Breath-work: th-cam.com/video/tybOi4hjZFQ/w-d-xo.html For manifesting, I have a whole playlist on my channel titled "How to manifest anything" - Again, shifting your beliefs and relaxing will literally materialize the desired result to you... I did a video last week on how "manifesting is not a trying process" and gave specific examples, from my life, where I have applied this.. Check out other content, this video is a summary for people that have watched a good majority of my content and can follow what I am saying. Manifesting is all about shifting your self-concept and releasing the "old story", leading with confidence and BEING the change you seek to experience.
@@IAm_DylanJames Your brilliant. I have struggled for 2 years painfully I have manifested so much in my life including my ex back after year and half apart .. 7 months ago. for the 3rd time .Sadly though i didn't break patterns and it all shattered again. I have spiraled since he left me again 5 months ago . Had I found you years ago I could have prevented so much heartbreak with him. He told me this time its final and done He blocked me on EVERYTHING. I'm devastated.
@@IAm_DylanJames, kool. The anchor im playing with is when I press my ring finger and thumb on my left hand, I can get relaxed really quickly. Sometimes within seconds. And doing Eft tapping on acupuncture points just seems to cement the affirmation a bit quicker for me. Thanks for replying man.
@@awolfadventureawildconnect5311 If you could manifest him in the past, you can do it again. There is a story you keep repeating and it is due to YOUR beliefs. Not due to his beliefs. Everyone is you pushed out, pls don't forget that. The things he said do NOT matter. Change your beliefs and it is done. Maybe you haven't found Dylan years ago but now you are aware of what you should do. You couldn't prevent the heartbreak till now but you can from now on. Yes, it is sad that he blocked you but there are hundreds of success stories of people who manifested being unblocked and ended up having the best relationship with their SPs. If they could do it, you can do it too.
I’m at a point where I just know everything is done for me. I don’t even worry about the things that I was once hung up over. My SP reaches out to me all the time and I have this confidence that we’re already in a relationship. I even waking up one morning feeling really happy out of nowhere. I just knew it was done. I don’t feel this obsessive need to be checking my manifestations and watching coaching on TH-cam. I’m just watch it for motivation. Right now, I’m just going about my life with a sense of knowing that I’m getting exactly what I want. I don’t even tell myself that a better person will come alone because I really love my SP and I chose him for a reason. I don’t need to settle. It’s so refreshing to hear because I’ve always been told to lower my expectations, especially in love. I’m doing that anymore!! Thank you!
That’s so great! Regarding the SP, could you please tell me a bit of what you’ve been doing? My SP came back 3 weeks ago saying he loves me but can’t have a relationship. I’m currently trying to manifest it but it gets a bit hard. Deep down I know it’s not over and I’m not accepting a NO from him but I just need a bit of advice I guess. Thank you :)
@@waffles9902 this is the exact thing i’m going through!! i’m not taking no as an answer from him. i feel like as long as we stay confident within ourselves it’ll all unfold within due time without worrying about what’s not going on at the moment. (:
rari oh wow, that’s so true!! i already know my desire which is a loving relationship with my SP because I deserve it and you too. Time to drop it and live our best lives knowing we got this!!!!
You are seriously saving my life Dylan. My self concept has completely shifted and I realized how I was actually pushing people away and blocking love by not truly loving myself. I was emotionally unavailable and didn't even know it. It all rooted from childhood trauma and resulting events as an adult. I'm now coming from a place of love instead of self defense, manipulation and games. I've been interacting with my SP in an open and loving way now and have made progress overnight. As I move through this process I have literally felt years of poisoning leaving my soul. I'm finally free. Thank you🙏💖
Ditto. When we were in low state it is difficult to be aware of what love is or distinguish love from game, manipulation or any toxic unhealthy attachment.
I think Dylan's the only coach who doesn't tell you to treat your SP like some object or go around dating others while your SP comes along. He's down to earth, humble, and so loving 😭🥺
I started the Wim Hof Breathing exercise two days ago (3 times a day)...oh man, it instantly makes me feel incredible (dare I say a natural high?), love it!
@@thehealingfairee Oh no! I wonder why this is? I know holding breath is scary for some people, I'm not sure if it's that way for you. Sending love to you
@@thehealingfairee I totally understand that. I finally learned to embrace crying this year. Every time I let it out, I feel better and better. And like Dylan says, if there is something that you are avoiding doing, it's probably because it's the thing you need to do most. You got this
so i’m ten minutes into this video and lol i just realized something - this is gonna sound waaay off but i used to be really bad at math. when id take a test or do homework i would circle the problem that i had a hard time answering. i would focus on the questions i could answer in the moment (in this case with my partner and i, i can focus on myself and make myself happy) but i never sat there obsessively looking at the math question getting mad at the question for not changing. i just came back to it when i was ready. i dunno why i felt the need to share this 😂 but if anyone is dealing with stupid life shit maybe just circle the “problem” and come back to it when you’re more stabilized. i always managed to get the right answer when i stopped wasting my time on just one thing and put my focus elsewhere.
I am sooo doing the 7-day "I'm dropping this" challenge!! I did it once before without knowing anything about manifestation and it worked wonders with my person. Time for a reboot.
Another Disney movie theme song I’ve been singing in my head is from Pinocchio “When you wish upon a star, makes no difference who you are, anything your heart desires will. come. to. You”❤️❤️❤️✨🌅🥰
It literally does not matter how long you haven’t spoken to someone!! Circumstances do not matter! I literally had a random thought about someone I haven’t seen or spoken to in 9 years!! A few days later they messaged me. NINE years, guys! Just a passing thought that I had no attachment to what so ever. Not a SP either which is probably why it happened so fast because there was no attachment lol.
That's very true. Happened to me very often. I just think about someone or something (with zero attachment, just thinking for a few seconds) and next thing I know is this person contacts me or so. I don't expect anything, just go about the day. Then it happens.
I love that you talk about emo regulation. So important. I also stopped talking to almost everyone about relationship stuff. Everyone has their own fears etc and usually they dont help, they just create more fear in you.
