girl of just 9 years old was abused by her stepfather, unfortunately when she went to tell her mother about the abuse, the mother didn't believe it and even reprimanded the child for making up stories, situation really sad look 🤦🏻♀️
Meanwhile, Blue Bird weaponized it. (Reference: Dream allegations)
i was sexually abused by other children. not all sexual abusers are adults.
the video says it, actually.
1:30 The child that is among the people is a representative of abusers.
Me too
Do sexual abuse as a child lead u to inflict sexual abuse onto other children?
I'm really glad the new series only uses the 2D animation. The 3D animation is creepy.
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Yeah
My uncle: come sit on my lap so you can drive
Me: i didn't ask and there's a cop right there !!!
Oh god---
My dad did this but not in a sexual way I dont think i was 5...
But i steered! And I always sat in his lap i loved my dad he was supposed to be my grandpa but my dad died so I called him dad if any of you are confused
it's just a game -_-
I'd just say fuck off and run out the car-
The person who sexually abused me was almost arrested for it in 2017. The police knocked on their front door and gave them a warning and a slip of paper. But they were almost taken under custody.
My classmate did this to me when my grade is sophomore I'm a bit and he touched my private body parts and even my butt. I was so nervous and felt disgusted all the time so I'm scared and never forget about it.
Did you talk to someone about it ?
And are you safe now ?
Hope you're fine !💪
You’re so strong. It was not your fault, that person is a bad person.
please tell your parents or someone u trust, its never okay for anyone to do this to u. ♡︎
Remember to try and set boundaries with people:( im so sorry you had to experience that.
Just slap his fucking idiotic face :)
I did that too ^^👊🙂
“Abuse is never your fault”
Abusers: good to know!
"Abuse is never the victim's fault"
I shouldn’t have laughed a bit-🥲😭
Why are they called buildings? If they’re already built why is bacon called bacon and cookies called cookies if you cook bacon and bake cookies
I really love this channel and the animations because it does a really good at teaching about sexual abuse sexual abuse NEEDS TO STOP!!!!
50% about some gane console
20% my brother screams when i touch him now
Me: why can i relate to this....?
Only one comment is about the brother
@@deen_771 yh
The other day i was at a restaurant with my dad and i was wearing a black floral dress with a very slight v-neck. nothing too revealing but the i did notice that the waiter kept looking at my neck and kept looking at me the entire time, he was around our table even.
When dad went to wash his hands the waiter mouthed me to come outside and i felt disgusted thankfully dad came before he got any closer but since that day i avoid wearing that dress cause i don't feel nice wearing it anymore
You should wear the dress when ever you want! Shame on that waiter. But if you don’t want to that is perfectly fine but just remember that waiter was probably just raised wrong.
@@Shrek4ever630 thank you for saying that 💗
@@bookish_ronnie your welcome :)
From this video I learned I have been sexual abuse and I didn't know it was still like that if you went with it
Oh
Are you still being hurt?
@@guineapigtalks No I'm not, this only happened when I was really young like 6
@@enderless6055 I’m glad you’re okay now!
@@guineapigtalks Thanks so much your really kind 😊
Hopefully all kid know what to do if this situation should ever happen to them
Sugar Z Blossom yes u r right
I knew what to do.
I don't feel like it gets talked about enough 😑
If they even recognize it at all. If the person doing this has authority and trust enough, this might not even be the case. I am from de 'beware of stranger danger' generation. Nobody ever told me it could happen by the hands of someone I loved and trusted. Nobody explained to me that if your need for attachment is great enough, you might even mistake it for love. Nobody explained to me how my body could get accustomed to it and even yearn for the forbidden contact, as my soul wandered off into seperate realities. These are the difficult things that don't get explained often enough, that are so often misunderstood and poorly judged out of fear, shame and resentment. I share your hope, but Children often have no way of recognizing these things.
@ViktorIsBackMfs69420 that is not how being groomed works.
The BS4 is one of the best consoles of all time
The whole reason I came to this vid was cuz of the bs4 its like the best
@@hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii5 i know right
Nah the bs5 is
Facts and the Bs5 is coming out soon
The batshit 5
This channels videos should be shown at school.
This was shown at my school in 5th grade lol
I agree
Instead of those videos who just say "tell an adult" even though they don't do anything
They shown Are you Okay From Northlight School (SINGAPORE ONLY)
Wen I was in 4th grade somebody touched me and I sad no
Good job! 👍 you should stand up for yourself when someone wants to touch you in a way you feel uncomfortable with.
