FEMININITY MALFUNCTION - Things That Compromise Femininity

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  • @LauraINFJ
    @LauraINFJ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +324

    1. You don't know who is the prize
    2. Compromising standards
    3. Never ask a men for help
    4. When you lead with your accomplishments
    5. Pursuing a man
    6. Unprocessed hurt, pain and trauma
    7. Be surrounded by an inferior circle of broken women

    • @juvi4371
      @juvi4371 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Prize*

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr.  2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Thank you 🙏🏽 😊♥️

    • @paradiselivinginpurpose
      @paradiselivinginpurpose 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Thanks for this doll!! God bless you indeed 😁

    • @tammielemons6687
      @tammielemons6687 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks you for the information RC Blake's God bless.

    • @deedeberry9053
      @deedeberry9053 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I’m crying 😂 Walk Lisa Walk. 🏆🏆🏆

  • @LG-wm1nw
    @LG-wm1nw ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I am from a small island in the Caribbean and still live there. To hear these things from a man is overwhelming because I had no male role models in my life. Having been born in abject poverty to a mother who was a prostitute with mental health issues and having no father left me as messed up as they come. I felt so worthless at one point in my life that even attention from a drunk on the street left me salivating and high for days.
    BUT there is a time for everything under the sun and my season of healing and restoration has come. I started listening to Pastor Blakes over a year now but more consistently recently and my life will never be the same again. THANK YOU! What a tremendous blessing to have a respectable male to speak into my life. My prayer is that I will meet you and your lovely wife one day at one of your conferences in the U.S.A. God bless your ministry, man of God. Never stop doing what you are doing for women all over the world. The revolution has begun.
    I am the PRIZE, indeed!

    • @nzingahoney
      @nzingahoney 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm from Trinidad and Tobago 🇹🇹 you go girl.

  • @itsHappening-ry2ef
    @itsHappening-ry2ef 2 ปีที่แล้ว +160

    He is truly the only BM beside Tony gaskin that BM and women should be listing to they speak from a healthy place and have wives for 10 plus years ‼️the rest can’t or should be giving advice

  • @maggieedwards3951
    @maggieedwards3951 2 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Asking for help is not weakness , when a woman is at peace, and trusts a man surrendering that part of her femininity will be easy .
    Teach it RC Blakes

  • @RCBlakesJr.
    @RCBlakesJr.  2 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    WELCOME FAMILY. Please LIKE 👍 Copy the link and share it on Twitter and Facebook. Thank you

    • @tinaforney4430
      @tinaforney4430 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen!!

    • @janellamurphy5665
      @janellamurphy5665 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love your teachings Bishop Blakes💙💯💯

    • @jaiyabyrd4177
      @jaiyabyrd4177 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This topic was really good.
      🛑However I disagree with #3: When a (biological, heterosexual only) woman is conditioned to never ask a man for help.
      A women's feminity blossoms in many different conditions without being with a man
      1. Rahab, the mother of Boaz, and a prostitute was in her feminity helping to hide men of God.
      2. A women survivor of domestic and/or sexual violence, that makes a conscious decision to keep to herself.
      3. A widow, although her heart may be broken her deceased husband left her to Not have to ask men for anything.
      4. A women student of the word of Jesus Christ.
      Femininity in the biological heterosexual women is not malfunctioned when the woman hurt or healed is staying away from Men in order to do the will of God.

    • @elijahmalachi45-63
      @elijahmalachi45-63 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Bible says God prefers for people to be in LGBT relationships.
      Anyone that teaches the LIE of monetary tithing, sells anything using the gospel, or teaches that same-sex marriage is a sin CHOOSES to die with the wicked.
      Luke 10:7 states the only wages for ministering are eating and drinking whatever you are given.
      Also, know that rich people will all die. You can't be a Christian, sit on all kinds of money, watch your fellow brothers and sisters starve, suffer, or be homeless, choose to do nothing about it, and think that it's ok. Those are all wolves.
      Mathew 19:12 Eunuchs that are born that way are transgender. Eunuchs made that way by others were abused in some way and something inside of them blocks off a certain type of body but it doesn't happen to everyone that is abused. Those that choose to live like Eunuchs FOR THE SAKE OF THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN are bisexual people that choose partners of the same sex-characteristics but opposite in regards to gender. Notice, it states God PREFERS for people to be in LGBT relationships. Leviticus, Corinthians, and Timothy were translated wrong by Billy Graham. Those verses are actually referring to pedophilia. Romans 1:27 All of the men were male in regards to gender, all of the women were female in gender. It is not referring to Eunuchs (where one partner is transgender). Also, it had nothing to do with marriage of any kind. They were trying to procreate during orgies so God did it on purpose. Anyone that continues to teach same sex marriage is a sin when the Bible says God prefers for people to be in LGBT relationships will also die by their own choice.
      In order to be a church building, the place must house people inside of it. Otherwise it is just another private money-making business part of Babylon that furthers satan's agenda. Stay out of the fake churches.
      I am Elijah of Malachi 4:5-6 and Acts 3:22-23 says it will come to pass that anyone that fails to listen to me will be UTTERLY destroyed from among the people. Again, everyone has a choice.
      And anyone that deletes my messages CHOOSES to reject Jesus Christ Himself and that means they also CHOOSE to die with the wicked.
      I am Elijah so that means any discrepancies in the holy books are ultimately decided by me. I am also to usher in the Messiah! Be ready: Jesus is coming back!
      WORLD PEACE IS COMING!!
      By the way, anything based on gender norms no longer applies. In fact, the last will be first and the first will be last. It's women that will be ruling the kingdom of heaven........
      And rapture is not what most people think. Its when God's true people shine with the glory of God and are miraculously healed. Read Malchi 4:2-4 and the verses surrounding it...........
      Donald Trump is of tbe antichrist spirit and he will die with the wicked if he chooses not to repent.
      Malachi 2 proves Malachi 3:8-11 is talking to the thieving church leaders. Every single fake preachet knrw if they brpught the money back they were never supposed to take for ministering then God would end Covid but they love money so much they intentionally chose to kill everyone instead of repenting!!!

