In all honesty I think the world is full of people like dwayne and there's many such people on TH-cam. They are interested in a wide variety of subject's far removed from cigars and the likes but the theme is always the same. Find your bliss and share it with others. The variety here is a prime example from cooking to wrangling to cigars. Just a genuine appreciation for life and all its nuances. Real soul food!
Yeah well there's only a few of us left and what's left has got a woman or ain't getting one ever so plenty to talk about either way there's hours of conversation
I remember my first cigar. My Sgt came up to me while deployed. I was missing home. Troubled by the combat I'd encountered. The brothers I'd lost. He came up to where I was sitting and tossed me a cigar. (A Romeo and Julieta) and his punch and matches. He was KIA three days later. EVERYTIME I light up a cigar, I think of that cigar. When people ask why I love cigars as much as I do, I say "Gone but never forgotten" RLTW!!
Trip out, same type of cigar sonny gave our guy here! Maybe I should put down the American spirits and try cigar instead 🤔 If I do, my 1st shall be a Romeo Y Julieta
73 yrs old and I smoked cigarettes early in life but haven’t touched one in 25 yrs. Had an occasional grocery store cigar after that but again haven’t had one of those in years. Today, thanks to you, I went to the Cigar Lodge in McKinney, Texas. Never been to a place like this but I walked in and was immediately greeted by 7 of the regulars. I told them I was new to this lifestyle but I wanted to join the “Brotherhood of the Leaf”. About half of them knew what I was talking about but soon they all knew what this brotherhood is about. Mike running the store showed me everything he had. He made some suggestions and then I pulled out a piece of paper with two cigars you had talked about on your channel. I settled on a Charter Oak Connecticut Shade. Bought a cutter and torch and I’m never turning back. Sat down and got to know everyone there. Thank you for introducing me to the “Brotherhood of the Leaf. If you and Momma ever come this way ya’ll have a place to stay.
I’m a huge cigar smoker and lover , was born in France then moved in that magnificent country 15 years and it’s because guys like you and stories like that one that every single day I wake up and realize that I’m more in love with USA than the day before. My friends call me the French cowboy and now be American citizen is the proudest thing that ever happened to me . Thanks man for your amazing videos 🇺🇸🤟🇺🇸🤟
As a fellow member of the Brotherhood Of The Leaf, I would have to say this is the best description of this unspoken bond. “Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up.” Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 NIV
@@TheFreelanceCowboy Amen KJB is the Word of God, NIV is unquestionably satanic, but I would never judge anyone for reading one, these are simply things God has revealed to me.
The cigar bar/lounge, and/or sharing a smoke together really is the last bastion of a true neutral social congregation, in America. A lounge just opened right down the street from my house and its changed my life. Its helped me start turning things around and being a better man. If you're in your mid 20s or older and you feel lost, find a cigar lounge and just go. There's not one negative thing about it.
@@spencerh2860society is cancer, coke zero is cancer, going for a jog in a city is cancer, having a cell phone is cancer, life is short and you could die at any moment. Statistics show that a cigar a day is a negligible risk, still a risk but not a severe one, while alcohol is classified as a toxin and kills more people than cigars. I've just gotten into cigars, maybe smoked about 10 so far, and the relaxation I've had and the deep conversation I've had while smoking cigars is worth a negligible cancer risk. I've seen fights everywhere except for a cigar lounge, go check one out for yourself, even just to look. It's nothing but adults sitting back, getting off their cell phones and appreciating that small pocket in time.
This is so true. We had a gunsmith in out community. He was a cover story in gunsmith international or some magazine with a similar name. He was always such a serious looking man. He always seemed isolated and a hermit, one of those guys who hated life and people. I was in the need for a gift for my son, and a friend suggested this guy. He lived on his farm about 15 miles from town. I drove out and knocked on his door. He comes to the door and seemed a little irritated. Told him what I needed and he told me he would come over to the shop in a minute. I has woke him from his nap. He come over and sold me the hand gun I wanted, then offered me a cigar. We sat in his lounge at the shop, had a smoke, and some of the best conversation I have ever had. He went in his gun vualt and brought me out a cigar to take with me, and I left with more respect for the man than I thought was possible. I still have remorse wishing I would of gotten to know him sooner. It wasn't but a year or so after he passed away. But I will never forget that first smoke.
I have privately collected and smoked Cigars, Never occurred to me to see it as a social construct, a modern day peace-pipe, But Brotherhood of the leaf must be a thing.
I found this channel by accident and I know little to nothing about wrangling or even horses in general, but something about Dwayne's stories and how he speaks is very interesting and even relaxing. I really appreciate his values and the simple lessons in life that he's trying to teach the younger people like myself. I'm only 19 and tbh I haven't had a whole lotta life experience, but these videos really speak to me. Hope he decides to do more.
One night, as an MC prospect, I was working behind the bar and it got quiet. I was tired and bored, so I spontaneously smoked a gas-station cigar that I found in a drawer. I got it. Romeo i Julietta #3 is now my go-to. Best cigar I ever had was a bandless handmade bought off a guy who was rolling them on a street-side in Munich. Perfumed and mild!!
Duane, I recently lost an old cowboy friend from west Texas and you remind me so much of him. He smoked H. Upman's and we would drink whiskey out of old jelly jars. Time seems to get away from us and I enjoy hearing your stories (and reminders) that we all need to slow down and pay more attention to the important things. I am sure glad I found your channel and look forward to the next video. And I see others feel the same with your subscribers over 55k. 👍👍
I'm a former Firefighter and I've found a similar brotherhood in a few areas.Bourbon, Guns, Boots, and Car Collecting. It seems to erase the BS of differences and y'all can just be human beings to each other. The Fire Dept was the same way. Guys from all different backgrounds learning to live and work together above what the outside world wanted to make you believe about that type of person. Thanks for the story, it brought back some great memories I've had over the years.
