this world is just an illusion. this truth is too. so, don't rush. everything will be go, no matter of what. just relax and live with out any aims. my dudes.
I am 50 and I realised that I don’t care about legacy. I spent my whole 47yrs trying to placate and please others and not rocking anyone boat but at the end of the day people don’t really care much because you can never ever please everyone. The best thing to do is to live your life true to yourself and then you will never be disappointed. I am 50 and retired and living my best life being a nomad.
My definition of LEGACY is the QUALITY OF LIFE I LIVE❤ ...im not married and don't have kids, so im not bothered. Leaving kids on this earth is not LEGACY, especially if you have created nothing for them to live off. IMPACT on others through my life is my legacy.
What is more depressing is that in most Western countries, you spend 40+ years working 5-6 days a week, only to have the Government take 60-70% of you income in the form of taxes, fees etc. while inflating the remaining 30% away due to the impact of borrowing on the money supply and just plain printing money to fund budget deficits. Sad part is, most of the money is used to create an army of Government agencies to make your life more difficult and restrictive. It took me a while to understand that....now I work enough to fund my lifestyle in my own business. I don't need a Mercedes or Rolex to be happy, a Mazda or Casio works fine. I now spend more time in nature, traveling, working my classic car and riding my motorcycle.
Oh for god's sake, stop whining about paying taxes! You have opportunities to get an education, food, housing, and use roads and bridges because of 'the government.' The government responds to pandemics, wars, and natural disasters so that you can continue to criticize. Of course, all decisions are far from perfect. that is what democracy is. Just get some perspective and know that it is a privilege to pay taxes because it means that you made money!
I am 50 now and you realise you live your own life and not someone else’s.There are so many things I look forward to doing and it’s all about variety and learning new things also.Every day try to learn something,its v good for the soul.
I’m 38 and I feel the same way you explained. Like half way through life, it seems like you’re running out of time. That’s where life begins @ 40 makes sense. You reflect how far you came and what’s left😮 You crave for achieving something magical.
Well its nice to reflect sometimes, but the only moment you have in life is now. Future or past are irrelevant, once you understand that everything is now
Just turned 60 a week ago. Time is precious Used to drive sports cars and all that stuff. l fired my landlord at a 55 and over community and bought a brand new RV where l currently live there cheaply. Life gets better at 60.
I agree totally my wife passed 2yrs ago after 22yrs of marriage she had health problems the whole time before she passed she told me to go live life and enjoy myself I'm taking my first vacation ever at 48 next week and plan on many more adventures
I am 36 life is useless I hate it and can’t wait for it to end ❤ I’m glad life is short I have a small penis my dream of getting a business is soo far way 😅 I’m lost and hopeless 😢 let life end a pebble in the ocean
My mom is 90 and dad is 89 and both are healthy and strong with sharp minds. They live balanced lives and have been married for over 69 years. I see what you are saying and needed to hear it. Thank you for a wise and helpful video. Your channel is wonderful. You are so easy to listen to.
Underrated video. I'm 30 and just had a kid, bought a beautiful home and was able to afford my dream car... had to sacrifice my childhood, because I thought this is what makes me truly happy... realized that money DOES solve problems, but it doesn't make one happy. Went down to my true self, understood concepts about consciousness, what life is really about and learnt more about god... today, I can tell that you're 100% spot on. Everything goes back to being present, being mindful and balance EVERYTHING in life, including the distractions, the fun, the happiness, the sadness, the tear, the sweat, the laughter... you have to balance everything, including how much you're conscious and unconcsious throughout.. ultimately, this will help you to master your mind, which brings true happiness as EVERYTHING makes click now... you understand literally everything, and everyone. Today, I'm not even mad on my worst enemy or if someone insults me... it's because I developed a deep understanding throughout the adversities i faced in my life. These 80 years are just a temporary phase, use it wisely and master your mind, defeat your ego, become happy, be happy, spread happiness...
glad u tried a bit im 25 and am tour operator based on Tanzania(serengeti,Tarangire,Ngorongoro,Zanzibar) still trying how to become my self and own my own company
I live my life fully by stopping the poverty cycle in my family. Financially supporting my nieces & nephews to finish their engineering degrees. Not so much savings but I am truly happy.
I managed to spend at least 25 years traveling and living all around the world through work. Now settled and doing something I love. Material goods really are nothing . It’s experiences .
After crossing into my 30’s time started feeling exponentially more precious. I don’t really care about having a career anymore, I’d much rather live my truth. Looking forward to a nomadic lifestyle next year!
I refocused at 60 through a spiritual approach by appreciating the small things and being more curious about life in general ; this also includes appreciating people and not taking them for granted.
I always have followed my own path and I am totally alone but I have internal peace, 57 years now, no kids, no relationship, never smoked, never drang alcohol, just totally clean but I literally never think or feel how other people think about me, why should I?
@@gunny-y6q incredible that you have internal peace and I think that is so important in today's world. What would you say helped you to ignore the opinions of others and to have courage to forge your own path?
@@gunny-y6q I think Clara Meadmore might be a member of your vibe-tribe. Mine, too. Look her up. She lived 1903-2011. Never married, child-free, happily single for 108 years.
@@simonalexandero I have inner peace, too. Always did. I saw this post on Facebook long ago: "Your opinion of me is your reflection of YOU. My reaction to you is my awareness of ME."
This video truly changed my mind. Thank you for pushing me through fear. I’ve felt lost for 3 years. It’s been so painful, and I’ve been disappointed in life. Now, I’m slowly building on faith, self-compassion, and belief in myself. I see you as the light that took me away from the darkness. Thank you for your advice!
You are SO right. I see couples having coffee or dinner and they are both on their I phones. They fail to understand how precious that moment is. Very sad.
As a 24 year old attempting to live the way I want, other people will drag you down and never allow for such a thing. If they suffer, so must you. Welcome to our world
And this is why being conscious of the environment around us is so important- from the people we spend time with to the books we read and from who we follow on social media to what we listen to ❤️
I’m 61yrs old, and when I was your age I also had people dragging and knocking me down as I tried to improve, those people where family, i decided early on that I had to cut ties with the toxicity of these people. Don’t hang on to toxic people just because they’re family, that was the best decision I ever made. I build a successful life and made my own family of true friends and loved ones. Don’t be afraid to break away. Good luck and may you find your true path in this life. Blessings 🤍
For me, the purpose of life is to listen to our creator what he wants of us to do! If not the creator, things really don't make sense. Simon, a great talk, we need such talks in our lives
I’ve had a good life, but most of it I don’t even remember.. I remember bits and pieces but not what ever happened in a single day which is astounding to me. Life is like a flash of a moment! Snap of a finger and it’s over
@@simonalexandero Putting God first and he will direct your path in life... Treat people the way you want to be treated, keep a positive attitude through difficult times because we all go through things for a reason.
Whether rightly or wrongly, I've come to sense that things enter into and pass out of our lives for a reason. That may sound a bit ethereal, but I've tried to open myself up to that possibility, and I try to be aware of what I perceive to be are signals that indicate incoming or outgoing change. The ability to be self-aware is huge in this, and I think it ties in with the message in this video. Like another comment here, I've shamefully and glibly taken much of the gift of life for granted. I've had bumps in life like everyone else, but as I'm about to turn 67 this year, I'm grateful and actually stunned by my incredible good fortune when I stop to assess the moment I'm in. I'm not rich, but I'm not poor. I'm not sick, but I'm not perfectly healthy. I'm not stupid, but I'm not as smart as I wish I was. I'm acutely aware of my mortality now, and that cloud on my horizon approaches ever faster. That being the case, ive decided to make one last attempt to create a business out of thin air based on something i think i have the skills to potentially succeed at. If i succeed at this then I'll be astonished, but I will also grade failure as a success because i know that i will have at least tried versus letting the last of my energies and abilities grow fallow in the final chapter of my life. Regret for sometuing jot tried would be unbearable to me. These changes are hard on my family because I'm upsetting everyone's comfort, but in a strange outcome I think I see them being subconsciously inspired to make changes in their own lives. I'll take the blame for forcing this change on my family, but I hope and dream it benefits them as well in some way. Change is often ugly, but it can manifest in better outcomes ultimately. Thank you for this inspiring video.
