I think that OP did the right thing tell his father that he was just as responsible. OP is a great person in building his life in a positive way. Good luck OP for your future
I don't understand why people give up after knocking on a door and get refused. It's your dads house. Grab a rock, take out a window and go back in. When the cops show up your bound to have something with your name and address on it' No cop in his right mind will throw out a 15 year old just for entering HIS DADS HOUSE!!!
Yeah Ruth got exposed at the very end. But that's 12 years worth of damage done. 12 years of the family being misled about OP's character. If OP's dad listened just a little bit or tried to find out what was going on then a lot of pain could've been stopped. Seriously his 15 year old minor son gets kicked out and he just moved on having three more kids. Sounds like Ruth still won in the end.
Why didn't you ask your father WTH was going on..and why didn't you know you had half siblings?? Call family..do not trust somebody who has ALREADY SHOWN YOU WHO SHE IS!!
OP's Dad should divorce Ruth, keep the kids. Don't leave them with Ruth, or: (1) they will turn out like her, (2) she will use them to get anything she can, then kick them out when she no longer has use for them!
Ruth did not get everything she deserved. Trying to paint grandma as senile and forgetful and saying Juan slammed the door in her face, She lied in a bid to get money from him. making her husband out to be a poor provider, when that clearly was not the case. Ruth will always be the way she is and Juan is better off keeping her away. I hope his girlfriend from work can understand the crazy adolescence he had and be good to him.
Ruth is a terrible person, after what she did to op, she expects op to give her money? Then the so call father, 12 years and he didn't try to reconcile with op? Father is permanently cut off, no coming back from that.
OP you are a good person. Ruth I should say ruthless is a Golddigger She wants everybody to get everything to her like the world revolves around her and it doesn’t s Yeah, take a little bit of time and you’ll figure it out knowledge is power. Can you go out there and figure out what you know what you can figure out on your own and make it big and come back and throw it in her face one day a door is going to open in this world and you’re gonna be fine world and find your way making it
This happens in majority of the time in remmariages with single fathers than the single mothers. Single father's widowed should be careful with the kind of person they plan to remarry. Remember, this is not your life but your child's too. You may have lost your partner, but your child has lost the most important person in their life. No other person can equalize a mother's role in upbringing of child. It is a very rare even to see stepmother's whole heartedly stepping up to love and care for their stepchildren.
To all of those out there that lost their mother before they were a teenager....YOU ARE NOT ALONE I ALSO LOST MY MOM AT 12 it's been 18 years and it still freaking hurts. The pain may lessen over time but it will and can come and hit you like a bullet sadly that pain never goes so to all of you out there I LOVE YOU 💖💖💖💖
Op father should be ashamed of himself because he was blinded by love he was blinded by his new wife. Op father brought his new wife into his new house but his wife treated his son unfairly. This is what happens when rich men were blinded by money instead of helping their own child and this is what happens if you bought a new wife who treats your child unfairly but then you don't care about your child. 😠😠😠😠😠😠😠😠😠
If Ruth wants high price items then she needs to get a job and leave the op, the child she threw out of his father's home alone. Ruth needs to loose her own children anyway because your both legally and morally responsible for any and all children in the household until they become an adult. Ruth just makes me want to 🤬🤬🤬
S1: Almost ESH, OP and his Grandparents do not. What kind of family (including extended) does not know what type of behavior other family members have. So one word from a step mother and poof OP is branded as an monster.
I wouldn't give her a penny, she was a witch to you and tossed your belongings out while you weren't home ( cowardly) I guess no one kept in touch as when she said 3 kids you were surprised. She is owed and deserves NOTHING. and lots of it
He didn't have a step mom issue it's a dad problem. Blind, hopeless, worthless, DAD. All PARENTS who ALLOW there kids to be bullied by their spouse are criminals in my book.
I love your grandma, I hope she stays around for a long time. You need her I hope your dad divorce your stepother. I would be fearful of growing old with a wife like her.
Thank you for the new story Mr. Reddito! You and everyone else involved in making these videos keep up the great work! I hope everyone is having a great day/afternoon/night! Peace ☮️, hugs 🤗 and love 😘!
That Ruth deserves a lot more for her DIABOLICAL BEHAVIOUR towards OP. OP’s father should have divorced Ruth and thrown her out of his house plus cut all ties with her, (That would be poetic justice).