    • @jaiyabyrd4177
      @jaiyabyrd4177 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@elijahmalachi45-63
      NO‼️
      In the old and new testament God despised homosexuality. And instructed against it. The penalty was to kill homosexuals.
      Leviticus 20:13--
      If a man also lieth with mankind as he would lieth with a woman, both (men)have committed abomination. They shall surely be put to death.
      THE INSTRUCTIONS OF GOD.

  • @camilleamaclean
    @camilleamaclean 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    This is eye-opening! The whole time i was chasing men for validation only to learn i was operating in my masculine energy. Here's to lessons learned and moving forward on my feminine journey.

  • @andromedamaxima1543
    @andromedamaxima1543 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    i cried the moment Pastor said when a woman is confused about who’s the prize… nobody ever told me or i ever felt like the prize… never… and of course i have been used and humiliated… my parents are good people but never taught me any of this… they completely bypassed everything that had to do with myself as a person, a woman

    • @MyCrownstar
      @MyCrownstar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You are not alone. But we are here now to learn. It’s never too late

    • @andromedamaxima1543
      @andromedamaxima1543 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@MyCrownstar thank you. i lost 20 years, probably the best years of my youth, the best years of my life… It could have been so different if I had received these teachings… anyway. Must heal and accept and keep improving myself by connecting with the word of God.

    • @madonnanix7635
      @madonnanix7635 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dear Sisters in Christ,
      When parents clearly did not cherish you and value you it is hard to value yourself, but You Must!
      Devaluing others has become common in our society much to our dismay.
      Sick 🥶🤢 people feel the need to devalue others to puff themselves up.
      It is a lot like gossip which is forbidden in the bible, except it is gossip directed right to our face., Instead of behind our back. 😳 WOW 😳!!!
      People have little compassion for others feelings these days and we need to stop tolerating bad behavior and call it out.
      Adults acting worse than children on the playground. Nobody says anything in others defense anymore.
      It is time for some serious ADULTING or this next generation cannot possibly model what it does not observe.
      When ever someone wants me to compromise my morals on right and wrong they tell me what year it is!!!
      It is time to put our big boy 👖's and big girl 👖's or dresses if you prefer and grow a spine!
      Men are not boys . Women are not girls. Men need to teach their daughters how a man should treat a women by example. Women need to teach their sons how a women should treat a man by example.
      With 💕 Love Dignity Respect Compassion Empathy and Forgive ness.
      We all mess up.
      My old saying is if their a jerk it just doesn't work.
      You can not change others but you can avoid them. If they do not get it they probably have insecurities of their own probably put there by people in their lives who were bad examples.
      Nuff said!!!

  • @CanIgetanAwoMen
    @CanIgetanAwoMen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Conscious femininity always starts at the place of worth 💎

  • @biblequeen4sure823
    @biblequeen4sure823 2 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    Can't wait for this session. Bishop, I started sharing your video's with my granddaughter Viqueetra. Now she's finding her way out of a horrible relationship. She watches more and more of your video's and she's applying what you teach. Thank you so much.

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr.  2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      WOW!!! Tell her I’m proud of her. 😊🙏🏽♥️

    • @biblequeen4sure823
      @biblequeen4sure823 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@RCBlakesJr. Will do, again thank you.😀

  • @WovenPsalm
    @WovenPsalm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    "Rusty man" I love it!!! So accurate.

