Is Anybody Out There?
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 ธ.ค. 2022
- Is Anybody Out There? is a short film produced by Barbara Sinatra Children’s Center Foundation in collaboration with Wonder Media that explores the importance of a trusted adult and the courage it takes for a teenager to tell their story.
I love how realistic this is and how they talk like actual teenagers
Same like ik most of us add like a tad of slang here and then but it doesn’t mean we really be talking like
“Ayo mah guy how is you and le fam”
Like bruh
@@itzskye7074 😂
@@itzskye7074 ayo mah guy how is you and le fam
@@hahhey1372 They doing proper alright mate
Wait now I just sound british
Its really great how they put her in a space suit. Being harassed like that makes you feel like you cant breathe, cant move very well, and you feel lonely. Its EXACTLY like it shows, in space, alone and scared, heavy.
But in space you don’t weigh anything (sorry if I start a war)
Ok makes sense good to know thank you
So accurate, also for other types of manipulation
God is the one who gives us encouragement and encouragement with his words and promises in our lives.
Psalm 31:24
Be of good courage, And He shall strengthen your heart, All you who hope in the Lord. (Psalm 31:24)
Joshua 1:9
Have I not commanded you? Be strong and of good courage, do not be afraid, nor be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go. (Joshua 1:9)
Proverbs 3:5-6
Trust in the Lord with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding, In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He shall direct your paths. (Proverbs 3:5-6)
Psalm 23:4
Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, For You are with me. Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me. (Psalm 23:4)❤
For I the Lord thy God will hold thy right hand, saying unto thee, Fear not; I will help thee. Isaiah 41:10❤
For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord. Romans 6:23❤
For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son that whosoever believeth in him shall not perish but have everlasting life John 3:16❤
For I, the LORD your God, hold your right hand; it is I who say to you, "Fear not, I will help you. Isaiah 41:13
I love the fact that at the end the teacher doesn't try to hug her or touch her at all and they just sit and talk. It really shows he cares
i dont. bad ending fr
@@Jamie-yq5tx ?
@@Jamie-yq5txHow is this a bad ending? The coach ends up being arrested, and the girl feels safe again and starts playing and laughing with her friends again!
(It shows it during the credits.)
@@A13XLaircey well they have a different opinion than you.
@@cupidsdesire.But that's the worst opinion lmao
I especially liked the part when coach literally acted as if nothing happened, thats how it actually happens, they manipulate. I love this video so much.
It was particularly ballsy of him to advise her to "If anyone treats you like that, be sure to tell someone okay?" That's some next level gaslighting with a side order of reverse psychology.
@@CrowTR0bot Exactly. I was so shocked when he said that, its disgusting that these things are actually happening to people.
Fr
@@lucia_9437 stop overreacting 🤮
@@carlisclosetedphgt3666stfu because this actually happens.
This video is one of my favorites. I liked how the teenage girl worked up the courage to tell her science teacher that her PE coach touched her inappropriately.
9:30 SERVES THAT JERK RIGHT BIG TIME!!!!
@@yourtriggerman6133 FRICK YEAH!
@@yourtriggerman6133FR!
@@yourtriggerman6133YES! HELL YEAH
@@wittmybymyselfdon't check the comments at all then? That's the point of a comment section: to comment on a video..common sense isn't so common anymore..
Its giving me shivers because this is depicted so accurately. I was in the same situation with the pool coach in middle school. My parents didn't beleive me because he was Catholic, like us, and he was "too old" and "just flirting" and "it means you're beautiful". He was pressing his frontside against my backside every time we were alone, I could literally feel his intent if u get what I'm trying to say. :( So, you know. Typical Catholic logic.
@@feliciaperezauthor I’m so sorry about what happened, hope the idiot died. Very brave of you to stand up and share your story to inspire others!
Im so sorry this happened to you. Did he ever get exposed for what he did?
Hey! Not all Catholics are that way. My priest helped me out of abuse. I'll be grateful to him forever, but I'm sorry this happened to you and I hope you got the help you needed
Damn, as a Catholic woman, I would like to assure you that it's not your fault.
Disgusting perverts, and dogma can fool guardians, parents, or anyone. It's so disgusting because they use the name of the Lord, and the faith of others to their ulterior motives.
