why you need hobbies in 2024 // rediscovering my hobbies as a burned out college student

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  • @withlovelinh
    @withlovelinh  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1351

    also yes my hair is like a milk tea ashy blonde now, will be shared more in a future video LOL

    • @stace7203
      @stace7203 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Its so pretty❤

    • @rchlwg
      @rchlwg 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      IT IS GORGEOUS LINH

    • @linni111
      @linni111 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      love it :3

    • @cecileelisa.
      @cecileelisa. 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      slay!

    • @CrisOnTheInternet
      @CrisOnTheInternet 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I like that color a lot, might try it next time I want to go blonde.

  • @laurynejocson3709
    @laurynejocson3709 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4210

    I had a massive epiphany one day where i realised I used to have so much creativity when I was 8-15. My old journals had short stories written in it, i would draw like crazy, read so many books and game MODERATLEY. I am now a 21 year old uni student with a part time lazy office job and game obsessivley in my only spare time and as of October 2023, I have been on a mission to get back in touch with that younger version of myself. I picked up reading, my journal is starting to bulge, I'm learning how to use guoache paints, building miniature sets along with gaming and I have never been so fulfilled just by doing these little hobbies because it truly is all just for me and my brain has been loving it :))

    • @postcardfromsydney
      @postcardfromsydney 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      im so proud of u :’) that’s wonderful keep it up 🫶

    • @missordinary163
      @missordinary163 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      That's sooo amazing!

    • @moonlightequilibrium
      @moonlightequilibrium 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      That's so inspiring! I'm the same way, I was so creative and artsy until I graduated high school, now I have no ideas and no spark. Here's to changing for the better 🤞
      (Replied to the wrong person sorry lol)

    • @vanessaprincesssa
      @vanessaprincesssa 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I love this for you! ❤ I am on the same journey to get back to my younger self and start my hobbies again. Also a 23 year old uni student currently 😊

    • @CherryBerryFashion
      @CherryBerryFashion 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      DAYYYUUMM THAT’S AMAZING 😮👏🏻

  • @Stephaniewashere5047
    @Stephaniewashere5047 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1320

    I notice from most of the comments that many of us “lost” our creativity or pushed our hobbies to the back around college. The place that is supposed to foster creativity and open new avenues actually stunted us. I’m glad that most of us are reconnecting with our younger selves again! I use to write poetry everyday and while my muse has changed to writing stories instead it feels great to embrace that side of myself again.

    • @NumbPR
      @NumbPR 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      Standard education isn't pushing to be our best but to be the best among others. Most people are taught to be better, get good grades, and hold big pressure that they don't even have time for themselves. I agree that grades, studies and all that are essential but it shouldn't come to an extent which you lose your happiness. When I come back to see old high school friends after like 4 years and see them in such a depressing state that even some picked up alcohol or other addictions. It makes me sad, so please take care of yourself. Do what makes you happy, prioritize your mental health 😁

    • @Atticajournals_
      @Atticajournals_ 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I agree with you in this matter . College work pressure don''t give us Enough time to focus on what we really want

    • @crunchberrychaos1545
      @crunchberrychaos1545 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I lost it all when I joined the working world.

    • @christopher9727
      @christopher9727 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Do you know Jesus Christ can set you free from sins and save you from hell today
      Jesus Christ is the only hope in this world no other gods will lead you to heaven
      There is no security or hope with out Jesus Christ in this world come and repent of all sins today
      Today is the day of salvation come to the loving savior Today repent and do not go to hell
      Come to Jesus Christ today
      Jesus Christ is only way to heaven
      Repent and follow him today seek his heart Jesus Christ can fill the emptiness he can fill the void
      Heaven and hell is real cone to the loving savior today
      Today is the day of salvation tomorrow might be to late come to the loving savior today
      Romans 6.23
      For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.
      John 3:16-21
      16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. 17 For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved. 18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God. 19 And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. 20 For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved. 21 But he that doeth truth cometh to the light, that his deeds may be made manifest, that they are wrought in God.
      Mark 1.15
      15 And saying, The time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand: repent ye, and believe the gospel.
      2 Peter 3:9
      The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance.
      Hebrews 11:6
      6 But without faith it is impossible to please him: for he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and that he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him.
      Jesus

  • @cupofgreentea
    @cupofgreentea 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1297

    ahh I had so much trouble on focusing on my hobbies during college due to burnout - it even went so far that I went to my university's psychologist and the top two advices he gave me were: 1) to not compare myself to the academic speed of my peers (aka not taking as many classes as them) AND set a time after work / studying to get a few hours worth of just enjoying my hobbies😂 best guy ever

    • @sanjidakamal5068
      @sanjidakamal5068 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      I've been suffering from chronic stress for quite a time. It all started with burnouts and stress from a few years ago. I never gave myself the time to recover. Now I'm suffering like this when I have my med school admission test coming up next month. You're absolutely right. I wish I had a teacher like the one you talked to.

    • @cupofgreentea
      @cupofgreentea 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      @@sanjidakamal5068 it might not be much, but another advice he gave me was to keep my sleeping schedule as regular as possible (e.g wake up at 6am, go to bed at 10pm) and to take in as much sunlight as possible each day to help my body get tired in the evening - also, half an hour of exercise/just walking outside without distractions to clear my mind. I hope you find some time to unwind and recover from the stress you've been under soon!!💜

    • @elliotgreen3203
      @elliotgreen3203 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Just do your own thing and try to show what your good at

    • @christopher9727
      @christopher9727 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ......