Same happened to me, he got dealt with and now me and him are good friends.
Kion 001 um child anyways sooo
stop looking at my name and look at the comment chile*
•pyong•That’s a country
2d: DAMN DUDE THIS IS COOL!
3d: UGHHHH WHAT IS THIS
As someone who was sexually abused by my best friend at the age of 10-12 I understand how hard it is to recover from this. at first tbh i didn't realise that it was SA. I even trusted this boy so much i let him around for sleepovers. It was a massive mistake because when i was sleeping he took off my clothes and underwear. he started to touch me in places that aren't appropriate at all. (I found this out via cctv in my mum's house) This happened when i was 11 years old. When I was 10 he would touch me when i had my clothes on and he would make me touch him forcefully. Once i turned 12 he tried to r^pe me however i stopped him by st^bbing him in the chest with my house keys. I have never told anyone until up to this point.
You are so brave, and I hope life is treating you well today. ❤
Tf
BS4 is funny yes, but y’all don’t get the real message of the video and that hurts
I was in camp and my cousin was kissing me and it made me uncomfortable. The next day I told my mom the my cousin was kissing me.
Elizabeth Allred SIS WHAT
I'm 10 and he's 17.
Elizabeth Allred OMG
Andy cousin RAPED me. ;-;
@@elizabethallred5757 by the elder gods no
These 3D characters havd fallen down the uncanny valley. The all 2D animated videos are better.
Who in the world has a BS4? That makes 0 sense. Also Agents Faith, Underclock, Mind something. I need to look those up
The god-damned BS4 doesn't matter, it's a sexual abuse prevention.
RipMeBlade723 they did it so they won’t get sued by Sony
It was obviously Mindcraft lmao
According to wiki, BS4 or BS-4 may refer to :
BS4, a BS postcode area for Bristol, England
BS-4, Biuro Szyfrów 4, the German section of the Polish Cipher Bureau
BS4, a center drill bit size
B-s4, a variant of the Antonov A-1 aircraft
BS 4 Specification for Structural Steel Sections, a British Standard
Bonomi BS.4 Basettino, an Italian primary glider in the 1930s
Brilliance BS4, a 2007 Chinese car
BS-IV Bharat Stage emission standards in India
BS4, a brass left-hand threaded Gas cylinder valve
mya-reese durr finally someone came to the right video
Me: a 13 year old child never abused
also me: watches these videos and cries
I turned 14 couple months ago
@@lalalalaaarry747 I am so so sorry to hear that, but don't let this get you down. You are bigger and greater then those feelings of shame could ever hope to be, and I'm really happy you decided to vent our your feelings even if its online. You got this I rooting for you
@@lalalalaaarry747 hey i hate what happen to you hope your doing good, happened to me too...im only saying this because my name and everything is changed so my identity is pretty much confidential :) my stepdad does the exact same things to me at night telling my mum hes just checking on us or if were sleeping. I feel like literally dropping dead whenever i see her trynna be lovey duvvy with him. I have a couple pages of what i want to tell her one day (i didnt tell her yet, its been 2-3 years) but if i dont tell her im going to disappear one day....tough but yh...
“Bull shit 4”
Lmao
2021:bs4 not ps5
I’m sorry but I can’t with that “BS4”
**inhales deeply and exhales hard puts hands together into a praying position over mouth opens eyes wide and then falls out of chair and bangs on the table while crying and laughing and screaming**
Me too lmao 🤣 😂 💀
I love the ps4! I mean, bs4!
Can we please quit talking about the “bs4” and actually focus on the REAL problem?? Jesus y’all are immature...
Yeah everyone is just talking about a bs4 like WHO CARES. This happens to people and y’all are there just saying “bs4”. Smh 🤦♀️
bs4
@@manha459 how about the bintendo switb
Persons talking about Jesus are immature
Bs4 bs4 bs4
So I am 11 (11 now or 10 whatever, I still look 10-) and I have lived this type of abuse with some guy on the internet not going to tell anyone what he was asking for but I kept saying "no" and it stoped...kinda--
Hello😀😀😀
@@shotaaizawa1467 hi :)
Oh DONT EVER DATE FROM THE INTERNET
I’m 1 year younger
@iigxchx musicii that person texted me to but I blocked them the second they said hi
Let's talk about how they plagiarized PS4 with BS4
I don't think you get what the word "plagiarized" means
@@sillyfella2009 ok . what is your definition
@@brandonseepersaud9916 Taking Someone Elses Idea And Taking It For Yourself And Telling Everyone It's Yours. This Was Parody
@@brandonseepersaud9916 also why are you replying to me at nearly 4AM
@@sillyfella2009 sorry about that
oh gosh no so my uncle and aunt were actually sexual abusing me?!
