@Hugh Ropp Psychos run the world. The Bush family were the ones publicly pushing for the NWO on fcking international TV, and they are psychotic warmongers. Also funny how she mentions that some forms of military training create Sociopaths, considering that MKUltra and Project Phoenix were used for just that (look up Dr. Lieut. Comdr. Thomas Narut who exposed the US Navy's human experiments on this). These programs have also created serial killers that terrorized US citizens (The Unabomber, BTK, Zodiac Killer, Gary Heidnik, The Night Stalker, etc).
i just dated a sociopath for 7 months....they make you feel like you are crazy and do such insane stuff with the craziest excuses a normal person will have his head spin....it becomes a parody of a life...get out while you can!
Muddied the water for me even more. If his mom was also one or the other but also created him and pandered to is pathological behavior, I’m still uncertain.
All behavior is a result of environment. There are no babies born with types of behavior. They don't want it disclosed that the monetary system imposes structural violence which makes a psychopath. And rewards them lavishly for it. Albert Fish was not born the boogey man! He was made that way over time, as a result of a distorted violent upbringing. It was researched by Fredric Wertham. Show of Violence it is called.
But I don't see how a sociopath can learn from environment to not have a conscience. Everything I have ever read or heard states they are born without a conscience. If they learn to not have a conscience would mean they have one to start, there for they aren't a sociopath.
I really don’t like this women she said nothing but inaccurate stereotypes about people who are afflicted by mental illness. People who are afflicted only want to feel normal and not alienated from society for being different
Yeah but I genuinely felt like this guy was a true sociopath getting a thrill from meeting a psychologist face to face and seeing if he could dupe her. Not only that, but the idea that if he can dupe her, he can use these lessons to get better at being a glib sociopath. Or psychopath, not sure. But basically there's a reason why these people cannot be brought into therapy, and that is because they see the whole world solely through the eyes of power and control, like a game. This is why I despise people calling sacred things like love and life "the game" because it's a very shallow and sociopathic, quite frankly demonic, view of the world, like the way criminals call drug dealing and RICO tier stuff "being in the game." So as a result of that, you can't really deal with these people in the usual routine. It is however theoretically possible to catch one of them young and just deal with them as they are to become a more useful member of society who's not as much a real danger, but you positively cannot do this through the eyes of emotions and empathy. What you need to do is remember that any therapist type of relationship they are going to view this as you trying to control them, and that is why you have to give them as kids as much of their own agency as possible and consequences for their actions without it feeling like you're controlling them. If you do, they're simply going to find a way to subvert you, and use the "therapy" as lessons in being an even better psychopath than before.
@@skullxwrapper9968 one cold fact is that certain differences must be alienated but since it sound inhuman and remorseless people abandon that way. But some actions needs to be remorseless inorder to be right.
Be married to my ex wife and youd experience it first hand. Her mother is even worse and I firmly believe she murdered her husband 19 years ago because she didn't need him anymore and it was time to move on.
I think it’s because she was speaking in a way that suggested she was trying to elicit a response, so he thought if he didn’t respond it would be impolite.
Every single human being out there is wounded and traumatized. The key is, have they or are they actively working on healing their wounds and traumas? Are they evolving and developing healthier coping mechanisms?
Except the world isn't full of any of those, and the people you label as narcissistic, psychopathic, and sociopathic are probably complaining about the same thing
I've watched a few of his videos he always does this, I think he's trying to show interest, acknowledgement and some understanding rather than intentionally interrupting and being rude.
should have put a better interviewer...he seems like over acting and perhaps not really fit for such an interview...would be great if it was just her in this video
Dr. Ramani is on the world stage as THE expert in Narcissism. She has been making waves in this Mental health arena for years. I am so happy she's getting world renowned recognition for her life's work. Read her new book, "It's Not You" -- so so good and insightful. A must read! (And I'm not someone who leaves book reviews because I'm lazy lol) This book is that good! Thank you so much MedCircle and Dr. Ramani for helping millions!
Dr Ramani is so discerning and crystal clear in her descriptions and definitions! This is one of the most concise and precise descriptions of these conditions you will ever hear explained!
I learned something here and thanks, but have question, think it cud be true lack of empathy, love can have these same effects, can see possibilities for effective treatments for not inconsiderable numbers of humanbeans
I won't say you to trust me on this but there are many videos which explains like she did. Even better then her too. I think people loved her including me because of the way she talks. She clearly is passionate and loves to explain. Btw I encountered only one video in TH-cam about mental disorders that what effing irritating. Nothing i learnt from it. Only ads.
If you knew both, the difference between them is obvious. The non-sociopath narcissist (NSN) is strictly manipulative to get what they want from you. Yes, they may hurt you in the process, but that was not the goal . The sociopath enjoys putting you in pain even if it doesn’t benefit them in any way. My NSN mother will never apologize, but noticeably tries to defend her actions not just to others, but to herself. If she does something objectively bad and called out on it, she may acknowledge it is bad but blame others… or fall back to a demented reality where it didn’t happen that way. Her dementor stays the same as she is always the victim. My sociopath sister will pretend to be innocent at first, but then if called out she will completely change her demeanor and be like “yea, I did that and you deserve it”. Like she caused my 5 yr olds first (and last) planned birthday party to be cancelled a few years ago and make excuses but when I said “If you are doing this to my child to get back at me, you are evil” she didn’t deny it. She was offended that I call her evil. Years before, She demanded that I apologize to her for having a miscarriage after accusing me of faking it. Where my NSN mother didn’t support me at that time (and may have been happy since she hates my husband), she at least tries to make the reasons she treats me poorly sound reasonable if said out loud. My sister didn’t care. Where I know my narcissist mother would probably try to save me if hanging from a cliff (so I could owe her the rest of my life), I think my sister would just push me and savor that moment in her memory.
Some narcissists will feign remorse (or empathy even) as a manipulation tactic to keep you close. The ones who lack it altogether (Psycho/Sociopaths) can learn it like a skill if it gives them an advantage... But to your point, they don't typically give sincere apologies, if any. They make excuses, gaslight, blame others to avoid accountability. Only sorry they got caught.
I'd say those characteristics are prerequisites to getting the job. They are anesthetized to an endless national debt to get their way. No politician has made any effort the whistle on Jeffrey Epstein.
give it a rest all of you. Would any young woman date a potential schmuck like that\? Probably not. Who cares what kind of interviewer he is. She just needs the question and provides the answers as we know it so far. Everybody talks about boundaries; she's got great boundaries and I was seriously interested in the topic because I ran into one or two seriously twisted people in my life and was too stupid to recognize it, so I listened.
My sister has done it after 17 years of stealing and put her in a home and she died in 2 weeks from inability to want to live eat begged to go back home. She stole her property and real-estate and got rid of her for money. Then came to Missouri from doing that in California and killed and abused my mother 4 year's as go. Just sitting there at lunch after her death a few weeks later she said matter of factly that quote...::"I'm so glad I finally got rid of that f...g bitch. She gave away my favorite jacket in 7th grade. I hated her and I'm glad she's gone".
She's bullied my 91 year old engineering degreed father out of the entire estate. Displaced my sister with a legal eviction from the home my dad gave her Dani, Cathy's the sociopath.. she put her and her little children in the street so she aquire Danis house and spend the last seven years remodeling it for herself and paying an enormous mortgage not allowing any occupation in her new acquisition. It sits empty. She then while throwing me out of my dad's house by way of his limited POA. Puts me in a dump. I'm on disability and no income so she can TAKE my room and force her way nto their home and proceed to bully and demand signatures for POA and illegally take advantage and put ownership of all assets my dad's million plus engineering firm@ all real-estate. Jewelry all my mom's belongings everything they own and keep it from 5 other children. She beat me to a pulp the l a st time I went to visit my father in HIS HOME and blocks everyone from him receiving phone calls quests children siblings. Completely isolating him and monitoring him. Took his credit cards wallet checking accounts all monies put everything in her name well aware she never once attended college or held a job in her entire life. She feels entitles to the elders in our family's complete and total assets and complete control and will kill whomever is in her way. I adventually got s 2 story s townhouse. Before she moved back into my room she briefly had an apartment for 8 months. After that moved into my 2nd bedroom and begged to stay there temporarily. She then attempted to take over my leased home@ berate me mercilessly say and night@ yell scream ignore to the point of terror for me. She then took my phone, over an incident, ran to the top of the stairs, she refused to give me my phone and I ran upside reached briefly for my phone and she deliberately pushed me down a flight of my stairs. Police were called and she said IA horrendous lie that I was att a cking her and I fell down the stairs on my own.
Please someone help me? I'm in danger. I need legal help I need protection. I need representation. I need help. She's trying to get my dad's home now and put him somewhere. I get no answer at the doors. There's a lot more evil m illegal things she's done and is doing. I am begging for help!!!!!
My ex threatened to make me disappear all the time ... if I displeased him he made something that was my favorite or that i had sentimental attachment to disappear to make his point.
The comment about "white collar" is so true. I'm 4+ years into lawsuits against the psycho/socio attorney who took advantage of my wealthy elderly mother in the final years of her life. After she passed, his explanation of estate plan basically went like this "I knew you mother better than any of you, you'll get what we give you and you'll like it. If you don't like it, get a lawyer and try to sue the trust." So in Feb 2019 I got an attorney and after years of hard work and $100k's spent, we are close to having him convicted of fraud for stealing nearly $1M from our family. The guy has no remorse and continues to do everything in his power to abuse and stall due process in the court system. What's really messed up is my family isn't the first to sue him! There was an article written in Forbes in the early 2000's about him being sued by another family, yet the nationwide law firm he works for continues to keep him on staff because he's charming and a good earner. It makes me want to throw up.
So sad. But I like to thank you very much for fighting and not putting up with their evil bs. My grandfather had back surgery but the Dr got tired or something and stopped half way through. Which lead to my grandpa never walking again. My grandmother at the time tried talking to a lawyer or someone about the case and mentioned it would take 100s of thousands of dollars just to try and sue.. now this was probably 10 years ago now and from my grandmother's words .. so I might be off with a few things but I believe her.. thank you again for fighting for the little guys 🤠✌🏼
@@milkoansah-johnson8768 Lawyers are in the top ten professions for psychopaths. Others are: surgeons, police, CEO, clergy, government beaurocrats, media, sales, chefs.
@@jaddoughmen3759 The M142 High Mobility Artillery Rocket System (HIMARS) is a light multiple rocket launcher that kills many RuSSians on a daily basis! I love it!!!! Himar is donkey in Arabic not Himars - I'm guessing you have a sub 80 IQ.
Layne Carper that’s not tru. Not all of them are dangerous. Just because they have the diagnosis doesn’t mean they’ll cause mayhem. That’s another misconception about them. More often than not they mind their own business.
Now I understand why my ex husband was diagnosed psychopath and narcissistic. I still struggle to grasp every little abuse that I went through because of his mental disorders but I did a lot of progress these past two months
@Daniel-oe9si For the future, try not to respond to something you know nothing about. My circumstances, my experiences. Try being 6 mths pregnant on a waterbed and being held down while having the life choked out of you….yes honey, that’s a psychopath. So unless your sister beat you or something, you’re not healthy.
So it seems like a narcissist is just full of themselves but they have emotions. A psychopath is born with no emotions and learns to act like a normal person and a sociopath is a normal person that learns to act like a "psychopath".
I didn't see the interviewer as being fake, but more like being overly expressive with a childlike curiosity and fascination, but with a low awareness of how he comes across.
I mean, there’s no thing to argue with how the man inquire or how he talks, but in my opinion, he just want to elaborate the topic for the viewers to absorb the topic articulately. There shouldn’t be hate here. Besides, that’s his expression and humans have different expressions too. Perhaps, it’s just their emotions who make them to dislike him.
@DT Undercover Asperger’s syndrome is a type of autism that starts from the early age of an individual and in his case, he is just REALLY entertained naïvely from what he is absorbing.
@DT Undercover I reckon that you need some tough enlightenment. You have still a lot of time to absorb knowledge from anyone. From your point of your brother being moderately autistic can be a true if he is just two years old or less but proving that the interviewer has Aspie is a false accusation because according to such particular studies that autism or any kind of autism cannot be obtained during adulthood, if it is developed, then it is a rare case. This is an argument also, and ad hominem is for the weakest people who can’t prove their point right.
Jessica Cartas Thx. This is the reason why when they are arrested. They have to receive punishment. They will not be sent to mental hospital or mental asylum.
@Cristian Ivanescu that women lies and rips people off for a living and no proof of any of it and it just labels bad or good behavior and act like sex organs makes a difference so no she is very wrong
It's the editing. It shouldn't cut to him as much. An interview is about the person talking, the audience doesn't need to see the interviewer or reactions. It's distracting and unintentionally makes it comical. Not mention the wide shot is super awkward because they're a mile away.
I can really relate to the struggle against the confusing mind games of a narcissist. It's like walking through a maze where the walls keep shifting. Your story resonates deeply because, like you, I felt so isolated, doubting my own reality, as if my confidence was slipping through my fingers.
