My older brother is an ESTP, and I grew up with several ESTPs, they are easily one of my favorite types. No drama, just people wanting to have a good time. Just do not get into a car they are driving....
I love how they still communicate with each other while someone is talking, with the gestures (pointing, thumbs up, showing object, nods, smiles) to give feedback when someone wants to express something, they acknowledge it.
Baaf noted something a mature ESTP recognizes. You learn to turn turn down the volume, or at least for certain people so you can make a better connection.
Gotta say when you release the video coming out as ESTP i was so ecstatic! I didn’t know much about you but the fact you would openly admit and take ownership is very inspiring and great for this community to stamp out sensor bias 💜
@@PsychologyandChillwMichi Hey! Thanks so much! I appreciate the love and support and was genuinely surprised that people were as positive about that as they were. BTW we should collab :)
Wow finally will get to see some real types! Am sick of the fake stereotype information everyone reads and not even that! they tend to tell us we aren’t ESTPs when we don’t fit well with stereotype nonesense
ESTPs can be easily mistyped, some ESTPS can be typed as ENTP because Se is grossly misunderstood. And the ones that have their life together can be typed as judgers, because Se pushes them to be a very active person and Ti pushes them be very rational, so it is no surprise that a lot of them end up being entrepreneurs.
Estps are the real shit ! love you guys, I learn a lot from you guys on how to be stronger and use my Se /Ti in the real world . your willpower ,guts, confidence and logic and physical skills is what i admire as an Enfj . great web chat , thank you ! 😎👊
It is insane how I can relate to so much from ESTP's, these 5 included, and yet I don't" live it", but it is "there"/here inside. It does play out in certain settings, moments and mind states, but certainly not the "typical case" of the everyday life.
Hi! ISFP, 4w5 here. I find you guys inspirational. Your can-do attitude and objective look at ‘failures’ is refreshing to me. Your energy to get things going is admirable. Also, I found it funny how your kinetic orientation shows in the video, e.g. moving around in the chair, standing up, smoking, drinking, kneading a ball etc. It is quite telling. You’ve got a cool air around you. I find your Introverted Thinking auxiliary very helpful. In contrast to Fi (my lead function), and an Enneagram type 4’s identification with feelings, you are so much more factual and objective thanks to your Ti. It must be helpful in navigating the world :). Thanks Joyce for this panel ;)
I think it confirms my ESTP in that I finished my second session listening to this, but haven't gotten through it all because it is so long. Gotta Run! LOL
Really enjoying this, and I can see you are still holding back, so estp in new situation your se gathering is just somewhat more than reacting, after 2 or 3 of these working together it will be way more se reaction
1:35:16 Omg my ESTP flatmate is like that He says shit like "I did all my research, and this is the most cost-efficient headphones. And I just spent 50% of the original price to get the same item damn I am good"
I don’t know what it is, quite, but Joyce your intro/music choice is absolutely iconic and sets such an upbeat, chill vibe for the following discussions. Thank you for being so consistent with these chats!!!
Thank you so much 🤗 Your supportiveness is appreciated! Glad you like the musical accompaniment, Reed. It's meant to set a mood of comfortability, so I'm happy it's doing its job! haha
This has been one of the few long youtube videos I have watched. I was on one of these panels and never even watched even our own video. Love you guys and now I can identify many ESTPs around me.
I don’t have many ESTPs in my life.. They seem really interesting. I would love to get to know them more. As an ENFP I think we see the world very differently. Ne-Fi & Se-Ti could not be more opposite. 😬😅
Thanks for your reply @@PsychologyandChillwMichi !! YES!! I've found that convos with ESFPs have opened my mind so much!! Would love to experience more ESTPs!! :)
Love this video as usual!! I’m really interested to see a panel of Estp and Esfps interacting. Would you be able to do that panel like that in the future Joyce? Thank you again for making these wonderful videos!
INFJ here but I'm loving, everything about this 💞💞💞 😊👍 I'm neurodivergent and identify with some things ppl have said here. Sometimes I wonder if Fe and Se are one in the same thing sometimes although I know it's not.
I am a 8w7 but also very high in 5 and 1. I relate very well with ESTP/ENTP but also INTP and ISTP. I don't feel like I fit into just one of the 16 types.
I can relate to everything except the movie thing. I like movie (although more tv shows than movies). However, the second part of the movie is usually less interesting indeed.
