The key is being emotionally self regulating and not being overly attached emotionally and mentally to someone. When we take ourselves off the pedestal and put our SP there instead, we give up our power. Your power is in knowing that you are the prize. And you have to know this in your spirit without outside validation. When your SP shows up, love him, support him, encourage him. He can be your favorite person but always keep yourself on the pedestal and do not make him the center of your world. You have to maintain your feelings of being whole, happy, and complete inside. Again, the key is being emotionally self regulating. The focus is on loving you first! 💗💗💗
Accept the negative feelings, acknowledge them and release them by choosing to think differently. It takes a lot of energy but if you persist, the new beliefs will slowly become the new normal.
I viewed old texts and photos one day and it hit me -- I WAS loved. I was so very very loved. I thought I wasn't loved, couldn't be. I was just so blind to it and rejecting of it. I can see from their words, actions, and messages that I was loved deeply. it would be nice if they still loved me ;)
Important points: 1. The change you want is a personal choice. 2. You cannot negatively view the ppl in your reality. 3. You should not persist into something that is causing you emotional distress, something you don't actually want. 4. Emotional regulation is really important. 5. Become aware of thoughts recurring in a pattern and are negative, turn them around. 6.
I love the timing. Both of my SPs are having HUGE movement, I'm about to buy a house despite being unemployed, I'm glowing tf up and notice how people are showing up different. BUT that old story is giving me curve balls the past 24 hours and I'm not spiraling or anything but REALLY needed to hear this.
Because we are humans first, really. It's the human condition of duality. The fight is always about remaining focused on our desires despitethe 3d 'facts'. Sending serenity ✨
In one of his videos dylan said that he used to imagine that he erases circumstances or his old story. I tried doing this as well. Now when I think of something that doesnt match with my new story I imagine erasing it and say a few affirmations. I was only doing this for one day, but it seems to work. I feel that I have more controll on what I think and I am the one in power. Its like I am write something wrong and replacing it with the better story. Maybe thats something for you as well.
The belief track caused me to have nightmares and waking up with terrible moods BUT I persisted and today I was actually able to stop myself from going into a tailspin over a totally random thought which has no basis in reality. And guess what? I got exactly the interaction I deserve.
I’ve been cleaning the house for the past few days. It’s like my body just wanted to get rid of all the clutter that’s inside the house along with my head. Watching each part, get clean helped clear my head. Saying it’s done whenever negative thoughts try to get into my head has changed my perspective on the current situation.
Assumptions: Only my positive thoughts, feelings and emotions manifest. I am God of my reality and everybody/everything (I am the only person in my reality with a free will) in it. I am literally limitless and powerful. I always have perfect faith/belief in my manifestations. I always get what I want/desire no matter what. I am love (I always love myself completely, I always love everybody and everybody always loves me). Only good things happen to me. Logic (limiting belief) is a manmade construct and doesn't apply to manifestation. Time is an illusion. ALL things ARE possible (not some-ALL) and are manifestable. If you can conceive/think/desire it then it exists (no matter what anybody says/thinks about it) and is manifestable. Infinite timelines/parallel realities exist within my and your reality/world/universe and you can switch/walk into them via revision, scripting, affirmations, assumptions etc. (whatever works for you). I am so happy and grateful all of the aforementioned is of/solidified within my conscious/subconscious/core foundational belief system/every "fiber" of my being. Listening to God state affirmations (I prefer "you are") on loop at night works to sustain/permanently get into the God State (God has no problems, no undesirable circumstances, no limiting beliefs, no judgements/condemnations of self/"others", no competition, etc.). Our desire is from our I AM true God self and is meant for us to realize/experience/manifest. Period. 💓👏💯😁
It really resonated with me when you said "I am the only person in my reality with free will." The way you phrased it made it click with me that I am the only operant of my reality. Thank you for saying that!
It seems like the more I try to push away my “negative “ feelings the more they build and leek out in my dreams or tension I don’t know if I can deny any part of myself It just doesn’t feel authentic
The key is loving you first and being emotionally self regulating. You can’t make anyone the center of your world because that leads to being attached to them in an unhealthy way. Keep yourself on that pedestal at all times! 💗💗💗
Something that has helped me recently is affirming that I can have it because I want it. I’m the type of person who always has to find meaning, even when it pertains to things I want to manifest. There is always a “why”. In regards to an SP I say “why?” But really “why not?” Why is anyone interested in anyone? You want to have fun, you think that person is great, you’d like to get to know them etc.. why not! Go for it!
Omg Dylan, thanks so much! Last week I was struggling and didn't quite know what to do with persistent and automatic (woke up in a panic with these auto thoughts like I never have) and I repeatedly turned them around and got out of it, but man it was so hard. Funny thing was, the next day I had a manifesting breakthrough! So don't give up people, if you struggle. Just say those thoughts don't manifest, only my positive ones do!
Omg watching this reminds me of the song - bring it all back! By S-club 7 "Don't stop, never give up, hold your head high and reach to the top, let the world see what you have got...... Bring it all back to youuuu" for me bring it all back to you means bring it all back to your self concept! 🤯💃💗
I love how the universe lands me the lessons I need to learn when I need them. I've literally just told myself to do just this, and here you are reinforcing me.