My ex wife was either a psycho or narcissist. Someone who couldn't see past herself. She would bait me into arguments until I realised she enjoyed hurting me. She later moved into another phase where she slept around and so forth. I chose to ignore her antics. We finally found a good marriage counsellor who knew how to deal with her. My exe decided to end the marriage. In her eyes all that transpired was my fault and I had kidnapped the kids. She took all our savings because she thought she deserved it and I inherited the kids. I got the better part of the deal even though I worked three jobs to care for them and pay for their education. The best thing that came out of this disaster was a painful rearrangement of my priorities. Wealth, house etc come second to kids and family. Today I'm very close to my kids even though they're grown up and have left home. They are professionals in their chosen fields and successful in life.
Most of the time women will get borderline personality disorder diagnostics. It's kind of the feminine equivalent of the narcissistic personality. Eternal victims of everything, while antogonizing those who surround them. These personalities are really hard to "enjoy". You must draw a hard line with them and stick to it, or they will eat you up! They can't help it, but they're social vampires. Good for you, life must be so much better now.
Just adding my 2 cents here, but I think a psychopath's greatest weapon is society's unwillingness to believe he / she is capable of being that way (ex: "Oh, she's SO sweet and friendly; how could anyone accuse her of murder?"). I think this is especially true if the psychopath is young, attractive, female, disabled, or elderly, or holds a trusted position such as a law enforcement worker or a medical worker.
Man, a lot of women are disabled because of car accidents when they are young. After they become disabled, they want to be attractive because they need energy and they cannot afford to look sloppy and untidy. Old psychopaths are dangerous, too. Why are you so attracted to young attractive women and imagine that they are killers? Old people could be sweet and friendly. Men are ugly and rough. I don't think that means that men are safer to be with. Attractive men, old men, rough men kill people, too, especially they kill women.
Watch for if someone talks differently to some people than he does others. Watch if someone can easily get other people to do things for them without any authority. Watch if someone is hyper dominant. Watch if you start getting a slight resentment towards someone and you find yourself talking yourself out of avoiding them. Watch if someone mentions violence while they’re not in a fit of rage. Watch the eyes man, if you’re talking about something emotional and they’re sitting there looking like they’re just thinking without much of an expression and their comments get a slightly question like tone then it could they’re faking it til they make it and are analyzing you. Obviously if someone does a few of these it doesn’t automatically mean sociopath. It’s honestly really hard to spot one immediately, especially in the moment. It’s usually about trusting your gut feeling and genuinely considering this when you look back on someone. You really want to spot a sociopath and especially a psychopath in your life before they make it clear and they will. They work by moving from group to group, environment to environment. They’ll stay somewhere for a while but eventually they’ll be found out and move, leaving everyone fucked over. This is hard cause sometimes these people will figure out what you need and make you feel good. All you have is a gut feeling and honest analysis
Let’s take a moment to appreciate how well-spoken this woman is, she presents her ideas in such a beautiful way and is so clear and certain. Edit: I appear to have been misconstrued in several ways and would like to clarify that the nature of my comment was purely complimentary and was not intended to be condescending. I was simply acknowledging how this individual speaks with such clarity. I am not familiar with her work outside of this video and thus apologies for any references that may have unintentionally been made. The race and gender of this person also had nothing to do with my comment, and I will continue to stand by that. Besides, I am only fourteen, and do not intend what-so-ever to offend people with my words, I am simply making a simple compliment on the nature of her speech. Finally, I was not referring to the validity of the claims, I was referring to the verbal cohesion of her ideas. I hope this helps
She posts on the Internet and makes public speeches about her wish of killing all white people whit her own hands. Do some research and you will find she is a sick racist.
The dude is really annoying though. I understand they must cut and edit the video to make it all flow, but I'd definitely prefer close/far framing and no other sounds then her voice
In my psychiatry subject, I have not understood about all these matters, but now, I could say that I'm learning eveytime I watch this channel with C.P. Ramini. She emphasizes the difference between disorders (mood, personality, social, etc.). I like her. It shocks me everytime, I wish she was my professor in my psychiatric nursing. 👍
watch the clock in a weird place behind her- they're not using his reaction shots to help edits, they're for his vanity, & they suck. I had to go audio-only. he's one of these dumb-down dicks, even if he is actually listening.
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Wow! That all makes perfect sense to me. I was adopted to my evil aunt. She showed symptoms at the age of 8 when my birth mother was born. I was the family scapegoat, my twin brothers the golden children, my adopted dad the enabler. Narcissist never seemed to go far enough for me. My youngest son had difficulties throughout childhood. I finally linked my son's behavior to my adopted mother. I am definately an empath, a sensitive, intuitive. Apparently it skips generations. I always felt like I was surrounded by crazy people, and I was.
I feel like the interviewer is trying to mask something with his overly exaggerated mannerisms. The doctor must have placed him in at least one of the three diagnosis.
Thank you so much for this video. It’s on point 100%. This is a great content. Dr. Ramani Durvasula does an amazing job explaining the differences between a psychopath, sociopath and a narcissist. She really did hit the bullseye in a way that was clear to understand. What an amazing job. Thank you MedCircle for having her on here. May you all be blessed more than you already are.
The irony is that all the people calling the interviewer dumb are the reason he had to ask the “dumb” questions. You all think you’re super smart, but really he was just trying to prompt her to clear up common misconceptions, as a good interviewer does. If you already knew the answer to everything he asked, good for you. Maybe this video isn’t for you.
You are a special kind of stupid. Sure we came here to learn but are you fucking kidding me-“ClaRificatIon nOt liKe pEts oR dOgs”. Ya no shit. And also she spent like 3 minutes explaining how a psychopath doesn’t get stressed when doing something wrong, and then the dumbass in blue states; Soo, dO tHey geT stRessEd”? WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU MEAN??? He’s a fucking idiot.
Had to minimize the browser after ~1 min, what kind of savage would hang a clock that low on the wall? Its like hanging a carpet on the ceiling, fucking bizarro world.
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@@AdamThoba2 EXACTLY - SHE IS TALKING WITHOUT TRYING TO UNDERSTAND WHAT PEOPLE IN THIS ENVIRONMENT NEED. SHE IS TALKING PURELY FROM HER POINT OF VIEW AND WHAT SHE NEEDS . SHE IS SAYING SCREW THE STUDENT AND EVERYONE ELSE IS SAYING - SCREW THIS UNFOCUSED RAMBLING PIN HEAD. FOR A GENERALIZED DESCRIPTION SEE - DR ROBERT HARE. HE WAS THE FIRST TO DEFINE THE PROBLEM IN A WAY THAT THE AVERAGE PERSON COULD UNDERSTAND IT AND NEEDS TO UNDERSTAND IT. I DO NOT FIND ANYTHING SHE HAS TO SAY IS WORTH STUDING OR WORTH KNOWING. AFTERALL - SHAKESPEARE HAD SEVERAL CHARACTERS IN HIS PLAYS THAT PRESENTED THE INFO THE AVERAGE PERSON NEEDS. THIS WOMAN HAS HER OWN FULL CATALOG OF PERSONALITY DISORDERS.
to me the most fascinating part is in the lack of arousal - if an anti social personality cannot be aroused in terms of the various emotions you describe - how can they achieve the peak experiences we all seek? if a persona can't feel - what lengths do they have to go to to find something enjoying?
It took me 12 years to finally confirm my wife was a narcissist and she was having an affair. Needless to say I was double devestated. Devestated my wife was unfaithful and devestated the woman I loved was never real. It literally was like she died, I grieved accordingly
The antisocial personality; I displayed all of the behaviors she described as a young boy. I skipped school, was angry & violent towards others, I stole & had a fascination with fire too. I was on Ritalin for having ADHD and another drug called melaril which I didn't realize until just recently is an antipsychosis medication. All of this before I was even 13. I lived in a boys home for over 4 years because I was a troubled youth. But I thank my mom for seeing the signs early enough & having the courage & ability to get me help before I could have done something horrible.
It took me until the age of 30 to realize my behavior was outside the norm. I grew up with a father that displayed psychopathic traits, except for anything relating to crime. My mother has a good idea of my fearlessness, like inserting broken glass into my nose at the age of 4 (thankfully she removed it and nothing bad happened) and my violent behavior towards animals and other kids when I was still in primary school. Fast forward to today and I‘ve had lifelong problems, like relating to people and inconsistencies in school and work. I‘ve been talking with two psychologists about this. The second psychologist thinks I might have a personality disorder. She told me that after just one visit. Personality disorder or not, I just want to get some closure to help me understand my way of thinking.
@@CallMeNevermore When I was in my 20s and 30s, I was too proud to admit I had a problem. Now, I'm middle-aged and more reflective, I can admit my condition was at least partially responsible for a car-crash of a life. I wish I had a more normal life, but it's too late now.
This video tells us the basic difference between a narcissist, psychopath and sociopath. A psychopath kills or commits a crime without sympathy because of their lack of emotion to understand and feel what the crime they commit leads to and what the consequences will be, they just don't care what happens whereas sociopaths are made because of the conditions of their surroundings or an incident which occurred in their childhood which had an impact on them and changed them into having no emotions or empathy. However a narcissist is someone who tends to do bad things but they feel shame and guilt after doing things like that, they don't want to look bad in society and lower their self esteem. Dr. Ramani explains these differences very well with simple examples. The interviewer could have been better. All in all it was a very informative video.
@cak01vej Maybe not higher IQ, but with no emotions in the way it makes it easier to do certain choices which could make them seem more intelligent. Someone that reacts from their emotions can do some really stupid stuff because they are not thinking clearly.
@Fragya 73 lol. You seem like either a troll or a psychopath based on your replies to a simple comment like mine or a "whoah". I'd rather not engage you but your next reply will tell me everything I need to know.
@Fragya 73 I would honestly appreciate it if you explained why his statement is wrong because I agree with what he says and would apreciate knowing if this affirmation is wrong
EXCELLENT She is so knowledgable - the best I have ever seen on this subject and he is a great interviewer and does NOT interrupt her! STELLAR interview. Kimberly
@Starscream91 she's simply establishing credibility towards doctor Romani since Mary comes from the same discourse community. Besides, within those "mere" years she was probably the best nurse you could have ever seen. Go back to school kiddo.
@@Jramos93: The nursing test is a very Tough test and Nursing is a very hard Job. Anyone who can pass the test and work the long Hours deserves Respect. I don't know what people like starscream get out of putting people down.
actually she's stating a lot of misconception and throwing out cognitive development. Also she's not emphasizing logic and prompting emotional reaction as a non antisocial behavior. Anti-social behavior are often exhibited by emotionally rooted behavior even if it is not apparently/physically portrayed. She also describes empathy based on a wildly refuted idea of empathy. Her idea of empathy is sympathy not empathy. Also her idea of sociopathic behavior does not take into context of a person's situation, especially poverty and other factors. Her generalization reminds me of a 3rd rate psychologist that practice clinical therapy not cognitive therapy or more advance and detail analysis.
Lol this comment. This tells me more about you than about nurses. 1) School is not the same as IQ. 2) School/high school/college is a privilege so please don't throw it around like it's a persons choice. 3) School is not the same as education. 4) For a person to be good at psychology, why are we even talking about IQ, how about EQ? So yes, this comment is in my opinion a very short-sighted comment. So I recommend to use all those school years and all the knowledge to just look a little further.
I feel like I was well on my way to becoming a sociopath in high school. Exactly like she says in the video, I was hanging around with the wrong kids because I was being bullied by the other kids. I was becoming more and more careless, emotionless and wreckless. I truly never saw myself becoming a normal member of society. I saw myself becoming a criminal. And I was completely okay with it because my numbness and carelessness shaped me into a pretty good thug. I also truly believed I wouldn't live to see 40 years old, and I was completely okay with that. I didn't give a shit. And I loved not giving a shit. I felt powerful, like the world was mine. Then I met my girlfriend at the last year of high school and over the course of two years, she changed my life. I cared for her a lot. And she cared for me. And this shaped the way for me to care more about myself and others as well. We've been together for 11 years now and my life has changed completely. Got a stable job which I love, a house and I spend every day with the love of my life. I'm truly alive now. However, I still feel like I'm always just an inch away from my old life. It still haunts me. And I hope it will never come to that again.
Bro.... You know that feeling that you're an inch away from the old you???? Yea, your girl feels that and she loves you because you have it and it's dormant
@@varrvarrworldboxing7913 Constatly dude. Every day I feel like I'm just one small step away from breaking down again. Hasn't happened yet though, just gotta keep on going dude.
@@varrvarrworldboxing7913 exactly. If it happens, it happens. It will be shot, but I got over it once and will recover again. Just gotta live our best lifes bro
The lady he interviewed is qualified it's just that she was being very casual and dramatic so it didn't come across as professional at all so people doubt her information.