Thank you Dylan. I was so heart broken and was having negative thoughts. I was binge watching your video last night I slept with your affirmation. I got up very positive this morning. I wrote 10 things that I am grateful for. I am feeling better and I am not scared. I am only focused on my happiness. Thank you from my bottom of my heart. I am not doubting on myself nor distressed. Ps: while writing this, I got a message from my SP ☺🙏
I had an ex boyf who had this "cool, calm and collected" attitude. While I was dating around, I was always drawn back to him out of all the guys I was seeing. He was magnetic. Was he the best looking guy I was dating at the time? Not at all, but his cool attitude and quiet confidence pulled me in like no other.
You got to learn to be the same to match their energy only than they fall for u . Probably there consciousness level is there and it's easy to be there by follow Dalyan techniques.
Came back to this video and today, I finally got to the place where I see something in 3D and instead of reacting, I thought..meh, he will never find anyone better than me, the more he talks to others the more he realizes I am the only one for him. I did keep checking but then I finally got bored of it and know whatever I saw is not going to last. Thanks Dylan. You have helped me a lot.
Its been 3 days since my SP has not contacted me , first 2 days i was spiralling , however after watching so much videos , support and getting coaching , i am loving myself , i am valuing myself and i understandd that circumstances dont matter, my massive anxiety had been gripping on me but after watching your breathwork suggestion it really worked. Anxiety is almost vanished.... thank you so much :) this is life changing you are a hero
I watched this and then went you know what? I'm done with feeling anxious or upset because of a disagreement and the fear of being cut off. I stepped back after apologizing to focus on myself. I want this person, and I will overcome my limiting beliefs because of this love I feel for them. I realized a inner belief of not believing in that I feel loved and even though I can get to the finish line, very very close with my sp, I never cross it. I have started listening to the 8 hour sleep affirmation limitless manifester and I hit it out of the park. I find myself more confident, and relaxed, and being able to control my thoughts and reactions. I have noticed movement as we are currently talking. Although I feel down some times, or I have a discouraging thought go through my head, I try my best to change it around to positive, and if I am not able to, then I try not to worry about it and just continue on in my day and focus on the day.
23:15 wherever I focus on - the person is emotionally unavailable - that’s going to be my experience . It gets mirrored back to you OMG yes 😩 24:30 you’re making negative thoughts about your partner... 25:00 never had this awareness . Self concept: I always get the relationship i want 26:00 I don’t need you.You’re just a preference. I’m stable you’re gonna want to be with me . Good luck on finding that somewhere else 28:50 be like look this relationship is here for our enjoyment I’m not going to yell at you. What are we learning from this...not take things personally. Don’t create more issues 30:00 stability is number one. It means how are you feeling in regards to particular topic. if you’re not stable in some topic then you’re gonna get triggered... 31:50 not responding to your person is not playing games it is a great choice so you get get stable and it’s mindful 32:40 we need to get out the catastrophy thinking I need to do this and that in my reality. No the only thing you need to do is be you 37:30 I do all these things because I LOVE you
I read almost all comments here. The energy here is so loving and people are so grateful. I feel good. Thanks. Btw a few of the replies doesn’t look like Dylan is it your assistant? Hahahahahahhahahahahaha 😽
I honestly love you so much. I'm bingeing all your videos now. Just going into hermit mode and working on myself, focusing on the person I want to be and coming out brand new. Been thru so much this year, and I'm not going to tolerate a shitty rest of the year. It's only going up from here!!!
I can recommend you to the most powerful spiritualist who helped me got my Ex back permanently with more love and commitment. He can also help you and put a smile on your face,,,
I was crying as I was watching this video bc this is exactly me! I start thinking that I’m never gonna find someone and I get sad over my ex, etc... I feel pathetic sometimes!! Thank you for giving me hope! 🙏🏼
I have known about your channel for about a year now. I love this content because I have implemented this advice in my life before, and seen a complete change happen. But, I would often lose vigilance and slide back. Yo, no more excuses!! No more laziness!! Your channel is showing me that this is a lifestyle, and something that should be a daily practice. Its the disciple and consistency that really makes the difference. Discipline = Freedom
Dylan, I wish I had found you sooner! This might be the best video I’ve watched on TH-cam. Just had my eyes OPENED to all the things I was doing wrong in my previous relationships and how to embody a better, more confident version of myself moving forward. Thank you! 💜
Dylan, your videos should be lecture in colleges and unis ... Coz they'll save humans 😭.. Also guys if u r into kdramas .. watch my demon n see their concept both of do do hee and Jeong gu won. That's the reason y their relationship was sosoooooo perfect;))
You are awesome! Your advice something I have believed and now you are confirming it - not playing games is one.. not texting as a game. I am seeing my SP tomorrow and I feel confident. I've been feeling very confident in myself. My SP knows I'm the one. The circumstances don't matter as you say. Tomorrow he will be wowed by my appearance and be even more attracted to me than ever. Why? Because I say so! 😁
Feeling better everyday. Feeling more okay with myself and things around me. Feeling hopeful and pleasantly expecting good things every day. Old fears and old beliefs don't really phase me these days, its like they are getting small and weak and its even funny for me to think of the things that used to stress me out so much. I love this new way of living life. Thank you Dylan!
i love this man... by the way. my sp told me recently that he is planning to move out to Canada next year (we are in EU) and first it was like punch in my face but couple minutes later i felt so calm... and peace. and now im just like ok.... whatever.. what happens happen i dont need you, you will not going anyway, even if you do, you will come back to me.
I have never commented on your videos! But just so you know, you can’t imagine how much you are helping me changing my subconscious beliefs around relationships and worthiness these days. I am entering a new relationship after more than 2 years of celibacy and I am creating a more confident, secure, healthy version of myself and it has a lot to do with your videos! I feel so much more confident and centered. I listen to the night time affirmations as well, they are helping a lot. Thank you Dylan and thank your for your work ❤️ ❤️
Dear Dylan, Your spirit found me when I mostly needed it. I cannot thank you enough for your authenticity! You have helped me more than you could possibly ever know. Deep gratitude.🙏
I always have heard I had to play games to get what I want and it always felt so forced, unnatural and exhausting. I can align with this belief system so naturally and easily. I really needed to hear this. Thank you so much Dylan, you’re an angel ❤️
U r really awesome as human being too beside being a great teacher and I understand that u r really caring for all of us...beside teaching ,u r asking not to get engage with a troller in comments even because that will waste our time...this really makes u different from all other "coaches"...Seriously ur genuine care and love for us is making u and your channel so popular...I wish more and more people come to your channel so that they all can get the benefits like us... Lots of Love DJ bro from India...🙏🙏🙏
I am a different version of myself everyday. I learn/grow/heal every single day. Many Blessings to you and yours Dylan. Thanks for waking up your neighbors.😁💛🌹
It's sometimes so easy to fall back into the rut of forgetting that we manifest our realities on a moment to moment basis, getting caught up in your own head. But last night I had a passing thought that my SP was going to be reaching out to me very soon. I just felt it, like an in-my-bones sort of knowing. Not even an hour later they messaged and asked to see me. Trust in your knowing, shape your world.