Needed this.. I feel stable and happy most of my days. Sometimes I get intrusive thoughts but it doesn't last too long. I have to work on some more beliefs that I need to change. The key is to identify what makes us spiral. Today's video made me realise that I have some beliefs about communication that I need to address. Thank you so much Dylan, it is like I manifested this video 🥰💞💞
I have listened to so many manifestation videos, and this has helped me so much. The biggest thing is happening me is changing my self-concept, and really reminding myself I am enough, and deserving of my manifestation. You are the best, thank you!
Thank you, Dylan!! I was struggling with negative thoughts and my subconscious mind refusing to accept my new reality. I asked God for help and guidance, took a nap and voilà, here u are with a new video 🙏🏻❤️
This was SO good!! I've been sleeping with affirmations at night, and I have seen lovely results, from everything just working out smoothly for me with little to no effort, to people showering me with compliments. There are times when I get focused on something and get stuck in a loop, so I resonate with checking in and seeing what beliefs stem from it. I'm going to journal and see what comes up for me when I get stuck or begin to obsess. Thank you so much Dylan, you have changed my life, and the lives of others for the better. 💖🙏🏽👑
@@prettygyalxoxo I've used almost all of Dylan's and a few from The Rosey Life, because it helps me to hear a female voice at times. Recently, I've been listening to Dylan's night time version of "I Am The Best," and I love how it relaxes me and boosts my confidence. Whichever you choose for you will work wonders. 👑💗🌟
Since I listen to your limitless love night meditation my mind goes crazy, I experience the most negative thoughts like i was a big failure and it was too late for me in life, i feel nobody wants me as a strong feeling even if it is faaaaar from the truth!! I even cry in the morning waking up. Omg i persist but i didn’t know my subconscious was that strongly against love 🤦♀️ and against me I feel even 🤷♀️
I needed this. I'm trying to avoid the belief of being rejected by my sp, and by doing so it's creating momentum and is on constant replay in my mind. So I'm making 3 statements tonight to persist with starting with 'I'm believing that..' thanks Dylan 🙏
Finally someone is telling us how to handle this properly!! Go to your end go to your end..that always felt so far off for me, this feels so much better, thank you! 'Start with what you do believe' i get it now!!!
i actually couldn't listen to affirmations for several years because of how disregulated i was, i had to spend 3 years working on self regulation before attempting affirmations. Now i can see them working even after one day, but i make my own tailored more specifically to my needs. I searched for this old video to remember how i can deal with thoughts that pop up during the day so hopefully this will help whilst im still intergrating these new beliefs. For the first time self concept work and changing my reality is starting to feel easy fun and exciting. Highly recomend nervous system breath work, excersise and emotional regulation before changing beliefs
I took a step back from everything, even watching the mindset YT videos. This is the first video of yours and this subject matter I’m watching in quite a while. It is refreshing to see you and hear you. You are making a lot of sense. Thank you for your insights and advice and guidance.
I have listened to a lot!! of people talking about self improvement/manifesting/self belief and you are the most comfortable person i listened to. You radiate truthfulness, its easy to follow/believe in what you say because you say it in such an empowering way! its clear to see that you are 100% secure on your self, who you are and your beliefs. keep coming with the great content ☺
Dearest Dylan, thank you so much for posting the most top notch content. Was feeling a little unsettled today in regards to this specific topic and what blows my mind is how you’ve created such intricate and well versed content on almost every topic related to shifting. It’s so fresh and inspiring to see someone be this passionate and giving!! I’ve been using your subliminals for a week and I’m seeing major shifts already! THANK YOU🌸💛
Hey beautiful Dylan, I was wondering, if you could do an affirmation video on socialising, having many friends, feeling good and free around people; I think that could be really helpful for a lot of us who get nervous around socialising🤞🏼 Love you 😽
So, “water it down” as you say at 3:50 can also be called “going general” ie less specific? I’ve hit a wall or snag and it seems that going into giving-up-on-the-person mode, finding reasons why I don’t want him, is easier. But then it’s just getting stuck into my subconscious( belief vault) that I cannot get what I desire and will resurface again, most assuredly, in the next relationship.
omg this video came at the right time as I felt that i’ve been too emotional and worried which turned out to be really horrible. situations came up which reflected my current state and it triggered me so badly. This video helped me so much as I knew what I had to do but I was so focused on worrying, checking and doubting myself. I’ll definitely get what I want in the end and circumstances don’t matter. Thank you so much Dylan 🖤
i fr watched this many times before but i only heard words and not really listened to it. like i’m watching this again after 8 months after actually understand and apply what he said. my brain tried to block out things it didn’t like huh
Hi guys! Would love to share what helped me -- when I am in a. very emotional state -- I don't reject it. I say to myself -- I allow myself to feel with anger if necessary because it is part of me. I give myself from 5 to 10 min and then I say to myself "Thank you for allowing me to be myself. Now I can be the better version of myself". And then I am usually not that emotional and do breath work.
Omg I swear this video is for me. My bff just had this conversation she was like just be that person and I was like I can’t Bc I am always having contradicting thoughts when I am w them. And it would be reflected back to me as him saying it doesn’t flow. You nailed it. Did what you said and I do feel good. Thank you 🙏🏽
These things you said in this video of what beliefs you struggle with are the exact ones I’m struggling with now. So now i need to take a step back and work on this.
