Ways to Stop Bullying
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Are you being bullied? Then you're in the company of a whole host of awesome people, like Bill Clinton, Taylor Swift and Christian Bale, who experienced bullying in school. That's right, even Batman has been bullied. Not only that, but studies show that one-third of all students are bullied every year. Now, we can rattle off a bunch of bullying facts and anti bullying statistics, but, of course, knowing them doesn't really help when you're in the thick of it and being bullied yourself. We here at WellCast are here to help. We've got a four step method that'll show you how to boost your confidence, protect yourself from harm and find help.
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Here's another good resource if you're being bullied: 1 (800) 4A-CHILD. We've called this hotline ourselves to check it out, and found it to be very helpful.
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Im getting bullied in middle school. I cry everyday. People always look at me and talk about me. Even the teachers. They call me slow and dumb beause I dont get it like the other kids. Life is hard.
Po H you are not alone at all. I know what you mean, and I know how it feels when it looks like everybody understands what they're studying and it will pass I promise you just keep praying and keep pushing and focus on your dream because they are nothing if they talk about you and say you're dumb, you are not dumb, okay? YOU ARE NOT DUMB. You are smart. And whatever it is your going through just take care of yourself and just do your best, remember to have some fun and don't always be serious, smile even when you feel terrible even if it looks fake, if anyone talks about you like that again then go to them and do what you believe Is right (insult them back, diss them, beat them, even. Or if you are very patient you can smile and say something nice) don't let people step on you, if the whole wide world is against you it doesn't matter because you are somebody and you deserve to live life too.
Po H #princea
#whyschoolsucks
I know how u feel man, i hate the people in my class because they group up and call me slow and stupid, they push me around in class and in the hallways and joke about me and when I try to push them back they say I have no sense of humor, I hate myself for being like this , I wish I could stop living but I dont want to go to hell
Majin Eguia dude that’s not the solution. Beat ring up your bully is not but I would rather do that. I think your a good guy and honestly bro there’s better ways, to deal with those problems.🖐
these bullies kept throwing an orange at me and my friends and they kept saying “could you give us back the orange please” and i was like:
“if yOU’RE SO EMotIONALLY ATTACHED TO thAT ORangE THEN STOP THRowING IT”
*i felt so proud. can i get a lil appreciation here. please.*
I have something better to do!
Just roast them! But not really roast them like *burn them*
@@univlogs6549 I'm thinking of doing that
Lol I wanna do that
YourMama’sDolmioSauce no asshole
As I saw this I stared crying. RN, I was bullied for speaking good English in our groupchat ( with some classmates) and they all started calling me gay . So when I tried too stand up for myself, they said they don't care. Tells me that I'm too proud that I speak English. *Imagine being bullied for speaking good English*
They are jealous because, they cannot speak English like you.
Damn I'm sorry that you're surrounded by idiots
You're very intelligent like RM.
Say slangs in English as they can't understand.
And leave the group.
Bye~...
BTW can you help me as I'm weak in English.
@@umarswapna4267 ikr those bitches are mad that they cant speak english like her
I can imagine that. *I* get bullied for being good at English.
I'm not bullied at school but I have no friends in my class, and I'm always stuck in this situation. I hate it everytime when teachers tells us to "choose a partner to work with" or "work in groups". And everytime when my teacher tells us students to do this, I often be the last one to be in a group. Then when I'm the last one to be in a group, other students laughed at me because I have no one to work with. Then the teacher put me in a group. However, the teacher often put me in a group with girls in it or tell me to work with the teacher, and I often get laughed at by other students because I have to work with someone that doesn't relate to me. And other students keeps looking at me because I'm either working with girls or I'm working with the teacher. The other boy students never choose me to work with them because they just doesn't like me to work with them or they think I'm not good enough. Life is so hard in this kind of problem 😥😥😥
Who else is also stuck in this situation?
Hi! Please do watch our trailer for our short film SAMIN or mirror in english. It promotes anti-bullying and mental health awareness. Thank you!
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I'm in that situation all the darn time, you not alone bro, if only if we were in the same school, we'd get one another but yeah I have the same problem
Ugh same, i swear to god these people who think they are superior to loners like us are fucking disgusting and need their ego's checked 🤢🙄🤦♀️
OMG THIS IS ME 100%
I am a korean who speaks english well and everyone pretends like I cant talk. Im fcking tired of this situation.
Kid: *Getting bullied*
Teacher: Ok
Kid: *eating gum*
Teacher: HEY!
Fucking true
lmao my teachers doesn’t give a shit here
True i always got bullied and my teacher always yelling me than the bullied...
Welcome to America
I know it sucks
Whoever is watching this is probably needing help for bullies so... Lemme just say.
You are beautiful.
You are awesome.
Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
Thanks I'm watching this because today the bully punched me in my ribs and I couldn't talk and I don't even want to tell my mom
+Kel's Kreations go fuck yourself
Hadi Hakam what??
Thx I get bullied and I'm 11 but thx.
+TheduckVoicee we are all in this bully issue
My dad told me that there’s always gonna be bullies in life no matter where you go or where you are
exactly dude..that's why you always gotta stand up for your self until you grow up and forget that shit ever happened.
true
i bet your dad is a wise man
I've never been bullied 😂😂 so he's wrong
@@Cyb3rBatKitZunex actually…. I know tonnes of people who have never been bullied
In Singapore, bullies were forced to sent out of the school if teacher's see them bully other people. Then when the bullies got sent out of the school, the principal sends their parents an email saying that your child can't come to this school anymore because he/she bullies other people. This is why not even a single student in Singapore would bully other people because they're scared of getting sent out of the school and get grounded by their parents because of bullying other students at school.
Thats right. People getting bullied shouldnt switch schools, the bullies should
I go to Singapore
@@gabethebomb3610 can I come
Sure
@@gabethebomb3610 ty
Imagine a world where nobody bullied you. A world where you can live without constant fear.
Heaven ? Yeah that's it
Yoshi Lover and Computer Lover we are already in that world.
Constant Fear?
I think you have some Anxiety Disorders.
I cant do it...