@@greytogray6070 and thank you for this wonderful share. Enjoyed reading your comment and it reminded me of the book The Celestine Prophecy. Have you read it?
I am 63 years old. My wife of 30 years passed away two years ago, even though she was a total alcoholic I think that shortened her life by many years. One of the many things that I wish she had should have done was get outside more less TVand put down the wine bottle. That was 2 1/2 years ago when she passed now I have a girlfriend I’m getting ready to get married and she loves being outside. She loves camping. She loves hiking. I think I met her for a reason. As a handyman, I’ve had 1400 customers and I was constantly working, so I think it’s time to hang up the toolbelt permanently.
Wherever you are be there. Be bold with the ask. Doubt and fear will always be there in life. Be present for the people we love. I love the 3 question on our limiting belief
I think it's wrong to think about how much time is left in life. Rather, we should just enjoy each day and live in the moment. After all, once we pass on, none of this matters anymore.
Stay healthy, stay connected with love ones. Do the things that make you happy n not worry too much about money, if that’s possible. Everyone is different.
You’re right. Thankfully I’ve finally realized who I want in my life & who I don’t. I’m tired of being in harsh, toxic environments. I’ve put everyone else first, but now it’s time I think about me & my happiness. Life is too short
I can relate . I’ve never “ cut “ anyone out of my life before . However ; I had to make some adjustments . I heard a sermon preached on the difference between judging and discernment . WOW ! So now - unfortunately , I had to cut two people that were TOXIC out of my life . I pray that you find a peace about your choices of who you ALLOW into you head and heart and life as well …
I am 36 life is useless I hate it and can’t wait for it to end ❤ I’m glad life is short I have a small penis my dream of getting a business is soo far way 😅 I’m lost and hopeless 😢 let life end a pebble in the ocean 🎉 same
Im just about to turn 38 and starting to realise that the battle has always been in the mind. Anxiety for the future and depression from the past. I now see that I am not this body or mind. I am the awareness behind it all - the ever present consciousness that we all are. We cannot live in the past and we cannot live in the future - all we truely have is the now. It took extreme pain and suffering to have this realisation and one question I asked myself in meditation that changed everything. Who am I?
@@Opeth1991 I haven't read his book but I do listen to his teachings. Advaita Vedanta is great - it's very direct. It all just started to unfold when I decided I really wanted to heal my heart which then led to a path of finding truth 🙏
Mom (61) died this February because of heart attack, complication from her diabetes, add the chronic kidney problem due to here lack of proper sleep and hard working nature in her food business for 20 years. All of her hard work after retirement and she enjoyed what she got for 1 year... All for that time and energy spent... For nothing... The Irony of Hard Work, to "Retire for a Comfortable Life"....
This is a bad mentality to live by, the only way you will be at peace with death when your time comes is knowing you made a positive contribution to the species that aligns with your potential to do so.
Great content. The way you speak made everything easy to follow and understand. Like of course I understand the words coming out your mouth, but do I understand the point you’re trying to get across, am I able to take your knowledge as now part of mine. You made it easy.
I’m 49 and I retired at 44 and traveling the world still past five years, No regrets A year and half ago was diagnosed with blood cancer with out cure so definitely no regrets.
I think people should not worry so much about what is your legacy or your eulogy is but leaving this life better then you found it. I say this with sincerity.
for me still dont know my legacy how will it be im 25 and am tour operator based on Tanzania(serengeti,Tarangire,Ngorongoro,Zanzibar) still trying how to become my self and own my own compan
I'm glad I got to hear this. I always felt that it was necessary to please other people, but I kept neglecting myself. It's time for a change and treat myself better.
I used to think helping/teaching people is a waste of time as they usually don't remember who did it or even care who did it. But the beauty of not remember/knowing the benefactor is that they knew someone did it for them and remember the good gesture not the person. So the legacy of life is not about your name but how many good gesture you left behind.
Your video very much resonated w/me. The news and current events are so threatening. I get so overwhelmed and lose tract of time listening/ reading the news. I spent years in foster care luckily w/siblings but a sad childhood, worked for 39+ years, raised children, divorced & remarried. Spending my time running, surviving, fighting, and hiding. Now with the condition of the world !!! I do remember the love felt (at the early age of 3) from people, some of which I don’t remember their names, which had imprinted on my life, had an impact on my children and grandchildren whose lives are so much better. Those caring people left me with legacy I want to emulate. Thank you for your message and reminder. Time for me to “Be !”
Before when I was young, I also care about leaving a legacy. But as I grow older, I realized it doesn’t matter. I see too many people driving themselves mad trying to change the world. They put all their happiness on the line for their legacy and end up miserable. Too many people want to be remembered after they die, but I don’t care because I don’t think it really matters.I’ll be dead anyway so I will have no idea if people remember me! So I just focus on being a happy, good person, because I am the only thing I can truly control. 🙂
This is why we are striving to live our truths and fulfill our passions in a godly way. Don't worry about what others think, live with purpose, make strategic investments, don't get greedy, slow down and appreciate the time you have.
They say that greed is just a little bit more than what you need; a little bit more than enough. Seek ye first the kingdom of God and everything else will be added unto you. 😊😊
When i lived in service to everyone's needs but was invisible & not even on the list, whole Borough's would have packed out my funeral... Now im a parent, escaped the abuse trying to destroy us and am still generous but now acknowledge my own boundaries - I doubt more than 5 people would attend my funeral - which would be more than the birthday texts for my birthday this year - im not even 50 yet - don't ask for anything, still give more than i receive as someone said, yet people rarely applaud our journey to authenticity, they want you to be a door mat, so they can boast when you die of exhaustion "they'd do anything for anyone". No more. Thank you God for saving me and opening my eyes to the Truth ❤
@@FaithfulandTrue777 Yes, finding & living your Truth--aligning with who you authentically are--is not selfish; it is, as I say, Self-ful (capital-S). Selflessness, in a door-mat-y way, is extoled in our society, yet it entails Self-betrayal at every turn. That's just too high a price to pay. So I really don't care "what will people say" about the life I live(d). We are each responsible for our own happiness whether the sum of our (ideally Self-aligning) choices yield a tangible legacy or not. Of what value is your legacy, if in the course of cultivating it, I discover you've suppressed or denied your true Self for even a day, let alone for decades?
You speak so well with so much wisdom just like a monk. You really are a powerful speaker indeed. What you said really resonated with me. I took notes of the quotes that you mentioned eloquently. Thank you for this existential and meaningful message. 💗
Outside of having my son, life has been very lonely. I hate the thought of leaving him and will let the universe decide when it’s my time, but I won’t fight it. I’m only good for service to others. I’ve never felt loved or wanted. No matter how much I succeed, no one claps. No matter how loving or of service I am, no one reciprocates. People say kind things and how important I am, but their words and actions don’t match. I have no one to go to. Not family, not the man I married, not friends. I’m surrounded by people and they don’t see me. I have been direct and honest about how I feel, no one cares. I get gaslit or ignored. I’m just working my life away so I can leave something to my child. That’s it
I want to acknowledge that I saw read your message. I can identify with what you're feeling. My question to you is, what small thing can you do for yourself that makes you smile? Maybe you can do more of that and find others who like to do it too. For me, it's walking. I walk with a group of kind people. It took me a while to find a group with the right fit, but I kept trying.💕 I also wrote down what I was seeking. Hope you find your kind tribe. I'm still gathering folks.💕
@@simonalexandero Love yourself, clap for yourself, celebrate YOU. Don't even give others the very power to validate you. They're just mortals, with their own flaws & fears. Don't let your son watch his mom wholly disappear into a life of service to others, himself included. You are YOU before you were/are his mom.