Absolutely not the case, regarding your question. There are however a lot of INFJs in these areas of interest, and on the internet. Don't let that create the worldview in this regard. In other words, don't let that limited input make a (possible)conclusion overtime (output) that INFJs are "not so rare as typically is being said". It is just that "we" are massed around these topics. I have met 4 INFJs in my life that I'm aware of, all of them the last 1 year and 3 of them the last 2 months, due to the internet, every single one of them. I'll add though, I don't know any ISTP and ESTP women, but I'd sure love to.
I grew up with several ESTPs, I have had several ESTPs in my life, so I don't see how you would get that conclusion. They might be rare on the internet tho, because most of them are out doing something. Remember that several ESTPs can be mistyped as ENTPs because Se is so often misunderstood. Also ESTPs can seem like a judger because Se and Ti makes them be both extremely active and very intellectually driven, it is no surprise they are often entrepreneurs because of that. Also ExTPs are not as disagreeable as people think because of Fe on the third slot, I have noticed that several other types are more likely to want to argue and debate. ExTPs like discussing topics on a non emotional manner, if emotion gets involved they bail out.
One add to this, ESTPs do not generally value status for it's own sake. That's an SJ thing. We like quality and nice stuff for it's intrinsic value not, to impress people. We are not posers.
Love Ennea 9 INFJs!!! And yeah I "feel" these things big time also haha. Haven't gotten far into this particular video yet though, didn't see the full thing yet to share a "full opinion" on this one. I love what he has to share typically.
Lol actually it didn't bother me at all. I'm personally working on not talking over others/dominating conversations, so I'm taking this comment as a compliment! I'll find my balance
I resonate a lot, and am learning from the estp mentality, but damn try school in asia. it’s a hellhole. PTSD & depression at it’s finest. Istp here...
School for me was a very tuff experience. I never enjoyed to stay in class and listen to lecture. If I was forced to stay in class I usually disrupted the flow of the lesson in some way or another. A lot of the time I just skipped class. I got great grades in the subjects that interested me, but bearly passed all the other ones. Finished collage with A+ on my bachelor’s degree, because I enjoyed working on it in the last month, when all my colleagues worked all year on theirs. I had a colleague who had the best project, but messed up the presentation and got a bad grade, while I had a project full of bugs (that I was too lazy to fix, but I avoided while presenting) and nailed the presentation. I felt bad for him, but that’s life.
Female Estp here, yeah as long as both the types are mature and ready to understand each other and work together on strengthening their relationship, than mbti shouldn’t be an issue.
I appreciate Shan the ENTJ, she's very real and I respect her and think she deserves success but absolutely loathe David Letterman the ENTJ.. when he had the Late Night Show at least.. Kate I think you're awesome ♡ Jetplanet I think is too far away from the camera and I don't trust that, I feel like you think you're better than everybody else... even though you don't.. you contribute.. but your lighting and the distance.. Flow State is funny, I can definitely see his ADHD ... wait.. where's he gone? Hehe
1:13:00 the only problem with Daniel's Libertarian view here is the simple fact that all actions ultimately effect everyone else even the unconsciousness of the careless ESTP. They are just better at throwing off or choosing to be blind to the effects. Cannot connect the Ni dots.
@@PsychologyandChillwMichi Personality theory (specifically MBTI) has gotten so watered down and misunderstood the past couple decades it's sad (and frustrating)... Can be a very useful tool. Social media and unqualified "pundits" have all but ruined the industry. When I took a personality assessment (mbti and enneagram) in the 90's (I was a kid... Ha), I answered over 1000 questions and later did a full hour 1:1 assessment... By a counseling psychologist. There is more misinformation floating around the personal theory world than useful information. You're channel and this one are pretty good, but there are few and far between. Keeping it real, you all aren't social scientists... No offense😁. I still enjoy, tho... Good job keeping the interest alive.
@@sticknaw1 Well, the blond gal did use to think she was ENTP for quite some time. I'm curious if you could elaborate on why you think ENTP. As for the theory -- I agree it's very muddy. The thing is, there are people out there spreading stereotypes because they enjoy it. I used to be one of them, but it's part of the excitement about learning MBTI. That being said, I don't think just because something was around for a long time that it is necessarily completely correct. Theories need to adapt over time. I see people sharing their thoughts and insights as a way to further develop the understanding of MBTI. Conversations where we discuss a person's type help us understand where our understandings do not align. The point of it is to understand people at the end of the day, not to be right, so i'm not sure how important it is that the theory is perfect anyway. People, humans, will continue to adapt and change over time. Even if we perfected MBTI right now, the likeliness is that in 100 years it will be completely outdated as there will be new types of people.
My older brother is an ESTP, and I grew up with several ESTPs, they are easily one of my favorite types. No drama, just people wanting to have a good time. Just do not get into a car they are driving....
