Life Lessons I Know at 58 but Wish I Knew at 40

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  • @kenhondaofficial
    @kenhondaofficial  หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Order my new #1 bestselling book & unlock your truly wealthy life → kenhonda.com/truewealth

  • @fredblake6135
    @fredblake6135 หลายเดือนก่อน +211

    I'm now 58. Spent my forties battling stage 4 cancer, raising a newborn and having to change careers after getting laid off from my job...was unemployed for about 2 years from the Great Recession. Life is a crap shoot, but no matter what, you keep going until its over. I have failed hundreds of times, but also have some key successes intermixed among those failures. I did get a book written...currently working on a second one.

    • @ohnezuckerohnefett
      @ohnezuckerohnefett หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thanks. I needed that. I wish you well.

    • @AnnaPoli800
      @AnnaPoli800 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Wow !!! So many heroes and stories untold ! Inspiration to others that struggle. What is the name of the book?

    • @Ahtnagarp
      @Ahtnagarp หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You sir, what a warrior. Respect sir.

    • @ladyofhollows9841
      @ladyofhollows9841 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Thank you. I also needed to read that. I'm 42 and really struggling with underemployment.

    • @SooperToober
      @SooperToober หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’ll look out for your book Fred Blake! ❤

  • @kaitlyncranwick
    @kaitlyncranwick หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    40 now, and everything is paid for. Fortunately, I had a college economics teacher who taught me a lesson when I was 18 years old. That lesson was: you can't buy something else for every purchase you make. Having multiple sources of income is prudent, as is living within your means. I have a 13-year-old vehicle because it is all I need, I like it, and I can do whatever I want with it. My net worth is $900k, and I can pay my bills without stress, but I don't live like I have that. I have no complaints.

    • @indiasupportsthereturnofth1475
      @indiasupportsthereturnofth1475 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      wow.. really nice to hear. Jealous... but realize you made a lot of sacrifices, so well deserved.

  • @nohc4
    @nohc4 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I recently graduated as a Nurse and being 48 years old had changed the way I want or prioritize things in life.
    I have an immediate set of goals that I hope are right.
    1-Pass my NCLEX exam
    2-Guarantee a clean source of water to drink and bath by filtering the water I drink and bath out of contaminants as much as I can (RO system)
    3-Afford the best kind of food I can, (quality food over processed) nutritious dense foods and budget around that.
    4-Exercise regularly.
    5-Find a partner in crime to spend time and ultimately whatever I have left of life.
    6-Keep improving myself, financially, mentally, fiscally and do fun things or stupid things depending on how I feel to spice things up a little.

    • @FirstLast-fc7dt
      @FirstLast-fc7dt 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Scratch no. 5 if u really want to enjoy life😂

    • @patty109109
      @patty109109 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      You and I are at the show where the habits of 3&4 separate us from everyone else in the coming years. I’m spending money on better food now and won’t apologize for it. Health in later years is substantially a result of diet and exercise.

  • @ReikiMasterCarlie
    @ReikiMasterCarlie หลายเดือนก่อน +82

    Ken, you really teach a valuable thing to our mid-life people✨ I am in my 40s and I start to live on my own terms and say no to many old friends, old habits, even old living place. Start over my life with new living place, new career, new relationships. 💖 Now I have got an ideal life 🌟 Thanks☺🙏🏻

    • @kenhondaofficial
      @kenhondaofficial  หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      That is wonderful Carlie! Best wishes on your journey!

    • @mariepaulecoutens
      @mariepaulecoutens หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Wow !😳 Congratulations!... Reading you fed my heart and brain with wonderful Peace of Mind, thank you for sharing 😌🙏🏽🕊️✨✨✨✨✨✨

    • @malcomethkiptoo6621
      @malcomethkiptoo6621 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Amazing 🎉

    • @wisdom_steps_channel
      @wisdom_steps_channel หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Awesome

  • @m.bauer2024
    @m.bauer2024 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    I wished to buy a motorcycle since my 18 and travel on it around all the Europe. It seemed to be so close and so far at once, but last year I finally bought my new Honda.

