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  • @KaraNolting
    @KaraNolting 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2682

    Listening to the part where his best friend quit his job to stay and help...wow absolutely incredible.

    • @MrJtin69
      @MrJtin69 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      True ride or die

    • @javicoca
      @javicoca 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Yeah, that really got me thinking

    • @Lights480
      @Lights480 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      yes.

    • @joshwelker3507
      @joshwelker3507 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      A real friend like this is very rare

    • @fleetsiderebel8274
      @fleetsiderebel8274 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      I couldn't imagine another human being that kind to me.

  • @MrFluffums123
    @MrFluffums123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1253

    The most incredible part to me, is how his body has changed so much, but he approaches, sits, and look at the camera with complete confidence. What a badass

    • @ryanjofre
      @ryanjofre 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Amen

    • @kaitlynh2574
      @kaitlynh2574 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Absolutely!! Also he speaks incredibly clearly

    • @foreskinpolice
      @foreskinpolice 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Foreskin boy confidence. His genitals weren’t destroyed at birth like mine .

    • @DopePocket
      @DopePocket 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen

    • @Dutezy
      @Dutezy ปีที่แล้ว

      @@foreskinpolice wow 😭

  • @laurabeaton490
    @laurabeaton490 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2570

    I watched a documentary a couple of years ago, broke my heart seeing him struggle to deal with this. Stayed in my mind and watching this makes me happy to see he's doing OK. Keep strong x

    • @squidbanana9514
      @squidbanana9514 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      me, too. so glad he is well

    • @sa-ren2890
      @sa-ren2890 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Same. He is so brave and courageous, even after all of that, but he's still an average guy.

    • @ChrissyGreen
      @ChrissyGreen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Same

    • @Ozzyjuli
      @Ozzyjuli 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same!

    • @minsh5675
      @minsh5675 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/palr2pDa_zo/w-d-xo.html

  • @lusingapkiala1567
    @lusingapkiala1567 ปีที่แล้ว +336

    I teared up when he mentioned that his friend quit his job to help take care of him, because to go through what he did and just listening to how he was so upset about not being able to do anything and just feeling down. I hope he remains in a good head space, the people you have around you really matters.

  • @that1guy899
    @that1guy899 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1298

    That'd be terribly heart breaking to see your own child hide from you like this! I really feel for this man. It's awesome to see even after all that, he's still positive and wanting to live for his family. I really hope this device he's talking about allow(s) him to hit a golf ball and get back to his favorite activity!

    • @Ave_Satana666
      @Ave_Satana666 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It is inside us all

    • @Ave_Satana666
      @Ave_Satana666 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The power

    • @Ave_Satana666
      @Ave_Satana666 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Looks like an iron maiden cover

    • @fredtaylor9792
      @fredtaylor9792 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I picked my son up once when he was 3 and lost my balance a little.. it really was no big deal and I wasn't close to falling over but didn't matter. From that point on my little boy was terrified of anyone picking him up. Not being able to pick him up and hold him was horrible but I can't imagine him not wanting to look at me.

    • @carmencitasauner5033
      @carmencitasauner5033 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I don't know how to expressed my feelings but I wished 😕 to 😇 God there will never more of all the uncertainties , discrepancies turmoils & All ,pls. Lord hear our prayers!! Hallelujah 3!! CHEERS c 🍻 👏 ✌️ 🥂 🍻

  • @dmra1929
    @dmra1929 2 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    Stories like this really make you think about how our individual lives will develop. I'm 23 years old, and to think, like, this guy when he was 23 never in a million years thought that by his current age, he'd have lost all his limbs and have his life altered in such a way. Where will we all be in 10 years? Where will we all be TOMORROW? I could climb an extension ladder tomorrow, as I have every day for the passed decade, and this time slip and fall to my death. Maybe become paralyzed for the rest of my life or something life altering like that. It's a crazy life we live. Makes you thankful for every day you can still take a breath, or step out of bed in the morning. Bless this man and all he's done in spite of his condition. Amazing story.

    • @Smarterthanyew
      @Smarterthanyew 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      'Where will we all be tomorrow?'- are you aware (i think you are from the rest of your post) of how profound that seemingly simple question is? The future is a foreign country, and none of us know the terrain or the language. Without a belief in God, which many of us do not have, all we have is hope that tomorrow contrives to keep safe.
      I morbidly thought of serial killers the other day after watching Dahmer. Can you imagine ending up helpless in the lair of a serial killer who is about to torture you to death? That's a fate noone expects to happen to them too, and is probably the single worst fate that can befall anyone.
      Or imagine merely being hit by a car or a bus a common occurence which could kill or maim you for life.
      In fact there are an infinite number of ways to die or be injured, and it is a bloody surprise that we often reach our eighties. Growing old is a precious gift afforded to only the lucky, which is why it's so weird that people disparage and fight against it so often. There is nothing more powerful or beautiful than a contented elderly person. They've survived everything. We should all respect the old far more than we do.

    • @fbiagent3998
      @fbiagent3998 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bruh idk

  • @nomaddiaries9790
    @nomaddiaries9790 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    That part when they asked about what he does now. I almost burst into tears. He's a public speaker, Director of Alex lewis Trust, Director World Wheel Chairs Project. Alex you're really superhuman. I'm sitting here with 4 limbs trying to figure my own life out.

  • @JinNOSify
    @JinNOSify 2 ปีที่แล้ว +519

    I remember watching a documentary about this man. Not ashamed to say that I cried while watching/listening to his story.....a lot. Man is incredibly inspirational.

