Real-Talk: Relationships, Mindset, Manifesting

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  • @IAm_DylanJames
    @IAm_DylanJames  2 ปีที่แล้ว +240

    ** Regarding my comment and relationships: They are a growth process, growth requires commitment, seeing the bigger picture, humbling yourself down, admitting your wrongs, believing in yourself, believing in your partner, making good assumptions, holding a vision, trusting, learning and constantly evolving. That process is not always "easy" - I am not saying this as a limitation, it's just being realistic. If you have really aligned beliefs, then it will be easy because you won't be thrown off by any challenges and will know what to expect and how to handle it. However, relationships at the end of the day do require you to be conscious and aware. It's an ongoing process that requires nurturing 💕

    • @ednadorantes9606
      @ednadorantes9606 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yasss.... here for formal wear! Love it! Button the collar all the way up baby! No one's opinion matters but yours. I too have been elevating my style lately. I asked myself how does the woman I am becoming dress like? Cleaned out my closet and bought staple pieces to elevate my wardrobe. I've been going to work in my best outfits and it makes me feel great. This is one of the things I've implemented into my daily routine to better myself and put the focus on me and how I feel. Nothing like a cute outfit to put a pep in your step. Anyway, love your teaching and kind soul! Thank you Dylan! 💗💗

    • @karinacastillo4405
      @karinacastillo4405 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dude, you are amazing. The end

    • @novithraa
      @novithraa 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Dylan, what to do if my SP says he loves me and likes being with me but he don’t want to be in a committed relationship. We used to be in a relationship previously and broke up as the fights took over.. and after a year now i have manifested him back in my life but he is saying he is not sure if things will work out as he can’t be in a committed relationship. What should I do?

    • @Capeverdeprc
      @Capeverdeprc 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      BFF @ Dylan!!! Thank you for always keeping it 💯 with us and bringing it!! I love you so so so much 💙

    • @LLuna-hw2fv
      @LLuna-hw2fv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@novithraa change your assumptions of that.. he says it in this video.. listen to this video until you hear the message 💗
      Trust me. I understand.. my person doesn’t want commitment with me or anyone yet he contacts me and asks to see me. He has a fear of commitment but I continue to affirm he loves just me.. he will commit to me. He will work on himself and apologize to me, etc.. also in the mean time. Just focus on YOU,. As you shift your self concept you’ll begin to not need his validation of commitment and when you hang out just be present. I feel I’ve moved away from needing him to commit to me. Bc I’m okay either way ..

  • @French.Ass.Name.
    @French.Ass.Name. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    As a tarot reader, THANK YOU.
    Tarot has the ability to give a person clarity and insight into their situation and show them what can happen based on their current state. Nothing is set in stone. If you dont like what your reader tells you, you have every right to change it!
    I tell all my clients this.

    • @msdiva1005
      @msdiva1005 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Same I do readings and tell the clients that Energy changes all the time

    • @NeloBladeOfRanni
      @NeloBladeOfRanni ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same
      Not a tarot reader myself but as a witch I will say it so annoys me when people take tarot readings like they are literal gospel lol

    • @sarahcobner776
      @sarahcobner776 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same I tell my clients that too ❤

  • @NadaAhmed-ms3ur
    @NadaAhmed-ms3ur 2 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    It works, it is so real, it is magic. I started belief system change back in November. It was not easy, I had a ton of limiting beliefs related to love especially. I started recording my own affirmation tapes, and I would change it every 21 days. I would get a shit ton of resistance, releasing emotions, fears and tons of doubts surrounding my person, myself, the feelings I have for him and all. I kept going no matter what, I sat with my feelings as soon as they would come up, no judgement, no control, just pure love and acceptance for myself and my state at the time. I was very patient with myself, with the process, made it about me and the person I was unbecoming. I realized that when I was manifesting him, I was actually manifesting myself back, and it is so beautiful to see that, he is the embodiment of what I feel now about myself, and who I am at my core. He reflects the version of me that is free and alive, and I feel that so strongly around him. I kept going with super triggering circumstances in my face (3P), I kept going I knew I always was his first choice, but I had pushed his love away because of my limitations. And now, there is no much movement, fast, and just like a pure miracle from the Universe, he moved to the flat right in front of me which was something I would NEVER think of as part of the unfolding, everyone around me is in shock to how things unfolded that way. And I know my end, but the journey was pure magic and I cannot wait for more. Keep persisting, it is SO worth it.

    • @paolaguerrero1810
      @paolaguerrero1810 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      this is so inspiring 🥺 I CAN DO THIS TOO. IT'S DONE!

    • @IAm_DylanJames
      @IAm_DylanJames  2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      You got this !! 💕

    • @NadaAhmed-ms3ur
      @NadaAhmed-ms3ur 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thank you for everything! You are a gem, you are brilliant. I love you so much ❤️

    • @anaisd3735
      @anaisd3735 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      💜💜💜💜💜

    • @akshe4748
      @akshe4748 ปีที่แล้ว

      update?

