I strongly agree that everybody needs a physical, cerebral, and creative hobby, but not for the sake of attraction. You will always be less motivated to do a hobby that is extrinsically motivated rather than one you enjoy without the perceptions of others
I can't find a girlfriend, I don't look good enough for dating apps, sometimes I get matches but then I get ghosted. Every girl I write on Instagram instantly ignores me bevause she doesn't know me in reallife. I study something with 95% of boys and I don't have a social circle, I don't really need a social circle since I'm fine doing productive things at home or the gym. But that never will bring me a girlfriend... Any other ideas than just working on my goals?
nobody can thrive w/o a social circle, thats the problem. Go out to meet and make friends, not girlfriends; make that change in mindset and you will become social@@katume7156
00:34 - 01:26 Attractive hobbies are important to become an ideal college student. Not just good looks and grades, but also a colorful life and hobbies. Hobbies enrich life and help find life's purpose. 01:53 - 03:09 Need a physical hobby like gym, sports. This builds physique and shows discipline. Also gives better energy and focus. 03:38 - 04:29 Need a cerebral hobby like reading, chess, coding. This improves thinking ability, problem-solving and money-making skills. 04:59 - 06:24 Need a creative hobby like music, art, writing. This enriches social life, shows versatility. Can reminisce when old. 06:47 Self-improvement is important. Choosing the right hobbies improves abilities in all aspects, makes you more attractive. Noted by NoteGPT
I just entered university, I was going on about choosing hobbies and exploring them, and this video just popped up in my recommendation and it could not have been at an ever better timing! The way you put it was really good and on the point. Especially the things you talked about the benefit of each type of hobby, I feel like I knew it but still I needed that kick start, really thanks for that!
@@ZiJyuWang mah bruv, skill is basically like archery or like computer science or idk something brainy skill you know? like fking languages are sum shit
Maybe the videos quality but this man really said: “I believe some hobbies are objectively better and more valuable than others”. That doesn’t come across well. What do you think of yourself and others if you think you can claim the right to be the judger of hobbies? These things are here to bring us joy man. There’s no need to rot a pure thing with ego!
Thanks a lot, collin! Whenever I'm about to give up, lose motivation, get a low grade, etc. your channel is my go-to. I am a Girl and I want to be the best version of myself in 5-10 years. Love lots!!
I personally believe that you should do all of the things you do in your own life for yourself. Im not saying to be selfish but at the end of the day you will only have yourself. Don’t Find hobbies that are “attractive” but find hobbies that you enjoy doing because the fact that you are taking care of yourself is attractive itself.
To summarize: 3 Main Hobbies Physical Hobby such as boxing, tennis, or going to the gym at least 2-5 times a week. Cerebral Hobby examples reading books, playing poker, playing chess, or coding, build an app or a website. Creative Hobby for instance music, art, dance, film, writing, cookng. (Or start a youtube channel)
Hey Collin! You are amazing dude. Just discovered some of the real example of discipline . Never knew that hobby has some kinda type like you described. All those skills & mindset are basic yet rarely found...glad you have gone through all of 'em in details. Keep going!
Having your hobbies tailored in terms of how attractive you feel they are to other people or social standards is extremely ugly on an existential level. You don’t need to rationalize why or what you love in terms of categories or disciplines. That’s the beauty of hobbies, they don’t need to be beholden to any pressures, they are what you love. Im all for people exploring what they love to do creatively, spiritually, and self-improvement wise as a whole but there’s no reason for things to have to be status indicators of attractiveness or high performance . I don’t know why so many young men think like this.
if you hoobie for example is play flute, it does not bring anything of value to your life, if you dont use that skill to any valuable goal, thats my view tho, your view is also correct, it depends on your view of hobbies
I think it's almost like a hook. I tried playing guitar because I liked how it looked and felt. I also heard Gary Clark Jr and King Crimson and many more. Would you say that is, as you wrote, "how attractive you feel they are to other people or social standards"? I didn't know a single thing about guitars before it, just that it looked cool. Every hobby, at some point, needs it's own hook. If it gets people to try something, why is it any problem? I understand you are looking at this from an "intrinsic love" perspective, but I don't think people should be shamed for, let's say going to the gym so that they look better in clothes or something. You need that hook to fall in love in the first place, it's like how people start the gym to get girls but then they stay in their even after that because they just fell in love. But I do agree that people need to try out other things aswell. One love breda.