I absolutely love her! You can tell that she really enjoys what she does, she seems to really enjoy teaching it. And the fact that she breaks everything down so well so othes can understand is amazing!
My ex is obsessed with narcissism. The irony is, she applies her “therories” to everyone else but herself. She can’t apply her “rules” to herself. It’s awful to hear her train of thought and logic. She’d say “a narcissist constantly accuses everyone else of being narcissistic.” I then point out that she is CONSTANTLY seeing narcissism everywhere, ergo, by her logic, she is narcissistic. She then accuses me of accusing her of being narcissistic, which in her mind makes me narcissistic (which is her claim in the first place). So many examples like this. She creates rules and moral laws and immediately exempts herself from them, but still applies then to everyone else.
That is the problem with this whole subject. It becomes an excuse to hide your own flaws and to avoid personal responsibility for the role you play in things. It has become all the rage in today's society and it is barely understood by these people who love to toss the term around without any discretion. EVERYONE has narcissistic traits naturally and it is only problematic when it is deep narcissism or when it is paired with psychopathy. Other than that it is a useless thing to focus on because people misapply it and hide behind it to avoid accountability in their lives. Sick people use it to excuse their own behavior and demonize others far too much. This Dr. here is one who has made a lot of videos on the subject without really explaining it as a natural phenomenon that is found in healthy people just as much as it is in others. They exploit the craze and trend without making things clear enough for it to be a practical understanding. It leads to this mess and I hate the way it has become so convoluted and meaningless as a term. It has gotten way out of hand and when I hear someone constantly identifying others as narcissistic it is a red flag that they have some deep core issues and I should stay away because they are the pot calling the kettle black most of the time.
The guys attitude seems like he’s hearing the craziest, most fascinating thing ever. It makes the condition seem more unusual and strange. Very off putting and almost kind of offensive
He’s acting very unnaturally because he’s uncomfortable. As my dad who is a trained psychologist said when I showed him “I would tentatively diagnose this man as a grandiose narcissist at least, perhaps bordering on sociopathy based on these interactions alone.”
@@maxlewis7833 Who you being rude for no reason to? Me? If so... ahem... I can always get a GED. You’ll always look like a Neanderthal got bonked over the head with the ugly club a few too many times.
Hi Klein. Nice to meet you. I did enjoy it (see above: " This is so, so good" ). I was just confused why the interviewer kept interrupting her mid-explanation. I was wondering if anyone knew the reason. Was this a certain kind of interview? Was this a show with a personality I was unfamiliar with etc? It eventually became really distracting and appeared to annoy the psychologist as well (see 6:15 for instance).
@Klein Bottle Maybe, but saying "why don't stop whining" doesn't sound like a very calm or polite reply either. And I agreed this is a very interesting subject and she explains it in a way that is easy to understand but is distracting to sed him interrupt her to the point she looks annoyed like at 6:14.
@Klein Bottle Lol there is no private conversations on the comment section of a video. If you post people are going to reply to you even if you don't like it xD But I congratulate you for making an less angry reply this time Now you can be more of a good person =D
I have been studying these antisocial behaviour types for a while. I agree with what Dr. Ramani says. However, I observed that most of us have a sociopathic element inside us. In many people we possess the ability to turn off our empathy if we need to. It enables us to kill in war and conflicts or when we go hunting for food. With a full sociopath, the on/off empathy switch tends to get stuck in the off position at inappropriate times.
The world 100% needs psychopaths!, they tend to be bomb disposal experts, fighter jet pilots & the likes due to the lack of fear. Not all psychopaths are 'bad' people. A very negative & one sided explanation.
Always wondered about myself being a sociopath because I could turn off my empathy towards those I came to hate. They could've even once been close friends or family members... Can you unlearn it?
I Agree! And just watching videos of Adults Bullying and Abusing others Emotionally & Mentally is Proof that there are a Lot of people who have diseased-minds! More adults & children are committing more crimes today, more than Ever! And despite the fact that Blacks have Dwelled on centuries-old Slavery, BLM, retaliating against Whites, etc Demanding more attention, More-Crimes have been committed by Blacks than any other race! WTH is going on with people's Paranoia, Hateful & Dangerous Behaviors & Attitudes? In what categories would people fit into? 😳😰😢
0.45 - "a narcissist is constantly seeking validation". Cut to umpteenth needless midshot of interviewer nodding and preening. Dr Ramani is onto you dude.
Ikr showing his dumb reactions to what she was saying was so unnecessary. He has one of those, "Hey, punch me in the face", faces😂😂 Why sure, here ya go👊👊👊👊
I got the same vibe with this guy. She is not as good as she thinks she is if she can't see what he is doing. He is playing to her ego and tries to learn from her how he can hide his disorders and better is manipilation skills He is doing a good job, she has got no clue!! LMAO!
Everybody thinks their ex-romantic partner is a Narcissist. They aren't. Its actually incredibly rare. The more obvious explanation is that we are all a little bit Narcissistic - especially a person who claims that others are that way.
@@noahedelson3618 I hear you there Noah!! My ex has accused me of being narcissistic, and if that's not the kettle calling the pot black Idk what is!! Lol!
Narcissism explanation was good, but it fell apart after that. She kept reverting back to textbook information and not fully explaining what they are, then saying things that are true also in neuro-typicals.
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They just do it and just dont care. Thats exactly right. No amount of talking, pleading, negotiating, setting rules will change their behaviour. They will do what they want and are 100% change proof. For 2 years i tried to talk to gently change behaviour and only after 2 years did i find out none of it got through. They understand. But don't care. Its worse if they have hystrionics as well, the self pittying and pointing fingers to others whenever they get told off again is insufferable.
I enjoyed watching the two together, I thought they had good rapport and I did not notice the interruptions myself. Edit: Seems like you were not the only one bothered by his style though.
duedah You don't know what a Narcissist is. A Narcissist can think for himself but dominates those who can't think for themselves. He's obviously not a Narcissist since he didn't know the difference.
My mother and her father are raging narcissists with a complete lack of empathy for anyone but themselves. It's hard to grow up along these people because they will make you feel like everything bad that is happening is somehow your fault even if you are not involved at all. The manipulation I went through is really hard to overcome but I'm getting better at recognizing what is actually my fault and things that just happen to happen to me.
Same here but know this about yourself, you learn those same behaviors from them. Learn to spot the characteristics and work on it because even if you don't become like they were it will effect your life. You cannot help but pick up the traits to some degree because you grew up in that household.
My mom same. I was vilified my entire childhood and most of my adulthood. It was cheaper to get a degree in psychology than pay for the therapy 😅 Mom “suffers” from narcissism and NONE of it is my fault. Same your you. Your folks are ill, and you are a victim of their illness. I hope you get the support you deserve. My heart goes out to you. Stay strong ❤
I'd like to say something about sociopathy. I was diag. APD when I was around 13. Literally didn't give 2 shits about anything or anyone. Was cruel to others, didn't care much for animals though I didnt go out of my way to hurt them like Bundy etc. I was obsessed with serial killers. I could easily have killed people had it not been for the unwanted prison time. I never felt empathy or remorse only anger or dysphoria. Then something illegal happened, and I met a very capable think outside the box court ordered Mental health counselor who actually took the time to try and help. Over time and with a very unique approach I actually LEARNED empathy. Or more accurately I remembered it. As a former sociopath I started life fairly normal n happy. Then at about age 2 my family life detonated and had zero stability and grew up seeing violence and horrors no kid should see. So my brain responded by turning me into a little antisocial personality monster of sorts. Anyway, through hypnosis, talk therapy, touch therapy (animals etc) , and sensitization methods I slowly came back from it. The really odd thing (in a good way) is that I am now quite a sensitive person and have a deep love of animals, the planets wonders and even quite a few people. People were the hardest part, as I absolutely loathed my fellow man for so long. I only mention this because I think we as a society too easily wish to discard those we think of as "too broken" to fix. While I know I am probably a rare person that has been "cured" of a MH disorder most Psychiatrists would consider to be a terminally mentally ill variety I believe that is an unfortunate view. I believe others could benefit from therapy similar to what I benefitted from. It can take years, and the person has to be open to it. Has to want better for themselves but it is possible. It's a nurture vs nature thing and can be reversed. Unlike Autism it is a learned condition. Genetic predisposition aside, it isn't a must get or must live with thing either. I am now 12 years APD free and loving it. I am proud to be empathetic!🐶
*Timing of this video is so on point, I’ve been cheated on by my gf and i gave her 2nd chance but my emotions for her is slowly dying out (with all those fights we had as well) but now im mustering up all my courage to break up with her bec our personality as well is not a match. Thanks Brandon*
Its almost as if dating, courting and engagements evolved as a way to weed out all 3 personalities. Truly you don't know somebody until you know the worst things about them and it takes time.
She's the leading expert on narcissism, psychopathy, and sociopathy; watching her speak on these topics is always a great experience. 💯 She's super intelligent, fascinating, and (of course) beautiful. She brings a lot of knowledge to the table! 📚🧠📚
it's easy to understand because it isn't a very clinical or professional, she is giving a very inaccurate pop science description. there are a lot of falsehoods and misconceptions in what she is saying.
Vvvv Eeee, You condemned her explanations without nuance. I was curious to know what training and or licensing you had to back up such a sweeping statement. Specific points she was wrong on?
The best way I could summarize the cluster B PDs is: A narcissist might be aware that they’re causing harm and might care a little but they’re incredibly self absorbed therefore will continue causing harm it if benefits them. A sociopath is aware that they’re causing harm but does not care because circumstances outside themselves allowed them to develop an antipathetic attitude, therefore continue causing harm. A psychopath is aware that they’re causing harm but does not care because circumstances WITHIN themselves- that is, a structural deficit in their brain- allowed them to develop an antipathetic attitude, therefore continue causing harm.
Also, as with all things, there seems, based on the data and the nature of the tests ( some of which seem to have suspect biases, admittedly, regarding race, and other social/economic and circumstantial/situational factors ), to be a spectrum in the case of all three disorder types, ranging from borderline to the rare total and complete narc, sociopath or psychopath.
Sociopaths do not have empathy. All of them have exceptional cognitive empathy but zero emotional empathy. They are not the same thing. Cognitive empathy as Dr Ramani states allows then to sense their victims/targets wounds and vulnerabilities. All of them bar none use this ability for predatory purposes for the reason of exploitation. Malignant Narcissists, Psychopaths and Sociopaths do not have emotional empathy, one of the core reasons being they failed to complete object relations which occurs at around age 3. This is when the child separates from the mother and learns he/she is an independent entity from the primary care giver. Prior to that all children think all others are extensions of themselves there to provide or frustrate them with them getting their needs met. Completion of object relations leads to object constancy where the child is able to maintain an emotional connection to the mother/care giver even though the child may feel violated after being punished. Object relations and object constancy are the two core developmental stages that allow empathy to develop. Narcs, psychs and SP are unable to maintain this connection resulting in split thinking. They see others as either all good or all bad it's also referred to as black and white thinking. It's idealization and devaluation - if you discover you are in a relationship with one get out. None of them can be loved back into good health.
You are confusing both sociopaths and malignant Narcissists with psychopaths. Sociopaths are abnormally unempathetic, but it is a maladaptive conditioned response, and they are capable of limited empathy for small groups in their "inner circle". Malignant narcissists are also capable of empathy, Dr. Ramani even says so in this video, it's just, again, more limited than in a normal person, and it's pushed to the background of their own personal agenda, but they are not incapable of empathy. Only total psychopaths are truly incapable of empathy. Lumping generic narcissists and even some sociopaths in with extreme psychopaths is the very type of all or nothing black or white reasoning you are saying those groups have. Further, we know from ample studies that social ostracization is a severe form of emotional abuse with severe consequences, often worse than verbal or even moderate physical aggression and abuse; the average narcissist would also be highly susceptible/vulnerable to some of those abuse types, especially with their need for attention and validation; the same is true for people with borderline personality disorder, though in some ways that disorder is extremely different from narcissism. The only type of person who would not be hurt by ostracism and isolation is a full on complete psychopath because of their absolute lack of attachment ability and subsequent lack of capacity to form any type of meaningful relationship bond. Also, again, all of these things come in degrees, as with everything else. There are normal people with some narcissistic tendencies ( most people ), there are severe narcissists, there are sociopaths, and then there are levels of true psychopath. One also has to be careful to be situationally aware when trying to judge who does or doesn't have empathy. E.G., even normal people can have extremely diminished empathy in certain situations. Ordinary people can be very cruel and unempathetic under what we might call tribal conditions ( in example, the hatefullness ordinary people can show to those with extremely different ideologies, political views, theologies from their own, or to people whom they otherwise view as an antagonistic "other" ), and they can also be less empathetic than usual when in the heat of anger, in combative situations, or when they feel justified in their actions. Normal people can also behave unempathetically in certain "authorized" situations, as seen in the Milligan experiments. th-cam.com/video/JnYUl6wlBF4/w-d-xo.html Unfortunately, we as a culture are very guilty of the type of linear, black and white, saint or satanist, good or evil, all or nothing thinking that you described as a trait of narcissists etc. ( I would say a full psychopath probably doesn't think of anyone as good or bad, just useful or useless ). We are horrible at considering all the variables and complexities of the behavior of others. But only a very small percentage of people are true, total psychopaths, and putting anyone else in that category, anyone actually capable of at least some degree of empathy, and anyone who has at least some degree of normal need for human interaction and emotional attention ( including pretty much any narcissist who is not also a true psychopath ), is a form of demonizing; it is taking a seriously problematic person and pretending they are pure evil, so as to justify behaving with total apathy or cruelty towards them, and that is NOT good; it is exactly the way of lynch mobs ( who do atrocious things to "others", and, let's be real, not everyone in a lynch mob of hundreds can be a psychopath ), it is what leads to massive war crimes, it is how Hitler got entire legions of people ( again, it is not even remotely plausible that all of them were psychopaths ) to commit atrocious acts against other humans.