  • @safiahnd488
    @safiahnd488 2 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    **You need to watch the whole video**
    But here's something to screen cap for later Reminders Sisters ❤️
    1) if you are confused who '' the prize is ''.
    Brining food on the table is his ''job'' YOU ARE THE PRIZE.
    Is you're confused about that, you are malfunctioning.
    Don't be confused, you bring '' your feminine presence'' to the table. THAT'S IT and IT'S ENOUGH.
    If you're chasing him, you're confused about who the prize is.
    2) Compromising Standards
    They will test your standards, NEVER COMPROMISE YOUR STANDARDS.
    If he's looking for a wife, he will pursue someone who's Committed to her STANDARDS, he can trust her with his honour.
    3) She Never asks a man for help
    When she's too independent she can't respect interdependent.
    Masculine energy is serving energy. Let him spend his life serving you.
    A masculine man is never attracted to a woman who doesn't need him.
    He wants to be your hero. Let him be that.
    Even if you can fight, let him do it for you.
    ASK FOR HELP BAE.
    4) When you lead as your accomplishments
    He will feel like a homeboy.
    They mesure their selves with their accomplishments, you mesure your value by your femininity.
    DO ACHIEVE , but lead with your ESSENCE.
    Show him the '' woman '' you are.
    Spiritual, Emotional, then Work.
    Your work is what you do not what you are'
    5) Pursuing a man
    Don't be the hunter, you will attract a feminine man.
    6) Unprocessed Hurt
    Process your pains and Traumas.
    It will show up in the energy you live with.
    Reconnect with God then yourself.
    7) Surround your self with the wrong women.
    Thank you Blake ❤️
    Am a Muslim, I've been following you for a year now, you have very much changed the way I think and I see my self and the world .
    Thank you ❤️

    • @fatikay5735
      @fatikay5735 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me too , Salaam ;)

    • @marypayne756
      @marypayne756 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Girl, I appreciate you sharing your summary! Thanks! Blessings!

    • @michellejohnson8333
      @michellejohnson8333 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much 😊

    • @celestecorona611
      @celestecorona611 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you!

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr.  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you 🙏🏽 😊♥️

  • @lauracisco2807
    @lauracisco2807 2 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    I cannot wait. I am always eager to learn from Pastor Blakes he is truly a God send for me growing up Fatherless and finding myself dealing with men who wanted to cat fight me. Now I see the problem was them. So mind blowing! I cannot wait to watch And learn.

    • @janellamurphy5665
      @janellamurphy5665 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      In agreement with you sis!!! I am watching the video now!!! I am soaking up this teaching like a sponge!!!!

    • @HelloDecember525
      @HelloDecember525 ปีที่แล้ว

      💗💗💗🙏. Isn't God's grace beautiful, to finally see, and be taught properly, THANK GOD! Grateful for all of us

  • @MsJennDefinerofSelf
    @MsJennDefinerofSelf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    This video was so painful for me. I started dating at 17 with this understanding, but I was misguided on my actual purpose and attached myself to someone who did not have a true understanding of himself. 20 years later I have been masculinized trying to make up for his lack of understanding of our roles. Starting over is so painful when you’ve done these things for the wrong man.

    • @onevenus6040
      @onevenus6040 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You're still young, and it's never too late. God bless you 🙏

    • @denisemyers733
      @denisemyers733 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I agree been there as well. Just stay the course and as long as lessons are learn they won’t get repeated. So I have learned!

    • @MsJennDefinerofSelf
      @MsJennDefinerofSelf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@onevenus6040, sometimes I feel like it is, but I thank you so much for your encouragement.

    • @Pacifica74
      @Pacifica74 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same here. I got attached to a feminine energy man at 16 years old and tried to carry the relationship for the both of us. Gave him 20 years and then 3 more before I finally gave up. All my youth and resources I gave to him, and I have nothing to show for it. It is so painful to learn this stuff much too late. I'm learning so much from RC now but get so down.

    • @MsJennDefinerofSelf
      @MsJennDefinerofSelf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Pacifica74, it is definitely a blessing to have access to this kind of wisdom. I’m actively trying to look past the years lost and give Glory to God for the joy, peace and love He has in store. Be blessed 💕

  • @xojassylove4023
    @xojassylove4023 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    My father passed away when I was younger! And honestly I listen to everything you say I haven’t read your book but I have watched a lot of your videos and listen and do as you say because it’s so true and resonates to my spirit. Nothing you say upsets me it opens my eyes. Thank you so much. I see so many beautiful women and they think just because of their looks that’s all that matters but it’s way deeper then that. Being beautiful and knowing you are the prize is way better then being beautiful and not knowing your the prize. I am currently on my feminine journey and building a strong relationship with the creator to know who I am. There’s nothing wrong with asking a man for help I honestly enjoy asking a man for help but my issue is I’ve always asked the wrong guys for help who could never help me nor did they want to.

  • @AlahjeLLC
    @AlahjeLLC 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is setting me free! I've come a long way in my femininity, and have a long way to go! I have big dreams with a hustler mentality to execute them. BUT, I also desire to be very soft and playful and let my (soon to be) husband lead. I have to first learn how to be a better woman. This journey is so exciting!

    • @Queen-ConsciousYa
      @Queen-ConsciousYa 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, keep it to yourself ❤ keep being great

  • @darciborelli9153
    @darciborelli9153 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Bishop, there are many of us females that know we are the prize in a kind feminine way. The facts are that many guys are not masculine and do not understand what a masculine man is. How they should embrace queens, femininity. You Bishop are a masculine man who completely understands this. This is what we as women are frustrated about. I know I am. Many of these men don’t have the confidence embrace a feminine queen.🙃

    • @janellamurphy5665
      @janellamurphy5665 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      In agreement😃✋🏿🙏🏾👍🏾

    • @darciborelli9153
      @darciborelli9153 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@janellamurphy5665 Hi Janella. I love your name. Was wondering if you’d like to connect via phone. I am old school and I’m visually impaired and if possible it would be great to talk make a connection with you if you are interested? Let me know and I will give you my number with no hesitation sweet queen

    • @whenthasmokeclears
      @whenthasmokeclears 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I completely agree with your viewpoint.