You do hobbies so lead a more healthier (physically & mentally) lifestyle. This can be through having a sense of purpose, self fulfillment etc… People who have a healthier lifestyle are usually considered more attractive due to them giving the impression of being more „put together“ / healthier
@@timothyhindrichs i do boxing but most ppl judge me for it like i run in the streets and i shadow but thats the point u was like it’s perceived to be be more attractive i dont want nobody to get attracted to my things like personality wise values like mutually assured that the like me for the sake of like continuing to a brighter future with em
Since I found your channel and watched your videos two days ago, I've been more inspired to do things that lead to my personal growth. I've also started having a positive outlook to things. Thank you
I lift, run, and do BJJ. I have a powerlifting competition in December and a Marathon in February. For the cerebral hobbies I am learning to play chess as of 3 months ago and I also read a lot which is something I have always done. For the creative hobby I am learning photography.
3:50 as someone who’s taking AP Lang n Lit in High school, I can confidently say that being well read is one of the most rewarding things you can do for yourself.
Managed to keep up my college routine now that I got my first job. I'd recommend these to everyone: gym/crossfit (it's not a bunch of stupid kipping pullups, the workouts are super good where I train), Latino dance (this can be approached creatively but it's mostly cerebral for guys), guitar (once again kind of cerebral, music theory and the like, but I guess I'm just not at the level where I can express myself). I have zero free time but I love it.
Just discovered you through this video. Your points and examples are spot on. You come off as humble and practical, and that screams personality to me, and I'm sure to many others. Keep doing what you're doing, and the best of luck on your studies. You earned a Sub.
Collin, I really enjoyed this Video. I think it was absolutely awesome man, keep up the good work, the ending really emphasizes the importance of hobbies and creates an atmosphere for people indulge in, self-improvement.
Great video! This video made me think about what consistently makes me the most happy, and it’s always been having a good combination of hobbies that keep me stimulated in all domains of wellness. Very well said!!
Hey dude, I'm graduating in Economics at University of Brasilia and your video says it all. Having extra hobbies is fun, exciting and great for our physical health and mental health. I play soccer and I do gym exercises already, but I plan to go to the gym more oftenly, start playing tennis, learning violin and programming.
@@micahh8840 I suppose He doesn't know yet about thousands of hours to invest into violin for just not sounding awful. It is the worst choice for adults who want to impress chicks. No offense,. More realistic to learn some chords to play Ed Sheeran on guitar.
Good tips, i've started reading and working out 2 years ago when i was in high school and i has really helped in every aspect of my life. Recently i started university and i alternate playing guitar and playing a tactical videogames but i get bored easily doing these stuff unlike fitness or reading :)
@@prabesh6969with all due respect that’s probably the worse kick ive ever seen and i dont even train any other forms of martial arts that includes kicking at all, hard pill to swallow but from what he said to the clip he provided, boxing probably wasn’t really a regular hobby for him, more like he tried it once or twice lol
Wait wait I saw u when u had 800 subs how do u have 10k now ! U grew so fast and u deserve it all! Thanks for putting all this hard work for us, it is really helpful.
You're the guy i want to be like when i get into college in a couple years, you've got good personality, intellect, and skill, i've gotta pick up my game 😅
My name is Colin and I've studied Software Engineering. Some of my hobbies are: running, calisthenics, cooking, reading and running my jewellery online business. Feels like we would get along very well! Great vid! :)
A mistake here is having hobbies like these for the purpose of being attractive; you NEED to be doing these hobbies for yourself. You need to challenge yourself physically, mentally, and spiritually. These make you a more well-rounded person and bring happiness, confidence, and a sense of peace/stability. These things will innately make you more attractive, but do not do it for that shallow reason.
Can you make a video about how you extract and apply lessons from the books you read? Your videos are awesome and I look forward to seeing more of your videos.