It’s too good to imagine
I can't build an army bc most of the boys in my grade bullies me all day and if I build an army of girls they are going to call me ***kboy. That's what I don't like about school. Like this comment if you are bullied.
They probably bully you cause you want people to like your comment, thats so wrong.
Marwan abdul hamid well, I get bullied because I am a transgender woman and I'm only ten years old and I don't think that I deserve to be bullied. And I can't build an army because all of the girls make fun of me for wanting to be a boy and the boys all know that I am actually a girl so they don't want to be with/around me at all and I really hate my life because of this and like if you have been bullied or if you just always Feel like Shit at school
Marwan abdul hamid+ bullies call me an idiot in which i am actually an idiot
Well I am bullied very often and I don't really have more than one true friend. The others are like friends until I make a mistake or don't come at school one day because I was sick. They would do anything to make me feel uncomfortable in this situations so they aren't my friends. And the others call me names and judge me for being a " nerd",having short hair(not too short Tue second time because my mom puts me cut it because I don't have a great hair) ,being pretty "shy" because I never replied them really in the same way, and counting all my mistakes and start making fun of me for any reason. In the other school it was even worse. I had lots of nicknames, they even hurt me once because I replied them and this because I didn't had a smartphone yet in that time.... I was weirdo and I never fit in..I don't know what to do. I hate myself and I tried ignoring them and it doesn't work. I can't make myself an army neither. And If I try to apply at my parents they would make even more fun of me. The teachers don't give a crap even if a fight between two happens during a course.
Ari TW I know how you feel
I’ve been bullied as an adult for having my disability, I fought back and the other person was SO scared of me, he doesn’t mess with me anymore.
nice dude.. you got ball's 👏👌👍..
GOOD ON THEM. That’ll teach them a real good lesson.
@@SuperMarioAutist Thanks I appreciate your kind comments
@@BadEconomyOfficial No problem! I’ll always be there whenever you need help.
@@SuperMarioAutist Thanks man, I’m still trying to overcome depression and anxiety from it all.
Not listening to the bully makes the problem WORSE. He/She will KEEP doing it and because you ignore it, it builds up more and more ANGER inside of you. I tried this and this what I’m describing happened to me. I just got frustrated and it ended up making me more sad then I already was by not fixing the problem.
Change the way you feel about it by trying to find out why that bully is doing that. Is the bully ugly, fat, dumb, has bad parents, or other. The moment you realize this, you can ignore them with no anger.
@@superteamvideo1930 buddy, I don't think it works like that
@@superteamvideo1930yeah but then they will start stealing stuff from you
I just ignore them but I can't take it anymore I hate it soo much I always cry so then I decided to tell my parents, they said we'll go school and tell the teachers but ik even if the teacher gives a warning they'll still say stuff. I'm afraid of being treated worse than before if I tell the teachers but once again I can't just bottle my emotions inside of me. I plan on going to another school now, I hope I get accepted and I hope everyone is nice there
@@Kzhiine4_hope you that
Everyone who is getting bullied just know......
I would not be worried if I were you because 1st of all they are just jealous of you, and 2nd of all when ur older u will get an awesome job but the bully will cleaning ur car! Like if You have ever gotten bullied!!!
Sienna Silva Good one!
Sienna Silva 1st what if they beat you up because of something your brother did 2nd what if they do well in school but you dont apply yourself because of them
Sienna Silva you are so kind I wish you were my friend at my school
same,I don't learn karate but I only combat with some other students after I beaten them all, everyone in the school don't want to mess with me anymore, If they make me angry they'll just say " PLS DON'T HURT ME, I'M SORRY !!!" welp, and then I say " next time think before you try to punch me "
I will start a company and hire them to be a cleaner.
I was recently bullied by 6 other students I felt so depressed and sad. I was bullied because of my weight and people found it easy to pick on me. Being bullied isn't fun at all.. but then I realised that other people we're getting bullied too so I decided to get to know them better so that I wouldn't be bullied alone at least I had a friend. I really really hated the bully and I felt like killing myself at one point but with the help of my family I grew stronger and fought back. I was bullied for a very long time but it's okay because km used to it now. Recently I found out why I was being bullied. I was bullied because the people that bullied me had ADHD (Attention Deficit Hiperactive Disorder ) and that meant that they can't sit still they just have to bother someone . So I just didn't care and fought back. I'm still a little depressed now but I'm happy that I have my family to help me with whatever problems I face. Some people can relate to me and if you're getting bullied just remember to stay strong and remember that you're beautiful. :)
I meant I'm not km :P
Trust me there all haters and don't try like you. you just keep doing what you are doing because no one has the right
Never let anyone down you did the right thing and told someone if the bully's try to hurt you and gang up on you kick their asses bully's are nothing without their gang or even if it's just one bully they are trying to be cool and they picked you because they are jealous I am being bullied know but my mom is taking care of it if they try to hurt me I am going to kick them so hard and if they talk about me and make stuff up and someone tells me about it I'm gonna laugh and be like "you really believe that"
+PizzaIs DaBomb I meant to say never let anyone put you down (in the beginning)
I like turtles 45+ i feel your pain but also bullying is a type of crime
Just got cyberbullied a while ago, and I just told her to “stop normalizing bullying”. Eventually the one who bullied me was silent for a bit and tried to make excuses that she wasn’t bullying. I’m really grateful that two girls stood up for me 🤧
How do you get cyber bullied maybe don't post selfies and put your real name or say dumb shit
@@Pt28177 Bruh you know nothing lmao. This was from a game so chill
@@Pt28177 Looking at your comments from other people shows that you’re probably a bully 🤭👀
Bully: near kills a kid
School: ok cool mayn
Kid: fights back
School: *AAAAYYYYYY NOT COOL MAYN*
Do be true doe
ikr these dumb idoitic teachers
Well what girl who nearly killed other girl with pen in my class of elementary school left the school...
even my friends are just staring at me when im getting bullied, what’s the point anyways I’m not even good at anything.. this is hopeless, the bully got an whole army while im just a piece of loaf there.. 😞
Overalldubs ! I get how that feels but you need to know that you’re whole yourself. A lot of friends dont want to go out of their way and they’re just there with a neutral stance but that means that you need to find other people as alternatives and trust me, it can be ANYone. You’re not going through this alone. You don’t deserve that shit and you’ll soon get out of that mess, its not forever. Just hang in there and know your self worth.