    • @christopher9727
      @christopher9727 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ......
      Do you know Jesus Christ can set you free from sins and save you from hell today
      Jesus Christ is the only hope in this world no other gods will lead you to heaven
      There is no security or hope with out Jesus Christ in this world come and repent of all sins today
      Today is the day of salvation come to the loving savior Today repent and do not go to hell
      Come to Jesus Christ today
      Jesus Christ is only way to heaven
      Repent and follow him today seek his heart Jesus Christ can fill the emptiness he can fill the void
      Heaven and hell is real cone to the loving savior today
      Today is the day of salvation tomorrow might be to late come to the loving savior today
      Romans 6.23
      For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.
      John 3:16-21
      16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. 17 For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved. 18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God. 19 And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. 20 For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved. 21 But he that doeth truth cometh to the light, that his deeds may be made manifest, that they are wrought in God.
      Mark 1.15
      15 And saying, The time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand: repent ye, and believe the gospel.
      2 Peter 3:9
      The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance.
      Hebrews 11:6
      6 But without faith it is impossible to please him: for he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and that he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him.
      Jesus

  • @cozywithnora
    @cozywithnora 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +801

    to see cozy games & reading become more and more popular is making me so happyyyyyy!!! i feel like 2024 is us cozy girlies year

    • @withlovelinh
      @withlovelinh  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      good luck with your move ahhahah so exciting!

    • @cozywithnora
      @cozywithnora 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      thank u so much

    • @guidedexplosiveprojectileg9943
      @guidedexplosiveprojectileg9943 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      What are cozy games?

    • @kimberlyxvo
      @kimberlyxvo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@guidedexplosiveprojectileg9943 games that make you feel good and want to make you sit down with a cup of tea and a blanket to enjoy that moment. chill games like animal crossing, stardew valley, unpacking etc

    • @guidedexplosiveprojectileg9943
      @guidedexplosiveprojectileg9943 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@kimberlyxvo Could never play a game with a blanket on me.

  • @hako_242
    @hako_242 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +390

    I relate to this so much. When I was in uni, I just ended up giving up all of my hobbies because I was stuck in the mindset of “I should be finishing my assignments rather than doing this”, especially during my final year since i was working on my thesis paper. Now that I’ve graduated, I’m rediscovering my hobbies one step at a time and now I’m inspired to do a lot of projects.

    • @lizziexiongmantion6947
      @lizziexiongmantion6947 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Sii antes cuando tenía pasatiempo tenía una memoria normal y ahora que los estoy volviendo a jugar me estoy dando cuenta de lo mucho que está empeorado mi concentración y memoria

    • @sumtionary
      @sumtionary 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      SO REAL

    • @chaos2232
      @chaos2232 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      333!!

    • @chaos2232
      @chaos2232 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Someone disliked 😢

  • @laurenrincon643
    @laurenrincon643 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +116

    Defunitely important to have hobbies when you are a musician or artist and your "play becomes your work" because even though its your passion, its good to have other separate hobbies that is not connected to work at all

  • @serenediipity
    @serenediipity 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +192

    i recently graduated college last month and i'm currently in that post-grad slump of feeling directionless and trying to rediscover the passion that made me pursue my degree in the first place. rediscovering hobbies and the small things that make life feel worth it really do make a difference

    • @Misseggy24
      @Misseggy24 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I’m in the same position right now! So feel you x

  • @beccabecca7
    @beccabecca7 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +77

    Librarian here! Happy to recommend some good romcoms! I’m not sure what you’ve read already, but Happy Place by Emily Henry is probably my favorite romcom ever. All of Emily Henry’s adult romances are great, but this one for me was her best. Not only was the romance compelling - and I don’t normally enjoy the exes-to-lovers trope, so this is high praise from me for this book - but the actual story was just… oof, right in the feels. It’s about growing up, and about how that changes you and especially your friendships. The friendship aspects of the story had me literally in tears, but in the best way. And like all Emily Henry books, in the end you feel healed, like the world was ripped apart and put back together better than it was before. So good. I highly recommend it. If you enjoy cozy books, I’d also recommend The Very Secret Society of Irregular Witches by Sangu Mandanna. If you enjoy audiobooks at all, I loved the narrator for this one, so it’d be good for any commutes you have. The romance is a sunny/grumpy, mild enemies-to-lovers, but not in any sort of toxic or gross way. Like I said, it’s cozy, so it’s sweet and low stakes with a guaranteed happy ending but without being vapid.

    • @princyy824
      @princyy824 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How much u get paid as librarian and can u also tell ur qualification

    • @beccabecca7
      @beccabecca7 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@princyy824 Depends on the position and the library how much you get paid. For example, I know that an academic librarian (works in a university or research library) makes much more than a public librarian. But for any librarian job, you need a master’s degree in library and information science. You can still work in a library without a master’s degree, but you would likely be a library assistant, which makes less money and is often part time, unless the library is small and desperate for staff or you have equivalent experience and they’re willing to take you despite not having the master’s.

  • @Nightcoreheaven1
    @Nightcoreheaven1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +114

    Just wanted to say I’m 24 weeks pregnant today and during the entirety of this pregnancy so far I have had no motivation. I have so many hobbies I used to love to do but now I feel really depressed and I’m just trying to get by one day at a time. Thank you Linh for making this video and giving me hope that hobbies are going to bring back the spark of happiness in my life.

    • @crstph
      @crstph 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      wishing the best for you, but don’t beat yourself up if that motivation stays lower than your usual baseline! your body is giving half of your energy and nutrients to growing something else, as you very well know haha

    • @Nightcoreheaven1
      @Nightcoreheaven1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@crstph I’m trying to keep busy but also meditating and being gentle with myself.