  • @chigirl6391
    @chigirl6391 2 ปีที่แล้ว +211

    Honestly Dylan, you're one of the kindest teachers out here. Drag us all you need... 🤣 Some teachers do not have people's best interest in mind. This is why your base remains - because you're genuine. If ever it gets tiring repeating the same things over and over, please KNOW, you do absolutely make a difference in so many lives. It is about self concept and once that clicks in someone's mind, they're changed forever. So yes, please keep coming with the fire 🔥. I personally have seen good movement and it's due to my self concept. It took time for it to connect with me just what that meant, but it's been worth it - because I'm worth it💥💥

    • @Kiera_R
      @Kiera_R 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I understand alot of this ...but when people or mentors use the word self concept is it another way of saying self love or is there more to it? I say healthy affirmations to myself daily but the click of self concept i dont think has happened yet and im wondering if im not understanding it correctly? Any input would be greatly appreciated ❤

    • @matthewisthebest8152
      @matthewisthebest8152 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Once it sinks in at a core level you fully understand that your feeling state is creating everything you stop reacting to the old self concept and choose to feel great despite what the 3D is showing I’ve just reached that point last week or so it’s thanks to Dylan this takes time to understand it did for me not a limiting belief it just did lol.

    • @chigirl6391
      @chigirl6391 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Kiera_R I've seen teachers separate the two and I've seen some who blur the two together. Overall, to me, it feels like two sides of the same coin. My concepts of who I am dictate how I feel about myself. With that said, Shelly Bullard literally did 1 or 2 videos in the last few days discussing the two. If this is a sticking point for you, I recommend listening to her explain it for help in clarifying. For me, I see all beliefs about myself as contributing to building or reducing a sense of self value and love :)

  • @priscillasoto6506
    @priscillasoto6506 2 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    I love how we can see that you don’t do this for money, you genuinely want to help us ❤️

    • @chloechadwick2739
      @chloechadwick2739 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      of course he does this for money. you're fooling yourself if you think he's genuine too. this is all about money why do you think he has the affirmations up so people will click on them. he'll probably delete this comment 😂 but make no mistake he's laughing all the way to the bank.

    • @IAm_DylanJames
      @IAm_DylanJames  2 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      @@chloechadwick2739 I am not afraid of your comments or backlash. Feel entitled to your opinion.

    • @LoveeYourselff404
      @LoveeYourselff404 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      @@chloechadwick2739 damn you should really work on your self concept. He has great videos on that ☺️

    • @awolfadventureawildconnect5311
      @awolfadventureawildconnect5311 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      which is unique to other coaches

    • @hollyjames1349
      @hollyjames1349 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@chloechadwick2739 he doesn’t even do coaching often at all anymore and took months off up until recently 😭. I mean all
      I’ve done is watch his videos and his advice and sleep tapes drastically changed my life in only a few weeks🥰. I know more people watching his free content and significantly less paying for it. Besides, why do you care about what people do with their money? Im sorry you’re in a very bitter state, truly hope that changes for you

  • @Jamie-zi2nf
    @Jamie-zi2nf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    I just wanted to add on to what Dylan was saying here about "flipping your thoughts." A crucial part of stabilizing yourself means accepting your thoughts - meaning
    1) knowing that a thought is JUST a thought - if you have a negative thought, trying to push it away and denying it the ability to exist will simply make you resist it, and it can persist harder. My point: What you resist will persist because you are giving energy to it; same as what you embrace will persist!
    2) If you are having more negative than positive thoughts, take the time to understand why you are feeling this way. A huge part of stabilizing yourself means understanding what is destabilizing you! This doesn't necessarily mean going into all of your limiting beliefs (since that's just adding fuel to the fire by searching for "what's wrong with" you); it simply means you need to be self-aware.
    3) Flipping your thoughts: if you are in a very negative mindset, you may feel resistance if you try to avoid a feeling. Instead, feel into it until it passes - this is equal to accepting your emotions. If you saturate a feeling, it will eventually go away until you feel stable.
    Bottom line about a negative thought or feeling: Accept it, thank yourself for having a thought that is most likely protecting you (ie. if you feel unsafe, or unloved) - this is just your Ego rejecting your new positive beliefs. (THIS IS WHERE DYLAN SAYS TO BE GENTLE WITH YOURSELF; treat that rejected part of yourself like your young child - nurture it with love and kindness).
    ***Persist with positive beliefs AFTER you accept and let go of your negative thoughts! You will let go of it once you acknowledge and allow it to leave. Key word "allow." Be willing to let yourself feel happy without someone else! You deserve to love yourself - the rest will follow. Exercise patience and do what feels good to you :)

    • @gloria_queen
      @gloria_queen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wow so lovely..

    • @prosperitybeginswithpeace229
      @prosperitybeginswithpeace229 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for that breakdown

    • @chloechadwick2739
      @chloechadwick2739 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      what happened to the affirmations is all we need now it's all this extra work ..he said one thing now it's so much other stuff to do.

    • @IAm_DylanJames
      @IAm_DylanJames  2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@chloechadwick2739 I have never said the affirmations is all you need... I have said in multiple videos "if the affirmations at night were enough, you wouldn't have all these other videos explaining the importance of breath-work, creating to-do lists, being aware of your behaviors, cutting out anything that dosen't serve you, removing yourself, monitoring how your responding, shifting your feeling state". For some people, they are enough. However if you have intrusive thoughts, a negative story, you're feeling heartbroken and crappy.. you have to deal with that. The nightly affirmations help *a lot* but if you allow yourself to spiral out on your doubts and fears all day long, thats not good. You need to get to a space where you can know it into being, and if you're not consciously there yet during the day and you're plagued with insecurities, fears, doubts, etc... you have to step in and deal with that.