    • @_Swanflea
      @_Swanflea 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Me too ! That documentary is a few years old, it was heartbreaking. Glad to see he's doing better now.

  • @oppoh739
    @oppoh739 2 ปีที่แล้ว +315

    Give his friend an award while you receive one sir. What an absolute gem to give up his life for his brother. Your life was a double edged sword at that point and your buddy was the sharpener to bring it back to its former glory. Salute to you both.

    • @Tre16
      @Tre16 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Participation awards for everyone?

    • @KiraHunter2310
      @KiraHunter2310 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Tre16 oh shut up

  • @weronikalinda4917
    @weronikalinda4917 2 ปีที่แล้ว +293

    The friend who moved in with him for 6 months just to help out is the kind of friend we all need ❤ Amazing story of a beautiful person getting though the impossible and becoming even stronger and more wonderful.

    • @SignOfTheTimes008
      @SignOfTheTimes008 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Wonderful kind spirited comment. He's strong to be out there telling his story and staying positive.

    • @Myhalamanz
      @Myhalamanz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      and what we all should strive to be

    • @tjhoss6729
      @tjhoss6729 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agree His friend is a true friend, nevertheless We do have a friend much greater than than his friend..... His name is Jesus..... God humbled HIMSELF took on FLESH Live a PERFECT SINLESS LIFE to be handed over By Ponchos Pilot to be Slapped, spit on, to be flogged to the degree all HIS bones were showing, forced to Carry HIS cross only to be crucified on it.... Buried in a rich man's tomb... 3 days later rose from the dead defeating death so that we too Can have everlasting life with HIM If we repent and believe the Gospel
      Acts 17:30.
      Jesus said MY sheep hear MY voice and I know Them and "they" follow ME.
      The question is..... Do you know JESUS???
      For on that day "many" will say to Jesus Lord, Lord and Jesus will say depart from ME, I never knew you......
      Make sure He knows You.....
      We speak to HIM through prayer, HE speaks to us through HIS WORD.🙏

    • @vivienm2037
      @vivienm2037 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It is more like he is the kind of friend you want to be yourself. You don't deserve one if you are not one of them. Sorry.

    • @tjhoss6729
      @tjhoss6729 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@vivienm2037 That Made
      N0 since at all. Please try again. 1st realize time counted backwards And switched at a certain time... In other words it went from BC to AD. All historical evidence not mine but historical, Christian and non Christian all confirmed The split was When Jesus Christ Who is....God in flesh Humbled HIMSELF and became a man.... Also did you know all languages flow in the direction of Israel?
      No matter where their location.....
      Why is it that Israel is hated so much?
      It's because Evil cannot stand the light.
      The reason why you hate God is the same reason a thief hates cops....Have You ever watch a high speed Chase on TV???
      The helicopter is overhead and the persons in the car trying to outrun the cops.... The law breaker keeps breaking more and more laws.... THAT'S YOU!!!! Storing up God's wrath For the day of your judgment.... You would never say a painting painted itself or a bridge built itself but you're saying creation, created itself.
      Not too smart when you think about it....🥴.... You're willing to believe that so that you can continue living a life in rebellion against God.... Our world drinks down sin like it was water... You tell somebody there a SINNER People will laugh and say I know...... But they don't know how Righteous God and loving God is..... And because HE is loving SIN cannot go unpunished. But God did not leave us helpless he said HE sent HIS SON. Jesus is the only way out. Hope this helps You to wake up from your deep sleep and stop walking on the wide road that leads to destruction...... Love you too much not to tell you the truth.😊🤗❤🙏

  • @joshkirk8816
    @joshkirk8816 2 ปีที่แล้ว +850

    Such a brave and articulate guy. Stay positive my man!

    • @majkeltm
      @majkeltm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes, very brave to never want to work and drink around his kids! Such a brave man, wow :o

    • @tamthebam7323
      @tamthebam7323 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@majkeltm he’s admitting his errors!

    • @ashmccutcheon4990
      @ashmccutcheon4990 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I really hope this man gets to hit his golf ball. What a legend

    • @VoidHalo
      @VoidHalo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@majkeltm I guess you didn't watch the rest then, huh? Either that or redemption is meaningless to you. In which case, I would be very worried if I were in your shoes. Either way, it sounds to me like you should maybe take a look at yourself before judging other people.

    • @Elwene2fr
      @Elwene2fr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@majkeltm No one becomes an alcoholic by choice. No one WANTS to end up like this. People need to understand that alcoholism is an illness (for that you need to have a littje compassion and stop thinking you're the center of the universe). It's an illness that can hit ANYBODY. It doesn't have anything to do with how smart you are.
      When people understand that, maybe we can go forward and start treating the horror this illness is.

  • @bsaget98
    @bsaget98 ปีที่แล้ว +220

    Fellow alcoholic: it's not seriously within the scope of discussion here but it's interesting how briefly he touched on his alcohol use before the amputation. He seems to begrudgingly admit it but that's most likely why the illness almost killed him. It lowers your body's immune response and makes you not care for yourself. Another risk of heavy drinking nobody really talks about...