I hope you're doing okay, good luck 🤞
Omg I am so sorry girly I feel your pain I was raped by my only brother Tyler when he was only 13 years old and I was only 8 years old and I also got raped by my only uncle Tyler and he was 20 years old and I was 9 years old and now my brother Tyler is 17 about to be 18 this year and I am 13 now and my uncle Tyler is 21 years old now and my name is Avery and I am using my Mom’s phone
The realism with the gym teacher gaslighting her and how they actually talk and act like teenagers
pov me
@@Jamie-yq5tx If true, tell a responsible adult now.
The ponytailed girl is a true friend. Everyone needs someone like her.
The ponytailed girl is name "May Lui" !
Fr fr
We need more people like like her in this world
"I believe you" That's so powerful. More people need to hear that.
Like everyone
Made me tear up which I really didn't expect
This was me at 5 years old, in Kindergarten. My molestation
started shortly before. I was molested by my stepfather FRANK
from age 5-12. ✊💪I’m strong enough now and want to share my story to continue bringing awareness.
Im so sorry, i hope you’re doing so much better now
i hope you are doing better now
Screw Frank I hope he steps on a lego brick
FRANK *SUCKS*
I'm so sorry
i'll never forget when a drunk woman in her late 40s touched me after i did a gig. it was really weird and when i told my family they understood me but my dad was just like "get over it" "you shoulda paid more attention" like i was tired out after performing and i didn't think she'd do that since i knew her from church, previously. it's kinda a shame when guys laugh at other guys - the women in my family took me more seriously, i love my dad but he shoulda definitely understood that stuff like this affects guys too and it's not a light easy funny topic to discuss. 🤦🏾
drink responsibly.
I’m so sorry that happened to you I hope your okay now 😕
Damn dude, hope you're good now
That coach has some serious f*cking balls to straight up deny everything the girl is saying to her face. How did we get here people? How 😢
Well that's how it is in real life
Old me would've been patient and said smt like telling them off and if not reporting them and if still ain't working get like film evidence or a voice recording and then like file a restraining order or sum
But now me just says punch the fuck out of those b*tches and *over* with the thing.
Like those people do not deserve someone so understanding.
Depending om how moderate tell them off first and if they keep pushing with it then give them some kind of damage long lasting or not, break a nose by all means - it's self defense. Then after that most will probably f off already but just in case also like get evidence(not always needed, and don't feel pressure if it makes you feel uncomfortable) and report them
Because of digital corn??
@@ugotmejumpinlike.. digital corn?
@@papahudz69 p0rn
Changed it to corn because yt can’t handle those type of wprds
I was SA’d at a young age and totally understand what she is going through! I still am in therapy for my trauma from that experience.. it’s getting better though!! 💕💕
Your so brave I hope you get better soon
Hope the therapy helps!
I was too, im so sorry love, it shouldn't have happened to either of us
@@Angel.bunny_16 I agree!! In the not weirdest way possible, I will love and pray for your well being!! ✨ Stay strong y’all ✨
L lmao
Listen @@SpeedySonic_YT I'm a sonic fan too and I'm not that petty. Why did you laugh at a SA victim. Why. I got SA'd also by my classmate. Imagine if you got SA'd too.
It's good that this shows that even the people who seem safe and everyone looks up to can be monsters. The coach seemed cool and charismatic, and when she told him to stop, he started gaslighting and trying to make her think it was an overreaction. Sadly, this happens way too often.
Also, the science teacher is an absolute Giga Chad, we need more teachers like that, teachers who actually care about the students.
Real
And who make such amazing jokes😂
I don’t know man i view that world like that
sad that you have to say that, because all teachers should be able to care about every one of their students.
This is expressed so realistically. It is so scary how the coach sounds so "innocent" like he didn't do anything to her.
I told my dad that I was being abused by a family member. His response was, "what do you expect me to do about it?" I was so shocked that I didnt tell anyone else. Not my mom, or teachers, or counselors. I didnt talk about it again until i was in my mid twenties.
I'm so sorry! I hope that family member got what they deserved
my dad told me i should've been more aware of my surroundings. kinda sucks when your own dad tells you that.
@@eelamite yeah. I'll never forget what my dad and my siblings put me through.
Tf?? What's his problen? He is the "responsible adult" HE SHOULD DO SOMETHING!. How some people know his kids are been abuse and do nothing??