@writerforlifeify "Disappear into a life of service to others" I can identify with this phrase.🤔 Many of us have to be more intentional about meeting our own needs while helping others. I'm still learning.
I m Rodney father of 3 children . Work as assistant baker in cyprus . Im from srILANKA . My family is there . Your channel gave me a valuable backup .❤❤❤
Well said...I am 55 years old. I need to go on vacation more than I can. I used all of my times to works and my money to help cared for others, but in return, I got nothing. I need to start living, laughing and enjoying my life because life is too short. Be happy and enjoy life. God bless all.😊😊😊❤❤❤❤❤
Thanks Simon! I definitely know I need to use my phone less to be present with my family and be there for them, my wife and girls are my purpose in life and that's all I ever wanted tbh. I've subbed having just found your channel and it's honestly brilliant, thanks so much
I live my life as I see fit. Not bothered what my legacy will be when I leave this world. God's thoughts of me I value most. That is eternal, not temporal.
@@-whackdThe Scriptures and the Holy Spirit who lives in those who believe in God, reveals God’s thoughts and plans for us. This happens through prayer, which is the direct means of communication we use to talk to and listen from God. Hope this helps!
When God told Noah to build the Ark, there were no churchianity or denominations. God speaks the same today as He always did, why do you think keeping us busy and distracted is so lucrative - its the devils work! Jesus said "my sheep hear My voice" read the Gospels and sincerely ask God to help your unbelief. Listening for that still, small voice has helped me escape death more than once, Jesus loves you - He bought you with His Blood ❣️
i don't understand why people say life is short. i am 40 and have achieved everything i want out of life. it has felt like a very VERY long time to get this far
@@simonalexandero things never go as planned. that doesn't make you a failure. the key is to never give up even if things seem futile or are falling apart
I'm 44, and I can't wait to die (peacefully in my sleep if possible). I feel as if I've lived 5 lifetimes already! God made us live too long for this societal nonsense that we have to endure.
Indeed, the words resonate with truth and beauty. Yet, for numerous individuals around the world, the immediate challenge is surviving and overcoming their circumstances before they can contemplate their legacy.
Aiming to "leave a legacy" seems to be associated with unnecessary pressure. By living an authentic life that truly resonates with us and that is aligned with who we Truly are, is the best way to spend our time here wisely. Interestingly enough, people will naturally resonate and gravitate to authentic people without giving much priority on "leaving a legacy", it becomes a natural by-product.
Agreed. Live authentically, i.e., make Self-aligning choices on a moment-to-moment basis. Words don't teach; lead by example. Therein lies your 'legacy'. Just do YOU, not for them but for you. Anyone calibrated to their own Truth is naturally, effortlessly, even inadvertently inspirational.
@@simonalexandero Thanks, but I feel that my 'insights' simply constitute common sense even though I can appreciate how the terms in which I've been thinking (since elementary school) aren't so common at all. Have you ever tried engaging certain (religion-hijacked) groups of people in a discussion about Self-alignment? All I ever elicited from them were blank stares or expressions of fear or assurances of understanding me whilst simultaneously blatantly contradicting themselves! It's both funny & sad. But we can deduce why the caged bird sings.....can't we? In university (Sociology class), I met 'mature' students (45+) who expressed disappointment, even anger, when they were offered an array of essay topics & were instructed to choose one. One woman was especially chagrined. I was then 22, genuinely shocked for the 1st & only time in my life. I suddenly realized that some (or most) people experience the freedom of choice AS the burden of choice. They want to be told what to do, to think, to believe. I really didn't know, until then, that such peeps existed! (I was penalized by the prof for selecting a topic that wasn't even on the list but I subsequently settled it with the dean). But no matter, all roads in life ultimately lead Home to one's true Self in every context, sooner or later.
~ These were exactly the words I needed to hear today, Simon. Life changing. ~ This morning I was thinking that I have not gone as far in life as I wanted to go and feeling like it may be too late for some things. This helped me realize that there is so much more I can do & to utilize my belief in myself & not be held back by fears. Thank you so much. I'm appreciating you from California. Sunday, 5.26.24
There"s a peace and understanding you have that helped me stay and listen your completed piece/meaning, that's called Wisdom to gather and heal the parts that where empty in my opinion, and see the years that where "Blank To Me", and go forward to keep improving my style of kindness and generosity for me and others. Thank you.
I thinks it’s a balance. As a family man and a father, your always thinking about leaving a legacy for you family, but I think the key is to not let tomorrows plans blind you from the gift that today brings!!!
I'm 19 and I haven't accomplished anything yet throughout my years and Im scared the fact that I'm not gonna live the ideal life I really want to be and for myself. I'm scared the fact that my traumatic past haunted me that I'm not living in the present and times have completely change throughout the years. It's hard to bear whether where my path should go or the responsibility that I took for myself to be something greater. I haven't done that. It doesnt matter if I'm successful or not, or having the materialistic life I've dream off since I was a kid. Although I'm still young but I'm no longer a kid anymore and I've endure so much pain and trauma from my dysfunctional abusive family, especially my dad had done to me worse. Maybe it's time for me a change.
So sorry to hear about your traumatic past and thank you for your courage in sharing here. If there’s anything I’ve learnt when reflecting back on life is that it is in our darkest, most challenging moments in life that equip us with the wisdom and insight to create the most beautiful moments in life ❤️
I’m only 17, but I feel like this still resonates. I’ve spent nearly the entirety of my teenage on my phone, rarely ever going out and surrounding myself with friends and family. When I think back to my happiest moments, it’s always been them. I struggle so much to live in the present moment because I’m constantly weighed down by my fears for the future. I’m inadvertently perpetuating a self-fulfilling by letting myself believe that who I am now is all I’ll ever be for the rest of my life, even when I know that isn’t true. I’ve missed so many opportunities in the past because of my mindset and inaction, but I realize that I’m still young and nothing in my life can change if I don’t try for myself.
Beautifully said and love your level of awareness. You can't change what has happened yesterday but you can change where you will end up tomorrow. Work from your future self and make choices today that will close the gap between where you are and where you'd like to be ❤
I’m 55 and I can still remember in detail 40 years ago during my high school years in the 80’s as if they were just yesterday and 40 years into the future if I’m still around I’ll be 95! Hopefully by then age will be reversible lol
Thank you for this video. I’m 36 and I’m going through a difficult moment and I’m experiencing anxiety and a little bit of depression, and I’m doing everything that is in my power to change my life because this period had cost me a lot of beautiful moments with my family, my daughter and my friends. I know that everything will change for the best and I can’t wait to enjoy my new life filled with love and freedom. Send you a lot of love and positive thoughts (I apologize if my english is not perfect ☺️). A big hug from Italy ❤️
Amazing video and right at the time i needed it. In the middle of the video i realised that im the most important person in my life, and if i want an amazing life, i have to take action to achieve it. Thanks and keep up the good work.
I've gone past caring what people think. I've spent all my life overcoming inner struggle and healing myself from all the things that happened to me in my younger years. To the outside I am a loser and an under-achiever and probably look selfish, but I know the truth of my struggles, how far I have come and that I am a good, decent person inside. That's what matters to me. Where I am in life would not impress other people but, knowing what I've been through, to me, it's quite an achievement.