It's either the guy's responses & questions being recorded separately & then just edited in badly... Or his "wows" and "a-Haaas" (or whatever other weird noises he makes - he looks like he's on drugs!) are just meant as subtle comic relief for a reasonably intense topic.
I can't believe this woman hasn't published a book about these particular conditions. She's PHENOMENAL. I'm curious to know how somebody who is high-functioning autistic is kept from getting mis-diagnosed as having ASPD, though.
Knowing what to look for. There are actually quite a few key differences. For instance, while autistic people may feel disconnected from those around us and have difficulty understanding and explaining our emotions, we don't lack empathy. While we process guilt differently, it isn't so much "we don't feel guilty" as "this person is upset, I must have done something wrong." In other words, we are more likely to assume guilt whether it was actually our fault or not.
Show's how much they know ... psychopath isn't even a word, lol i made it up, (it supposed to just be Sociopath) i used to say it as a kid and people would always tell me it's not a word and it was wrong ... but i always said it anyways, cause it sounded funny. PSYCHOpath (from the alfred hitchcock movie PSYCHO) i used to say that to people when they acted crazy to make fun of them lol. Now it's a actual word and thing. Hahaha Just goes to show if you repeat something enough dumb people will believe it. th-cam.com/video/vqCDnwhF2Mg/w-d-xo.html Smart people will research the etymology of it and and all kinds of stuff cause they gotta have all the answers cause they know it all. Plus they fill in all the blanks. Funny thing is it's not like i tried to make people believe it. So if you want to know what a psychopath is just watch the old black and white move called psycho.
She is just talking psychopathy 101. Basic knowledge if you're a psychologist or into psychology. Plus, she is still making a few mistakes in her talk. Psychopathy is deep, and she just speaks of the surface (with mistakes). Robert Hare is the guru and founder of the research on psychopathy. He created the scale for measuring psychopathy called the Psychopathy Check List (PCL). His initial samples and trials were conducted on a prison population, but then had to be expanded to include those highly intelligent psychopaths who are able to remain beneath the legal radar. I am a psychologist, and I've been practicing forensic and clinical psych for over 15 years.
Sociopathy is a common trait among Cluster-Bs such as narcissists and borderlines. They are also empathetic, but not to feel and have compassion for others, but to feel and take advantage of other people's feelings.
It literally brought tears in to my eyes just by listning to it... I met more than one narcissist and sociopath... They can harm you in ways you can't even imagine.... Until you realize what happened...Its too late...
@@joannamacedonio9439 that's because those 3 type of people can feel it. You are right. They gravitate towards people that they know they can control. It's like they can smell it.
Yep; dealing with a stepson who will do whatever he wants to do as soon as you leave the house (for work), despite any conversation you have with them about your expectations of them.
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I don't know why he's behaving that way.... He normally doesn't have these odd reactions. They have a ton of videos together. He is normally chill.
I would, but you suck
Please change the interviewer! This one is shockingly terrible.
@Hugh Ropp Psychos run the world. The Bush family were the ones publicly pushing for the NWO on fcking international TV, and they are psychotic warmongers. Also funny how she mentions that some forms of military training create Sociopaths, considering that MKUltra and Project Phoenix were used for just that (look up Dr. Lieut. Comdr. Thomas Narut who exposed the US Navy's human experiments on this). These programs have also created serial killers that terrorized US citizens (The Unabomber, BTK, Zodiac Killer, Gary Heidnik, The Night Stalker, etc).
i just dated a sociopath for 7 months....they make you feel like you are crazy and do such insane stuff with the craziest excuses a normal person will have his head spin....it becomes a parody of a life...get out while you can!
The statement, "A psychopath is born, a sociopath is made", clears up a lot of confusion for me.
psych = brain, socio = environment this helped me a lot
Actually they are finding brain ventricle differences I think now.
Muddied the water for me even more. If his mom was also one or the other but also created him and pandered to is pathological behavior, I’m still uncertain.
All behavior is a result of environment. There are no babies born with types of behavior. They don't want it disclosed that the monetary system imposes structural violence which makes a psychopath. And rewards them lavishly for it. Albert Fish was not born the boogey man! He was made that way over time, as a result of a distorted violent upbringing. It was researched by Fredric Wertham. Show of Violence it is called.
But I don't see how a sociopath can learn from environment to not have a conscience. Everything I have ever read or heard states they are born without a conscience. If they learn to not have a conscience would mean they have one to start, there for they aren't a sociopath.
That clock is very low. That bothers me.
Right, it doesn't feel right lol
I was watching the video at the exact same time displayed on the very low clock
😂
Not for a house of a wheel chair user.
Dark Rainbow I believe this is her office where she does therapy. She probably sits facing the clock so she can watch the time during the session.
I listened to this woman for just 30 seconds and I've already decided she explains things better than most professionals. Thank you, Dr. Ramani!!!
I sucked in every little thing she said since she started talking. Absolutely amazing
She IS a professional. She is qualified to make diagnoses.
@@reenieager4243 , yep, a clinical psychologist. chynical. LOL, so funny. Did William think she was reciting a dictionary?
With all due respect, she is a professional!
cause its populistic and just 50% true.
"Narcissism is a disorder of self-esteem" is something I've never heard but I think it's the best explanation ever
For the 1st time in 42 I had direct involvement with a narcissist and her explanation couldn’t be any more accurate. Extremely insecure
This woman knows her stuff and is an excellent communicator.
I agree. She explains things so that you and I can understand. It was great!
I really don’t like this women she said nothing but inaccurate stereotypes about people who are afflicted by mental illness. People who are afflicted only want to feel normal and not alienated from society for being different
I was literally thinking that. Her responses are so fulfilling
Yeah but I genuinely felt like this guy was a true sociopath getting a thrill from meeting a psychologist face to face and seeing if he could dupe her. Not only that, but the idea that if he can dupe her, he can use these lessons to get better at being a glib sociopath. Or psychopath, not sure. But basically there's a reason why these people cannot be brought into therapy, and that is because they see the whole world solely through the eyes of power and control, like a game. This is why I despise people calling sacred things like love and life "the game" because it's a very shallow and sociopathic, quite frankly demonic, view of the world, like the way criminals call drug dealing and RICO tier stuff "being in the game."
So as a result of that, you can't really deal with these people in the usual routine. It is however theoretically possible to catch one of them young and just deal with them as they are to become a more useful member of society who's not as much a real danger, but you positively cannot do this through the eyes of emotions and empathy. What you need to do is remember that any therapist type of relationship they are going to view this as you trying to control them, and that is why you have to give them as kids as much of their own agency as possible and consequences for their actions without it feeling like you're controlling them. If you do, they're simply going to find a way to subvert you, and use the "therapy" as lessons in being an even better psychopath than before.
@@skullxwrapper9968 one cold fact is that certain differences must be alienated but since it sound inhuman and remorseless people abandon that way. But some actions needs to be remorseless inorder to be right.
"Guilt and shame, shame is a public emotion."
Damn, never thought of it that way but does make sense!
Be married to my ex wife and youd experience it first hand. Her mother is even worse and I firmly believe she murdered her husband 19 years ago because she didn't need him anymore and it was time to move on.
Marion Tinsley Good for you taking an out on time!
She said shame is a public emotion not guilt
I thought that quite interesting and spot on as well.
unicorn kween that's exactly what I quoted. I guess I should've removed the first part?
I didn't need his reactions. Or interruptions. Loved her though
ysnc12 i love ur pfp
Too bad
I think it’s because she was speaking in a way that suggested she was trying to elicit a response, so he thought if he didn’t respond it would be impolite.
Yes agree his interruptions were annoying
100% agree. Really annoying. P_lease fire him. ty.
In the world full of narcissistic, psychopaths, and sociopaths, it's so hard to find a sane person to choose as your partner.
Every single human being out there is wounded and traumatized. The key is, have they or are they actively working on healing their wounds and traumas? Are they evolving and developing healthier coping mechanisms?
I wouldn't see the world so darkly. After all, there are still histrionics and borderliners!
@@sinntax Every one of which is associated with childhood traumas.
Except the world isn't full of any of those, and the people you label as narcissistic, psychopathic, and sociopathic are probably complaining about the same thing
World full of them? It’s pretty rare to come across.
I think the main mistake here was the excessive cutting to the interviewer even when he wasn't talking.
Bugged me from the start. I don't get it unless the guy is trying to become a "personality" and is paying for the production.
I've watched a few of his videos he always does this, I think he's trying to show interest, acknowledgement and some understanding rather than intentionally interrupting and being rude.
I think they do it to keep you interested. If it was just the same shot of the dr talking youd doze off. It’s a way to diversity the shots, i believe
Yes! It's fucking annoying
Yes, but it's funny to see him visually struggling to understand her.
So many people think empathy means to recognize others emotions. But it's to feel what they feel. Huge freaking difference.
Empathy is to understand what one is feeling
Empathic is to actually feel what another person feels… even pain
@@sugarcaina1 Empathy = the ability to understand and share the feelings of another. It's the same thing.
Exactly!!
Empathy is a noun while Empathic/empathetic is an adjective. But they're the same.
Impossible. You can’t feel exactly what somebody else is feeling.
should have put a better interviewer...he seems like over acting and perhaps not really fit for such an interview...would be great if it was just her in this video
Joy Amin More suited for celebrity fashion mistakes interviews, not serious issues.
I was picturing him interviewing kids and still looking more immature, personally.
maybe they threw him in there to be an object lesson
I feel like he has some of the traits 😅
Joy Amin weird seeing you here, Joy. Not talking about smelling fragrances!
Dr. Ramani is on the world stage as THE expert in Narcissism. She has been making waves in this Mental health arena for years. I am so happy she's getting world renowned recognition for her life's work. Read her new book, "It's Not You" -- so so good and insightful. A must read! (And I'm not someone who leaves book reviews because I'm lazy lol) This book is that good! Thank you so much MedCircle and Dr. Ramani for helping millions!
He doesn’t need to be there. She can give this information without him.
Yeah, he was acting really dumb
Zoelis17 and he kept interrupting her while she was talking
Yeah he's acting so dumb and arrogant, like who would ask the dumb question of whether the PET scan was referring to the real "pet"?!!
Lily Tsuen so dumb
Iwannameow yes!
Dr Ramani is so discerning and crystal clear in her descriptions and definitions! This is one of the most concise and precise descriptions of these conditions you will ever hear explained!
I learned something here and thanks, but have question, think it cud be true lack of empathy, love can have these same effects, can see possibilities for effective treatments for not inconsiderable numbers of humanbeans
Totally agree
What an amazng professor she must be!
Agree!
I won't say you to trust me on this but there are many videos which explains like she did. Even better then her too. I think people loved her including me because of the way she talks. She clearly is passionate and loves to explain.
Btw I encountered only one video in TH-cam about mental disorders that what effing irritating. Nothing i learnt from it. Only ads.
I never met a narcissist that was sorry for the damage they cause.
If they were sorry, they wouldn't be narcissists because being sorry makes people change
If you knew both, the difference between them is obvious. The non-sociopath narcissist (NSN) is strictly manipulative to get what they want from you. Yes, they may hurt you in the process, but that was not the goal . The sociopath enjoys putting you in pain even if it doesn’t benefit them in any way. My NSN mother will never apologize, but noticeably tries to defend her actions not just to others, but to herself. If she does something objectively bad and called out on it, she may acknowledge it is bad but blame others… or fall back to a demented reality where it didn’t happen that way. Her dementor stays the same as she is always the victim. My sociopath sister will pretend to be innocent at first, but then if called out she will completely change her demeanor and be like “yea, I did that and you deserve it”. Like she caused my 5 yr olds first (and last) planned birthday party to be cancelled a few years ago and make excuses but when I said “If you are doing this to my child to get back at me, you are evil” she didn’t deny it. She was offended that I call her evil. Years before, She demanded that I apologize to her for having a miscarriage after accusing me of faking it. Where my NSN mother didn’t support me at that time (and may have been happy since she hates my husband), she at least tries to make the reasons she treats me poorly sound reasonable if said out loud. My sister didn’t care. Where I know my narcissist mother would probably try to save me if hanging from a cliff (so I could owe her the rest of my life), I think my sister would just push me and savor that moment in her memory.