It's the way you engage with your audience without trying to take advantage...just take a bow sir....you've more than earned the respect you receive...
I cannot thank you enough for existing. I was drowning in a sea of confusion and you literally gave me LIFE. It's like you activated a remembrance of who I really am that I had completely forgotten about by being so wrapped up in my mind for too long. Thank you so much. You are an angel. And I never comment anywhere. So this is huge, believe it. You are amazing.
Is anyone else starting to feel like that maybe you don't want or need to be watching dylans vids or checking the community tab everyday? Kinda feel like im not needing it. Im still getting the mute when listening to the affirmation vid.
yess! I feel like I already know enough to manifest, because Dylan described it so good & simple from the beginning, so I don‘t really need to watch more. But at the same time I really enjoy every video bcause I learn something new + I love Dylans energy 😄
That being said…@dylan plz don’t stop making content🙏 Youre that cool teacher everyone still visits even after graduating just to hang out. Improving lives/self-improvement is a topic that never gets old. It’s a lifelong pursuit
He looks like a handsome version of Drake. Just discovered you through Kim. You’re way of telling us is my style. You’re communication skills are fire 🔥
I have to comment before watching this. The title excites me, I’m sooo excited because as of lately, I’ve been affirming that in the best option for all my desires.
Breath work is soo important! I realize that I have been having a lot of anxiety lately and when ever I do the only way I can relax is by going to sleep. But this morning after breathing with you during you mediation I realize that I wasn’t breathing properly. Breathing is so essential guys!
This has been helping me so much with my relationship. We broke up.. but the advice it has been helping me with confidence and self love. His behavior is instantly changing. Aquarius sun and rising. He is a Sagittarius.
Dylaaaaannnn! This video is THE one and it is right on time for me. This video literally helped me relax and get back into alignment for my day. I need to watch this I one daily🙏🏾🙌🏾
This was so good, I’m glad I came across this video. I’m in my 6’mos relationship and I started being insecure and needy. The first 4-5 mos, I just let everything flow. Whenever I have some frustrations I just keep to myself and say its ok, let him be and everything changed positively without me asking it. I don’t know why energy shifted and its been a month and hopefully I still can save it as I am the one who sabotage it anyway.
When you are with me your life gets 100 times better that’s why you are always wanted to be with me. And also in my awareness in my state of been I do not see any treats and I do this things with no expectations
i think i’m finally shifting. i woke up this morning after a horrible dream of a limiting belief i had involving my sp. it had me shaken for a couple hours after waking up. but i did some breath work and listened to one of Dylan’s guided meditations and i feel so much better. those worries left. this stuff really works in stabilizing ones being. i can’t wait to become the best version of me and have all i want :)
Omg i had the same thing! I had a very hurtful about my SP reflecting all my limiting beliefs about him but for the first time I was so calm when I woke up! and I suddenly realized these dream are signs that my old beliefs are being purged out
You are helping me so much Dylan, thank you for everything you do. My feeling state keeps fluctuating, but I'm remaining stable and will continue to persist until my reality becomes what I desire. When I wobble, I listen to you, and it helps me reset. Thank you again for everything. ❤
I really love you. I'm so glad you randomly popped up. Nobody explains anything the way you do on such a real level. It has helped me immensely just in the last few days.
Lol I feel so called out when he said the tarot card videos 😅😂. I actually kind binge watch those almost daily… it’s so freaking bad I need to get that under control honestly. I’m actually glad he said it too.
This video came out at perfect time, today I reached out to my sp who I’ve been in no contact for a long time, which resulted in basically nothing, I beat myself up for being stupid and foolish and just couldn’t stop crying, watching this helps me feel better, thank you Dylan for putting these videos out for free, I think thousands of people are deeply grateful for that
I did the same! You’re not alone. I sent out a text of a nice couples hotels for a getaway so he could see. He didn’t respond. And I beat myself up for it. But I have shifted myself by letting go of that awareness and stepping into wifey mode and focusing on myself. Plus listening to the limitless tape every night. In just two days I’m shifted. I’m wifey. I provide him stability and give him no problems. He’ll be reaching out & I’m not lifting another finger. He will conform because he has no choice !
I have a decent baseline of self concept and stability, I listened to you’re night time limitless manifestation.. just once and dropped something from my awareness entirely yesterday. I already feel amazing today, better than my usual. Definitely a lot calmer than my usual fairly mellow state. I also notice that my immediate surroundings have adjusted overnight. I can only imagine what a week will do.
Hi, just started following you last week and wanted to let you know I really enjoy your videos. I am on day 4 on the Limitless Love Self Concept video and can already feel the difference. Want to say thank you look forward to your videos and may your channel continue to grow 💜
14:04 this is it. This is why so many people have fear and they think the past is going to repeat itself it is a trigger of the past I love this explanation. Spot on!!!
been binge watching your videos and i am so happy to see a new video. i can’t wait for your coaching services to open again as i am in the critical part of my changing. i’ve been in my bad beliefs for many years and it’s a fight rn to change them but i am persisting. it’s day 4 of me listening to your tape each night and i can see my limiting subconscious FIGHTING against new beliefs and self worth. it’s coming up in a form of using my sp to trigger me. we’ve been back in contact now roughy 3 weeks and in the last 4 days he’s been hot and cold going from “good morning/night gorgeous” here and there with an “i’m gonna ignore you for 4 hours or dismiss your cute comments”. i am not letting this get to me as much and the CIRCUMSTANCES DONT MATTER!!!! i know my worth and i am changing my beliefs EVERY MOMENT. thank you dylan.
