I hope you enjoy this student infield from inside Verbal Game Academey: verbalgameacademy.com . I'm guessing you make some similar mistakes yourself! As far as VGA goes, it's still on sale for a limited time and the live class sessions are currently running. Don't miss out, as both are for a very limited time!
Much respect brother. Takes balls to do what you did and for us to learn from it.. Its easy to criticize but when you are actually in the situation. Totally different story... And most guys will never do what you did there...We definitely took away some valuable tips from your approaches bro..
Omg I did the majority of my approaches wrong. I approached approximately >1000 women and most of the times (not always) I did wrong, exactly what the student did: justifying myself at the open. Gonna immediately cut that out and just continue without that. This video is gold! Thanks!
In the beginning I was skeptical, but watching Todd's video I improved a lot my game, and I definitively became a better person, so I want to give back something to Todd, probably he already knows it, but I can also contribute to improve the entire community writing this. I found that approaching with a very strong eye contact, directly looking in the eyeball in a very prolonged way, even more than 10 seconds is not creepy, girls perceive you as loyal, real and trustworthy and this sets the entire interaction in your favor since the very beginning, you can say everything they trust you because directly looking in the eyeball you're conveying your true personality, you tell them an indirect message that goes like this "This is my true self, I am not hiding anything". In the first seconds of the interaction, anyway, this kind of approach can scare a little bit younger girls, but with older women works like a nuclear bomb, however also younger girls in the end trust you
In the beginning i was skeptical, but watching todd's video i improved a lot of my game, and i definitely became a better person, so i wany to give back something to todd, probably he already knows it, but i can also contribute
Kudos to you Todd. I had to fast-forward through the student talking parts. I couldn't take it. But, I could see with your tutelage, he was going to be great. Holy cow, getting a date with a med student. I should be so lucky.
Tod, you are awesome. I absolutely love how detailed you are in the information and the situations that you give. The little details and explanations that you give are incredibly importand. I love your work, because it helps me understand the man to woman interraction on a deeper level.I'm the type of person who has to understand before act. It really gets to the core of what is importand when interacting with women and how to keep it natural and most of all - How not to dissapoint women. Your work is ever lasting.
God, even I felt nervous for him. I think most of us would act the way he did, major respect to him. Watching Todd, I'm kinda starting to see this all as an actual game, game. Like, if some dude swept another girl from me I need to respect it and have good sportsmanship. If he had better game, he had better game. There are always more women out there
you guys do realize the more you watch this stuff the more unauthentic you`re going to be. Stop thinking and preparing like it`s some kinda test, just do it!
"I have a boyfriend", what about "Hey calm, are you already hitting on me? You're just like all the other girls" (or something like this) a kind of misinterpret, since "I have a boyfriend" could be real, but it is supposed to be a shit test
Don't think that he needed to spend any longer with her on the bench. You don't want to over commit or make a large investment in a woman that you don't even know will actually go out on the date with you. For example, he could of stayed there for 15 more minutes and opened a lot of doors, but next week when he contacts her she flakes-out and is not interested. That extra time there getting to know her was basically for nothing - and if the date does happen, those kinds of interactions that would have occurred on the bench are perfect for the first date.
I don't get it. It just go and tell her she looks adorable/hot today and then how you day. Why they do all this shit ?? There no point of doing that if you get the same response
Interesting that in the front of the conversation she was specific in the statement that she had a boyfriend, yet here she was putting her number in his phone. Think about that for a minute.
perhaps a way to absolve herself of responsibility, "well I made it clear that I have a boyfriend yet he persisted, the fault's on him~" so she freely acts on her attraction with a clear "conscience" 🤗
Is it really so hard to understand? Most guys put them on a pedestal so why would they care if yet another do so? People want something exiting and getting sucked up to isn't exciting.
Totally confused here: Todd's saying not to express why you're approaching. I've heard the complete opposite and understand : Random guy coming up not setting up intent. The intent expresses man-woman relationship and builds trust (ex. you're not a some salesman). Is Todd against that or is he saying something else that I'm misunderstanding?