I am born and grew up here in Singapore, fast-paced, bustling Asian city and I needed to relax. Stumbled upon your page. I used to smoke cigarettes for years and discovered cigars only about 5-6 years back. I have been to different parts of europe and asia but never been to the US. I've always wanted to. I grew up watching cowboy movies with my dad and maybe that is one of the reasons why I was attracted to hear what you have to say about the cigar. I love the messages you bring across, may you always be in good health and success in all your endeavors. BOTL!
never was close with my grandpa before he passed, and didnt grow up with a father. Life lessons like these is what more young men like me need to hear in this fast world.
😃👍Danke für das Video. Ich bin von Deutschland nach Dänemark gereist. Abends rauchte ich eine zigarre und fühlte mich gleich zuhause. Brotherhood of the leaf.
"We don't care" is right. We are all brothers and sisters in Christ. Brothers of the leaf, I would be proud to have that on a t shirt. Thank you and the Mrs n keep doing what you're doing.
True that brother, we are all united in the leaf in Christ's name! Sew that into a tapestry because that's the truth of it all, signed sealed delivered. Cigar lounge.
Pretty much - you can utilize anything to help you decompress and connect with the world. It just so happen people prefer and enjoy their tobacco (cigar/pipe even hookah) to help calm and give reflection and most definitely engage with others whereas something else probably would not have.
Tonight I’m having the rare occasion of getting to relax by a campfire and have a cigar alone. I knew exactly where to come for a good story and some perspective. Love your videos, Duane.
the comedian really screwed you guys up. Could've been safe and sound and the country in ship shape if he hadn't followed his Western masters like a sheep..
Appreciate you so much am on my day off working my butt off cleaning decluttering and getting ready for holidays took a break and listened to you Thank you again, you are sensible and wise and calm and supportive of us all being kind to each other.
This is one of the things that my wife and I love the most about the cigar community. Hi class, low class, no class. White collar, blue collar, no collar. Black, white, Spanish. American, Canadian, Mexican. Catholic, Baptist, Jewish. Doctor, commercial pilot, auto mechanic… When you sit down at the lounge there is nothing but people who love cigars. They love to smoke them, they love to talk about them, they love to share them and as long as you feel the same then there are never any questions, just acceptance and camaraderie! Society could learn a lot from the cigar lounge, hell many churches could learn a lot from the cigar lounge as unfortunate as that may be.
Viewing this in June 2023, Puerto Rican American, Born in Brooklyn, NY, raised in Puerto Rico and then Bronx NY. Been serving in U.S. Navy for 24 years. I love you and don't even know you. I agree with everything you said and your story said it all. You never know who you are talking to, so treat everyone with kindness and hand them a cigar. We are all in this together. God bless you and please continue making videos. Your perspective is refreshing and has a way to calm the soul.
I don’t smoke at all, but I like the smell of cigars and I could just sit there and listen to just about any story you tell, Mr. Dwayne. Please, keep these going. Not only is it so peaceful to hear you talk during these convoluted times, you also have plenty of wise things to say that some of us young guys (and not so young, as my case) could learn. Cheers from Spain!
As a new member of “The Brotherhood of The Leaf” I really enjoyed your video Duane! Thank you for sharing your thoughts, they resonate with many of us!!
Hey man, you're right about our country being torn apart, and I appreciate your message here. I started watching your channel because my wife wants to ride horses for our honeymoon and, to be honest, I am a little afraid of horses. I figured I'd watch you and learn about the animals and people who love them. I've learned a lot and feel pretty good about the coming experience now, so thanks. I also have made a personal pledge to reach out to my fellow Americans, because we all are a tribe here in America, a bickering tribe, but a tribe nonetheless, and try to express my humble love for all of the people I live here with. Regardless of their political leanings. I will love them all as best I can. A brotherhood indeed.
I feel this same brotherhood feeling you just described when I am skating at the skatepark. we skaters talk to each other all the time, doesnt matter if its a stranger, a newcomer or if its a skater with a higher skill level. we are all equals.
Yep it can be anything that helps connect or just resonate with another person. Yep find that something that helps decompress and also that something so happens to assist in being in union with another human.
Loving this content brother. One of the very best parts of cigars is how they're "the great equalizer", they bring people together and inspire deep thought. There's no better time to make new friends and no better time to instill strength in old friendships than while smoking cigars.
Glad to have found you here, Matt. Dwayne is the single person who got me into cigars (properly), and it was by accident. His most popular video is what I stumbled across, and then I went down the rabbit hole. “Why I smoke cigars” is what did it. And before long, I found your channel. When you connect these channels together…that’s the resource that changes the lives of people who already have a lot of life together…but still need a nudge. It’s been a great journey.
Amen brother !!! And this Amen is coming from a northern New Englander ! Cigars are TRULY the best to help us slow down and enjoy each others company. Brothers of the Leaf !!! 👏👍✌🏼
Some of the best experiences of my life revolved around smoking cigars with lifelong friends and new acquaintances. I started smoking cigars at 18 years old and turned many of my friends onto them. Now I get to enjoy them with my son, who’s 22, and his friends. You’ve hit it right on the head, it’s a brotherhood.