    • @OfficialMyxomatosis
      @OfficialMyxomatosis ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Thank you. The only child of a lifelong alcoholic here, he refused to admit it his entire life. Even when I ran away at 16 because of his drinking, but I returned two years later. The stress of my leaving brought his M.S. out of remission, and I had to go back and care for him.
      He was never abusive. He drank away his trauma.
      He still never talked about it when he was dying of cancer at 52 years old when I was 26. One nurse in the oncology suite said, "Wow-those M.S. drugs did a number on your dad's brain all these years. His scan just now was worse than swiss cheese." For the first time in my life, I broke OUR invisible Father/daughter's secret of shame and replied, "No, he never took M.S. meds. He's just a drunk. And gin, if you have it."
      I see it like yesterday, every second, and I am almost his age then.

    • @condorsouthernlands4730
      @condorsouthernlands4730 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I felt that too. Hot and cold sweats are the worst. Calling dial bottle for medicinal mickies, having to take baby aspirin to slow my heart and stop seizures. Drinking cases of water in a day. I was in my early twenties lol. To think this could have happened to me is insane. Glad I quit

    • @ragingsaviorkami9862
      @ragingsaviorkami9862 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@OfficialMyxomatosis Oh my God. That must've been horrible.
      My grandpa was a drunk, but be admitted himself to the clinic saying he has a problem, and quit it...
      I'm currently 26 and I use every opportunity to get drunk and consume weed, also to escape from trauma. Also a heavy smoker. I used to take antidepresants and whatnot, been to multiple therapists and psychiatrists, and none of the meds or therapies ever helped.
      It makes me want to quit, honestly, thinking about my future children, which I'll probably never have, because I'm an asshole of a person whom nobody cares about and there's not a woman out there that would bear me children... at least, not a woman that I would want. Then again, I have nothing going on for me, nothing to show for, nothing worthwhile.
      I'll probably die alone, and the sooner it happens the better for everyone, even my non-yet-existent children.

    • @Les_Grossman80
      @Les_Grossman80 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@ragingsaviorkami9862 no one can help you if you don't want to help yourself.

    • @ilya1421
      @ilya1421 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ragingsaviorkami9862 start the self therapy, probably Karen Horny's "Self-analysis" ist the best to start
      And something out of Irvin Yalom on your consideration

  • @pondlakes
    @pondlakes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    No arms or legs, but more of a man than most. Inspiring story, and someone people should admire.

  • @Johnboysmudge
    @Johnboysmudge 2 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    What a story and what a brave guy. The parts with the Labrador and the best friend really hit me. Also huge respect for the nurse that noticed he was going downhill & did her best to fix it. Legend.

  • @SJR_Media_Group
    @SJR_Media_Group 2 ปีที่แล้ว +659

    Powerful story about a tragic disease, Alex is lucky to be alive. He actually survived 2 diseases that could have killed him; Toxic Shock and Alcoholism. I saw another story on line yesterday about a student who ate some left over food and got a rare form of Meningitis and Strep A also. It turned his blood into poison, he too lost all of his limbs. We don't want to be alarmist and rush to ER every time we are sick, but it could save your life.

    • @mattyboydabest97
      @mattyboydabest97 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Is that the guy who ate left over Chinese and lost both legs?

    • @reinao5208
      @reinao5208 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i'm pretty sure you cannot get these diseases from food. it's spread from person to person

    • @reinao5208
      @reinao5208 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@mattyboydabest97 yea but the student didn't have e. coli

    • @reinao5208
      @reinao5208 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      from what i could find online

    • @mattyboydabest97
      @mattyboydabest97 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@reinao5208 I stand corrected, Neisseria meningitidis is what the student had. Apparently 1 in 10 people are a carrier and it's spread through saliva

  • @cornellkirk8946
    @cornellkirk8946 2 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Gives me chills hearing this, I had meningitis and sepsis when I was 21. Initially my family had been told I was going to die that night, then both my legs would be amputated…. I ended up just losing a few toes. I’m one of the lucky ones ❤️

    • @Jdp313
      @Jdp313 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Jesus i can’t imagine hearing that. Glad you were ok

    • @xBeast04x
      @xBeast04x 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How did you catch it?

    • @cornellkirk8946
      @cornellkirk8946 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@xBeast04x they don’t know how I caught it. I had been working on a cruise ship though so was around lots of different people from all over the world

    • @xBeast04x
      @xBeast04x 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@cornellkirk8946 scary, glad you were ultimately okay.

    • @cornellkirk8946
      @cornellkirk8946 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@xBeast04x thanks mate, I was kinda ok… 3 weeks ago I ended up in hospital with stage 4 heart failure! Stage 5 is being in a box in the ground 😂 they have it down to between 2 and 3 now. Everything’s much harder to do like keep working as hard as I do but no one lives forever and this is all extra time after the sepsis. I have no children I’ve had a good life so whatever I have left is what it is!
      Just goes to show how fragile life is!

  • @23base1
    @23base1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    His Best Friend is a friend you’d kill for what a guy man

  • @therealcbumstead
    @therealcbumstead 2 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Been watching the full documentary on the dude at least once a year up until now. His willpower is just something else.

  • @sarahmichie4382
    @sarahmichie4382 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    My auntie developed Sepsis from a papercut a few years ago and she lost her limbs too. Alex's best friend told me all about Alex and how he'd gotten through it, which really inspired me and people like Alex provide so much hope for other sepsis victims. Thank you for sharing your story.

    • @derpnerpwerp
      @derpnerpwerp ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Ahh this has got me a little worried now.. I cut my finger open on a can of bean dip pretty deep the other day.. probably got the dip in the wound. I washed it really well and put triple antibiotic cream on it though. Crazy how a tiny little wound can literally kill you

    • @k3wlkid66
      @k3wlkid66 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Yo this comment is too scary for the internet.