Some narcissists will feign remorse (or empathy even) as a manipulation tactic to keep you close. The ones who lack it altogether (Psycho/Sociopaths) can learn it like a skill if it gives them an advantage... But to your point, they don't typically give sincere apologies, if any. They make excuses, gaslight, blame others to avoid accountability. Only sorry they got caught.
Exactly. In fact they always have someone they can blame for it
That explains our politicians, leaders and the elite in general.
I'd say those characteristics are prerequisites to getting the job. They are anesthetized to an endless national debt to get their way.
No politician has made any effort the whistle on Jeffrey Epstein.
It explains many poor people too. There's no stereotypes.
This isn’t about political things. It’s about any person.
Ha Ha Ha
Eric sewer-well, Schiff, HRC, AOC, SO, SO, MANY MORE.
Dr. Ramani: *intellectually talking*
Interviewer: "😟😖😨😵😰🙂"
David Allen Sonnier wow you guys are great
So true 😆😆😆😆
Very informative I enjoy your work
give it a rest all of you. Would any young woman date a potential schmuck like that\? Probably not. Who cares what kind of interviewer he is. She just needs the question and provides the answers as we know it so far. Everybody talks about boundaries; she's got great boundaries and I was seriously interested in the topic because I ran into one or two seriously twisted people in my life and was too stupid to recognize it, so I listened.
Yea but I didn’t find it very puzzling because I am a sociopath so I understand it
The statement "They will dispose of you if you get in their way" sent chills down my spine.
My sister has done it after 17 years of stealing and put her in a home and she died in 2 weeks from inability to want to live eat begged to go back home. She stole her property and real-estate and got rid of her for money. Then came to Missouri from doing that in California and killed and abused my mother 4 year's as go. Just sitting there at lunch after her death a few weeks later she said matter of factly that quote...::"I'm so glad I finally got rid of that f...g bitch. She gave away my favorite jacket in 7th grade. I hated her and I'm glad she's gone".
She's bullied my 91 year old engineering degreed father out of the entire estate. Displaced my sister with a legal eviction from the home my dad gave her Dani, Cathy's the sociopath.. she put her and her little children in the street so she aquire Danis house and spend the last seven years remodeling it for herself and paying an enormous mortgage not allowing any occupation in her new acquisition. It sits empty. She then while throwing me out of my dad's house by way of his limited POA. Puts me in a dump. I'm on disability and no income so she can TAKE my room and force her way nto their home and proceed to bully and demand signatures for POA and illegally take advantage and put ownership of all assets my dad's million plus engineering firm@ all real-estate. Jewelry all my mom's belongings everything they own and keep it from 5 other children. She beat me to a pulp the l a st time I went to visit my father in HIS HOME and blocks everyone from him receiving phone calls quests children siblings. Completely isolating him and monitoring him. Took his credit cards wallet checking accounts all monies put everything in her name well aware she never once attended college or held a job in her entire life. She feels entitles to the elders in our family's complete and total assets and complete control and will kill whomever is in her way. I adventually got s 2 story s townhouse. Before she moved back into my room she briefly had an apartment for 8 months. After that moved into my 2nd bedroom and begged to stay there temporarily. She then attempted to take over my leased home@ berate me mercilessly say and night@ yell scream ignore to the point of terror for me. She then took my phone, over an incident, ran to the top of the stairs, she refused to give me my phone and I ran upside reached briefly for my phone and she deliberately pushed me down a flight of my stairs. Police were called and she said IA horrendous lie that I was att a cking her and I fell down the stairs on my own.
Please someone help me? I'm in danger. I need legal help I need protection. I need representation. I need help. She's trying to get my dad's home now and put him somewhere. I get no answer at the doors. There's a lot more evil m illegal things she's done and is doing. I am begging for help!!!!!
@@debradesanto6946 nope
My ex threatened to make me disappear all the time ... if I displeased him he made something that was my favorite or that i had sentimental attachment to disappear to make his point.
Thank you for clarifying that. I was victim of a sociopath. But managed to stay alive. God helped me. Dangerous people with zero remorse
The comment about "white collar" is so true. I'm 4+ years into lawsuits against the psycho/socio attorney who took advantage of my wealthy elderly mother in the final years of her life. After she passed, his explanation of estate plan basically went like this "I knew you mother better than any of you, you'll get what we give you and you'll like it. If you don't like it, get a lawyer and try to sue the trust." So in Feb 2019 I got an attorney and after years of hard work and $100k's spent, we are close to having him convicted of fraud for stealing nearly $1M from our family. The guy has no remorse and continues to do everything in his power to abuse and stall due process in the court system. What's really messed up is my family isn't the first to sue him! There was an article written in Forbes in the early 2000's about him being sued by another family, yet the nationwide law firm he works for continues to keep him on staff because he's charming and a good earner. It makes me want to throw up.
So sad. But I like to thank you very much for fighting and not putting up with their evil bs. My grandfather had back surgery but the Dr got tired or something and stopped half way through. Which lead to my grandpa never walking again. My grandmother at the time tried talking to a lawyer or someone about the case and mentioned it would take 100s of thousands of dollars just to try and sue.. now this was probably 10 years ago now and from my grandmother's words .. so I might be off with a few things but I believe her.. thank you again for fighting for the little guys 🤠✌🏼
My condolences to your mother too!
Just scumbags
That law firm must be full of his type. Oh I must add there is a word for that lot; shysters.
@@milkoansah-johnson8768 Lawyers are in the top ten professions for psychopaths. Others are: surgeons, police, CEO, clergy, government beaurocrats, media, sales, chefs.
That was perfectly explained. I spent 4 years in college studying this stuff and she explained it in 10 minutes 💯
Wowwwwwwwwww your brain be wired slow bro.
@@ruzziasht349 doesn't mean that he's slow. These topics are taught continuously and repeatedly in any psychology major.
@@ruzziasht349 Dude, the first word of your channel's name means donkey in Arabic. Congrats!
@@jaddoughmen3759 The M142 High Mobility Artillery Rocket System (HIMARS) is a light multiple rocket launcher that kills many RuSSians on a daily basis! I love it!!!! Himar is donkey in Arabic not Himars - I'm guessing you have a sub 80 IQ.
@@becauseican5821 You be slooooooooow too!
She could talk for hours on this topic and I believe it would be informative.
it is very informative. it’s important to raise awareness on these types of people. they’re dangerous and all around us
I don’t know why these things are so interesting to me like murders and crime and such. It’s all just so interesting to me and I don’t know why lol
Layne Carper that’s not tru. Not all of them are dangerous. Just because they have the diagnosis doesn’t mean they’ll cause mayhem. That’s another misconception about them. More often than not they mind their own business.
i got an ad abt a woman who talks abt chimpanzees and i thought you were talkin abt her and then remembered that im watching a vid
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Now I understand why my ex husband was diagnosed psychopath and narcissistic. I still struggle to grasp every little abuse that I went through because of his mental disorders but I did a lot of progress these past two months
You sure know how to choose them, eh?
Although never diagnosed, I know as I breathe that my ex is a psychopath/narcissist. Tried to kill me, he never felt emotions, ever.
@Daniel-oe9si For the future, try not to respond to something you know nothing about. My circumstances, my experiences. Try being 6 mths pregnant on a waterbed and being held down while having the life choked out of you….yes honey, that’s a psychopath. So unless your sister beat you or something, you’re not healthy.
Way to go! Hang in there
I wished i never read the comments, now I'm bothered by a lot of things in the video
Right 😂
Same lmao
Congratulations 🎊 😜 😜
The low clock?
LOL
So it seems like a narcissist is just full of themselves but they have emotions. A psychopath is born with no emotions and learns to act like a normal person and a sociopath is a normal person that learns to act like a "psychopath".
Christian C., narcissists are over obsessed with receiving praise, sociopaths are just empathy-less and wanna dominate ppl.
Narcissists have emotions when it comes to themselves but dont feel empathy for others
@@allyjay7395 They actually get high when they destroy others live.
@@Polymath9000 factz
@@allyjay7395 I have a daughter-in-law like this.
Dr Ramani is really great. Her explanations are completely spot on, clear and easy to understand. Thanks.
SleepWoke, Too bad he seemed fake or very uninterested.
Wow...either that dude is really dumb...or he thinks that his audience is!!!
Text book psychopath!
Yes she is,se my self in her ;))
NOT her!
This video made it very clear to me: my ex was a psychopath and not a narcissist.
No you got it wrong. She said all psychopaths are narcissists. But not all narcissists are psychopaths.
I didn't see the interviewer as being fake, but more like being overly expressive with a childlike curiosity and fascination, but with a low awareness of how he comes across.
I have to agree with this statement.
@DT Undercover Too far.
I mean, there’s no thing to argue with how the man inquire or how he talks, but in my opinion, he just want to elaborate the topic for the viewers to absorb the topic articulately. There shouldn’t be hate here. Besides, that’s his expression and humans have different expressions too. Perhaps, it’s just their emotions who make them to dislike him.
@DT Undercover Asperger’s syndrome is a type of autism that starts from the early age of an individual and in his case, he is just REALLY entertained naïvely from what he is absorbing.
@DT Undercover I reckon that you need some tough enlightenment. You have still a lot of time to absorb knowledge from anyone. From your point of your brother being moderately autistic can be a true if he is just two years old or less but proving that the interviewer has Aspie is a false accusation because according to such particular studies that autism or any kind of autism cannot be obtained during adulthood, if it is developed, then it is a rare case.
This is an argument also, and ad hominem is for the weakest people who can’t prove their point right.
She explained the difference between each mental disorder very well.
Those are actually personality disorder not mental disorder.
@@XDR2201 Excellent point!
Jessica Cartas Thx. This is the reason why when they are arrested. They have to receive punishment. They will not be sent to mental hospital or mental asylum.
@@XDR2201 Personality Disorders are a type of mental disorder
@Cristian Ivanescu that women lies and rips people off for a living and no proof of any of it and it just labels bad or good behavior and act like sex organs makes a difference so no she is very wrong
It's the editing. It shouldn't cut to him as much. An interview is about the person talking, the audience doesn't need to see the interviewer or reactions. It's distracting and unintentionally makes it comical. Not mention the wide shot is super awkward because they're a mile away.
Spot on.
He probably see himself in the descriptions given🤭
I accept the questions given by the person but the reactions are sometimes unneeded
"unintentionally makes it comical"
I couldn't help but laugh because you're totally right
He craves attention. Guy wants his E- Fame lol
I can really relate to the struggle against the confusing mind games of a narcissist. It's like walking through a maze where the walls keep shifting. Your story resonates deeply because, like you, I felt so isolated, doubting my own reality, as if my confidence was slipping through my fingers.
It really annoys me how the interviewer is cutting her off like dude LET HER TALK jesus
Yea she was annoyed at his interruptions: (see her concealed anger at 6:15)
Kristyn I just noticed this too!!!
He nearly spoke
@Florence Lyn: Gurl u r so cute.
Narcissist?
My ex wife was either a psycho or narcissist. Someone who couldn't see past herself. She would bait me into arguments until I realised she enjoyed hurting me. She later moved into another phase where she slept around and so forth. I chose to ignore her antics. We finally found a good marriage counsellor who knew how to deal with her. My exe decided to end the marriage. In her eyes all that transpired was my fault and I had kidnapped the kids. She took all our savings because she thought she deserved it and I inherited the kids. I got the better part of the deal even though I worked three jobs to care for them and pay for their education. The best thing that came out of this disaster was a painful rearrangement of my priorities. Wealth, house etc come second to kids and family. Today I'm very close to my kids even though they're grown up and have left home. They are professionals in their chosen fields and successful in life.
was she a woman, just guessing?
Edit for anyone replying: y'all just dont get the fuckin joke, do you?
@@abhaysingh-lg2cr Bruh moment
Judging by how this psychiatrist keep blaming fathers for behaviors and not once mentioned women, I'm guessing she would blame you lmao
Most of the time women will get borderline personality disorder diagnostics. It's kind of the feminine equivalent of the narcissistic personality.
Eternal victims of everything, while antogonizing those who surround them. These personalities are really hard to "enjoy".
You must draw a hard line with them and stick to it, or they will eat you up! They can't help it, but they're social vampires.
Good for you, life must be so much better now.
I would’ve booted her out
Just adding my 2 cents here, but I think a psychopath's greatest weapon is society's unwillingness to believe he / she is capable of being that way (ex: "Oh, she's SO sweet and friendly; how could anyone accuse her of murder?"). I think this is especially true if the psychopath is young, attractive, female, disabled, or elderly, or holds a trusted position such as a law enforcement worker or a medical worker.