    • @MrLTW2009
      @MrLTW2009 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Me too! I’m not traveling Europe but I bought a brand new dirt bike on my 45th birthday

    • @dauielim2399
      @dauielim2399 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I see what you did there😅

    • @m.bauer2024
      @m.bauer2024 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@dauielim2399 ❤🤣

  • @David-cm4ok
    @David-cm4ok หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Almost 50. I have so many things I want to be hobbies, I’ve realised now that I’ll settle for two, and make the most of them. The others will have to go.

  • @spinnetti
    @spinnetti หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Whenever somebody says "I don't have time" I hear that as it is - an excuse. Its usually a lack of prioritization, organization and attention. Instead of making excuses, stop playing on the phone, internet, watching tv and all the other time wasters most people spend most of their time on. There's always time enough for what is important.

  • @AbhishekPatel-si7uq
    @AbhishekPatel-si7uq หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    I’m 28 and this applies to me. Thank you for the video!
    My 3 priorities for the year are clear to me:
    1. Enhance my mind-body-awareness
    2. Find product-market fit for our startup
    3. Become the ideal partner to attract my dream partner

    • @kenhondaofficial
      @kenhondaofficial  หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      That's great! I'm glad it could still help. Please feel free to share with anyone else who you think would benefit!

    • @AbhishekPatel-si7uq
      @AbhishekPatel-si7uq หลายเดือนก่อน

      Done! ✅

    • @user-nh8zt9wl3c
      @user-nh8zt9wl3c หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      You are so lucky to understand this at 28. Go for it, son.

    • @AbhishekPatel-si7uq
      @AbhishekPatel-si7uq หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@user-nh8zt9wl3c 🙏🏼❤️‍🔥

    • @AbhishekPatel-si7uq
      @AbhishekPatel-si7uq หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@user-nh8zt9wl3c 🙏🏼❤️‍🔥

  • @premienarayanan3968
    @premienarayanan3968 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    I am 51 this year and what you shared is still so relevant. By end 2023 I was completely burnt out trying to do many things and only ending up feeling resentful of everyone around me. This year I have simplified my list, focusing on the most important things and i can start to work on the book I have been carrying in my head. Thanks a lot Ken!

    • @kenhondaofficial
      @kenhondaofficial  หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      You are welcome! Best wishes on your writing journey

  • @D87943
    @D87943 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    I turn 41 May 24th and feel I wasted my youth playing video games and feel time is up for me also.

    • @craig3949
      @craig3949 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      What? That’s a great achievement. You were kind to yourself. Never too late to get on to some new hobbies

    • @yash6303
      @yash6303 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I spent 15 years at the bottom of a bottle. I did work but I wasn't living. Also 41.

    • @carlospwk
      @carlospwk หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Did you enjoy playing the games? If so, nothing was wasted. Please be kinder to yourself and don’t give up!

    • @D87943
      @D87943 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@carlospwk I did, but I was addicted playing for 12 hours a day sometimes 16, and that’s why I quit.

    • @jackmiddleton2080
      @jackmiddleton2080 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@D87943 I am 33 and feel similar but I realize that I was just filling an empty life anyway. Nothing lost that wasn't already lost. But I have now reached the age where I just want to play the game of life. However daunting.

  • @cambad9900
    @cambad9900 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Never discard inspiration. If I’m inspired to create, I create. If I have an idea, I write it down. Inspiration is uniquely a human thing. How many young people get an idea only to be distracted by the all the garbage in the world.
    It is a crime against myself to discard my inspirations.

    • @gt4032
      @gt4032 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Also, never wait for inspiration, just get to work.

  • @Nicaraguall
    @Nicaraguall 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    But please remember: traveling as 40yo is not the same as you have 60. Maintain balance, try to connect work and traveling somehow. Starting traveling at 60s might be too late for some activities ;)

  • @ExploreLearnEnglishWithGeorge
    @ExploreLearnEnglishWithGeorge หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I've done this method in my 30's and I'd say that it was proven as instrumentally imperative. It allowed me to leap into my 40's with less of a regred and more of a fresher outlook on my life. I have never heard about this guy nor his books, but this method is well known.