Muay Thai, boxing, takekwondo Gaming Collecting figures Studying Math (I just started to get more interested in Math this year as a third -year student. I am a language student.)
Thank you so much for the tips! I always had a hard time choosing a hobby or maintening it, but I want to work more on myself now and listening to your advices really gave me some guidance :)
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:17 📚 To be well-rounded and attractive, it's essential to have fulfilling hobbies, not just good looks or grades. 01:00 🎨 In college, choose hobbies across three categories: physical, cerebral, and creative. 02:10 💪 Physical hobbies, like working out, are important for enhancing physique, signaling discipline, and boosting energy. 03:36 🧠 Cerebral hobbies, such as reading or programming, improve social intelligence, focus, and potential earnings. 05:02 🎵 Creative hobbies, like music or art, enable social bonding and showcase passion and sophistication. Made with HARPA AI
Be you. Stop chasing hobbies that the majority are doing or if you think it is nice to say that you are doing so and so hobby. You will never be satisfied with the time you spend on that hobby, but it is necessary to take care of yourself so make going to the gym your hobby and so on. Please don't follow the crowd, You are unique your own way.
Mine are: Physical hobbies: Skateboarding and the gym (if the gym even counts) Creative hobby: Electric guitar Cerebral hobbies: video games and anime if that even counts at all🤣🤣 I’m an information systems student but I would not call my career a hobby by any means.
It's a bad idea to pursue a passion based on whether it would look attractive to someone else. Such amounts to living one's life based on what others think. Forget about how attractive it looks. Such would beba phony version of yourselves.And you definitely don't want to cave in to women in this way. Instead of putting up a front for someone else, how about doing what you love?? In this way, you'll be authentic and guess what: Women love authentic men. Being authentic is a form of strength and is a leadership quality!And in being authentic, the RIGHT woman will see the REAL you, and if not, she either doesn't want YOU in the first place or she's probably no good for you anyway!!
I will say that playing chess should be included. You don't have to be a pro, 2500, or a grandmaster. You can be average at it and be fine. I just think the deep concentration and thinking skills needed to win the game is crucial because it helps with focus and drive.
Great video collin, everything you said was spot on. Hobbies are basically your personality and so its essential that you build upon them. I am only 18 years old and I lift weights, box, play sports, read books, play chess, and like to shoot and edit photos and videos. But the one thing I struggle with is I want to learn an instrument like the guitar or the piano, but when I see people like you who have been practicing an instrument for such a long time, I get kind of discouraged from starting, believing that I'll never be as good as you. I think its meaningless to think like this, because the past is gone, the future will never come, so the only thing I have is the present and I should make the best use of it. The time is goning to pass anyway, so I might as well be a 20-year-old who knows to play an instrument.
Ah yes, you can have all the hobbies in the world but she will judge you for: 1.) Your height if you aren't at least her minimum 2.) How much money you can spend on her 3.) How much of your free time is actually her free-time 4.) You are now her personal uber If you aren't over 5'8, can buy her Starbucks whenever you go out, and she asks what SHE wants to do all the time instead of asking what YOU want to do or doesn't wanna give you free-time then it's just not worth it boys. I've found out recently women in College looking for "relationships" (or at least the ones around me) are snotty stuck up bitches who see dudes as a wallet or an emotional punching bag for baseless problems which don't need to be problems to begin with and don't look for an end-game in the relationship but would rather play games with your mind causing stress for no reason. Honestly, just focus on yourself entirely. It's more healthy to hang out with the bois, hit the gym for YOUR personal gain and not just for looks, picking up a side hobby as a passion, connecting with others in your community, you don't need a women in life to make yourself miserable when you can feel better instead, especially when you could be spending more time focusing on your studies yourself or with friends which will help you succeed more in life. Also, I'm writing this as nearly half of my friend group has stopped hanging out because they've been pussy whipped and would rather hangout with their girlfriends instead of hanging out like we used to which is sad but that's how life goes. Stay strong everyone.
hi collin I found this video very helpful and very inspiring. I am not much younger than you I am a senior in high school. I really want to get to a point where I can feel like I accomplished something like you are doing.
thats a failed mindset to think about finding hobbies that makes you attractive, just do whatever you like and enjoy life. Dont do something just to please others.