    • @so_obsessed_
      @so_obsessed_ 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Congratulations on your pregnancy! I hope you can find hobbies to brighten your day ☺️ and not that I have any experience with kids (I’m 17), but your baby will probably bring you so much joy and I’m happy for you, internet stranger 😂

    • @Nightcoreheaven1
      @Nightcoreheaven1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@so_obsessed_ awe thank you so much. Only 4 weeks left now 🤞

    • @so_obsessed_
      @so_obsessed_ 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@Nightcoreheaven1 amazing!!

  • @Sarah-rj3fh
    @Sarah-rj3fh 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +97

    I kind of stopped drawing because of uni and blank page syndrome, so yeah I would like to get back at it and also start reading more !!! Every evening/night I scroll mindlessly on the Internet and it.s affecting my sleep schedule so thank for the recommendation, I’ll go to my local library when I’m done with the exam

  • @luforyu
    @luforyu 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +501

    My resolution is to fix my posture 🥴 I keep finding myself hunched over like a little goblin throughout the day lol

    • @withlovelinh
      @withlovelinh  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +84

      THATS ME! I just got an ergonomic chair, it changed my life

    • @madeeha.2006
      @madeeha.2006 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +66

      Literally straightened my back after reading this comment 😭😭

    • @parulpatel9179
      @parulpatel9179 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      ​@@madeeha.2006 Lmao same 😭😂

    • @wandering_cj
      @wandering_cj 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      the way i fixed my posture so fast after reading this >< all the best !! let's un-shrimp this year!

    • @shadia4710
      @shadia4710 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@madeeha.2006 Same hereeeeee!!!😂 I think we just have to keep reminding ourselves until it becomes a habit...even while walking 😅

  • @erinpennington19
    @erinpennington19 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +416

    This couldn't have come at a better time! I really need to have defined hobbies outside of uni work, hopefully I'll take some ideas from this 😁

    • @tarantelfaser4772
      @tarantelfaser4772 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      I can't shut up it and therefore I present to you: BOULDERING. If you live in a city that has a bouldering gym, go there. :D
      1) very beginner friendly
      2) very social sport (u can sit and talk with people between your failing attemps at bouldering)
      3) huge community (also on youtube), that is not very toxic
      4) its sport... trains your muscles and is good for your health right
      Thank you for tuning in to my presentation!

    • @erinpennington19
      @erinpennington19 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      ​@tarantelfaser4772 honestly that sounds super fun, thanks! 😄

  • @dustmitey8745
    @dustmitey8745 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +66

    Loveless is an AMAZING book about "romance" and how some people don't feel it. A girl starting her college journey, trying to find out why she's never had a boyfriend (with a VERYVERY lovable cast of characters

  • @nocctea
    @nocctea 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    I just graduated and I can’t wait to rediscover my hobbies again! During college I felt I couldn’t do anything except my homework cause I always procrastinated and got behind, it just made me so miserable. It helps me feel less alone that others have difficulty making time for their hobbies, so thank you for this video! Hopefully I can get back into making time for myself and having fun creating art again!

  • @stuckinstories
    @stuckinstories 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +106

    Last year I finished university and the truth is that I was finally able to read something again for fun and not because I would have an evaluation of it later, I survived those 5 years thanks to bts, hearstopper, webtoon and the odd anime/kdrama jaja. Even though it wasn't the same amount as before, I took advantage of all the time I could, on public transport, in line whether it was for the bank, supermarket or hospital, and enjoyed every moment. Thanks for the recommendations!
    The same with drawing, I would love to go back to that little girl who filled notebooks with different drawings and not just draw to understand which muscle connects with which bone, although now I can draw whatever I want, I can't and I hope to improve this year.
    thanks for everything! i discovered your channel in 2020 and it's always a pleasure to see you again, i hope this will be a great year for you!💜

  • @mxridraws
    @mxridraws 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    been seeing so many creators talking about reconnecting with old hobbies and exploring new ones in 2024, especially related to staying off your phone and social media. so happy to see more people talking about it and making hobbies a trend again ;3

  • @y-tiplex
    @y-tiplex 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    as someone who was never really that into gaming before last year when i started getting into tetris, the "you just havent found the right game yet" can be so true sometimes.

  • @lisakuiper9149
    @lisakuiper9149 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    if anyone was interested in the games that were talked about in the video, i HIGHLY recommend spiritfarer!! it is a really interesting game with a beautiful artstyle and soundtrack and it really transports you to a whole new world! there are so many characters to get to know and the stakes of the game are really low, so you it's the perfect game to play at night :) hope u guys enjoy it as much as i did!!

  • @elana04
    @elana04 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    after going through my most chaotic and stressful semester of post-secondary EVER last fall and also having an insane year in general from moving out to so many more ups and downs, i am SO READY to make this the year where i can make that balance between work and my hobbies!
    reading, colouring, kpop collecting, minecraft, painting my nails, journaling, etc. i’m so ready to bring these things back into my life without feeling the guilt that i should be working 24/7!
    thank you for the video linh! i hope everyone who sees this can get back to something they love this year! 🩷✨

  • @Narja23
    @Narja23 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Same here! I finished my phd with a major burnout, and i am now starting to live again and read again as i'm job hunting. This off time before starting a new career is actually welcomed!
    I'd add that if you have faced a major burnout or depression, there's nothing wrong with seeing a therapist, even if only for a couple of meetings. Often, a good therapist will have good advices and hear about anything you'll wish to talk about! ❤

  • @anetaprzeszo2609
    @anetaprzeszo2609 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    It is so sweet when someone is talking about their hobbies, you just feel happy when they are being so excited about something❤

  • @lyannastarkweather
    @lyannastarkweather 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I support this on every level. I was an avid reader for years, but fell off of that hobby toward the end of high school. Thankfully, I picked it back up during my junior year of college to the point I was reading at least 40 books per year. It got me through a rough few years. I’ve fallen off again somewhat due to work, but I’m making the effort to read more again. I’m also trying to engage in some more creative pursuits I enjoyed as a child like writing, coloring, and journaling.