  • @Joycelondonn
    @Joycelondonn หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    One of the pieces of advice I agree with is to say no more often, if it's not where you are going or where you want to go say no to it no matter the cost!

    • @patty109109
      @patty109109 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Warren Buffett attributes that skill as a key aspect of success.

  • @djdigital3806
    @djdigital3806 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I’ve been 60 years old for a week now.
    Looking back 60 years l can’t fail now!🤗
    My list is almost complete.

    • @sdm7372
      @sdm7372 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'm only 6 months behind ya. 60 is the new 40:)

  • @RobQuiapo
    @RobQuiapo หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I'm 37 but I will apply this to my life immediately, thanks a lot sir for the advice.

    • @kenhondaofficial
      @kenhondaofficial  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You are very welcome, I hope it helps you!

  • @ronnie9187
    @ronnie9187 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Many of this lessons are also valuable in other phases of life. I am close to 57 and had to recalibrate my life several times, mostly by circumstainces outside the direct influence sphere. As Ken point out, you don't need to wait for that to happen, you can take more then you think, your life into your hands and recalibrate your life. Another thing, people tend to go for "Happiness" where the real value of life is more the "meaningfullness". You can't be happy all the time. Doing something like taking care of an ill relative for a longer time can be tough, but the value for you and your relative can be priceless. If you find yourselve meaningfull in what you do, your work, your relations, the community you are part of and use that as a domain where you make the list of most important things you want to concentrate on then you can you can regain management over your own life.

  • @smithh104
    @smithh104 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    If heres someone struggling with addiction, I can just recommend from personal experience make getting rid of it your first priority. Otherwise it will takey away so much time and energy from your other goals ❤

    • @myaccount9498
      @myaccount9498 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yessss! Congratulations if u broke free and if u are still trying, keep going!,❤

  • @mattxgill
    @mattxgill หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Finally! This is the first video I’ve seen for someone in my age range. I’m a little younger compared to most (38) but I think about my 40’s because it’s right around the corner. Thank you for this

    • @kenhondaofficial
      @kenhondaofficial  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I am so glad you liked it! I have more videos coming!

    • @jpye8989
      @jpye8989 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am turning 38,and yes 40 is just around the corner.

  • @hardikvaidya
    @hardikvaidya หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Such a simple and fantastic video. Thank you for sharing!

    • @kenhondaofficial
      @kenhondaofficial  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for your amazing comment! Best wishes to you

  • @onlinebizjp
    @onlinebizjp 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Sometimes it takes ten years to realize that past experiences are not in vain. Sometimes, the dots connect and become the guiding lines of our lives.So, I always focus on what I do, and ask myself, is it my true life? Thank you for this video, it is very helpful. Arigato🙏

  • @ghu_makkar_saurabh
    @ghu_makkar_saurabh หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Needed this advice badly!! Thank you so much 🙏🙏

    • @kenhondaofficial
      @kenhondaofficial  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I am so glad it helps you! Please feel free to check out my other videos too, I think you will like them

  • @huhhuhhuh4069
    @huhhuhhuh4069 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Thank you. I am in my early 40s and I feel like I am drowning in tasks. Combine that with regret of things I did not do when I was younger, and now I live with constant sense of panic.

    • @user-nh8zt9wl3c
      @user-nh8zt9wl3c หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Gets worse and worse if you DON'T start doing all that you want. Don't panic, start the action!

    • @kenhondaofficial
      @kenhondaofficial  หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Figure out your priorities and practice saying no. You can do it!

    • @lovethineownself7994
      @lovethineownself7994 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@kenhondaofficial How do I figure out what my true priorities are? I have cPTSD and due to constant panic and fear a bad sense of self and need some orientation and help to know where and how to search to find my priorities.

  • @Pianofurte
    @Pianofurte หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you so much!! This comes at such a great time. I've been following your Japanese channel and have been watching all of your videos in Japanese but I'm so excited that I found your English channel so now I can share with my husband!

    • @kenhondaofficial
      @kenhondaofficial  หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's great, thank you! Please feel free to share with anyone else you think would be interested!