    • @traceydumase
      @traceydumase 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Keep it pushing then. That's the problem we have as females, we focus too much on men we know very well aren't what we're looking for. He doesn't understand? Move on. Keep moving on until God blesses you with someone who will understand. Because guess what? God is very capable and able of doing that for you. The trick is in the wait. Most of us (and I'm including myself) aren't willing to wait. There is an immense amount of power in waiting upon the Lord. Stop searching, focus on your journey and let that man come find you❤️

  • @bridgettetraveler658
    @bridgettetraveler658 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My husband & I have been together for many yrs & don't mean at all to put men down, but Mother Teresa never looked lonely! To me she was whole by herself! It would have taken a great man to attract her, if she wanted a man! It's very hard for me to rely on anybody but GOD! My parents weren't good providers! My husband doesn't say that I'm too much man as much as he used to! I'm trying hard to be feminine! Being ex-military & a child of GOD I learned to be independent! Even the Proverbs 31 woman had a successful business!!!

  • @yeseniafigueroa2924
    @yeseniafigueroa2924 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Just started listening April 2022 last month and I truly appreciate how your teachings have really allowed me to embrace my traditional values and has also affirmed and validated so many of those values that I've learned growing up and being raised by a strong independent single virtuous woman! I appreciate your delivery and your sensitivity as a husband and a father of daughter's! 🙏🏽💪🏼 I'm also learning about how my broken parts have stood in the way of truly allowing me to live in my feminine energy successfully!

    • @fofou76
      @fofou76 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I also stated since aprill 2022 and having real feeling of haearing à father....Million thanks RC for this deep transformation...

    • @danyellmariewhitford2392
      @danyellmariewhitford2392 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your response is divinely feminine and I whole heartedly relate and you will definitely be successful from how you delivered your perspective here

  • @mirna1177
    @mirna1177 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    from my earliest years I could never depend on any man. My father wasn't there and didn't care. I started working when I was 14 years old. I was homeless with a little baby 17 years ago. Now I am 42 and bought a home for my kid and me. I did everything by myself. So... I have to say... it's really hard to accept these teachings. I haven't had an opportunity to rely on a man and I don't really know how to start now. It is hard to find a reliable men where I'm from, and then even If he would find me, it would be even harder to be in the mode to rely on him. So.. it is a hard lesson.. really hard to learn form me.

    • @mirna1177
      @mirna1177 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Btw. I don't chase men and I do concider myself to be a prize. Have been single for 8 years, working on myself and feeling really good about it.

  • @QueenObio
    @QueenObio 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Just walk walk walk walk 🤗. Go Pastor. I love the way you love your Queen. Thank you for loving us enough to share this message with us 🙏🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾

  • @darciborelli9153
    @darciborelli9153 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Please don’t worry about the time. I know myself I’m sure most of us would like to hear even longer. Thank you very much for your no nonsense straightforward fax. Sending love to you and Leedy Lisa and the family

  • @louisedemers9314
    @louisedemers9314 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Good evening Pastor Blakes, Lady Lisa, everyone from the Eastern Townships 🍁 🇨🇦. The lilacs are in full bloom spreading their wonderful scent throughout :). Happy to be here as always :)

  • @TheBurningBusch
    @TheBurningBusch 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Beautiful Message!!! I know for a fact that I’m the prize and will never compromise my standards! I will never settle for less because I deserve the best! Teach Bishop Teach!! I embrace my femininity. To God be the Glory!

  • @lightyourway4929
    @lightyourway4929 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This is so helpful. As a woman raised by a father who saw me as his mistake and not a blessing, I am having to find your channel as well as therapy to learn I am worthy and loved. I use d to try so hard to be accepted by my father I would allow him to treat me less than. I realize my worth now and will not compromise myself in my worth. I do not need to chase my father or any man because I am worthy of being respected and loved. Thank you for sharing this because this is so helpful. l always look forward to your teachings/discussions because it is helping me to change my beliefs about myself and how I should act.

    • @bettycollins1983
      @bettycollins1983 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      The hashtag is part of the zoom code. Good day!

