Almost two years ago, I watched this and the full documentary. I learned a lot from it, and I'm glad, because in February, if found out I have palliative anaplastic thyroid cancer, with not much longer to live. (months, likely.) Thanks for posting.
I want people to know about the young man who found us who had jumped the train traveling. He got to Canada, but told the RCMP that he had gotten drunk and fell asleep and that's how he got over the Border. I told him that if he got to Canada again to tell them he wanted to stay. He wears Tattoos of Tear's on his face that are indicative of a homicide victim and/or someone seeking Justice for a homicide. He has a Tattoo on his arm that say's Too Stubborn To Die. If you see him see he gets someplace where people are human beings. I have a life threatening Medical Condition & numerous times have not been able to get the medication because somebody else who has been using my Stolen Identity doesn't need it. Without the medication Coma & death. One time I heard my husband in the hallway of the hospital telling the Medical Staff that they were supposed to give me IV'S that are proper procedure and protocol & without it I would likely die. He went to the parking lot to go to our vehicle and had a gun held to his head and told him that I had died (he was wearing Military Insignia on his back). He was detained, but obviously got to me. I made him promise that we won't die in the Country that we worked for & my children were kidnapped in. I wear scar's from when I nearly lost my life shortly after the kidnapping of the children and the theft of my Identity at that time...
It's the most painful thing in the world. Heck it hurts even if you don't know them very well. I cried for hours after learning my next door neighbor died, even if we didn't speak much it was scary to see that the woman who would smile and wave each morning is just...gone.
It's a part of life, our eventual end. And it's not a bad thing; it happens whether we're ready or not. It's important to love as much as you can everyday you're here, you never know. I wish all of you much love in life❤
When she said "I don't like it" and was holding back her tears, trying to be strong, that got me instantly. I've never dealt with loss in my family before. I don't know how I would manage losing my grandmother, mother, or partner.
my grandfather died about 1 1/2 years ago. this sounds corny to some, and im sure youve heard it a million times, but my first regret was not being able to spend more time with him. yes it was out of my control (him living in India and me in the US, and i had school going), but i still felt horrible that we couldnt play one last game of carom with him. just one last game... pretty difficult for me, as an atheist, to deal with it, and i began to see why people followed religion. best i can say is just enjoy your time with your loved ones, and when they pass, stay strong :)
João Costa I know but I’m currently battling with a mental illness and my mom is the only who’s always been there so if she goes I’m gonna lose interest in life
I'm a nurse but yes, we do cry. Sometimes we sit in our cars to sob, sometimes we shed some tears during our breaks or when we step off to the side, sometimes we sit with the patient and wipe away tears with them But we've seen so many deaths that we've learned to push past it in the moment until we have the opportunity to let it out
“We’re going fishing…” and he never got to leave the hospital. 😢 May he rest in peace. He is so lucky to have such a loving wife by his side the entire time.
@@stuffnthings111 I'm a vegetarian punk I'm not supposed to be disagreeing with you but what kind of a s_ithead do you have to be to comment that under a video like *THIS*
Honestly, having a father who is undergoing palliative care (Granted no where near the level of this gentleman, but still we are aware he is not going to recover) I have to say I would be at first apprehensive, and then deeply comforted to have someone like Dr. Selavaggia working my father's case. That being said, the Palliative team who has been working with him to date have been awesome. They are encouraging and push Dad to do everything he can, but are also compassionate when it comes to the real truth that he will only be able to manage so much, and eventually even that will become a challenge. My heart goes out to professionals in this field, who have the challenge of balancing a need for compassion toward their patient with the requirement of explaining what is going to happen at the same time.
My dad died 2 weeks ago. Stage 3 colon cancer. I tell him straight to the point when I got the news from doctor. I cried when I told him. He is strong, he isnt cry. he even comfort me and said "its ok son". I miss him.
My dad died in May from kidney cancer. I'm only 16 and I was at school until I walked into his room and I watched him die. I had no idea what hospice was. I love you bro we will get through it.