With the exception of OP's grandparents, the whole extended family appears to be an absolute waste of humanity, since it sounded like none of them ever reached out to OP (other than to let him know about the party), and probably didn't stand up for him. OP's father is an entirely new level of disgusting.
She deserves more, but at least she has been outed as a liar and money hungry. OP's father now needs to accept he traded his son for her, and he doesn't deserve OP's forgiveness. The least he can do is divorce Ruth.
she couldn't get money from you free and clear so she resorted to name calling and verbally abusing you. I would tell her I didn't even know her 3 children and owed her and them nothing and the offer to loan them money was being recinded.
i think now that she's been exposed I think if o.p can a good lawsuit for slander and damage of character is in good order and his father definitely shouldn't be allowed back into his life so easily. He'll have to earn it if o.p decides to give him a chance at all.
I have a question. If Grandma & Grandpa were only able to afford a one-bedroom apartment and had no money to help with OP's college, then how did they suddenly have a house to mortgage?
You have never been deprived of love, your grandparents!!! It might not be from the exact people you expect it from, but they gave you everything they could!!! Grrrrrr!!! There are people out there with literally no one, and they would kill for that. Your mother is always watching from above, always. You could always try to reach your dad as a adult now. Idk why this just made me so mad! Not all the way thru the story, but geez! Count your blessings, please.
Maybe OP would be luckier in love if he tried shopping on the opposite side of the aisle. You don't know you like Marinara better than Alfredo until you've tried both.
Ruth got what’s coming to her and I’m glad I just wish his father would’ve open the size and seen the true her. I hopeful Pete finds the right girl in marriage before his grandmother passes away. I lose happily ever after with a family.,
Would OP lend that kind of money to a stranger as that's exactly what he is doing, yes the kids might be a blood relation but apart from that he is a total stranger. Ruth wanted OP out of her and his dad's life and only contacted OP to see how much she can get out of him. Show her the door and tell her you hope it don't hit her on the way out.
So because op did well for himself and he is single he is morally responsible for his step mother and sperm donors kids? Really? Then being as she and the dad did the deed to bring them into this world, the mother is the one who should get off her dead ass and find gainful employment to support them, instead of asking the child she mistreated for money.
What country are they in? In the U.S. we have free education until grade 12 in the public schools, although private K-12 schools are expensive. The siblings aren't old enough for college yet. Tuition is free for California residents in the University of California institutions.
Going to give out a loan for collage funds by having papers drawn up by a lawyers to have her signed it. Grandma won’t have it with the witch. She had focus the drama off her grandson to the real person behind it all.
He didn't even know they existed until recently. They are total strangers to each other and hardly "family".OP just needs to get on with his own life and leave the wanna be leeches behind. They abandon him when he was 15. Now it's his turn to abandon them. Good luck with the new and expanding family dad.
Where is your father in all this? Are the kids your step siblings. Moral responsibility. Where was hers when she tossed a teenager? Dont let her blow smoke up your butt. She is perhaps the most selfish person you will meet. Now Ruth is spreading BS now. Does she think that will get her his money?
Somehow this story is unbelievable BC police should have been called putting a minor child out of his own home with snow on the ground. Nobody called the police, the neighbor called grandparents but not police 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏽 child neglect and endangerment if I ever saw it. They would have taken her and let him go with grandparents until Dad returned💯❗‼️ DNA FOR OTHER THREE PLEASE 👌🏽
Why would you even let the woman in your house? She was never a part of your family? I don't get it, what made you open the door? Then you let her in!!! Gtfu.
I was hoping grandma on the house at the father was living in and decided that he she should move out and get his own place because she was selling it because she needed the money to give to o p
It's amazing how his dear old dad did not see Ruth as the mean gold digging person who lied to persuade him of her side of the story. She mistreated and used You as an unpaid slave. You do not owe Your dad or Ruth any money or act of kindness. She never showed you one act of kindness so You owe her or her children Nothing.....Karma will catch up with her in the end ..She wanted everything for Herself and her children. Go No contact on the whole family. The Best revenge is living your Life well...She does not Deserve any money. You have no connection to her of offspring...She is probably using this to Get money and Use it for Her selfish needs. Make Her Sign the paper in her Own Blood...Do Not be a Doormat to them ..