    • @bettycollins1983
      @bettycollins1983 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      The one behind the number. Sorry!🙏🙏🙏

    • @janellamurphy5665
      @janellamurphy5665 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      YES, YES & YES 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 I can definitly relate!!!!👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾🙋🏿‍♀️🙋🏿‍♀️

  • @janesickler5497
    @janesickler5497 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    100% in alignment with God's word and provision...everything you spoke of I have experienced and the last few months I was wondering why when I was a young teenage woman, I took better care of myself and had high standards for myself but in adulthood, all that went out the window. I surmised that it was because of abuse and trauma that I had experienced in life...abusive parents led me to choose abusive/ emotionally unavailable men...and these men stripped my femininity away bit by bit...I am done with allowing this toxicity in my life...I turned my life back over to the Lord and I try my best to put him first and foremost in my life...through the Lord's guidance, I am working on myself...trying to heal and get back my femininity to become a worthy/ compassionate/ loving/ caring/ meek woman of God...ive tried to do away with negative ugly ways of thinking...everyone doesn't need to have my comments about everything...that I don't always need to be right or have the last word...I can just be still...be quiet, breathe and let go and let God.

  • @GreaterStrongerBetter
    @GreaterStrongerBetter 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I understand exactly what you’re saying pastor. Lead with your essence!

  • @LC-cg7bs
    @LC-cg7bs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I’ve learned everything you said this evening that I do rest in my femininity, prior to your other teachings, I needed a reminder Pastor. God bless you and Mrs. Blake’s.

  • @GodsDisciple
    @GodsDisciple 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Pastor Blakes, Man I love your Humbleness, Honesty and Transparency. You had me cracking up, you are filled with Wisdom. TY ❤️ 😊 🙏

  • @Nadia-nv3gx
    @Nadia-nv3gx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Hello, thank you for all you do. May God bless you for allowing Him to speak light into our lives. My life has changed since I've started listening to you. You a great mentor.
    I am happy that you are planning on talking about feminity. I have been hoping for this the past 2 weeks. I only saw one video with a feminity title that was done by you. Could you please do a series on this topic. I think it will help a lot of women. Femininity is something beautiful that I struggle to be. I know you not a woman but I do understand your teachings. I do believe that you have the wisdom to teach this topic.

    • @gaamatsu4dewin
      @gaamatsu4dewin 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why struggle? If you're not feminine, you're not feminine. You don't have to be.

    • @pamelacarter5114
      @pamelacarter5114 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@gaamatsu4dewin you

    • @gaamatsu4dewin
      @gaamatsu4dewin 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@pamelacarter5114 I what?

  • @carlottaberry6527
    @carlottaberry6527 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You’re dropping serious nuggets in this video and you are hilarious, too. Lol! Hercules! Hercules! Lol!

  • @janellamurphy5665
    @janellamurphy5665 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    THANK YOU SO MUCH BISHOP BLAKES FOR THIS ON TIME MESSAGE🖐🏾🖐🏾🖐🏾🖐🏾🧎🏾‍♀️🧎🏾‍♀️💃🏿💃🏿!!!! AGAIN YOUR TEACHINGS SHOW ME THAT I REALLY NEED TO RE EVALUATE MY BEHAVIOURS AS A QUEEN SHOULD BE💃🏿🧎🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️, WALK AND TALK🚶🏾‍♀️🚶🏾‍♀️!!!! WE QUEENS NEED TO LISTEN👂🏾, SIT QUIETLY AND TAKE NOTES📓AMEN!!! I AM LEARNING SO MUCH BISHOP BLAKES👌🏾👌🏾💯💯 THANK YOU AGAIN MAY GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS YOU AND FAMILY🙏🏾🙏🏾🙋🏿‍♀️AMEN!!

  • @Innamoramento9
    @Innamoramento9 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm not even Christian but your videos make so much sense. I have been married 15 years and it just occurred to me I'm guilty of everything here except for being dressed like a woman in the oldest profession. My husband has always been mad at me for not asking him for help; even when I really need him I don't ask for help. He always expects me to pay for dinner. I feel like if I earned enough he'd be a house husband without a second thought even though he loves his work and is needed at work. He's gotten much better lately but I think I still suffer a lot from points 1, 3, 4, 5 and 6. Thanks for making conscious the unconscious self-sabotaging points.

  • @ilissawalker7051
    @ilissawalker7051 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Thank you for another strong message. The reality check for me!! learning not to lead with my occupation and all of my accolades and accomplishments.

  • @1newwoman07
    @1newwoman07 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    His face lights up every time he talks about his wife.

  • @ksmith7892
    @ksmith7892 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Pastor, building on what you said a woman shouldn't lead with on a first date, could you make a video on how to navigate the first, second, third date, etc? Thank you! You have bblessed me with your wisdom.

    • @SweetysMega
      @SweetysMega 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No.. you have to do some of the work on your own. Take the gems and apply it every time. The next couple of dates should only lead with a little more than the previous date.

  • @Ang_Nicole
    @Ang_Nicole 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    You, Tony Gaskins, & Jason Wilson are my spiritual fathers lol. Thank you for a good word as always pastor ♥️

  • @poetz153
    @poetz153 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Thank you for accepting me this weekend and inviting me to visit Uptown. It was a true honor to be able to see you preach in person. Mrs. RC Blake’s, First Lady, is even more breathtaking in person. You certainly have been blessed. I knew I was officially in NOLA when I hit the exit and saw a darn Gator off the interstate lol.
    One of my favorite statements made by Pastor RC Blakes Jr. is, “ Honor is the seed, while submission is the fruit. If a man does not sew the seed of honor, he should never expect the fruit of submission.” While I know this video is not about submission, I will say it goes hand and hand. If a man treats you as his prize, then he will have no problem planting a seed that will bear the fruit of submission within you queens. As pastor says, we must work on our femininity to find common ground with a masculine man. We must also remember pastors words when he said, “a woman’s role is to attract and approve, while it’s the man’s job to pursue.”Take care and God bless you all.