Yo declaró esto: Yo no persigo yo atraigo Ella me ama Ella me extraña Ella quiere estar conmigo Su mente se aclarara de toda duda y toda inseguridad Cualquier obstáculo o problema que exista para estar juntos desaparecerá Yo soy suficiente Todo lo que necesitaba esta en mi Yo me perdono Ella aceptará mi amor Ella me buscará Nosotros siempre nos apoyaremos.
I’m confused between “not going no contact” and “no need to reach out because that’s trying and they will come to you when you are in alignment” 🤔... would love if you’d elaborate on this. Thank you Dylan!!! 🙏🏻🥰💕
If you want to talk to them ask yourself “am I doing this because I wanna talk to them or because I don’t believe they’ll talk to me otherwise” if because you wanna talk to them great, if because you don’t believe they’ll talk to you then don’t perpetuate the story :)
So if we have had no contact from them it’s best we work on changing our self concept and let them contact us through manifesting it that way?? I really prefer he be the one to reach out first :-/
@@IAm_DylanJames I have watched all of your videos... the question was because there are vids where you say “don’t reach out” because we don’t need to, However, that seems like “no contact” which you say here is “not a good idea” 🤷♀️. Just seemed contradictory to me is all, so was looking for clarification on that specifically. I tried to book a session with you but you aren’t taking any bookings now. So just trying to really absorb and understand all I can from your vids. If something seems unclear or contradictory... I tend to just ask 🤷♀️ 😉🙏🏻🥰
Dylan you are amazing I have been tryna figure this all out for a very long time and now ur words have just click everything in place for me.. Truly Thank you for being you. Your a beautiful soul and you deserve all the joy and love this human experience provides..as we all do ❤
Hello dear I can recommend you to the great and powerful relationship restorer who helped me manifested my ex back with more love and commitment he can help you and put a smile in your face❤🙏,,
On the topic of tarot; as a reader, I’ve noticed that majority of general readings only confirm thoughts and assumptions and not so much reality. Plus, energies can get crossed up and it’s hard to tell who’s thoughts and feelings are who’s. I agree that it’s a good idea to take a break from the tarot unless they’re feeding you positivity.
Hi Dylan, absolutely amazing content. I took notes while listening as though you were speaking directly to me (which was very comforting lol).. also I had a thought 3 days ago saying to myself that I hadn't see you during a livestream video yet and really really wanted too .. yaaay! My manifest happened and there you were, LIVE!!! Awesome and thank you.❤
The way you describe how you were with Adam, that’s exactly how I am with my partner, I don’t expect anything , I do things around the house because I love him & that’s what you do when you love someone xxx
Breath-work: th-cam.com/video/tybOi4hjZFQ/w-d-xo.html
For manifesting, I have a whole playlist on my channel titled "How to manifest anything" - Again, shifting your beliefs and relaxing will literally materialize the desired result to you... I did a video last week on how "manifesting is not a trying process" and gave specific examples, from my life, where I have applied this.. Check out other content, this video is a summary for people that have watched a good majority of my content and can follow what I am saying. Manifesting is all about shifting your self-concept and releasing the "old story", leading with confidence and BEING the change you seek to experience.
Dylan, what do you think about adding Eft tapping and physical anchoring to the Breathwork?
@@rajb4726 If it helps you relax, do it.
@@IAm_DylanJames Your brilliant. I have struggled for 2 years painfully I have manifested so much in my life including my ex back after year and half apart .. 7 months ago. for the 3rd time .Sadly though i didn't break patterns and it all shattered again. I have spiraled since he left me again 5 months ago . Had I found you years ago I could have prevented so much heartbreak with him. He told me this time its final and done
He blocked me on EVERYTHING.
I'm devastated.
@@IAm_DylanJames, kool. The anchor im playing with is when I press my ring finger and thumb on my left hand, I can get relaxed really quickly. Sometimes within seconds. And doing Eft tapping on acupuncture points just seems to cement the affirmation a bit quicker for me. Thanks for replying man.
@@awolfadventureawildconnect5311 If you could manifest him in the past, you can do it again. There is a story you keep repeating and it is due to YOUR beliefs. Not due to his beliefs. Everyone is you pushed out, pls don't forget that. The things he said do NOT matter. Change your beliefs and it is done.
Maybe you haven't found Dylan years ago but now you are aware of what you should do. You couldn't prevent the heartbreak till now but you can from now on.
Yes, it is sad that he blocked you but there are hundreds of success stories of people who manifested being unblocked and ended up having the best relationship with their SPs. If they could do it, you can do it too.
This guy is kind hearted and generous. A pure soul who wholeheartedly wants to help others. Please don’t undermine his selflessness. 🙌
So true ! As far as I know, Dylan is the most genuine person and such a lovely human being 💜
@@asmasultan4851 Completely concur, Asma
Vikram Mehta I totally agree with you !!! Dylan puts soo much heart into his videos. Very genuine. Love him !!!😍😍😍
The best! Absolute Angel 👼
And he's cute
My circumstances: remember when your SP said this.... and this is how long it has been since you've heard from him....
Me: not today Satan...NOT TODAY
bro seriously 🤣🤣, my brain will bring up little shit that i didn’t even know i remembered
hahah I FEEL this.
omg samee but girl we got this 😈
Hehe 😉👏👏👏👊
This was me today! 😭😂😂
Dylan really is out here training us baddies to have a boss ass attitude! look at us glowin'
Baddie bootcamp
@@IAm_DylanJames ❣
@@IAm_DylanJames yassss love you buddy❤️💯
I’m at a point where I just know everything is done for me. I don’t even worry about the things that I was once hung up over. My SP reaches out to me all the time and I have this confidence that we’re already in a relationship. I even waking up one morning feeling really happy out of nowhere. I just knew it was done. I don’t feel this obsessive need to be checking my manifestations and watching coaching on TH-cam. I’m just watch it for motivation. Right now, I’m just going about my life with a sense of knowing that I’m getting exactly what I want. I don’t even tell myself that a better person will come alone because I really love my SP and I chose him for a reason. I don’t need to settle. It’s so refreshing to hear because I’ve always been told to lower my expectations, especially in love. I’m doing that anymore!! Thank you!