Can you create a video on how to effectively start a hobby and stick to it? Will these three areas be done simultaneously or should I start a new hobby after only the other
@@thesundaybus2592these guys are nuts 😂 they treat hobbies as a chore for which they need discipline and will power to push through instead of something they do to find enjoyment in their relax time
a hobby is supposed to be something for fun if you are not intrested in none of these dont try to start them so choose a hobby YOU like and dont choose a hobby bcuz some guy says its atractive
Learning skills with the goal of becoming more attractive is extremely shallow. If you pursue something for external validation it only serves to make you conceited and insecure, which is ironically less attractive. The hobbies you listed offer considerably more value outside of getting laid but that's only if you have a genuine interest in the activity itself, not some vapid praise you might gain by flaunting your synthetic cerebral superiority.
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Hope you guys enjoyed this video! Welcome to the family 😎
You too.
Something I would like to add is the ability to learn and when. Also you forgot swimming or cycling my favorit hobbies jk :)
bro can you share your reading list
I strongly agree that everybody needs a physical, cerebral, and creative hobby, but not for the sake of attraction. You will always be less motivated to do a hobby that is extrinsically motivated rather than one you enjoy without the perceptions of others
I can't find a girlfriend, I don't look good enough for dating apps, sometimes I get matches but then I get ghosted. Every girl I write on Instagram instantly ignores me bevause she doesn't know me in reallife. I study something with 95% of boys and I don't have a social circle, I don't really need a social circle since I'm fine doing productive things at home or the gym.
But that never will bring me a girlfriend... Any other ideas than just working on my goals?
@@katume7156 all hobbies where you meet other people and gain new friends and or meet a girl who could become your girlfriend
@katume7156 meet people in real life, go to events where you meet more people, then practice on them
nobody can thrive w/o a social circle, thats the problem. Go out to meet and make friends, not girlfriends; make that change in mindset and you will become social@@katume7156
@@katume7156why are you desperately looking for a girlfriend?
00:34 - 01:26 Attractive hobbies are important to become an ideal college student. Not just good looks and grades, but also a colorful life and hobbies. Hobbies enrich life and help find life's purpose.
01:53 - 03:09 Need a physical hobby like gym, sports. This builds physique and shows discipline. Also gives better energy and focus.
03:38 - 04:29 Need a cerebral hobby like reading, chess, coding. This improves thinking ability, problem-solving and money-making skills.
04:59 - 06:24 Need a creative hobby like music, art, writing. This enriches social life, shows versatility. Can reminisce when old.
06:47 Self-improvement is important. Choosing the right hobbies improves abilities in all aspects, makes you more attractive.
Noted by NoteGPT
You guys are cringe for real, like, trying to create a generality in such a subjective world is so stupid.
This guy is simply the 'Asian' one
As a Wasian, this guys power level is too high for me
"I alone Am the Asian One"
I need an east/south east asian girl PLEASE
@@aninstmo go find one instead of begging online
@@clonewarsanakin7457 brother i am from poland i never saw an asian women here..
I just entered university, I was going on about choosing hobbies and exploring them, and this video just popped up in my recommendation and it could not have been at an ever better timing! The way you put it was really good and on the point. Especially the things you talked about the benefit of each type of hobby, I feel like I knew it but still I needed that kick start, really thanks for that!
Welcome to the family 🤞
Master of none
as my highchool teacher always said : to be well rounded, you need a skill, a sport, and an instruement
@@motivationstash963something to play music with like a piano or guitar
What does skill mean?
@@ZiJyuWang mah bruv, skill is basically like archery or like computer science or idk something brainy skill you know? like fking languages are sum shit
The confidence in you in the videos is so much high level that makes me confident to start what you tell
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Maybe the videos quality but this man really said: “I believe some hobbies are objectively better and more valuable than others”. That doesn’t come across well. What do you think of yourself and others if you think you can claim the right to be the judger of hobbies? These things are here to bring us joy man. There’s no need to rot a pure thing with ego!