Romeo Julieta is a good cigar. I also like CAO brand. Padilla makes some nice ones too. Thanks for the videos. I am glad I found you. I too wear a cowboy hat and boots. They are just plain comfy and kinda my trademark. I been wearing them for years now. I also play guitar and have made a little money playing n the stage. Now, I play simply to enjoy it often with fellow players. OLD county music mostly. I also know a couple bluegrass players who join us at times. I am in upstate NY but, if I had my druthers, I would be in Texas. Being almost 67 now, that prolly won't ever happen. Thanks for sharing your wisdom!
this hit me ina spot i never knew i had. my first duty station in the military i got deep into cigar collecting and it allowed me to create even better bonds with the guys i served with. makes me miss those close friends on a deeper level than i ever thought. its something so simple but it allows you to just "smoke and joke" as we say in the military, but it becomes a very melancholy, but happy memory of times shared with people just being human beings in the moment
Just happened up on your videos, and I enjoy the way you eloquently explain things and the southern charm and this comes from a good old boy from North Carolina so thank you
Man, the grown ups table analogy hits like a truck. I mean it's so simple and profound at the same time. I wish I could come up with something that smart myself.
Over cigars we are all equals. Cigars break down barriers, set differences aside and make us more tempered. I truly believe all important matters should be settled over cigars.
you always tell a good story that even this old dog can relate to. I smoke cigars and was a Lawman for 22 years. thank you for great stories you share.
Dewayne if I ever get to hit the road and see more of this country one day it would a dream to have a smoke with you and a cup of coffee from the fire kettle.
This was the most wholesome video I‘ve seen in a long while. Its just one sincere down to earth person talking from the heart. We are missing exactly that nowadays. Keep doing what you’re doing. Thank you sir !
My dad was an engineer for the Santa Fe railroad. I was the youngest. We went on trips on the railroad because it was free. When I smell a cigar or pipe I remember the railroad stations. It brings back many memories.
Dwayne, this was great! What a wonderful recollection of the past. I could sit by a fire and listen to you tell your history with mama and the world for days. You are the best!
I've listened to most of your videos and just ran across this one. It reminded me of a time in my life when I ended up in northern Idaho, trying to shake off a bad marital breakup. After some time up there I was invited to an 'invitation only' gathering of men that met on Wednesday evenings. It was called 'The Roost' and was held on the upper floor of an old barn, an old hay loft that had been converted into a man cave, sporting a circle of couches, chairs, and a wood stove for heat when needed. I nervously walked up the narrow stairs to the loft and was met by around a dozen guys, all of whom were Jesus followers, sweet-smelling cigars, and good whiskey. Even though I was a pipe smoker, I was welcome. The Roost was to become the epitome of a real men's group where deep issues of life were discussed, cigars and pipes (at least one pipe) were smoked, and good whiskey was sipped. It was wonderful and I often wish there was one on the island where I live. By the way, the reason the group was invitation only and somewhat secretive was that a number of the attendees were on a church staff. People in their churches just wouldn't understand...
Another GREAT story/video. I started smoking cigars/pipe 25 years ago when I was 33. I have meet many, what are now, Brothers/Sisters of the Leaf, that I would never have met...became friends with many had it not been for that cigar. I have a friend that happens to be a Catholic Priest for many years. I have learned much, concerning cigars through him. He has always said that a cigar is the "equalizer". You can have a multi-millionaire in one chair...a sanitation driver in the adjoining chair enjoying a cigar together. And unless they knew each others financial status in society, they are equals. Yes, that fine leaf has brought many a folks together in harmony. Keep up the fine stories!👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
Great story and talk. I'm a farmer and smoke cigars too. People always think they know what's best for everyone else and don't even take care of their own self or their own business. I pay no mind to them. I love my Cigars, they relax me after a hard days work. My wife actually smokes them with me. She never thought she'd enjoy such a thing, but I told her to just do what she wants and she did. Now we enjoy them together on our deck while watching the sun set over Magazine Mountain. Men need to be men, and women need to be women, but I don't reckon a cigar cares who smokes it. I've got a few men around me that do what they want and sit down for a smoke with me. But then there are others who have to ask their wives first.....most of them miss out and never get to experience the brotherhood of the leaf!
I found this brotherhood during the pandemic during some long walks while I was unemployed. The community of BOTL/SOTL has been a part of my life since that first cigar. I’ve met some great people. Hope everyone has a good smoke today.
I like that line "brotherhood of the leaf" its so true. Just yesterday I was at a cigar lounge in Chicago and sat with two guys that offered me a neat of Jameson, I turned around and gave them each a cigar. We sat and talked for hours about European history.
I'm no cowboy, I ride a steel horse, but it's good to see real men still exist, we are getting few and far between, I am a combat vet and a member of the brotherhood of the leaf, you seem like the type of guy that I would enjoy sitting down and having a beer and a good stogie with. I enjoy your vids, thanks.
I live in a small county in Illinois known for deer hunting. I do the entertainment for the outfitter down the road form me for about 20 years now and i look forward to thses guys from Pennsylvania that come in to hunt, a great bunch of guys and i always look forward to sitting around the bon fire talking about the day's deer hunt and smoking a good cigar.