    • @matthewisthebest8152
      @matthewisthebest8152 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@chloechadwick2739 get a grip bore off with your limiting beliefs 😂

  • @joetlr41
    @joetlr41 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    THE REAL ONES ARE GROWING FROM YOUR CONTENT THANKS DYLAN!!!!

  • @manifestinggoddess8287
    @manifestinggoddess8287 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    The way I see my life after discovering law of assumption is we have 1 life and make this life the best one ever. Be with who ever you love. Enjoy life to the fullest and don’t care what ANYONE SAYS ! It’s my life and I am living for ME ‼️😝❤️

  • @BennMaggs
    @BennMaggs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Wearing black to the funeral of the old you 💅🏻

  • @bhuvigupta3000
    @bhuvigupta3000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Dylan i just got a call from my man and we talked, it feet so good🥺💗 I'm feeling confident about how this is goona unfold😌❤️ he can't live without me and he is going to offer a commitment soon ❤️🌍

  • @i_am_sree
    @i_am_sree 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Hey Dylan.. Wanted to share.. After listening to the 'I Am' track for 13 nights.. Amazing movements r showing up suddenly.. Really the unexpected ones.. Omg.. These affirmations r so so powerful..it's amazing creating a NEW ME.. who is so powerful.. a long way to go though... But i know.. It's done.. done.. done.. Thanks a lottttt and lots of love 😍😍❤️❤️😇😇

  • @livbeyond
    @livbeyond 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    (min 11:00) Dylan: *deep breath* - "I'm trying to say this very calmly!" - *deep breath* 💞 This is for me the perfect example as to how to react in difficult moments. It is a small detail, but it speaks volumes: try and compose yourself, take a deep breath, no rush, find the best words, remember who you are, express your truth freely, fearlessly and with integrity. I love everything about your teachings, Dylan. Thank you! 🙌

  • @ZaddyinaCaddy
    @ZaddyinaCaddy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    During this journey I’ve had some really confident moments and came really close to reaching out to SP (over a year NC) but they walked away from me. I feel like to truly prove this, to truly succeed i need to allow them to come to me. Now, i feel stable. I feel calm. I’m relaxed. There’s no urgency or worry.

  • @ussr823
    @ussr823 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I am in a long distance relationship and this will help me a lot
    Ty Dylan ♥️

  • @Rosie-ic3gh
    @Rosie-ic3gh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You’re so sweet, even when you’re roasting us it feels like a warm hug 😂 thanks for your patience. Love you! 💛

  • @speakriri7283
    @speakriri7283 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    “If I be lifted up(rise in consciousness to the thing we want to be), I shall draw all man(manifestations) unto me”. When Dylan states “Manifesting isn’t a trying process” it’s true. Things will naturally unfold 💕

    • @Capeverdeprc
      @Capeverdeprc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Whew! I felt all of this!! Deep! I’m taking a screenshot and posting on my mirror!

    • @speakriri7283
      @speakriri7283 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Capeverdeprc 💕

  • @MissRandom077
    @MissRandom077 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I just love listening to u and Kim Velez bcuz you’re both on point. It’s all about your thoughts, patients, beliefs loving on u and changing their story. I personally love mental diets it’s part of reprogramming your mind. For those who read the Bible, it’s all in there “as a man thinks so is he. Just enjoy the journey life can be really amazing while waiting patiently just know what u desire, desires u ❤️.

  • @tzeimi_
    @tzeimi_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love what you said about how relationships aren’t easy. That is so true my parents have been married 25 years they argue & disagree but, at the end of the day they choose each other. They will make things work it’s beautiful. I love this video Dylan you have a glow & peace to yourself 💕😌

  • @BriansGirlBoyMom
    @BriansGirlBoyMom 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I found you when I was in a place of severe depression and very severe anxiety, and should have an adhd diagnosis next week. YOU HAVE PLAYED A HUGE ROLE in my healing and growth. Thank you.

  • @gilscope8102
    @gilscope8102 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yep definitely taking a step back, so I can build a foundation properly. Being kind to myself and quitting the YT tarot habit and prioritising my STABILITY. Thanks Dylan.xx

  • @22butterflygirl22
    @22butterflygirl22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Hey I'm searching for the person that helped me in the comment section the other day, I think their name was kador or something like that. I had an issue with my neighbors, it was so bad that I couldn't even do breathwork/ meditate or even just think properly and it bothered me so much. They gave me some good advice and reminded me of how powerful I can be. Guess what: I decided to delete my comment the day after, because it was written from a desperate panicking place. Two days after I actually met my neighbor and after 2 years of fighting and suffering under their behavior we hugged and apologized and we made peace. She said she will take more Consideration and try to respect the fact that I have to study.
    I only envisioned me meeting her and hugging her and telling her that we should help each other out and not fight each other. Every time I heard her being overly loud and felt disrespected I smiled and said to myself how grateful I am for my perfect neighbors and tge harmony that is between us. AND IT WORKED.
    I never doubt my power, but sometimes it's hard to stay focused on what you want, but it's worth it!
    So thanks to the kind soul that helped me remembering and grounding myself in my power again. Much love to you