ESTPs are lovely and know how to give others good experiences, I also like them too!! Interesting that both our brothers are ESTPs. :)
My boss is an ESTP.
Best one I’ve ever had because he’s all about autonomy and has no interest in controlling others.
So much freedom with ExxP bosses. It's the best!
@@JoyceMeng22 and I(entj) cringing at this...
not delegating...what!! 😛
I love how they still communicate with each other while someone is talking, with the gestures (pointing, thumbs up, showing object, nods, smiles) to give feedback when someone wants to express something, they acknowledge it.
Baaf noted something a mature ESTP recognizes. You learn to turn turn down the volume, or at least for certain people so you can make a better connection.
Yes
Thanks for doing this Joyce! I had a great time and it was very interesting to talk to other real-life ESTPs who understand Typology!
Gotta say when you release the video coming out as ESTP i was so ecstatic! I didn’t know much about you but the fact you would openly admit and take ownership is very inspiring and great for this community to stamp out sensor bias 💜
Hey Kate!! It was amazing to speak with you and the rest of the ESTPs. Y'all are awesome people. :)
@@PsychologyandChillwMichi Hey! Thanks so much! I appreciate the love and support and was genuinely surprised that people were as positive about that as they were. BTW we should collab :)
Wow finally will get to see some real types! Am sick of the fake stereotype information everyone reads and not even that! they tend to tell us we aren’t ESTPs when we don’t fit well with stereotype nonesense
Yeah! The more ESTP representation the better. I'm planning to create more ESTP content to hopefully correct those fake stereotypes :)!!
Joyce Meng brilliant! I’ve watched many of your contents and it truly helps in presenting all types effectively.
ESTPs can be easily mistyped, some ESTPS can be typed as ENTP because Se is grossly misunderstood. And the ones that have their life together can be typed as judgers, because Se pushes them to be a very active person and Ti pushes them be very rational, so it is no surprise that a lot of them end up being entrepreneurs.
ENTPanda your on spot. Couldn’t agree more.
Well I want to learn about every type! I’m pretty excited to learn about yours!!!
Estps are the real shit ! love you guys, I learn a lot from you guys on how to be stronger and use my Se /Ti in the real world . your willpower ,guts, confidence and logic and physical skills is what i admire as an Enfj . great web chat , thank you !
😎👊
Yess! ESTPs really teach us how to embrace the world for all it has to offer. Happy you enjoyed watching, @christianv80 ^-^
ESTP are very knowledgeable of MBTI. I thought I was ISFP or ISTP. I originally tested as ISFJ way back in 1993, but I finally got INFP.
Very nice discussion. I totally relate to ESTPs as an ISTP. What a great group of people.
Truly. There's a type of mind sync between those 2 types - for sure. Thanks for watching, Deon. 🙂
It is insane how I can relate to so much from ESTP's, these 5 included, and yet I don't" live it", but it is "there"/here inside. It does play out in certain settings, moments and mind states, but certainly not the "typical case" of the everyday life.
Hi! ISFP, 4w5 here.
I find you guys inspirational. Your can-do attitude and objective look at ‘failures’ is refreshing to me. Your energy to get things going is admirable.
Also, I found it funny how your kinetic orientation shows in the video, e.g. moving around in the chair, standing up, smoking, drinking, kneading a ball etc. It is quite telling.
You’ve got a cool air around you.
I find your Introverted Thinking auxiliary very helpful. In contrast to Fi (my lead function), and an Enneagram type 4’s identification with feelings, you are so much more factual and objective thanks to your Ti. It must be helpful in navigating the world :).
Thanks Joyce for this panel ;)
Thank you for the kind comments!
I think it confirms my ESTP in that I finished my second session listening to this, but haven't gotten through it all because it is so long. Gotta Run! LOL
Haha! No worries, it's pretty comprehensive. Thanks for chipping at the video bit by bit!
As an Infj if I can choose I want to be an Estp...or Entp, but I think the Estp are able to create the most fun in life
Really enjoying this, and I can see you are still holding back, so estp in new situation your se gathering is just somewhat more than reacting, after 2 or 3 of these working together it will be way more se reaction
Baaf yesss!!! Don't mess with my tribe!! Trrrruue!
Joyce gurl WTF 🤣 erm it’s hilarious watching you try not to laugh 🤣
I totally get what Daniel is saying about needing energy to feed/play off to record videos.
1:35:16
Omg my ESTP flatmate is like that
He says shit like "I did all my research, and this is the most cost-efficient headphones. And I just spent 50% of the original price to get the same item damn I am good"
I don’t know what it is, quite, but Joyce your intro/music choice is absolutely iconic and sets such an upbeat, chill vibe for the following discussions. Thank you for being so consistent with these chats!!!