Man, a lot of women are disabled because of car accidents when they are young. After they become disabled, they want to be attractive because they need energy and they cannot afford to look sloppy and untidy. Old psychopaths are dangerous, too. Why are you so attracted to young attractive women and imagine that they are killers? Old people could be sweet and friendly. Men are ugly and rough. I don't think that means that men are safer to be with. Attractive men, old men, rough men kill people, too, especially they kill women.
That's bc they're Sneaky, seem normal, but they do a lot of 'thinking' & planning.
@@learningenglishthroughtran8540 I agree but they also go for boys and men they can Control.
And hella rich or hella famous.
I agree!
Can we get a diagnosis for displaying obviously fake, exaggerated emotional reactions in response to every word out of someone's mouth?
basically Americans lol
Are you referring to Kyle the host?
he's just nervous
Yes. That would be acting. Were you thinking that these people did not know they were on camera and had an audience?
Watch for if someone talks differently to some people than he does others. Watch if someone can easily get other people to do things for them without any authority. Watch if someone is hyper dominant. Watch if you start getting a slight resentment towards someone and you find yourself talking yourself out of avoiding them. Watch if someone mentions violence while they’re not in a fit of rage. Watch the eyes man, if you’re talking about something emotional and they’re sitting there looking like they’re just thinking without much of an expression and their comments get a slightly question like tone then it could they’re faking it til they make it and are analyzing you.
Obviously if someone does a few of these it doesn’t automatically mean sociopath. It’s honestly really hard to spot one immediately, especially in the moment. It’s usually about trusting your gut feeling and genuinely considering this when you look back on someone. You really want to spot a sociopath and especially a psychopath in your life before they make it clear and they will. They work by moving from group to group, environment to environment. They’ll stay somewhere for a while but eventually they’ll be found out and move, leaving everyone fucked over. This is hard cause sometimes these people will figure out what you need and make you feel good. All you have is a gut feeling and honest analysis
I could listen to Dr. RD forever. She is so clear.
Clearly biased against men
@@cansee0 Wtf? She wasn't man bashing.
@@cansee0 stfu
Linda Storm,You are absolutely gorgeous 🌹🌹🌷🌺,hope you are not with a narc 😈!!
@@cansee0 nah just be smart
Let’s take a moment to appreciate how well-spoken this woman is, she presents her ideas in such a beautiful way and is so clear and certain.
Edit:
I appear to have been misconstrued in several ways and would like to clarify that the nature of my comment was purely complimentary and was not intended to be condescending. I was simply acknowledging how this individual speaks with such clarity. I am not familiar with her work outside of this video and thus apologies for any references that may have unintentionally been made. The race and gender of this person also had nothing to do with my comment, and I will continue to stand by that. Besides, I am only fourteen, and do not intend what-so-ever to offend people with my words, I am simply making a simple compliment on the nature of her speech. Finally, I was not referring to the validity of the claims, I was referring to the verbal cohesion of her ideas. I hope this helps
Exactly my thoughts, I really admire her. I wish I could talk to her.
She posts on the Internet and makes public speeches about her wish of killing all white people whit her own hands. Do some research and you will find she is a sick racist.
STRANGELY, IN THE UK SUCH A PERSON SOUNDS LIKE A PAKISTANI BUT IN THE USA THEY SOUND LIKE AN AMERICAN. CURIOUS.
this woman promotes covID govt narrative
The dude is really annoying though. I understand they must cut and edit the video to make it all flow, but I'd definitely prefer close/far framing and no other sounds then her voice
In my psychiatry subject, I have not understood about all these matters, but now, I could say that I'm learning eveytime I watch this channel with C.P. Ramini. She emphasizes the difference between disorders (mood, personality, social, etc.). I like her. It shocks me everytime, I wish she was my professor in my psychiatric nursing. 👍
Interviewer interrupted Dr Ramani multiple times while she was saying something interesting. Questionable interview style in my opinion.
omg ikr ,,,,=^oo^=,,,, the way he sits too, he thinks hes alpha male..hes a douche bag
LOL this guys mocking her with his reactions
Exactly!!!! It was annoying!
UstedTubo187 ya he sucks
anotherkat4u 👀👀👀
yeah..but he was cute
I had never seen a clock hanging at waist level before. Now I have
How does that make you feel?
🤣😂
Lol now i feel the same😂😂😂
seppet0ni stop I thought the same !!
I hang it in my house the same way. It’s for the sake of little kids at age of 4 or 5 , to see with better view
Damn yall are so harsh on the interviewer bruh let him live😂
Thank you Dr Ramani you’re brilliant as always!
theyre hating on his acial expressions yet im here making the same ones.
watch the clock in a weird place behind her- they're not using his reaction shots to help edits, they're for his vanity, & they suck. I had to go audio-only.
he's one of these dumb-down dicks, even if he is actually listening.
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He has a bunch of questions if he doesn't say it right then he'll forget 😂
No, this man has one job to do, gather information from the women about the topic at hand. He's doing a poor job at it and needs to improve.
Wow! That all makes perfect sense to me. I was adopted to my evil aunt. She showed symptoms at the age of 8 when my birth mother was born. I was the family scapegoat, my twin brothers the golden children, my adopted dad the enabler. Narcissist never seemed to go far enough for me. My youngest son had difficulties throughout childhood. I finally linked my son's behavior to my adopted mother. I am definately an empath, a sensitive, intuitive. Apparently it skips generations. I always felt like I was surrounded by crazy people, and I was.
This interviewer needs to let her speak and explain further without interrupting just to ask a simple question which isn’t relative
He must dominate her.
Paul Kambanga when you put it like that it’s understandable
Just as she was getting to the nitty gritty he'd interrupt and bring it back to him in some way.
@@paulkambanga7201 Well, hey's gay so...
Yup, just rephrases what she says :p
I feel like the interviewer lowkey freaking out cuz he knows he’s a narcissist
Paulie Luce hell yeah I thought the same. Lmao
😂😂😂
😂
HAHAHHA EXACTLY
Very true such an annoying person he is
I feel like the interviewer is trying to mask something with his overly exaggerated mannerisms. The doctor must have placed him in at least one of the three diagnosis.
mustafa There was another video about this 😂 No he’s not any of these lol
I feel like he's acting as if he has never heard an intelligent woman speak before in his life.
No the guy is not a Psychologist of course he'll ask questions with his body language?
He might it be a psychopath but he’s definitely an attention seeking mild narcissist.
Man shut up
Thank you so much for this video. It’s on point 100%. This is a great content. Dr. Ramani Durvasula does an amazing job explaining the differences between a psychopath, sociopath and a narcissist. She really did hit the bullseye in a way that was clear to understand. What an amazing job. Thank you MedCircle for having her on here. May you all be blessed more than you already are.
The irony is that all the people calling the interviewer dumb are the reason he had to ask the “dumb” questions. You all think you’re super smart, but really he was just trying to prompt her to clear up common misconceptions, as a good interviewer does.
If you already knew the answer to everything he asked, good for you. Maybe this video isn’t for you.
people are calling him dumb because of his stupid facial expressions
i was thinking maybe all the nasty commenters calling him down should be labeled with one of the 3 labels :) lol
people have the right to have opinions,that doesn't make the sociopaths,psychopaths or narcissists.
You are a special kind of stupid. Sure we came here to learn but are you fucking kidding me-“ClaRificatIon nOt liKe pEts oR dOgs”. Ya no shit. And also she spent like 3 minutes explaining how a psychopath doesn’t get stressed when doing something wrong, and then the dumbass in blue states; Soo, dO tHey geT stRessEd”? WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU MEAN??? He’s a fucking idiot.
Learn what Irony means.
The clock behind her is at the weirdest low spot on the wall 🤨
Doomsday?
Now I can’t stop looking at that
😂 😂 😂 😂
Had to minimize the browser after ~1 min, what kind of savage would hang a clock that low on the wall? Its like hanging a carpet on the ceiling, fucking bizarro world.
lj033 LOOOL 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 this person!!
I wish I had this woman as my teacher when I was a kid.
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The host ruined it for me
@@AdamThoba2 EXACTLY - SHE IS TALKING WITHOUT TRYING TO UNDERSTAND WHAT PEOPLE IN THIS ENVIRONMENT NEED. SHE IS TALKING PURELY FROM HER POINT OF VIEW AND WHAT SHE NEEDS . SHE IS SAYING SCREW THE STUDENT AND EVERYONE ELSE IS SAYING - SCREW THIS UNFOCUSED RAMBLING PIN HEAD. FOR A GENERALIZED DESCRIPTION SEE - DR ROBERT HARE. HE WAS THE FIRST TO DEFINE THE PROBLEM IN A WAY THAT THE AVERAGE PERSON COULD UNDERSTAND IT AND NEEDS TO UNDERSTAND IT. I DO NOT FIND ANYTHING SHE HAS TO SAY IS WORTH STUDING OR WORTH KNOWING. AFTERALL - SHAKESPEARE HAD SEVERAL CHARACTERS IN HIS PLAYS THAT PRESENTED THE INFO THE AVERAGE PERSON NEEDS. THIS WOMAN HAS HER OWN FULL CATALOG OF PERSONALITY DISORDERS.
@@thatguy-art6229 you are very perceptive
I wish she was my mom
to me the most fascinating part is in the lack of arousal - if an anti social personality cannot be aroused in terms of the various emotions you describe - how can they achieve the peak experiences we all seek? if a persona can't feel - what lengths do they have to go to to find something enjoying?
God I love listening to this lady talk!!! She’s so intelligent and informative. So interesting.
yeah but we all know what you really want to do...
@@jaimhaas5170 I'm gay
@@scottjharris so then you want to noodle the interviewer...all good on my end Scott. I always say why stand in the way of love. :)
@@mnstark3342 all night long!
@@jaimhaas5170 haha yeh all the way
Why do we have to see his reaction every two seconds wtf
Lolololol
Ikr it's so awk
Yeah his reactions were over exaggerated and just a bit silly
Because he’s all 3
@@robbiewilkins5353 OMG
😂
It took me 12 years to finally confirm my wife was a narcissist and she was having an affair. Needless to say I was double devestated. Devestated my wife was unfaithful and devestated the woman I loved was never real. It literally was like she died, I grieved accordingly
Oh my god man
May God bless you. I am sorry you had to go through all that.
Be glad it came to light now. Not later.
How was her character, how was she acting?
I'm so sorry for you mate. I went through the same nightmare. It is devastating
Makes so much sense. Psycho is born, socio is created .
The antisocial personality; I displayed all of the behaviors she described as a young boy. I skipped school, was angry & violent towards others, I stole & had a fascination with fire too. I was on Ritalin for having ADHD and another drug called melaril which I didn't realize until just recently is an antipsychosis medication. All of this before I was even 13. I lived in a boys home for over 4 years because I was a troubled youth. But I thank my mom for seeing the signs early enough & having the courage & ability to get me help before I could have done something horrible.
How are you doing these days? Taking those drugs at such a young age, I wonder, do you use any drugs at all now? Recreational or prescribed?
So basically you were born a psychopath. I pray all is well with you and your family.
It took me until the age of 30 to realize my behavior was outside the norm. I grew up with a father that displayed psychopathic traits, except for anything relating to crime. My mother has a good idea of my fearlessness, like inserting broken glass into my nose at the age of 4 (thankfully she removed it and nothing bad happened) and my violent behavior towards animals and other kids when I was still in primary school. Fast forward to today and I‘ve had lifelong problems, like relating to people and inconsistencies in school and work. I‘ve been talking with two psychologists about this. The second psychologist thinks I might have a personality disorder. She told me that after just one visit. Personality disorder or not, I just want to get some closure to help me understand my way of thinking.
@@CallMeNevermore When I was in my 20s and 30s, I was too proud to admit I had a problem. Now, I'm middle-aged and more reflective, I can admit my condition was at least partially responsible for a car-crash of a life. I wish I had a more normal life, but it's too late now.
Ya know whatss funny. Assumption is everywhere. Ass u me. My relationship with my soul mate was destroyed by him. A tyrant
I love how engaging she is. It's like I'm sitting in the room with her.
Sexy smart.
This video tells us the basic difference between a narcissist, psychopath and sociopath. A psychopath kills or commits a crime without sympathy because of their lack of emotion to understand and feel what the crime they commit leads to and what the consequences will be, they just don't care what happens whereas sociopaths are made because of the conditions of their surroundings or an incident which occurred in their childhood which had an impact on them and changed them into having no emotions or empathy. However a narcissist is someone who tends to do bad things but they feel shame and guilt after doing things like that, they don't want to look bad in society and lower their self esteem. Dr. Ramani explains these differences very well with simple examples. The interviewer could have been better. All in all it was a very informative video.
@cak01vej Maybe not higher IQ, but with no emotions in the way it makes it easier to do certain choices which could make them seem more intelligent. Someone that reacts from their emotions can do some really stupid stuff because they are not thinking clearly.
Sociopaths do have empathy however it is very minimal compared to a person deemed normal.
@Fragya 73 Whoa!