    • @kadoradork4228
      @kadoradork4228 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Corinne 00 omg that’s me🙊
      Thank you so much your kind message 🥰You rock!!!So happy for you and proud of you🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
      I really admire you for trusting yourself I think that’s what I struggle the most with in my Sp manifestation journey. Like every time I feel a bit unwell or get a bit triggered I start to doubt my capability.
      However, I‘m just genuinely happy for your success story,it’s amazing 💕💪🏼

    • @22butterflygirl22
      @22butterflygirl22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@kadoradork4228 @kador adork omggg sooooo happy you actually saw my comment! Thank you so much for your help the other day! It all worked out so quickly and perfectly.
      I know exactly what you mean by the triggering part, I get that too at times and I got my sp to notice it and comfort me when that happens, we acknowledge each other's wounds and help each other. Remember that you are not doing all that work for them, but for yourself! It's your own inner world trying to sabotage your happiness, not your sp, he only acts according to that, and that's the beauty of it because if he wouldn't mirror those things back you would never get to be confronted with those limiting beliefs.
      Remember you are the creator, regardless of what you do and create, you can always turn things over. Quoting Dylan : everything happens through you, not to you ❤️
      You got this and you are safe and loved 🌹 your sp loves you and honors you as well, just allow yourself to choose love and harmony over everything else. Stay focused on what you really want and always ask yourself how the version you want to be would react.
      Immensely thankful for you, and I know you got this! You deserve only the best

    • @22butterflygirl22
      @22butterflygirl22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@kadoradork4228 also see how powerful you are! You helped me to manifest stuff without even knowing who I am and where I live, you just shared a vision of a harmonious neighborhood and it affected and helped me so much. I believe in you 😇✨🥰

    • @kadoradork4228
      @kadoradork4228 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@22butterflygirl22 Aww thank you so much,this is like the nicest comment ever!!🥰I‘m so proud of you and thank you for encouraging me🙏🏼🙏🏼😘
      Yes so 3D is actually showing me a NC situation but the story in my head tells me something else. In my head we‘re together and he showers me with his love. It actually feels very normal and real to the point where I Iiterally don’t miss him anymore because it feels like he’s already here.It’s weird to put it into words but I hope you know what I mean:)
      I decided to be okay with feeling a bit low or tired from time to time because it’s human and I’m not supposed to be perfect. For a long time I put myself unter pressure with my expectations of being perfect ,happy or secure all the time because that’s what I would feel like if I was with my person Every time I asked myself how the version I want to be would react I would get angry with me for not being able to show up as the best version of me
      Like “omg why am I feeling this way I should be feeling this my “new” me would be calm and secure and I’m not so I messed up
      .I guess I was wrong because even then I would feel stressed or a bit nervous about some other things. However,I’m able to pick myself up quickly or if not I’m just gentle with myself as if I was a little child and give myself love.
      That’s another thing I realized. For a long time I had no idea what loving myself means. I think I’m slowly figuring it out. For me it means to put myself first, taking good care of my physical and mental health, taking care of my body, engaging in things I like and being gentle with myself when I feel triggered or tired.
      All the best and love to you, I feel so connected to you right now lol👑🥰😘

    • @22butterflygirl22
      @22butterflygirl22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kadoradork4228 I'll envision that you come back to this comment and tell me how everything has worked out for you and that you are happier than ever. I send you much love 😇❤️✨🌹

  • @KL-oe1sw
    @KL-oe1sw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I thought I was in a good place and reached out to sp 2x, and both times didn't get the result I wanted and spiraled down. So after listening to you, especially this one, I've decided I'm the one that should be pursued and chased and sp better conform soon or they will miss out on an amazing relationship! You inspire confidence in me.

  • @hannahkline6050
    @hannahkline6050 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The weirdest things have been happening to me lately. I was hanging out with my sister just doing a tarot reading for fun… she threw the cards and we picked up random ones…I forgot to pick one up underneath my bed and found it a few days later and it said to keep going I’m on the right path….Also while listening to your affirmation tape I had a weird dream, and then at work 2 days later someone brought up what I was dreaming. And also!! The universe tried to trigger me, I saw that a girl was trying to surprise my SP for his birthday, it popped up on my Instagram feed. For a second I got upset but then I started telling myself how it doesn’t even matter and how amazing I am. I muted that page and I removed my SP from seeing my stories. (Because I would obsessively check if he’s seen them) I’m finally starting to feel good and like I’m on the right path. It’s just funny how the universe tries to test you and how things synchronize lol

  • @user-bz3dz9rg4x
    @user-bz3dz9rg4x 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You know Dylan is doing this to really help people. Not to gain money. He’s the realest one. 💕 Other coaches out there want ridiculous money for everything 🙄

  • @ashleymacosta
    @ashleymacosta 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I'm a new follower and so grateful I've attracted your account into my reality because i so needed this video. I've been catching up on your past ones, but what you said in this video R-E-S-O-N-A-T-E-D!! Thank you for putting out this content. It is GOLD!

  • @Lena-zy2js
    @Lena-zy2js 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I deleted my social medias in January because I was addicted 😂 love what you say about that, I don’t think I will ever go back on TikTok it ruins my vibe

  • @jadelam6740
    @jadelam6740 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I got busted 😂😂😂
    I did 2 tarot reading sessions just couple of weeks post breakup and they both told me that it's unlikely for me and sp to be back together.
    However, after learning about manifestation, taking some time to self reflect myself, and listening to Dylan's videos, I know that I can do this. I understand my mindset and what I want, and I'm gonna keep persisting on this journey because I know that it's already mine.
    Thank you Dylan, you give me the strength to believe in myself and what reality I can write for myself.