Overalldubs, Here is my fair share of another story. I defeated cyber bullies many times but it won't stop, it just annoyed me, I looked at this video for easier ways.
This is me
you can be good at things if you try your best and stop listening to others saying your slow. Im good at reading and writing also i dont bother with puncation be good at things your way sod bullies
@Zh6yd it works out in the end remember that
I don't get bullied often,but still they sometimes come at me.I ignore them 3 times.And When they TOUCH me,they're litteraly DEAD.
you can also get a restraining order and charge them with assault if they touch you... i've been through this... getting the restraining order and charging them with assault really works
Bully: punches me when teacher is literally looking at me
Teacher: "meh"
Me: Punches the bully back
Teacher: "HeY yOuR'rE gOiNg dEtEnTiOn!"
Did you experienced it? I mean i get it it's a joke but it pisses me off.
Elmir Ibrahimli no but it is not a joke. it has happened to my cousin though.
@@sammylmao9992 Wow, im sorry that dickheads bullied your cousin. Did you at least make the *bullies* suffer from a head injury? I had to do that when i was 14, you know, typical 9th grade students who has no fucking sympathy or empathy to anyone's feelings and they hurt your (or someone's) mental health with shitty insults, sarcasm, harassment, gossip, etc just to feel "joy" and "power". When in reality they are just brainless douche bags with no fucking life (sorry if had some grammar mistakes).
@@grapesupremacy6852 you said it bud
If I get bullied well I will break there spine or crack there arm or something brutal to them
I had a friend that got bullied by the whole class then o decided to be her friend. We were like we known each other for so long and followed each other in almost every social media tik tok insta snap messages and more. And when we turned middle school I saw a new girl I decided to be her friend to and we followed each other in social media too but the day that I thought will never happen in a million years came. They both started being popular and leaving me alone and they blocked me everywhere and they always come to my table at recess and say mean bad words about me and they took my bff since kindergarten with them and she hated me. Everyday I come back from school crying and asking my mom to go to another school. They told high school and all middle school that I’m a brat and now everyone is against me accept my family😩
Well it's easy for me you just need to say bad thing that they do to my other friends but if you wanna be the person that don't want a fight just simply move one don't ever think about the again and make a new friend it always work for me
Lex EDWARDS hun i finally got that revenge oh yeah
Lex EDWARDS I can’t remember cuz it’s literally 3:10 AM rn and I’m just tired sorry I don’t even remember what happened 3hrs ago
@@amoonnnnn9397 do u remember now :0
CaptainSyro oh wait I remember I really didn’t do anything but all of her friends fighted with her and she beged me to be her friend again and no one really hated me after idk what happened and idk if you call that revenge
Okay here's my story: So about a year ago I had great friends. I was able to be myself with them and I had always so much fun. And then my mom told me that we are moving to a new city and I had to go to a new school. It all started okay. I didn't really have friends in my class but I went to drawing club and I got friends from there. (However they were all on different classes.) So back to my own class, I noticed that there was one person in our class who caught my attention. He was kind of the "class clown". He was popular and talked all the time. He made jokes about the other classmates and talked about subjects that were interesting and relatable for me. And he wasn't dumb either. But I was too shy to talk to him. Fast forward few months I wanted to join this one group of friends in my class. It had open and fun people and the class clown was in it too. Most of the people accepted me in the group really fast and I hanged with then often. But I still couldn't be myself and I often had to pretend to be someone else. And I think the class clown noticed this. I rarely talked with him until he one day just mentioned how I need to pretend to impress the other guys. And it really hit me. It's just something I'm really insecure about and the way he said sounded like he hated me. And it didn't take long until he started bullying me. He and some of his other friends started bashing and insulting me and made bad jokes about me. Well, he's friends are dumb and they are easy to roast or you can just see how insecure they actually are. But he, he is smart and vicious. And he really knows what to say, cause it's just hard to say anything against it and he points outs things that actually are wrong with me. So this continued for the whole spring season until school ended. He probably thinks his jokes are hilarious and he doesn't care a bit about other peoples feelings. I have never hated anyone else in my life so much as I hate him. He just ruins my life...
Well, thank you for anyone who read all of that. (If anyone even did) It means a lot to me :)
UPDATE: So apparently this comment that I left here almost 2 years ago has blown up without me even noticing. Thank you everyone so much for the support 💖. I tought would be a good time to update. So all that bullying happened in middle school. I was 14-15 around that time. Right now I'm 16 and I'm a freshman in high school. Luckily for me that bastard class clown and his bully friends went to a different high school than me. That was already lucky enough for me but something even better happened... I met my new two best friends! They are both one of the nicest people I have ever met. They are both very emotionally intelligent, smart and kind and we share a lot of similar interests. I love both of them from the bottom of my heart. I'm so glad I got to meet them. So basically what I'm trying to say is... don't give up! Things might be hard right now but I'm sure sometimes in the future everything will get better. I know some people have suffered far longer than I have. I still believe you can make it. I believe in you. Just one more day, one more week, one more month, one more year
You can do it!
I did read it, nice story! Hope you get revenge. I had a problem similar to that. There was a couple class clowns and popular kids. One of them even had a girlfriend. So basically, I was jealous that they were all famous and crap, so I acted just like them. I ended up being a little popular. But then it hit me; If I was popular, many other people would start doing the same thing, and probably create fights, (and that’s exactly what happened) A kid who was constantly getting bullied was helped by my friend and the class clowns started punching the both of them. I was scared to punch him back, so instead I told a teacher and came up to them. The teacher did nothing. They did stop bullying my friend and that kid. But then I started getting bullied. I got a black eye and I was in many fights. I was so mad at that school cause I was getting severely injured mentally and physically and I would get as much punishment as him. My parents and my friend’s parents saw this, and we moved to a different school. Right now I’m in highschool, and one of the kids who bullied me before is having horrible grades. D’s to C’s luckily? I’m getting B+ and above.
I W A N T T O D I E
You should go and talk to your school counselor! Right now!