  • @sapphiremontrelle8091
    @sapphiremontrelle8091 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Best video I watched all day! Thank you for this

    • @kenhondaofficial
      @kenhondaofficial  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow, that is so great to hear! Please feel free to check out my other videos I think you will like them

  • @sivanandarao
    @sivanandarao หลายเดือนก่อน

    Tqvm brother Ken Honda. Priceless nuggets of wisdom. Much gratitude for the reminder and advice 🏆🏆🏆

  • @anthis4297
    @anthis4297 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for this video❤

  • @sanvirbipulpersad4603
    @sanvirbipulpersad4603 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great video! Thank you Sir!

  • @DaveYourMortgageGuy
    @DaveYourMortgageGuy หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you!

  • @frstchan
    @frstchan หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Even if you have the "right priorities" you never know if they will lead to success. So you are left with no money, no time and just frustration and regret that you didnt try something else.

    • @tripiknik
      @tripiknik หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Agree... how to know that you choose the right priorities?

    • @jaassil
      @jaassil หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@tripiknikwatch the video again or buy his book.

    • @mona5713
      @mona5713 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I know my priorities but I didn't get from the video how to choose the "right" order that will guarantee success. ?

    • @jakobwermelin3147
      @jakobwermelin3147 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Notice he's talking about feeling accomplished, not necessarily being financially successful.

    • @tjsatori
      @tjsatori หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​​@@mona5713 I would say, in my humble experience, the phrase "guaranteed success" is already a failure. Nothing can be guaranteed.
      The closest we can get is to define success by our effort (which we control 100%) instead of results (which we don't control 100%).

  • @francesdigital1355
    @francesdigital1355 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    GRACIAS KEN!!!

  • @tnyqueen
    @tnyqueen หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So helpful! Thank you:)

  • @bosuaandcarot
    @bosuaandcarot หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    best life advices I’ve ever heard

    • @kenhondaofficial
      @kenhondaofficial  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wow, that's amazing! I have more videos, please feel free to check them out

  • @NathanConkey
    @NathanConkey หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you Mr. Honda, that was really quite useful, sir.

    • @kenhondaofficial
      @kenhondaofficial  หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's great to hear Nathan! Please feel free to share with anyone who you think would benefit 😊

  • @norberttucholla6947
    @norberttucholla6947 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are amazing Support and Inspiration 👍👍👍

  • @cjrealestate-4159
    @cjrealestate-4159 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Sir Ken

  • @TheDiaryofDaniel
    @TheDiaryofDaniel หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you, sir. This was incredibly insightful. …I’m “there” right now. A little over a year ago, I somehow found the courage to leave my day job and build a business. It was the best decision I ever made. You’re right. There’s tremendous power in learning how to say “no.” It makes the power of one’s “yes” miraculously more powerful.🙏✌️

    • @kenhondaofficial
      @kenhondaofficial  หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's great Daniel! I'm glad you enjoyed the video 🙏

  • @swapnanil7053
    @swapnanil7053 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just told myself that I can do it all alone and today morning I get this recommendation, that’s the power of algorithm.

  • @IAMDC322
    @IAMDC322 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great advice

  • @bhaavanaa33
    @bhaavanaa33 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you sir 🙏

  • @artfx9
    @artfx9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That's me! ❤

  • @wisdom_steps_channel
    @wisdom_steps_channel หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very insightful

  • @Towanda-xq2xg
    @Towanda-xq2xg หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Thanks Ken, I am 57 years younger, I am definitely feeling 40, making a career change now or the universe is forcing me to, I am willing to go with the flow, been blessed to do what I love most of my life, now shifting out of Estate Management into Real Estate Investing, Stocks, Traveling the World and Love! Will keep you posted, thanks for being the best, stay blessed and let's go! 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

    • @kenhondaofficial
      @kenhondaofficial  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you, best wishes on your journey!

  • @Camel_Jockey
    @Camel_Jockey หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you, this is good advice.
    Also, you make a great automobile and reliable small engines.

  • @normapadro420
    @normapadro420 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I have used time management to accomplish everything that I wanted.