  • @maurynmorfitt9910
    @maurynmorfitt9910 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    As someone who has watched a lot of your older videos, it is nice to have these overview videos as a kind of crash review. So thank you for these too! Also, you're a huge reason my self-concept has shifted and I'm more confident and want to change my self-image for the better ❤️ it's saved me from some pretty damaging, harmful situations. So thank you

  • @m0mmy2aStar
    @m0mmy2aStar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you for addressing my comment about no longer being attracted to my sp after improving my self-concept. I think the belief is that he won't change for the better (and now I'm confident enough to date other people). Reminding myself of my "Why" is definitely going to help me persist until things manifest the way I want them for us.

  • @supergreen3233
    @supergreen3233 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Tarot reader here, 100% agree with the comments about divination. From the other side of things, it's frustrating to see clients come in for repeat love readings having not done the work of self-concept or spiritual growth so often recommended in their messages. Third party circumstances etc simply don't change until the individual believes it is possible.
    Thank you for your work Dylan, love you.

  • @jackiek4159
    @jackiek4159 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Dylan always coming through with the truth! Thank you King! We have got this guys! Let's believe in ourselves! 🙌🏻💞✨

  • @NostalgicNathan
    @NostalgicNathan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Literally everything you said on this livestream is everything I needed to hear at this moment in time. I love how you get so passionate it shows that you care so much about us and want us to succeed and that means a lot 💜

  • @Fufu487
    @Fufu487 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hey guys! I think I'm shifted! Been watching and following the teachings of both Dylan and Kim Velez since early January.
    Movement (small) with my sp and with my glowup (huge). I feel....stable. Triggers are turning into "well this is just my manifestation working". And I can CREATE THE FEELING OF LOVE WITHIN MYSELF ❤ HOLY GEEZ!
    No full manifestations yet, but I FEEL it working in my favor. I actually feel like I am the main character.
    This is IT, RIGHT?

  • @jwalka534
    @jwalka534 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Trust Dylan, his way is the easiest way to manifest. Sit back and let the desires come to you!

  • @memecurio8059
    @memecurio8059 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I only listen to tarot readings that tell me what I want to hear! 😂 And it's usually what I been affirming and thinking anyway,🤷 every tarot reading is "me pushed out" lol but I do get what you're saying and it's prob not the most productive pastime, as amusing as they are 🤭

  • @Samantha-mp5ot
    @Samantha-mp5ot 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’m here for you dragging us and actually find it really funny because it’s so true and know it’s out of love ❤️ I’ll be honest, myself personally I’ve tried the other tapes and felt a little different but still dominantly helpless, but this new tape is a game changer, I’ve had one off day but done what you advised and felt really good again after, I’m seeing so much change outside of me but most importantly inside of me. I’ve always been a people pleaser and never had much confidence in myself but now thanks to you I’m fully loving myself and I feel on top of the world 🌎 I don’t personally have time to do the breath work often due to the type of job I have (I drive a lot and the breath work makes me a bit sleepy) but I’ll do it in the morning and throughout the day just make sure my breathing is natural and I’m not tensing up and that seems to help me loads. Thank you so much Dylan, you’ve turned this timid, people pleasing person into a woman that loves herself and knows she can have what ever she desires. You are an amazing selfless bloke and I’m so so happy I found you 🥰❤️ xx

  • @soniapina4889
    @soniapina4889 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thanks for coming on tonight. You and your teachings are such a picker upper. So thankful i got to see you live tonight. Kinda dragging rn, you so lifted my spirits. You look gorgeous tonight. Much love Dylan 😘💙

  • @hollyjames1349
    @hollyjames1349 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hay Dylan! I’d love a video centered around working through specific old stories instead of general beliefs. The process of letting go of specific stories, what you’ve done in that regard instead of the general overarching beliefs. I hope that makes sense! 🙋🏼‍♀️

    • @IAm_DylanJames
      @IAm_DylanJames  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      th-cam.com/video/wq7FgoTaqZQ/w-d-xo.html

    • @hollyjames1349
      @hollyjames1349 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@IAm_DylanJames THANK YOU KING! I’d love to hear more about this topic one day in a video (i.e. the images you erased were they all memories or were they intrusive “what if” thoughts as well? What visual/affirmations did you use regarding your SP, as in the format?)! Thank you again 🥺

  • @LLuna-hw2fv
    @LLuna-hw2fv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love you Dylan! Definitely helped me shift perspectives on simply viewing my circumstances in a different light. In a positive way.. even if someone doesn’t believe in manifesting.. your concepts are all about confidence and self control.. everything you say is about self love. & it simply does shift the way you perceive your “SP” like no one should be placed in a pedestal… only SELF
    Thank you for investing your time in all your videos :)

  • @TinaLeder
    @TinaLeder 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "What is my desired outcome here?"
    That's a good Q🔧💅

  • @coffeetalkswtammy
    @coffeetalkswtammy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This video was litt 🔥 I’m watching for the 2nd time. This man is giving away valuable information to us at no cost! It’s priceless! Thank u❤️❤️❤️❤️😘🙏🏾🦋

  • @madwrld973
    @madwrld973 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is clearly one of my most favorite videos on your channel, good vibes straight! Thank you dylan, ily! 🥰❤️💕

  • @emimac182
    @emimac182 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love your dedication to this space ♥️🌠 Not here to manifest an SP but a powerful self concept 💫thanks so much!