Grab a bat and swing it on his face
Massive Legend Take him physically man. No Choice !!
I think you should just learn a deadly technique like kicking their wisdom teeth
a guy who comments lol 😂 well said
Ye ye that's not rong
I learned this secret technique the other day... i dont know if you guys know this but its called pulling out a gun
@Cyanide beats just practice dodging there attacks at home and use painful words to them
(Not like the f word just try to act like your laughing because of how much IQ they have, by that i mean only 10)
@Cyanide beats thats how i one shotted my bully now JUST NOW
Alright, I’m gonna tell a story that has sweet revenge just Imprinted into it.
So my bully called me ugly and harassed me, so I decided to write all of it down in detail when I was telling it to the office.
He got detention for a week.
We’re also getting online classes, and when my presentation got the best, and when I had done my assignments first, on that conference call I saw his face in the cam. He had this look of shock on his face.
Honestly, that made my day.
Omg I didn't think of doing that
Bullies: *Takes my pen*
All of my best friend: "Allow us to introduce ourselves"
You are extremely lucky to have friends who stand up and support you when you are getting bullied, cause when i was getting bullied back in middle school, I didn't have any friends so no one stood up for me. Not even me. Your friends are the best types of people ❤️
Can't relate lmao
@@antonio_090 me neither since i don't have friends
I only had 2 friends but they unfriended me. I can still handle it cause when I came to middle school I had no friends for 4 months
Yah cause your beta weeaboo ass can't do shit 😂
When I was in middle school, I had a really obvious physical disability. I had to have both of my legs broken and reset to fix it. My peers were relentless. It wasn't so much pushing, shoving, name calling, as much as ignorance. "Why do you walk so slow?" "You don't seem to need those crutches." "You just want attention." Sometimes they would steal my crutches. It was terrible, and it didn't help that I was super underweight. Flash forward to now. I'm in college, and I'm 5'10 with perfectly straight beautiful legs. I found out I'm extroverted, and I made it to college. I graduate in about a years time. My bullies? They are still stuck in that same town working at fast food places. Some outgrew it though. It really does get better, people make fun of things that they can't understand.
That was really inspiring
I’m so sorry you had to go through that. I’m glad everything worked out at the end. I’m still in high school dealing with bullies. It’s a bit better now. I’m focusing on studying and having fun with my friends. In primary I thought I was all alone and that nobody would understand my problems, but when I got into high school I realised…there are bullies, they are everywhere but icl I never laughed as much as I’ve laughed with my friends this couple of months. They are honestly the best. I can share all my problems with them. I’m so grateful to have friends like them. Everything is starting to get better. All thanks to Allah ❤️
Fuck yeah thats what they get
Stealing crutches is fucked up, like stealing a wheelchair from a person without legs, like taking glasses from a person that needs them, good that you got better
@@cryogen6964 nice terraria pfp lfmao
The problem is I don't really have a friend... one time a bully called me crap and my friend just laughed and went on the bully side. My teacher doesn't do anything either. My dad doesn't care and my mom is busy with work. I hate life. :/
Joyce Lee same
Joyce Lee heres what to do
1 call them out
2 call them what they call u
3 if it causes vilonce punch them in rib or neck or balls 1 time only
If they come back and hurt u h
Get a adult fast if that dont work
Tell there parents to control ur child
Joyce Lee don't worry everything will be ok!
Joyce Lee me too i dont have friends i dont have friends in my neighbor hood i dont have brothers or sisters
Joyce Lee if they do it again say this "roses are red violets are blue your a bully and bully never wins" if they don't listen say "Bastards bully never wins so leave losers" then dab
For everyone who was bullied or if someone ever said a rude comment to you, they are probably going through something themselves so they try to drag u down with them. You are beautiful person, you do you as long as you keep your virtues and stay true to urself. Surround yourself with those that care for you. You got this, this too shall pass and I believe in you!!!
When a bully picks on you the best thing to do is FIGHT back. A bully doesn't want to fight. A bully wants you to be passive. Never depend on anyone to help you.
I literally was sharpening my pencils and these group of wannabes were giggling. like wtf?
That happened to me too 😒
Same here bro
Sobiecraft+ uuhh i guess to them sharpening is funny?
Yeah whenever i do something everyone would do, they'd still judge and giggle lmao. If only i was confident, i'd stand up for myself
+The Joker Like, "- HEY, MOTHER***KERS, ARE YOU LAUGHING AT ME!?!? - Dude, chill, we're just discussing a sitcom!"?
I feel like shit because our teachers put us in seating plans in classes. And in basically all of them I sit next to the 'popular' kid. So when the teachers ask us to talk to each other I can't because they're talking to their friends across the classroom. So I'm just awkwardly sat there doing nothing.
Omg same
Same here....😐
Same here
Ellie Dixon same
Yea
The worst advice you'll ever get!! I told him that it's his fault that he bullies me and he raged even more. I played dead but he's a medical student and knows the symptoms of death and life... and the only social club in my school is for cheerleaders (girls) now i'm being bullied even more!!!
Fight back!
REMEMBER ignoring rarely works, they will just try harder until you break.
You punch the bully’s in the face my father gave me the best advice it never did not work
What I said to my bully: I may not be the smartest person in the entire class but that gives you no reason for you to pick on me. The fact that I got a higher grade than you isn't a miracle, it's because I actually tried. You may look at me as if in that random kid in the class who only does sports but never hands in his homework but you don't know what it's like to be me. So if I "miraculously" get a good grade compare yourself with yourself, not with me.
Nice one, dude! If I were there, I would've said this to the bully myself;
"OHHHHH!
GOT BURNEDDDD!"
I get bullied by Stupid Guy named Jason chap and Joash
thats just fucking cringey
shrimpi shrimpo
And he said "lol wtf u ugly lol get rekt"
I am being bullied. I cry a lot. It have been going on for months. I am in 8th grade and it's really hard for me.
Felicia same...
Felicia Ya I can see how it would be really hard for you. Coming from someone who had to repeat 8th due to bullying. But just so you know your not alone. And if you need it you are more then welcome to email me. (If you need extra support and I can promise you what we talk about will stay between you and me only)
Email: peach.drinkwater1994@gmail.com
Felicia *BULLY NEVER WINS*
Felicia are you okay man? Now
Felicia 7 months left! Stay strong!