  • @sebastienlopezmassoni8107
    @sebastienlopezmassoni8107 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Amazing, your thoughts are so wise and right. It's look like virtuous circle.With your exeple of cooking because it's necessary to eat to life/survive it's possible to combine both stuff . Cooking can be taste, aesthetic too and you can make people happy with your dishes without to be a great gastronomic chief.

    • @kenhondaofficial
      @kenhondaofficial  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much! I am glad you enjoyed

  • @farenough5878
    @farenough5878 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    2:35 Thank you for harsh truth, I really really needed it!

    • @kenhondaofficial
      @kenhondaofficial  20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You are welcome! Blessings to you 🙏

  • @matshidisovera4923
    @matshidisovera4923 หลายเดือนก่อน

    @KenHonda.... Arigato 🙏🇿🇦

  • @korneliawegrzynowska667
    @korneliawegrzynowska667 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Ken . Could you please translate the book to English . I appreciate all your advises.❤

  • @timmorakinyo9529
    @timmorakinyo9529 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I think the most undervalued goal all humans need to achieve and sustained till their last breath is healthy body ,mind and spirit, rest are just plus.. health is wealth.

  • @AvisPope
    @AvisPope หลายเดือนก่อน

    Congratulations 🎉 That's a lot of books 📚 I need to write more 🎯🤗

    • @kenhondaofficial
      @kenhondaofficial  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you! Best wishes on your writing journey

  • @jj.1412
    @jj.1412 หลายเดือนก่อน

    @2:37 "there may not be later" . Yes indeed. It's later than you think. Enjoy the now, live modestly, love unconditionally, buy life insurance if you get married or have kids if you can. Stop working so hard & being busy, cuz life may just pass you while you were too busy, or just busy worrying about life. Signed, the young widow. Great Channel, subbed!

  • @BetterNBetter
    @BetterNBetter 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You explain things in such a kind and simple way. I really enjoy your humble way of expressing yourself. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us! 😊

  • @anianait
    @anianait หลายเดือนก่อน

    glad that you came back in the latest Fast and Furious ! resurrection !

  • @DetangledbyDesign
    @DetangledbyDesign หลายเดือนก่อน

    "If I messed up the order 10 years ago"...So nice to hear these kinds of thoughts outside of my own head.

  • @Kinjo7
    @Kinjo7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you, I turned 40 last week. I've always tried to take on so much and i definitely act like I'm 30 in that I think my time is unlimited. Mr Honda, can you recommend a book to help me explore the issues you've suggested? Thank you 🙏

  • @ismaelhall3990
    @ismaelhall3990 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    wisdom

  • @christian8657
    @christian8657 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m 28 and looking to change careers, I’ve quit my job with no back up plan. But I need the push to find my next step.
    I’ve also been battling an addiction that defeats all my productivity
    So setting priorities has become very important, thank you for this video😊

    • @marcK599.
      @marcK599. หลายเดือนก่อน

      I used to be a drug addict but now I’m high on life

    • @kenhondaofficial
      @kenhondaofficial  หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are so welcome! I am sending my best wishes to you! You can do it! 🙏✨

  • @sertaoexpedicoes
    @sertaoexpedicoes หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I am 47 it this sounds very true!

    • @kenhondaofficial
      @kenhondaofficial  หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am glad it resonated with you!

  • @Dracomies
    @Dracomies 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Just bought your book. I'm always fascinated with books about money and never came across yours. Thank you for sharing your knowledge :P

    • @kenhondaofficial
      @kenhondaofficial  4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you! I hope you love it

  • @ToolsForLife1111
    @ToolsForLife1111 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm Abt your age and just discovering this. Actually it's quite exciting...lol...I have to teach myself to chill out.❤️❤️❤️

  • @xujoy65
    @xujoy65 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    口语很不错呢

  • @medir-acao
    @medir-acao 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I am 47 . I am happy but Never satisfied.
    Sadly I have no real friends around me so I could share with them these moments

  • @3dhotshot
    @3dhotshot 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    thank you Mr Ken - the pressure starts to pile up fast especially with society expectations

    • @kenhondaofficial
      @kenhondaofficial  6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You are welcome! Figure out your priorities and learn to say no!