When it was clear my sister was going to pass, they moved her to the hospice floor of the hospital. She only lasted two days and she passed away after all the family had gone home for the night. A nurse was with her in her final moments. I’ve always been very grateful for that. Can you imagine their courage?
@@maisiewilson9103 it’s been ten years since she passed away, she had been sick for a few years before that. I find comfort in knowing her suffering is over. Her youngest daughter lives with me and she’s so much like my sister, it’s almost like having her with us still. Sometimes that makes the sad days sadder, but in a way my children are growing up with that same spark that I did. The love never goes away, she left us with a lot of love. ♥️
Last thing my sister told me before she died, on her death bed she said, “I’ll still be prettier than you.” And laughed, saying she was kidding and she loved me. She was 15 and fighting cancer ❤️ rip sis ily ❤️🕊 Edit: thank you for the replies, it means a lot ❤️
@@unshdhGbzbs What a horrible thing to say. It's very painful to see a loved one decline or in the dying process ITS NEVER EASY NO MATTER WHAT AGE!!! DO YOU HAVE ICE WATER IN YOUR VEINS?...........Oh wait.......YES YOU DO!!
I watched my daughter die of cervical cancer over a 2 year period . most of it in St johns hospice and a home . Then 2 years later my wife got taken in with a chest infection . 3 weeks later i lost her . never came home . Watching your loved ones take their last breath is the worst thing that a human can do . Even after 4 years i still break down most days . I miss them so much .
I am very sorry for your loss, I have lived through something similar, and I want you to know that you are not alone. The love that we feel for those who are dear is so powerful that not even death can reduce it
It is definitely the hardest thing you do, but after watching both my parents take their last breaths, I also look upon it as a great privilege to be there with them. So, so difficult but I'm so pleased I was there with them. Condolences to you ❤️
It hurts me the most whenever I see old couples and one is looking at the other dying one.. They have spent so much of their life together, and just looking at the other after one has passed away is heartbreaking
My great Grandma passed away and my great grandpa had dementia and was always asking where she was, he ended up passing away a few weeks later though so they weren’t apart long
@Flight 32X could you do it though? With Coronavirus, I've been forced to thinking of suicide should I catch it bad as i don't fancy struggling for breath and drowning in my own fluids for possible days on end. I dont know if I could actually do it though.
That second doctor they brought in has such a calm, reassuring presence. You can really tell she's good at what she does. She's so comforting and she says just what is needed to be said, no more and no less. All doctors should strive to be like this.
@@mannygonzalez7735 Its not dying its murder. The NO1 leading cause of death is pharmaceutical MD direct treatments. The MD`s make direct cuts from prescribing drugs and getting as many people onto a payroll prescription as possible. They get houses bought for them, luxury holidays, hotels, all different kinds of benefits. High grade pure THC oil and diet change would have cured the cancer very quickly.. An MD does not even know how to cure heartburn. The average cancer patient is worth upto $1.5million dollars in the USA alone. GOOGLE IMAGES - ACIDOSIS CYCLE.
She's a physician who specializes in end of life care. The average practical nurse is capable of doing that job, and for much less money. What is the worst that could happen?
At one point, everyone in this video was a young, happy, carefree child. Life moves by pretty quickly. Never pass up an opportunity to tell your loved ones how much they mean to you.
Clyde knew he was dying when he said “ I love you” back to his wife. It’s good that he got a final chance to say that to her before he left this world.
Kudos to that poor woman for letting them film her in such a vulnerable moment. Because of her and her husband, we can be educated on how this conversation will go down and what to expect (if we're lucky to have compassionate doctors). A lot of us will be in her shoes some day. RIP Clyde.
SO WAS MY DAD 44 WHEN HE PASSED. HE LEFT 9 CHILDREN. TO THIS DAY I NEVER MET ANYONE THAT COULD MATCH HIS WORK ETHICS. ALL HE WANTED WAS A LARGE FAMILY. THANKS TO HIS HARD WORK, MY MOTHER WAS ABLE TO RAISE US NICELY.
888 ??? A prayer for the loss of your father but that’s so rude saying SO? like man yeah your father was probably a amazing person but you being a jerk to a person who lost their sister is disgusting I hope u learn and forgive.