I'm getting bullied right now in my school and the teachers don't really care, only one does. The biggest problem though is that I wanna defend myself but when I do that apparently I'm the bad person that's being rude. I just don't understand how basically no-one understands me. I just got bullied today and it's the first day after the holidays.
Don’t be afraid of defending yourself. The bullies will stop when they see that you can defend yourself
The bullying problem is made worse by not teaching kids to stand up.
My son was bullied until he hit his bully in the nose, he never had any bullying problems after that.
Sometimes you need to fight to be a man.
Exactly. I got bullied all throughout middle school and everywhere I looked people just kept telling me to ignore it and it would go away. It never did and I just dealt with it for years. More kids need to stand up for themselves.
I've been bullied cause I have ADHD but I have a army of best friends and I love all of them
I'm in the exact situation as you
I been bullied cuz I am a curious person and people calls me annoying , I nearly got expelled as she lied to the principal
What is ADHD?
I also have ADHD AKA the crazy kind and anger issues
Peoples that had friends are indeed lucky. I had to fought bullies alone, they're no longer bullied me but I still don't have friends.
I actually cried watching this. I've spent 8 years of my school days being bullied. But i thought it was my problem and blamed everything on my fat shitty body. Then after watching this video I realized the meaning of the bully. Thanks and I'll try to live like a lively student this year.
Best wishes to people like me.
You're awesome.
Heyy, its been 5 years, how have u been doin?:))
I was fat back then, but I didn't really care. Our family didn't have many mirrors in our house. I didn't even know. Bullies are actually sad people inside lashing out at other people.
You know, the more confidence you have the weaker the bullies get. I'm getting bullied right now and I just slap him back. Fair to me! 😀
It’s so hard to ignore them when whatever you do they make fun of you😭
Tell an adult imo i had this problem 2 years ago
Violence wasnt working so i called my parent and it worked
I had this friend who stabbed me in the back and told everyone at our new school fake rumors and lies and so now I'm getting bullied by a lot of people it started like a week ago....and now next year I'm most likely am going to the same school as all of them which is high school...
A YT Name i am sorry for you i know how’s it like
A YT Name Just dont give up on your life. It means alot to your family. May not seem like it but they love you. I feel you.. You'll probably wont even meet them after high school. So it will be all good.. :)
Pierce Smith Honestly, i go through this every single day.. So i feel you very badly tbh.. Even though i am in 8th grade, i already know i am a bisexual, they somehow found out, even though i never told anyone really.. Now everybody hates me. I am a kind of nerd so they got another thing why they should hate me on their list. Can't really do anything bout' it, since i am Skinny, and really without muscles, so i stand no chance..
All you gotta do is stay strong.. Physically but also Mentally.. ;)
A YT Name THE SAME EXACT THING HAPPENED TO ME
Same my best friends bully me now
I was being bullied by kids younger then me last year, and this year I’m changing that, anyone who messes with me I’m kicking their ass, because I’ve tried all of these things
dude why the fuck would you let little kids younger than you bully you?😂,like .no mean shit,but like this dude..shit man.well i mean at least your kicking their ass now.,because that's fuck'in what a real man would do..👍👌👏.
@@Cyb3rBatKitZunex you get in trouble when you fight back
Omfg sammmee i tried all the methods but they only make it worse so I'm fucking kicking asses thus year
k-utako yep
@@humanbean9969 ik you're not talking to me but honestly getting kicked out of school with pride is a thousand times better than being bullied regularly and do nothing about it.... (for me at least)
Everytime I ignore the bully. I get stuff thrown at me, I get insulted, they don’t dare if I don’t give a reaction. They just like the fact they hurt someone. They feel proud of themselves by knowing the fact they make my life a living hell with a reaction or not.
You need to fight back
I’m here because my former friend has been bullying me recently.
He keeps saying that I’m annoying and that he doesn’t like me, because I stood up for my other friend who’s a bit younger,
He even called me a whale today, I just don’t know what to do, and one of my close friends is becoming a lot like him,
He always wanted to control and make me more distant from my friends.
Bully: give me your money!
Me: sorry. I ain't got no money
Bully: don't be funny
Me: i'm not trying to be funny, but i left it all at home today
Bully: you idiot
Me: you can call me what you wanna, i ain't giving you a dollar this time i ain't gonna run away
Bully: *beats up*
Me: you may knock me down. You may knock me down. But i will get back up again.
Bully: you better bring your money tomorrow
Me: you can call it how you wanna. I ain't giving you a dollar. This time i ain't gonna run away... This time
Fiona Biatrice the song yeah boii
U made my day xD
Bich you copyright
Fiona Biatrice
EndDerd 411 u mean Bitch not bich
I'm strongest in my class, but l have never bullied anyone.
Become anti bully dude
OMG Spongebob your strong omg
Good
So we’re awarding people who do NOTHING now? That’s like saying, “I didn’t cheat on you, babe. Congratulations.”
@spongebob fsr you sound like a 5 year old trynna flex Lol
In the majority of situations bullies are simply people trying to take back power that was taken from them at somepoint through a perceived weaker target. You deal with this in almost every occurrence through the only language they understand - by assertively standing up for yourself or if needs be physical violence (especially the latter in a school setting).
I was bullied at school, but over the years me and the bully became friends but then I just became more like him, i bullied this kid who was fat, and made fun of him for being so big. I i didn't realize what i was doing, day after day me and my friends tormented him. But he just ignored us. Which really got us more angry, he would hang out with the girls(because no other boys liked him). months passed by and then we gave up on bullying him, and then something shocking happened. He asked us if we could be friends, and so we did. To this day he is my best friend and i regret everything. Stood up for him when others treated him unfairly. We stood by each others side and never left. Thanks for reading.❤️❤️
The thing is, I can't move away from my bully, because the teacher moved him to the back of the classroom. Next to me☹️
Rebecca OSBORNE me too 😭
similarities....
Rebecca OSBORNE one word.