Wth it is?? He should have taken responsibility 😕
Tbh, when I saw her in a space suit, I literally almost forgot how to breath, but that dosent matter, this is an amazing animation, and it shows how important is to tell a problem to a grown-up, great job😁
Forgot how to breathe? Like you can’t breathe in space? Haha :)
same, when i saw her like that it actually made me breathe a little harder, as if i felt almost the same as she did, even tho this never happened to me.
@@kuxz_way2real
Bro now can't breathe 💀
Omg I thought I was the only one❤❤😮
i’m scrolling in the comments and seeing how so many people relate to this. i’m so sorry you had to go through that and you guys are really brave and stronger than most of us here
Sometimes this is exactly how it feels. The isolation of not really being able to tell what's going on...
yeah it's hard to tell people too because of the fear of not being believed. A lot of this video is very close to home.
With my own experience with molestation, it feels less and less real the more time passes. It was at the point where at by end of the day I'd be doubting whether I was even touched like that at all.
Agreed
I’ve never told anyone but my judo teacher did the same things several times a year and a Half ago. I didn’t understand what was happening, and thought i was just imagining things. I begged my mom to let me stop judo because « the teacher was mean ». I was the only girl and felt that he looked at me different . I thought it was just a « part on the sport » , to be touched like this.After classes , I was terrified. I started hurting myself and feeling isolated since then. Now i fear it is too late and no one will believe me.
@@Totoro_artit’s not too late
Its not always the adults. I also got touched in a inappropriate way by a student out if my class. I reported him right away, I didnt cry or anything, just kinda embarrassed that I got touched that way. Im happy that it happened to me back then, I was way more confident in such situations then now.
Edit: I am so sorry for all of you in the replies! You can get through everything, we believe in you! :)
I know neither of us are at fault, but my younger brother keeps hugging me without my consent, which sounds normal until I tell him not to and he does anyways, and hes "touched" me before. Now, keep in mind he has no idea what hes doing, he hasnt done that type of education yet. He thankfully hasnt done it in a while now. In case ur wondering why i havnt told anyone, i have. My mom has gotten angry at him TWICE for it, yet for some time after both he continued, and he is practically glued to me in a certain lesson we do, and it makes me uncomfortable, the way he acts. Luckily I dont have to worry about that anymore, as im going to a different class next year.
This kid named Giovanni (exposing his first name because he deserves it)
He talked about inappropriate things with me during lunch (he was a year older than us fourth graders , this was about 3 years ago) so I didn’t know back then , but now I do BECAUSE OF HIM. Fast forward a year later , I got sent to ISS because I had a tic and I accidentally dropped the f-bomb i still got blamed and got 10 days off IN SCHOOL SUSPENSION. He touched my legs inappropriately and he also said that he wants to f me
So then I want to tell the teacher of the ISS room BUT . If I did. I had the fear he would do something since this kid would also be in ISS every 2 weeks.
Fast forward a year , I had a friend SHE WAS THE DAMN GIRLFRIEND OF HIM.
We are still friends but I am afraid to tell her what he did to me.
I still have not told my family .
@@user-yy7pg6sy9c This is why we have to teach Boys to keep it in their pants
@@HaruUraHH20You should tell your family and if they don’t believe you then they’re just a sh tty family. Or tell another close friend that cares about you.
I’m currently getting touched by 2 students in my class but I’m getting bullied out of telling anyone I don’t know what to do
I like how they sound like actual teens and not just adults copying how teens talk.
When the Science Teacher said “well I believe you”, I was immediately pushed to tears. As a survivor, those words are the same ones that helped me stand up for myself. Validating the experiences of others can save them from their situations.
For anyone who wants to know the difference between the Director's Cut and this, it's the opening scene being cut out of this version-- from what I can tell, there's absolutely no other changes, but I definitely prefer the Director's Cut with the intro scene left in-- it really sets the tone, creates a quicker connection to Mari, and it introduces the visual of space naturally.
In the final cut (this one) it just feels weird that it cuts in the middle of the music
I love how it potrays how it would actually feel if this happended to a teenager. It's realistic, that's what I like about this.
"I'm holding back the team"
also her: litterly stuns Lu with her skill.
Often the people who can't see their own skill are themselve...
I mean the coach did keep calling her the weak link in order to make her feel low enough in order to abuse her with ease.