Thanks a lot, collin! Whenever I'm about to give up, lose motivation, get a low grade, etc. your channel is my go-to. I am a Girl and I want to be the best version of myself in 5-10 years. Love lots!!
it’s great to strive to be better in the future!! but don’t forget to enjoy the moment and be grateful for the little things :)
@@pedgy9897 yes indeed!
I personally believe that you should do all of the things you do in your own life for yourself. Im not saying to be selfish but at the end of the day you will only have yourself. Don’t Find hobbies that are “attractive” but find hobbies that you enjoy doing because the fact that you are taking care of yourself is attractive itself.
Trust me that's not being selfish that's putting yourself first which is a healthy thing to do. Imo this guy is a bit too obsessed with appearances
To summarize:
3 Main Hobbies
Physical Hobby such as boxing, tennis, or going to the gym at least 2-5 times a week.
Cerebral Hobby examples reading books, playing poker, playing chess, or coding, build an app or a website.
Creative Hobby for instance music, art, dance, film, writing, cookng. (Or start a youtube channel)
Hey Collin! You are amazing dude. Just discovered some of the real example of discipline . Never knew that hobby has some kinda type like you described. All those skills & mindset are basic yet rarely found...glad you have gone through all of 'em in details. Keep going!
Much love
Having your hobbies tailored in terms of how attractive you feel they are to other people or social standards is extremely ugly on an existential level. You don’t need to rationalize why or what you love in terms of categories or disciplines. That’s the beauty of hobbies, they don’t need to be beholden to any pressures, they are what you love. Im all for people exploring what they love to do creatively, spiritually, and self-improvement wise as a whole but there’s no reason for things to have to be status indicators of attractiveness or high performance . I don’t know why so many young men think like this.
They think like this because they're brainwashed
shut up
if you hoobie for example is play flute, it does not bring anything of value to your life, if you dont use that skill to any valuable goal, thats my view tho, your view is also correct, it depends on your view of hobbies
I think it's almost like a hook. I tried playing guitar because I liked how it looked and felt. I also heard Gary Clark Jr and King Crimson and many more. Would you say that is, as you wrote, "how attractive you feel they are to other people or social standards"? I didn't know a single thing about guitars before it, just that it looked cool. Every hobby, at some point, needs it's own hook. If it gets people to try something, why is it any problem? I understand you are looking at this from an "intrinsic love" perspective, but I don't think people should be shamed for, let's say going to the gym so that they look better in clothes or something. You need that hook to fall in love in the first place, it's like how people start the gym to get girls but then they stay in their even after that because they just fell in love. But I do agree that people need to try out other things aswell. One love breda.
while i agree that part is a bit existentially poor these types of hobbies are very useful for self development
But u dont do hobbies for ppl yk?
True, the whole purpose of hobbies in the first place is for self-fulfillment and enjoyment
True
You do hobbies so lead a more healthier (physically & mentally) lifestyle. This can be through having a sense of purpose, self fulfillment etc…
People who have a healthier lifestyle are usually considered more attractive due to them giving the impression of being more „put together“ / healthier
@@timothyhindrichs i do boxing but most ppl judge me for it like i run in the streets and i shadow but thats the point u was like it’s perceived to be be more attractive i dont want nobody to get attracted to my things like personality wise values like mutually assured that the like me for the sake of like continuing to a brighter future with em
He never said you need to do it for people but they make you attractive.
Since I found your channel and watched your videos two days ago, I've been more inspired to do things that lead to my personal growth.
I've also started having a positive outlook to things.
Thank you
Much love
Nice job my man These are amazing
I lift, run, and do BJJ. I have a powerlifting competition in December and a Marathon in February. For the cerebral hobbies I am learning to play chess as of 3 months ago and I also read a lot which is something I have always done. For the creative hobby I am learning photography.
That’s so cool, I do those exact same things!
You always giving answers for my difficult Questions that inside my mind 😅. And So you are really Talented academic weapon 🎉Keep supporting 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
3:50 as someone who’s taking AP Lang n Lit in High school, I can confidently say that being well read is one of the most rewarding things you can do for yourself.