Fight
put a piece of gum on the seat that blends in with the color of the chair so they are unlikely to notice... stare at them with an evil look in your eyes for one whole entire class period... leave a photo of a blood covered dagger in their folder or text book... slam their locker shut while they are standing there... shove them and knock them over... stalk them at lunch time... throw eggs at them... turn this shit around
Oh, I hate it when that happens
I started getting bullied yesterday at 6th grade. And my bully made fun of my hair (it was down and a little fluffy) he said that it looks like they are eggs on my hair. And the teacher said we needed to read a book with a partner or by yourself on the computers. And my bully made fun of me because I was alone and he said I was sad (he said it to his friends behind me ) (bully sits next to me) I wanted to work alone anyways. He said he wanted to hit me in the face and he told me more things but I can't remember. I wanted to cry SOOOO bad but I tried so hard to hold it and it's hard. I had butterflys on my stomach all day at school. It's morning and I'm suppose to go to school in an hour 😭😖😞😢😢😢😭
Sorry
Yo real talk call the police. That’s literally harassment and he could get locked up in jail for that.
hellohellohello he's in 6th grade dude chill out
you can get a restraining order if they are threatening you physically, if they do assault you, you can press charges for assault... THIS WORKS... I have had to do this for my kids... the school will not protect you or do anything about it... but, if you get a restraining order, they have to back it up... and the parents of the bully will be more likely to step in... although, I would suggest that the parents be investigated for child abuse as a lot of children who are abused, end up becoming bullies in school... although, this is not the case always... it is actually more difficult if they don't threaten you or physically assault you, but if they do, this is a good thing actually... if your parents wont help you get a restraining order, ask the police for a guardian ad litim, an attorney to work on your behalf as a minor.
You stare down the bully
I’m just so sad bc I love swimming but people in my group make jokes and talk about me, so I don’t talk anymore and they r always like why don’t u talk it just makes we wanna quit but it’s something I love it so much.😭
Bitch same thing! It’s 1 of my hobby’s to do horse riding but like *everyone* started making jokes about that and now i just dont feel anymore like saying that i like horses. I literally hate my class
Back in middle ,I broke the bullies arms and legs which disabled him for a few months. The principle didn’t expel me and told me that “I did what I could” and also told me that he also hated that kid, so he just suspended me for a few days
I was personally bullied for my entire high school life and I can say that the only way to permanently beat bully is to fight them. Bullies are the kind of people who don't care about getting in trouble and they see ignoring and kindness as weakness. If they know they're going to get a knee to the face and a punch to the ribs every time they bother you, they're not going to do it very much. BTW when I was being bullied I was 4ft 10 to 5ft 6 and my bully was over 6ft but I still fought back. What's your excuse?
+Stephen Pelletier because they are cowards and attention seekers
My excuse is that the bully is a hirl
Girl
Scootlife65 So what? You can't fight back because she's a girl? That's pretty sexist. Would you still not fight back if they were a boy?
+Stephen Pelletier when i fight the bully (girl) she is able to control the rest of the class in thinking that she is innocent.. like i hate her so much.. shen i try to bond with her, she is like... uugggh i cant describe it coz she is like the worst! 😭 I still feel bad when i think like this.. im a soft hearted person and put my guard down... well still finding a way to get rid of her.. i might be lucky that she may transfer next school year, if it does happen, my life will be peaceful!!!
You know how I got rid of my bully
I kicked his ass literally
Lol
U corndogged him
Savage lmao
true thats a better way and you get more friends like that
OMG me too😂😂😂😂
*somebody kicking the crap out of you, for no reason*
Teachers:
Me: *wears hood*
Teacher: *GO TO THE OFFICE, NOW!*
Im 25 years old and im sick and tired of being bullied all my life
Bullies : beating up a kid
Teacher : ignores
Me : fighting back
Teacher : STOPMAUAHRHAHAHAHAHFIQHAHAHAHAHHAHA
Ju Hh omfg. I hate it when teachers do that.
Teachers at my school doesn't even gives a shit if you gets bullied or if you fought back.
@@iliveinsideyourhouse3943 same
Exactly like that...
It’s a fucked up system
Im being bullied and i told my mom and we talked to the counselor and the counselor talked to the girl and her friends that wanted to fight me and bully me and the girls didn't care 😞
Don't worry be strong there are so many beautiful things ahead in your life.
You are not alone
Murder them.
Schools are trash anyways. School today is just learning and forgetting the things you've learned
Beat her ass simple as that make sure they can't rip at ur hair though 😂
@@trollontheinternet2776 schools always been like that its still fun tho
I feel uncomfortable and uneasy talking about this but, I feel like I need to share this. If you are being bullied, please, please remember this. I was bullied from Year 1. It all started with name calling then it turned into taking my pens/pencils then it turned i to ripping my clothes then me being physically hurt. I went through this until Year 5 until my amazing Mum found my ripped 4 jumpers that I had been hiding. She kept me sat down for hours until, I told her what was going on. That was one of the worst days of my life. Everything came out. I felt so vulnerable. After that, I had to move schools. However, my problems didn’t stop there. I started my new school in November of 2019. Then we went into Covid. Everything was normal until October when things started to turn a bit rocky again. Like before, it started with name calling, ripping clothes ect. except this time, it was much worse. Infact in Year 6, I was physically attacked twice, both times in which my rib was broken, I had the kids’ parents verbally abusing me, it got so bad that I just quit school. I didn’t go back after March. Once I started Year 7, again It started with name calling, homophobic slurs, ripping clothes, stealing ties, pouring water on me, stealing my lunch ect. Like Year 6, in Year 7, I was attacked again by another student. At the end of the year I felt so awful that I thought about quitting school for good. Finally came Year 8, I thought this year would be alot better, boy was I wrong. 5 weeks in, already been punched twice, had my bag stolen, had my £5 school tie taken 6 times, had my bag stolen. Its not gone great. But I havent lost hope. I hope that one day this will come to an end. If you are being bullied or have been bullied, I wish you the all the best ❤ Thanks for reading.