Thank you so much 🤗 Your supportiveness is appreciated! Glad you like the musical accompaniment, Reed. It's meant to set a mood of comfortability, so I'm happy it's doing its job! haha
This has been one of the few long youtube videos I have watched. I was on one of these panels and never even watched even our own video. Love you guys and now I can identify many ESTPs around me.
These are such COOL people. 🔥 There's a badass vibe to them.
I love Type Talks, it has made 2020 and 2021 much better.
😃 Gosh that is so sweet. That made me unbelievably happy to read, Rachel!
Thanks for having us Joyce :) was fun!
You are so welcome! It was super fun chatting, Jethro!! :)
I love ESTPs, great video. ~esfp
You Se doms are truly fantastic! Thank you for watching, Zoya. x
I don’t have many ESTPs in my life.. They seem really interesting. I would love to get to know them more. As an ENFP I think we see the world very differently. Ne-Fi & Se-Ti could not be more opposite. 😬😅
We are so different but i love the ESTPs in my life- just engaging and fun convos and things to do!
Thanks for your reply @@PsychologyandChillwMichi !! YES!! I've found that convos with ESFPs have opened my mind so much!! Would love to experience more ESTPs!! :)
My uni friend is an ENFP I admire our differences, the way we balance each other’s life is awesome
😊
Your last sentence yes. My mother ENFP and step father ESTP are a perfect example of that. It is a complete shit show in my opinion.
Love this video as usual!! I’m really interested to see a panel of Estp and Esfps interacting. Would you be able to do that panel like that in the future Joyce? Thank you again for making these wonderful videos!
I volunteer for this idea
Great suggestion! Totally making this idea a reality soon and including @Flow State in the madness. :)
My Husbands favorite saying “No problems only solutions “
Totally relate to the "first half of the movie" thing. -estp
Liking the rise in action is super ESTP! 🔥
INFJ here but I'm loving, everything about this 💞💞💞 😊👍 I'm neurodivergent and identify with some things ppl have said here. Sometimes I wonder if Fe and Se are one in the same thing sometimes although I know it's not.
I am a 8w7 but also very high in 5 and 1. I relate very well with ESTP/ENTP but also INTP and ISTP. I don't feel like I fit into just one of the 16 types.
I can relate to everything except the movie thing. I like movie (although more tv shows than movies). However, the second part of the movie is usually less interesting indeed.
Also I feel like ESTP’s are rare too! Are female ISTP’s & ESTP’s actually more rare than INFJ’s?
Absolutely not the case, regarding your question.
There are however a lot of INFJs in these areas of interest, and on the internet. Don't let that create the worldview in this regard. In other words, don't let that limited input make a (possible)conclusion overtime (output) that INFJs are "not so rare as typically is being said". It is just that "we" are massed around these topics.
I have met 4 INFJs in my life that I'm aware of, all of them the last 1 year and 3 of them the last 2 months, due to the internet, every single one of them.
I'll add though, I don't know any ISTP and ESTP women, but I'd sure love to.
I grew up with several ESTPs, I have had several ESTPs in my life, so I don't see how you would get that conclusion. They might be rare on the internet tho, because most of them are out doing something. Remember that several ESTPs can be mistyped as ENTPs because Se is so often misunderstood. Also ESTPs can seem like a judger because Se and Ti makes them be both extremely active and very intellectually driven, it is no surprise they are often entrepreneurs because of that. Also ExTPs are not as disagreeable as people think because of Fe on the third slot, I have noticed that several other types are more likely to want to argue and debate. ExTPs like discussing topics on a non emotional manner, if emotion gets involved they bail out.
One add to this, ESTPs do not generally value status for it's own sake. That's an SJ thing. We like quality and nice stuff for it's intrinsic value not, to impress people. We are not posers.
Flow State keeps getting talked over - as an enneagram 9 (INFJ) this is really annoying me!
Love Ennea 9 INFJs!!!
And yeah I "feel" these things big time also haha.
Haven't gotten far into this particular video yet though, didn't see the full thing yet to share a "full opinion" on this one.
I love what he has to share typically.
Lol actually it didn't bother me at all. I'm personally working on not talking over others/dominating conversations, so I'm taking this comment as a compliment! I'll find my balance
I resonate a lot, and am learning from the estp mentality, but damn try school in asia. it’s a hellhole. PTSD & depression at it’s finest. Istp here...
School in Asia sounds difficult. Hope you're okay ((Vincent))
I have a strong feeling that my fiancé might be an ESTP after watching this video!