Im just baffled how well you manage your time
Managed to keep up my college routine now that I got my first job. I'd recommend these to everyone:
gym/crossfit (it's not a bunch of stupid kipping pullups, the workouts are super good where I train),
Latino dance (this can be approached creatively but it's mostly cerebral for guys),
guitar (once again kind of cerebral, music theory and the like, but I guess I'm just not at the level where I can express myself).
I have zero free time but I love it.
Just discovered you through this video. Your points and examples are spot on. You come off as humble and practical, and that screams personality to me, and I'm sure to many others. Keep doing what you're doing, and the best of luck on your studies. You earned a Sub.
🤞🤞
Collin, I really enjoyed this Video. I think it was absolutely awesome man, keep up the good work, the ending really emphasizes the importance of hobbies and creates an atmosphere for people indulge in, self-improvement.
Great video! This video made me think about what consistently makes me the most happy, and it’s always been having a good combination of hobbies that keep me stimulated in all domains of wellness. Very well said!!
Hey dude, I'm graduating in Economics at University of Brasilia and your video says it all. Having extra hobbies is fun, exciting and great for our physical health and mental health. I play soccer and I do gym exercises already, but I plan to go to the gym more oftenly, start playing tennis, learning violin and programming.
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Why violin?
@@micahh8840 I suppose He doesn't know yet about thousands of hours to invest into violin for just not sounding awful. It is the worst choice for adults who want to impress chicks. No offense,. More realistic to learn some chords to play Ed Sheeran on guitar.
@@nothing2449 lol actually, time investment for violin is way more than guitar for sure
Physical hobbies = workout,(morning walk)
Cerebral hobies= selfhelp book reading (coding)
Creative hobbies= arabic calligraphy (quran recitation)
Agreed. I have band in college and I play football and go the the gym. So it makes my personality a lot better in college
After watching this, I find myself a physical hobby and develop more discipline overtime. You're a chad bro🔥
Came on my recommended and played via autoplay but I'm glad I decided to check the video through. Very unique approach and an overall fantastic video!
I found a hobby that fits into the physical, cerebral, and creative hobby category, thank you so much, new sub!
Good tips, i've started reading and working out 2 years ago when i was in high school and i has really helped in every aspect of my life.
Recently i started university and i alternate playing guitar and playing a tactical videogames but i get bored easily doing these stuff unlike fitness or reading :)
Another W upload, bro your editing is like marvel movies wth, keep uploading bangers like this and I’ll become THAT guy
Welcome to the family🤞
Bro, your video just pop out to my home and I am glad that I found your video cause I also enter the collage for this year. ❤
00:47 "do boxing" - showed clip of him kicking the bag
It doesn't matter cause his a chad😂
@@badyoutuber1986 🧢
@@srkane1 a chad with a cap😂🤌
It is kickboxing
@@prabesh6969with all due respect that’s probably the worse kick ive ever seen and i dont even train any other forms of martial arts that includes kicking at all, hard pill to swallow but from what he said to the clip he provided, boxing probably wasn’t really a regular hobby for him, more like he tried it once or twice lol
Chess and music production are my favorite hobbies and also photographing
Colin my G, love your content , has helped me tons in getting stuff done and being "THAT GUY" in the group
Wait wait I saw u when u had 800 subs how do u have 10k now ! U grew so fast and u deserve it all! Thanks for putting all this hard work for us, it is really helpful.
Much love. 🤞
Thanks for this video man . Appreciate it !!
blud just flexing on everyone 💀
You’re right lol but I think having hobbies that are good and brings you experiences into your life is something really nice to have
Us south Asian kids barely got time to sleep, lucky you❤, wish every kid could live that life
You're the guy i want to be like when i get into college in a couple years, you've got good personality, intellect, and skill, i've gotta pick up my game 😅
My name is Colin and I've studied Software Engineering. Some of my hobbies are: running, calisthenics, cooking, reading and running my jewellery online business.
Feels like we would get along very well! Great vid! :)
Bro would be dead if this was IG comment section
fr lol
Amazing production value and even more amazing and valuable content. Keep going bro, you’re changing lives.
Much love
Thank you bro, this really helped me out.
i dont really know why i clicked on this video since i already have alot of hobbies but great video anyways, spot on.
