How to be yourself: kill the inner nice guy & awaken the rage demon
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 ต.ค. 2024
- Make friends with the anger within you.
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I so resonate with everything you say ! I was brought up being told how wonderful it is that I am such a ' nice guy ' ! It was always in my nature to run around , checking on everyone , making sure everyone was okay , constantly supporting , worrying , reaching out , and yet I still always ended up isolated and completely alone . Then you wake up and realise NO-ONE ever does ANY of this for YOU ,, so you get frustrated , you get sad , you get ANGRY ! This is not the way things should be , why aren't I more popular ? Why aren't I more respected ? Why do people ignore me and never reach out to me ?!! My weakness was always my need to people please , and apart from a couple of extremely manipulative and controlling toxic narcissists , most people sense it and will stay away ! My first step was to learn to become more comfortable with my own company , the second was to trust my OWN answers again , and the third was to let go of my frustration and anger for good ! 🙏💪❤
There is no inner nice guy. There is only an outer nice guy that's a coping mechanism for survival.
there is... social anxiety for example makes u fake nice
Why do we have empathy? If I was to give money to a homeless person who in no way benefits me how would that be a survival mechanism. If anything I am $10 worse off, why do selfless acts get marked as selfish through the concept of "survival mechanisms". If a car was coming and you didn't see it, and I threw you out of the way and I got hit instead.
Would that just be a survival mechanism or are we capable of more? What would that entail? Would sacrificing myself just be a coping mechanism? Or is there some actual meaning and value to altruism?
Very well explained thank you
Paused at 4:53 to comment. Thus far in this video we have been on the same path. I, too, had been fearful of my inner strength...of what I might say or do if I let myself go. A few times in my life I actually did rage, and it scared the hell out of me - not wanting to harm anyone, I monitored myself once again. Now I have learned what my boudaries are, that I am a person worthy of the respect I show to others...and most importantly, that I insist on teceiving that respect. This either works to correct a situation, or I leave the person completely.
I resonated with what you said about your art when you were a kid. I found I could draw pretty well when I was about 11 and drew obsessively for years, I started drawing really gory violent stuff like you did, war scenes, lots of blood. My parents were concerned and spoke to my teacher when I was 12 years old and she told them she felt I was just venting my feelings. What a cool teacher. I was being bullied and that's how it played out. I became a professional artist and designer later in life.
I want to talk about how helpful your message are but I gtg,just remember that you have help someone in some way and that person is grateful and are subcibed
Meditation helps me to stop suppressing anger and other emotions. When we let it out, we heal.
I don't call it rage demon ... I call it sigma mode
Good video mate, I reckon lots of lads needed to hear that there were other people in the same boat. Anger can be chaotic but it can fuel you like nothing else.
True,but there is a destructive side to that too.Testosteron levels and the need for there expression varies from man to man
i have a inner savage! never did until my wife admitted to having an affair with best friend,
suddenly he was there right at my side and he hasn’t left me since and that was 28 yrs ago! i take no shit from anyone now, and as for the ex best friend he ran back to his wife and joined a church! as they say revenge is a dish best served cold, my time will come.
thanks for video 👍👍
I used to belittle myself to please other men... and I just realized this not long ago.
it takes more to keep in 'the savage' than to let him out
What if you’re the opposite? I have ASPD, I struggle to be nice sometimes
You not clipping that mic to your tshirt made me angry
Jokes, good video!
I'm so short sighted you may as well ask Stevie Wonder to fight.Unless my backs against the wall avoidence is a necessary servivial tactic.Cheetahs don't servive by fighting Lions
Least red pilled human on yt.
3 min video into 13 mins, well done mate. Got plenty of rage out listening to 10 mins of twaddle.
Fair enough, mate. I'm not everyone's cup of tea. Hope you got some value though. Take care 🙏🏻
I feel at this point i don't even have a rage demon
Amazing video!
this is a good vid
When you just don't care anymore.
But everyones got some shite to say about your thinking.
lol Fuck em IDGAF
ty !!
Does one awaken his dragon at night? 🥴
Tsar Pu Tin is YOUR BEST Dis Ciple
He kills all nice Guys
the others too
Demonic Rage
Works!
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