  • @bk_cdf8733
    @bk_cdf8733 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thank you, Dylan! I took a month of mental vacation from the whole love topic, as you suggested, Listening a lot of affirmations, about stability and I do feel more stable and confident then ever..it became so natural to dismiss all the "healing"/relatioships talk, it is suuuch a relief!! Also I have more clear feeling that I actually want a relationship with a SP, but what still concerns me - there NO circumstances between us, getting together should be the easiest thing objectively, I am convinced that he likes me and I like him, but we are still in NC...I guess you will me to persist, but I still have this doubt - am I missing something? I see quite mixed messages-attention from other guys, I am trying to dismiss them, but may be it is reflection that for so long I was in the vibe of "guys are lost"...🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @IAm_DylanJames
      @IAm_DylanJames  2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      The answer is persist. So if you're feeling good - little to no intrusive thoughts, pick an end you can believe right now. Add in a conscious technique and reinforce this knowing when it feels good. Allow yourself to have fun in the meantime, knowing it will unfold. If other guys approach you, respectfully, have fun and do what you want (the end is a feeling state/awareness/confidence/knowing not neglecting and rejecting)

    • @bk_cdf8733
      @bk_cdf8733 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So helpful, thank you!!!🙏

  • @fridayIIL
    @fridayIIL 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is pure gold, Dylan. So helpful on every point. Thank you thank you thank you 💕

  • @Plethorality
    @Plethorality 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    you are the only person i have come across with such a wise attitude about fixing relationshiprs. i am profoundly grateful and relieeved thank you.

  • @weeclarey385
    @weeclarey385 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The answer I needed was in this video. I got an apology from SP about something he already done before. This time I didn’t except it but remained respectful towards him. I feel confident and empowered knowing I valued myself and will get everything I want.

  • @phendranaa
    @phendranaa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This answered a big question on my mind thank you. Not knowing what I want was just a sign that I didn't think I deserved what it really is I want. Going to get more serious with my reality in the daytime and make sure I'm doing stuff that puts me in a good state. I don't play 😎

    • @jayleebeach4664
      @jayleebeach4664 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Holy spaghetti thats what ive been going through im glad i wasnt alone

  • @patriciavel4601
    @patriciavel4601 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It’s great to see your level up too! We’re always growing & evolving and it’s great to see ppl that practice what they preach. Your videos have helped me so much. Thank you!

  • @Flootist1
    @Flootist1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Dylan, you’re so adorable! Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us.

  • @aanielac5657
    @aanielac5657 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow, I never understood the true value of why self-concept is soooo important until I watched this video. THANK YOU truly

  • @queenasia5481
    @queenasia5481 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The tarot readings will have lots of ppl in a downwards spiral even if you start off with having fun with it. Cut it off , work & trust in yourself & higher power, love. You are safe!

  • @Daniellelenae
    @Daniellelenae 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I feel like I was just scratching the surface of manifesting until I really got into your channel because the affirm affirm affirm wasn’t helping my old beliefs stuck in my head lol I’ve been sleeping with the affirmations on for about a month now and I truly feel good within myself now I still have slight bad moments but better then I used to be . Yes I feel the same about TikTok especially with the dating advice so many limiting beliefs

  • @iam6379
    @iam6379 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    🔥🙌🏻🔥🙌🏻🔥🙌🏻🔥🙌🏻🔥
    So empowering!!!! Thank you for reminding us of the power that we each hold! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
    Can’t get enough of you! You’re coaching has changed my whole perception and has giving me the courage and encouragement to keep going and focus only myself and self concept. Thank you!!!

  • @profitprophets1
    @profitprophets1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You have changed my life, I have changed my life through you through me... Took ages to grasp, slip now and again but it's the default now and it was so hard to fathom some of the abstract elements at first, in order to have faith. I'm so glad I persisted, I'm so glad I found you Dylan.

  • @xyz123abcdefg
    @xyz123abcdefg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    SOMEHOW I just stumbled upon Dylan this week after not watching his videos all this time!!!
    I knew he was my soul tribe fairy godfather when I heard him say fuckery 😍🤗🥰🙌🏼🤘🏼💃🏻
    I love listening to Dylan throughout the day. So positive clear and on point about everything!!

  • @annesobb1675
    @annesobb1675 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you 🙏🏻, when I see people married since 20 years and they tell me : we are more and more in love, then after that I hear indirectly that they don’t have sex anymore, and the man is having sex outside : so their marriage is not perfect at all. They all show like everything are perfect, but if you read between the lines
    I just want to say that when you have a really big trauma from childhood you need help from a psychanaliste : it’s impossible to do it alone, your videos are a complementary and important thing that help me everyday - but without the psychanaliste I couldn’t change my subconscious mind really deeply and learn to take care of my own trauma ( that made me really needy from my external reality) everyday

  • @kimara9748
    @kimara9748 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is the kind of roasting I appreciate 🤣 you are so kind and genuine throughout. I was honestly stuck in the cycle of tarot/horoscopes and I got nowhere. Thank you for this reminder! I am the operant power 💪

  • @missnoellechristine
    @missnoellechristine 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This content was straight to the point (as per usual) & super helpful 💕 Dylan will forever be my #1 go to when it comes to achieving the life I want

  • @Violets14
    @Violets14 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dylan - you look like you are in Duran Duran. Totally polished 80s rock star.