  • @alyssavocadoo
    @alyssavocadoo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I love how we are collectively realising how much we miss having hobbies! I had the same realization last year and since then I had been slowly reintroducing my old hobbies in my life. I started reading again (which I regret stopping because books are SO cool wth!!), journaling and doing artsy stuff, like sketching or origami. It's so weird to say but all of these little things make me feel like I am back to being "me", if that makes sense. I am so glad that I reconnected with my younger self and I will continue to do so from now on

    • @crisannegenil
      @crisannegenil 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yes i really feel there's this change going on, i also read online "offline is the new luxury" --- we're done being so hooked by online stuff, now it's time to focus on quality time

  • @tessarose8430
    @tessarose8430 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    yes yes yes! this! hobbies make life worth living tbh. if i'm not reading for fun, consuming k-pop, creating outfits, or playing dnd with friends, life feels flat and uninspiring. i also find that people without hobbies are so much harder to talk to!

  • @ayakaimpacts
    @ayakaimpacts 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    linh i FEEL you for video games. im also one of the kids who COOKED both at grades and games from elementary all the way to senior high school! and in a way, video games can make you smarter. im into honkai star rail lately, and the debating sections where you need to select the right piece of info to counter the character debating with you is so fun & challenging, it really helped me improving in logical thinking which is smth i've been working on. gaming can be beneficial, it definitely feels underrated in the sense of the stigma attached to gaming = bad grades or work :(

  • @NeedANewHobby7
    @NeedANewHobby7 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I consider fan fiction reading. Something I personally started doing since I was so busy during the semester and because I’ve been having such a difficult time reading physical books, was audio books, story driven podcast. Honestly saved my sanity. Sewing is something I’ve returned to learning. Embroidery is a new hobby I’ve taken up and bookbinding my favorite fanfic is something I want to take up.

  • @sammyetc
    @sammyetc 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I fully gave up reading from a young age, part of me thought it was nerdy (I was that kind of kid) but I was also very slow at reading and even had extra reading sessions between 6-10yo. Found out I was dyslexic 2 years ago at 25, but am now making 2024 my year for reading as many books as possible. Growth doesn’t come overnight, and I want to push myself further now that I’m in my late 20s ♥️ and thanks for the book recommendations!!

  • @nanditasm818
    @nanditasm818 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    i got into uni last year, i took a gap year after high school as i didnt get into med school. the gap year i yearned for friendships and hanging out and love, (all my friends had moved from the city already) so when i got into college all i did was make friends, play, drink. i never had time for self reflection. now that im into second year i feel stable enough with my friends that i want to go back to painting or playing the guitar or reading books or dancing or singing or im into making pottery now so maybe that.
    youve been a constant for me linh, since your high school or mine. thanks for being here on this small corner of the internet.
    damn too emo

  • @jaquelinesilvademacedo7904
    @jaquelinesilvademacedo7904 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I agree, I was so busy in 2023 (I'm teacher) and my passion on Art and languages was left aside. This year I really want enjoy and to develop these skills

  • @tajashania
    @tajashania 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Yesss 2024 is the year of hobbies!! Hobbies I want to focus on this year include film photography, cinematography, painting, baking and journalling (just to name a few)

    • @crisannegenil
      @crisannegenil 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      i am like you! i have many things that i like and the start of this year seems so refreshing knowing i'll set myself to do all that but i also know that life gets so busy.. so i tried making a monthly calendar where i divide an activity x week, to make it more functional. I hope this comment is useful!!!

  • @LyssieLysse
    @LyssieLysse 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I’m not in college anymore, but I do find topics like these comforting and helpful as an adult in the workforce. Definitely experiencing burnout as I’m typing this, but I have to keep pressing forward. I do enjoy doing artsy things so I’m planning on incorporating them more into my day. I seen a coworker crochet an entire blanket in the break room so I know I can fit some time in for drawing, painting, etc.

  • @yatharthaggarwal9726
    @yatharthaggarwal9726 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I think this video reminded me of who i am. Ive started to get a little depressed lately and ive seen that I spend most my free time just scrolling mindlessly and its come to point where i cannot stop it. My mind forces me to do so. I just want to be set free of it.

  • @hannahjae4155
    @hannahjae4155 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I'm in my junior year of college and have SEVERELY struggled with procrastination and boredom... and I feel like it's partly from not having any hobbies. I'd love for this new year of 2024 to get back into running. Also, reading and writing, as writing is my major in college. Crocheting and different forms of art, and of course gaming (minecraft mainly for the time being), is what I'd like to explore more as new hobbies again!