A mistake here is having hobbies like these for the purpose of being attractive; you NEED to be doing these hobbies for yourself. You need to challenge yourself physically, mentally, and spiritually. These make you a more well-rounded person and bring happiness, confidence, and a sense of peace/stability. These things will innately make you more attractive, but do not do it for that shallow reason.
damn man. What a good video👌🏼! Deserved follow.
Can you make a video about how you extract and apply lessons from the books you read? Your videos are awesome and I look forward to seeing more of your videos.
Hey, ik u r going to blow up, greatvideo btw, keep it up dude
Great video I enjoyed it and am going to start taking on some new hobbies!
Remember! If you focus on doing all the things you do with excellence, then success is only a habit
Video quality better than eyesight
Muay Thai, boxing, takekwondo
Gaming
Collecting figures
Studying Math (I just started to get more interested in Math this year as a third -year student. I am a language student.)
"boxing" *throws a kick*
have fun, dont forget.
Bro recently found your linkedin profile..you really are intellectual chad 🗿💪
Welcome to the fam
In case you guys didn't know, he's a computer science major at YALE University. (Great videos btw)
Thank you so much for the tips! I always had a hard time choosing a hobby or maintening it, but I want to work more on myself now and listening to your advices really gave me some guidance :)
Physical Hobby: Cycling (Can reach 50km/h in a sprint hehe)
Cerebral hobby: Math is kinda fun ngl, and Coding
Creative hobby: AMV Editing (using ae)
Thats dope man
thank you for everything
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
00:17 📚 To be well-rounded and attractive, it's essential to have fulfilling hobbies, not just good looks or grades.
01:00 🎨 In college, choose hobbies across three categories: physical, cerebral, and creative.
02:10 💪 Physical hobbies, like working out, are important for enhancing physique, signaling discipline, and boosting energy.
03:36 🧠 Cerebral hobbies, such as reading or programming, improve social intelligence, focus, and potential earnings.
05:02 🎵 Creative hobbies, like music or art, enable social bonding and showcase passion and sophistication.
Made with HARPA AI
Why would I wear make up as a man? When what I want is to be accepted by others without wearing makeup.
Fuck it people gone crazy over beauty ... 😢
My routine
Physical: College Baseball Player
Cerebral: Reading Books
Creative: Violinist since I was 5
Be you. Stop chasing hobbies that the majority are doing or if you think it is nice to say that you are doing so and so hobby. You will never be satisfied with the time you spend on that hobby, but it is necessary to take care of yourself so make going to the gym your hobby and so on. Please don't follow the crowd, You are unique your own way.
Fuck this mindset.
Learn hobbies because you like them, not because it makes you more attractive.
Already writing, reading, drawing, and playing an instrument. I hope to soon finally find the motivation to exercise as a routine🤣
ur a pro in everything bro
Mine are:
Physical hobbies: Skateboarding and the gym (if the gym even counts)
Creative hobby: Electric guitar
Cerebral hobbies: video games and anime if that even counts at all🤣🤣
I’m an information systems student but I would not call my career a hobby by any means.
My hobbies are basketball, video editing, and programming. I’m trying to get into boxing now
Great video man. Keep it up
jesus christ, choosing a hobby based on how atractive it is, is such a dumb move
Your speaking skills are exceptional dude❤
Much love
It's a bad idea to pursue a passion based on whether it would look attractive to someone else. Such amounts to living one's life based on what others think. Forget about how attractive it looks. Such would beba phony version of yourselves.And you definitely don't want to cave in to women in this way. Instead of putting up a front for someone else, how about doing what you love?? In this way, you'll be authentic and guess what: Women love authentic men. Being authentic is a form of strength and is a leadership quality!And in being authentic, the RIGHT woman will see the REAL you, and if not, she either doesn't want YOU in the first place or she's probably no good for you anyway!!
Keep hard work Brother
Collin, wuow wuow wuow 10k SUBS , bravoo , you are THAT guy, you are now my fav Chad. Your video can get 100k soon for sure.
I will say that playing chess should be included. You don't have to be a pro, 2500, or a grandmaster. You can be average at it and be fine. I just think the deep concentration and thinking skills needed to win the game is crucial because it helps with focus and drive.
Actually, chess is dangerous for procrastinators.