    • @sarahmichie4382
      @sarahmichie4382 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@derpnerpwerp we think she must have touched a handrail with bacteria on it which infected the wound before it healed. So if you clean cuts properly you're probably fine as long as you're careful to protect it whilst it heals. Sorry to be scary - but better to know and stay safe!

    • @derpnerpwerp
      @derpnerpwerp ปีที่แล้ว

      @Sarah Michie oh yeah, I mean even without touching anything there is bacteria all over your skin. There is about 2 to 6 lbs of microorganisms in or on the human body

    • @kheicee
      @kheicee ปีที่แล้ว +9

      what?? just from a papercut? omg.

  • @KE-xj9vm
    @KE-xj9vm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I love that he sees himself as lucky. That is the key to resilience. Not looking at what you’ve lost but looking at what you have

  • @saffronhunter1783
    @saffronhunter1783 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    A young girl called Jemma-Louise Roberts was just 13 when she died of Tss at my old high school. It broke the towns heart and her amazing mother has done beyond fantastic at raising crucial awareness in her daughters name

  • @narexadev
    @narexadev 2 ปีที่แล้ว +250

    What an absolutely incredible man, couldn't even imagine going through half of what he has gone through, nothing but respect.

    • @SpiritDonkey
      @SpiritDonkey 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Incredible man? He’s a selfish drunk

    • @narexadev
      @narexadev 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@SpiritDonkey Show some respect... You have no idea what could have led the guy to fall down a path of alcoholism.

  • @TheRealSlimSteve
    @TheRealSlimSteve 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    "I'm not a down kind of guy, but she could she I was clearly upset". Holy understatement shit. That is some balls from somebody who has gone through something which would fuck up pretty much everyone. Hats off Alex, and good luck mate.

  • @cosmicbubble12
    @cosmicbubble12 2 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    The son is the saddest thing.. what a man. Honestly, he’s more of a legend than all of us. I have major stomach issues that have made me debate suicide a few times but things like this make you keep soldiering

    • @robovac3557
      @robovac3557 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      You keep on soldiering on now, ya hear. Good man.

    • @halo218813
      @halo218813 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Please remember suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Even when it feels like it will never get better, someday it will. Look to God for comfort, I will pray His angels hold you ♥️

    • @cosmicbubble12
      @cosmicbubble12 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@robovac3557 my guy 👊

    • @cosmicbubble12
      @cosmicbubble12 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@halo218813 thank you. I really hope so

    • @mrsoft7022
      @mrsoft7022 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How is he a legend?

  • @bradleypariah
    @bradleypariah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I recently spilled a great deal of smoking hot oil on myself. Started a house fire in the process. Third degree, "full thickness" burns. Back of my right hand and around my wrist, left fingers, down my belly, my left shin, the tops of both feet, and the underside of my right foot. Melted the clothing right off me. I haven't really felt sorry for myself, per se, I attacked my physical therapy with persistence and vigor, and I'm getting better, despite my seemingly inevitable scars. However, I've had a severe case of "FML" for months now. I am certainly not becoming any happier by watching this, but it does put things in perspective. It shows me that while a lot is upsetting me about life right now, I still have cause to be thankful. I truly hate the "it could be worse!" argument, but it's infallible.

    • @dickmonkey-king1271
      @dickmonkey-king1271 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It does help and it's worth digging into. Ultimately, only you can look after your mind, and whether you find peace and live a happy life, or exist in turmoil, will come down to what you choose to do with your mind and how much effort you put in. There's a great book called The Art of Happiness written by the Dalai Lama that is full of methods on how to think in order to reduce suffering and increase happiness. Very simple and accessible, but very profound in its benefits. You have the power in your mind to gain so much benefit from this situation that one day you are glad it happened. That's quite a statement, aye? But that's my challenge to you. You can do it.

    • @a.marvellehoneyman4560
      @a.marvellehoneyman4560 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I’m sorry to hear that happened to you, it must be so painful. Hang on, your life is so important! Perspective is helpful. Thank you for sharing

    • @margaretgarana911
      @margaretgarana911 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You will get there!!!!

  • @2bobbillionaire306
    @2bobbillionaire306 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    "Limb loss is the best thing that ever happened to me".... WOW!!
    It takes a special type of person to have that kind of vision and clarity after experiencing something so horrifying. Amazing person, i wish him and his family all the very best.

  • @Justakidthatrantsisapimp
    @Justakidthatrantsisapimp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    For everything he went through, he still honestly looks great.

    • @aify5883
      @aify5883 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just missing all his limbs...

    • @HannibalKantter
      @HannibalKantter 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      His mouth looks like if someone has pasted it over his real one using CGI lmao

    • @The_Flying_Arrowz369
      @The_Flying_Arrowz369 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Go bionic

    • @NameSpaceVoid
      @NameSpaceVoid 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Are you kidding me? If that happened to me I'd be better off dead, not even a doubt in my mind. Give me a steak, a bottle of Jack, and a hot dose and let's get this over with. A life with no limbs is not a life I'd be interested in living

    • @Justakidthatrantsisapimp
      @Justakidthatrantsisapimp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@NameSpaceVoid Okay, but you're not him. This is completely unrelated to my comment.