@Fragya 73 lol. You seem like either a troll or a psychopath based on your replies to a simple comment like mine or a "whoah". I'd rather not engage you but your next reply will tell me everything I need to know.
@Fragya 73 I would honestly appreciate it if you explained why his statement is wrong because I agree with what he says and would apreciate knowing if this affirmation is wrong
EXCELLENT She is so knowledgable - the best I have ever seen on this subject and he is a great interviewer and does NOT interrupt her! STELLAR interview. Kimberly
I was a mental health RN for 17 years, 7 years in Forensic psychiatry. Dr. Ramani is spot on, and explains things quite well.
@Starscream91 she's simply establishing credibility towards doctor Romani since Mary comes from the same discourse community.
Besides, within those "mere" years she was probably the best nurse you could have ever seen.
Go back to school kiddo.
@Starscream91 "most nursing students have a weak IQ"........ Best idiotic comment of 2018. I'm done talking to you.
@@Jramos93: The nursing test is a very Tough test and Nursing is a very hard Job. Anyone who can pass the test and work the long Hours deserves Respect. I don't know what people like starscream get out of putting people down.
actually she's stating a lot of misconception and throwing out cognitive development. Also she's not emphasizing logic and prompting emotional reaction as a non antisocial behavior. Anti-social behavior are often exhibited by emotionally rooted behavior even if it is not apparently/physically portrayed. She also describes empathy based on a wildly refuted idea of empathy. Her idea of empathy is sympathy not empathy. Also her idea of sociopathic behavior does not take into context of a person's situation, especially poverty and other factors. Her generalization reminds me of a 3rd rate psychologist that practice clinical therapy not cognitive therapy or more advance and detail analysis.
Lol this comment. This tells me more about you than about nurses.
1) School is not the same as IQ.
2) School/high school/college is a privilege so please don't throw it around like it's a persons choice.
3) School is not the same as education.
4) For a person to be good at psychology, why are we even talking about IQ, how about EQ?
So yes, this comment is in my opinion a very short-sighted comment.
So I recommend to use all those school years and all the knowledge to just look a little further.
I feel like I was well on my way to becoming a sociopath in high school. Exactly like she says in the video, I was hanging around with the wrong kids because I was being bullied by the other kids. I was becoming more and more careless, emotionless and wreckless. I truly never saw myself becoming a normal member of society. I saw myself becoming a criminal. And I was completely okay with it because my numbness and carelessness shaped me into a pretty good thug. I also truly believed I wouldn't live to see 40 years old, and I was completely okay with that. I didn't give a shit. And I loved not giving a shit. I felt powerful, like the world was mine.
Then I met my girlfriend at the last year of high school and over the course of two years, she changed my life. I cared for her a lot. And she cared for me. And this shaped the way for me to care more about myself and others as well. We've been together for 11 years now and my life has changed completely. Got a stable job which I love, a house and I spend every day with the love of my life. I'm truly alive now.
However, I still feel like I'm always just an inch away from my old life. It still haunts me. And I hope it will never come to that again.
Bro.... You know that feeling that you're an inch away from the old you???? Yea, your girl feels that and she loves you because you have it and it's dormant
@@varrvarrworldboxing7913 Constatly dude. Every day I feel like I'm just one small step away from breaking down again. Hasn't happened yet though, just gotta keep on going dude.
@@Avio033 Familiar with the feeling, its not even worth it. Keep building character bro
@@varrvarrworldboxing7913 exactly. If it happens, it happens. It will be shot, but I got over it once and will recover again. Just gotta live our best lifes bro
Cry out to Jesus, He is able to sympathize with our weakness and save us from destruction.
Shane should’ve interviewed this Dr. Instead of the lady he interviewed about sociopaths
ikr
The lady he interviewed is qualified it's just that she was being very casual and dramatic so it didn't come across as professional at all so people doubt her information.
Lolli Pop some of the stuff she said was different than this doctor though
Lolli Pop i watch her and she is not qualified in that area since she is marriage councilor who also works with patients with eating disorders only
Omg 😂😂 shane
If every psychopath is also a narcissist, can the same they said about sociopaths?
Dr. Ramani is so empowering.
Wow. That was the best explanation I've heard regarding psychopath vs. sociopath. Fascinating.
Dr. Ramani: Good morning.
Interviewer: WOOOOOOwww
ROFL!
Ok it wasn’t just me I commented that too... he is so overly dramatic
for real 😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
lol
I absolutely love her! You can tell that she really enjoys what she does, she seems to really enjoy teaching it. And the fact that she breaks everything down so well so othes can understand is amazing!
She’s amazing.
My ex is obsessed with narcissism. The irony is, she applies her “therories” to everyone else but herself. She can’t apply her “rules” to herself.
It’s awful to hear her train of thought and logic.
She’d say “a narcissist constantly accuses everyone else of being narcissistic.”
I then point out that she is CONSTANTLY seeing narcissism everywhere, ergo, by her logic, she is narcissistic.
She then accuses me of accusing her of being narcissistic, which in her mind makes me narcissistic (which is her claim in the first place).
So many examples like this. She creates rules and moral laws and immediately exempts herself from them, but still applies then to everyone else.
That is the problem with this whole subject. It becomes an excuse to hide your own flaws and to avoid personal responsibility for the role you play in things. It has become all the rage in today's society and it is barely understood by these people who love to toss the term around without any discretion. EVERYONE has narcissistic traits naturally and it is only problematic when it is deep narcissism or when it is paired with psychopathy. Other than that it is a useless thing to focus on because people misapply it and hide behind it to avoid accountability in their lives. Sick people use it to excuse their own behavior and demonize others far too much.
This Dr. here is one who has made a lot of videos on the subject without really explaining it as a natural phenomenon that is found in healthy people just as much as it is in others. They exploit the craze and trend without making things clear enough for it to be a practical understanding. It leads to this mess and I hate the way it has become so convoluted and meaningless as a term. It has gotten way out of hand and when I hear someone constantly identifying others as narcissistic it is a red flag that they have some deep core issues and I should stay away because they are the pot calling the kettle black most of the time.
she uses word salad on you
The guys attitude seems like he’s hearing the craziest, most fascinating thing ever. It makes the condition seem more unusual and strange. Very off putting and almost kind of offensive
Maybe the information is new to him
He’s acting very unnaturally because he’s uncomfortable. As my dad who is a trained psychologist said when I showed him “I would tentatively diagnose this man as a grandiose narcissist at least, perhaps bordering on sociopathy based on these interactions alone.”
Wtf. It is Unusual AND Strange.
Please before you reply do a bit of reading or perhaps get a GED
@@maxlewis7833 Who you being rude for no reason to? Me? If so... ahem...
I can always get a GED.
You’ll always look like a Neanderthal got bonked over the head with the ugly club a few too many times.
This is so, so good... but why does he keep interrupting her??
Hi Klein. Nice to meet you. I did enjoy it (see above: " This is so, so good" ). I was just confused why the interviewer kept interrupting her mid-explanation. I was wondering if anyone knew the reason. Was this a certain kind of interview? Was this a show with a personality I was unfamiliar with etc? It eventually became really distracting and appeared to annoy the psychologist as well (see 6:15 for instance).
@Klein Bottle Maybe, but saying "why don't stop whining" doesn't sound like a very calm or polite reply either. And I agreed this is a very interesting subject and she explains it in a way that is easy to understand but is distracting to sed him interrupt her to the point she looks annoyed like at 6:14.
@Klein Bottle I am Alex Dorian. Lol and such a "nice" reply, I guess you are not a good person either =P
@Klein Bottle Lol there is no private conversations on the comment section of a video. If you post people are going to reply to you even if you don't like it xD
But I congratulate you for making an less angry reply this time Now you can be more of a good person =D
@Klein Bottle haha what is wrong with you? No offense.what is going on in your head? 😂🤣😅
I have been studying these antisocial behaviour types for a while. I agree with what Dr. Ramani says. However, I observed that most of us have a sociopathic element inside us. In many people we possess the ability to turn off our empathy if we need to. It enables us to kill in war and conflicts or when we go hunting for food. With a full sociopath, the on/off empathy switch tends to get stuck in the off position at inappropriate times.
The world 100% needs psychopaths!, they tend to be bomb disposal experts, fighter jet pilots & the likes due to the lack of fear. Not all psychopaths are 'bad' people. A very negative & one sided explanation.
Yeah.... I sometimes feel like ima Sociopath
Always wondered about myself being a sociopath because I could turn off my empathy towards those I came to hate. They could've even once been close friends or family members...
Can you unlearn it?
I Agree! And just watching videos of Adults Bullying and Abusing others Emotionally & Mentally is Proof that there are a Lot of people who have diseased-minds! More adults & children are committing more crimes today, more than Ever! And despite the fact that Blacks have Dwelled on centuries-old Slavery, BLM, retaliating against Whites, etc Demanding more attention, More-Crimes have been committed by Blacks than any other race! WTH is going on with people's Paranoia, Hateful & Dangerous Behaviors & Attitudes? In what categories would people fit into? 😳😰😢
Yes but you are referring to acute traits, not conditions.
0.45 - "a narcissist is constantly seeking validation". Cut to umpteenth needless midshot of interviewer nodding and preening.
Dr Ramani is onto you dude.
Stop showing the interviewers ridiculous expressions, it ruined the video
He is so irritating
Lmao I kept laughin when the camera showed his reactions 😂
Ikr showing his dumb reactions to what she was saying was so unnecessary. He has one of those, "Hey, punch me in the face", faces😂😂 Why sure,
here ya go👊👊👊👊
AGREE
Lok
Plot twist: This is not an interview, its an appointment. And Dr. Ramani is trying to explain to him what he got
"That's how you get shit done Dee"
"Noooo, that's how you get a diagnosis"
Best comment ever! 😂
Right?! He’s like my friend dated “this guy” for a year. It’s freaking him!
I got the same vibe with this guy. She is not as good as she thinks she is if she can't see what he is doing. He is playing to her ego and tries to learn from her how he can hide his disorders and better is manipilation skills He is doing a good job, she has got no clue!! LMAO!
Haha love that
Finally, an easy to understand definition of the difference between a narcissist, sociopath, and a psychopath. Way to go Dr. Ramani! 🔆
Everybody thinks their ex-romantic partner is a Narcissist. They aren't. Its actually incredibly rare. The more obvious explanation is that we are all a little bit Narcissistic - especially a person who claims that others are that way.
@@noahedelson3618 I hear you there Noah!! My ex has accused me of being narcissistic, and if that's not the kettle calling the pot black Idk what is!! Lol!
Narcissism explanation was good, but it fell apart after that. She kept reverting back to textbook information and not fully explaining what they are, then saying things that are true also in neuro-typicals.
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They are all symptoms. This is not a finality.
They just do it and just dont care. Thats exactly right. No amount of talking, pleading, negotiating, setting rules will change their behaviour. They will do what they want and are 100% change proof. For 2 years i tried to talk to gently change behaviour and only after 2 years did i find out none of it got through. They understand. But don't care. Its worse if they have hystrionics as well, the self pittying and pointing fingers to others whenever they get told off again is insufferable.
OK, but would've been better if the interviewer hadn't interrupted her amidst several of her explanations.
I enjoyed watching the two together, I thought they had good rapport and I did not notice the interruptions myself. Edit: Seems like you were not the only one bothered by his style though.
Too many pointless cuts to the guy. Is he a narcissist?
I'm convinced they just have 25 different reactions that they filmed on set and they just randomly splice one in every now and then.
I thought they were interesting interventions/questions, I found it made it more dynamic, just as an interview should be.
LOL 😂 you're funny! I'll sub!
duedah You don't know what a Narcissist is.
A Narcissist can think for himself but dominates those who can't think for themselves.
He's obviously not a Narcissist since he didn't know the difference.
Or maybe he’s a sociopath and pretended not to know. He definitely has something going on.
All I could think while watching this is "Stop. Interrupting. Her."
Seriously.....
Hush. He’s realizing that he has an experience or that he is one.
Likewise. That dude is woefully unfit as an interviewer and a massively obnoxious prick to look at.
Watching him was so irritating. Nothing he said had any substance for this video either.
Judging by this comment i can say you are an annoying ass son of a bitch who judges every one before em self
She’s so passionate about what she knows, and such a good communicator. I wonder what personal experience she has with this 😅
Gosh golly thanks to the interviewer for clearing up the PET scan confusion, I was about to head off to the hospital with my cat.
Ford Fairlane Or have your cat scan you 😜
lmao that interviewer is weird man
PET scans are awesome. They literally use antimatter (positrons are anti-electrons). :)
To get a CAT scan?
:D
"Every psychopath is narcissistic, but not every narcissist is a psychopath."
Very good.
That reminds me of saying here in my neck of the woods of France.
Toutes les chasseurs sont cons, mais toutes les cons ne sont pas chasseur.
It would be useful to know which column sadistic people fall into.
I'm Both ... LOL
@@ThePatriotPoet23 isn't something to be proud about
I'm a cynic. Do I have to go to physcotherapy, or worse?