This dude hit it right on the money. Having this one commonality allows us to know a little bit about the guy across the table from you. I was in Greece on a trip a few tears back and bought a partagas at a little cigar shop in a small town. I was getting ready to light up and saw a group of guys sitting on the waterfront. When they saw my cigar they beckoned me over. It was just a random group of traveller's. Some on cruises, some locals, some from adjacent countries. We sat together in fellowship. Most spoke English. After an hour of cigars and adult beverages we were like any other group of cigar guys. Talked a little bit about cigars, sports, wives. The usual stuff.Like the guys this cowboy described. My home cigar club the Cigar Ambassadors has judges and it has janitors. It has senators, and it has street sweepers. But we all have one common thing together. And the fellowship we share has a value beyond measure. It's hard to describe but I'll wager every cigar guy or gal that reads this or watches the video above will be shaking their head in understanding before they finish this. Long Ashes my friends. Enjoy every second of it, the best hour of the day. When we share some time together and shake off the days problems. No matter any where you are. We all get it! Kevin
Love this. I'm not a smoker, but I love this. Even if I don't smoke, there is a remarkable thing about pipe and cigar smokers. They are thinkers and tend to be brothers. George Bruno introduced me to the concept. I just found this channel and I already love it. Thanks my friend. You're a real gentleman, and follow the gentleman's code.
Oh so true. There's just something about sitting down and enjoying a cigar together that can cross boundaries that could otherwise never be touched. ✌🏽
Duane ... love your philosophy on life. Love the 💕 horses and training, that’s what attracted me to your videos; but I came to look forward to the many subjects you speak too 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 thanks for the experience.
Greetings from Kharkiv, Ukraine 🇺🇦 Well, this story is beautiful. The stories actually. I had similar experience with wine 🍷 - sometimes, you can find people that share the same passion and right away you have something common to discuss. Although it’s something different and important around cigars. The whole experience is calming. I do agree that if it’s anything that ties us together, it should be cherished. Cigars are so good when viewed from this angle. Thank you mr. 🤠
I'd be honoured to sit down by the campfire and join this man for a cigar. Just talking about philosophy, the world, family, adversity-everything. He's like a mentor and a friend rolled into one. Thank you, Dewayne. Hope our paths cross one day 🙏🏽🔥💪🏽
This is a great video sir, I recently starting smoking cigars and the amount of fellowship it's brought is honestly amazing. It really brings people together and we need more of that.
Amen my brother. I was out fishing in my little boat. smoking my cigar. and went out deeper waters to see what they where catching. guys says. don’t know what your smoking. damn it smells good. Thank you. brother of the leaf.
Good afternoon sir! Brother of the leaf (and briar). I enjoyed this video. I was raised in South Central Tennessee and now live for past 43 years in West Tennessee. I began career in public safety same as you at age 26 and back in those days worked alone even before attending the academy. Things have surely changed. I have friends who smoke cigars and pipes and it truly is a brotherhood of the leaf. I'm very familiar with your area in Tennessee. Great video and keep 'em coming.
This is what it's all about! Servicemen who know their purpose in this CRAZY world we live in. We can all meet each other in the lounge, and converse as equals, and that's what it's all about.
This is the second time I've watched this video, and I got even more out of it this time. From one Brother of the Leaf to another, thanks for the content.
Congratulations on your success with the launching of the school, sounds like things are going well. Puts a smile on my face to see good things come to those who work hard to bring them to pass. Blessings in your future and keep the videos coming absolutely love your stories.
Best thing that worked for me was I was a bourbon and cigar guy in the Army. As a older E4 cpl I found the only other bourbon and cigar guy in my company. The commander. So after a rough day we would have a counseling session behind a building or our of view out in the field. Learned alot and laughed alot during those time.
I don’t know about you guys but I could listen to this guy for hours. Imagine if the world was filled with true men like this. It be great
In all honesty I think the world is full of people like dwayne and there's many such people on TH-cam. They are interested in a wide variety of subject's far removed from cigars and the likes but the theme is always the same. Find your bliss and share it with others. The variety here is a prime example from cooking to wrangling to cigars. Just a genuine appreciation for life and all its nuances. Real soul food!
But what about the Pakistani Gender studies? And the Soy milk?
Yeah well there's only a few of us left and what's left has got a woman or ain't getting one ever so plenty to talk about either way there's hours of conversation
True man...God, pls send one my way some day. Thx ya'll
@@TheProfessionalAmateur91 get that shit outta here lol forget those social concerns here
I remember my first cigar. My Sgt came up to me while deployed. I was missing home. Troubled by the combat I'd encountered. The brothers I'd lost. He came up to where I was sitting and tossed me a cigar. (A Romeo and Julieta) and his punch and matches. He was KIA three days later. EVERYTIME I light up a cigar, I think of that cigar. When people ask why I love cigars as much as I do, I say "Gone but never forgotten" RLTW!!
thank you for your story and for serving. i'm sorry you lost your friends. God bless
All the way brother!
If only we knew when we impacted others lives so much. Thank you.
Trip out, same type of cigar sonny gave our guy here! Maybe I should put down the American spirits and try cigar instead 🤔 If I do, my 1st shall be a Romeo Y Julieta
This comment is awesome and cringe af at the same time.
I can feel my chest hairs growing from listening to this man. Salute!
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THANKS FOR A GOOD LAUGH! i UNDERSTAND!
I'm a woman and gratefully I can't relate 😂😂😂
73 yrs old and I smoked cigarettes early in life but haven’t touched one in 25 yrs. Had an occasional grocery store cigar after that but again haven’t had one of those in years. Today, thanks to you, I went to the Cigar Lodge in McKinney, Texas. Never been to a place like this but I walked in and was immediately greeted by 7 of the regulars. I told them I was new to this lifestyle but I wanted to join the “Brotherhood of the Leaf”. About half of them knew what I was talking about but soon they all knew what this brotherhood is about. Mike running the store showed me everything he had. He made some suggestions and then I pulled out a piece of paper with two cigars you had talked about on your channel. I settled on a Charter Oak Connecticut Shade. Bought a cutter and torch and I’m never turning back. Sat down and got to know everyone there. Thank you for introducing me to the “Brotherhood of the Leaf. If you and Momma ever come this way ya’ll have a place to stay.