I'm not bullied at school anymore, I used to get bullied. And right now the thing I'm stuck on is: I keep worrying about how people bullied me in the past. I try my best to forget what my bullied did to me in the past but I still can't get it out my head. I tried not to get revenge on him, but I keep thinking about seeking revenge on him on what he did to me in the past
Yeahhh I was bullied in every single grade.
Don't worry we are here for you :)
Don't worry we are here for you :)
nahhh i still deal with it its now a minor annoyence
just dont care about them, try to ignore them bro!
now i dont care bro
Guess what I've been bullied in school
And now I'm being bullied at work
Sasaki Umiquema maybe cos your a weeaboo
Wait..really?
Sasaki Umiquema I know, everybody has been bullied before. What you can do is, just take deep breath and calm down, and when bully are bullying u, just say cool for everything then walk away, if u can.
-_- leave the job and find another job or beat em or contact the manager or the police/cops
ME TOO 😭😭😭😭😭 WERE SAME 😭
I watched this video because recently at my new school there is this kid who just started to hate me, they would target me in gym class, talk bad things about me behind my back, call me bad names and I think it’s about to get worse, so thank you for posting this
I’m here since today we had a lesson about bullying and the teacher asked if anyone was/is bullied. This one girl (lets call her Mary) raised up her hand and then said that she STILL is getting bullied, manipulated by a girl that wasn’t at school today (Let’s call the bully.. Mia)
Mary also said that she had sleep problems and that she got a lot of anxiety when it started.
When i heard that she got manipulated & bullied by someone that’s in our class I knew it was about Mia.
Later, I noticed that Mary started crying. She went to the bathroom for like 3/4 minutes.
A bit later it’s time to go home.
I came up to Mary and asked her if she wanted to go with me to the principal.
Mary replied that she already did that and that the principal didn’t do ANYTHING.
So i just decided that I’ll go by myself once.
the most simple thing is to do is to just say "no u" at the bully every time he/she verbally bullies you
yass so true >v
Yeah or wait until a teacher goes away and punch the bullies in their stomach or kick their ass like I do. They won't tell the teachers cause they are scared that you're gonna beat them up again.
i'm emotionally bullied. they keep ignoring my existence in the class and crowd
I see being bullied as my character development.
The thought helps me cope.
I’m a 7th grade girl. I’ve been bullied all my life. I left my old school in 4th grade for a catholic school that we thought would be better. This one girl in my class has been rude and mean for years. It’s known through the school. Since I joined in 5th grade, a lot of people were going to join next year. Luckily, one of my old best friends came. We are so much alike and he knows me. This year, this girl started going off. She’s started to get sexual with it now. I told my mom and were getting it worked out with my teacher and principal.
Just remember, it’s not you fault.
And if you see this girl, you should stop
We got it all worked out now. She suddenly got nice
kid:am getting bullied. School:*does nothing*. kid:*gets in fight*.School:YOUR EXPELLED
Ikr it sucks it always happen to me but this time let anything happend i dont care anymore
My son and I just watch this video because he was being bullied by three boys in the neighborhood. They were throwing dirt on him calling him names and making him touch inappropriate stuff. This really helped us. Thank you for sharing.
Bullying needs to stop, Stand up for yourself, Always be kind and respectful to other people. ☺️🙏🏼 Bullying is unacceptable 😡
Didn't work for me so I decided to make his life miserable then he feared me
How did u make his life miserable? I wanna do the same for my bully
@@nataliamarquezn2314 played the psycho card when they think your about to snap they fear you
Worst form of bullying is bullying someone who may be ashamed of something they struggle with
Thank you very much. It so helpful for me who getting bullied at school. 😄
you seem nice😊 it helps me too
I think you cancer
Ironman Fanboy n
What even though I'm with my friends the bully still bully's me
i get bully all the time its soo sad 😔
I’m not bullied but I feel bad for lots of people who are getting bullied
Something i hate is when someone doesnt stand up for themselves.
Unless youre
Out numbered by age, or people.
Stand up for yourself dont be weak
sigh-
i have no friends.bullies keep telling people to bully me.and i have no good things
StalkerWalker 29924 if you're lieing still you get that like
Javon crusher im telling the truth,they call me names,steal my finished homework cause im smart and they always copy my homework
StalkerWalker 29924 hey,i have an idea,it may help you,
if someone calls you something,ask taht person "do you know who you are?oh,nevermind!you just said that!"
and if they copy ur homework,heres a tip,try to make an original sign and draw that little sign always on your homework then tell ONLY the teachers about that sign so the teachers knew if the bullies stealed and copied your homework
Aki-chan yamatokun AKA psycho yandere
ok,just got a bully kicked out of Primary school.Like what.Kicked out of PRI school
StalkerWalker 29924 Lol!
When somone gosips about me my friends and i always say "im famous " 👌 works 100%
I do the same
If someone says that to me I always says "famous fragile board" it worked it sounds more funny in my language
oh god, dude......
Fight back even if they beat you, don’t stop fighting
Best solution is that told the bully boldly that you don't like his behavior. Zayda daar lage toh dil par patthar rakh kar bolo
What if you don't have friends?
9 1 yeah same
9 1 make some or get ur cousin or bro or sis or both or all
Than you have no friends and you are alone
9 1 Same
it's feels great XD
Ima just play video games at home and no one can bother me XD
Lol
last resort:fight back
No
Yes you do!if you can't fight back:that's like saying a cop can't shoot at criminal if the criminal shoots at him!
Exactly.if u dont fight back itll never end.
+Jody Strickland to wrongs don't make. A right
Hey it's Eryn so you are saying if a cop is shot at he can't shoot back?
I can never raise my hand because every time I get something wrong everyone laughs it just puts my confidence down 😢
Someone try to bully me and he found out I was in a gang lol he’s super scared of me now
Don't go to gang lol
yeah dude or else you'll have to deal with more shit and probably get your ass kicked.
In the past, I was bullied, but a few years later when I moved to a new school-I became one myself. This is something I am not proud of, but luckly for me and the kid I bullied, I stopped.Now, I can tell you a few things about bullies:
-Ignoring the bully will NOT HELP. The only reason that teachers and other adults are telling you this is for them to not be have to take care of the bully, it is an exuse for them doing NOTHING, so if you got bullied they will be able to say that it is YOUR FAULT for not ignoring hard enought.