Oh man I’ve been struggling hard with this My sp in the past had been unfaithful and I keep feeling hurt and resentful and thinking Liar! Even though I also can have compassion for what he was going through at the time I was doing so well and we were getting along great and then I started having dreams about it and angry hurt feelings and I pushed him away I’m really struggling with everyone is you pushed out because when he did cheat I was not suspecting anything I knew that we were going through a rough patch and it seemed like things were ending but I didn’t have that in my mind at all I thought he was faithful
Question: if SP is being “toxic” as in making it seem like I’m the only one and then puts in my face he is seeing other women, should I cut off contact with them until they show up differently? I want to tell them that they hurt me and that he can change…. I don’t know a little advice would help.
Dylan talks about not responding to the things you don’t like but not playing games and if you don’t have a stable actual commitment yet, then you don’t have any real reason to be hurt. So do you and If SP says that y’all are in a relationship then don’t be afraid to have that conversation. Dylan says that in one of his last videos. th-cam.com/video/tltvBkt_jlU/w-d-xo.html
Would it be possible to have a video on “blocks” such as logic and the concept of free will. I’ve found these tripping me up at times on my journey and it would be so helpful to have some advice on ways to overcome these
I’ve been manifesting my sp, we’re kind of dating and I’m manifesting a full relationship. I started working on my self concept and at the same time affirming how much he loves me and wants to be with me. But today when we met the topic of love came up and he’s said if it doesn’t happen initially it doesn’t happen for him. Then he talked about how we’ve sort of been seeing each other for a few months but he doesn’t feel anything. What does this mean? How should I react to this mentally? I’ve been feeling so anxious about this for the last couple of days
dylan thank you sooo much.... you have no idea how much you have helped me i deeply appriciate your support and effort for helping people i was having really hard time for how to deal with this freakin thoughts .. now im really feeling mentally calm so muchhh .. love you ❤❤ oh and yes i love how cuteeeee and attractive you are 😁😁❤💖
Dylan (or anyone in this community) could you possibly address circumstances that happen in the lives of our sps? I remember you said in a video months ago that our sps still have their own lives and interests which I completely understand. But what about circumstances that may happen to them with their job or family life that has an impact on them and effects how they show up? Is that all still part of our own self concept? I don’t want to sound selfish at all and say “I don’t care what’s going on in their life I still need him to show up correctly” but again is that part of my sc even though it’s something to do with their own life? Im persisting through it and working on self concept but always wondered how do we manage what goes on in their lives? Hope this makes sense…
Your only job is to love and support them. If you want to affirm things for them you can but you have to make yourself the priority and when you do, they will. This is why circumstances don’t matter. Have your own life, worry about you more, then they will be running towards you faster than the ice cream man on a 105• weather girlll. I’m not playing. Stop making them the priority that’s what you have to break first. It takes time but keep the focus on you each day. What are you feeling? What do you want/need? What is the most loving choice you can make right now in this moment? And go do that fearlessly.....🙌🏽❤️❤️❤️
Hello kind people, I have a question. When you listen to affirmations at night, how do you logistically go about it? Do you wear earbuds, or play them through a speaker? I like listening through earbuds, but when I turn around I'll sleep on my ear and then wake up from feeling the buds. Also the wire could get coiled around me. When playing through speakers, do you manage for your device to turn off by itself when the affirmations are done? I like turning off all electronic items around me and the wifi when I go to sleep. Hope there's a good tip! Thank you Dylan for your wonderful content xxx
I didn't know where to ask and I'm not sure if it's ok for me to ask here, but I was wondering what volume I should listen to the sleeping affirmation at? I am quite sensitive to the sound when I go to sleep, and I was wondering if the affirmation has to be at the volume where I can make out the words or if it can be at the volume where I can barely recognize that there's something.
Hey dylan....tq for everything man.....having a lil trouble manifesting ever since i lost my dad to cancer...I really wanted to save him ..now i feel like it's my fault that he's gone..could use a friend's advise..i really dont know wat to do ...so if u could help me out....would really appretiate it
What about when a SP struggles with anxiety and depression ? That's why he broke up with me. We work together, but he deleted also my number so sometimes I can't figure it out of any kind of possible movements. My self concept is amazing : I'm a smart and beautiful person, people love me, boys are so attracted to me, but with him there are no movements... Thank you for your videos and your positive vibes 😊
@@alessiaturbinelli2351 then however long it takes shouldn’t matter. Visualize if you can, what the healthy version of him looks like no longer affirm that as his story. Affirm: My man is happy, healthy, and loves me and only me. They feel safe and secure around me. They are seeing the light. No one compares to me. Don’t give up on love and he has to conform.
@@sugarspunsubs love this... One of my favourite affirmation about me and him it's "I'm his ray of sunshine" :) he told me this many times... And I know that he will tell me again when we'll come back together.
Stop trying to manifest and bring it back to yourself, lots of self love self concept so that you can stabilize yourself first get yourself feeling better then you can focus on SP again, basically put yourself first, it can be hard because when we feel defeated all we want is the reassurance from an sp etc but that is not the actual issue, learning to stabilize our own emotions is where the power lies and just be gentle with yourself but honest just focus on you for now SP is not going anywhere i promise you ❤
I am watching this video on repeat in my old childhood room,around family I avoided for decades. I have been going through so many emotional awakening circumstances and I appreciate you for breaking things down the way you do. I finally see myself worthy of having the basic things that I always thought I wasn't worthy of. ❤ I deeply appreciate you Dylan. Don't give up on yourselves beautiful souls. You deserve live regardless of whether you ever felt like you received it properly or not. 🫂
Dylan do you recommend listening to the I AM tapes over YOU ARE? I saw some people saying I AM is better but I don’t get why, do you have a stance on this?