No, she should be in jail for throwing out a minor and attempted fraud!
Exactly! And at the very end OP's dad didn't even divorce her.
Ruth should get a job. These are not OPs kids. They are hers to support along with her husband.
Grandma is a badass! She came to Juan’s defense and put Ruth in her place.
I think that OP did the right thing tell his father that he was just as responsible. OP is a great person in building his life in a positive way. Good luck OP for your future
I don't understand why people give up after knocking on a door and get refused. It's your dads house. Grab a rock, take out a window and go back in. When the cops show up your bound to have something with your name and address on it' No cop in his right mind will throw out a 15 year old just for entering HIS DADS HOUSE!!!
Yeah Ruth got exposed at the very end. But that's 12 years worth of damage done. 12 years of the family being misled about OP's character. If OP's dad listened just a little bit or tried to find out what was going on then a lot of pain could've been stopped. Seriously his 15 year old minor son gets kicked out and he just moved on having three more kids. Sounds like Ruth still won in the end.
Why didn't you ask your father WTH was going on..and why didn't you know you had half siblings?? Call family..do not trust somebody who has ALREADY SHOWN YOU WHO SHE IS!!
The only thing I'm going to say, I hope that Op keeps his grandmother's love, support and care. As long as she lives in this world.
Ruth needs to be given a taste of her own schooling
OP's Dad should divorce Ruth, keep the kids. Don't leave them with Ruth, or: (1) they will turn out like her, (2) she will use them to get anything she can, then kick them out when she no longer has use for them!
Ruth did not get everything she deserved. Trying to paint grandma as senile and forgetful and saying Juan slammed the door in her face, She lied in a bid to get money from him. making her husband out to be a poor provider, when that clearly was not the case. Ruth will always be the way she is and Juan is better off keeping her away. I hope his girlfriend from work can understand the crazy adolescence he had and be good to him.
Ruth is a terrible person, after what she did to op, she expects op to give her money? Then the so call father, 12 years and he didn't try to reconcile with op? Father is permanently cut off, no coming back from that.
Thank you very much, Mr. Reddito
OP you are a good person. Ruth I should say ruthless is a Golddigger She wants everybody to get everything to her like the world revolves around her and it doesn’t s
Yeah, take a little bit of time and you’ll figure it out knowledge is power. Can you go out there and figure out what you know what you can figure out on your own and make it big and come back and throw it in her face one day a door is going to open in this world and you’re gonna be fine world and find your way making it
This happens in majority of the time in remmariages with single fathers than the single mothers. Single father's widowed should be careful with the kind of person they plan to remarry. Remember, this is not your life but your child's too. You may have lost your partner, but your child has lost the most important person in their life. No other person can equalize a mother's role in upbringing of child. It is a very rare even to see stepmother's whole heartedly stepping up to love and care for their stepchildren.
12 years, and the father had not bothered to ever check up on his son.. Tell "Daddy Dearest" to take a flying *&$% at a rolling donut.
No Ruth did not get all she deserved! She is a hateful person.
Yeah. She deserved more karma.
Don't piss off old ladies, they can be extra savage. Go grandma!!!
To all of those out there that lost their mother before they were a teenager....YOU ARE NOT ALONE I ALSO LOST MY MOM AT 12 it's been 18 years and it still freaking hurts. The pain may lessen over time but it will and can come and hit you like a bullet sadly that pain never goes so to all of you out there I LOVE YOU 💖💖💖💖
Op father should be ashamed of himself because he was blinded by love he was blinded by his new wife. Op father brought his new wife into his new house but his wife treated his son unfairly. This is what happens when rich men were blinded by money instead of helping their own child and this is what happens if you bought a new wife who treats your child unfairly but then you don't care about your child. 😠😠😠😠😠😠😠😠😠
If Ruth wants high price items then she needs to get a job and leave the op, the child she threw out of his father's home alone. Ruth needs to loose her own children anyway because your both legally and morally responsible for any and all children in the household until they become an adult. Ruth just makes me want to 🤬🤬🤬
S1: Almost ESH, OP and his Grandparents do not.
What kind of family (including extended) does not know what type of behavior other family members have.
So one word from a step mother and poof OP is branded as an monster.
What country this in cause you can't kick a 15 year old child out....