Good for you ! you go girl 🙌
That’s so great! Regarding the SP, could you please tell me a bit of what you’ve been doing? My SP came back 3 weeks ago saying he loves me but can’t have a relationship. I’m currently trying to manifest it but it gets a bit hard. Deep down I know it’s not over and I’m not accepting a NO from him but I just need a bit of advice I guess. Thank you :)
@@waffles9902 this is the exact thing i’m going through!! i’m not taking no as an answer from him. i feel like as long as we stay confident within ourselves it’ll all unfold within due time without worrying about what’s not going on at the moment. (:
rari oh wow, that’s so true!! i already know my desire which is a loving relationship with my SP because I deserve it and you too. Time to drop it and live our best lives knowing we got this!!!!
@@waffles9902 exactly, we both know what ever it is that we want we are going to get so no need to stress it!
I swear, I just really stepped into the wifey mode and my SP responds now in a husband mode. It’s really sweet.
You are seriously saving my life Dylan. My self concept has completely shifted and I realized how I was actually pushing people away and blocking love by not truly loving myself. I was emotionally unavailable and didn't even know it. It all rooted from childhood trauma and resulting events as an adult. I'm now coming from a place of love instead of self defense, manipulation and games. I've been interacting with my SP in an open and loving way now and have made progress overnight. As I move through this process I have literally felt years of poisoning leaving my soul. I'm finally free. Thank you🙏💖
Ditto
Thank you for sharing that with us, beautiful friend. So happy to read your story and the new path your on! Much love and blessings! ❤️🌸
Ditto. When we were in low state it is difficult to be aware of what love is or distinguish love from game, manipulation or any toxic unhealthy attachment.
I feel the same! I’m so grateful I found this channel!
Wow I want this to be me! God Bless you🙌🏿🙌🏻
When Dylan’s videos pump you up more than working out at the gym😂😂😂😂
I’ll working out at gym while watching his video, which is doubled hahaha
Soo true I dropped my clients 😂😂😂 just to watch
Hahaha,...♥️
Much love and respect from
Hyderabad India 🇮🇳
Yes!!! He has a Rampage he put to music that I would listen to on a loop and motivate myself every morning I did this for weeks. 🤣
funny i literally listen to him when i go gym
I think Dylan's the only coach who doesn't tell you to treat your SP like some object or go around dating others while your SP comes along. He's down to earth, humble, and so loving 😭🥺
the more i manifest, i start believing more and more to myself and manifesting. and when i believe more, it works even more effortlessly.😄
the cycleeee
There are never any problems because I AM the solution. Loved that!!
I started the Wim Hof Breathing exercise two days ago (3 times a day)...oh man, it instantly makes me feel incredible (dare I say a natural high?), love it!
Same!!! It's surprisingly effective and powerful
@@thehealingfairee Oh no! I wonder why this is? I know holding breath is scary for some people, I'm not sure if it's that way for you. Sending love to you
@@thehealingfairee I totally understand that. I finally learned to embrace crying this year. Every time I let it out, I feel better and better. And like Dylan says, if there is something that you are avoiding doing, it's probably because it's the thing you need to do most. You got this
Look at all this "people helping people" in the comments section. This is so beautiful!
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@@thehealingfairee when I first did this exercise, I would cry half way through. Suppressed emotions being released. Be gentle 💜
so i’m ten minutes into this video and lol i just realized something - this is gonna sound waaay off but i used to be really bad at math. when id take a test or do homework i would circle the problem that i had a hard time answering. i would focus on the questions i could answer in the moment (in this case with my partner and i, i can focus on myself and make myself happy) but i never sat there obsessively looking at the math question getting mad at the question for not changing. i just came back to it when i was ready. i dunno why i felt the need to share this 😂 but if anyone is dealing with stupid life shit maybe just circle the “problem” and come back to it when you’re more stabilized. i always managed to get the right answer when i stopped wasting my time on just one thing and put my focus elsewhere.
Simple, little analogies like this make all the difference.
Such a short and simple analogy! Thank you for sharing 💚
I am sooo doing the 7-day "I'm dropping this" challenge!! I did it once before without knowing anything about manifestation and it worked wonders with my person. Time for a reboot.
where is it
Can you explain more?
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Another Disney movie theme song I’ve been singing in my head is from Pinocchio “When you wish upon a star, makes no difference who you are, anything your heart desires will. come. to. You”❤️❤️❤️✨🌅🥰
I loved this😭😭😭🤞🏾 now I’m going to go home and watch Disney movies🤣
It literally does not matter how long you haven’t spoken to someone!! Circumstances do not matter! I literally had a random thought about someone I haven’t seen or spoken to in 9 years!! A few days later they messaged me. NINE years, guys! Just a passing thought that I had no attachment to what so ever. Not a SP either which is probably why it happened so fast because there was no attachment lol.
That's very true. Happened to me very often. I just think about someone or something (with zero attachment, just thinking for a few seconds) and next thing I know is this person contacts me or so. I don't expect anything, just go about the day. Then it happens.
I love that you talk about emo regulation. So important. I also stopped talking to almost everyone about relationship stuff. Everyone has their own fears etc and usually they dont help, they just create more fear in you.
I feel the same way! The more u talk to ppl, the more u recognize everyone is projecting their own limiting beliefs
Thank you Dylan. I was so heart broken and was having negative thoughts. I was binge watching your video last night I slept with your affirmation. I got up very positive this morning. I wrote 10 things that I am grateful for. I am feeling better and I am not scared. I am only focused on my happiness. Thank you from my bottom of my heart. I am not doubting on myself nor distressed.
Ps: while writing this, I got a message from my SP ☺🙏
I had an ex boyf who had this "cool, calm and collected" attitude. While I was dating around, I was always drawn back to him out of all the guys I was seeing. He was magnetic. Was he the best looking guy I was dating at the time? Not at all, but his cool attitude and quiet confidence pulled me in like no other.
My bf is just the same :) I can't help but feel so in love with him for being the way he is...❤
You got to learn to be the same to match their energy only than they fall for u . Probably there consciousness level is there and it's easy to be there by follow Dalyan techniques.