I wonder if my way of thinking is ridiculous, so PLEASE, give it to me straight - my SP was going on holiday 3 weeks ago (we don't really know each other a great deal, and I'm the one who gives up and texts her (not anymore). Thing is this: The last sentence of her text was: "...Take care of yourself!!" To my mind, that sentence is like an American (I'm British) saying "Have a nice day" through gritted teeth. I took it to mean : I expect you to piss off and not text me again. Her response seems guarded and stan-offish. Am I being ridiculous or paranoid? Or is there a little hope at all? Forget her and move on? (Getting ANYTHING out of her is like talking Swahili to a brick wall.)
How YOU took it to mean, is how it means to you. Is there hope? YOU decide, not another person, EVER. I recommend listening to limitless manifester to change your beliefs and regulate your thoughts. The relationship will manifest as a result of you stabilizing. Most of us are giving meaning to our circumstances, through a lose from child that is negative or traumatic, so we get stuck. The nightly affirmations that Dylan made for us regulate our thinking by changing subconscious thoughts, good luck to you❤🤗
That does sound a little bit like she is politely declining you. If she really wants to see you when she gets back, I'm sure she would have told you. I am also just wondering.. why do you want to be with someone who is so hard to talk to? The friendship doesn't sound very balanced... I feel like you deserve to be with someone who actually wants to talk to you. I would just give her space and see if she changes. Playing it cool puts less pressure on her. She might need time to realize that she misses you. It tells her you are not needy (neediness is very offputting) You don't have to "give up hope", but if you stop worrying about her you might manifest someone who is nicer in the meantime.
It will take as long as it takes. And yes it’s possible. All things are possible but don’t get lost in the how or when. That’s for the Universe to handle. You’re only to focus on them a few times through out the day when you feel good, go do things you enjoy. When they pop up in your mind go into the feeling of what it would feel like if everything was working out in your favor then affirm your self concept of how amazing, chosen, and lovable you are. They have to come back if you stick it out!
Hello beautiful soul! Dylan, What do you do if you unconsciously manifested a child to your SP. (Not yours) and now there is a whole other family dynamic?
Hi, thank you so much. But I have to say, I’m still kind of struggling. I mean it’s hard for me to comprehend that I really deserve those good things I want. There’s something in the back of my head always waiting for the worst outcome. I been listening to the affirmations almost half a year now. There have been some changes in me yes, but this still remains. Any suggestions how can I overcome this? 🙏❤️ much love to all
Go to this Channel: m.th-cam.com/channels/YMyaY5ebPAM-GiGPZquWag.htmlvideos Watch her videos, focus especially on her view on mental diet. She doesn’t want you to affirm all day everyday, but focuses on observing your thoughts (detachment). This allows you to notice subconscious thought-patterns (by not judging yourself) and releasing them by choosing another thought.
@@cheberur Maybe it depends how you react to the new believes. For me there was not that much of purging with the limitless manifestor...so if I wake up and already listened like 6hours I maybe switch to the one for love. Or I use other ones during the day while Iam cooking or cleaning. I can imagine thats easier doing one at a time if there is a lot of purging or if somebody is having a hard time switching self concept.
@@IAm_DylanJames Awwww amazing! I don't have Instagram - think you might have posted on there. Hope you had a good break. Looking forward to hearing from you soon. Xx💓
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The key is being emotionally self regulating and not being overly attached emotionally and mentally to someone. When we take ourselves off the pedestal and put our SP there instead, we give up our power. Your power is in knowing that you are the prize. And you have to know this in your spirit without outside validation. When your SP shows up, love him, support him, encourage him. He can be your favorite person but always keep yourself on the pedestal and do not make him the center of your world. You have to maintain your feelings of being whole, happy, and complete inside. Again, the key is being emotionally self regulating. The focus is on loving you first! 💗💗💗
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“Your power is in knowing that you’re the prize” 100% spot on and well said!
so right
Well said👍👏👏👏
I don’t
Accept the negative feelings, acknowledge them and release them by choosing to think differently. It takes a lot of energy but if you persist, the new beliefs will slowly become the new normal.
I viewed old texts and photos one day and it hit me -- I WAS loved. I was so very very loved. I thought I wasn't loved, couldn't be. I was just so blind to it and rejecting of it. I can see from their words, actions, and messages that I was loved deeply. it would be nice if they still loved me ;)
Yes same for me. But I couldn’t believe it so I pushed him away.
Of course they still love you
Important points:
1. The change you want is a personal choice.
2. You cannot negatively view the ppl in your reality.
3. You should not persist into something that is causing you emotional distress, something you don't actually want.
4. Emotional regulation is really important.
5. Become aware of thoughts recurring in a pattern and are negative, turn them around.
6.
Thanks ☺️
I love the timing. Both of my SPs are having HUGE movement, I'm about to buy a house despite being unemployed, I'm glowing tf up and notice how people are showing up different.
BUT that old story is giving me curve balls the past 24 hours and I'm not spiraling or anything but REALLY needed to hear this.
Keep persisting you’ve got this
Because we are humans first, really. It's the human condition of duality. The fight is always about remaining focused on our desires despitethe 3d 'facts'. Sending serenity ✨
In one of his videos dylan said that he used to imagine that he erases circumstances or his old story.
I tried doing this as well. Now when I think of something that doesnt match with my new story I imagine erasing it and say a few affirmations.
I was only doing this for one day, but it seems to work. I feel that I have more controll on what I think and I am the one in power. Its like I am write something wrong and replacing it with the better story. Maybe thats something for you as well.