Very powerful. Glad I found you. I've been going through the darkest point in my life but love the calm, but energetic vibe I got. Especially seeing that time frame laid out. Tired of letting fear steal my time because it's robbed me off 2 precious years already.
How many summer solstices do we have left? At 60 I may not even see this one in a few weeks, much less 20 more! So I really appreciate the yearly landmark dates/events. How many more more full moons with a clear sky? Life is cool, enjoy the free wonder of nature.
@@SyriusOLshdepression will for do it. It will make you forget what day it is and before you know it a whole year would have passed by. For most people depression is the culprit. But also keep in mind that “wasted time” looks very different for each person. Some may feel that if they worked too much and didn’t get to spend time with family that they wasted time, were as others may feel the same about not traveling much, or experiencing different things. For me my family has sucked so much of my time away that my career goals had been put to the side, and I mentally suffered greatly for that. It prevented me from being able to meet dynamic business and financial goals that would have changed not just my life, but my family’s life as a whole. My grandmother, uncle, and 6yo old niece would still be here if I could have been financially stable to help them. Im now in my early 30s and 10yrs married and we still don’t have kids (😢) and I’m trying to recover everyday from the emotional and psychological trauma I have endured over these last 8yrs. The pandemic didn’t help at all (it just sucked away 3yrs like it was nothing) It’s hard but very doable, but it takes time. Im personally in a much better head space now, because I decided in 2021 that I’m no longer going to care about anyone else anymore until I can take care of myself and what I want in life.
I've been contemplating quitting my job for the last 5 years but didn't have the balls. I am now 39 and the last 5 years feels like wasted. I've made some money and travelled but everything has been rushed. Also, I was determined to get physically healthier and I have, but even that has been rushed and lead to mostly injuries. I started a new job, but I see the cycle just repeating again. Not sure anymore what is the best thing to do. It is very confusing...
You are right. Somebody told me that when I was young. Now I know what they mean. Time goes by fast. It feels like the past is yesterday. You feel like you wish you have more time.
What bold action will you be taking today or this week as a result of being reminded about this truth many of us tend to forget too easily?
Try for a new line of work
@@Wilson12857 what will be that step you will take to make that more of a possibility?
@@simonalexandero reach out to new customers for my new line of work. Also, get my health in check! Thanks for asking 😊
this world is just an illusion. this truth is too. so, don't rush. everything will be go, no matter of what. just relax and live with out any aims. my dudes.
@@jackfaber7710 truth☀
I am 50 and I realised that I don’t care about legacy. I spent my whole 47yrs trying to placate and please others and not rocking anyone boat but at the end of the day people don’t really care much because you can never ever please everyone. The best thing to do is to live your life true to yourself and then you will never be disappointed. I am 50 and retired and living my best life being a nomad.
So true. Bronnie Ware noted that the #1 regret of the dying was that they wished they lived a life more true to themselves than for others ❤️
My definition of LEGACY is the QUALITY OF LIFE I LIVE❤
...im not married and don't have kids, so im not bothered.
Leaving kids on this earth is not LEGACY, especially if you have created nothing for them to live off.
IMPACT on others through my life is my legacy.
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@@simonalexandero with ❤️ from South Africa...
@@omphemetsechake2839 thank you 🙏
I’m 27 and I’m living the life I wish, full of travel, hard works, readings, only good friends and healthy relationships and spirituality
Love it Jamie! What would you say has helped you to get to this point of living the life you wish?
Until you get to 60 and there's nothing left to do.
You are doing it right. Protect yourself from evil negative people. And protect your health. 🍀
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@jamiewanders5790 please tell!brooo
True success is not being rich owning many cars and houses etc, true success is how joyfully you live your life.
Beautifully said 👏
Amen!
Yes!
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What is more depressing is that in most Western countries, you spend 40+ years working 5-6 days a week, only to have the Government take 60-70% of you income in the form of taxes, fees etc. while inflating the remaining 30% away due to the impact of borrowing on the money supply and just plain printing money to fund budget deficits. Sad part is, most of the money is used to create an army of Government agencies to make your life more difficult and restrictive.
It took me a while to understand that....now I work enough to fund my lifestyle in my own business. I don't need a Mercedes or Rolex to be happy, a Mazda or Casio works fine. I now spend more time in nature, traveling, working my classic car and riding my motorcycle.
Love that last paragraph. So much to learn from it 🙏
Oh for god's sake, stop whining about paying taxes! You have opportunities to get an education, food, housing, and use roads and bridges because of 'the government.' The government responds to pandemics, wars, and natural disasters so that you can continue to criticize. Of course, all decisions are far from perfect. that is what democracy is. Just get some perspective and know that it is a privilege to pay taxes because it means that you made money!
@@paulwade4322 gratitude is the path to abundance ❤️
Give nature a break and leave the bloody cars alone.
@@paulwade4322 He's not whining about it, he's just stating a fact!
Who cares what others say about you at any time? Not to mention when you are dead! Live and love to your fullest now.
Here’s to that 🙌
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I agree with this! The first part of the video basically says that we should care about what other people think. I'm disappointed.
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I am 50 now and you realise you live your own life and not someone else’s.There are so many things I look forward to doing and it’s all about variety and learning new things also.Every day try to learn something,its v good for the soul.
Words of wisdom here Daniel. Thank you 🙏
im 25 and am tour operator based on Tanzania(serengeti,Tarangire,Ngorongoro,Zanzibar) still trying how to become my self and own my ow n compan
I couldn’t agree more 🤍
Absolutely true.
Being present in the here and now. Something I wish I knew earlier. But children have a way of bringing that out in all of us. ❤
Absolutely 👏
You should read the power of now 😊
@@El89po a powerful book!
I’m 38 and I feel the same way you explained. Like half way through life, it seems like you’re running out of time. That’s where life begins @ 40 makes sense. You reflect how far you came and what’s left😮 You crave for achieving something magical.
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This is so true 😊 I hope you achieve that magical life 💜
Well its nice to reflect sometimes, but the only moment you have in life is now. Future or past are irrelevant, once you understand that everything is now
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Me too, 38, and Father Time is knocking hard. I guess it’s good we are aware of it so we can now improve and make the rest of the years count!
Just turned 60 a week ago.
Time is precious
Used to drive sports cars and all that stuff. l fired my landlord at a 55 and over community and bought a brand new RV where l currently live there cheaply.
Life gets better at 60.
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Just turned 60 a week ago too! I hope you're right that life gets better at 60, can't wait! 😉
@@halcyon-cg2eb Happy Birthday 🥂
I agree totally my wife passed 2yrs ago after 22yrs of marriage she had health problems the whole time before she passed she told me to go live life and enjoy myself I'm taking my first vacation ever at 48 next week and plan on many more adventures
I am 36 life is useless I hate it and can’t wait for it to end ❤ I’m glad life is short
I have a small penis my dream of getting a business is soo far way 😅 I’m lost and hopeless 😢 let life end a pebble in the ocean
My mom is 90 and dad is 89 and both are healthy and strong with sharp minds. They live balanced lives and have been married for over 69 years. I see what you are saying and needed to hear it. Thank you for a wise and helpful video. Your channel is wonderful. You are so easy to listen to.
Thank you for the kind words ❤️
Exactly why I am done buying stuff and only spending my money to do things I enjoy and the legacy of what i enjoy doing.