  • @MyaPapaya
    @MyaPapaya 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    When I tell you that it took me *years* for some of my hobbies to re-emerge after the burnout I experienced in college. I used to write in my journals faithfully from age 7 onward... and then quit when I started university - couldn't keep up with it. Graduated university in 2012.
    As of 2022 I started journaling again as a whole ass adult in her 30s. And it's been so unbelievably rewarding. I don't think I could've really gotten into it any sooner, all that to say, the burnout is so real but don't give up hope on your hobbies. Some of the passion comes back LITERALLY A WHOLE DECADE LATER. and it will be completely worth the slow journey to get there.
    Additionally, thank you for the inspiration, Linh! 2024 is, for me, also a year to unapologetically enjoy what I enjoy and do the things I love, so I think maybe I should make a video about my hobbies as well... I have... A LOT OF HOBBIES.... and like, idk, learning about people's hobbies is so interesting to me!!! I LOVE videos like this! and it's so fun getting to watch you embrace your hobbies and commit to loving what you love.

  • @maddiej2165
    @maddiej2165 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    One of my goals for 2024 was to start reading more books. My mom got me a few good books for Christmas and I’m very excited to dive into them. I’m also about to read the entire Percy Jackson series, thanks to the new show

  • @EmilyinBold
    @EmilyinBold 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Seeing the love you have for each of these hobbies is so beautiful. I feel like when we were kids, hobbies we spent our free time on are still what we naturally gravitate towards, but adult stuff gets in the way. It’s also way too easy to fall into the trap of having “hobbies” that are actually just obligations or habits. Once I gave myself the time to relax and enjoy swimming like I used to, I remembered how good it felt to love what I was doing. And I’ve been able to find that love in other areas of my life!

  • @anaelletremoureux4766
    @anaelletremoureux4766 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Video games are much cooler than people think. I read, dance, write, sing, cook, play board games, but I don’t play video games. Just watching my bf and his cousin playing is sooo fun. So many good memories

  • @lucyl4271
    @lucyl4271 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +100

    So I don't normally write comments, but when you asked for romance book recs I FLEW to the comment section. "One Last Stop" by Casey McQuiston is absolutely beautifully written and is just a fun time if you haven't read it already. :)

    • @pothospal
      @pothospal 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      seconded!

    • @catheeexo
      @catheeexo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      yes yes yes

  • @uzairazme
    @uzairazme 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    adulthood really just kills that part of you slowly and without you even realising its gone

  • @keriskun
    @keriskun 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Picked up swimming as a new hobby and I love it ❤️ needed something to fix my posture as an artist and playing too many games

  • @yeonjunnetic214
    @yeonjunnetic214 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    not a college student but hs student and i legit stopped doing anything for 3 years and this yr im slowly picking things back up, like digital art, reading, and organising my own little projects

  • @pennym.k
    @pennym.k 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I needed this video, last year I completely lost my passion for all of my hobbies, I quit art, and writing and just could not pick it back up because I waa so busy with college. I am really going to make an effort to focus on my hobbies and make time for them😊

  • @egtogrubb1637
    @egtogrubb1637 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    hi linh
    im really thankful for you making this video as i too am in college and just last semester i was feeling so overwhelmed and burnt out on college and that i didn’t really had anything to cope with it. both my parents told me that creating art or playing video games was worthless and a waste of time, that i should be spending my time doing something else more productive. this video made me realize that hobbies are much more important than you think and now it makes me want to go back and start doing and creating things i like. thank you linh!

  • @thesirenofwoods
    @thesirenofwoods 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    My plan for this year is to get back to making things out of clay. I had so much fun with it last summer, but as usual, capitalism and work got in the way. And also gaming. I'm already trying to manage my time better, so I can enjoy my hobbies every day.

  • @sportbilly_vlogz1115
    @sportbilly_vlogz1115 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The rereading of books you love is a therapeutic habit, annually I’ll do Percy Jackson and then Heroes of Olympus start to finish over the course of a month or so, the best time of year, never really started Trials of Apollo but the new series after with Percy is inspiring me to finish it too

  • @Alexandra-xv1qm
    @Alexandra-xv1qm 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    If you loved Pachinko, I'd reccomend checking out Beasts of a Little Land! It's beautiful and heartbreaking, not quite intergenerational but spans decades of Korean history through characters that are often on the margins of history or left out altogether. Also looking forward to getting back into hobbies this year, the DC library has so many amazing resources - the MLK library has free sewing classes and tools!

  • @husnahasanah1925
    @husnahasanah1925 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Damn, the video couldn't have been uploaded at a better time. Med school has been killing me lately but at the same I felt like I could cope better due to my returning fondness of art, reading and gaming (which I have abandoned for years!) I really do have the same resolutions as you Linh, it's insane! Lately, I found the perfect balance of studying for med school and still maintaining my hobbies so I felt content with everything for now. Like everything just clicked. I just hope to continue the same enthusiasm throughout the whole year, heck, throughout my whole life even! Thanks Linh for uploading this video it's really dear to me❤

  • @forestspiritxo
    @forestspiritxo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    * sobs * I've realized that I had stopped doing certain hobbies of mine since I got older, I've been slowly getting in touch with my inner child tho because there are many things I used to enjoy in my childhood which I don't do as much anymore.
    So I'm getting it all back and it feels so wonderful to connect with the depts of ur innect child, it really brings up this wonderful feeling of joy.
    This video came in handy tbh, thx a million!!!

  • @mmkoo30
    @mmkoo30 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    okay the reading section of this vid hits too hard, ima need more book vids ASAP!! 😭❤️

    • @withlovelinh
      @withlovelinh  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      That’s something I got planned for this year 🫡 booktube is coming back!!!