  • @skiii1787
    @skiii1787 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    What a man…Makes you realise that sometimes we have minor problems we believe are major problems that mean the end of the world, when in reality there are people who have to go through horrors like this and still find a reason to go on. Respect

  • @lolwutguise
    @lolwutguise 2 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    I've been worried about him since I saw a documentary so I'm glad to see he's out here making it.

    • @surfsessions100
      @surfsessions100 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi what was documentary name?

    • @beth6288
      @beth6288 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@surfsessions100 storey of Alex Lewis

    • @surfsessions100
      @surfsessions100 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@beth6288 thank you very much

  • @duanemcneill6237
    @duanemcneill6237 2 ปีที่แล้ว +211

    I had this same issue in 2015! I lucked out and went to the hospital a bit quicker than this poor guy. Still lost about 50lbs of flesh from my right side and spent 12 days in the hospital. I've never been the same mentally or physically since. Scary to see what could have happened to me.

    • @tomymelon6293
      @tomymelon6293 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      What made you decide to visit the hospital? What was your experience like?

    • @duanemcneill6237
      @duanemcneill6237 2 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      @@tomymelon6293 I woke up one morning and might right arm couldn't move at all and I couldn't get off my couch. So my mother came to take my kids to school and made me go. Took 5 days before they figured out what was wrong and I got out of quarantine and they did surgery on my right side. Took about 50 lbs of flesh out of me from my chest and under my arm and down my side. It had started migrating across my chest that morning and I couldn't breathe which is why they decided on surgery. I didn't lose any limbs and only had to spend 2 weeks in the hospital thankfully. I haven't been the same mentally since as every time I get the slightest cold I'm scared as hell. Single dad and was damn scared I'd be leaving my kids all alone.

    • @marthareis5873
      @marthareis5873 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@duanemcneill6237 That sounds very scary. I can see why it would impact how you experience illness. I hope you find some relief from that trauma, wishing you the best.

    • @toper997
      @toper997 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@duanemcneill6237 Are you doing Ok now? Stay healthy!

    • @Johnny-tq9no
      @Johnny-tq9no 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How long were you sick before you went to the hospital?

  • @BluSpykz
    @BluSpykz ปีที่แล้ว +90

    "I contracted something called Strep-A, it's not well known in the UK."
    I assume this popped up in my recommended this week because Strep A is doing a number in the UK right now. I'm glad to see Alex is doing better than last time he was on film.

  • @fbbWaddell
    @fbbWaddell 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Beautiful story of how they allowed his dog in to see him. I love that the nurse understood the importance mental state and motivation. You can have the best care in the world and the best circumstances, but if you become depressed and give up, you will still die. Glad the hospital was willing to do what was necessary to give him the strength to carry on.

  • @lolly5453
    @lolly5453 2 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    Have never forgotten this guy since watching the film years ago, documenting his illness and early recovery, and I’ve continued to be amazed by his strength, his determination, the progress he’s made and his many achievements since then. A braver man than many, with a gem of a wife and son who I expect were a huge factor in his phenomenal recovery.
    It’s great to see how you’re doing, Alex - love that you continue to amaze and continue to beat the odds. You are a real powerhouse of a person, such a positive influence for so many others, making a massive difference to those who need it most. 100% respect, and wishing all the love, happiness and success in the world for you and yours!! 💖😁🙏🏼✨

  • @joseph7391
    @joseph7391 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your son will look at you with so much admiration. You are a wonderful, strong man. Glad you’re here 🫶🏻

  • @swiftbold9215
    @swiftbold9215 2 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    Stories like this one really gives you the "live everyday like it's your last" feeling. Unreal how a seemingly small illness like the man flu could eventually lead to this. Keep your head up sir!

  • @shaunehollenbach4651
    @shaunehollenbach4651 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    The part when he described his first interaction with his son broke my heart.. what a strong and inspiring man.. great interview..

  • @joemcguinness4146
    @joemcguinness4146 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Some parents could learn a lot from this man. Going through everything he has just to make it easier for his son

    • @hannahuselton
      @hannahuselton 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Any good parent would. My dad has gone through 3 years of kidney failure and dialysis 3 times a week never behind able to travel said he wanted to give up so many times but didn’t because of us just yesterday he got a kidney transplant from a Donor.

  • @bushratbeachbum
    @bushratbeachbum 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Im usually a relatively eloquent person but im absolutely unable to express my respect for this man.
    A true, true legend, that's for sure.

  • @guacamole8190
    @guacamole8190 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I hope this spreads the thought that anything can happen, even when you least expect it. Don’t take a moment for granted and stay with the ones that you love ❤️ have a great day 👍🏻.

  • @davekennedy6315
    @davekennedy6315 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    What a man! Hearing about his son cowering away from him broke my heart as I've got 3 children myself. I went through a marriage breakdown and custody battle that honestly had me pondering suicide. It was the thought of my children that stopped me, so (for considerably less reasons) I fully understand his words. He overcame major tribulations and came out the other side a truly better man. What an inspiration.

  • @somfs1459
    @somfs1459 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    such a strong soul with a good people around him my heart goes out to him

  • @davidrenton
    @davidrenton 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I remember watching a special about Alex Lewis a number of years ago, shoutout to Lucy his partner who was particularly Amazing and left an impression through commitment and determination, and both to Alex himself , what an incredible man

    • @BUG25985
      @BUG25985 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      For most/all of this vid it seems he didn't like/mention Lucy at all - good to hear she was at least there for him.