  • @kalapaul2895
    @kalapaul2895 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Wow this is powerful teachings, it amazes me to see how the bishop does take his time nd sit to teach us...wow he's really called to do this. Nd he explain in a way that all of us can understand. We love u bishop nd lady Blake's.

  • @halimad.6401
    @halimad.6401 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I appreciate this advice. I was miseducated. Growing up I remember being taught to never ask anyone for anything, no matter how much you need it, including your man. We were told, "if someone wants to help you they will do it without being asked." If we were caught asking anyone, it was a reason for a beating. We were expected to get it ourselves or do without, unless someone else notices our need and volunteers to help.

  • @carenlzarate8603
    @carenlzarate8603 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you Pastor
    I knew this whole Redhill nonsense
    Of men being the price was
    Very weird.
    Didn't doubt but I was confused when I heard that.
    Misogynistic men hate women who talk about being the price.
    And being feminine.
    Good Iam in the right track.
    Blessings also, thank you your content on Narcisism , help me so much to over come the manipulation of my Husband.
    It heal me alot.
    Watch so much content that
    Educate me
    Now Iam good and aware of so much.
    ⚘️❤️🙏

  • @Linda-xe4tc
    @Linda-xe4tc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God doesn't care what color we are, we are all human beings who can learn from each other. Mr. Blake's happens to be assigned to the female community, as well as an encouragement and teacher to males. Jesus is Jewish, I follow Him. I am not Jewish, He has a lot to say about life and Godliness in the Bible about living a principled life.

  • @annaa6259
    @annaa6259 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Coming from family and society that was conditioning women that toxic man are the prize these teachings are priceless!!! Its like finally discovering truth

  • @celestep2965
    @celestep2965 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Goodness just flows from your heart day by day you are a true blessing sir. Hallelujah

  • @lhazel2
    @lhazel2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I LOVE the masculinity of a man ... A man's man's ...

  • @user-zx5xw4yw2e
    @user-zx5xw4yw2e 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Femininity is based in a quiet and humble certainty about the value a woman brings to the life of a man.

  • @beverly3397
    @beverly3397 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Many Blessing Mr. Blakes 🙏🙏 Yes I want my femininity 🌷🌷💜🌈💛💚

  • @enspireme
    @enspireme 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you 🙏🏽can’t say I had someone who had my back or “help” especially when I needed it, appreciate this, keeps everything in perspective. Sometimes you wonder if your standards are unrealistic, but in reality it’s not, you’ve just been in the wrong place for a long time

  • @lindatucs2044
    @lindatucs2044 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I listen to you day and night absolutely so grateful for your godly wisdom.. thank you 🙏 ❤

  • @amandag2115
    @amandag2115 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow such a good message! Thank you so very much. Hearing this from a man with your standards and spirit makes it powerful. It touched my soul in a profound way like someone jolted me to be back to who God made me… a woman who is feminine and the prize. A woman brings empathy, kindness, gentleness, strength, trust. I been broken by bad relationships, men pushing my boundaries and standards and putting me down. No more. Thank you pastor

  • @Realness4sho
    @Realness4sho 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    We love, your Gospel comedy approach Mr. Blakes. Amen

  • @gigimc6640
    @gigimc6640 ปีที่แล้ว

    "The quiet and humble certainty in the value you bring to the life of a man." -> Mic drop.

  • @deborahhall2502
    @deborahhall2502 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Good evening, Bishop, I know this discussion will be very beneficial to receive. I thank God Almighty, for giving you this assignment to fulfill. It's extremely wonderful to even be a part of the transformation of recognizing the areas of improvement Blessings to you and First Lady Lisa, in Jesus' name AMEN

  • @aet4519
    @aet4519 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Take ya tiiiiiiime Pastor...dont worry about the longevity of your videos!!!

  • @lisalisa7489
    @lisalisa7489 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    50:10 is soooo the truth! Lol.
    30:15 thru Asking For Help/Wants to be needed .. "cracking the stubborn cap on the bottle" . Truly the truth ..superman is needed and she has his back.
    GOOD STUFF!!! Entirely great session

  • @belindaakpassa5599
    @belindaakpassa5599 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Powerful ,and so valuable in the time we live , i pray that the wounded little girls will be healed so they will walk in there feminine!!❤❤😊

  • @terrybogard6542
    @terrybogard6542 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    No more clowns for me I've learned my lesson over the years if a man cannot treat me like I want to be treated and get some set because he has to treat me like I want to be treated it's time to bounce and move on so that's why I'm really not dating until God places that King in front of me and I feel his essence that he is for me

    • @janellamurphy5665
      @janellamurphy5665 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      AMEN!!! SIS IN TOTAL AGREEMENT WITH YOU!!!