    • @mmkoo30
      @mmkoo30 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@withlovelinh yess!! also the colleen hoover line gagged me🤭

  • @AmandaMcintosh-c9f
    @AmandaMcintosh-c9f 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It is so sweet when someone is talking about their hobbies, you just feel happy when they are being so excited about something

  • @David_Quinn_Photography
    @David_Quinn_Photography 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    During COVID I faced major burnout in gaming, for over 3 years I did not launch a single game on my PC, it was only for photo/video editing that entire time and this fall IDK what happened but I had the urge to play a short hike and that was the spark I needed to play video games again.

  • @RidiculousReviews-ii9ky
    @RidiculousReviews-ii9ky 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As a responsible working parent with a toddler, the very few times I do take an hour just for me to have fun and catch up with my hobbies I end up regretting it because usually something that requires fixing/cleaning/solving happens during that time and the sooner I get to it, the easier it is to fix/clean/solve. My wife is in the exact same boat, she is also constantly cooking/cleaning/working/parenting. The amount of chores and things to do is relentless

  • @kaylafayrie2.0
    @kaylafayrie2.0 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    i’ve rediscovered my hobby of crochet so this is perfect timing!!

  • @SweetlyDarkArt
    @SweetlyDarkArt 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My comfort series is Blue Period. As an artist it hit me right in the feels! And it's still ongoing!

  • @moonlightmoonchild1133
    @moonlightmoonchild1133 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    somehow, you always post things that I need at the moment. it's some kind of magic, truly. as for my hobbies, I really do need to find time to balance uni work and my hobbies (reading, drawing, watching movies and tv shows, researching things i'm interested in).
    it's been stressful this past two years, I had to take an academic break without finishing the 1 semester last year and start over again this year (due to health issues that literally did not get better after months of medical examinations, tests and meds taken BRUHHH). I only have three exams left and i'm done with my first semester, then I'll finish dealing with my health and start the second semester fresh and motivated and better in general. that's my plan, yeah.

  • @kriistiz
    @kriistiz 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    “You just haven’t found the right game” is real. Love your contents!

  • @DIVYARAJENDRAN945
    @DIVYARAJENDRAN945 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks for the timely video. I used to devour thick books but lost interest during university. Rediscovering books last year has been rejuvenating, and I've also taken up drawing for peace. This creative outlet now serves as my escape from the realities of work and personal issues.

  • @oddball3264
    @oddball3264 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As someone who been trying to get back into his hobbies, i like this video. I've always struggled with the disciplinary aspect of this journey but im not giving up .
    Also you seem like a really cool and down to earth person

  • @juanitad.8399
    @juanitad.8399 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The book recs really made me so nostalgic, reminding me of your early videos 😭It's honestly just a beautiful and crazy thing growing up watching you and now that I'm a college freshman it all means so much to me.

  • @maemaerets
    @maemaerets 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    the little things i appreciated in this video:
    1. that camera angle when she shared her books by the bed
    2. putting the tissue box on top of the books
    3. when she put the "o" at video games
    4. when her cat went up to her when she played the ds on the sofa

  • @s.hiessl149
    @s.hiessl149 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    one of my new year’s resolutions is to start sewing my own clothes again. i never learned how to sew formally and learned as an autodidact for the most part but my mother and grandmother encouraged me in the past to try sewing once i said it would interest me how to do it. nowadays i never find the time to do it which is quite unfortunate because i used to love sewing. therefore, 2024 is for sewing my own garments!

  • @VoidNiven
    @VoidNiven 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love seeing how more people are rediscovering their hobbies, as someone who also has art, reading and gaming as hobbies and who also got so burnt out in highschool and college that I just stopped doing anything at all. A couple of years ago I started drawing again and now I can sell my stuff at conventions. I've also read more this last academic year than I did in all my 4 years of college. And even though I'm now starting my 3rd Master degree I now know I can have art as my hobby and side hustle

  • @ChiChi58933
    @ChiChi58933 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m a burnt out A/B student. I graduated high school a year ago, almost 2 now. I had been burnt out for a while. I’m just now going back to my hobbies. I am so glad this video popped up for me because I needed some motivation.

  • @elijahjohndatuin6498
    @elijahjohndatuin6498 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I find it very comforting and interesting of people returning to the hobbies they used to love :)

  • @darcycrossingbooks
    @darcycrossingbooks 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The hobbies I want to keep making (more, for some) time for are also reading, video games, writing, watching stuff (mainly cartoons, cartoons are so underrated to watch as an adult but there is some very good ans fun stuff !), ttrpg (only playing dnd for now but I want to check out others as well), and learning languages. I started kpop collecting at the end of last year and plan on briguing that in 2024 as well, and I've always been interested in learning more about photography, so I hope I can take some time for it this year.

  • @hyogoko-d2w
    @hyogoko-d2w 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I run a journal group with my coworkers and we all have different styles of creativity. We have prompts and exchanges. Our group has become a big source of community, inspiration and overall fun in the midst of our corporate lives. Some write, some draw, some collage, it's wonderful to see how everyone shares their creativity with each other. We also plan craft nights to hang out together. Stuff like shrinky dinks or pony bead bracelets. Hobbies are good for your soul!

  • @kcmayoco
    @kcmayoco 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    WTF WAS THAT GIANT SPIDER SHADOW MONSTER THAT CRAWLED ACTOSS THE FLOOR WHILE U WERE SWEEPING??? 0:12

  • @kamatiss9033
    @kamatiss9033 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Uni has been so taxing, especially since I’m nearing graduation. But lately, I’m slowly coming back to my old hobbies like video games, art, music, knitting. I’m currently trying to find the time to play dungeons and dragons with my friends and siblings again cuz, I miss it so much T^T

  • @skinni_the_P00hBear
    @skinni_the_P00hBear 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This came at the best time. I just started grad school, and I feel like I'm gonna need my hobbies now more than ever (undegrad and covid nearly annihilated me 💀💀).