Please tell us how to buy a house despite our conditions 🫣😮🙏
The belief track caused me to have nightmares and waking up with terrible moods BUT I persisted and today I was actually able to stop myself from going into a tailspin over a totally random thought which has no basis in reality. And guess what? I got exactly the interaction I deserve.
I’ve been cleaning the house for the past few days. It’s like my body just wanted to get rid of all the clutter that’s inside the house along with my head. Watching each part, get clean helped clear my head. Saying it’s done whenever negative thoughts try to get into my head has changed my perspective on the current situation.
This I do this often to clear my head helps me feel and think better taughts a clean house makes me happy also rearrange my furniture's 😊
Assumptions: Only my positive thoughts, feelings and emotions manifest. I am God of my reality and everybody/everything (I am the only person in my reality with a free will) in it. I am literally limitless and powerful. I always have perfect faith/belief in my manifestations. I always get what I want/desire no matter what. I am love (I always love myself completely, I always love everybody and everybody always loves me). Only good things happen to me. Logic (limiting belief) is a manmade construct and doesn't apply to manifestation. Time is an illusion. ALL things ARE possible (not some-ALL) and are manifestable. If you can conceive/think/desire it then it exists (no matter what anybody says/thinks about it) and is manifestable. Infinite timelines/parallel realities exist within my and your reality/world/universe and you can switch/walk into them via revision, scripting, affirmations, assumptions etc. (whatever works for you). I am so happy and grateful all of the aforementioned is of/solidified within my conscious/subconscious/core foundational belief system/every "fiber" of my being. Listening to God state affirmations (I prefer "you are") on loop at night works to sustain/permanently get into the God State (God has no problems, no undesirable circumstances, no limiting beliefs, no judgements/condemnations of self/"others", no competition, etc.). Our desire is from our I AM true God self and is meant for us to realize/experience/manifest. Period.
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It really resonated with me when you said "I am the only person in my reality with free will." The way you phrased it made it click with me that I am the only operant of my reality. Thank you for saying that!
@@valerieblanks yqw 💓
It seems like the more I try to push away my “negative “ feelings the more they build and leek out in my dreams or tension
I don’t know if I can deny any part of myself
It just doesn’t feel authentic
The key is loving you first and being emotionally self regulating. You can’t make anyone the center of your world because that leads to being attached to them in an unhealthy way. Keep yourself on that pedestal at all times! 💗💗💗
Something that has helped me recently is affirming that I can have it because I want it. I’m the type of person who always has to find meaning, even when it pertains to things I want to manifest. There is always a “why”. In regards to an SP I say “why?” But really “why not?” Why is anyone interested in anyone? You want to have fun, you think that person is great, you’d like to get to know them etc.. why not! Go for it!
Omg Dylan, thanks so much! Last week I was struggling and didn't quite know what to do with persistent and automatic (woke up in a panic with these auto thoughts like I never have) and I repeatedly turned them around and got out of it, but man it was so hard. Funny thing was, the next day I had a manifesting breakthrough! So don't give up people, if you struggle. Just say those thoughts don't manifest, only my positive ones do!
Omg watching this reminds me of the song - bring it all back! By S-club 7 "Don't stop, never give up, hold your head high and reach to the top, let the world see what you have got...... Bring it all back to youuuu" for me bring it all back to you means bring it all back to your self concept! 🤯💃💗
I love how the universe lands me the lessons I need to learn when I need them. I've literally just told myself to do just this, and here you are reinforcing me.
The universe doesn’t give you lessons. Everyone and everything is a mirror to you.
I got sp back after 5 months of no contact and 2 break ups thank you 😊
Can you share what you did please?
Yes Queen 🤩 Share more details & things u did if u feel comfortable
Congrats
bruhhh this is amazing. Thanks for the kick in the butt.
Wait, didn't you comment somewhere else about having a lot of trouble with that but it was like 9 or 10 months ago? So you finally got it?!
Omg why are you soo good at comforting others🥺🥺
Needed this.. I feel stable and happy most of my days. Sometimes I get intrusive thoughts but it doesn't last too long. I have to work on some more beliefs that I need to change. The key is to identify what makes us spiral. Today's video made me realise that I have some beliefs about communication that I need to address. Thank you so much Dylan, it is like I manifested this video 🥰💞💞
I have listened to so many manifestation videos, and this has helped me so much. The biggest thing is happening me is changing my self-concept, and really reminding myself I am enough, and deserving of my manifestation. You are the best, thank you!
dylan is literally so pretty💞✨
He really is 🥰
Thank you, Dylan!! I was struggling with negative thoughts and my subconscious mind refusing to accept my new reality. I asked God for help and guidance, took a nap and voilà, here u are with a new video 🙏🏻❤️
This was SO good!! I've been sleeping with affirmations at night, and I have seen lovely results, from everything just working out smoothly for me with little to no effort, to people showering me with compliments. There are times when I get focused on something and get stuck in a loop, so I resonate with checking in and seeing what beliefs stem from it. I'm going to journal and see what comes up for me when I get stuck or begin to obsess. Thank you so much Dylan, you have changed my life, and the lives of others for the better.
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which affirmations do u use?