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Underrated video. I'm 30 and just had a kid, bought a beautiful home and was able to afford my dream car... had to sacrifice my childhood, because I thought this is what makes me truly happy... realized that money DOES solve problems, but it doesn't make one happy. Went down to my true self, understood concepts about consciousness, what life is really about and learnt more about god... today, I can tell that you're 100% spot on. Everything goes back to being present, being mindful and balance EVERYTHING in life, including the distractions, the fun, the happiness, the sadness, the tear, the sweat, the laughter... you have to balance everything, including how much you're conscious and unconcsious throughout.. ultimately, this will help you to master your mind, which brings true happiness as EVERYTHING makes click now... you understand literally everything, and everyone. Today, I'm not even mad on my worst enemy or if someone insults me... it's because I developed a deep understanding throughout the adversities i faced in my life. These 80 years are just a temporary phase, use it wisely and master your mind, defeat your ego, become happy, be happy, spread happiness...
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glad u tried a bit
im 25 and am tour operator based on Tanzania(serengeti,Tarangire,Ngorongoro,Zanzibar) still trying how to become my self and own my own company
We have control over our mind not outside events. Know this and you will find power.
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Underrated comment - this should have thousands of likes. So many gems of wisdom from someone so young. ❤
I live my life fully by stopping the poverty cycle in my family. Financially supporting my nieces & nephews to finish their engineering degrees.
Not so much savings but I am truly happy.
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Be bold in your ask, but don't be attached to the outcome was my key message...loved this Simon!
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I managed to spend at least 25 years traveling and living all around the world through work. Now settled and doing something I love. Material goods really are nothing . It’s experiences .
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The chart you used at the beginning of the video to represent how short our lives are was really impactful.
Thank you 🙏
After crossing into my 30’s time started feeling exponentially more precious. I don’t really care about having a career anymore, I’d much rather live my truth. Looking forward to a nomadic lifestyle next year!
Love it! What’s are some of the places you have in mind to travel to? 😊
@@simonalexandero exploring all the natural beauty of North America - thanks for asking!
@@thegzak sounds like it’s going to be such a fun trip!
May God be with Everyone
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I refocused at 60 through a spiritual approach by appreciating the small things and being more curious about life in general ; this also includes appreciating people and not taking them for granted.
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Simple, i am totally not interested what people say, i just live my life
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I always have followed my own path and I am totally alone but I have internal peace, 57 years now, no kids, no relationship, never smoked, never drang alcohol, just totally clean but I literally never think or feel how other people think about me, why should I?
@@gunny-y6q incredible that you have internal peace and I think that is so important in today's world. What would you say helped you to ignore the opinions of others and to have courage to forge your own path?
@@gunny-y6q I think Clara Meadmore might be a member of your vibe-tribe. Mine, too. Look her up. She lived 1903-2011. Never married, child-free, happily single for 108 years.
@@simonalexandero I have inner peace, too. Always did. I saw this post on Facebook long ago: "Your opinion of me is your reflection of YOU. My reaction to you is my awareness of ME."
This video truly changed my mind. Thank you for pushing me through fear. I’ve felt lost for 3 years. It’s been so painful, and I’ve been disappointed in life. Now, I’m slowly building on faith, self-compassion, and belief in myself. I see you as the light that took me away from the darkness. Thank you for your advice!
Wow! Humbled by your kind words and inspired by what is to come for you as push through into the light of what is possible ❤️
You are SO right. I see couples having coffee or dinner and
they are both on their I phones. They fail to understand how
precious that moment is. Very sad.
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@user. Total sad but true
Zooming with the grandchild while traveling the world! Not so bad....
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Sorry I don’t want to leave any legacy to this world. I just want to leave a peaceful, stress-free normal life of an everyday man
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Amen!
True my friend true…
I second that emotion. And at 75 I will add: A peaceful death in my own bed.
Your legacy can be the children you raise or the people you help.
Great video! Live the life you want and don't let fear hold you back. You don't want to have regrets on your death bed.
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"Be bold in your asks". Wow.
Thank you dear Simon 😍
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As a 24 year old attempting to live the way I want, other people will drag you down and never allow for such a thing. If they suffer, so must you. Welcome to our world
And this is why being conscious of the environment around us is so important- from the people we spend time with to the books we read and from who we follow on social media to what we listen to ❤️
I’m 61yrs old, and when I was your age I also had people dragging and knocking me down as I tried to improve, those people where family, i decided early on that I had to cut ties with the toxicity of these people. Don’t hang on to toxic people just because they’re family, that was the best decision I ever made. I build a successful life and made my own family of true friends and loved ones. Don’t be afraid to break away. Good luck and may you find your true path in this life. Blessings 🤍
Toxic people have ruined my life. I’m 34, homeless, and wasting my days just scraping by to exist.
@@_Arugula_Salad_ That's on you, take responsibility or in other words accept the freedom
@@_Arugula_Salad_ Perhaps in Asia?
For me, the purpose of life is to listen to our creator what he wants of us to do! If not the creator, things really don't make sense.
Simon, a great talk, we need such talks in our lives
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I’ve had a good life, but most of it I don’t even remember.. I remember bits and pieces but not what ever happened in a single day which is astounding to me. Life is like a flash of a moment! Snap of a finger and it’s over
So true. And what would you say has been an important lesson you've taken away from reflecting back on the good life you have had?
@@simonalexandero Putting God first and he will direct your path in life... Treat people the way you want to be treated, keep a positive attitude through difficult times because we all go through things for a reason.
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Whether rightly or wrongly, I've come to sense that things enter into and pass out of our lives for a reason. That may sound a bit ethereal, but I've tried to open myself up to that possibility, and I try to be aware of what I perceive to be are signals that indicate incoming or outgoing change. The ability to be self-aware is huge in this, and I think it ties in with the message in this video. Like another comment here, I've shamefully and glibly taken much of the gift of life for granted. I've had bumps in life like everyone else, but as I'm about to turn 67 this year, I'm grateful and actually stunned by my incredible good fortune when I stop to assess the moment I'm in. I'm not rich, but I'm not poor. I'm not sick, but I'm not perfectly healthy. I'm not stupid, but I'm not as smart as I wish I was. I'm acutely aware of my mortality now, and that cloud on my horizon approaches ever faster. That being the case, ive decided to make one last attempt to create a business out of thin air based on something i think i have the skills to potentially succeed at. If i succeed at this then I'll be astonished, but I will also grade failure as a success because i know that i will have at least tried versus letting the last of my energies and abilities grow fallow in the final chapter of my life. Regret for sometuing jot tried would be unbearable to me. These changes are hard on my family because I'm upsetting everyone's comfort, but in a strange outcome I think I see them being subconsciously inspired to make changes in their own lives. I'll take the blame for forcing this change on my family, but I hope and dream it benefits them as well in some way. Change is often ugly, but it can manifest in better outcomes ultimately. Thank you for this inspiring video.
@@greytogray6070 and thank you for this wonderful share. Enjoyed reading your comment and it reminded me of the book The Celestine Prophecy. Have you read it?
I am 63 years old. My wife of 30 years passed away two years ago, even though she was a total alcoholic I think that shortened her life by many years. One of the many things that I wish she had should have done was get outside more less TVand put down the wine bottle. That was 2 1/2 years ago when she passed now I have a girlfriend I’m getting ready to get married and she loves being outside. She loves camping. She loves hiking. I think I met her for a reason. As a handyman, I’ve had 1400 customers and I was constantly working, so I think it’s time to hang up the toolbelt permanently.
It sounds like you did ❤️
It sounds like your new wife might like your tool belt. ;-) Sorry for your loss and happy for your new lease on life.
Don't get married...
They suck the life out of you @@njjj3338
Good for you. All the best for a new life with a partner who is right for you.
I turn 40th years old yes I agree life is short live your life to the fullest
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im 25 and am tour operator based on Tanzania(serengeti,Tarangire,Ngorongoro,Zanzibar) still trying how to become my self and own my own company
Can I get your email?
@@sam_safari send your contact info, thanks. Planning to go to Tanzania.
Wherever you are be there.
Be bold with the ask.
Doubt and fear will always be there in life. Be present for the people we love. I love the 3 question on our limiting belief
Thank you Leona!