  • @cleodinnnnna
    @cleodinnnnna 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Ahh I've also been diving back into old hobbies recently! I've gotten back into reading and dancing through kpop. A new one I've picked up is crocheting! I hope I'll be able to keep it up when i go back to uni✨️

  • @ashmac89
    @ashmac89 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    last year i got burnt out applying for med school so this year i'm focusing on getting back into reading, making digital art, and finishing games i bought last year. i'm already noticing a difference in my mood and motivation and i hope it continues!

  • @rachelhachamovitch4478
    @rachelhachamovitch4478 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    rebecca kuang is eternally my favorite author she's truly brilliant. I've read everything she has published, loved every single book, cannot wait for whatever she writes next I adore her

  • @its_just_seb
    @its_just_seb 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    i am SO happy you mentioned you like inter-generational stories in books because it gives me an excuse to recommend my favourite author: Kate Morton. She writes these long, intricate historical novels that are split into multiple timelines (usually one from seventy to a hundred years ago and one from either 90s/00s) where a mystery occurs in the historical time and then the present day MC tries to uncover what happened exactly. Most of her books (saying most because I haven't yet read them all so i don't actually know) follow this formula, but despite this they always feel fresh, and the plot twists are incredible. Like jaw drop, out lout "What?!", gotta take a few minutes to process type incredible.
    One thing I like about her books is that the pace is great even though the books are long. And no matter how complicated the story gets I always feel taken care of as a reader. I'm never worried I won't understand it in the end, because the author does a fantastic job laying everything out and tying it together.
    If you want a recommendation as to where to start, I recommend "The Lake House". It was my first one and is also still my favourite.

  • @purryawnz
    @purryawnz 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I recently started cross stitching - the materials are fairly inexpensive and its pretty easy to pick up as a beginner. You can also buy cross stitch kits to start out. I would totally recommend cross stitch if you're looking for a low-stress, easy hobby.

  • @HGCoffeeBean
    @HGCoffeeBean 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My younger sister got me reading this year and it's been just one way to get myself out of my own thoughts and I've been really enjoying discovering good stories.

  • @ame_vagabonde
    @ame_vagabonde 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I've been pretty good at picking back up my hobbies for a year! I'm reading a lot, gaming sometimes, watching animation films and I'm finally taking the time to draw and to learn to animate! Some hobbies I would like to pick up are painting, pastels (I bought a set a year ago now and still haven't tried it), singing, and maybe try a sport like ice skating, roller blading or why not bouldering. (The sporty ones are the most difficult since it requires to go outside and be seen by people)

  • @valentinep5449
    @valentinep5449 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Honestly, I had the same precious will of taking more time for my hobbies. This is a big side of us that we put aside too much because of work and other duties. So, this year, I want to spend more time reading, playing video games, crocheting, and cooking 🥰✨

  • @kum5070
    @kum5070 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    this entire comment section is so wholesome and the video was so nostalgic yet motivating and idk i might cry

  • @anna--emilia
    @anna--emilia 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I feel this so much! I got back into anime last year and have been watching one piece religiously - it's not only been an amazing experience but has also reignited this certain type of joy and wonder in me that 9-5-job-adult-me desperately needs. also rewatching attack on titan last year was a peak moment for me lol and definitely reminded me that I should seek out the things I've enjoyed throughout my life, scrolling tiktok is not worth it. this year I'm looking to get back into a daily reading routine, I haven't fully let go of reading but the routine of it has been off for years already and I miss it. now that I've already read a few books in the past few months I can feel the routine re-starting and it makes me really happy. from last year I'd really recommend Happy Place and the Green Bone saga!

  • @3jennybenny
    @3jennybenny 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The theme for myself this year is: “invest in myself” and creativity is one of them! I got a set of watercolors for Xmas and it’s been such a challenging and fun thing to do at the end of my night!

  • @niamhsheedy8106
    @niamhsheedy8106 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    last year I got back into reading by just re-reading every Rick Riordan book and the ones I hadn't read by him and now I've been reading so much! Its made me feel so much better and genuinely made me so much happier. That along with getting outside more and taking walks, and I've also been getting back into TV which I just haven't consumed in so long and I forgot how fun it is.

  • @gaunterodimm4884
    @gaunterodimm4884 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This year certainly was the year of hobbies, I picked up art again early on in the year when Pewdiepie posted his art video, and I haven't looked back since. I try and be as consistent as I can with it, and it stuck with me throughout all of this year. Playing guitar is another hobby that I do in my every day life, and I really do feel like these two hobbies give me something to look forward to every day when I'm winding down.

  • @emmy8526
    @emmy8526 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Only caveat: once you monetize it, it’s not a hobby - it’s a job, which will start to have pressures, stress and decisions based on business rather than self. Keep some hobbies that are purely for creativity and pleasure.

  • @jessicalong2187
    @jessicalong2187 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Since I've graduated college and quit my full time job to take another career path I've had tons of time while doing part time remote internships at home. I feel so much better reading, playing games, building computers, and doing cross stitch than when I was scrolling on social media for entertainment. Hobbies have been such as huge mental health game changer!