I am so sorry that you identified with some of the things in the video. Did you talk to someone about what actually happened? It’s important to speak to someone near you who is willing to listen and take action to keep you safe. Take care ❤️
am I the only one taking this thing seriously and everyone else is joking in the comments? Also if a sister or brother touches you or a friend like if you are playing a game and he/she touches your private part on accident and it doesn't make you feel comfy would that be considered abuse?
Not necessarily, it can be a genuine accident, but it just depends on how they handle the situation and if they apologize or not. If they notice they did, they should always apologize. But it can be tricky because if they "accidentally" touch you, they could cover it up by lying and saying it was accidental, when in reality they meant to touch you. If they keep on accidentally touching you , or they notice and never apologize, tell a trusted adult.
that horrendous CGI has sexually abused my eyes.
on a serious note, this channel MASSIVELY oversimplifies this issue to the point that they actually aren't helping anything.
I have an uncle white a skin condition that makes some of his body white and black his name is Donny and the second I saw him I got bad vibes it was at a family reunion and everyone loves him he winked at me twice and kept calling me over and had me sit on his lap and he touched me in uncomfortable parts I haven’t told anyone but my sister and two friends but they said I was overreacting
You are not overreacting! If there is an adult that you can really trust, tell them.
@@simonelewis8276 thank you that really makes me feel better
my uncle alwyys bought me stuff i wanted like chips or esrphones and stuff, the first time it happened was when i was 8 he touched my thighs and even went further, i was young so i thought ir was ok,when i was 9 the touching never stopped, thats when i entered the internet and told my online friends who werw a lot older, they kept saying it but who knows what i thought, at 10 it got worse,im 11 now and it still hasnt stopped :(
I'm sorry that happened to you
Please tell somebody please. Have you told your parents about it?? I understand you're in an overwhelming situation right now. I went through the same exact thing, but please. Not telling anyone is going to cause even more damage to you, and it won't stop. It isn't normal for him to be doing that to you. Im begging you, please tell one of your parents or just any adult that you trust. I understand that you might not feel comfortable telling your parents, but atleast tell a teacher or someone. I'm so sorry you are going through this, nobody should have to experience something so traumatic. I know this comment is a month old, but I really hope things turn out better for you.❤
Did you tell yet?
@Slut Girl Reborn wtf. Why do you not want it to stop?!
Call 911
Tell a trusted adult or school staff
Call cps
both my parents touched me, even today they stil do. I tell them to stop it. They never listen. I've told them that I'm not comfortable with it and they won't stop I don't know what to do anymore.
Tell cps or a teacher
Please tell a teacher, or a relative you trust. I'm so sorry this is happening to you.
Same
@Slut Girl Reborn what the fuck is wrong with you
@Slut Girl Reborn wtf I don’t think abuse is enjoyable
But, bigger issue and worse than this is physical abuse and mental abuse on childs, It's 99% out of 100% population and it is very clear to identify, but still we are not fighting for it
PS4 stands for PlayStation 4 bs4 stands for Bull s*** 4
My dad sexually abused me for no reason, i cant say no because dad will get angry, i was kid getting sexual abused for the first time, but now its over, dad is still here and i said not now, dont do it again please. I can't tell mom about this, she will banish me for months, please dont call the police, my dad was still nice to me when i got 8 to 10 scores.
I love these videos because it helps kids understand that it’s not ok for s3xual abuse to happen.❤
That must be so confusing..for a child
I feel so sorry for these kids:-(
yes me to
Please be safe out there. If someone is making me feel uncomfortable just run to anybody that is in your house
This Confusing Huh What!!!! Eh Ohh No
This is Disturbing?????
a Ran Away From Home with on 🤳🏻📱
My Friends came back to save me From a bad boy Abuser. Last time I got hurt like Kate Bishop with Bruises
1:55 bro when is the BS5 Coming out?
I think this has happened to me, but im not sure since they were my friend, and they seemed to be joking.
Predators: *starts touching you down there*. You: "NO!" Predators: oh I'm so sorry I'll stop immediately"
I keep laughing at the comments that talk abt BS4
"You need to tell a trusted adult" 🧢
How?