@@prettygyalxoxo I've used almost all of Dylan's and a few from The Rosey Life, because it helps me to hear a female voice at times. Recently, I've been listening to Dylan's night time version of "I Am The Best," and I love how it relaxes me and boosts my confidence. Whichever you choose for you will work wonders. 👑💗🌟
Since I listen to your limitless love night meditation my mind goes crazy, I experience the most negative thoughts like i was a big failure and it was too late for me in life, i feel nobody wants me as a strong feeling even if it is faaaaar from the truth!! I even cry in the morning waking up. Omg i persist but i didn’t know my subconscious was that strongly against love 🤦♀️ and against me I feel even 🤷♀️
I needed this. I'm trying to avoid the belief of being rejected by my sp, and by doing so it's creating momentum and is on constant replay in my mind. So I'm making 3 statements tonight to persist with starting with 'I'm believing that..' thanks Dylan 🙏
Finally someone is telling us how to handle this properly!! Go to your end go to your end..that always felt so far off for me, this feels so much better, thank you!
'Start with what you do believe' i get it now!!!
i actually couldn't listen to affirmations for several years because of how disregulated i was, i had to spend 3 years working on self regulation before attempting affirmations. Now i can see them working even after one day, but i make my own tailored more specifically to my needs. I searched for this old video to remember how i can deal with thoughts that pop up during the day so hopefully this will help whilst im still intergrating these new beliefs. For the first time self concept work and changing my reality is starting to feel easy fun and exciting. Highly recomend nervous system breath work, excersise and emotional regulation before changing beliefs
I took a step back from everything, even watching the mindset YT videos. This is the first video of yours and this subject matter I’m watching in quite a while. It is refreshing to see you and hear you. You are making a lot of sense. Thank you for your insights and advice and guidance.
Dylan sometimes I believe you're a mind reader! You always come out with videos addressing the problems at hand hours after they occur!! Thank you🙏🏾🙏🏾
I have listened to a lot!! of people talking about self improvement/manifesting/self belief and you are the most comfortable person i listened to. You radiate truthfulness, its easy to follow/believe in what you say because you say it in such an empowering way! its clear to see that you are 100% secure on your self, who you are and your beliefs. keep coming with the great content ☺
Enough is enough, I am enough.
Always breaks it down making it make sense ❤️
Dearest Dylan, thank you so much for posting the most top notch content. Was feeling a little unsettled today in regards to this specific topic and what blows my mind is how you’ve created such intricate and well versed content on almost every topic related to shifting. It’s so fresh and inspiring to see someone be this passionate and giving!! I’ve been using your subliminals for a week and I’m seeing major shifts already! THANK YOU🌸💛
Man I really love you, i literally just can't thank you enough, please never leave us❤
Hey beautiful Dylan, I was wondering, if you could do an affirmation video on socialising, having many friends, feeling good and free around people; I think that could be really helpful for a lot of us who get nervous around socialising🤞🏼 Love you 😽
This is Gold 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
I am wifey
I am the prize
I am the spec
These put me back on a pedestal 🥰
Everything u say is always 💯 nothing new nothing I didn’t know but I never get tired of hearing it
So, “water it down” as you say at 3:50 can also be called “going general” ie less specific? I’ve hit a wall or snag and it seems that going into giving-up-on-the-person mode, finding reasons why I don’t want him, is easier. But then it’s just getting stuck into my subconscious( belief vault) that I cannot get what I desire and will resurface again, most assuredly, in the next relationship.
omg this video came at the right time as I felt that i’ve been too emotional and worried which turned out to be really horrible. situations came up which reflected my current state and it triggered me so badly. This video helped me so much as I knew what I had to do but I was so focused on worrying, checking and doubting myself. I’ll definitely get what I want in the end and circumstances don’t matter. Thank you so much Dylan 🖤
i fr watched this many times before but i only heard words and not really listened to it. like i’m watching this again after 8 months after actually understand and apply what he said. my brain tried to block out things it didn’t like huh
Hi guys! Would love to share what helped me -- when I am in a. very emotional state -- I don't reject it. I say to myself -- I allow myself to feel with anger if necessary because it is part of me. I give myself from 5 to 10 min and then I say to myself "Thank you for allowing me to be myself. Now I can be the better version of myself". And then I am usually not that emotional and do breath work.
Found u through someone mentioning u via tiktok. Thanks for your videos
Omg I swear this video is for me. My bff just had this conversation she was like just be that person and I was like I can’t Bc I am always having contradicting thoughts when I am w them. And it would be reflected back to me as him saying it doesn’t flow. You nailed it. Did what you said and I do feel good. Thank you 🙏🏽
First time I'm catching you on the day you post all the way from South Africa.
I deserve everything good in this world ❤️ ✨
Your channel came to me at the perfect time. I was start to go down hill after a breakup and you literally reminded me to just stop lol thank you
These things you said in this video of what beliefs you struggle with are the exact ones I’m struggling with now. So now i need to take a step back and work on this.
You are truly a Gem for all of us.. thank you Dylan 🙏❤️
I am irreplaceable
I believe people can change
I am a priority
i needed this video wow
Ugh wow wow I love you for posting this so much. You’re literally a life saver
Oh man I’ve been struggling hard with this
My sp in the past had been unfaithful and I keep feeling hurt and resentful and thinking Liar! Even though I also can have compassion for what he was going through at the time
I was doing so well and we were getting along great and then I started having dreams about it and angry hurt feelings and I pushed him away
I’m really struggling with everyone is you pushed out because when he did cheat I was not suspecting anything I knew that we were going through a rough patch and it seemed like things were ending but I didn’t have that in my mind at all I thought he was faithful
Question: if SP is being “toxic” as in making it seem like I’m the only one and then puts in my face he is seeing other women, should I cut off contact with them until they show up differently? I want to tell them that they hurt me and that he can change…. I don’t know a little advice would help.