It all depends on the principles and how it is executed . Todd is against it, cause he has a different style. Intent is different than explaining why you approached. Intent can also be expressed nonverbally.
@@hammads9045 In this clip Todd is breaking down the student's infield and talking about that specific situation. He is not talking about never saying why you are talking to the girl. The reason why he is advising the student to not say it because of the way the student is saying it. The vibe the student is giving off is qualifying which is low value. Todd breaks it down.
Maybe someone can help me out with this question. When he says don’t open with a qualifying statement (I saw you and wanted to come say hi), what are other alternatives?
In regards to the opener, how non explanatory should it be as I usually say its crazy but I saw you there, thought you looked nice, (insert observational line about her) thought I'd say hi
I live in Tampa and I cant even find a place to go out to meet women?? the night time bar sense has 80% men and everybody is in a group of 10. Outside of the bar on girl is EVER not even for a moment alone to approach. Then during the day its the same thing or no women at all. Where are these cities?.
80% men? Maybe you live in area of Tampa that is very industrial (trucking, factories, docks), in which case bars will be majority men. Might want to change your logistics. Should plenty of DTF women in Tampa both alone and in girl groups. Look for bars near coffee shops, retail, malls.) Best, David
Dude, I’ve been to Tampa. The mall is awesome. Go there. I live in Buffalo NY and now that it’s cold, it limits the places to do game. I wish I lived some where warm like you
Seriously! - can we get a HUGE shout out to my guy for putting his BALLS out there??! Huge move, brotha. You got this shit. And remember: all these "-b*****s ain't s#*t but h03s and tricks!" Act ACCORDINGLY. (Or don't. Whatever;)
Yo Todd I’ve got tons of respect for you and all your work. But for me this dudes biggest problem was his lack of animation in showing his skills. I’m sure he’s a good guy. But do what you can to boost these guys self esteem. Shiiiit I know you’re the verbal guy. But Don’t neglect these new guys inner game issues. I know I’m kinda stating the obvious. But I’m on a rant and I don’t give a fuck
im part of the 3% that doesnt make this mistake. Because I dont go up to strangers and try to talk to them. i'm too old for that and it doesnt work for men like me.
@@harishot4953 yes I do. This is just a bunch of ideas for above avg looking guys to try out. Go tell Urkel to do this. Urkel will end up with 0 yes's, 100 no's and EVEN LOWER self esteem.
@@SillyGoose2024 So you are saying you have not tried something yet you know it does not work. I don't wanna diss Todd but he is not above average looking. First off , he is 170 cm/5'7. Anyways, I would highly suggest trying something before talking about it.
hope reallyyyyyyyyy that you put an arabic translation on your speechs because your subjects are sooo interesting to them and they are not a little audience 400 millions and more And I can assure you that they are very pleased with your content
If the girl truly has a boyfriend, I would not touch her. It's immoral and against my code of value to take advantage of another's guys girl. What if it was you, who's girlfriend is chatting to a chad who's sole intention is to score? So if that's the case Todd, that you are teaching men that this is OK. I don't buy into that. Would be nice if this was addressed on the video. I have been watching you for a while, but I'm not sure what is your stance on the subject of taking advantage of another guy's girlfriend.
Girls who don't cheat won't cheat so it won't go anywhere and is just practice. Girls who cheat will cheat anyway so it may as well be with you. Don't trust a cheater though.
First of all, respect her, many girls say they have a boyfriend when they don't have just to stop the approaches. They know these guys don't respect them but likely will respect another man, even if he's a male friend. I've been in that situations and when the boyfriend appeared they ran for the hills without him having to say anything. Other times I said I was waiting for a friend when they realized the friend was a man they also ran for the hills. And few times they almost got punched. If she has a boyfriend and she's not happy with him she likely won't bring him up when approached by other men.