I never really understood when people said they felt their heart jump when receiving bad news until I witnessed a doctor tell my brother he only had a few months to live. I literally saw the blood drain from his face and felt my heart in my throat. RIP dear Brother.
J E Your brother is fine now. Circumstances surrounding death can be very tragic, but death itself isn’t, it’s just the gateway to reality. One can see people age 3O years when they are suddenly told they have weeks to live, proving time is a psychological construct and birth and death mental concepts, so no worries my friend all works out fine in the end. Good luck
I wish you the best in the future. Keep believing and know that God is watching you always along with your brother. Especially in the times you need him. 🙏
@Psychic Medium Di Sad to say, if you truly love that person, their dying moments will just stay with you for life, you just need to learn to be stronger to keep on going and always remember the good times.
We are fucking helpless. After centuries of research and study, still powerless to our own mortality. Even single one of us must face this completely on our own.
My Dad died looking like this at 74 years old, riddled with a cancer that took hold very quickly. He had been so fit and active just months before. It was unbelievable.
Same thing happened to my grandpa. He was gone within months and deteriorated fast. He went from talking, walking to looking like this man in the video within two days. 😢
I’ll never forget the first time I was told I was dying. I was 18, which felt pretty old at the time, but looking back now, as a 26 year old, I can’t believe how young 18 really is. Anyway, I was in the hospital for a fairly standard procedure; I was getting a feeding tube placed in my stomach. A bunch of you probably just read that and went uhhh that’s not a standard procedure? But I have lived my entire life with a progressive muscle-wasting disease. I never crawled or walked, and I got my first wheelchair when I was two. For ~most~ people with my disease (spinal muscular atrophy type 2) a feeding tube becomes a regular part of life between the age of 15-30ish. So I knew it was coming, and even though it sucked, I eventually came to terms with needing it and all that jazz. Anyway, I was in the hospital for several days after I got the tube, mostly for precautions and for learning how to hook myself up to the magic formula. Important stuff, but I felt fine and my mind was mostly focused on returning to my freshman year of college. I had assignments and friends I missed and there was lots of FIFA playing to make up for. One afternoon, quite unexpectedly, this morose-looking nurse entered my hospital room and announced she was from palliative care (i.e. the people who care for the dying near end of life). She looked me square in the eye and said, “Are you prepared for when you die?” I, obviously, was quite taken aback by this question, so I told her I thought she had the wrong room. “No, I have the correct room. You have a progressive disease and you’re now on life-support for nutrients. We need to make you a will.” She had the bedside manners of a dead horse. People with my disease routinely live full lifespans, and as far as I’d been told by my doctors, the feeding tube was simply meant to improve my health and quality of life, giving me that much of a better chance of living into old age. I kindly told the nurse to leave my room. I know she was probably assigned to inform me about end-of-life choices and whatnot, but the way she did it with such a complete lack of empathy really ruined me for a long time. Also, plot twist, a few years later the FDA approved a the first ever treatment for my disease and I’m thriving like never before!
I don't know about living with a major disease/problem/ilness but i try to understand. These kind of stories are extremely touching and i could not be happier for you. And i do not say that to many people truly from my heart.
That's terrible. And I'm sorry. To suffer that would leave me with a post traumatic syndrome. Hope you're good now. And I hope medical technology out does itself to improve things for you further. And if it doesn't come up with a plan to Implement a Vendetta. VENDETTA! ok seriously now, you should be playing Forza. Fifa is ok but every year a new version sucks.
Uhmm....based on his final wishes he's more than likely just wormwood at this point. The bright side is, once those worms get nice and full you can catch them and fish for yourself...y'know cos you're alive and stuff...
If he was buried, he is being eaten by worms and insects and if he was cremated, he is now a cloud floating around because he evaporated. 🙋🙋😂😂🐭🐭🐭🐜🐜🐜🐜🐙🐙🐛🐛🐛🐉🐉☁️☁️☁️☁️☁️⛅🌙🌙🌙
i was 18 when my mum was given the "only a few days left" diagnosis. cancer. couldnt speak, couldnt move, severe pain. she told me "i love you" and it was like strained and mumbled but i got it. and i dont think ill ever forget it. until i die. you know when someone is in so much pain and they give everything within them to say that to you, that they mean it.