  • @portulacaoleracea3267
    @portulacaoleracea3267 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think it is fine to ask a guy for help. I have asked my male friends for help before like fixing the lights, painting the room, fixing my computer issues etc. They are all willing to help. My SP also washes the dishes for me after we have meals together. He is glad to do so each, doing the dishes nicely.

  • @terrybogard6542
    @terrybogard6542 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    When I was a child I thought as a child but when I became a grown wo--("man") I put all childish things away iam just saying🤔👏🔥🙏

  • @theempireofjesuschristworl6877
    @theempireofjesuschristworl6877 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    God Bless You Pastor, and we know what's going on, Jehovah God is not the author of confusion; it's the End Times & Latter Days and many things we're seeing is an Abomination! Call it what Jehovah God calls it...he said it first. Blessings!

  • @dmiri0921
    @dmiri0921 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "Grown, rusty dude..." 😂🤣😂🤣

  • @OrchidTingz
    @OrchidTingz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So GOOD and RICH.... This is spiritual mental and emotional substance...🍽🥘🥗 Thank you Sir..👑

  • @jimmyturner6810
    @jimmyturner6810 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Good evening from Salisbury, MD. Bishop Always a blessing to hear your powerful messages. Great and wonderful topic.

  • @Lccat
    @Lccat 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    All you say awakens my soul and helps me embrace my femininity 💕✨Thank you.

  • @victoriaholden7774
    @victoriaholden7774 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is gold! Thank you for this. Society makes the ladies who don't flaunt themselves feel unworthy and not good enough! I will stick to living a life of high standards and honor! 💯🙏🥰😅

  • @Bellab414
    @Bellab414 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for this accessible therapy, I’ve had one on one face to face therapy and one of them was trying to teach me discernment, but I never got it, until now with you, I was devalued asa child I became promiscuous as a young woman,now I love and respect myself and want to be a positive role model for my child, thank you for your sharing spirit,Amen, ❤

  • @50andbecoming
    @50andbecoming 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love the female and male lion analogy.

  • @CC-pu6qn
    @CC-pu6qn 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I had a guy ask me why don’t I chase him. He was playing mind games and constantly trying to manipulate and harm me mentally in his presence. I never chased, but he wore me down and mentally coerced me overtime. The attraction was just very strong, but I didn’t realize I was around a narcissistic abuser. Even after pushing me to masculinity swearing at him to leave me alone, he kept harassing. We worked closely together. I then realized too women shouldn’t work in particular environments either.

  • @terrybogard6542
    @terrybogard6542 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    When God blesses me with that King with the crown I would be so glad and grateful and humble and submissive to let him lead as long as he's following God I don't have a problem with him helping me I can just rest in the fact that I finally got my knight and it's only because God breathe on me and rescued me from these clowns in a crown that tried to approach me

  • @invigorate162
    @invigorate162 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I honestly wish that I felt more comfortable asking for help. It just seems like the people who I ask for help always have a problem with me asking so I revert to doing it myself because I hate to get a response that speaks to a person being bothered.

  • @virtuouswomanthelordfirst538
    @virtuouswomanthelordfirst538 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Such a reassuring word Pastor Blake’s. Doing King Jesus work honour as you always do. Amen 🙏🏾

  • @beverly3397
    @beverly3397 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Many Blessing RC Blakes, Jr🙏🙏🙏🙏 I took notes because I am moving forward and inward 💜💚💙💛

  • @Tay-dg9om
    @Tay-dg9om 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    LOVING PERSPECTIVE, VERY WELL RECEIVED. THANK YOU, PASTOR BLAKES🌹🙏💝💝💝. P.S. ABUNDANT BLESSINGS TO FIRST LADY LISA🌹🌹🌹

  • @beckynakachwa7195
    @beckynakachwa7195 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    A lady Pouring out masculine energy to a man, pursuing, leading and doing the work of a king that would have been done to her as a queen. i saw a video on fb of a lady proposing to her fiance she dated for 10 years unfortunately the guy embarrassed her by not accepting and moving out with a side chick in front of her face.

    • @TheHarlotsHaven
      @TheHarlotsHaven 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That would have been embarrassing! Sad for her.

    • @annetteprince9615
      @annetteprince9615 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow

    • @Giftis2sing
      @Giftis2sing 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yep I saw that video on Facebook too. The side chick was sitting front and Center too watching the proposal. 🥴

    • @beckynakachwa7195
      @beckynakachwa7195 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Giftis2sing yes

    • @KieranRenee
      @KieranRenee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Could see that one coming a mile away

  • @TheBurningBusch
    @TheBurningBusch 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “Fertilize the chemistry between the two of you!” My sentiments exactly!!! I love it!! Phenomenal Preaching Bishop!

  • @bossparties2525
    @bossparties2525 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I feel this way ALL the time. It seems like I'm always in my masculine energy.

    • @1234lowkey
      @1234lowkey 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You are not alone, but that’s why we’re here.

  • @mammaof3737
    @mammaof3737 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you RC for the word . I'm thanking you in advance !!