  • @finnisnothere389
    @finnisnothere389 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've realized lately I let one of my major hobbies (now as a career path), music, kind of take over my life. Don't get me wrong, I absolutely love music and auditioning for all that I can, but I needed a friendly reminder to take a breather and that I'm allowed to do other things. Your video is such a cozy vibe and I absolutely loved the way you presented everything!

  • @momonomay3011
    @momonomay3011 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i graduate this year and i’ve been losing my interests and hobbies over the years since just before the pandemic hit. it’s a shame because i felt as though i saw a lot of people nurture their hobbies or discover new ones through covid and i just didn’t. it’s definitely not good for my mental health and i think having a neurodivergent brain it’s super important to keep it stimulated with healthy hobbies. i hope that this year is the year of the hobby for me, even if it’s just doing some baking once a month. when i finally finish all my university work i will have time and hopefully energy to make creative work that isn’t under the pressure to be submitted for examination.

  • @nicolettecalderon3018
    @nicolettecalderon3018 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I actually want to get into reading, writing, and video games. Last year, was the worst year and now I’m bringing the new year with a positive attitude.

  • @kristalag892
    @kristalag892 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Here's a rec for you, Linh!: She Gets the Girl made me realize that I'm into romcoms like every other girl. I only get the feeling of giggling and kicking my feet when it comes to women loving women. It also helped that it was a college romance like in my daydreams...
    This is still in my reading list, but my friend got me Chloe and the Kaishao Boys for my 18th birthday recently. It's about a Chinese-Filipino girl who celebrates her 18th birthday. I feel like Chinese-Filipinos are underrepresented in media, and I read good reviews about the book!

  • @we.genuinely.think2882
    @we.genuinely.think2882 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I want to add that it's also totally okay to try new hobbies and then realize that they are not for you. This video really inspired me to pick up my switch again (finally after 1.5 years lol) 💕

  • @danthefan3753
    @danthefan3753 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I recently got into audiobooks and its a real gamechanger!! After a long day of studying I can read a fun book without seeing another word. Also by listening on commutes you dont get motion sick and it’s made me fly through books. You can even put up the speed if you think the narrater is talking too slowly. I always kind of dismissed them but i’m so glad I gave it a try

  • @rebeccarose3
    @rebeccarose3 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i am LIVINGGG for all ur hxh merch omg ive never been more jealous 😭 ur house/aesthetic is just perfection!!! thank u for this video cuz honestly i wanna get back into my hobbies, and ty for saying gaming is a hobby too!! so many ppl say its not and i feel guilty for "wasting" my time on it

  • @Star_fish
    @Star_fish 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I had a distinct era in my childhood when I was obsessed with making my own clothes (a result of DIY videos on TH-cam and my dad being able to sew; he made a lot of my school uniform items lol) but never actually made anything I could wear. So, in conjunction with my desire to re-vamp my style and starting wearing clothes I feel the most me in, I will be altering the items I already own.

  • @julsalliefelan7650
    @julsalliefelan7650 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Honestly it gets so much worse after you get a job 😅 it’s very difficult to no longer be on a flexible schedule and when you don’t really have your own space you can occupy with your things (we live in a very small flat). So working on hobbies is a constant struggle for me but i do agree we absolutely need hobbies in our lives ☺️
    ANYWAYS try Night Circus by Erin Morgenstern 🙈 I did cry but the enemies to lovers is so well done. It’s such a magical book, i cannot ever get enough people to read it 😊

  • @nffall
    @nffall 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi Linh! I want to recommend you a few books and videogames too!
    If you liked Babel, you should also read Yellowface by the same author. I also recommend you Sula, a classic, and also the ACOTAR series if you've not read it yet.
    As for videogames, I've seen that you were playing on the 3ds. You should definitely play the Yokai Watch games if you haven't yet, especially 2 and 3, they're so chaotic and you'll love them. As for the Switch, I also love A short hike, but you should also try the Ori games (maybe you've already played them), the Ace Attorney ones, the Danganronpa ones and the Ni no kuni ones. And if you like Ace Attorney and Danganronpa, PLEASE play Master Detective Arcives: Rain Code, one of my favourite videogames in 2023. Much love! ❤

  • @cygbalingbing4635
    @cygbalingbing4635 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Less social media scrolling more hobbying time!!

  • @ziezero
    @ziezero 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    “Graphic novels, manga, illustrated stuff are still books”
    YES! Finally someone said it. Ive been looking for this kind of validation for years bc altho i have so basically can read books/novels that are just pure words, i find tings with illustrations to be more enjoyable bc i like appreciating artstyles and love seeing pictures, art, drawing, etc other than knowing the story and ESPECIALLY when reading stories.

  • @evee1105
    @evee1105 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Idc what anyone says about reading sitting down and being about to drown out the world and jump into a different one is so amazing. My favorite books are outsiders, fahrenheit 451, lord of the flies, pax, hatchet, amulet, Rikki tikki tavi and a couple of others I haven't read in a while. I know most of these you probably would have come across in and during school but they have been some of my favorites for a long time

  • @Jgarf
    @Jgarf 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’ve had many of the same issues with keeping hobbies with my classes and course load. In 2023 I started knitting again after not touching it for many years and have been knitting in little increments before my classes started, when I have times where I don’t have enough time to set up and work but I have enough time to need something to do. I’m almost done with my scarf now and very happy with it. It’s definitely something I’m going to try and keep up with in the future

  • @faerield
    @faerield 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    hobbies i’m looking to bring back? where do i start.. basically everything creative, from drawing to painting to making clay stuff !! studying engineering made me have no time left for those things and i miss it so much! also playing the piano, reading more, watching more movies.. the list goes on