  • @user-dt5he8wx1h
    @user-dt5he8wx1h หลายเดือนก่อน

    KEN i just love this I can't say No.,I learned so much Now ,I get used for not saying No ,At this moment I desire a house thats what I am focusing on now ,Thank you Ken for your encouragement 🙏 ❤

  • @BornToTroll-it5ju
    @BornToTroll-it5ju หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Good advice man! Are you still in Japan? I'm a British 40 yr old living in Fukuoka.🎉

  • @dougbenton8767
    @dougbenton8767 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m not worried everyone wants me to be

  • @Waxadisc
    @Waxadisc หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I find saying no to others quite easy, its saying no to myself which is the hard part, As I have so many ideas I go round in circles not getting much done. I have to become even more disciplined by cutting off things I enjoy that i know wont pay off in the longer run. Great video Ken

    • @kenhondaofficial
      @kenhondaofficial  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you, best wishes on your journey!

    • @pietrzykowskiART
      @pietrzykowskiART หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well, you don't know it wont pay off. You assume. And probably you'll be right in most of the time. But... life is hard to predict sometimes.

  • @MarkLynskey
    @MarkLynskey 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Loved this guy in Street fighter 2

  • @dhilsen100
    @dhilsen100 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Arigaato :) Honda. from India with love.

    • @kenhondaofficial
      @kenhondaofficial  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Arigato! Blessings to you in India

  • @teddygamel727
    @teddygamel727 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This logic sounds correct. I can listen to this a few times and it sounds like a great plan to follow.
    But the problem is sticking to it the weeks months and years
    For that to happen, your message would have to resonate deep into my soul into my core
    And so then this is all just content to steal and drain my attention whether you purposely do this or not
    Dad said I think this content is better than most out there just I don’t have the fantasy of believing it will change anything for me

  • @Blake4625kHz
    @Blake4625kHz หลายเดือนก่อน

    Cool hair

  • @lakshmikumaripanda7061
    @lakshmikumaripanda7061 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lotssss of lov my darling ❤

  • @caravanlifenz
    @caravanlifenz หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nice video, Ken.

  • @edgardosantana
    @edgardosantana หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is a powerful message that I very much have been needing to assimilate for a while now. Thank you for sharing it with such grounded and accepting energy.

    • @kenhondaofficial
      @kenhondaofficial  หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am so glad it resonated with you!

  • @Malekfahad420
    @Malekfahad420 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey Ken, really nice video ! I was wondering if I could help you with Best Quality Editing in your videos better than your Editor with good pricing and also make a highly engaging Thumbnail which will help your videos to reach to a wider audience ? Pls let me know what do you think ?

  • @rasheedlewis1
    @rasheedlewis1 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Time is speeding up.
    Do the work you were called to do NOW,
    before time is up!

  • @WinMugen09
    @WinMugen09 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Where can I get that exact arrangement of flowers please?

  • @SooperToober
    @SooperToober หลายเดือนก่อน

    I fukced up my priorities - lost my job my parents over $1M in retirement savings n now at 61 in poor health. Wish I’d seen this video 10 years or even 5 years ago.

  • @gzmask
    @gzmask หลายเดือนก่อน

    What do I do with things that I enjoyed, grown strong with, and became my identity, main source of income, and 80% of my life, but now I depise it and want something new?

  • @teamsheilablessings.6076
    @teamsheilablessings.6076 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It's true ☝️ and thanks 🙏❤😮.
    Thanks for sharing this powerful message 🙏.
    I am happy 😁 and grateful to God for the free gift of life 🙏❤️💯.
    I am happy 😁 and grateful to God for my husband,my children, my family ❤️, relationships, uncommon favor upon my life 🙏 in the Name of Jesus Christ 💕🙏😮

  • @user-nh8zt9wl3c
    @user-nh8zt9wl3c หลายเดือนก่อน

    The younger you do this, the better.