My mother and her father are raging narcissists with a complete lack of empathy for anyone but themselves. It's hard to grow up along these people because they will make you feel like everything bad that is happening is somehow your fault even if you are not involved at all. The manipulation I went through is really hard to overcome but I'm getting better at recognizing what is actually my fault and things that just happen to happen to me.
Same here but know this about yourself, you learn those same behaviors from them. Learn to spot the characteristics and work on it because even if you don't become like they were it will effect your life. You cannot help but pick up the traits to some degree because you grew up in that household.
My mom same. I was vilified my entire childhood and most of my adulthood. It was cheaper to get a degree in psychology than pay for the therapy 😅 Mom “suffers” from narcissism and NONE of it is my fault. Same your you. Your folks are ill, and you are a victim of their illness. I hope you get the support you deserve. My heart goes out to you. Stay strong ❤
Same here.
The way i've kinda always thought about empathy is that its attached to your emotions understanding someone else isn't always attached to emotions.
I'd like to say something about sociopathy. I was diag. APD when I was around 13. Literally didn't give 2 shits about anything or anyone. Was cruel to others, didn't care much for animals though I didnt go out of my way to hurt them like Bundy etc. I was obsessed with serial killers. I could easily have killed people had it not been for the unwanted prison time. I never felt empathy or remorse only anger or dysphoria. Then something illegal happened, and I met a very capable think outside the box court ordered Mental health counselor who actually took the time to try and help. Over time and with a very unique approach I actually LEARNED empathy. Or more accurately I remembered it. As a former sociopath I started life fairly normal n happy. Then at about age 2 my family life detonated and had zero stability and grew up seeing violence and horrors no kid should see. So my brain responded by turning me into a little antisocial personality monster of sorts. Anyway, through hypnosis, talk therapy, touch therapy (animals etc) , and sensitization methods I slowly came back from it. The really odd thing (in a good way) is that I am now quite a sensitive person and have a deep love of animals, the planets wonders and even quite a few people. People were the hardest part, as I absolutely loathed my fellow man for so long. I only mention this because I think we as a society too easily wish to discard those we think of as "too broken" to fix. While I know I am probably a rare person that has been "cured" of a MH disorder most Psychiatrists would consider to be a terminally mentally ill variety I believe that is an unfortunate view. I believe others could benefit from therapy similar to what I benefitted from. It can take years, and the person has to be open to it. Has to want better for themselves but it is possible. It's a nurture vs nature thing and can be reversed. Unlike Autism it is a learned condition. Genetic predisposition aside, it isn't a must get or must live with thing either. I am now 12 years APD free and loving it. I am proud to be empathetic!🐶
I think you have an amazing and touching story 😊 I hope others like you can learn from it and try to get the help they need.
Please let me know more about this! My nephew is wildly dis functional and I am hoping that he can be reformed
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The key phrase here is that the person has to want to get better.
I hope stories like this are shared with more people.
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I wish he hadn't stopped her when she was about to explain what a sociopath would do differently from the psycopath her friend was dating.
Agreed... and it was all because he didn't know what empathy is.
I really wanted listen her explaining the real meaning of empathy....
i didn't even notice now I'm so curious about what she would've said
Its almost as if dating, courting and engagements evolved as a way to weed out all 3 personalities. Truly you don't know somebody until you know the worst things about them and it takes time.
Yes!
She explained it in a very impressive manner.. Indeed she has a strong grip over the topics
She's the leading expert on narcissism, psychopathy, and sociopathy; watching her speak on these topics is always a great experience. 💯 She's super intelligent, fascinating, and (of course) beautiful. She brings a lot of knowledge to the table! 📚🧠📚
OMG, this Dr. is AMAZING! No BS or waffle, just a straight forward explanation that is easy to understand. Thank you so much x
it's easy to understand because it isn't a very clinical or professional, she is giving a very inaccurate pop science description. there are a lot of falsehoods and misconceptions in what she is saying.
Absolutely correct 👏
@@Kushufy Your credentials?
@@garyowen3662 What about them?
Vvvv Eeee, You condemned her
explanations without nuance. I was
curious to know what training
and or licensing you had to back
up such a sweeping statement.
Specific points she was wrong on?
The best way I could summarize the cluster B PDs is:
A narcissist might be aware that they’re causing harm and might care a little but they’re incredibly self absorbed therefore will continue causing harm it if benefits them.
A sociopath is aware that they’re causing harm but does not care because circumstances outside themselves allowed them to develop an antipathetic attitude, therefore continue causing harm.
A psychopath is aware that they’re causing harm but does not care because circumstances WITHIN themselves- that is, a structural deficit in their brain- allowed them to develop an antipathetic attitude, therefore continue causing harm.
Great summary, thanks!
Anti-empathic*
Also, as with all things, there seems, based on the data and the nature of the tests ( some of which seem to have suspect biases, admittedly, regarding race, and other social/economic and circumstantial/situational factors ), to be a spectrum in the case of all three disorder types, ranging from borderline to the rare total and complete narc, sociopath or psychopath.
Sociopaths do not have empathy. All of them have exceptional cognitive empathy but zero emotional empathy. They are not the same thing. Cognitive empathy as Dr Ramani states allows then to sense their victims/targets wounds and vulnerabilities. All of them bar none use this ability for predatory purposes for the reason of exploitation.
Malignant Narcissists, Psychopaths and Sociopaths do not have emotional empathy, one of the core reasons being they failed to complete object relations which occurs at around age 3. This is when the child separates from the mother and learns he/she is an independent entity from the primary care giver. Prior to that all children think all others are extensions of themselves there to provide or frustrate them with them getting their needs met.
Completion of object relations leads to object constancy where the child is able to maintain an emotional connection to the mother/care giver even though the child may feel violated after being punished. Object relations and object constancy are the two core developmental stages that allow empathy to develop. Narcs, psychs and SP are unable to maintain this connection resulting in split thinking. They see others as either all good or all bad it's also referred to as black and white thinking. It's idealization and devaluation - if you discover you are in a relationship with one get out. None of them can be loved back into good health.
You are confusing both sociopaths and malignant Narcissists with psychopaths. Sociopaths are abnormally unempathetic, but it is a maladaptive conditioned response, and they are capable of limited empathy for small groups in their "inner circle". Malignant narcissists are also capable of empathy, Dr. Ramani even says so in this video, it's just, again, more limited than in a normal person, and it's pushed to the background of their own personal agenda, but they are not incapable of empathy.
Only total psychopaths are truly incapable of empathy. Lumping generic narcissists and even some sociopaths in with extreme psychopaths is the very type of all or nothing black or white reasoning you are saying those groups have.
Further, we know from ample studies that social ostracization is a severe form of emotional abuse with severe consequences, often worse than verbal or even moderate physical aggression and abuse; the average narcissist would also be highly susceptible/vulnerable to some of those abuse types, especially with their need for attention and validation; the same is true for people with borderline personality disorder, though in some ways that disorder is extremely different from narcissism. The only type of person who would not be hurt by ostracism and isolation is a full on complete psychopath because of their absolute lack of attachment ability and subsequent lack of capacity to form any type of meaningful relationship bond.
Also, again, all of these things come in degrees, as with everything else. There are normal people with some narcissistic tendencies ( most people ), there are severe narcissists, there are sociopaths, and then there are levels of true psychopath.
One also has to be careful to be situationally aware when trying to judge who does or doesn't have empathy. E.G., even normal people can have extremely diminished empathy in certain situations. Ordinary people can be very cruel and unempathetic under what we might call tribal conditions ( in example, the hatefullness ordinary people can show to those with extremely different ideologies, political views, theologies from their own, or to people whom they otherwise view as an antagonistic "other" ), and they can also be less empathetic than usual when in the heat of anger, in combative situations, or when they feel justified in their actions. Normal people can also behave unempathetically in certain "authorized" situations, as seen in the Milligan experiments. th-cam.com/video/JnYUl6wlBF4/w-d-xo.html
Unfortunately,
we as a culture are very guilty of the type of linear, black and white, saint or satanist, good or evil, all or nothing thinking that you described as a trait of narcissists etc. ( I would say a full psychopath probably doesn't think of anyone as good or bad, just useful or useless ). We are horrible at considering all the variables and complexities of the behavior of others. But only a very small percentage of people are true, total psychopaths, and putting anyone else in that category, anyone actually capable of at least some degree of empathy, and anyone who has at least some degree of normal need for human interaction and emotional attention ( including pretty much any narcissist who is not also a true psychopath ), is a form of demonizing; it is taking a seriously problematic person and pretending they are pure evil, so as to justify behaving with total apathy or cruelty towards them, and that is NOT good; it is exactly the way of lynch mobs ( who do atrocious things to "others", and, let's be real, not everyone in a lynch mob of hundreds can be a psychopath ), it is what leads to massive war crimes, it is how Hitler got entire legions of people ( again, it is not even remotely plausible that all of them were psychopaths ) to commit atrocious acts against other humans.
That guy’s facial expressions are so incredibly annoying. She’s great, but that guy 🤦🏽♀️ all his ‘wows’...
Hahahah 69
Wow.
you're a sociopath Kappa
Over acting 😀
It's either the guy's responses & questions being recorded separately & then just edited in badly... Or his "wows" and "a-Haaas" (or whatever other weird noises he makes - he looks like he's on drugs!) are just meant as subtle comic relief for a reasonably intense topic.
She Is so good to put it all in language we can understand
The interviewer´s overly dramatizing facial expressions is the most cringe ive ever seen .
Yes! That is exactly what he is doing!
Yes! I was thinking enough with those stupid facial expressions!😂🤣🤣
he looks like he's in WAY over his head here
Typical "psychopathic" trait.
phantras 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Every psychopath is narcissistic but not every narcissist is psychopathic! I love Dr. Ramani! She is so smart!!❤🛐
I can't believe this woman hasn't published a book about these particular conditions. She's PHENOMENAL. I'm curious to know how somebody who is high-functioning autistic is kept from getting mis-diagnosed as having ASPD, though.
Shes an author
Knowing what to look for. There are actually quite a few key differences. For instance, while autistic people may feel disconnected from those around us and have difficulty understanding and explaining our emotions, we don't lack empathy. While we process guilt differently, it isn't so much "we don't feel guilty" as "this person is upset, I must have done something wrong." In other words, we are more likely to assume guilt whether it was actually our fault or not.
Show's how much they know ... psychopath isn't even a word, lol i made it up, (it supposed to just be Sociopath) i used to say it as a kid and people would always tell me it's not a word and it was wrong ... but i always said it anyways, cause it sounded funny. PSYCHOpath (from the alfred hitchcock movie PSYCHO) i used to say that to people when they acted crazy to make fun of them lol. Now it's a actual word and thing. Hahaha
Just goes to show if you repeat something enough dumb people will believe it.
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Smart people will research the etymology of it and and all kinds of stuff cause they gotta have all the answers cause they know it all. Plus they fill in all the blanks.
Funny thing is it's not like i tried to make people believe it.
So if you want to know what a psychopath is just watch the old black and white move called psycho.
If you want to read books on this subject then get Robert Hare books, he is the leader in the field. A lot of what she says come from his work.
She is just talking psychopathy 101. Basic knowledge if you're a psychologist or into psychology. Plus, she is still making a few mistakes in her talk. Psychopathy is deep, and she just speaks of the surface (with mistakes). Robert Hare is the guru and founder of the research on psychopathy. He created the scale for measuring psychopathy called the Psychopathy Check List (PCL). His initial samples and trials were conducted on a prison population, but then had to be expanded to include those highly intelligent psychopaths who are able to remain beneath the legal radar. I am a psychologist, and I've been practicing forensic and clinical psych for over 15 years.
Sociopathy is a common trait among Cluster-Bs such as narcissists and borderlines. They are also empathetic, but not to feel and have compassion for others, but to feel and take advantage of other people's feelings.
Interviewer was not on her level.
@Spooky Spectre you mean he was being like some kind of translator
James Buxton Just like teachers and students? It is ok to learn, folks.
James Buxton
At all...
He's an idiot
It literally brought tears in to my eyes just by listning to it... I met more than one narcissist and sociopath... They can harm you in ways you can't even imagine.... Until you realize what happened...Its too late...
They can undermine your reality. Ive seen it. It's sick.
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Mine was a psychopath very violent no sense of remorse
I have borderline personality disorder and I am a magnet for narcissists.
@@joannamacedonio9439 that's because those 3 type of people can feel it. You are right. They gravitate towards people that they know they can control. It's like they can smell it.
“Asking for a friend” the most famous line 😳
omg you're right
9:00 pointing at himself 😳😳
Yep; dealing with a stepson who will do whatever he wants to do as soon as you leave the house (for work), despite any conversation you have with them about your expectations of them.
the way the guy's acting makes it feel like a SNL skit
100%
LOL
Agree! Lol
When did SNL get that bad? She knows her stuff; I switched majors at Uni but this was a big topic even then. Ignore fleas ….
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