Cool questions to ask a girl: What do you do - on purpose - to stay curious? How do you keep your curiosity sharp? # How do you learn? I like to ask this in general as well as within a specific context. # How do you respond to hard, but constructive, feedback? # What do you - honestly - feel about the success of others in your close circles? # Think three years out and then back. What are the key elements that need to happen or change for you to get there in a good way? # What have you done in the last year to upgrade your mindset, tool box and network? Give specific examples, please. # Look at the people you spend the most time with. Are your interactions with them geared for the past and present or for the future? # What do you keep doing today even though you know it will not work well in the future? # In the context of your work, career, what are you most proud of? # What makes you a good leader? A good team member? # What are your most curious about these days? # What does success look like for you? # In a work and career context, what are you better at than almost anyone else? # Everyone has a “what’s in for me-question” at work. It’s about you and what you would like to achieve in a work and career context. So, what’s your question? What matters the most to you? # Do you know enough about your team members “what’s in it for me-question” to be able to help them in this context? # What are the hard topics and issues that hold you and your team back because you don’t discuss them # The world is changing so fast today and in so many ways. What is your best (personal) example for turning the impact of all of this into your favor? # How good are you at shaping the future? How do you stay sharp on this # What are your most curious about these days? I hope you can find some inspiration in this. It would be great if you would share your best questions in this context. Thanks.
That’s literally the first video I watched that opened my eyes to “game” and made me realize that I can cold approach any woman I see and that it’s completely okay and socially acceptable.
I hope you enjoy this student infield from inside Verbal Game Academey: verbalgameacademy.com . I'm guessing you make some similar mistakes yourself! As far as VGA goes, it's still on sale for a limited time and the live class sessions are currently running. Don't miss out, as both are for a very limited time!
Todd dude I know you for like 6 or 7 years now
pls stop getting better I'm getting uncomfy lol
Should do a QandA Man think can help drum up video ideas and help many men with questions they have
Bring back early bird discount, I will buy it right now
Much respect brother. Takes balls to do what you did and for us to learn from it.. Its easy to criticize but when you are actually in the situation. Totally different story... And most guys will never do what you did there...We definitely took away some valuable tips from your approaches bro..
Honestly what I was thinking. I would never criticize someone for this especially if I’ve never done it before
These type of videos is like 10000% more helpful than anything else
A good reminder for me be more playful and polarizing in my conversations. Thank you Todd and student :)
Todd is very smart. His okay tonality and the fact that he approaches the answers to the coachee with a posittive start proves it. Great coach.
He’s got stones! Much respect for him
Omg I did the majority of my approaches wrong. I approached approximately >1000 women and most of the times (not always) I did wrong, exactly what the student did: justifying myself at the open.
Gonna immediately cut that out and just continue without that.
This video is gold!
Thanks!
You approached 1000+ women unconfidently? How were your results?
In the beginning I was skeptical, but watching Todd's video I improved a lot my game, and I definitively became a better person, so I want to give back something to Todd, probably he already knows it, but I can also contribute to improve the entire community writing this.
I found that approaching with a very strong eye contact, directly looking in the eyeball in a very prolonged way, even more than 10 seconds is not creepy, girls perceive you as loyal, real and trustworthy and this sets the entire interaction in your favor since the very beginning, you can say everything they trust you because directly looking in the eyeball you're conveying your true personality, you tell them an indirect message that goes like this "This is my true self, I am not hiding anything". In the first seconds of the interaction, anyway, this kind of approach can scare a little bit younger girls, but with older women works like a nuclear bomb, however also younger girls in the end trust you
In the beginning i was skeptical, but watching todd's video i improved a lot of my game, and i definitely became a better person, so i wany to give back something to todd, probably he already knows it, but i can also contribute
He sure tried and so knows that, but keep on wanting to help
Thanks for your input
What if they have a second eyeball?
@@iamjohnrobot pour lemon on that one I think to neutralize things. Balance is key
Probably the most helpful vid for game I’ve seen in a long time
Lol love the editing, especially the GTA sound track at man to women part @11:56 :D
Kudos to you Todd. I had to fast-forward through the student talking parts. I couldn't take it. But, I could see with your tutelage, he was going to be great. Holy cow, getting a date with a med student. I should be so lucky.
Awesome stuff, I always learn more from beginners getting constructive criticism than from elites. Much respect to the guy and of course Todd.