This man has every aqualade in the game
Great video collin, everything you said was spot on. Hobbies are basically your personality and so its essential that you build upon them. I am only 18 years old and I lift weights, box, play sports, read books, play chess, and like to shoot and edit photos and videos. But the one thing I struggle with is I want to learn an instrument like the guitar or the piano, but when I see people like you who have been practicing an instrument for such a long time, I get kind of discouraged from starting, believing that I'll never be as good as you.
I think its meaningless to think like this, because the past is gone, the future will never come, so the only thing I have is the present and I should make the best use of it. The time is goning to pass anyway, so I might as well be a 20-year-old who knows to play an instrument.
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I love your videos and I’mma be that women next year when I go to college 💪
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Great video 🙌🏽 … although i feel this goes really just everybody throughout their life and not just college students or for seeking “attractiveness”
Someone reply to this in a year and I’ll share my progress! Going to do all of these starting this week
Thx again Bro❤
Ah yes, you can have all the hobbies in the world but she will judge you for:
1.) Your height if you aren't at least her minimum
2.) How much money you can spend on her
3.) How much of your free time is actually her free-time
4.) You are now her personal uber
If you aren't over 5'8, can buy her Starbucks whenever you go out, and she asks what SHE wants to do all the time instead of asking what YOU want to do or doesn't wanna give you free-time then it's just not worth it boys. I've found out recently women in College looking for "relationships" (or at least the ones around me) are snotty stuck up bitches who see dudes as a wallet or an emotional punching bag for baseless problems which don't need to be problems to begin with and don't look for an end-game in the relationship but would rather play games with your mind causing stress for no reason.
Honestly, just focus on yourself entirely. It's more healthy to hang out with the bois, hit the gym for YOUR personal gain and not just for looks, picking up a side hobby as a passion, connecting with others in your community, you don't need a women in life to make yourself miserable when you can feel better instead, especially when you could be spending more time focusing on your studies yourself or with friends which will help you succeed more in life.
Also, I'm writing this as nearly half of my friend group has stopped hanging out because they've been pussy whipped and would rather hangout with their girlfriends instead of hanging out like we used to which is sad but that's how life goes.
Stay strong everyone.
Wow i clicked a perfect video
About Cerebral Hobby, It's sad that you don't included the Writing Hobby, I think it's also one of the best hobbies.
hi collin I found this video very helpful and very inspiring. I am not much younger than you I am a senior in high school. I really want to get to a point where I can feel like I accomplished something like you are doing.
Much love
Good work❤❤
excellent video really enjoyed it
thats a failed mindset to think about finding hobbies that makes you attractive, just do whatever you like and enjoy life. Dont do something just to please others.
Can you create a video on how to effectively start a hobby and stick to it? Will these three areas be done simultaneously or should I start a new hobby after only the other
bro just start and stick to it even if you really dont want to no matter what
@@dtomic1but then is it truly a hobby?
@@thesundaybus2592these guys are nuts 😂 they treat hobbies as a chore for which they need discipline and will power to push through instead of something they do to find enjoyment in their relax time
@@quantumspark343 I know, tell me about it 😭 thought I was crazy
@@quantumspark343few hobbies start out fun. It’s only once you put in the time and the grind that it becomes enjoyable
Interesting how so much of the cerebral hobby examples focus on the potential monetary benefit
GUYS, HE'S AN ACTUAL CHAD
Take a shot every time he says “attractive” haha
Jokes aside, great video, man ❤
"do boxing" as he kicks the bag
🤣🤣🤣
a hobby is supposed to be something for fun if you are not intrested in none of these dont try to start them
so choose a hobby YOU like and dont choose a hobby bcuz some guy says its atractive
Learning skills with the goal of becoming more attractive is extremely shallow. If you pursue something for external validation it only serves to make you conceited and insecure, which is ironically less attractive. The hobbies you listed offer considerably more value outside of getting laid but that's only if you have a genuine interest in the activity itself, not some vapid praise you might gain by flaunting your synthetic cerebral superiority.
Please share the list of books u have read
I also love reading books a lot
So would love to match up yours too
"Do boxing", shows a zesty back kick