Dylan talks about not responding to the things you don’t like but not playing games and if you don’t have a stable actual commitment yet, then you don’t have any real reason to be hurt. So do you and If SP says that y’all are in a relationship then don’t be afraid to have that conversation. Dylan says that in one of his last videos. th-cam.com/video/tltvBkt_jlU/w-d-xo.html
Would it be possible to have a video on “blocks” such as logic and the concept of free will. I’ve found these tripping me up at times on my journey and it would be so helpful to have some advice on ways to overcome these
This was really well explained; I’m usually slow with these kind of things but I’m actually grasping the concepts. thank you. 🙏🏻
Right on time 🙌🤍
I needed to hear this ❤!
This is just what I needed. Thank you James ❤️
I’ve been manifesting my sp, we’re kind of dating and I’m manifesting a full relationship. I started working on my self concept and at the same time affirming how much he loves me and wants to be with me. But today when we met the topic of love came up and he’s said if it doesn’t happen initially it doesn’t happen for him. Then he talked about how we’ve sort of been seeing each other for a few months but he doesn’t feel anything. What does this mean? How should I react to this mentally? I’ve been feeling so anxious about this for the last couple of days
There are 111 comments right now 🤣♥️still I'm gonna comment...this video just cleared all my confusion....thank u love😚😚♥️😙
dylan thank you sooo much.... you have no idea how much you have helped me i deeply appriciate your support and effort for helping people i was having really hard time for how to deal with this freakin thoughts .. now im really feeling mentally calm so muchhh .. love you ❤❤ oh and yes i love how cuteeeee and attractive you are 😁😁❤💖
Im finding it difficult to apply this with my SP because we live together and it’s difficult to navigate.
Dylan (or anyone in this community) could you possibly address circumstances that happen in the lives of our sps? I remember you said in a video months ago that our sps still have their own lives and interests which I completely understand. But what about circumstances that may happen to them with their job or family life that has an impact on them and effects how they show up? Is that all still part of our own self concept? I don’t want to sound selfish at all and say “I don’t care what’s going on in their life I still need him to show up correctly” but again is that part of my sc even though it’s something to do with their own life? Im persisting through it and working on self concept but always wondered how do we manage what goes on in their lives? Hope this makes sense…
Ohh what a great question! I have the same thoughts
Your only job is to love and support them. If you want to affirm things for them you can but you have to make yourself the priority and when you do, they will. This is why circumstances don’t matter. Have your own life, worry about you more, then they will be running towards you faster than the ice cream man on a 105• weather girlll. I’m not playing. Stop making them the priority that’s what you have to break first. It takes time but keep the focus on you each day. What are you feeling? What do you want/need? What is the most loving choice you can make right now in this moment? And go do that fearlessly.....🙌🏽❤️❤️❤️
This was one of your best videos ever! 🙏🏽💞
Hello kind people, I have a question. When you listen to affirmations at night, how do you logistically go about it? Do you wear earbuds, or play them through a speaker? I like listening through earbuds, but when I turn around I'll sleep on my ear and then wake up from feeling the buds. Also the wire could get coiled around me. When playing through speakers, do you manage for your device to turn off by itself when the affirmations are done? I like turning off all electronic items around me and the wifi when I go to sleep. Hope there's a good tip!
Thank you Dylan for your wonderful content xxx
I didn't know where to ask and I'm not sure if it's ok for me to ask here, but I was wondering what volume I should listen to the sleeping affirmation at? I am quite sensitive to the sound when I go to sleep, and I was wondering if the affirmation has to be at the volume where I can make out the words or if it can be at the volume where I can barely recognize that there's something.
@Dylan James. The meditation videos or sleep meditation videos you speak on to listen to. Are you referring to yours or what ones should be used?
Hey dylan....tq for everything man.....having a lil trouble manifesting ever since i lost my dad to cancer...I really wanted to save him ..now i feel like it's my fault that he's gone..could use a friend's advise..i really dont know wat to do ...so if u could help me out....would really appretiate it
This really helped Dylan, thank you
What about when a SP struggles with anxiety and depression ? That's why he broke up with me. We work together, but he deleted also my number so sometimes I can't figure it out of any kind of possible movements. My self concept is amazing : I'm a smart and beautiful person, people love me, boys are so attracted to me, but with him there are no movements... Thank you for your videos and your positive vibes 😊
Is it amazing? If you are so amazing, why are you focused on him??
@@truthheals5723 I'm focusing on my self, and I think of him also. If I imagine myself in a relationship with someone, that's with him .
@@alessiaturbinelli2351 then however long it takes shouldn’t matter. Visualize if you can, what the healthy version of him looks like no longer affirm that as his story. Affirm: My man is happy, healthy, and loves me and only me. They feel safe and secure around me. They are seeing the light. No one compares to me. Don’t give up on love and he has to conform.
@@sugarspunsubs love this... One of my favourite affirmation about me and him it's "I'm his ray of sunshine" :) he told me this many times... And I know that he will tell me again when we'll come back together.
@@alessiaturbinelli2351 that’s right baby!! You are the love and the light of his life and loves you sooo much!! ❤️❤️❤️
Epic. Timing. Thank you!