Awesome!!!
Ok so cool to see ESTPs, my shadow types together! So fascinating as I find them quite rare as well. -INFJ
Agreed! ESTPs are magnificent beings. =]
there you go that sold me ESTP's can out drink any other type 😋
School for me was a very tuff experience. I never enjoyed to stay in class and listen to lecture. If I was forced to stay in class I usually disrupted the flow of the lesson in some way or another. A lot of the time I just skipped class. I got great grades in the subjects that interested me, but bearly passed all the other ones. Finished collage with A+ on my bachelor’s degree, because I enjoyed working on it in the last month, when all my colleagues worked all year on theirs. I had a colleague who had the best project, but messed up the presentation and got a bad grade, while I had a project full of bugs (that I was too lazy to fix, but I avoided while presenting) and nailed the presentation. I felt bad for him, but that’s life.
I think Jetplane48 might be ESFP.
Man I feel left out
Are you an ESTP? 😮
omg this is content
so much ESTP energy in 1 place haha!
Only ESTPs I met were bullies 😅
😢 there are bad guys in every type I guess ❤
As an INFP I find ESTP intimidating, loud and dismissive
Hey ESTP’s can a relationship with a woman INTJ work in your opinion? Thanks!
Female Estp here, yeah as long as both the types are mature and ready to understand each other and work together on strengthening their relationship, than mbti shouldn’t be an issue.
I'm an EII in Socionics - so I'm Se (extroverted sensing) blind. Could that be the reason why I don't enjoy action movies at all?
1.16 Yes Jet, I experience this too.
26:55 and that's why I love ESTPs :D
Jet, MY MAN! 40:50 and around, yes!
damn, ESTPs are inspirational
am i INFJ or ESTP ?
If you tend to get tired from intense sensory stimuli, extraverting and acting for a long period of time, chances are you are an INFJ.
I appreciate Shan the ENTJ, she's very real and I respect her and think she deserves success but absolutely loathe David Letterman the ENTJ.. when he had the Late Night Show at least..
Kate I think you're awesome ♡
Jetplanet I think is too far away from the camera and I don't trust that, I feel like you think you're better than everybody else... even though you don't.. you contribute.. but your lighting and the distance..
Flow State is funny, I can definitely see his ADHD ... wait.. where's he gone? Hehe
INTJ... I really like the sense of humor here haha
i like estps...all of them...
-entj
1:13:00 the only problem with Daniel's Libertarian view here is the simple fact that all actions ultimately effect everyone else even the unconsciousness of the careless ESTP. They are just better at throwing off or choosing to be blind to the effects. Cannot connect the Ni dots.
There's definitely a mistyping here... Or two
Oh? Who do you think? Pretty bold to claim mistypings without backing up that claim.
@@PsychologyandChillwMichi I'm bold I guess... Crazy like that... Lol. I sense entp with the blonde gal... You wouldn't want to read why... Boring
@@PsychologyandChillwMichi Personality theory (specifically MBTI) has gotten so watered down and misunderstood the past couple decades it's sad (and frustrating)... Can be a very useful tool. Social media and unqualified "pundits" have all but ruined the industry. When I took a personality assessment (mbti and enneagram) in the 90's (I was a kid... Ha), I answered over 1000 questions and later did a full hour 1:1 assessment... By a counseling psychologist. There is more misinformation floating around the personal theory world than useful information. You're channel and this one are pretty good, but there are few and far between. Keeping it real, you all aren't social scientists... No offense😁. I still enjoy, tho... Good job keeping the interest alive.
Everyone knows Joyce is secretly an ESTP too ;)
@@sticknaw1 Well, the blond gal did use to think she was ENTP for quite some time. I'm curious if you could elaborate on why you think ENTP.
As for the theory -- I agree it's very muddy. The thing is, there are people out there spreading stereotypes because they enjoy it. I used to be one of them, but it's part of the excitement about learning MBTI. That being said, I don't think just because something was around for a long time that it is necessarily completely correct. Theories need to adapt over time. I see people sharing their thoughts and insights as a way to further develop the understanding of MBTI. Conversations where we discuss a person's type help us understand where our understandings do not align. The point of it is to understand people at the end of the day, not to be right, so i'm not sure how important it is that the theory is perfect anyway. People, humans, will continue to adapt and change over time. Even if we perfected MBTI right now, the likeliness is that in 100 years it will be completely outdated as there will be new types of people.
Kate gives ENTP vibes actually
Kate totally has the same mannerisms and habits as I (estp) do on Zoom. 🙂
Jet plane is breathing these clouds wtf lizard people bearded dragon??