I think it's wrong to think about how much time is left in life. Rather, we should just enjoy each day and live in the moment. After all, once we pass on, none of this matters anymore.
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Agreed, that is a horrible feeling to watch how many calendar weeks i might have left.
Stay healthy, stay connected with love ones. Do the things that make you happy n not worry too much about money, if that’s possible. Everyone is different.
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This video has a different perspective on how to live your life. It's unique. I love it. Thank you for sharing Simon.
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Honestly, once it ends i couldnt give a single crap what people talk about me. Thats their problem. I aint comong back to hear it anyway.
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Why not have it said before your death? Have a party rather than a wake.
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You’re right. Thankfully I’ve finally realized who I want in my life & who I don’t. I’m tired of being in harsh, toxic environments. I’ve put everyone else first, but now it’s time I think about me & my happiness. Life is too short
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I can relate . I’ve never
“ cut “ anyone out of my life before . However ; I had to make some adjustments . I heard a sermon preached on the difference between judging and discernment . WOW ! So now - unfortunately , I had to cut two people that were TOXIC out of my life . I pray that you find a peace about your choices of who you ALLOW into you head and heart and
life as well …
Thank god life is short. Can’t imagine going through this drudgery any longer.
I am 36 life is useless I hate it and can’t wait for it to end ❤ I’m glad life is short
I have a small penis my dream of getting a business is soo far way 😅 I’m lost and hopeless 😢 let life end a pebble in the ocean 🎉 same
What small thing can you be grateful for? ❤️
So true my friend
@@backseateats9513 There are penis pumps that can give you a john holmes size doodle..
Right still so many bubbles left
You got me Simon. The circles got me. I think about it sometimes but not deeply. I'm 54. Wow. It's almost gone. So deep mate. Thank you.
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Im just about to turn 38 and starting to realise that the battle has always been in the mind. Anxiety for the future and depression from the past. I now see that I am not this body or mind. I am the awareness behind it all - the ever present consciousness that we all are. We cannot live in the past and we cannot live in the future - all we truely have is the now. It took extreme pain and suffering to have this realisation and one question I asked myself in meditation that changed everything. Who am I?
Such a wonderful realisation to experience and thank you so much for sharing. Wisdom for us all to learn from 🙏
Where you affected by Eckhart Tolle during your journey to reach this realisation?
@@Opeth1991 I haven't read his book but I do listen to his teachings. Advaita Vedanta is great - it's very direct. It all just started to unfold when I decided I really wanted to heal my heart which then led to a path of finding truth 🙏
@@EnergiCodes I'm so happy for you
@@Opeth1991 thank you brother 🙏
Mom (61) died this February because of heart attack, complication from her diabetes, add the chronic kidney problem due to here lack of proper sleep and hard working nature in her food business for 20 years. All of her hard work after retirement and she enjoyed what she got for 1 year... All for that time and energy spent... For nothing... The Irony of Hard Work, to "Retire for a Comfortable Life"....
So sorry to hear 😢
I’m sorry for your loss
😢I am so sorry for your loss.
Nothing really matters, not even your legacy, once your dead. This is also something to consider.
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Sorry, but I disagree, our legacy is being built for the future of our children and people we love while living our best life in the process.
Obviously it won’t matter to me, because I will no longer be here, but it matters to me now… for those that I love and cherish the most.
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This is a bad mentality to live by, the only way you will be at peace with death when your time comes is knowing you made a positive contribution to the species that aligns with your potential to do so.
Great content. The way you speak made everything easy to follow and understand. Like of course I understand the words coming out your mouth, but do I understand the point you’re trying to get across, am I able to take your knowledge as now part of mine. You made it easy.
Thank you so much and glad to hear you enjoyed it 🙏
I’m 49 and I retired at 44 and traveling the world still past five years, No regrets
A year and half ago was diagnosed with blood cancer with out cure so definitely no regrets.
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Look for alternative cures and believe you'll find the solution.
enjoy the life you pursue, it is only a matter of time when we all leave this world. i was inspired by your text.
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Any update @.?
'because if you never ask, ...you will never know' thanks for that! it reminded me of a good habit that i always wanted to improve
It’s a powerful one to embrace 🙌
I think people should not worry so much about what is your legacy or your eulogy is but leaving this life better then you found it. I say this with sincerity.
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I agree with that…as we won’t be around to hear our eulogies anyway.
for me still dont know my legacy how will it be
im 25 and am tour operator based on Tanzania(serengeti,Tarangire,Ngorongoro,Zanzibar) still trying how to become my self and own my own compan
agree, if we care about what others will say after we are gone, we are trying to live other's life in order to impress them
I agree. Ironic how not to worry bout what people think now to worry about one's own eulogy. Some don't even have that luxury
I'm glad I got to hear this. I always felt that it was necessary to please other people, but I kept neglecting myself. It's time for a change and treat myself better.
Absolutely - you can’t pour from an empty cup. Focus on you first before you help others ❤️
I used to think helping/teaching people is a waste of time as they usually don't remember who did it or even care who did it. But the beauty of not remember/knowing the benefactor is that they knew someone did it for them and remember the good gesture not the person. So the legacy of life is not about your name but how many good gesture you left behind.
Beautifully, beautifully said ❤️
Thank you
That ripple effect will last a lifetime!
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@@TheGirlExotic Yes thats the point of legacy of life. its for the good of all humankind.
Your video very much resonated w/me. The news and current events are so threatening. I get so overwhelmed and lose tract of time listening/ reading the news. I spent years in foster care luckily w/siblings but a sad childhood, worked for 39+ years, raised children, divorced & remarried. Spending my time running, surviving, fighting, and hiding. Now with the condition of the world !!! I do remember the love felt (at the early age of 3) from people, some of which I don’t remember their names, which had imprinted on my life, had an impact on my children and grandchildren whose lives are so much better. Those caring people left me with legacy I want to emulate. Thank you for your message and reminder. Time for me to “Be !”
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Don’t listen to the news. W
How does it help you?
Yes it does help to get off the news.
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Before when I was young, I also care about leaving a legacy. But as I grow older, I realized it doesn’t matter. I see too many people driving themselves mad trying to change the world. They put all their happiness on the line for their legacy and end up miserable. Too many people want to be remembered after they die, but I don’t care because I don’t think it really matters.I’ll be dead anyway so I will have no idea if people remember me! So I just focus on being a happy, good person, because I am the only thing I can truly control. 🙂
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Happiness is an option. Joy is contentment. Success is individual definition. I am choosing my peace, joy, and love ❤️😊.
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This is why we are striving to live our truths and fulfill our passions in a godly way. Don't worry about what others think, live with purpose, make strategic investments, don't get greedy, slow down and appreciate the time you have.
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They say that greed is just a little bit more than what you need; a little bit more than enough. Seek ye first the kingdom of God and everything else will be added unto you. 😊😊
I'm 76 and you r so right I have so many regrets for no living a life of purpose and let fears drive my decisions but I'm not dead yet thank u
Exciting times ahead 🙌
Focusing on our Eulogy is like focusing on external approval for our happiness.
When i lived in service to everyone's needs but was invisible & not even on the list, whole Borough's would have packed out my funeral...
Now im a parent, escaped the abuse trying to destroy us and am still generous but now acknowledge my own boundaries - I doubt more than 5 people would attend my funeral - which would be more than the birthday texts for my birthday this year - im not even 50 yet - don't ask for anything, still give more than i receive as someone said, yet people rarely applaud our journey to authenticity, they want you to be a door mat, so they can boast when you die of exhaustion "they'd do anything for anyone". No more. Thank you God for saving me and opening my eyes to the Truth ❤
@@FaithfulandTrue777great words
@@FaithfulandTrue777 Yes, finding & living your Truth--aligning with who you authentically are--is not selfish; it is, as I say, Self-ful (capital-S). Selflessness, in a door-mat-y way, is extoled in our society, yet it entails Self-betrayal at every turn. That's just too high a price to pay. So I really don't care "what will people say" about the life I live(d).
