How Porn Can Negatively Impact Your Emotional IQ || Consider Before Consuming Podcast
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Counselor, Coach, & Sex Addiction Specialist, Eddie Capparucci, Ph.D., joins us again on Consider Before Consuming to discuss the ways in which pornography affects the consumer and their relationships. In this episode, Eddie Capparucci, Ph.D., explains how porn can negatively impact the consumer's emotional intelligence, how porn consumption can be symptomatic of a larger problem, and how porn impacts relationships and can even lead to betrayal trauma for the consumer's partner.
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These videos stopped my addiction. They showed me just how brutal this industry is. I cant thank you enough for your videos. they really mean a lot to me.
Exactly
For the longest I kept telling myself I don't have a problem it's normal but within the last two years I finally had to admit to myself I had a huge problem to porn, i was taking what i was watching to reality.. I'm beyond glad that I'm not in that space anymore.
This men as spoken the most enlightened knowledge I have ever heard. I suffer from social anxiety and I will definitely buy his book!
It is creating a generation of narcissistic personality disorders, sociopaths and sadists.
Totally agree with you there, we have a massive problem and people don't even realise it yet. These types of organisations are so important
Not to mention all the accidental deaths and strokes from strangulation.
absolutely, it is horrible
@@electricfishfan sickening
Totally void of emotional intimacy, physical intimacy is so sparce and weird. No connection. Inward focused. Basically after 4 years I don't feel I know him. I'm emotionally destroyed at this point. Nothing in real life is stimulating, beautiful or even really positive at all.
I'm still struggling with porn at the moment but I'm getting closer to recovery, it's important these conversations occur more often, great work.
you can do this. you have so much love and support around you even if you don't see God at work. you are a beautiful soul and asking for help is the first step, and usually the hardest part. you can do this. there are resources all around, you can do this
Helpful and right content..more power to this community..great initiative!
Where have you been living advertisers have commodified women's bodies long before pornographers
But porn has been here since ancient times. LAlso, adverts can be a type of porn too.
He outright refuses self reflection. Only inner focus
amazing information. I'm going to share this with the guy's in my men's group and sponsees
Great initiative, keep your good work! You help many people :)
Does it make you dumber 😩
i think so
Why you never talk about how to quit?
For me the realisation that there are absolutely no guarantees with pornographic content was what threw the spanner in the works and helped me to bring it to a short, sharp halt. The GDP story really destroyed the false security I had that sites hosting content give a shit about or control in any way what they're hosting, or that everyone who is in a video has agreed for it to be posted there, or even to participate in the first place. Naive? Sure. Stupid? Probably. But who wants to confront the possibility that they're helping or supplying demand for others to do wrong?
I don't know about you, but I just can't enjoy it anymore knowing how many people are affected by it, how hurt people have to be to "want" to do it, and how hurt many have been by doing it against their will. I'm also starting to realise how damaging the habit has been for my own sensibilities and self-esteem. Looking back it seems obvious, but we don't blame the things we've come to rely on, or retreat to - much like any other form of addiction, when you think about it.
If you want to quit, this channel is a good start to dismantling it. But imo the biggest thing is accepting that you have to poison the well in order to stop drinking from it. I can't enjoy porn now that I *know* bad things lie under the surface. Anything less than knowing is ambiguity, and the whole industry is propped up by that shield. Undermining the false securities that make porn ok is probably the biggest factor in confronting the habit, I would say. If you asked people whether they'd be ok with someone being sexually assaulted or trafficked, almost all would say absolutely not - but after the GDP story, I think anyone who has enjoyed porn should start to ask themselves what guarantees they have that their habit has not supported that kind of activity.
I feel pretty stupid for not having this revelation sooner. It isn't like that story never made the news. But if everything has to start somewhere then everything has to end somewhere too.
It isn't impossible, and it isn't too late.
@@cakecakeham5823 you’re wise. Thank you for choosing to stop
Terry Crews talks about this in his interview on this channel..
@@cakecakeham5823 My favorite part of what you said is *how hurt people have to be to “want” to do this*. I participate in a lot of anti-porn discussion groups and advocate when possible. The shear lack of empathy and self-absorption I’ve seeing from young men about feeling like a victim of porn but hypocritically not thinking about the victimization of the people being treated like disposal and interchangeable sex toys. Selecting people from digital brothel menus by body parts and sex acts with the privacy and safety of the other side of a screen can’t be anymore objectifying.
Healthy people don’t “choose” to be disposal sex toys. I think it’s always a maladaptive coping mechanisms for various traumas and heightened by social grooming for our value to society.
this whole channel is kind of a variety of topics surrounding porn. Best mode of action for porn addiction/sex addiction recovery: Join a 12 Step Program/ Spiritually focused Support Group and start seeing a CSAT (certified sex addiction therapist)