  • @alextfife
    @alextfife หลายเดือนก่อน

    26:18 honestly everything you say after this is such a pick me up thank you

  • @chrishnah
    @chrishnah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The high button up is very 80s with the hair too I dig it

  • @space_bong
    @space_bong 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Don't apologise for "roasting". These are the chats I need when I've made movement and then start to doubt. This is the stuff that gets me back in line and back on track. We need to hear it, so thank you

  • @Jamie-zi2nf
    @Jamie-zi2nf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Haha Dylan, I love your mini rants! It's so frustrating to teach sometimes, especially when you just want the best for your students and you're repeating yourself over and over to help them (I was working in the educational sector for the past 6 years, so I get it). Thank you so much for sticking with us all, you are so loved and so cherished around the world! Also, high-key love your real-talk videos! Have a wonderful day my friends :)

  • @Bresha_________
    @Bresha_________ ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s definitely not wishful thinking! All those affirmations can apply to anyone when we think about it. So why not ourselves? Thank you for all you do. ❤️✨

  • @heeseungko6619
    @heeseungko6619 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello Dylan!
    So good to see you have grown even higher and bigger!
    You glow and shine!!! Thank you for showing us how to be better and greater.

  • @katherinechamp9860
    @katherinechamp9860 ปีที่แล้ว

    This hit home 🏡 . I am working on myself and trust it will all fall into place . I'm taking time to feel good in myself .

  • @shameless9533
    @shameless9533 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    💯 Truth... Your relationship is personal and private between you and your partner, it is not a community project. (Disclaimer :: if it's physically dangerous then yes get help)

  • @selflovetherapy9812
    @selflovetherapy9812 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You’re so authentic Dylan.
    I love watching your contents. My friends found result after watching your affirmation

  • @ladyberd4
    @ladyberd4 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Just love you! You are so right and you cut through the BS - straight to the point!

  • @witdagreeneyz
    @witdagreeneyz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Another life altering video, Dylan. All of this needed to be said and you did it perfectly 💜

  • @jackieangela1678
    @jackieangela1678 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    YASSSSS KING! Needed this tn, thank you!!! Got me back into good energy alignment.

  • @Carry399
    @Carry399 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is one of your best videos. 👌 I need to focus on my self concept more and I know things will work out for me. But right now I have to do this for me and nobody else. Thank you

  • @DracarysSnow
    @DracarysSnow ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg. I’ve been wondering about that aspect for so long. And I wanted the answer without outright asking . And there’s Dylan with the whole answer! 😊

  • @zeyneperturk2792
    @zeyneperturk2792 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love Love Love this video - exactly what I needed to hear. I care so much about what others think, about what they think of my person but I'm working on that! Laugh every time at the "no body asked for your opinion anyways" part :D And this is the reason why I've been having trouble with manifesting my SP, is because I care what others think/say! Have been following you for 8 months now and have been listening to your affirmations at night, think I only took a few weeks off of the whole 8 months since finding your channel! Thank you so much for taking the time to post and educate us :) Bless your beautiful heart XX

  • @erhtsee
    @erhtsee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    thank you thank you thank you

  • @MandyJRoss
    @MandyJRoss 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes J! Your shirt and energy is a VIBE and I'm here for it.🥰❤

  • @lavatr8322
    @lavatr8322 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I see this girl everyday in the gym , and she somehow finds me through mirrors and what not ....
    But we have never said "hi"😭 , when in vicinity she acts all tough and ignores me...
    We get awkward around each other, and we both know.
    Idk if its in my head , but i as far as my intuition says there's something

  • @MindOverMatrix111
    @MindOverMatrix111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Relationships are not easy…i just laughed hard. As a Dylan member I can say that EVERYTHING IS EASY.
    Dylan your this session sounds like I revised my syllabus 😁❤️ Thank you.
    Dylan will you pls comment if you’re seeing this video, how you are becoming so so so handsome? I was want your skin and your beauty 🥺🥺🥺🥺 help me out!!

  • @solpr787
    @solpr787 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video has aligned me today, so many themes that I was interested. Everything is working out for ALL OF US!! ❤

  • @lisamariew7359
    @lisamariew7359 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Dylan ♥️ trust and belief in myself has really changed my life. Your so straight and clear, it’s really helpful.

  • @mariakavanagh7850
    @mariakavanagh7850 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Me: *sees Dylan in formal wear*
    Also me: “I am Dylan’s wife”
    “I am always chosen by Dylan”
    “I am safe and secure in my relationship with Dylan”

    • @livelaughslay2633
      @livelaughslay2633 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lmfao 😭

    • @Nash_Aurora
      @Nash_Aurora 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is so me rn. Also the way he was roasting and being angry. I sound so masochistic lmao

  • @ngreat4390
    @ngreat4390 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Dylan, I really find your videos really valuable. It's just exactly what I needed to hear because it is reorienting me back towards myself in a healthy way.
    I absolutely am beginning to feel like I don't give a hoot if they call back or whatever, I just very genuinely want to manifest the best version of myself. That's where I want to rest. Then afterwards, If the guy comes back, that'd be great. I know he will come back but I'm more interested in becoming the greater version of myself.
    Thanks for hammering that over and over again.
    The way kingdom talk is wired, all this can fly over your head based on what you have in your mind already.