  • @davidbent347
    @davidbent347 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I remember Ken's brother 'E'

    • @Samsaraindo
      @Samsaraindo หลายเดือนก่อน

      He was a bad ass too 😂

  • @dacat8171
    @dacat8171 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You can do it all, but not at once. ☝🏿🧐

  • @pianificalatuavita
    @pianificalatuavita หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i made your quest with mind valley and changed my relation with money but i want to heal ❤

    • @kenhondaofficial
      @kenhondaofficial  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm glad the Mindvalley quest helped you!
      I have a new book coming out soon and I think it could help you heal.
      The novel brings you through a transformative and healing journey with the captivating story of Kei.
      If you pre-order now, you'll also receive special guided meditation & healing affirmations from me.
      You can get the book & the bonuses here: kenhonda.com/truewealth

    • @pianificalatuavita
      @pianificalatuavita หลายเดือนก่อน

      i buy the book and see the bonus !

    • @kenhondaofficial
      @kenhondaofficial  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much! Happy reading!

  • @sharinaross1865
    @sharinaross1865 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Travel more and save for my dream trip.

  • @mariepaulecoutens
    @mariepaulecoutens หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "If you cannot say No, yoir Yes becomes meaningless" Brilliant! I appreciate your presence as well, so relevant and smart and reassuring to us.
    I'm a singer, 60 years of age. I look 40 and feel 20 with a heart of Gold and Fire. So the time available for me on the planet of primary importance in my reflection.
    Thank you for reminding me to focus on what I want to accomplish the most, because I cant do everything im thinking of, which is a lot!!! 😂
    I feel though that if I organize the best combos of actions in the best state of being, with the Love of God guiding me, I can accomplish Wonders, just like you did! Am I arrogant ?😅 I don't know but it felt amazing to communicate with you today... Sending much Love your way from France 🇫🇷💓😘💓😘💓😘💓😘💓😘💓

    • @kenhondaofficial
      @kenhondaofficial  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for your amazing comment! You can do it!

  • @TheBlackmanIsGod
    @TheBlackmanIsGod หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I don’t want to do it all, just want a livable wage where you can plan and keep dates and events because you still have gas money to get there.

  • @amitshridhar
    @amitshridhar หลายเดือนก่อน

    I need all kinds of help

  • @joshsmith2071
    @joshsmith2071 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Im 43. I use to think I had plenty of time, but you just do some math and 43 is halfway. I have become more realistic with with how much I can do in a day, week, year.

  • @ImranAli-tm3rq
    @ImranAli-tm3rq หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    40 is the new 30....retirement age will become decade later in the 70s and people are living longer...more women are even having babies in their late 30s early 40s..

  • @KingSausage74
    @KingSausage74 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I only pay my bills and take care of my health. Idk what that other shit is.

  • @Yamada1970
    @Yamada1970 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Namaste from Nepal 🇳🇵🙏
    Ken San,
    I' am from Nepal and I am 53...
    My dream is I want to save the village of Nepal and village of Japan...
    Do you have a solutions for me...?
    Thank you 🙏

  • @I_dont_want_an_at
    @I_dont_want_an_at หลายเดือนก่อน

    i don't want to do it all. That's what other people are for

  • @CastleHassall
    @CastleHassall หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    that is TERRIBLE Advice to tell people to give up on/"letting go of" the things they MAY Not have time to do and only focus on three things..
    be yourselves folks and always keep the hopes YOU Want to do in your heart and you might find a way to do them
    it's YOUR Life to decide and yes there may not be a later but who knows you might have time
    ignore this guy, he sells books based on the fact people are looking for answers
    but trust YOUR OWN Heart and try your best to be YOU!

  • @leviwanyoike
    @leviwanyoike หลายเดือนก่อน

    “If you seek tranquility, do less” - Marcus Aurelius

  • @ouari
    @ouari หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am in the debut of my fifties what I am supposed to do ?

  • @warrenleezy
    @warrenleezy หลายเดือนก่อน

    "I wish that I knew what I know now. . . When I was younger . . . "--Rod sTewart, Ooh La La (Faces) 😅😂😅

  • @simbiods3
    @simbiods3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    life like puzzle?.. thiss is a bit scarry!