@@ameliasellers6396 Oh that is a point.
For all those 9-19 children watching this, think of it as a learning lesson if anybody touches you inappropriately
As teenager, I appreciate how this brings more awareness to the subject
This is what our parents are worried about. No wonder they are so protective.
yeah they dont want me to friend anyone in snap only trusted ones and friends and families and not let me go outside
fr i didn't understand it back then but i get it now
Exactly
That’s why they wanted me to become a black belt. 😂
Not all of them
The good ones, at least
Something else I found interesting is that throughout the video she wore more layers and baggier clothing as a means to help her feel safe. The details the creators add to make this more relatable is so beautiful.
0:48 I like how confused and like “Wtf” she was. That’s an accurate description of how anyone being harassed would feel if it just came out of complete nowhere. I also love how her friend could see right through her and told her to get help. But unfortunately, not everyone has friends like that. Thankfully I was raised around kind people who wouldn’t even dream of such things, but I pray for the people who are going through this, especially the ones who might be surrounded by these disgusting people or people who don’t believe them.
That girl probebly felt so scared, and feeling like she was being watched.
She did the right thing.
I hope they can do a movie like this and a boy is going through something like this. Would be amazing :)
they already did
@@stxphxnniie157 Yeah ik with the pastor and the boss but I mean a full short film like this lol
@@brandonb15 there was another one too but it wasn't a short film but I get what you mean now
That science teacher is an amazing guy.
Yeah definitely
What I really enjoyed about this is how it shows just how manipulative pedos are. Glad that it encourages those going through this to speak up.
i like how she told another man what happened, in these videos it usually shows the men as the villains and the women as heros, which is the case in a lot of these sutuiations, but it’s important to show you can tell ANYONE you trust about this regardless of their gender
Nah men are always villains no matter what
@@Abandoned_Account88 Ok irrational.
@@Abandoned_Account88 ok karen
Damn I’d love a show in this style, the animation is wonderful!
Carmen Sandiego Is Like This! (The NEW One)
Me too
everytime i come back to this video i start crying. im so glad messages like this are being spread now in ways that are understanding
@@feliciaperezauthorI hope you are better now
@@feliciaperezauthorJesus loves you all I hope you can heal and forgive all the pain is for purpose and I want to let you know you have a testimony in Jesus Christ amen!
@@Happybaggiehave you been abused? I want to let you know the things you've been told don't define who you are, you are loved amen
@@John-ls4xh oh no I’m not abused I’m actually really happy lol 😁 I just wanted to watch a vid that all Jesus loves you too I hope you have an awesome day
@@John-ls4xh amen I am already christen with the rest of my family we are all going n our journey in god already 😁👍🏾
This hits way too hard knowing that my favorite PE teacher got fired for grooming a fourth grader in my school… well it’s safe to say that he ain’t my favorite anymore. The other PE teacher looked stressed the day he told us that the other PE teacher would be out for “personal reasons.” And the victim also did. Apparently one of my friends is friends with the young little girl and she vented to her about it. I feel so damn bad…
I relate to this so much since i was a huge victim to several counts of something similar to this video. It really shows what its like
I’m so sorry! I hope your doing better now!
Im so sorry, i hope you are doing better now
Know that you are strong for getting through that
I’ll gladly hunt them down and leave there heads on your porch would you like that?
Im sorry! It was me!
I'm glad that teenager told her favorite science teacher about the basketball 🏀 coach touching her inappropriately in the gym and report the abuse to the school counselor about it and her mom. That basketball 🏀 coach got fired and was arrested before he could cause more trouble. Luckily for her she was able to protect herself and other kids from sexual abuse.
what about boys?
@@ritujithshibu6967 I dont know what you mean? The comment said she protected herself and other *kids* , it already featured boys
@@ritujithshibu6967 they weren’t excluding boys
I almost cried when the line became unhooked; for me that resembles the start of ending one’s life. My bsf commuted during Christmas so I’m in tears rn
I know it’s been a year
But I’m so sorry for your loss
I offer my sincerest condolences. Have you been able to heal since then?
ik its been a year but im so sorry for ur loss. are you doing okay now?
I literally tore up, I wish i could find someone like the teacher who helped, but instead all I got was backlash. Which completely shut me up about it.