Yo this was awesome Todd. And a big thanks to the guy who allowed himself to be recorded and show us his infield
Tod, you are awesome. I absolutely love how detailed you are in the information and the situations that you give. The little details and explanations that you give are incredibly importand. I love your work, because it helps me understand the man to woman interraction on a deeper level.I'm the type of person who has to understand before act. It really gets to the core of what is importand when interacting with women and how to keep it natural and most of all - How not to dissapoint women. Your work is ever lasting.
"please dont punch me" approaches, but still approaches, thats great!
God, even I felt nervous for him. I think most of us would act the way he did, major respect to him. Watching Todd, I'm kinda starting to see this all as an actual game, game. Like, if some dude swept another girl from me I need to respect it and have good sportsmanship. If he had better game, he had better game. There are always more women out there
6:07 The guys facial expression on the right says it all😂😂😂
I knew this comment would be here
I didn't even notice that 🤣🤣🤣but once I paused... I laughed
I didn't even notice that 🤣🤣🤣but once I paused... I laughed
Ugh, explaining myself on the open, I need to stop doing that
Make sure your resume is perfect. It's a life or death situation.
Cheers to guys who let this be published. GJ boys!
Even though I've known about you for a while in glad I'm watching these videos again. Appreciate your work.
Todd is the GOAT
Thanks he’s my father so that makes me the baby GOAT
He is the Gary Vee of Dating 🤣🤣🤣
Mad respect for that guy
Dudes these videos are massive. I'm learning things about my own game here.
thanks Todd as well as the dude for sharing. It takes guts
you guys do realize the more you watch this stuff the more unauthentic you`re going to be. Stop thinking and preparing like it`s some kinda test, just do it!
Facts
I appreciate this guy and much respect to him.
Todd with the GTA reference. Very nice.
mission passed indeed
Thanks Todd. You are the thinking's man public intellectual guide to the man woman dynamic.. salutations from SANTA MONICA
Thanks man, amazing content. Can definitely see myself in some aspects of the video haha.
"I have a boyfriend", what about "Hey calm, are you already hitting on me? You're just like all the other girls" (or something like this) a kind of misinterpret, since "I have a boyfriend" could be real, but it is supposed to be a shit test
Infield , whether audio or video, is really important for improving in game.
Don't think that he needed to spend any longer with her on the bench. You don't want to over commit or make a large investment in a woman that you don't even know will actually go out on the date with you. For example, he could of stayed there for 15 more minutes and opened a lot of doors, but next week when he contacts her she flakes-out and is not interested. That extra time there getting to know her was basically for nothing - and if the date does happen, those kinds of interactions that would have occurred on the bench are perfect for the first date.
Looking at your videos I start understanding why I get so many girls even though i am short and not so athletic 😂😂😂
Amazing video! Thank you so much for this!
We were once all like this, some are still like this... He will get better
Enjoyed that. Thanks, Todd 👏
nice video Br. sup From Brazil
Think my dude needs to do some more public speaking and build his presence of voice.
I've got the same problem at the moment but a little bit of gym can fix that for me :)
I don't get it. It just go and tell her she looks adorable/hot today and then how you day.
Why they do all this shit ?? There no point of doing that if you get the same response
He needs to work on tonality. He talks slow but it like an unintentional clumsy pace rather than confident.
More of these infield breakdown videos!
Love the content..
Todd can you please make an infield where you game only in iambic pentameter
good commentary Todd
Todd “Then good things can happen” V
Interesting that in the front of the conversation she was specific in the statement that she had a boyfriend, yet here she was putting her number in his phone. Think about that for a minute.
perhaps a way to absolve herself of responsibility, "well I made it clear that I have a boyfriend yet he persisted, the fault's on him~" so she freely acts on her attraction with a clear "conscience" 🤗
She would most likely flake
those are the best kind of learning tool
I just love how hot women get turned off by men who place them on a pedestal but then carry themselves as if they were on a pedestal. Go figure.
Never be a door mat
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You must burst to the fckin' sht that goddamn pedestal they're on
Is it really so hard to understand? Most guys put them on a pedestal so why would they care if yet another do so? People want something exiting and getting sucked up to isn't exciting.
@@Asbjoern I’m merely pointing out the irony. Attractive women don’t want to be treated the way they act.