Welcome brother. I’ll see you there next time.
Welcome, sir.
Oliva Serie V Melanio Maduro is one of the finest cigars I've ever had, I'd highly reccomend it.
Great story, and I’m happy for you.
I'm glad u found something to enjoy
This man alone has helped me communicate with more pride and happiness to strangers and just be an all around good fella
Keep the Cigar stories coming. Duane your stories always hit the right place. I love the way of the brothers of the leaf.
God Bless.
I’m a huge cigar smoker and lover , was born in France then moved in that magnificent country 15 years and it’s because guys like you and stories like that one that every single day I wake up and realize that I’m more in love with USA than the day before. My friends call me the French cowboy and now be American citizen is the proudest thing that ever happened to me . Thanks man for your amazing videos 🇺🇸🤟🇺🇸🤟
From a French Cowboy to another, I’m glad to share this country with ya! I’ve got a cigar for you if you’re around Pennsylvania someday.
Welcome aboard brother
As a fellow member of the Brotherhood Of The Leaf, I would have to say this is the best description of this unspoken bond. “Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up.”
Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 NIV
Amen
Amen 🙏🏼
KJV is untouched and unchanged. It’s true 🙂
Amen
@@TheFreelanceCowboy Amen KJB is the Word of God, NIV is unquestionably satanic, but I would never judge anyone for reading one, these are simply things God has revealed to me.
This guy is cut from a different cloth. A real stand-up guy. Love listening to his stories.
This is the best cigar video ever made
I've been smoking cigars for 35 years and this guy is spot on.
The cigar bar/lounge, and/or sharing a smoke together really is the last bastion of a true neutral social congregation, in America.
A lounge just opened right down the street from my house and its changed my life.
Its helped me start turning things around and being a better man.
If you're in your mid 20s or older and you feel lost, find a cigar lounge and just go.
There's not one negative thing about it.
The cancer it can cause ?
@@spencerh2860society is cancer, coke zero is cancer, going for a jog in a city is cancer, having a cell phone is cancer, life is short and you could die at any moment. Statistics show that a cigar a day is a negligible risk, still a risk but not a severe one, while alcohol is classified as a toxin and kills more people than cigars. I've just gotten into cigars, maybe smoked about 10 so far, and the relaxation I've had and the deep conversation I've had while smoking cigars is worth a negligible cancer risk. I've seen fights everywhere except for a cigar lounge, go check one out for yourself, even just to look. It's nothing but adults sitting back, getting off their cell phones and appreciating that small pocket in time.
@@spencerh2860 Gas mask.
This is so true. We had a gunsmith in out community. He was a cover story in gunsmith international or some magazine with a similar name. He was always such a serious looking man. He always seemed isolated and a hermit, one of those guys who hated life and people. I was in the need for a gift for my son, and a friend suggested this guy. He lived on his farm about 15 miles from town. I drove out and knocked on his door. He comes to the door and seemed a little irritated. Told him what I needed and he told me he would come over to the shop in a minute. I has woke him from his nap. He come over and sold me the hand gun I wanted, then offered me a cigar. We sat in his lounge at the shop, had a smoke, and some of the best conversation I have ever had. He went in his gun vualt and brought me out a cigar to take with me, and I left with more respect for the man than I thought was possible. I still have remorse wishing I would of gotten to know him sooner. It wasn't but a year or so after he passed away. But I will never forget that first smoke.
I have privately collected and smoked Cigars, Never occurred to me to see it as a social construct, a modern day peace-pipe, But Brotherhood of the leaf must be a thing.
I found this channel by accident and I know little to nothing about wrangling or even horses in general, but something about Dwayne's stories and how he speaks is very interesting and even relaxing. I really appreciate his values and the simple lessons in life that he's trying to teach the younger people like myself. I'm only 19 and tbh I haven't had a whole lotta life experience, but these videos really speak to me. Hope he decides to do more.
64 years old here and i can tell you he speaks truth. Continue listening and enjoy. Pass it on.
One night, as an MC prospect, I was working behind the bar and it got quiet. I was tired and bored, so I spontaneously smoked a gas-station cigar that I found in a drawer. I got it. Romeo i Julietta #3 is now my go-to. Best cigar I ever had was a bandless handmade bought off a guy who was rolling them on a street-side in Munich. Perfumed and mild!!
Duane, I recently lost an old cowboy friend from west Texas and you remind me so much of him. He smoked H. Upman's and we would drink whiskey out of old jelly jars. Time seems to get away from us and I enjoy hearing your stories (and reminders) that we all need to slow down and pay more attention to the important things. I am sure glad I found your channel and look forward to the next video. And I see others feel the same with your subscribers over 55k. 👍👍
you have a gift to remember all these wonderful memories 🩶
I'm a former Firefighter and I've found a similar brotherhood in a few areas.Bourbon, Guns, Boots, and Car Collecting. It seems to erase the BS of differences and y'all can just be human beings to each other. The Fire Dept was the same way. Guys from all different backgrounds learning to live and work together above what the outside world wanted to make you believe about that type of person. Thanks for the story, it brought back some great memories I've had over the years.
Agree totally…retired Firefighter myself.
Brotherhood of the Leaf, love it!
Thank you from a Canadian Cigar smoker.