“If your not being heard, eventually you’ll stop talking” - unknown
I can’t never share how greatful i am for these. They changed my life, so much. In fourth grade, a fifth grader touched me. It made me very uncomfortable and he knew what he was doing. I found this channel and i found out i wasn’t alone. Thank you.
I’m concerned how a fifth grader already builds a sexual mindset like that already
They probably don’t have a mindset like that
I have been touched on my pelvis by a girl but the principle just said it was an accident
She tried pulling down my underwear and asking for “one suck”
She knew what she was doing but she says “IM A FEMINIST
IF MEN Do IT TO US WE DO IT TO THEM” ect
Just bcuz I’m a male does not mean I’m a creepy perv
@@succmarbals910I’m so sorry that happened to you, I hope karma gets her if not the police, coming from a sexual abuse survivor myself
SO WE AREN'T GOING TO TALK ABOUT HOW WELL WRITTEN THE SCIENCE TEACHER IS?????
He's like my English teacher 😢
When I was SA'd I had absolutely no idea because it happened so fast. It took me a year and a half to finally realize what he did to be. I love how this video portrays the flashback because it's something i get alot, especially during class. Love y'all. Thank you ❤❤
Same.. twice.. it took me many years to even be able to get a grasp of what happened. It's absolutely horrific that people are like this.
@@alixgnn I'm so sorry that happened to you. No one deserves to be hurt in such a way.
@@jinxlove8852 I feel the same way for you. Have a great life, enjoy it as much as you can.
@@alixgnn thank you so much! Have an amazing life
I'm sorry for all the people who experience this, you all don't deserve that, no one deserve it. If you experience this, please tell someone you really trust, its not your fault.
if you’re going through this, dont be embarrassed or afraid to speak up about it and get some help from somebody you trust. nobody is gonna make fun of you for it, and if they do, then you shouldn’t even be listening to their inconsiderate and mindless thoughts. their opinion is invalid, and dont let them make you think otherwise. you know this is a problem and *you should not let other people’s opinions get in the way of your comfort.*
I genuenly adore these videos. They're so informative..
I was once touched weirdly by this teen in a wheelchair and I've never opened up about it.. I'm scare people would call me abliest
@trincess ♡
@waggingrlunless they have Tourette or something
I think, when telling this, it is worth telling them that you fear the potential stigma. It might help those you tell understand you.
I hope that, since placing the comment and now, you've felt comfortable telling someone. It doesn't really take courage, not really, it takes comfort to do so. That means that you're also not a coward for not telling.
This is actually how I felt for a good time when that random stranger touched my behind in the tram, at first I though it was someone by accident but then i realized.. I felt so dirty… told my auntie and she understood and then took the courage to tell my ex (bf in that time) and he understood too which made me feel safe.. wish this kind of things stopped happening. To anyone who go through it, there is always someone to listen to you and help you in anyway, it’s not you’lls fault🧡✨ -Tsuki
You've got to love the level of symbolism and perception going on in this, they portray her inability to tell anyone about her situation: her isolation to that of outer space and an astronaut. The rope attached to her suit is her will to tell others about her situation and that's why its constantly attached to her for most of the video. When its broken off and she starts floating away, you can tell she is fully isolating herself, no longer willing to talk about her problems, but is eventually dragged back to the ground by a person she can trust :> i like these kinds of things
I remember in 6th grade my teacher (he was very old & I was only a 10 year old girl) was very creepy to me and none of the teachers ever believed me and they only belived me after he was arrested. I am so glad that they are actually talking like people
this is amazing. it perfectly captures how I feel. so alone, with almost no hope to finding happiness, you're floating farther and farther away and you wish someone would help you. you're too sad to even cry so you just feel numb and emotionless. it feels like the only way you move forward is to go further down the road in space.
Hey if you would want to vent I'm here for you ❤
wow i dont think i ever saw this. your kindness is beyond appreciated, much love
I like how this is actually accurate instead of trying to “babietize” it while still making it understandable 💗
infantilize is the word. But yeah.