    • @ang1692
      @ang1692 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@BUG25985 he mentioned her at the beginning

  • @goliathprojects7354
    @goliathprojects7354 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm amazed how well he can talk again. I've seen a video of him after surgery and it's worlds apart

  • @bth-usa
    @bth-usa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Wow. This is enlightening, especially for me. I had toxic shock when I was a teen. I was flown to Kansas City hospital and admitted to ICU where I stayed for 3 weeks. I never imagined that it could have gotten this bad. I feel lucky to have made it out unscathed.

  • @kyleeconrad
    @kyleeconrad 2 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    My son got strep in his bloodstream from being vulnerable due to a broken leg hematoma and almost died. He wasn't even 2 years old. He's gonna be 13 in two weeks now. If it had stayed strep throat it wouldn't have been so bad. Strep and Staff are no joke!

    • @LS-fe4ob
      @LS-fe4ob 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So happy things worked out. Blessings to you and your family

  • @lhshnailed7523
    @lhshnailed7523 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Cannot imagine how much pain he was in. So glad he's doing better.

  • @Chiefsfan234
    @Chiefsfan234 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I’m a 51 year young man, who balled his eyes out, when he told the story of his dog coming into the room. Then, if that wasn’t enough the story of how much of a true Guardian Angel his friend who gave up his own life,(in essence) to take care of him-Wow, Anyway, it turned out to be soo positive, what an absolute bad ass!!!

  • @DG-me1mp
    @DG-me1mp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I know Lucy, his wife, since the time she used to come to the restaurant I used to manage in Winchester. What a positive person, what a fighter!

  • @tanzanite6695
    @tanzanite6695 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I remember watching a short documentary about you a long while ago.
    I'm so glad to see you're still going on strong, giving these interviews and not letting anything knock you down.
    I can't even start to comprehend your struggle so I won't disrespect you by trying to, but know everyone who watched this video certainly wishes you the best future. :)

  • @mattyboi7
    @mattyboi7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    The fact this man feels lucky whilst being a quadruple amputee is amazing always staying positive

  • @paulfletcher3998
    @paulfletcher3998 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I'm also a patient at Salisbury (Odstock) hospital.
    The staff in the Burns Unit / Plastic Surgery Unit are beyond excellent.
    I have nothing but the up most respect for every single one of them.
    Long live the NHS, we are so, so lucky to have it.

  • @gutz323
    @gutz323 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    What a great guy the friend was, that gave up his job and 6 months of his life to come and live with you to help you. I bet not many people have friends like that. Maybe family members but not friends.

  • @MyzelleJenkins
    @MyzelleJenkins 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The power of seeing your dog is by far the best medicine.

  • @jeremyphelps5140
    @jeremyphelps5140 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your friend quitting his job to come and help you. That’s such amazing love and compassionate. A true brother. You’re so incredibly lucky to have him, and you must be a truly beautiful person to be loved so much by those around you.
    Your story is so harsh. The reality of life is shockingly unforgiving. The way you’ve overcome is so inspiring to me. That you were able to overcome this and still live a great life full of love. I think I would have crumbled. I’m glad you’re doing well and I wish you many more years of amazing life.

  • @cyleaseabrook8211
    @cyleaseabrook8211 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for sharing your story. I was stabbed in the neck and had the bottom half of my chin almost completely cut off by my ex-husband. I went through a few reconstructive surgeries to make my chin look normal and decrease the size of the scar that runs from the right side of my neck to the middle of my chest. It hurts to be looked at as different and to feel people staring at you. I wish you well on your continued journey to healing.

  • @yummyapplestroodle
    @yummyapplestroodle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Worst part of his sickness was not losing his limbs but the fact that his kids didn't want to kiss him goodbye anymore. That thought breaks my heart every time, but I hope his kids are fine with this now and learned to live with it

    • @ph-vf5hx
      @ph-vf5hx ปีที่แล้ว

      Wathh the video and you will find out. Yes. His relationship with his son is perfectly fine.

  • @melusincongwane2689
    @melusincongwane2689 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    this guy is the poster child of human resilience... 💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿

    • @asosyalpicimamk
      @asosyalpicimamk ปีที่แล้ว

      Poster child for the right to die.

  • @anthonyderosa7730
    @anthonyderosa7730 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I'm amazed at how well they did his mouth.. he speaks and pronounces words perfectly with the facial prosthetic.

  • @caseydixon2001
    @caseydixon2001 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What an inspirational dude. Definitely teared up at him talking about his dog and his friend quitting his job for 6 months to help with the transition. Just incredible

  • @markdavies143
    @markdavies143 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Your best friend is the definition of a Hero

  • @pwincessyouni
    @pwincessyouni 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I remember watching the documentary of him in hospital and how hard it was for him to keep positive and I’m so happy to see this so many years later and that he’s pulled through!
    His best friend is amazing for helping him get through it

  • @marklloyd7830
    @marklloyd7830 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    what a bloke he's taken all what has happen to him on the chin and made him self stronger. you are amazing mate I take my hat off to you

  • @PimSchouten
    @PimSchouten 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thats not a friend he got.. thats a brother ❤️

  • @andydixon2980
    @andydixon2980 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    WOW. What an example of inner strength, love of family/friends, and a positive attitude. Total inspiration. Makes me reflect on my own life and attitude.

  • @LouiseFranksArt
    @LouiseFranksArt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    My mum had strep necrotising fasciitis (can't remember which sub type) and died in a matter of hours, before she could even get to hospital and have surgery to amputate. It was extremely traumatic for those of us around her, so I can only imagine how difficult it was for those around Alex, who I would imagine fet very helpless. I hope Alex is doing well and wish him all the best for the future.