There certainly is an afterlife, the Bible tells us so. There’s a heaven and a hell. Hell for those that reject the Lord Jesus, heaven for those that believe He died for us on the cross. Read it all in a King James Bible, year 1611, not revised one. God bless you.
@@janisewellington3971 yeah bible this bible that , I believe in god but sometimes I really question if there's a heaven or hell because it's a BELIEF. See if scientists could prove that's where you go to then I wouldn't question it at all.
This is so important. My husband had cancer and I needed help. I needed palliative care. When I brought this up my kids saw it as me giving up. I was an RN for 38 years and I knew my husband was dying. It was very difficult to take care of him and to do what I needed to do and think of him as my husband. I had to put my nursing cap on and see him as a patient. When he died I robbed myself from feeling the grief I should have felt. For Five years I suffered and made some terrible choices. After going to therapy and having someone help me by telling me I was suffering from overwhelming unresolved grief was I able to heal.
But how do you know that what if other animals know that like cats usually take themselves off to die so that their owners won’t feel so bad, it’s as if they can tell when they will die even if it’s a habit it’s still an understanding of some degree.
I lost my partner of 45 years just weeks ago....this video is so raw for me.I fought off Hospice and made preparations to have him home. That was not to be.He lasted 3 days in Hospice. I had doctor after doctor tell me what I didn't want to hear until I was befriended by a neurologist who did everything he could and knew I was in denial . In the end I looked to him for answers and he shook his head saying it was time and it was. I was slowly coming around to the reality we didn't have much time. He passed on his 3rd day in hospice...
i mean considering it’s a hospital there was probably already a bunchhhh of paperwork involved so i’m sure she consented and they would’ve left if asked
Being in Palliative Care is very difficult, but can also be very rewarding. The ability to help someone know that it's okay to LET GO, to stop enduring the pain of their current situation, to just let those they care about speak with them and see them one last time not in pain, but instead telling them how much you care for them and wish them the best in their life; it's gives those in the field a feeling of happiness.
people who watched this from 2015 will NOT understand this, but if they see this again, there are hundreds of thousands that are close to dying and require oxygen to breathe. 4 Million people have died from Covid19, out of 187 million infections. the deadliest and worst variant is the Delta variant discovered in 2021.
After battling with chemotherapy since last August, and expecting surgery this Ferbruary, I was told that my condition (cancer) had progressed too far to be operated on, and that I would likely lose my life within 2 years. At the age of 24, recently being engaged and the hopes of starting a family, myself and my partner's worlds came crashing down. It's never easy for the person who receives the news. The most painful thing for me however, is seeing just how much my condition and prognosis affects the people around me. That is what I wish I could take away for them.
Doctors are not god, dont trust them when they want you in a nursing home or hospice. It is your choice, I choose to forget what they wanted and will continue to live till god desides.
@@kayt9576 No doctor wants anyone to die, and it's always your choice how to live your final days. But it's important that you make that choice with all the information laid out in front of you, and with expert advice to guide you. To tell you "you definitely won't die, just keep fighting no matter what" would be inhumane and amoral. A doctor's job is neither to play God nor to control lives as they see fit, it's to provide medicine and medical care for which they've been trained. It's our job to listen and respect we can't be all-knowing, even when it comes to our own bodies. Allow me to present an alternative. I've had "the talk" with a doctor about my father. Hours later and he indeed died. If that doctor had done anything other than prepare me, I would've been substantially more devastated than I already was.
Why do I do this to myself? Watch videos like this and make myself cry at 3AM? I hope you’re somewhere peaceful now, Clyde. May your soul rest in blissful tranquility.