It's not 🧢
I like pokemon and video games
I got abused by my Uncle Jeff he was really close to me so I trust him a lot and then soon he starts touching me in a harassing way tht I could not handle it and then he just let our parents to leave me in the house alone with him our parents couldn't think tht he would do such kinda thing to me they really trusted him eventhogh I hint them several time the thing tht they did was they let me to stay with him when their hanging out. One night he just start kissing me harshly tht I could not make it , I just wanted to say this to my parents but then I realized tht they wouldn't litsen to me finally I leave the home and now leaving peacefully...
*Ema Steve
Please care about your daughter/son while their associates with external persons
im so sorry that happened to you :(
@@h34rtzm1ka it was one of my Patients
@@Amigranx28 oh, i feel sorry for them then :(
I am so sorry
I got sexual abuse to but I told my mom when he was getting arrested I was really confused what was going that time I felt like I was in a room all day with a man
I am glad you told
Hi
What if your dad/mom touches you in a way you dont want to be touched?
That’s abuse. You can definitely tell them to stop but go to a trusted adult first.
sometimes it not that easy to just say no or tell someone especially if its a relative because then you start thinking about the consequences and it scares you
wow what a perfect 3d animation
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I know this is a serious video and all, but it makes a little sense that the “old friend” gave Quinn the BS4. No way it isn’t the Bull Shit Four.
Did this stuff actually happen
this stuff happens all the time
BS4 at 1:56
Bullis*** 4
@@tyrell7693 lol I was gonna comment that
I was sexually abused bu my step father for two years...and i was touched by an older boy and a boy who was a double my age...all of this took place from the ages of 4-6...im 13 and i just confided in my counselor about this she was the first person i ever told..im scared...i dont know what will happen....and it made me feel sick...i felt like i was gonna throw up and i was suoer dizzy and had the worst headache...it felt awful but at the same time...i felt relief...i hid this secret for so so long...and i finally shared with someone... please reach out for help. It may feel scary and awful in the beginning but in the end you will thank yourself for it. Trust me ❤
My cousin touched me but I like it
I ship it
I’ve been there bro
It happens
AH YES I HATE ME LIFE. THIS CG SHITE use blender textures
I didn't know that was sexual abuse the internet someone told me to get this weird game and they did one of the things this video said for sexual abuse
Isn't the voice of lady from this video of spencer from cake app🤔🤔
It's me or the Bs4
"You can take both" is what an abuser would say
What the hell is a dS4 not only is it going to sexually abused you but it's going to give you fake game consoles 😭😭
Idk if I’m stupid or not but whenever someone knows I’m 15 and asks for nud3s I send them still because I don’t want to risk making anybody upset and I don’t want to make anyone angry im trans btw pronouns are she her
Those people are taking advantage of you. You don’t owe them anything. Even if they feel bad or upset because you didn’t send them those pics, it’s wrong for them to feel angry and it’s not your fault. Never ever show your body to anybody over the internet. Always remember that it’s not your fault and that those guys are not owed too see your pics. Good luck.
Fuck them ! You don't owe them anything ! I know it's hard because I'm a bit of a people pleaser myself but you don't do something that make you uncomfortable just for some pervert on the internet. I'm not mad at you, don't get the wrong idea. I'm mad at pedo. If anyone makes you uncomfortable, stop engaging and block them. I hope you're okay now
True I’m fucking angry to not my real dad I’m fucking like to having prison him or fucking beaten up how can i do that he always block mailing at us
I have been sexually abused by a high school boy who were older than me as a 8th grader when I was 13 and he touched me on my bottom. He forced me to touch the part between his legs by actually grabbing my arm/hand to touch his private parts but I didn’t. We were sitting together in the bus since there were no seats. And he told me not to tell anyone. So, I kept a secret for a few years. It made me feel sad, angry, disgusted, scared, and anxious about it since I thought that something bad would happen and I didn’t know what to do about it so I kept it secret till 10th grade. I decided to tell my mom and she understood me. Only my mom and dad knew what happened. A few years later during post Covid, he dropped out from school and I felt reviled since I was so nervous that it would happen again. Since that incident, I learned a lot about how to protect myself for that if it happens again. I am planning to tell my school eventually so he doesn’t do it to anyone else. I can still remember the trauma and the situation since it is always on the back of my mind. I am constantly looking around to make sure that nobody else does this to me the same way I went through it. I also don’t like being touched on my private parts, my back, or my shoulders since it reminded me of the abuse that I went through because of that person who did it to me and it made me uncomfortable, disgusted, scared, and anxious.
How come this channel doesn't show an adult female abusing a male child or female on female abuse or transgender abuse hmmm
Ikr
My dad used to force me to hug him when I was younger.
