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What Is the Falsely Empowered Victim Position?
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 26 ก.ค. 2024
- What is the falsely empowered victim position? All of us play the victim, it is part of being human and perfectly imperfect. In today's video I share stories so you can relate it back to your own life and how you play this dynamic out.
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Omg Kenny you have been a blessing! I have learned sooo much from you thank you!
I am with a falsely empowered codependent. I was a codependent previously a falsely empowered one with a an alcoholic as a partner. I read and worked through my issues. Realized I needed to let go of resentment, accept the person as they were, realize only they can change and that my needs needed to be prioritized. But now that he is sober he has become the falsely empowered codependent and I have began to adapt to all his requirements. He is never satisfied and finds a way to fight about something I said, did, or think. It’s always about me and how I don’t show him enough care. It truly neever enough.
My mother played the victim and I complied and moulded myself to her wishes. When I lturned 18 I left home and started a life long battle with depression, I was hospitalised and got the most attention I ever got. My parents were there for me in a way I never knew before. They started to fix me, tell me what to do. I loved it. I unconsciously played the victim with friends, in relationships adopting the depressed person, which I was but I had identified with it completely because I never had a self in childhood. After years of this I became resentful of my parents constantly telling me how to live my life. I had no idea that I had played a part. I thought i was the innocent victim. Mental illness is messy and my parents had a right to be worried but they enabled for years and I let them. It took until 37 until I figured out my part and I have shame around that. Its still difficult, I slip between victimhood and compliance and people pleasing. Im 40 now and still not sure of my authentic self . But Im alot better off than I was a few years ago.
Completely true 👏🏻 I am a teacher and unfortunately it’s not even about our strategies to support the child but it’s about following a system that is put in place to please parents and YES! To create Falsely empowered generation 😢. I would love to meet parents like you, it will really facilitate our difficult job
I was falsely empowered to take the victim position! And, I realize now that there are still remanence of that. I get to clear that up now. Thank you 🙏.
You’re welcome
My gosh.... the only way our society is going to change is when we take responsibility to allow our children to take responsibility. When we own that we did not allow our children to have consequences. This is the result of society we are living in. With the best intentions at the time, it is sad to witness.
Yes we are all perfectly imperfect
I have been listening to you since last week. You are an amazing spirit..I'm learning so much. Thank you 🙏 😊
Aren’t you kind. Thank you so much. I hope you’ve signed up for the free master class that I’m offering and if you’re interested I’ve also written a book? Let me know I will send you the links if you’re interested 😁
It takes strength to admit what we are doing and its the only way to get better!!
I love your passion and intensity, your beautiful exploring mind. You are sweet and enlightening and wowee ! Love your wardrobe ! Purple suits you so well and you are so handsome too! What a joy to watch. Everyone needs this kind of education..You bravely explore complex difficult subjects so it helps that you are easy on the eyes and possess such a silky voice. Bravo to you and all you are and all you do sweet Kenny!! Xxoo I am a fan!!
You are very kind Valerie thank you very much😁
So grateful I found your channel. It has changed my life!!! Thank you!
So glad!
Great story about your kid, but a lot of people in education are just as manipulative which makes it all worse. Anyone good there gets burned out & leaves. Many professional victims in education.
That’s very true.
when somebody 'a teacher" solves your problems in many cases is they project themselves onto the "Victim" which activates the same Worst day Cycle in the Victim AGAIN. While, often, abusers in denial use THIS RULE of ABANDONING THE "VICTIM" and re wound the victim over and over, causing the Childs Absence of SELF. I had to go no contact from my family because they do not know anything about emotional support. They call that weak because they were never taught that. They only asserted themselves aggressively, passive aggressively, back stabbing, stealing, sabotaging. I went no contact. After 20 years I found some thing to stop the flight and fight, called L Theanine. I finally don't live with w the fight and flight ruining my life.