I think he needs to come off more genuine with slightly more energy and it would be perfect.
more student infields, i think you learn the most from them
I cannot watch this... I'm much worst
great video
Nice Jacket Todd
Nice video 😊
Totally confused here: Todd's saying not to express why you're approaching. I've heard the complete opposite and understand : Random guy coming up not setting up intent. The intent expresses man-woman relationship and builds trust (ex. you're not a some salesman). Is Todd against that or is he saying something else that I'm misunderstanding?
It all depends on the principles and how it is executed . Todd is against it, cause he has a different style. Intent is different than explaining why you approached. Intent can also be expressed nonverbally.
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@@harishot4953 Do you know why he's against intent? If you are too, why do you think it's beneficial?
@@hammads9045 In this clip Todd is breaking down the student's infield and talking about that specific situation. He is not talking about never saying why you are talking to the girl. The reason why he is advising the student to not say it because of the way the student is saying it. The vibe the student is giving off is qualifying which is low value. Todd breaks it down.
Maybe someone can help me out with this question. When he says don’t open with a qualifying statement (I saw you and wanted to come say hi), what are other alternatives?
What about the final hug? Was it appropriate/good?
In regards to the opener, how non explanatory should it be as I usually say its crazy but I saw you there, thought you looked nice, (insert observational line about her) thought I'd say hi
I live in Tampa and I cant even find a place to go out to meet women?? the night time bar sense has 80% men and everybody is in a group of 10. Outside of the bar on girl is EVER not even for a moment alone to approach. Then during the day its the same thing or no women at all. Where are these cities?.
Approach groupes. What’s a problem?
80% men? Maybe you live in area of Tampa that is very industrial (trucking, factories, docks), in which case bars will be majority men. Might want to change your logistics. Should plenty of DTF women in Tampa both alone and in girl groups. Look for bars near coffee shops, retail, malls.) Best, David
Dude, I’ve been to Tampa. The mall is awesome. Go there. I live in Buffalo NY and now that it’s cold, it limits the places to do game. I wish I lived some where warm like you
@@21stcenturyexaminedlife45 Are you in tampa?
@@HarryJohnson69 At 29 the mall women are a little young. But god knows if the world was coming to an end what I would do.
"hi my name is I have a boyfriend.." get that alot...
reply : "challenge accepted" ;)
onto the next girl!
"Your parents didn't want you did they?
What a horrible name, any case I have a boyfriend what are you up to?"
Just cuz there's a goal keeper doesn't mean I can't score.
reply: "thats ok so do i"
then you pretend to be a confused gay guy who finds her irresistibly attractive, she'll LOVE it
Seriously! - can we get a HUGE shout out to my guy for putting his BALLS out there??!
Huge move, brotha.
You got this shit.
And remember: all these "-b*****s ain't s#*t but h03s and tricks!"
Act ACCORDINGLY. (Or don't. Whatever;)
Hi Todd. Don't you think that if girls will know, how the game works, than the game may loose it efficiency? 🤷
Not really. Game is hardwired biologically in us, so girls will always, for example , respond well to leading.
It works because women think it doesn't work lol. It's a weird paradigm.
infield is cool
what city is that?
Manhattan. Bryant Park.
How much do I appreciate your content?
Yo Todd, we want to see your tinder/dating app profile, would like to know what kind of pics ya post
A setup
Those guys have negative game
She flaked .
Yo Todd I’ve got tons of respect for you and all your work. But for me this dudes biggest problem was his lack of animation in showing his skills. I’m sure he’s a good guy. But do what you can to boost these guys self esteem. Shiiiit I know you’re the verbal guy. But Don’t neglect these new guys inner game issues. I know I’m kinda stating the obvious. But I’m on a rant and I don’t give a fuck
Is just me or this hard to watch? The video is good dont get me wrong but it's hard to watch his infield
Love that your doing more infield videos think you should do 1 every month or so
Like this comment if you agree
im part of the 3% that doesnt make this mistake. Because I dont go up to strangers and try to talk to them. i'm too old for that and it doesnt work for men like me.