  • @marthalopez6662
    @marthalopez6662 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much Bishop RC Blakes Jr.
    for your teaching. I appreciate so much your dedication to protect us from the evils of society. Many blessings 🙏🏼

  • @pamelabrown2001
    @pamelabrown2001 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Every message is GOLDEN & relatable. His transparency is easy to follow… May God continue to BLESS your ministry… I enjoy First Blakes as well she keeps it real 🙌🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽

  • @Velvetta01
    @Velvetta01 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Good evening... What a blessing this has been Pastor!!! I pray you feel better soon. Father John's medicine always worked for my family. Passed down from my grandma. I celebrated my year of Jubilee last year and so thankful I'm still young enough (in heart) to learn. Continued blessings!!

  • @jodyayers4592
    @jodyayers4592 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Get off the clearance rack and back behind the glass were you belong. ❤

  • @mccbern06
    @mccbern06 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bishop Blakes, you are funny when explaining your point of view! Facts! I LOL often when watching your videos!

  • @tevaristorres8535
    @tevaristorres8535 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bishop please go there! Grown women are telling young men they are the prize! Men are out here thinking they’re the prize. I’m so glad my father raised me in the fear of the Lord. I know my worth.

  • @shaniharris2395
    @shaniharris2395 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for the reminder that women are the prize!!

  • @MiaRubey
    @MiaRubey ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you for your precious being. Love u 2 so much. Many blessings to you and Lisa.

  • @nowKissthaQueen
    @nowKissthaQueen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Phew‼️she has allowed her heart to crush. I literally had to refuse to compromise

  • @ritasmith5132
    @ritasmith5132 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is my motivation to get my day started. Thank you Pastor Blakes. See you at the TOP!🙏.💜🙏

  • @ArtSeeFriend
    @ArtSeeFriend 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Listen! I just love to hear a word from RC Blakes, Jr.! I’m trying to be the best me that I can be, and the best wife to my husband!!! God knows exactly what I need; he sent me to this TH-cam channel some years ago, and I am so grateful! I know people think I’m crazy, but this is just good for my soul! I don’t want to hear NO mess, and I’m glad to know that it’s not on this channel! Please don’t ever stop sharing your blessings in your messages with us! 🙌🏾🫶🏽 All praises go to GOD!!!

  • @felicitygrace5113
    @felicitygrace5113 ปีที่แล้ว

    Haha! The example of opening a difficult jar is so very real! That is my mother! She doesnt want my father helping at all not even with the jar. Dear lord! I am not like that. I embrace my femininity and love the man helping me.
    Walk alone until God sends you the right kind of people. That is a deep message for me. I walk alone most of the time though there may be some people around me, few are the right ones for a long journey together.
    Thank you Pastor for your preaching! Love it! 🌸

  • @Ella03434
    @Ella03434 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don’t have anything but my heart to bring to the table 16:00 🙏🙏🙏

  • @km7890km
    @km7890km 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    SAY WHAT YOU SAYING PASTOR!!! Thank you for the right words about Ruth and Boaz.

  • @judithstevens4323
    @judithstevens4323 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    YESSSSS....THIS IS A FABULOUS SUBJECT PASTOR!!!! PLEASE KEEP UP THESE VIDEOS THAT EDUCATE & UPLIFT US!!!!💯💯❤❤❤❤

  • @pspr1149
    @pspr1149 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Pastor Blakes,
    This is a message for the masses.
    Thank you, sir.

  • @flowerpink33
    @flowerpink33 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video should have millions of views. I’m sending this to Everyone and pray 🙏🏾 they listen and apply.

  • @rosalysmartinez2153
    @rosalysmartinez2153 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing video! Packed with biblical revelation, wisdom and priceless fathering advices. Thank you very much. We are going higher!🙏🕊👑

  • @gwendolynhall4056
    @gwendolynhall4056 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    God knows you're preaching!

  • @gaamatsu4dewin
    @gaamatsu4dewin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In people's minds today, there seems to be a hard line between mac/fem energies. I think the blurring of those lines - the gray area of trans and gender non-binary, etc - is the most beautiful diversity we have on this planet. I myself am gender-fluid. Sometimes masculine, sometimes feminine, though I physically present as female (obvious breast size). I owe it all to the hormones God gave me, and since accepting that authentic identity, I've never felt happier.

  • @angeladarby6365
    @angeladarby6365 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    “Fertilizing the Chemistry” between you and a man..My God! Needed this teaching so much! TY Pastor!

  • @jimmyturner6810
    @jimmyturner6810 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good teaching Bishop.Lets be clear. I am the Prize. She brings her Feminine present to the table.

  • @chrisparker6249
    @chrisparker6249 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We just want to feel necessary 🙏💪🥰👑

  • @angelgilreath
    @angelgilreath 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Man I needed this! Masculine energy has not worked out for me at ALL!!

    • @LeceeMonet
      @LeceeMonet 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Girl I’m sick of it

    • @angelgilreath
      @angelgilreath 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LeceeMonet well now that we know better, we do better! 😊