We are each responsible for our own happiness whether the sum of our (ideally Self-aligning) choices yield a tangible legacy or not. Of what value is your legacy, if in the course of cultivating it, I discover you've suppressed or denied your true Self for even a day, let alone for decades?
Exactly, I couldn't care less about whose going to show up in my funeral, I only care for people who are showing up in my life through ups and downs
@@Pinkgreentea1 Excellent point! I have a relative who never visited our home in 40 years. He showed up, for the first time, at my dad's funeral!
You speak so well with so much wisdom just like a monk. You really are a powerful speaker indeed.
What you said really resonated with me. I took notes of the quotes that you mentioned eloquently.
Thank you for this existential and meaningful message. 💗
Thank you for the kind words and so glad to hear it resonated ❤️
Outside of having my son, life has been very lonely. I hate the thought of leaving him and will let the universe decide when it’s my time, but I won’t fight it. I’m only good for service to others. I’ve never felt loved or wanted. No matter how much I succeed, no one claps. No matter how loving or of service I am, no one reciprocates. People say kind things and how important I am, but their words and actions don’t match. I have no one to go to. Not family, not the man I married, not friends. I’m surrounded by people and they don’t see me. I have been direct and honest about how I feel, no one cares. I get gaslit or ignored. I’m just working my life away so I can leave something to my child. That’s it
Thank you so much for your openness in sharing Ivana. Your son is so lucky to have someone like you in his life ❤️
I want to acknowledge that I saw read your message. I can identify with what you're feeling. My question to you is, what small thing can you do for yourself that makes you smile? Maybe you can do more of that and find others who like to do it too. For me, it's walking. I walk with a group of kind people. It took me a while to find a group with the right fit, but I kept trying.💕 I also wrote down what I was seeking. Hope you find your kind tribe. I'm still gathering folks.💕
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@@simonalexandero Love yourself, clap for yourself, celebrate YOU. Don't even give others the very power to validate you. They're just mortals, with their own flaws & fears. Don't let your son watch his mom wholly disappear into a life of service to others, himself included. You are YOU before you were/are his mom.
@writerforlifeify "Disappear into a life of service to others" I can identify with this phrase.🤔 Many of us have to be more intentional about meeting our own needs while helping others. I'm still learning.
Simon Sinek is one of my best authors and motivational speakers.
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I m Rodney father of 3 children .
Work as assistant baker in cyprus .
Im from srILANKA .
My family is there .
Your channel gave me a valuable backup .❤❤❤
Thank you and so glad to hear 🙏
"Wherever you are, be there". That was like my wake up call. Thanks a ton.
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Favourite sentence: "The more you ask, the more comfortable you get asking for things that you want out of life."
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exactly what i believe in and had been doing for past 4 years. You had put this in a very good clip that I would had made myself. Thank you Simon
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Well said...I am 55 years old. I need to go on vacation more than I can. I used all of my times to works and my money to help cared for others, but in return, I got nothing. I need to start living, laughing and enjoying my life because life is too short. Be happy and enjoy life. God bless all.😊😊😊❤❤❤❤❤
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I'm fortunate to watch this at my mid 20's. Very helpful and nice lessons you're sharing here 🎉🎉
Thank you! So glad to hear you enjoyed it 🙏
thank you for this! at my 39 now and this resonates in me…”be bold to asks”
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Thanks Simon! I definitely know I need to use my phone less to be present with my family and be there for them, my wife and girls are my purpose in life and that's all I ever wanted tbh. I've subbed having just found your channel and it's honestly brilliant, thanks so much
Love it Adam ❤️
I live my life as I see fit. Not bothered what my legacy will be when I leave this world. God's thoughts of me I value most. That is eternal, not temporal.
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How did you figure out what Gods thoughts of you are? Do you have a direct means of communication?
@@-whackdThe Scriptures and the Holy Spirit who lives in those who believe in God, reveals God’s thoughts and plans for us. This happens through prayer, which is the direct means of communication we use to talk to and listen from God.
Hope this helps!
When God told Noah to build the Ark, there were no churchianity or denominations. God speaks the same today as He always did, why do you think keeping us busy and distracted is so lucrative - its the devils work!
Jesus said "my sheep hear My voice" read the Gospels and sincerely ask God to help your unbelief.
Listening for that still, small voice has helped me escape death more than once, Jesus loves you - He bought you with His Blood ❣️
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Hi Simon, what a great honest video. You transmit your elevated messages flawlessly from the heart. Thanks and blessings.
Thank you 🙏
i don't understand why people say life is short. i am 40 and have achieved everything i want out of life. it has felt like a very VERY long time to get this far
What advice would you share on achieving everything one wants out of life?
@@simonalexandero things never go as planned. that doesn't make you a failure. the key is to never give up even if things seem futile or are falling apart
@@mr-jon beautiful words 🙏
@@mr-jonI agree. It is way too long.
I'm 44, and I can't wait to die (peacefully in my sleep if possible). I feel as if I've lived 5 lifetimes already! God made us live too long for this societal nonsense that we have to endure.
Indeed, the words resonate with truth and beauty. Yet, for numerous individuals around the world, the immediate challenge is surviving and overcoming their circumstances before they can contemplate their legacy.
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Aiming to "leave a legacy" seems to be associated with unnecessary pressure. By living an authentic life that truly resonates with us and that is aligned with who we Truly are, is the best way to spend our time here wisely. Interestingly enough, people will naturally resonate and gravitate to authentic people without giving much priority on "leaving a legacy", it becomes a natural by-product.
Beautifully said and you are right on it being a natural part of living a life true to yourself 👏
Well said
Agreed. Live authentically, i.e., make Self-aligning choices on a moment-to-moment basis. Words don't teach; lead by example. Therein lies your 'legacy'. Just do YOU, not for them but for you. Anyone calibrated to their own Truth is naturally, effortlessly, even inadvertently inspirational.
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@@simonalexandero Thanks, but I feel that my 'insights' simply constitute common sense even though I can appreciate how the terms in which I've been thinking (since elementary school) aren't so common at all. Have you ever tried engaging certain (religion-hijacked) groups of people in a discussion about Self-alignment? All I ever elicited from them were blank stares or expressions of fear or assurances of understanding me whilst simultaneously blatantly contradicting themselves! It's both funny & sad. But we can deduce why the caged bird sings.....can't we?
In university (Sociology class), I met 'mature' students (45+) who expressed disappointment, even anger, when they were offered an array of essay topics & were instructed to choose one. One woman was especially chagrined. I was then 22, genuinely shocked for the 1st & only time in my life. I suddenly realized that some (or most) people experience the freedom of choice AS the burden of choice. They want to be told what to do, to think, to believe. I really didn't know, until then, that such peeps existed! (I was penalized by the prof for selecting a topic that wasn't even on the list but I subsequently settled it with the dean).
But no matter, all roads in life ultimately lead Home to one's true Self in every context, sooner or later.
I love the message of your video, it is all about being you as your authentic self. Life is definitely short ❤
Thank you 🙏
~ These were exactly the words I needed to hear today, Simon. Life changing. ~ This morning I was thinking that I have not gone as far in life as I wanted to go and feeling like it may be too late for some things. This helped me realize that there is so much more I can do & to utilize my belief in myself & not be held back by fears. Thank you so much. I'm appreciating you from California. Sunday, 5.26.24
So glad to hear it helped ❤️
There"s a peace and understanding you have that helped me stay and listen your completed piece/meaning, that's called Wisdom to gather and heal the parts that where empty in my opinion, and see the years that where "Blank To Me", and go forward to keep improving my style of kindness and generosity for me and others. Thank you.