More like 99% of men dont do cold approach lmao
You do not know if it works for you if you do not even approach.
@@harishot4953 yes I do. This is just a bunch of ideas for above avg looking guys to try out. Go tell Urkel to do this. Urkel will end up with 0 yes's, 100 no's and EVEN LOWER self esteem.
@@SillyGoose2024 So you are saying you have not tried something yet you know it does not work. I don't wanna diss Todd but he is not above average looking. First off , he is 170 cm/5'7. Anyways, I would highly suggest trying something before talking about it.
@@SillyGoose2024 you can make yourself look better by hitting the gym and having a sense of fashion 🤷🏽♂️
Why they are talking Miley Cyrus narrating her break up stories?
``i have bf`` move to next set. just dont waste your time.
The story thing and micromanaging way too often comes across as femenine asf.
Just be right
The best man is cold, cool, hard to get, grounded, etc.
His game is actually great because he doesn't carry himself like a pua.
Apart from put your name in as Katy bench lol
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hope reallyyyyyyyyy that you put an arabic translation on your speechs because your subjects are sooo interesting to them and they are not a little audience 400 millions and more And I can assure you that they are very pleased with your content
If the girl truly has a boyfriend, I would not touch her. It's immoral and against my code of value to take advantage of another's guys girl. What if it was you, who's girlfriend is chatting to a chad who's sole intention is to score?
So if that's the case Todd, that you are teaching men that this is OK. I don't buy into that. Would be nice if this was addressed on the video. I have been watching you for a while, but I'm not sure what is your stance on the subject of taking advantage of another guy's girlfriend.
Girls who don't cheat won't cheat so it won't go anywhere and is just practice.
Girls who cheat will cheat anyway so it may as well be with you.
Don't trust a cheater though.
if you are of higher value than the girl are less likely to cheat on you
It tests a girls loyalness. The boyfriend would be happy to know she declined
First of all, respect her, many girls say they have a boyfriend when they don't have just to stop the approaches. They know these guys don't respect them but likely will respect another man, even if he's a male friend.
I've been in that situations and when the boyfriend appeared they ran for the hills without him having to say anything. Other times I said I was waiting for a friend when they realized the friend was a man they also ran for the hills.
And few times they almost got punched.
If she has a boyfriend and she's not happy with him she likely won't bring him up when approached by other men.
This is fakeeeee
Let the Blackpill guide you.
Cool questions to ask a girl:
What do you do - on purpose - to stay curious? How do you keep your curiosity sharp?
# How do you learn? I like to ask this in general as well as within a specific context.
# How do you respond to hard, but constructive, feedback?
# What do you - honestly - feel about the success of others in your close circles?
# Think three years out and then back. What are the key elements that need to happen or change for you to get there in a good way?
# What have you done in the last year to upgrade your mindset, tool box and network? Give specific examples, please.
# Look at the people you spend the most time with. Are your interactions with them geared for the past and present or for the future?
# What do you keep doing today even though you know it will not work well in the future?
# In the context of your work, career, what are you most proud of?
# What makes you a good leader? A good team member?
# What are your most curious about these days?
# What does success look like for you?
# In a work and career context, what are you better at than almost anyone else?
# Everyone has a “what’s in for me-question” at work. It’s about you and what you would like to achieve in a work and career context. So, what’s your question? What matters the most to you?
# Do you know enough about your team members “what’s in it for me-question” to be able to help them in this context?
# What are the hard topics and issues that hold you and your team back because you don’t discuss them
# The world is changing so fast today and in so many ways. What is your best (personal) example for turning the impact of all of this into your favor?
# How good are you at shaping the future? How do you stay sharp on this
# What are your most curious about these days?
I hope you can find some inspiration in this. It would be great if you would share your best questions in this context. Thanks.
You’ve got to be kidding me
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Lol this is a joke 😂😂 troll
Fucking horrible dude
If you're trying to hire her, maybe
an you review "Hey I Like you" (P2) video by THATWASEPIC, maybe just for fun
That’s literally the first video I watched that opened my eyes to “game” and made me realize that I can cold approach any woman I see and that it’s completely okay and socially acceptable.