The animation is fluid and the way they showed mr.ramirez pulling her out of her panic attack and back to reality was beautifully depicted. In love with this
This is focus on anxiety
idk why but i really enjoy watching these animations
Alot of people don't take molestation seriously its important that we address this
I had the same experience but it was with a kid, and he touched me in the playground like, how did no one realize that. I wanted to tell someone but, it felt wrong, I had a feeling like. What if he did it as an accident? When I was admitted to the counselor, he said he already said sorry but, I didn't hear one, this made me feel like, I was taking people's attention or wasting everyone's time. And once my teacher got mad at me for crying in the elevator because of that "kid". After the incident, his parents made him move schools, and my parents gave me a lecture being all like, "Why didn't you just slap him? You know what he did was wrong. Next time someone does that to you you should hit them." but, not slapping him was a great decision because it made me not get in trouble at the playground where everyone can see. And now that he moved schools, some other girls thanked me, because I thought I was the only one that was getting touched by that "boy" It made me feel proud of my decisions and so every girl in my school that was touched, and me feel more comfortable in school. ❤ Please everyone, never be scared to share your feelings with someone you feel comfortable with. If you don't feel like telling or confronting the person that touched you, you can start by speaking to a counselor or just a teacher you trust. I know it feels hard but, don't be scared, I'm sure they will try to help. Take care everyone
It almost made me cry how much it resembled my own experience. I wish that I would have had someone who'd have believed me.
I believe you.
I JUST LEARNED ABOUT THIS CHANNEL FROM MY SCHOOL AND I WISH I LEARNED ABOUT THIS CHANNEL IN 2020-2022
It really does feel like you’re floating away from everyone when you’re in a situation like that. My own father sexually abused me from as far back as I can remember to age 15. I started self isolating once I realized what was going on. Everything and everyone seemed so far away, and nobody knew the nightmare I was living through every day.
Old habits are hard to break and after my father was put in prison four years ago I still mostly kept to myself. Instead of being scared every day, I was depressed and struggling to take care of myself. I distrust people so much I couldn’t even bring myself to open up to my therapist.
I’m finally starting to have more good days than bad ones and I’ve made friends for the first time in years within the past two months. I still struggle every day and I think it’s important to talk about this because there are so many people out there who once experienced or are experiencing this horrid nightmare right now, no matter how big or small it seems, and abuse leaves deep scars that no amount of healing will ever completely vanish.
I don’t know if this will reach anyone who needs it, but I hope you’re doing alright and that you’re safe. If you’re not, find someone you can trust to help you. It gets better, I promise, you just gotta keep going
i hope you’re doing better now, sending you a bunch of hugs ❤
I literally teared up at the end. This is really emotional, and it’s a good way to show what some people are going through.
Hey are you ok can I pray for you?
Jesus loves you and knows what your going through come to him
Wow I actually cried watching this. I knew this kid in middle school who constantly said horrible, traumatizing things to me and justified it. I was scared to tell people because I thought they wouldn’t believe me. There’s this girl that I’ve known since I was 10 who was there for me kind of like the science teacher in this video. I cried when she said “they wouldn’t believe me” bc I literally said the same thing
I love how this actually says how teenagers talk and how they react to stuff like that I’m gonna go show my teenager this😊
I went through something like this! So in kindergarten, we had this P. E. Teacher. When i was walking out of class, i felt a hand grab my butt. It was the P. E. Teacher! So i told my mom principal, and my teacher. Now that i think of it, it was super brave of me to tell. Eventually he was fired and went to jail.
To this day I can’t wear a blind fold from something 6 years ago because it floods all the bad memories. I was 8 the last time it happened, I have only told 2 people and it’s hard because I’m falling apart. You want to trust them, you don’t want to think they are doing something wrong. I never got to watch him go to prison because he committed suicide. Everyone thinks he was innocent. I want to scream and yell about how if he was innocent then why did he jump. But instead it’s safer to sit. I don’t want my family to think I don’t trust them so it’s better they don’t know
So did you tell your family??
8:57 wish i heard this when i needed it most.
I am trying my best to raise awareness against childhood sexual abuse and make my story heard.
I tried once but i was to shy to ask later on Jesus gave me the courage to say it and i was free
The fact that people can relate to this animation scares me. I genuinely felt so sick watching this, so good job for showing how it feels like a dead end in those situations. I need to know, is this stuff actually THIS common?
yeah, unfortunately.
It made me cry.. this is exactly how I feel... Flying away...
I'm very grateful with this, it brought me so many feelings, since I also suffered from inappropriate touching when I was 8-9 years old, also grooming; I can tell it feels exactly like that, being in a heavy suit without being able to tell anyone how you feel, soon after floating you just stop thinking and try to forget, thank you all for representing and making these situations visible.
