How to be yourself: kill the inner nice guy and stop people pleasing

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  • @OliverCowlishaw
    @OliverCowlishaw  หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    How to be fully yourself...
    Identify inauthentic behaviours, uncover the root thoughts/fears/emotions behind them and get clear on what an authentic version looks like. I created a resource that does all of this and more.
    Download your free authenticity journal here: www.olivercowlishaw.com/7-day-authenticity-journal

  • @Mephmt
    @Mephmt หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    To anyone who realizes this speaks to you, I can't recommend Oliver's courses enough!! The men's circles work!

  • @tomh1593
    @tomh1593 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    When I was kid i was myself but then negative things started happening. Bullying, getting rejected, being called ugly. It alters your behavior...

  • @ryaneliasbaker
    @ryaneliasbaker 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thanks man. I was anxious on my way to work because I tend to be a chameleon and I’m trying not to be. You made my heart feel calm. Keep doing what you’re doing, man

  • @agdnetto
    @agdnetto หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Every single one of your videos sounds like you're speaking directly to me. Thanks for your work

  • @traceyseymour2652
    @traceyseymour2652 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This isn't just for guys. I am so glad I stumbled across your chanel. Step-dad wound. Numbing out on antidepressants. Drinking too much. People pleaser still at the age of 60! I am almost off my antidepressants, after 30 years on them, and finally taking control. Numbing out doesn't help. As you say you need to do the tough work. Embracing your anxiety instead of running away/hiding from it is the best advice I have ever heard and I am now doing just that. Bless you, keep bringing us to the best we can be. Can't thank you enough young man ❤❤❤

    • @OliverCowlishaw
      @OliverCowlishaw  27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thankyou for sharing that, Tracy. Appreciate your support :)

  • @dailyrepsofficial
    @dailyrepsofficial หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Being yourself is the ultimate act of courage.
    As Ralph Waldo Emerson said, 'To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.'
    Embrace your true self and let authenticity guide your path

  • @WarriorPrime1
    @WarriorPrime1 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Excellent presentation. as usual. thank you,

  • @jonbrouwer4300
    @jonbrouwer4300 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Solid gold. Years of wisdom right here, distilled into 10 minutes of clear information with 0% bullshit and fluff. In the good timeline, this is what everything on TH-cam looks like.
    Signing up for that group!

    • @OliverCowlishaw
      @OliverCowlishaw  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This means a lot. It's exactly how I want this channel to be.

  • @lawrencepetruzzelli
    @lawrencepetruzzelli หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is so spot on!

  • @schoolneverteach
    @schoolneverteach หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great tip!🎉❤

  • @davidpp330
    @davidpp330 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I hate myself and it’s been that way my whole life.

    • @OliverCowlishaw
      @OliverCowlishaw  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Are you willing and ready to change?
      Or will you choose to continue hating yourself from this point onwards?
      We didn't create the inner critic. But we, and only we, are responsible for dealing with him.

  • @johnjennings9693
    @johnjennings9693 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Good job but I do keep energy drainers at more than arms length, thanks for the video the inner work is essential,

  • @JohnnyAllan-vj7sj
    @JohnnyAllan-vj7sj หลายเดือนก่อน

    My dyslexic ass mixed the 4th and 5th words of the title...
    (And didn't even see the "be")

  • @adrianhigh4210
    @adrianhigh4210 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Have you read Robert A Glover "No more Mr Nice Guy" ? Its a book full of authentici solutions. Some of which are out of fashion. We are talking about Autonomy toW

    • @OliverCowlishaw
      @OliverCowlishaw  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Absolutely. It's essential reading for men in my opinion.

  • @LOOP312
    @LOOP312 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    1st comment

  • @timefades27
    @timefades27 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I need to know if you're the guy from cracker milk 😂

  • @Divyv520
    @Divyv520 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hey Oliver , really nice video ! I was wondering if I could help you with more Quality Editing in your videos and also make a highly engaging Thumbnail and also help you with the overall youtube strategy and growth ! Pls let me know what do you think ?

  • @salimboudjema6018
    @salimboudjema6018 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The average self-centered hyper-individualist digital nomad/gentrifier/colonizer be like:

  • @KyleValet
    @KyleValet หลายเดือนก่อน +2