I am born and grew up here in Singapore, fast-paced, bustling Asian city and I needed to relax. Stumbled upon your page. I used to smoke cigarettes for years and discovered cigars only about 5-6 years back. I have been to different parts of europe and asia but never been to the US. I've always wanted to. I grew up watching cowboy movies with my dad and maybe that is one of the reasons why I was attracted to hear what you have to say about the cigar. I love the messages you bring across, may you always be in good health and success in all your endeavors. BOTL!
never was close with my grandpa before he passed, and didnt grow up with a father. Life lessons like these is what more young men like me need to hear in this fast world.
That place is so peaceful.
I have a similar first cigar experience. Thanks for sharing.
😃👍Danke für das Video.
Ich bin von Deutschland nach Dänemark gereist.
Abends rauchte ich eine zigarre und fühlte mich gleich zuhause.
Brotherhood of the leaf.
"We don't care" is right. We are all brothers and sisters in Christ. Brothers of the leaf, I would be proud to have that on a t shirt. Thank you and the Mrs n keep doing what you're doing.
True that brother, we are all united in the leaf in Christ's name! Sew that into a tapestry because that's the truth of it all, signed sealed delivered. Cigar lounge.
I am not a smoker but I do love you Philosophy in life. It definitely can be applied across everything you do.
Pretty much - you can utilize anything to help you decompress and connect with the world. It just so happen people prefer and enjoy their tobacco (cigar/pipe even hookah) to help calm and give reflection and most definitely engage with others whereas something else probably would not have.
Cigars... The "great equalizer". You never know who you may share a fine cigar with. Great story !!
Tonight I’m having the rare occasion of getting to relax by a campfire and have a cigar alone. I knew exactly where to come for a good story and some perspective. Love your videos, Duane.
Always a pleasure listening to this gentleman. Much love from jamaica 🇯🇲
Man, this video brought a tear to my eye. God bless you, sir. Greetings from Ukraine.
I hope you are doing well my man. Stay safe
the comedian really screwed you guys up. Could've been safe and sound and the country in ship shape if he hadn't followed his Western masters like a sheep..
As a Chinese who also likes cigars, it is a pleasure to watch this video，brother of the leaf.😊
"Not allowed at the grownups table." LOL Love it! Thank you Dwayne! 🤣
The spirit behind what you’re saying is what’s going to save us. Thank you for the message.
What a man there isn’t many left like him today, god bless you sir
Appreciate you so much am on my day off working my butt off cleaning decluttering and getting ready for holidays took a break and listened to you Thank you again, you are sensible and wise and calm and supportive of us all being kind to each other.
This is one of the things that my wife and I love the most about the cigar community. Hi class, low class, no class. White collar, blue collar, no collar. Black, white, Spanish. American, Canadian, Mexican. Catholic, Baptist, Jewish. Doctor, commercial pilot, auto mechanic… When you sit down at the lounge there is nothing but people who love cigars. They love to smoke them, they love to talk about them, they love to share them and as long as you feel the same then there are never any questions, just acceptance and camaraderie!
Society could learn a lot from the cigar lounge, hell many churches could learn a lot from the cigar lounge as unfortunate as that may be.
Viewing this in June 2023, Puerto Rican American, Born in Brooklyn, NY, raised in Puerto Rico and then Bronx NY. Been serving in U.S. Navy for 24 years. I love you and don't even know you. I agree with everything you said and your story said it all. You never know who you are talking to, so treat everyone with kindness and hand them a cigar. We are all in this together. God bless you and please continue making videos. Your perspective is refreshing and has a way to calm the soul.
Thanks Dewayne. As they say, "If I call you brother it is because you have earned my respect". You nailed it brother.
I don’t smoke at all, but I like the smell of cigars and I could just sit there and listen to just about any story you tell, Mr. Dwayne. Please, keep these going. Not only is it so peaceful to hear you talk during these convoluted times, you also have plenty of wise things to say that some of us young guys (and not so young, as my case) could learn. Cheers from Spain!
Cheers to the leaf... I've had similar experiences with nice folks and truly have enjoyed those spontaneous moments. Thanks for the talk.
As a new member of “The Brotherhood of The Leaf” I really enjoyed your video Duane! Thank you for sharing your thoughts, they resonate with many of us!!
Hey man, you're right about our country being torn apart, and I appreciate your message here.
I started watching your channel because my wife wants to ride horses for our honeymoon and, to be honest, I am a little afraid of horses. I figured I'd watch you and learn about the animals and people who love them.
I've learned a lot and feel pretty good about the coming experience now, so thanks.
I also have made a personal pledge to reach out to my fellow Americans, because we all are a tribe here in America, a bickering tribe, but a tribe nonetheless, and try to express my humble love for all of the people I live here with. Regardless of their political leanings.
I will love them all as best I can.
A brotherhood indeed.
thank you for being out there, I appreciate you, even though our lives have not really much in common
I feel this same brotherhood feeling you just described when I am skating at the skatepark. we skaters talk to each other all the time, doesnt matter if its a stranger, a newcomer or if its a skater with a higher skill level. we are all equals.
Yep it can be anything that helps connect or just resonate with another person. Yep find that something that helps decompress and also that something so happens to assist in being in union with another human.
Thank you for the stories Brother
Loving this content brother. One of the very best parts of cigars is how they're "the great equalizer", they bring people together and inspire deep thought. There's no better time to make new friends and no better time to instill strength in old friendships than while smoking cigars.
Glad to have found you here, Matt. Dwayne is the single person who got me into cigars (properly), and it was by accident. His most popular video is what I stumbled across, and then I went down the rabbit hole. “Why I smoke cigars” is what did it. And before long, I found your channel.
When you connect these channels together…that’s the resource that changes the lives of people who already have a lot of life together…but still need a nudge. It’s been a great journey.