"It's not your fault" line broke me. I have been SA'd multiple times at the age of 13-14 by an older cousin and I've been down a rough road my entire life. I finally got the help that I needed at the age of 30 and that line was the start of my recovery to moving past that. My wish is that everyone can find the courage to tell someone so that they can find the help that is needed for those that have been SA'd.
Fight Child Abuse.
I am trying my best to raise awareness against childhood sexual abuse and make my story heard.
THEY BACK THEY BACK!!!
Powerful picture of dissociation after SA. And her reluctance to speak out after the first reaction to her story is so real. Well done!
i literally cried for 5 minutes watching this bro how is it so relatable :(
8:48 to 9:04 im bawling, i wish someone would have said those words to me when i was younger. "I believe you" goes a long way
Listen everyone or anyone who is reading this, if ANYONE touches you inappropriately for whatever reason without your consent, tell someone! the more you hide it, the worse it get's. Don't let anyone disrespect your body because it's your body, not theirs! ok that's all!
0:53 the detail that she freezes up in shock after what happens is terrifyingly realistic
The friend is awesome, not pressuring her to tell her about it. But still advicing to tell someone about it.
I was 6 when I was touched by my pe teacher..he kissed my lips,holds me Inappropriately,touch my thighs..I didn't told my mom until I was 8,I felt like I was mute..I was uncomfortable to tell one of my traumas..when I was 8 n a half I was touched by my father,he kept touching me uncomfortably,I told my mom and now I'm 10 with separated parents,I wanted to let all young and old people out there that they aren't alone.❤
You were too young…..I’m so sorry you had to go through that I hope you’re ok
@@iminyourwall1690 I'm okay! But still my mom have to divorce my father
@thegirl_maryam_ hope you recover ❤
@@WafflecakeStrawberry AWHH thank you❤️❤️
@@Idontknoww_22 yw♡
9:30 Serves him right big time!
I was raped by a teacher in 2nd grade. People think it doesn't happen or that it's rare or that you were asking for it. Spread awareness, this could be happening at your school, to your friend, to your child. Always believe victims first.
I’m so sorry ❤ thank you for spreading awareness
Is he in jail if not drop names .
This happened to me and I have ptsd now this is awareness
I was... Groomed/SAd online and i have that exact feeling. You can't tell anyone.. i told my parents after months and they had a screaming fit. I was being abused.. but i didn't see it until wayy later into the relationship.. I'm so glad i blocked him
The way this perfectly shows how it feels, and the emotions and affects these kinds of experiences can have on a person.
The feeling of helplessness, as if you’re by yourself, alone in space.
From the expressions, it shows the thoughts that went through her head, the feeling of giving up on trying to defend yourself, as if it was pointless to try.
As someone who has experienced something like this this back in the day, I know how difficult it can be to talk to someone about these kinds of things.
I wish more people, including myself, could’ve brought up the courage to seek out help.
It really is a relief that these things are being acknowledged and talked about more nowadays :)
0:45
Shoulder: Hey, people do it. When we are proud of happy for someone. Dont worry about it too much, unless its a absolute stranger you have never met, or even heard of.
0:46
Lower shoulder: They might have been trying to go for the actual shoulder but missed. If its sliding down, ask them to stop.
Waist: If it was a family member trying to pick you up, like your mother for example (if you small enough) then it’s probably fine. However, if it again, is the sliding motion, tell them to “GET YOUR HANDS OFF ME.”
Butt/(you know what): Do NOT HESITATE. Especially if again, sliding motion. Shove them away, and say “I am fully capable of reporting this to the police. I WILL NOT HESITATE TO DO SO. GET YOUR HANDS OFF ME AND DO NOT TOUCH ME EVER AGAIN.”
Good advice. Honestly this has neer happened to me but I'l keep that in mind
@@marcyroblox_edits6657 it could though
Good advice, but these are all circumstantial and they won’t apply in every situation.