Wow what you expressed so well iabout your daughter as I have been trying to communicate this to my narc ex. The only way our society is going to change is when we take responsibility to allow our children to take responsibility. When we own that we did not allow our children to have consequences. This is the result of society we are living in. With the best intentions at the time, it is sad to witness am severely ill so watching it is so hard as I feel futile and no amount of insistence makes a difference. But I will keep trying and need to take ownership of the fact I have as we all do as humans made mistakes and when so frustrated can be abusive or patronising and derogatory in my deliverance so I will do what I can with my my behaviour as that is all I can control so I will seek to educate myself and improve.
I do believe that's the closest explanation of unconditional love that I have ever heard.
Thank you
Great info. I was going to send my husband this video, but decided not to because that would be manipulation. It would send the message”here you go, this is you, and you need fixing”. I falsely believe this will make a difference.
Sometimes when you try and have a conversation with someone who has done you wrong, you already know the answer, they deny it, so you don't even waste your breath, its a total waste of time, i just walk away.
That is the story of my marriage. What I want and need is connection, but with someone that is so falsely empowered, that it’s pointless to have an honest conversation.
@@tinabrooks4397 I married a male version of my mother unknowingly, it all made sense when i did the inner work and healed myself. I have lost many people through putting myself first, the hatred on their faces is priceless, they expected me to be the people pleaser until i died.
If you love somebody enough you will let them fail. And the worst thing you could say to them is I told you so. When they fail or think they have failed tell them you love them as they are not as they want to be or should be because they are never going to be as they should be
Thank you! ❤
You're welcome 😊
Big thanks for your wisdom and hello from Czech Republic in Europe. 🙂
Hi Tyna and you’re welcome 😁
Thats why I'm always leery of people who describe their previous relationships as 'being taken advantage of'... I'm like no, there are always two people (or more these days), in every relationship. We always play a role in our relationship problems and the ultimate demise.
Perfectly sad and yes it’s just an indication that they are very early in the journey 😁
I appreciate your sincerity and would like to discuss how you view a falsely empowered Codependent vs a vulnerable/fragile narcissist -- BOTH being a reality?
May God bless u 🤍 I really love your content 💙
Thank you so much I’m really hoping that it’s helping you😁
I had to quit school in 9th grade. And never attended any school more than one year!
I have never had a boyfriend or husband that I didn’t totally support/pay for, then after five years I cry that I’m being used and abused and dump them and pull the plug on their finances! Is that a hidden power play or what! I don’t think I feel worthy of a man that is self sufficient, or has a job, or would treat me…. Would you do a vid on this dynamic!
Most people want to help you but all I want to do is fix your symptoms or worse yet swap addictions.
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Yes they are👌
Mr Kenny... please let me be your disciple 🙏
A bit off topic, but since your videos on the "Tinder Swindler" movie are so informative, would you be willing to look at the Netflix series "Dirty John"? I'd love to hear your take on the characters and couple dynamics. The two seasons tell different stories, but they are likewise about women who get themselves into unhealthy relationships. I think you'd really enjoy it! Let me know what you think!
I’ll try to take a look
Looking great, Kenny. Looks like you had ribroblast done on your face 😉😊
Thanks for the vedio. Enjoying the journey. Helping others as well! 😇
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How did you end up sleeping in parks as a hockey player? You didn't go with a team?
I had not been drafted or signed by a professional team so I was training for the season and working to get a tryout
I just realized that, be careful who you share this info and your journey with in hopes they will empathize, or support you. I know that if I shared this video with my husband, he will use that against me, that’s what people who live in denial about their actions or responsibility will do, because they really don’t care about you from the beginning.
Cool huh laura
I need to know your zodiac sign. Are you a Gemini or Libra??
🐟♓️ Pisces😁
@@kennyweiss omg that makes so much sense, your style is amazing so that’s why I was thinking Libra but your choice of career+style is v emotional artistic Pisces