Amen brother !!! And this Amen is coming from a northern New Englander ! Cigars are TRULY the best to help us slow down and enjoy each others company. Brothers of the Leaf !!! 👏👍✌🏼
Brother hood of the leaf and of the Briar is real for me. No truer word have crossed my ears in a long time.
I appreciate this channel. Thank you sir for the uploads and quality content.
Speaking of brotherhoods the Marine Corps birthday is on the 10th. Semper Fi brothers and sisters! God bless you all.
Awesome video Dwayne, thanks for sharing brother🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Some of the best experiences of my life revolved around smoking cigars with lifelong friends and new acquaintances. I started smoking cigars at 18 years old and turned many of my friends onto them. Now I get to enjoy them with my son, who’s 22, and his friends.
You’ve hit it right on the head, it’s a brotherhood.
Romeo Julieta is a good cigar. I also like CAO brand. Padilla makes some nice ones too. Thanks for the videos. I am glad I found you. I too wear a cowboy hat and boots. They are just plain comfy and kinda my trademark. I been wearing them for years now. I also play guitar and have made a little money playing n the stage. Now, I play simply to enjoy it often with fellow players. OLD county music mostly. I also know a couple bluegrass players who join us at times. I am in upstate NY but, if I had my druthers, I would be in Texas. Being almost 67 now, that prolly won't ever happen. Thanks for sharing your wisdom!
this hit me ina spot i never knew i had. my first duty station in the military i got deep into cigar collecting and it allowed me to create even better bonds with the guys i served with. makes me miss those close friends on a deeper level than i ever thought. its something so simple but it allows you to just "smoke and joke" as we say in the military, but it becomes a very melancholy, but happy memory of times shared with people just being human beings in the moment
Just happened up on your videos, and I enjoy the way you eloquently explain things and the southern charm and this comes from a good old boy from North Carolina so thank you
Man, the grown ups table analogy hits like a truck. I mean it's so simple and profound at the same time. I wish I could come up with something that smart myself.
Over cigars we are all equals. Cigars break down barriers, set differences aside and make us more tempered. I truly believe all important matters should be settled over cigars.
you always tell a good story that even this old dog can relate to. I smoke cigars and was a Lawman for 22 years. thank you for great stories you share.
Dewayne if I ever get to hit the road and see more of this country one day it would a dream to have a smoke with you and a cup of coffee from the fire kettle.
This was the most wholesome video I‘ve seen in a long while. Its just one sincere down to earth person talking from the heart. We are missing exactly that nowadays. Keep doing what you’re doing. Thank you sir !
My dad was an engineer for the Santa Fe railroad. I was the youngest. We went on trips on the railroad because it was free. When I smell a cigar or pipe I remember the railroad stations. It brings back many memories.
Dwayne, this was great! What a wonderful recollection of the past. I could sit by a fire and listen to you tell your history with mama and the world for days. You are the best!
Gotta Love being sent BIG cigars in the post to me in the UK from my chum in the USA :)
Amen, brother. Love your style.
I’ve found myself spending up to an hour every day this week listening to your stories and wisdom sir thank you
Sounds like an old time preacher to me, my dad was one. I am now 79 years old and I wish I still had him to listen to today.
really been awesome listening to you and helpful for the moment atleast so thanks.
I've listened to most of your videos and just ran across this one. It reminded me of a time in my life when I ended up in northern Idaho, trying to shake off a bad marital breakup. After some time up there I was invited to an 'invitation only' gathering of men that met on Wednesday evenings. It was called 'The Roost' and was held on the upper floor of an old barn, an old hay loft that had been converted into a man cave, sporting a circle of couches, chairs, and a wood stove for heat when needed. I nervously walked up the narrow stairs to the loft and was met by around a dozen guys, all of whom were Jesus followers, sweet-smelling cigars, and good whiskey. Even though I was a pipe smoker, I was welcome. The Roost was to become the epitome of a real men's group where deep issues of life were discussed, cigars and pipes (at least one pipe) were smoked, and good whiskey was sipped. It was wonderful and I often wish there was one on the island where I live. By the way, the reason the group was invitation only and somewhat secretive was that a number of the attendees were on a church staff. People in their churches just wouldn't understand...
Another GREAT story/video. I started smoking cigars/pipe 25 years ago when I was 33. I have meet many, what are now, Brothers/Sisters of the Leaf, that I would never have met...became friends with many had it not been for that cigar.
I have a friend that happens to be a Catholic Priest for many years. I have learned much, concerning cigars through him. He has always said that a cigar is the "equalizer". You can have a multi-millionaire in one chair...a sanitation driver in the adjoining chair enjoying a cigar together. And unless they knew each others financial status in society, they are equals. Yes, that fine leaf has brought many a folks together in harmony.
Keep up the fine stories!👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
Great story and talk. I'm a farmer and smoke cigars too. People always think they know what's best for everyone else and don't even take care of their own self or their own business. I pay no mind to them. I love my Cigars, they relax me after a hard days work. My wife actually smokes them with me. She never thought she'd enjoy such a thing, but I told her to just do what she wants and she did. Now we enjoy them together on our deck while watching the sun set over Magazine Mountain. Men need to be men, and women need to be women, but I don't reckon a cigar cares who smokes it. I've got a few men around me that do what they want and sit down for a smoke with me. But then there are others who have to ask their wives first.....most of them miss out and never get to experience the brotherhood of the leaf!
Always great stories and great conversation. Thank you 🙏🏻
I found this brotherhood during the pandemic during some long walks while I was unemployed. The community of BOTL/SOTL has been a part of my life since that first cigar. I’ve met some great people. Hope everyone has a good smoke today.