A 40 minute Dylan James video? How did we all become soo blessed?! 😍🙌🏻💞
Came back to this video and today, I finally got to the place where I see something in 3D and instead of reacting, I thought..meh, he will never find anyone better than me, the more he talks to others the more he realizes I am the only one for him. I did keep checking but then I finally got bored of it and know whatever I saw is not going to last. Thanks Dylan. You have helped me a lot.
Its been 3 days since my SP has not contacted me , first 2 days i was spiralling , however after watching so much videos , support and getting coaching , i am loving myself , i am valuing myself and i understandd that circumstances dont matter, my massive anxiety had been gripping on me but after watching your breathwork suggestion it really worked. Anxiety is almost vanished.... thank you so much :) this is life changing you are a hero
Dylan you’re the most amazing partner ever!!!!! I will be just as an amazing partner as you ❤️
I watched this and then went you know what? I'm done with feeling anxious or upset because of a disagreement and the fear of being cut off. I stepped back after apologizing to focus on myself. I want this person, and I will overcome my limiting beliefs because of this love I feel for them. I realized a inner belief of not believing in that I feel loved and even though I can get to the finish line, very very close with my sp, I never cross it. I have started listening to the 8 hour sleep affirmation limitless manifester and I hit it out of the park. I find myself more confident, and relaxed, and being able to control my thoughts and reactions. I have noticed movement as we are currently talking. Although I feel down some times, or I have a discouraging thought go through my head, I try my best to change it around to positive, and if I am not able to, then I try not to worry about it and just continue on in my day and focus on the day.
23:15 wherever I focus on - the person is emotionally unavailable - that’s going to be my experience . It gets mirrored back to you
OMG yes 😩
24:30 you’re making negative thoughts about your partner...
25:00 never had this awareness . Self concept: I always get the relationship i want
26:00 I don’t need you.You’re just a preference. I’m stable you’re gonna want to be with me . Good luck on finding that somewhere else
28:50 be like look this relationship is here for our enjoyment I’m not going to yell at you. What are we learning from this...not take things personally. Don’t create more issues
30:00 stability is number one. It means how are you feeling in regards to particular topic. if you’re not stable in some topic then you’re gonna get triggered...
31:50 not responding to your person is not playing games it is a great choice so you get get stable and it’s mindful
32:40 we need to get out the catastrophy thinking I need to do this and that in my reality. No the only thing you need to do is be you
37:30 I do all these things because I LOVE you
Some Notes, 😂😂 I wrote down 2 pages this is literal gold
Could you send it to me lol
Awareness
Stability
Breathing
Show up as being no expectation
You are the best option
We’re so lucky to have you Dylan ❤️ one of the most genuine people
You’re changing my life. I can feel the shift happening for me and I’m really sticking to it. I look forward to our coaching session one day 😌
Only Dylan I can listen to for 40 minutes straight with my eyes glued to the screen and without missing a beat. Thank you 🙏🏽 you’re the best.
I can’t believe your videos are free. They are all like Therapy
I read almost all comments here. The energy here is so loving and people are so grateful. I feel good. Thanks.
Btw a few of the replies doesn’t look like Dylan is it your assistant? Hahahahahahhahahahahaha 😽
I honestly love you so much. I'm bingeing all your videos now. Just going into hermit mode and working on myself, focusing on the person I want to be and coming out brand new. Been thru so much this year, and I'm not going to tolerate a shitty rest of the year. It's only going up from here!!!
I can recommend you to the most powerful spiritualist who helped me got my Ex back permanently with more love and commitment. He can also help you and put a smile on your face,,,
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I was crying as I was watching this video bc this is exactly me! I start thinking that I’m never gonna find someone and I get sad over my ex, etc... I feel pathetic sometimes!! Thank you for giving me hope! 🙏🏼
I have known about your channel for about a year now. I love this content because I have implemented this advice in my life before, and seen a complete change happen. But, I would often lose vigilance and slide back. Yo, no more excuses!! No more laziness!! Your channel is showing me that this is a lifestyle, and something that should be a daily practice. Its the disciple and consistency that really makes the difference. Discipline = Freedom
I took notes on this one. One of the best vids yet! Also, I discovered Wim Hof a couple years ago. He’s the man! And you’re also the man!
Dylan, I wish I had found you sooner! This might be the best video I’ve watched on TH-cam. Just had my eyes OPENED to all the things I was doing wrong in my previous relationships and how to embody a better, more confident version of myself moving forward. Thank you! 💜
This information is gold but I still want to get coaching by him once things are set into motion
Why didn't I know this several years earlier??!!! Dylan you’re awesome? Sound and priceless advice
Dylan, your videos should be lecture in colleges and unis ... Coz they'll save humans 😭..
Also guys if u r into kdramas .. watch my demon n see their concept both of do do hee and Jeong gu won. That's the reason y their relationship was sosoooooo perfect;))
You are awesome! Your advice something I have believed and now you are confirming it - not playing games is one.. not texting as a game. I am seeing my SP tomorrow and I feel confident. I've been feeling very confident in myself. My SP knows I'm the one. The circumstances don't matter as you say. Tomorrow he will be wowed by my appearance and be even more attracted to me than ever. Why? Because I say so! 😁
Can you please update us (or me) how that went, and how you are doing now?
Feeling better everyday. Feeling more okay with myself and things around me. Feeling hopeful and pleasantly expecting good things every day. Old fears and old beliefs don't really phase me these days, its like they are getting small and weak and its even funny for me to think of the things that used to stress me out so much. I love this new way of living life. Thank you Dylan!
i love this man...
by the way. my sp told me recently that he is planning to move out to Canada next year (we are in EU) and first it was like punch in my face but couple minutes later i felt so calm... and peace. and now im just like ok.... whatever.. what happens happen i dont need you, you will not going anyway, even if you do, you will come back to me.
Where about you live? I am from France 😉😊
@@anaisd3735 Ireland (since 2013) ;)
my dm came back after 4 years and now because of your content I am able to act with stability and I am being for him the best of me
I have never commented on your videos! But just so you know, you can’t imagine how much you are helping me changing my subconscious beliefs around relationships and worthiness these days. I am entering a new relationship after more than 2 years of celibacy and I am creating a more confident, secure, healthy version of myself and it has a lot to do with your videos! I feel so much more confident and centered.