  • @janetcarson6034
    @janetcarson6034 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have been here since day one. I have seen all shades of Dylan. I am still hoping to see the video with your mum and here relationship. Thank you Dylan.

  • @spd6058
    @spd6058 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    D,
    LOVE the buttoned up look. My style is timeless with a splash of hip and sport shirts top buttoned. For me, and you, it works!👍🕺🕺

  • @ElRocco313
    @ElRocco313 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am manifesting a Dylan into my every day life. I need a Dylan as my bestie

  • @Haliii12091
    @Haliii12091 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m really glad you addressed this, because I’ve been doing your work but also doing tarot on myself and consulting psychics and in the past I haven’t been getting results and getting birds before landing. I think right now I need to take a break to build my beliefs shamelessly and fearlessly

  • @BriannaNicole____
    @BriannaNicole____ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dylan, you're beautiful and amazing. Thank you for changing my life

  • @sarahpellett8737
    @sarahpellett8737 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well… I just got spanked 😳 Lol I needed that! You’re like the loving, caring parent who wants the best for his kids… and when he sees them effing up their lives (manifestations), he applies some pressure (hard truths) and picks us up and redirects us when he sees us going down the wrong path. I’ve personally found myself lost in the jungle that is TH-cam… searching for answers through endless Tarot Card Readings - looking for someone else to validate me and my desires. What you said in this video in particular struck a cord. How did you phrase it? - “Who has the time to waste on this fuckery?” Ummm this hit home. Thank you Thank you Thank you, Dylan 🙏🏻 You are the best teacher out there!

  • @membering
    @membering 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dylan, thank you for this video. All I want is to feel calm, but seldom do. I just want peace. I really needed to see this video rn. ❤️

  • @missdaisy9
    @missdaisy9 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dylan you are full of light, love and wisdom. 🙏 thank you 💗

  • @odalis1893
    @odalis1893 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so random but you look so angelic on the thumbnail i was like damnnn

  • @cassandramartin5455
    @cassandramartin5455 ปีที่แล้ว

    So wise beyond your years darling!💗💗💗 thank you for sharing !💗💗💗

  • @bhagyashreepanda3047
    @bhagyashreepanda3047 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dylan thanks a lot for this information... I'm anxious and checking my 3d and my past thoughts are coming but you gave all valuable words Thanks a lot ❣️❣️

  • @jillkx
    @jillkx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love this video and you nailed it once again :-)
    Sometimes it really helps to just say f.. it and let go. This tends to happen for me when I'm frustrated or a bit angry or even a bit annoyed by all the manifesting advice online. It really sparks powerful energy within me and makes me feel confident, strong, a bit fed up and also a bit smug 🤣 It does help with detaching and letting go because you start thinking "okay, enough is enough. I'm not going to stress about manifesting anymore, I completely let go because this shitis stressing me out and instead I'm just going to be myself and be as happy, content and confident as I can be and really love and treat myself and that's it. Good things will come but I won't force or manipulate anything anymore. I'm tired of it". It's also a point where I stop watching videos about manifesting because it causes a bit of emotional stress and pressure again... as if I had to do something and learn more and more and more about it in order to manifest although I know that proper manifesting equals letting go and manifesting is NOT a trying process. It's also about knowing what you'd like in life and relaxing instead of forcing anything. As much as I appreciate you Dylan (I truly do!), I'll stop binge-watching for some time now x

  • @magical.tinkerbell
    @magical.tinkerbell 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Looking fly 🔥 you look better and better every time you show up here looking perfect in formal wear and thank you for your constant effort to try to add a sparkle to this world ✨

  • @havinganamazingtimebymysel7822
    @havinganamazingtimebymysel7822 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is perfect
    I would watch it even if it was a day longer💜

  • @willow_pillow
    @willow_pillow 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Even if I have watched all of Dylans previos videos several times, there is still som glims of light showing up in my mind when he makes a video.
    Ist so cool, thank you Dylan🥳

  • @lillianchen7239
    @lillianchen7239 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    There is a “coach” on TikTok certainly make a video about you to put you down . She denied as she didn’t mention the name . But there are a couple of us commented and defend you. This actually made me reflect myself . I remember you once said if you are confident enough , you don’t need to argue to prove . I totally agree with you . My problem is that I like to debate and defend what I believe . Sometimes I feel like I waste my energy . How can I not react when encountering disagreements even … let’s say attacks or lies ..

    • @IAm_DylanJames
      @IAm_DylanJames  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You stand solid in your truth and know the truth always prevails. That's why you don't gotta engage 😁 not worth it. You know what you know and thats it.

    • @lillianchen7239
      @lillianchen7239 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@IAm_DylanJames thank you Dylan 😊. Best answer ever 👍🏼

  • @Spiritualheight
    @Spiritualheight 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Blessings and loads of love Dylan!! Grateful to divine to come across your videos and helping people so selflessly.