The Three TOXIC Defenses: Comfort Conformity & Certainty | BPD, NPD & Codep simplified 9/3/22

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  • @damanodrama
    @damanodrama 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    1:12:28 this is so good to hear. 😊 it’s true that at some point we can decipher things on our own and avoid external guidance ❤

  • @AnonymousUser42
    @AnonymousUser42 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So helpful

    • @VisceralGravitas
      @VisceralGravitas  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Glad it was helpful! Some more content & small community at www.visceralgravitas.com

    • @lovesakitas
      @lovesakitas 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right. My experience communicating with high school students usually worked out ok. I had to be very careful not to come across as “condescending”. These students were enrolled in special classes and most were very “street smart”. They were highly sensitive to any approach that I used if it was “condescending”. One can imagine that they had spent a lifetime so far being spoken “down to”.

    • @PPP-on3vl
      @PPP-on3vl 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@VisceralGravitas one can have all of them? 😂

  • @claudiasbarra1882
    @claudiasbarra1882 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don't understand why this guy seems to laugh in an humiliating way about Richard. This is the narcissistic defense 😂😂....or not? I can only say that Richard and his coaches helped me like no one other could help me. So why does thus guy laugh so much??? !!!!

    • @VisceralGravitas
      @VisceralGravitas  หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @CMDoreOTR
    @CMDoreOTR 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    19:00 Don't assume that his story that his partner was the primary source of the bad relationship dynamics. I seriously doubt he was the innocent victim of the two.

    • @CMDoreOTR
      @CMDoreOTR 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      COMFORT (FLIGHT / PASSIVE AVOIDANT) / CONFORM (FREEZE / FAWN / PASSIVE) / CERTAINTY (FIGHT / PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE / AGGRESSIVE) / COMPETENCE (ASSERTIVENESS)

    • @CMDoreOTR
      @CMDoreOTR 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      25:05 I've watched his competitive nature play out in oneupmanship in the "healing process". He's convinced that he is making so much more progress than those he projects his shadow unto (not seeing such tendencies for their pathological nature). Covert Malignant Narc 101 Case Study

  • @damanodrama
    @damanodrama 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    14:23 this three models are as morally sick as one can get. (APD apart) 🤢