  • @ericschafer9178
    @ericschafer9178 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’ve never heard of a more courageous human being than this man, my goodness. This was one of the only times in 36 years on planet earth that I teared up, god bless 🙏🏼

  • @VoidHalo
    @VoidHalo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Good on you for taking a tragedy and turning it around into such a positive thing. You're not just helping with these tangible projects giving people prosthetics, and wheelchairs and all of the other great work you do. You're helping people just by showing what a positive thing something like this can be. And if you can turn something THAT difficult and potentially tragic and turn it into the positivity you have. It just shows everyone that they can do the same thing with their situation. My difficulties don't even compare to what you must have been through, but you've definitely inspired me in that sense. And I've really needed it lately. So, thank you. Keep fighting the good fight. Cheers, mate.

  • @Kangaroojack1986
    @Kangaroojack1986 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dogs are such good support, they don't care what you did or what you look like. They just love you and appreciate your love for them. 🐕 ❤️

  • @nexdroid1486
    @nexdroid1486 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I can't imagine losing my limbs, I would lose my mind and probably just end it somehow , but props to this man for pushing through it.

    • @Bi0Dr01d
      @Bi0Dr01d 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yet the Bible says it's profitable for a man to lose one of his eyes, one of his hands, or his feet, then that both hands and feet be cast into hell.
      We value this life so much, but this life becomes a distraction from God, and so we do not make preparations for eternity and do not call on Jesus Christ. If we care so much about our limbs, then we should care about our own souls. Whoever is reading this, please, get right with God. Call on Jesus name...

    • @me1299
      @me1299 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Bi0Dr01d No need for religious fruitcakery

    • @Bi0Dr01d
      @Bi0Dr01d 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@me1299 Everyone is religious in their own way, including your very comment.

  • @ssmfetti
    @ssmfetti ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was one of the craziest stories I’ve ever seen back in the day. From being the man of the family to completely helpless almost overnight is heartbreaking! His wife however didn’t abandon him sure enough, kudos to her! Some women will leave you if you lose your job, let alone your legs.. Prayers for Alex & his family🙏

  • @remo4248
    @remo4248 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thanks for sharing your story. Nothing but respect to you, your friend and family. It shows how much we take for granted in life. We only ever realise what we have when its already too late. As a fellow recipient of NHS care, thank you for demonstrating how great it is. We are blessed to have the NHS.

  • @user-fn3sk3io8o
    @user-fn3sk3io8o 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Animals do so much for us.
    This man is full of strength even if he feels he doesn’t have it sometimes.
    You are amazing mate.

  • @lacountess
    @lacountess 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    He could have ended up a divorced alcoholic and a failed dad, but because of his unfortunate illness his life found new meaning and his efforts became a blessing for so many around the world, including his son. It’s fascinating to think something so tragic could be a crucible that forges a man into the best he could be. Wish all the happiness in the world for him and his family.

  • @sandorpalcso1142
    @sandorpalcso1142 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    "The Exraordinary Case of Alex Lewis." I saw the documentary about him on Real Stories years ago and it touched me profoundly.

    • @RealStories
      @RealStories 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thanks for watching! It's a great watch, would definitely recommend everyone watching it if you haven't already.

  • @doodsydoodsy5370
    @doodsydoodsy5370 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sir you are a true inspiration, I have been diagnosed with Ms and at times think my life has ended as I knew it and watching you has given me hope for the future bless you your family, friend and dog.

  • @misstinahamilton5714
    @misstinahamilton5714 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Ive seen his story hear on YT - more in depth . This man is a true hero and a beacon of strength !

  • @muffincandle1413
    @muffincandle1413 2 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    It would have been nice to hear more about his relationship with Lucy. In the documentary years ago Lucy had been quite honest and said he originally had no real interest in getting married, even though she kept asking him.
    In this video he puts his success and survival down to his son, his best friend and his dog, but no real recognition towards the missus. I didn't feel him radiate a great deal of warmth towards her in the conversation. He doesn't discuss the hardship of not being able to properly touch or hug her. I wonder if they have split up. I thought they had eventually gotten married but I'm not sure.
    It was interesting to hear him discuss his previous issues with alcohol. I don't think that was mentioned in the longer documentary. But he seems to be in a better place and his face has healed considerably well considering all the surgeries.

    • @Kim-Does-Things
      @Kim-Does-Things 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Funny how he described the plastic surgeon as a 'beautiful woman' ... Odd.

    • @Mizz.Person
      @Mizz.Person 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@Kim-Does-Things I think he meant it like amazing or kind, etc. Maybe she was really helpful in the whole crappy situation? Who knows. I didn't get a creepy vibe.

    • @lg4377
      @lg4377 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      agreed. he never talks of her much. in later videos/articles she is referred to as his wife, and also partner, but i'm not convinced that they ever actually married. i've never heard him say it. they are still together though, and joke about it. who knows, maybe its their thing, something personal to them that they don't want the public to know.

    • @MissGlassButterfly
      @MissGlassButterfly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I didn’t think about it until you mentioned it but now I’ve noticed this it does bug me and is kind of sad.