I wouldn't give her a penny, she was a witch to you and tossed your belongings out while you weren't home ( cowardly) I guess no one kept in touch as when she said 3 kids you were surprised. She is owed and deserves NOTHING. and lots of it
I hope OP never forgives his father.
A grandma love is the best love.
He didn't have a step mom issue it's a dad problem. Blind, hopeless, worthless, DAD. All PARENTS who ALLOW there kids to be bullied by their spouse are criminals in my book.
I love your grandma, I hope she stays around for a long time. You need her
I hope your dad divorce your stepother. I would be fearful of growing old with a wife like her.
I would tell her flat out NO she would probly just spend it and make some lame excuse.
OP should have called the police and CPS on Dad and step mom.
Why has she been following you, keeping up with your finances. Kick that woman to the curb. If you still have ?'s do some investigating.
If you ever decide to pay for something for anyone, pay the company, school, or whatever directly.
Sad when parents or family members wake up too late
Thank you for the new story Mr. Reddito! You and everyone else involved in making these videos keep up the great work! I hope everyone is having a great day/afternoon/night! Peace ☮️, hugs 🤗 and love 😘!
Tell your father that he will known to everyone as the guy who ditched his own for his mistress 😂😂😂
When she knocked on your door you should never allowed her into your house.
Should apologize for his behavior.
That Ruth deserves a lot more for her DIABOLICAL BEHAVIOUR towards OP.
OP’s father should have divorced Ruth and thrown her out of his house plus cut all ties with her, (That would be poetic justice).
No ruth didnt get what she deserved. Op should have kicked her out as soon as she showed up the first time
Make sure that whoever you get involved with is not an acquaintance of ruth
With the exception of OP's grandparents, the whole extended family appears to be an absolute waste of humanity, since it sounded like none of them ever reached out to OP (other than to let him know about the party), and probably didn't stand up for him.
OP's father is an entirely new level of disgusting.
She deserves more, but at least she has been outed as a liar and money hungry. OP's father now needs to accept he traded his son for her, and he doesn't deserve OP's forgiveness. The least he can do is divorce Ruth.
Love your grandma.
she couldn't get money from you free and clear so she resorted to name calling and verbally abusing you. I would tell her I didn't even know her 3 children and owed her and them nothing and the offer to loan them money was being recinded.
i think now that she's been exposed I think if o.p can a good lawsuit for slander and damage of character is in good order and his father definitely shouldn't be allowed back into his life so easily. He'll have to earn it if o.p decides to give him a chance at all.
I have a question. If Grandma & Grandpa were only able to afford a one-bedroom apartment and had no money to help with OP's college, then how did they suddenly have a house to mortgage?
It could own a condo…then they could mortgage it
You have never been deprived of love, your grandparents!!! It might not be from the exact people you expect it from, but they gave you everything they could!!! Grrrrrr!!! There are people out there with literally no one, and they would kill for that. Your mother is always watching from above, always. You could always try to reach your dad as a adult now. Idk why this just made me so mad! Not all the way thru the story, but geez! Count your blessings, please.
It’s hard raising 3 kids on one income - OP should have said: get a job then!
Maybe OP would be luckier in love if he tried shopping on the opposite side of the aisle. You don't know you like Marinara better than Alfredo until you've tried both.
I’d tell her “Not my kids. Not my problem. My father is a gullible pushover, I am not, and if you come back I’ll slam the door in your lying face.”
The family did the right thing
I would have made her prove she really has 3 kids. And put aside money in bank accounts in their names
Do don't listen to her, listen to her and give her what she wants
Love your animation ❤
Teach her what she deserves
Don not give anything to that woman!
Op's father should've divorced her evil behind
Don’t give her a cent!
Yeah call and talk to your dad. Why would you believe anything that woman said? They're not your family!!!
Ruth got what’s coming to her and I’m glad I just wish his father would’ve open the size and seen the true her. I hopeful Pete finds the right girl in marriage before his grandmother passes away. I lose happily ever after with a family.,
Vacant land on their feet like you did
They can reach out to her grandparents for help 😁
SHe should have went to jail
Would OP lend that kind of money to a stranger as that's exactly what he is doing, yes the kids might be a blood relation but apart from that he is a total stranger. Ruth wanted OP out of her and his dad's life and only contacted OP to see how much she can get out of him. Show her the door and tell her you hope it don't hit her on the way out.