I’m sorry for you
What??
Is that bad?
My favourite console, the BS4
I feel like I’m getting abused what should I do?..
It's really hard to talk, but communication makes a world of difference. Also remember that there is ALWAYS someone who loves you and is willing to help you. God loves you, I love you, and I'm sure there is a bunch of other people that do too. You could even contact authorities if you feel the need. Hang in there, it won't last forever. But I cannot stress enough that communication is going to help you more than your abuser will hurt you. Hope this makes you feel better God bless you🥰
Thank you a lot!
No problem hope it helped
Run and call the police
@@blacklyfe5543 nahh.. He should punch him then call police!👍
The reason why it says Bs4 is because ps4 can actually copyright strike fight child abuse
I told it stoped. You should tell too.
Happy for you ❤️
Yea..It happened to me before...:( I..Was sitting with a boy when I was in third grade.. (Also it was the first day of class ) And then he...kinda tried to touch my private spot..I was almost crying..then he said oop I dropped My eraser then he went down to grab the eraser.. But he was actually trying to get his hands under my skirt..then I joined my legs together and tried to ignore him..then he got up and said FUCK U :'( and then he pushed me... I said noting but there were tears in my eyes..as I grew up he bullies me..then when I went to Fifth grade he was sitting behind me..I turned around..to get something from my bag pack then he...said Boobs while showed a weird something squishy touching hand action ;-; and I got mad and hit him with my book then I turned around but as the future came he almost killed a classmate of mine then he got transfered to a other school! Now I'm in sixth grade Eh online classes also I met a child predator on the Internet when I was in forth grade :'(
@ why..? .-.
@@gachagalaxystudio3826 Sounds like you have problems whatever grade you are in.
@ yep that's true ;w;
I don't care 😂😂😂
Touch your Own Private Parts.
Dave K what the fuck
@@BearFingerz ???
I have one a man touch who touch my shoulder siding down it was sacry😩😩
Sacry
I was sexually abused by my older cousin when I was only seven 😓
My brother slaps my but.But every time i tell him to stop he does not.
That's not necessarily sexual abuse if that's all he's doing. When I was younger me and my friends would do that to each other as a joke. As long as he's not like touching it for long periods or other places
@@yo9979 it is??
@@userM331 it is what
@@yo9979 isn't that sexual abuse?
@@userM331 no because my friends also do it as a joke
This happed to me i wasn't sure at time if it was sexual abuse by my step father because it didn't happen often, there were times when he poke my boob by "accident " while playing with the dog because i was holding him, or the time during a family movie he usually touches my mother upper thigh then instead he started touch mine i thought is was an "accident " to but then he continue even after i smacked his hand several times away from me. i felt like i was the crazy one even though i was a teenager it didn't seem real that it could be my step father.
BS4 🤣
Of all the letter swaps
I’m just watching for the shitty art style lmao
Toriel watching this video:
HOWS TOUCHING THE CHILD
@Angel Pancake1212 sorry
@Angel Pancake1212i like your icon
@Angel Pancake1212 you should do animation or a gaming channel just saying
How do you tell someone you trust? How do you speak to your parents? It is so hard for me to do I'm scared
Hey if you want my opinion here it is... first of all if you want to talk to someone you trust like a friend or a close family member or your parents, but you don't know how.. you have to be confident on yourself. You can even try thinking what your gonna say before you say it a couple times. And I'm sure the person you tell will understand. And don't tell yourself they won't. Don't doubt because then you can talk yourself out of doing it. If you tell yourself u can then u can but if u say u can't you won't. Speaking to your parents can be difficult but if it helps just start talking to them about a anything. Start a conversation and then when u feel the time is right say, I have something I've been wanting to ask or tell you, and they will listen. Remember they are your parents not strangers, so just think of them as your friend. Dont be scared just do it! Ik it's hard but if u push through it you'll feel so much better! I believe in you!
- also sorry this was so long hahaha.
The “BS4”... I see what you did there lmao
Thanks a lot jackass, now my kid won’t hug me
🙏
Protect your body 🙏
@@solangekamuntu6452 🙏
And protect your cheeks amen 🙏
people who says some thing without giving credit and dont care: i got a ps4
People who says they got something without giving credit and care: i got a bs4
This whole video just discribes my uncle.
I’ve been did that that’s why I said that because I said that when he did do it
Is there anyway you can get help? Any teachers or anyone you trust to tell
That is really sick
If anyone needs to talk, I'm here. I've been through this and made it out the other side. It does it get better, and I'm proud of you for being here. :)