-The bully is, in fact, only when level stronger/popular than you, and he is bullying you cuz he dont want the others to find that out.When I was a bully I tried to repress that, but the bully is afraid that everyone else will find that out.
-You might be "inviting" the bully to hurt you, this might sound like something that a bully tells himself to feel better, but I can tell for sure that when I got bullied I had a big part in that, teasing the bullies and later telling myself I did nothing. Sometimes bullying is a very not effective way to punish someone for annoying the bully.
This is not your fault! Dont feel like you are the reason! But you might be able to end this by changing a part of your behavior.
-As a last resort, fighting back might help, but only as a last resort. The adults say that violence doesnt solve anything, and that is true, unless this is litirally your last resort. If you tried everything and nothing worked: you have my blessing, learn how to fight, work out and beat the bully, but if you do this, make sure you are not starting to bully others, like I did.
-If and when the bully stopped, he will probably realise that he hurt you and a ashamed like I am today, dont try to avange or anything. A few monthes after I had to fight some of the kids who bullied my, some of them seemed to forget that they ever bullied me. The avrage former bully would like to forget and repress the horrible things he did, aceept that.
I honestly hope that this will help at least one bullied kid, or make a bully think and understand that he must stop.
I dont like asking for likes of comments, but I will make an exeption this time:
please like this comment, so other people could read and learn!
I'm being bullied 😭😪
Don't know who you are but there are 1 billion who are secretly getting bullied. I didn't speak out but I did kick his face so hard it cracked. Don't do that. Do something your talented at.😄 good luck!
you need to do something awesome so people will regain respect for you. but what? hmm
Bruhh._. Kira
I know haw you feel
I drop garbage in ones kid backpack and i got respect.Try that!
i told my teacher what's happening but my bully wouldn't admit it and he just keeps laughing at me, should i let it go?
I used to get bullied. A LOT. Now those people are trying to be my friends. I was really fat and was picked on for it. I went to the gym lost weight and started boxing. I began to be extra nice to people and met a new friend group. This helped me a lot and it stopped. There are a few but they won’t do anything. What I can say is it WILL GET BETTER.
Has anyone been in this kind of bullying trap before. Where someone take your stuff when you are not looking or that you didn't notice and gave it back to you when you noticed your stuff was gone. Because I have been in this situation before
One thing you do
Punch them in their face repeatedly
Dankmemer69 69 never cause vilonce if they cause viloce kick them lr punch them in ribs or balls or neck only 1 time then if they cause more vilolence tell a adult if that dont work u tell there parents to control there parents and sclod there parents
Yeah scarse
No as violence will cause more problems then it solves. Never resort to violence it's not a good option no matter how you look at that.
Olivia drinkwine it's defending yourself
give it to them back with success trust me it will make them feel worse
We're so sorry that's happened to you. Like the video says, none of what's happening is your fault. Look for people who will stand by you, and ignore what the others say, because your friends know how great you are. And stay as far away from bullies as possible! Hope this helps!
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I swear to God. It's literally been 10 years and I've been harassed at school for every single one of them!!! Literally so sick of this. I don't understand what drives someone to harass others. Like, bro, you obsessed with me? Omg.
Bully: Ew u ugly
Me: Exuse meh so I’m a mirror now?
Savage
What if your bully is your friend
Miss.PlutoOnFire they aren't your friend!!
Miss.PlutoOnFire They are NOT your friend! Remember: those people just want to use you.
Miss.PlutoOnFire then you shouldn't be friends with her/him
they call me ugly names.I can't get this no more
i feel you, but if they keep calling you ugly names, just tell your mother or your teacher then talk to the bullies' mothers. i was bullied, and they keep bullying and laughing at me also because i'm a foreigner.
I have a few tips for guys. I've been bullied my whole life I've tried to avoid run away and every other peacefully way possible. But over time I got fed up with it I was being bullied by a 6'2 football player I'm only 5'4. But I figured out a few things and ultimately I fought him and won. Tip number 1 buy a mouth guard this will come in handy if a bully tries to get tough just keep it in ur pocket and when u need it pull it out. Tip number 2 work on ur punching power you can do this by doing clap push ups. And last but not leat catch them off guard if they call you out in front of a lot of people sucker punch them and don't stop till they start to cry I mean if your gonna get in trouble for a fight might as well go all out
I remember being bullied so bad to 5th-7th grade, it changed me as a person, I can never go out cause I’m scared my bullies will be out there (I live in a really small town) and now I’m very introverted and quiet cause of them, I hated going to school everyday, I would get made fun of for my height, clothes, and many more, and sexually harassed! I still get flashbacks to this day. Even nightmares sometimes.
a sophomore rlly called me weird when i just felt awkward and didn’t wanna anger him , just wanna change classes to avoid him as a whole for myself. just so i can feel better and not overthink everything.
Look, this is not stopping the widespread bullying, this is just telling us how to deal with bullying.....
Ikr, this is bad, and I'm getting bullied at school almost everyday
First of all, NEVER listen to those people. Try ignoring them, because they're trying to get a reaction out of you. If you don't give them any attention, they'll be less interested in bothering you. And don't be afraid to tell an adult that you trust!
3:35 i pouted and almost cried, ive been bullied all my life, and ive never had a person i could depend on, and its sad that people who watched this video were searching for it, because they felt unsafe- nobody should ever feel this way:(
I Remember when my friend was getting bullied
We where in the snow when Someone came il call rl for ring leader nothing yet huh NAH someone is scared of Being bullied and trows a snowball at my friend this happens a few times untill they put snow in his face and i know that hurts it happend to me once so anyways he runs away in our school i get back at them and when i came out of the fight i was coverd in snow Some more ppl come one of them is a friend of but he takes rls side my friend finds my other friend and tells them all while laughing and for Some reason they offer peace with me i accept cause i had a plan so i went with someone the get snow i told him the whole story i knew what i needed to do because he told me a way to get in without being seen i help my friend and get out they see us but we are already gone
Ppl be a bully cause
A there scared pf being bullied
B they have bein bullied
C pretty rare they just hate you