I like that line "brotherhood of the leaf" its so true. Just yesterday I was at a cigar lounge in Chicago and sat with two guys that offered me a neat of Jameson, I turned around and gave them each a cigar. We sat and talked for hours about European history.
I'm no cowboy, I ride a steel horse, but it's good to see real men still exist, we are getting few and far between, I am a combat vet and a member of the brotherhood of the leaf, you seem like the type of guy that I would enjoy sitting down and having a beer and a good stogie with. I enjoy your vids, thanks.
Thanks for the story brother of the Leaf.
Your not allowed to sit at the grown ups table....classic!! I love it.
Love the video Dewayne. Couldn't agree more!!
I live in a small county in Illinois known for deer hunting. I do the entertainment for the outfitter down the road form me for about 20 years now and i look forward to thses guys from Pennsylvania that come in to hunt, a great bunch of guys and i always look forward to sitting around the bon fire talking about the day's deer hunt and smoking a good cigar.
This dude hit it right on the money. Having this one commonality allows us to know a little bit about the guy across the table from you. I was in Greece on a trip a few tears back and bought a partagas at a little cigar shop in a small town. I was getting ready to light up and saw a group of guys sitting on the waterfront. When they saw my cigar they beckoned me over. It was just a random group of traveller's. Some on cruises, some locals, some from adjacent countries. We sat together in fellowship. Most spoke English. After an hour of cigars and adult beverages we were like any other group of cigar guys. Talked a little bit about cigars, sports, wives. The usual stuff.Like the guys this cowboy described.
My home cigar club the Cigar Ambassadors has judges and it has janitors. It has senators, and it has street sweepers. But we all have one common thing together. And the fellowship we share has a value beyond measure. It's hard to describe but I'll wager every cigar guy or gal that reads this or watches the video above will be shaking their head in understanding before they finish this. Long Ashes my friends. Enjoy every second of it, the best hour of the day. When we share some time together and shake off the days problems. No matter any where you are. We all get it!
Kevin
He is BRILLIANT> I love him, just discovered him...he brightens up this rainy day here in Somerset, UK!
Love this. I'm not a smoker, but I love this. Even if I don't smoke, there is a remarkable thing about pipe and cigar smokers. They are thinkers and tend to be brothers. George Bruno introduced me to the concept. I just found this channel and I already love it. Thanks my friend. You're a real gentleman, and follow the gentleman's code.
Oh so true. There's just something about sitting down and enjoying a cigar together that can cross boundaries that could otherwise never be touched. ✌🏽
Duane ... love your philosophy on life. Love the 💕 horses and training, that’s what attracted me to your videos; but I came to look forward to the many subjects you speak too 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 thanks for the experience.
God bless u n family sir. Couldn’t agree more with that way of thinking and approach all people on the planet, and not just America.
Keep the stories coming. I enjoyed this one a lot. Thank you Sir.
Exactly how I feel about cigars . I go to my local lounge at least once a week and always get into conversations with all kinds of people .
Greetings from Kharkiv, Ukraine 🇺🇦 Well, this story is beautiful. The stories actually. I had similar experience with wine 🍷 - sometimes, you can find people that share the same passion and right away you have something common to discuss. Although it’s something different and important around cigars. The whole experience is calming. I do agree that if it’s anything that ties us together, it should be cherished. Cigars are so good when viewed from this angle. Thank you mr. 🤠
Слава Україні Боже Благославии Україні Sending love to Ukraine from the United Kingdom
I could listen to this guy for hours. I love me a good story teller!
I'd be honoured to sit down by the campfire and join this man for a cigar. Just talking about philosophy, the world, family, adversity-everything. He's like a mentor and a friend rolled into one. Thank you, Dewayne. Hope our paths cross one day 🙏🏽🔥💪🏽
Crazy how one experience of comfort and acknoeledgement if not basic belonging reverberates through the years.
This is a great video sir, I recently starting smoking cigars and the amount of fellowship it's brought is honestly amazing. It really brings people together and we need more of that.
Amen my brother. I was out fishing in my little boat. smoking my cigar. and went out deeper waters to see what they where catching. guys says. don’t know what your smoking. damn it smells good. Thank you. brother of the leaf.
Good afternoon sir! Brother of the leaf (and briar). I enjoyed this video. I was raised in South Central Tennessee and now live for past 43 years in West Tennessee. I began career in public safety same as you at age 26 and back in those days worked alone even before attending the academy. Things have surely changed. I have friends who smoke cigars and pipes and it truly is a brotherhood of the leaf. I'm very familiar with your area in Tennessee. Great video and keep 'em coming.
This is what it's all about! Servicemen who know their purpose in this CRAZY world we live in. We can all meet each other in the lounge, and converse as equals, and that's what it's all about.
Dare I say "men" like Dewayne are a dying breed, OfCourse kudos to his lady behind the camera. Amen to the "Brotherhood of the Leaf"
This is the second time I've watched this video, and I got even more out of it this time. From one Brother of the Leaf to another, thanks for the content.
Man, you just brought tears to my eyes. Wish I was there.
Congratulations on your success with the launching of the school, sounds like things are going well. Puts a smile on my face to see good things come to those who work hard to bring them to pass. Blessings in your future and keep the videos coming absolutely love your stories.
''Brother in leaf'' - i will remember this all my life ! Tks man!
I love this format of storytelling. Keep it coming.
Best thing that worked for me was I was a bourbon and cigar guy in the Army. As a older E4 cpl I found the only other bourbon and cigar guy in my company. The commander. So after a rough day we would have a counseling session behind a building or our of view out in the field. Learned alot and laughed alot during those time.