    • @kolchian5139
      @kolchian5139 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Kim-Does-Things ya that kinda ticked me off

  • @1theedster
    @1theedster 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    a real testament to how fast things can change, appreciate what you have now

  • @hellekimery9537
    @hellekimery9537 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    A wonderful man, so happy he chose to fight, and that he was blessed with the best friend a man could ask for. True friendship like that is rare. Hope he gets to have many happy years ahead of him 💕

  • @Jade-5713
    @Jade-5713 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Omg I remember seeing the documentary on this man ! Glad to see he’s still going strong.

  • @shellshell942
    @shellshell942 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This guys best mate is a legend. It's great to hear Alex is happy and living a full life. ❤

  • @Terentius25
    @Terentius25 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What an absolute specimen of a man. I don't think many people could go through what you did, let alone come out the other side of it so positive. You seem to have turned this nightmare you had to go through and flipped the script.
    Not only that but to then go and help others in the ways you have, Your a fucking inspiration and more man than I could ever be.
    Good luck with your golf my guy, you deserve happiness. All the best in your future, you living legend.

  • @bambis46
    @bambis46 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I saw his documentary, the improvement in him is UNREAL. I wish him continued good health

  • @josipamarketin5156
    @josipamarketin5156 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I really love Alexes story. He completely opened himself up to life, and his illness was the trigger that he used/needed. I think many of us would do the exact opposite in his situation, so I salute him. Good job man, turning your life around takes everything out of a person.

  • @michaelmota4602
    @michaelmota4602 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This just has me thinking about how important it is to have people close to you, family and friends. Without it, who knows how his life would have turned out

  • @belkispadilla7224
    @belkispadilla7224 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's incredible what human can accomplish when they have the right motivation..the love for your child can move mountains.

  • @D9Beats
    @D9Beats ปีที่แล้ว +8

    He has an amazingly positive outlook. I love that

  • @alanashworth9414
    @alanashworth9414 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Don't think I would ever have the strength that this man has got. Only thing that would keep me going is my kids and grand kids. You are hero for being strong enough to cope with what's happened to you.

  • @Steven_McCrae
    @Steven_McCrae 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    God what a strong human being, I’m sure his wife is big part of the happiness and the will to never give up , hope his family gets to see the him achieve his goal

  • @MADEbySOUL
    @MADEbySOUL 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just amazing to see how love built up this man again. That friend truly has a heart of gold. He knew the importance of his friend gaining confidence through independence. Relearning how to do things with this new situation is major.

  • @AshCupric
    @AshCupric 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What a beautiful, strong and resilient soul! He could have so easily thrown in the towel many times yet he persevered and made the best of his situation. Even more, he found a way to take something tragic and transformed it into a blessing that he shares with other people. He’s a true role model and I have the utmost respect for this incredible man.

  • @petergotit5949
    @petergotit5949 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You sir, live a life. You feel what a life is. You are an inspiration.
    Good bless you

  • @TLBlack_moth
    @TLBlack_moth 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Even after all he's been through his eyes still bare a striking youthfulness.

  • @Sthrnbel50
    @Sthrnbel50 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have followed this story when I could… and seeing him today makes me sooo happy for him and his family. God bless

  • @isoldelujan
    @isoldelujan ปีที่แล้ว +58

    I’m very drunk watching this and holy shit it really hit me that I’m not only mortal, I’m vulnerable as well

    • @ArcYT
      @ArcYT ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Life can be over in 2 seconds, be aware of your surroundings and enjoy every moment as if it'll be your last. Cheers

    • @behindthepie9430
      @behindthepie9430 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      seize the day, the only thing that matters is here and now. make the most of it.

    • @eridiance9818
      @eridiance9818 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow 🤯🤯

    • @gray73
      @gray73 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I didn’t realize how vulnerable we are as a species until about a year back. I’ve never had a single health issue in my entire life but I suddenly started having seizures and would have no warning signs in some cases. Once I saw it on video for the first time it really changed my perspective of the vulnerability we have but don’t pay attention to as young people.

    • @hayden6700
      @hayden6700 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@gray73 I can relate to this somewhat, I was very healthy and worked out/ran every day and I came down with a flu that ended up affecting my heart and almost killing me. Completely changed my life, and it came 100% out of nowhere

  • @rev9436
    @rev9436 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So much respect for him keeping himself going for his son. What a great man

  • @Nightweaver1
    @Nightweaver1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This reminds me of how, back in 2015, I came really close to losing my lower right leg after I got a massive infection from the bite of an infected flea, which I had in my apartment at the time. It caused me so much pain and misery for that year while doctors worked to try to figure out what to do about my leg, feeding me antibiotics and then eventually diagnosing me with pyoderma gangrenosum, which was basically eating my right lower leg. So a surgeon took good chunks of skin off the leg, but managed to save it. I still have full use of the leg, miraculously enough, but the memories of the intense pain of that infection will stay with me forever. I tell you all this because that was NOTHING compared to what this poor guy went through, and I can't imagine being in his position and knowing he either has all his limbs cut off, or he'll lose his life. It must have felt like fate screwed him over something fierce. I know it felt like that with me. But he's incredibly tough and strong to keep on going for his son.

  • @jerramy
    @jerramy ปีที่แล้ว

    How many times have I heard stories about people who have come through extreme adversity and said it was the best thing that has happened to them as a person to grow! I as one, have not such courage, and how many others have fallen by the wayside? These people are inspirational, but I regret that not all of us have his inner strength. Wish I had!!!!!

  • @shaztaf
    @shaztaf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    What an amazing friend he has. Such a blessing x

  • @PinaCoco
    @PinaCoco 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Can't even imagine how strong their friendship was to stop everything and help a friend.