I listen to the night time affirmations as well, they are helping a lot. Thank you Dylan and thank your for your work ❤️ ❤️
This video appeared today as a suggestion. Wow. Thank you, Dylan. ❤️ You and your essence are gifts. It is already done! #FearlessConfidence 🙌🏼🙌🏽🙌🏾
So handsome today Coach! Thank you for this very insightful video!
You are the beeest!! i litteraly took this and made a check list and i really really feel like this person
Dear Dylan, Your spirit found me when I mostly needed it. I cannot thank you enough for your authenticity! You have helped me more than you could possibly ever know. Deep gratitude.🙏
this nigga is pure genius.
I always have heard I had to play games to get what I want and it always felt so forced, unnatural and exhausting. I can align with this belief system so naturally and easily. I really needed to hear this. Thank you so much Dylan, you’re an angel ❤️
U r really awesome as human being too beside being a great teacher and I understand that u r really caring for all of us...beside teaching ,u r asking not to get engage with a troller in comments even because that will waste our time...this really makes u different from all other "coaches"...Seriously ur genuine care and love for us is making u and your channel so popular...I wish more and more people come to your channel so that they all can get the benefits like us... Lots of Love DJ bro from India...🙏🙏🙏
can we please get content on improving current “contact” relationships? thank you for your awesome supportive energy! 🤩
great idea!
I am a different version of myself everyday. I learn/grow/heal every single day. Many Blessings to you and yours Dylan. Thanks for waking up your neighbors.😁💛🌹
It's sometimes so easy to fall back into the rut of forgetting that we manifest our realities on a moment to moment basis, getting caught up in your own head.
But last night I had a passing thought that my SP was going to be reaching out to me very soon. I just felt it, like an in-my-bones sort of knowing. Not even an hour later they messaged and asked to see me.
Trust in your knowing, shape your world.
It's the way you engage with your audience without trying to take advantage...just take a bow sir....you've more than earned the respect you receive...
I cannot thank you enough for existing. I was drowning in a sea of confusion and you literally gave me LIFE. It's like you activated a remembrance of who I really am that I had completely forgotten about by being so wrapped up in my mind for too long. Thank you so much. You are an angel. And I never comment anywhere. So this is huge, believe it. You are amazing.
Is anyone else starting to feel like that maybe you don't want or need to be watching dylans vids or checking the community tab everyday? Kinda feel like im not needing it. Im still getting the mute when listening to the affirmation vid.
I was JUST talking about this with my friend that I met through Dylan!!!
@@gorgeeus girl it me!! 😂 but YES we were just talking about this!!
yess! I feel like I already know enough to manifest, because Dylan described it so good & simple from the beginning, so I don‘t really need to watch more. But at the same time I really enjoy every video bcause I learn something new + I love Dylans energy 😄
Yah, I don’t really watch for educational reasons anymore, his vibe just puts me in a good mood
That being said…@dylan plz don’t stop making content🙏 Youre that cool teacher everyone still visits even after graduating just to hang out. Improving lives/self-improvement is a topic that never gets old. It’s a lifelong pursuit
I been singing allday let it go when he comes into my head,😂😂
This is the best video I have seen in a long time. I love all of your content but this one is absolutely fabulous.
He looks like a handsome version of Drake. Just discovered you through Kim. You’re way of telling us is my style. You’re communication skills are fire 🔥
I have to comment before watching this. The title excites me, I’m sooo excited because as of lately, I’ve been affirming that in the best option for all my desires.
Breath work is soo important! I realize that I have been having a lot of anxiety lately and when ever I do the only way I can relax is by going to sleep. But this morning after breathing with you during you mediation I realize that I wasn’t breathing properly. Breathing is so essential guys!
Can you elaborate on this breathwork?
This has been helping me so much with my relationship. We broke up.. but the advice it has been helping me with confidence and self love. His behavior is instantly changing. Aquarius sun and rising. He is a Sagittarius.
Dylaaaaannnn! This video is THE one and it is right on time for me. This video literally helped me relax and get back into alignment for my day. I need to watch this I one daily🙏🏾🙌🏾
This was so good, I’m glad I came across this video. I’m in my 6’mos relationship and I started being insecure and needy. The first 4-5 mos, I just let everything flow. Whenever I have some frustrations I just keep to myself and say its ok, let him be and everything changed positively without me asking it. I don’t know why energy shifted and its been a month and hopefully I still can save it as I am the one who sabotage it anyway.
When you are with me your life gets 100 times better that’s why you are always wanted to be with me. And also in my awareness in my state of been I do not see any treats and I do this things with no expectations
I need to watch this every day. Multiple times a day
You give so much, Dylan. May all that much and more come back to you in every way. Thank you. 🧡
I am the best thing he will ever have and he knows that. He looks for me in others but there’s only one me. I am irreplaceable 😉💜
i think i’m finally shifting. i woke up this morning after a horrible dream of a limiting belief i had involving my sp. it had me shaken for a couple hours after waking up. but i did some breath work and listened to one of Dylan’s guided meditations and i feel so much better. those worries left. this stuff really works in stabilizing ones being. i can’t wait to become the best version of me and have all i want :)
Omg i had the same thing! I had a very hurtful about my SP reflecting all my limiting beliefs about him but for the first time I was so calm when I woke up! and I suddenly realized these dream are signs that my old beliefs are being purged out
You are helping me so much Dylan, thank you for everything you do. My feeling state keeps fluctuating, but I'm remaining stable and will continue to persist until my reality becomes what I desire. When I wobble, I listen to you, and it helps me reset. Thank you again for everything. ❤
Dylan you are so fkn beautiful. You’re radiating beauty, your vibe and the way you look. It’s all on point 👌❤️
I really love you. I'm so glad you randomly popped up. Nobody explains anything the way you do on such a real level. It has helped me immensely just in the last few days.
Goddamn, Dylan! You truly cover everything on my mind and you SHINE the entire time. Thank you!!
This answered so many questions I've had after obsessing over attachment styles. It really doesn't matter!
Lol I feel so called out when he said the tarot card videos 😅😂. I actually kind binge watch those almost daily… it’s so freaking bad I need to get that under control honestly. I’m actually glad he said it too.