@@Bob64ds lets hope not🤚
This is exactly how it feels… the fact that she had someone that believed her is refreshing. The want to not get anybody in trouble because the fear of no one believing you is so strong, it took me years to report my abuser because I didn’t think anybody would believe me.
this video was played so accurately. ive only told a couple of my rlly close friends abt my grandfather and him touching places that make me feel uncomfortable, and saying strange sexual comments to me. only when hes drunk he does this (hes an alcoholic too)but thats no excuse. this has been happening since i was 9 yrs old. i havent brought the courage to tell my parents bc i dont wanna cause drama and i doubt they would believe me. but i rlly love this video, im glad ppl know the struggles some kids have to endure
OMG I'm so sorry you don't deserve this
its ok ty :)@@redflagsbisexualver
Can I pray for you, talk to a counselor that's what the LORD said,
If you want I can add you on discord as a friend
i gave up discord a bit ago, but ty, i am in fact christain but i jus have a messed up family. that ok tho, tysm i apprieciate u guiding ppl to the light, keep goin :)
@@John-ls4xh
@@isabellajohnson8627awesome if you love me keep my commandments if you struggle with anything God is there sis. Homosexuality isn't good but he can deliver his people in His mighty name. Marriages are restored in Him, so pray for your parents🙏🔥
That was a work of art, it perfectly captures what being sexually harassed/ abused feels like. I’m gonna admit I cried
Same I literally cried whilst having mascara 😭
I started tearing up cause things like this can really happen. I hope anyone whos dealing with anything like this are able to get some help 🙏
after I watched this film, I scrolled to the comments and saw how many people related to this. I hope y’all are better now
God if this helps anyone , there is someone on the other side that can help you. You just haven’t met them yet. I was groomed when I was 14 by a math tutor my parents hired. I didn’t understand if was grooming for years because he was a college student and I had the biggest crush on him. Im 23 now and only just started processing it AND THATS OKAY. I wasn’t safe to do that yet. My family was unsupportive and I had no one I could talk to. I got through it myself, which is never ideal but it’s what happened. But then in college I met THE BEST support person. I love them with my whole heart and they made me feel safe enough to unpack what happened to me when I was ready. It was a chance encounter. I never could’ve predicted meeting them. I left my school and bounced 3 different schools and senior year I met them at my last ditch effort to get my degree. I felt a love that was unconditional. Just by caring they made me remember who I am . I’m really wanting to tell you, please. The most important person you meet can come in your life 2 hours from now. You never know. Hold on.
I’m not sure if this is right, but I think the word “groomed” can apply between even people of the same age. Whatever the word is, I experienced that. It’s hard, and sometimes I still feel obligated to keep that sorta secret, or that I’m crazy and the problem.
This hit home is what I’m trying to say, it so silently crushes your heart, I’m so glad that a whole animation team gets somewhat of what I’ve gone through, and the audience it has reached :)
I personally haven't gone through something like this but its amazing to see content like this and it inspires me to do more for people like her thank you so much
This is exactly how i felt. My love for space grew stronger and i can't even comprehend how much it makes me think of myself when i look at her. I'm happy that she got to get rid of that burden she has been carrying, she's strong for that..
Nobody should ever be used to something like that. I love how it shows real problems like this & there are help. Friends Family & others.
i like how its centered around space, because we always need space and there is always someone out there
Im so so sorry to anyone who has been through this💔 no one deserves it, you are so strong and amazing and we love you❤ im here if anyone ever needs to talk❤
Can we take a minute to appreciate how well the representation is? I legit went through the same thing as her, I did the same as she did (talk to the abuser, in her case, her coach) and I got the EXACT same response "I have no idea what you're talking about, but it seems you're going through something. Make sure you tell someone" and when the teacher said "i believe you, it's not your fault" I started tearing up. I desperately needed to hear those words, but no one said them. I'm only 14...
The thing is we feel ppl feel uncomfortable or embarrassed to tell anyone if something has happened
Well yeah.
Because they're the victim and somehow in this shit, ass society the victim always stays the victim.
I used to act differently on it because I wasn't in any situation where it made me realise that yet but now I'm just like. Give them hell. Punch them, sue them. I'm not into talking it through anymore. They should know not to do certain things. If they OBVIOUSLY and truly didn't know? Well damn, fucked up, now they know and also what the consequences are.
So really just defend yourself.
For yourself. And for others.
If you tolerate it, it will be tolerated by others too.
You're not alone with problems even when you experience them differently. We all have some sort of hardship so you're not alone
6:23 she feels disconnected from her loved ones