So because op did well for himself and he is single he is morally responsible for his step mother and sperm donors kids? Really?
Then being as she and the dad did the deed to bring them into this world, the mother is the one who should get off her dead ass and find gainful employment to support them, instead of asking the child she mistreated for money.
I'll would do checking up than listening to lie.
What country are they in? In the U.S. we have free education until grade 12 in the public schools, although private K-12 schools are expensive. The siblings aren't old enough for college yet. Tuition is free for California residents in the University of California institutions.
Going to give out a loan for collage funds by having papers drawn up by a lawyers to have her signed it. Grandma won’t have it with the witch. She had focus the drama off her grandson to the real person behind it all.
13:06, So she wants to Claim she ABANDONED YOU for your Benefit? I really want to know How she came to that Understanding?
Sounds like Dad was the real problem!!!
MR, it’s Juan not Wan in spelling. 😉🤣
It's pronounced :wan" in Spanish. I assumed this family is Spanish speaking. Do you know something the rest of us don't?
@@user-hr5pc3rt2n yes it is pronounced Wan but it’s still spelled Juan.
Hell no she needs to work
OP's Grandma = IRL!LADY OLENNA TYRELL / QUEEN OF THORNS
Ruth got a dose of karma
I think that MIL should do just as you did ,Work ,save, and get loans. And live happily in her own world. Succubus' do not change.
OP's dad should have divorced her as well.
His grandparents had a one bedroom apartment but then the grandpa took a mortgage out on his house for him? Which is it?
Take care of your grandparents not Ruth!
Confused about what? Justkick her out of your life.
Why didn’t op talk about finances with his dad?
I hope Juan does maintain good relations with his half-siblings. They are family.
He didn't even know they existed until recently. They are total strangers to each other and hardly "family".OP just needs to get on with his own life and leave the wanna be leeches behind. They abandon him when he was 15. Now it's his turn to abandon them. Good luck with the new and expanding family dad.
Older OP looks like Chris Tergliafera.
Hell no she didn't pay enough to me 🤔☹️😤
Where is your father in all this? Are the kids your step siblings. Moral responsibility. Where was hers when she tossed a teenager? Dont let her blow smoke up your butt. She is perhaps the most selfish person you will meet. Now Ruth is spreading BS now. Does she think that will get her his money?
Op needs to grow a spine, he's a coward
Somehow this story is unbelievable BC police should have been called putting a minor child out of his own home with snow on the ground. Nobody called the police, the neighbor called grandparents but not police 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏽 child neglect and endangerment if I ever saw it. They would have taken her and let him go with grandparents until Dad returned💯❗‼️ DNA FOR OTHER THREE PLEASE 👌🏽
Why would you even let the woman in your house? She was never a part of your family? I don't get it, what made you open the door? Then you let her in!!! Gtfu.
Don't any of these people have a spine?
329👍's up MR RA thank you for sharing 😊
I was hoping grandma on the house at the father was living in and decided that he she should move out and get his own place because she was selling it because she needed the money to give to o p
If I was OP I’d tell my father to get a DNA test done on all of their kids because if she can lie about OP what else could she possibly lie about?
How did grand parents mortgage house when they rented a one bed room apartment
You are not responsible in any way for Ruth’s children. That is a her problem.
Ty
OP/Grandma 👍 👍 Dad/Ruth🤡🤡
It's amazing how his dear old dad did not see Ruth as the mean gold digging person who lied to persuade him of her side of the story. She mistreated and used You as an unpaid slave. You do not owe Your dad or Ruth any money or act of kindness. She never showed you one act of kindness so You owe her or her children Nothing.....Karma will catch up with her in the end ..She wanted everything for Herself and her children. Go No contact on the whole family. The Best revenge is living your Life well...She does not Deserve any money. You have no connection to her of offspring...She is probably using this to Get money and Use it for Her selfish needs. Make Her Sign the paper in her Own Blood...Do Not be a Doormat to them ..
Helluva story, Ruth is a very toxic piece of work….oh, op did you marry???
OP is Weak and Pathetic and because he dint kick her out immediately he deserved how he end up feeling.
Let the door hit her were the sun doesn't shine
Ruth was a bad egg.
OP is the Absolute Idiot for allowing the Evil Stepmom in at all.