This video came out at perfect time, today I reached out to my sp who I’ve been in no contact for a long time, which resulted in basically nothing, I beat myself up for being stupid and foolish and just couldn’t stop crying, watching this helps me feel better, thank you Dylan for putting these videos out for free, I think thousands of people are deeply grateful for that
you can still get what you want. Im in the same boat as you !!
I did the same! You’re not alone. I sent out a text of a nice couples hotels for a getaway so he could see. He didn’t respond. And I beat myself up for it. But I have shifted myself by letting go of that awareness and stepping into wifey mode and focusing on myself. Plus listening to the limitless tape every night. In just two days I’m shifted. I’m wifey. I provide him stability and give him no problems. He’ll be reaching out & I’m not lifting another finger. He will conform because he has no choice !
@@arila678 we got this 💛
@@lisa-lx5kj sending love 💌😌
@@kinwind8432 thanks babes back at ya!!
I have a decent baseline of self concept and stability, I listened to you’re night time limitless manifestation.. just once and dropped something from my awareness entirely yesterday. I already feel amazing today, better than my usual. Definitely a lot calmer than my usual fairly mellow state. I also notice that my immediate surroundings have adjusted overnight. I can only imagine what a week will do.
Sheeeesshh I love how you get straight to the point and are able to explain VERY VERY well. You do not confuse your points. LOVE IT
Hi, just started following you last week and wanted to let you know I really enjoy your videos. I am on day 4 on the Limitless Love Self Concept video and can already feel the difference. Want to say thank you look forward to your videos and may your channel continue to grow 💜
14:04 this is it. This is why so many people have fear and they think the past is going to repeat itself it is a trigger of the past I love this explanation. Spot on!!!
been binge watching your videos and i am so happy to see a new video. i can’t wait for your coaching services to open again as i am in the critical part of my changing. i’ve been in my bad beliefs for many years and it’s a fight rn to change them but i am persisting.
it’s day 4 of me listening to your tape each night and i can see my limiting subconscious FIGHTING against new beliefs and self worth.
it’s coming up in a form of using my sp to trigger me. we’ve been back in contact now roughy 3 weeks and in the last 4 days he’s been hot and cold going from “good morning/night gorgeous” here and there with an “i’m gonna ignore you for 4 hours or dismiss your cute comments”.
i am not letting this get to me as much and the CIRCUMSTANCES DONT MATTER!!!!
i know my worth and i am changing my beliefs EVERY MOMENT. thank you dylan.
Any updates
Thank you for changing my life. I've been watching your videos for a week and I feel invincible 💝🙏🙏🙏
This entire video is absolutely genius!!!!!
Literally ❤
Yo declaró esto:
Yo no persigo yo atraigo
Ella me ama
Ella me extraña
Ella quiere estar conmigo
Su mente se aclarara de toda duda y toda inseguridad
Cualquier obstáculo o problema que exista para estar juntos desaparecerá
Yo soy suficiente
Todo lo que necesitaba esta en mi
Yo me perdono
Ella aceptará mi amor
Ella me buscará
Nosotros siempre nos apoyaremos.
Cómo te fue? Tienes algún consejo?
I’m confused between “not going no contact” and “no need to reach out because that’s trying and they will come to you when you are in alignment” 🤔... would love if you’d elaborate on this. Thank you Dylan!!! 🙏🏻🥰💕
If you want to talk to them ask yourself “am I doing this because I wanna talk to them or because I don’t believe they’ll talk to me otherwise” if because you wanna talk to them great, if because you don’t believe they’ll talk to you then don’t perpetuate the story :)
Refer to the playlist on my channel "How to manifest anything"
So if we have had no contact from them it’s best we work on changing our self concept and let them contact us through manifesting it that way?? I really prefer he be the one to reach out first :-/
@@cali-sun2014 then focus on the reaching out to you. Well not ficus but imagine them contacting you if that makes sense 😍
@@IAm_DylanJames I have watched all of your videos... the question was because there are vids where you say “don’t reach out” because we don’t need to, However, that seems like “no contact” which you say here is “not a good idea” 🤷♀️. Just seemed contradictory to me is all, so was looking for clarification on that specifically. I tried to book a session with you but you aren’t taking any bookings now. So just trying to really absorb and understand all I can from your vids. If something seems unclear or contradictory... I tend to just ask 🤷♀️
😉🙏🏻🥰
I’d put this as one of the most valuable videos on TH-cam. This is great advice, you can tell he knows what he’s talking about
Dylan is the best!!!
Dylan you are amazing I have been tryna figure this all out for a very long time and now ur words have just click everything in place for me.. Truly Thank you for being you. Your a beautiful soul and you deserve all the joy and love this human experience provides..as we all do ❤
"I am the solution!" Wow!
I began listening to Dylan James a few weeks ago he’s so authentic with the delivery of his information.
Hello dear I can recommend you to the great and powerful relationship restorer who helped me manifested my ex back with more love and commitment he can help you and put a smile in your face❤🙏,,
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25:03 People get very upset with this reality, I’ll move on real quick. I’m only available for comfort and happiness! No bs zone lol
OH MY GOD YES! The way we spend our energy is EVERYTHING!
Definitely the level of discipline! You definitely know what you are talking about. Everything resonated with me. I love how you lay out everything ❤
I had to slow down the playback to let it sink in. I've watched it 4x already. I love your confidence.
I just f**king love you Dylan 💙🤍 thank you 🙏🏻
Lol I thought it's just me, I really love this guy, very genuine person and gives the best advice
On the topic of tarot; as a reader, I’ve noticed that majority of general readings only confirm thoughts and assumptions and not so much reality. Plus, energies can get crossed up and it’s hard to tell who’s thoughts and feelings are who’s. I agree that it’s a good idea to take a break from the tarot unless they’re feeding you positivity.
Hi Dylan, absolutely amazing content. I took notes while listening as though you were speaking directly to me (which was very comforting lol).. also I had a thought 3 days ago saying to myself that I hadn't see you during a livestream video yet and really really wanted too .. yaaay! My manifest happened and there you were, LIVE!!! Awesome and thank you.❤
Thanks Dylan I felt as though you were talking to me , sending love from Scotland 🏴 I am so grateful for your videos guidance 💜💜💜
The way you describe how you were with Adam, that’s exactly how I am with my partner, I don’t expect anything , I do things around the house because I love him & that’s what you do when you love someone xxx