How do you shift when you feel defeated. I’ve been visualizing but the reality is something else. How do I not feel defeated
Stop trying to manifest and bring it back to yourself, lots of self love self concept so that you can stabilize yourself first get yourself feeling better then you can focus on SP again, basically put yourself first, it can be hard because when we feel defeated all we want is the reassurance from an sp etc but that is not the actual issue, learning to stabilize our own emotions is where the power lies and just be gentle with yourself but honest just focus on you for now SP is not going anywhere i promise you ❤
Dylan what do you think about eft tapping?
I am watching this video on repeat in my old childhood room,around family I avoided for decades. I have been going through so many emotional awakening circumstances and I appreciate you for breaking things down the way you do. I finally see myself worthy of having the basic things that I always thought I wasn't worthy of. ❤ I deeply appreciate you Dylan. Don't give up on yourselves beautiful souls. You deserve live regardless of whether you ever felt like you received it properly or not. 🫂
You are the best :D Thank you so much for this!
Oh that pedestal!
Dylan do you recommend listening to the I AM tapes over YOU ARE? I saw some people saying I AM is better but I don’t get why, do you have a stance on this?
I wonder if my way of thinking is ridiculous, so PLEASE, give it to me straight - my SP was going on holiday 3 weeks ago (we don't really know each other a great deal, and I'm the one who gives up and texts her (not anymore). Thing is this:
The last sentence of her text was:
"...Take care of yourself!!"
To my mind, that sentence is like an American (I'm British) saying "Have a nice day" through gritted teeth.
I took it to mean : I expect you to piss off and not text me again.
Her response seems guarded and stan-offish. Am I being ridiculous or paranoid? Or is there a little hope at all? Forget her and move on? (Getting ANYTHING out of her is like talking Swahili to a brick wall.)
How YOU took it to mean, is how it means to you. Is there hope? YOU decide, not another person, EVER. I recommend listening to limitless manifester to change your beliefs and regulate your thoughts. The relationship will manifest as a result of you stabilizing. Most of us are giving meaning to our circumstances, through a lose from child that is negative or traumatic, so we get stuck. The nightly affirmations that Dylan made for us regulate our thinking by changing subconscious thoughts, good luck to you❤🤗
That does sound a little bit like she is politely declining you. If she really wants to see you when she gets back, I'm sure she would have told you. I am also just wondering.. why do you want to be with someone who is so hard to talk to? The friendship doesn't sound very balanced... I feel like you deserve to be with someone who actually wants to talk to you. I would just give her space and see if she changes. Playing it cool puts less pressure on her. She might need time to realize that she misses you. It tells her you are not needy (neediness is very offputting) You don't have to "give up hope", but if you stop worrying about her you might manifest someone who is nicer in the meantime.
I needed to hear this!
so is it possible to manifest my ex back even if she’s far away for some months and we’re in no contact? how will she know i’ve changed?
It will take as long as it takes. And yes it’s possible. All things are possible but don’t get lost in the how or when. That’s for the Universe to handle. You’re only to focus on them a few times through out the day when you feel good, go do things you enjoy. When they pop up in your mind go into the feeling of what it would feel like if everything was working out in your favor then affirm your self concept of how amazing, chosen, and lovable you are. They have to come back if you stick it out!
Hello beautiful soul! Dylan, What do you do if you unconsciously manifested a child to your SP. (Not yours) and now there is a whole other family dynamic?
Thank you 🙏🏽
My coach ❤️
Very helpful. Thanks.
This video is so helpful!
Petites meditations contre ces croyances : les gens chanhent, je suis capable de creer gngn, je peux voir une nvl version
Thank you dylan
I am the 444th person to have hit thumbs-up on this video 😁
Can someone tell me what type of earbuds or earphones they use to sleep with the belief tracks on, please?! 😊🐹😊
Can we see you again soon?
Hi, thank you so much. But I have to say, I’m still kind of struggling. I mean it’s hard for me to comprehend that I really deserve those good things I want. There’s something in the back of my head always waiting for the worst outcome. I been listening to the affirmations almost half a year now. There have been some changes in me yes, but this still remains. Any suggestions how can I overcome this? 🙏❤️ much love to all
Go to this Channel: m.th-cam.com/channels/YMyaY5ebPAM-GiGPZquWag.htmlvideos
Watch her videos, focus especially on her view on mental diet. She doesn’t want you to affirm all day everyday, but focuses on observing your thoughts (detachment). This allows you to notice subconscious thought-patterns (by not judging yourself) and releasing them by choosing another thought.
Does anybody know if it is recommended to stick with one tape of affirmations for 21 nights?
I got the same query...can you listen two two tapes alternately for the 21 days?
@@cheberur Maybe it depends how you react to the new believes. For me there was not that much of purging with the limitless manifestor...so if I wake up and already listened like 6hours I maybe switch to the one for love. Or I use other ones during the day while Iam cooking or cleaning. I can imagine thats easier doing one at a time if there is a lot of purging or if somebody is having a hard time switching self concept.
This ❤ thank you
Omg hi drakes twin hehe x
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yes master
Cest tjs cimme ca ul est cimme ca il chanhe pas
Hi Cutie! :)
What if someone else shows me the love I deserve?
@Quiana Lewis It's entirely your choice if you want to explore this or not. You don't need to settle.
Things keep repeating itself, help
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Where are you Dylan?
I was on holiday with my partner : )
@@IAm_DylanJames Awwww amazing! I don't have Instagram - think you might have posted on there. Hope you had a good break. Looking forward to hearing from you soon. Xx💓
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