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The 80 year visualisation is an eye opener. I’ve never looked at it from that angle before. Thank you.
It’s powerful isn’t it?!
Lots of good advice here.. I will try to manage my time better! Thank you for this video.
Thank you 🙏
"Being in the present." ❤
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I feel that you talked straight to my heart . thanks a million
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Life is wonderful, life is beautiful, life is amazing! So live it my friend. Stay Uncommon!
BOOM!!! Well said 👏
Wherever you are, be there. I love it!
Thank you 🙏
People have two lives. The second life begins when they realize they only have one.😂
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OMFG..Never thought of this and now I'm free yet oddly afraid
@@NebraskaFalls-ee7qp a powerful thought right?!
@@simonalexandero Yes! I'm so glad I found your channel . Its LIFE SAVING
The second life begins when they stop caring about fake life
I thinks it’s a balance. As a family man and a father, your always thinking about leaving a legacy for you family, but I think the key is to not let tomorrows plans blind you from the gift that today brings!!!
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I'm 19 and I haven't accomplished anything yet throughout my years and Im scared the fact that I'm not gonna live the ideal life I really want to be and for myself.
I'm scared the fact that my traumatic past haunted me that I'm not living in the present and times have completely change throughout the years.
It's hard to bear whether where my path should go or the responsibility that I took for myself to be something greater. I haven't done that.
It doesnt matter if I'm successful or not, or having the materialistic life I've dream off since I was a kid.
Although I'm still young but I'm no longer a kid anymore and I've endure so much pain and trauma from my dysfunctional abusive family, especially my dad had done to me worse.
Maybe it's time for me a change.
So sorry to hear about your traumatic past and thank you for your courage in sharing here. If there’s anything I’ve learnt when reflecting back on life is that it is in our darkest, most challenging moments in life that equip us with the wisdom and insight to create the most beautiful moments in life ❤️
I’m only 17, but I feel like this still resonates. I’ve spent nearly the entirety of my teenage on my phone, rarely ever going out and surrounding myself with friends and family. When I think back to my happiest moments, it’s always been them. I struggle so much to live in the present moment because I’m constantly weighed down by my fears for the future. I’m inadvertently perpetuating a self-fulfilling by letting myself believe that who I am now is all I’ll ever be for the rest of my life, even when I know that isn’t true. I’ve missed so many opportunities in the past because of my mindset and inaction, but I realize that I’m still young and nothing in my life can change if I don’t try for myself.
Beautifully said and love your level of awareness. You can't change what has happened yesterday but you can change where you will end up tomorrow. Work from your future self and make choices today that will close the gap between where you are and where you'd like to be ❤
I’m 55 and I can still remember in detail 40 years ago during my high school years in the 80’s as if they were just yesterday and 40 years into the future if I’m still around I’ll be 95! Hopefully by then age will be reversible lol
Here’s to that!
This was the video that got me hooked. The other two I watched got me unhooked just as quickly.
Thank you and understand that not every video will resonate or connect in the same way ❤️
Thank you for this video. I’m 36 and I’m going through a difficult moment and I’m experiencing anxiety and a little bit of depression, and I’m doing everything that is in my power to change my life because this period had cost me a lot of beautiful moments with my family, my daughter and my friends. I know that everything will change for the best and I can’t wait to enjoy my new life filled with love and freedom. Send you a lot of love and positive thoughts (I apologize if my english is not perfect ☺️). A big hug from Italy ❤️
Here’s to that! And amazing to connect with a fellow Virgo 🙌
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Amazing video and right at the time i needed it. In the middle of the video i realised that im the most important person in my life, and if i want an amazing life, i have to take action to achieve it. Thanks and keep up the good work.
Thank you and here's to taking action to achieve it!
I've gone past caring what people think. I've spent all my life overcoming inner struggle and healing myself from all the things that happened to me in my younger years. To the outside I am a loser and an under-achiever and probably look selfish, but I know the truth of my struggles, how far I have come and that I am a good, decent person inside. That's what matters to me. Where I am in life would not impress other people but, knowing what I've been through, to me, it's quite an achievement.
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Wow I could have written this...
Me too
Thank you for this inspiring video, Simon. I am going to work on overcoming fear. Believe in my abilities more.
Love it Jennifer 🙌
I agree with what you are saying, Arnold Swartznegger said never be afraid of failure. and like you said that fear can be so limiting. It’s true
Arnold speaks a lot of truth and enjoyed reading his book recently 👏
Very powerful. Glad I found you. I've been going through the darkest point in my life but love the calm, but energetic vibe I got. Especially seeing that time frame laid out. Tired of letting fear steal my time because it's robbed me off 2 precious years already.
Thank you Adam 🙏
worrying what people say about you when you die is narcissitic AF, just live life to the fullest and forget legacy
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Wow this video almost made me cry man. This is such an eye wakening moment. Thank you for this. God bless you
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How many summer solstices do we have left? At 60 I may not even see this one in a few weeks, much less 20 more! So I really appreciate the yearly landmark dates/events. How many more more full moons with a clear sky? Life is cool, enjoy the free wonder of nature.
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You have a new Subscriber! This is just the sound, wisdom I need to hear at this point in my life. ❤
Thank you so much Kim. Means a lot 🙏
quit my hectic job at 35 ,now am 40 ,wasted 5 years already just by thinking whats next step so confusing
I’ve found from my experience that clarity comes from taking action ❤️
Wow surely 5 years can't all be wasted? What are some ups and downs during this five years? :)
@@SyriusOLshdepression will for do it. It will make you forget what day it is and before you know it a whole year would have passed by. For most people depression is the culprit. But also keep in mind that “wasted time” looks very different for each person. Some may feel that if they worked too much and didn’t get to spend time with family that they wasted time, were as others may feel the same about not traveling much, or experiencing different things. For me my family has sucked so much of my time away that my career goals had been put to the side, and I mentally suffered greatly for that. It prevented me from being able to meet dynamic business and financial goals that would have changed not just my life, but my family’s life as a whole. My grandmother, uncle, and 6yo old niece would still be here if I could have been financially stable to help them.
Im now in my early 30s and 10yrs married and we still don’t have kids (😢) and I’m trying to recover everyday from the emotional and psychological trauma I have endured over these last 8yrs. The pandemic didn’t help at all (it just sucked away 3yrs like it was nothing) It’s hard but very doable, but it takes time.
Im personally in a much better head space now, because I decided in 2021 that I’m no longer going to care about anyone else anymore until I can take care of myself and what I want in life.
I've been contemplating quitting my job for the last 5 years but didn't have the balls. I am now 39 and the last 5 years feels like wasted. I've made some money and travelled but everything has been rushed. Also, I was determined to get physically healthier and I have, but even that has been rushed and lead to mostly injuries. I started a new job, but I see the cycle just repeating again. Not sure anymore what is the best thing to do. It is very confusing...
@simonalexandero it didn't for him
You are right. Somebody told me that when I was young. Now I know what they mean. Time goes by fast. It feels like the past is yesterday. You feel like you wish you have more time.
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This video has had a great impact on me. Thank you ! & God Bless 🩵
So glad to hear that it resonated 🙏
be true to yourself🎉
quality of your existence 🎉
the value you brought into the lives others 🎉
not how long you have lived,how much,big you have🎉
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Is not about long you lived but how well you lived
Absolutely 👏
Longevity gives you a lot more time to live well.
People want your time and presence exactly my friend!👌🏼
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The diagram/picture you had of those circles. Really brings it home for me. Thank you.
It’s powerful isn’t it?!