I remember my dad had stage 4 colon cancer and didn't know it. He collapsed in the living room and was rushed to the hospital. The doctor said that this cancer is very aggressive, and that he would barely survive the week after the collapse. He gave it so gently, and wished my family the best. He surprisingly survived it through a lot of prayer and love and effort. He's now cancer free. It's been nearly 8 years and my dad is still with me. I feel so bad for those who don't have the same outlook, and I hope their families are shown the most love possible
Hi my mom also has stage 4 colon cancer, I dont know how old you are but it turns out we had a genetic disease that made us have a 50 chance of having it in the future. I dont know if you have this but just in case
@@baronzemo8871 get tested when you turn 20-ish, you gotta push for the testing because they might say you are too young. The earlier the better, stay strong
I watched this video six or seven years ago because it was recommended by TH-cam. For whatever reason, TH-cam wanted me to see it again. I am currently taking a medical/linguistic anthropology class where we have been discussing how doctors talk with dying patients and how important it is for doctors to assess the goals of the patient in regards to what they'd like to do or accomplish before they pass before it's too late for them. This video demonstrates what I have been learning perfectly. Thank you for sharing your final moments with us, Clyde. Rest in peace.
i started crying i had to watch my mom die when i was nine im eleven now also i had to whatch my grandma and grapas all die so i know what it feels like
I was shaving my dying Grandfather, shaking and barely holding it together when he looked up and said, "Awe, it's gonna be ok". I was a teenager and will take that memory to the grave.
I still spend time with my grandfather and he means the world to me. I prefer sitting with him and listen to his stories rather then going out with other people. Same with my grandma. She is having an operation in a few weeks and I'm afraid to lose her. It was her 70th birthday yesterday
@Ranjit Tyagi I'm sorry for your loss. Sure, times are hard but everything heals some day and you should never forget the positive memories you had. If you remember them, a person is never completely gone. And I'm sure they loved their lives to full extent💜 Thank you, it means a lot to me. I send all love back too you from East Germany❤️I hope all your dreams come true and that you will find true love soon! My mum is 45 on 06/30 and single too. I think sometimes true love is hard to find. Especially if you are a hard working person who deserves so much, that God had to create special people for you😄💜 Please stay safe in those trying times🌺
@Chris Craft: Oh, the same happened to me. We visited my grandpa and he was doing pretty fine that day. He even managed to get out of bed and my mom showered him in the shower cabin. Later on he came back to bed where I shaved him. Then we talked about me going abroad soon and starting a new life. We talked about more and less serious stuff. Just a casual talk, one of hundreds we'd had. And then we got up because it was time to leave. He said goodbye to my parents the usual way and when I came closer he grabbed my arm and looked me in the eyes like he never had before. It was that typical you-are-going-away-and-I-am-dying-and-we-both-know-we-won't-see-each-other-anymore look. It broke my heart. He indeed died 1,5 months later when I was abroad and I couldn't come to the funeral. He had bowel cancer but died of a heart failure.
*The worst thing about this, is the woman going home and being alone, having that gap in here life, remembering the old times, having that empty side on the bed.*
@@sauravsamdarshi730 hey, sorry to hear that you’re feeling like that. If you want to talk/chat, let me know and I’ll find some way to get in contact, and hopefully we can ease the pain
When the doctor pat on Audrey's shoulder at 3:26, she clearly wanted to say something but it was inhibited. It's this scene that puts me to tears every single time.
I well remember how a surgeon broke the news to my father who was stricken with cancer. He looked at my dad and said, "Get your affairs in order, make peace with your God as your life is coming to an end." My father was born in 1929...part of that generation who were bred tough. He listened to the doctor, thanked him for his honesty and forthrightness and stood up and walked out of his office. I was in tears but my father grabbed me by the arms and said, "Son, I need you to be strong because you are going to have to help me on this journey...so wipe away the tears and take me home. I'm not dead yet...I have some months to go so don't cry for me now." He was brave right to the end. They made his generation out of very strong stuff.
When I watched my dog die, I remember saying “I don’t want you to go away.” In that moment I was in so much pain that I spoke like a little boy. The way she simply said “I don’t like this” reminded me a lot of that moment. It’s like when we face real fear and loss, we return to our child selves.
Yes. This is true. I don't have the correct terminology for it, but speaking from my own perspectives, it's got something to do with going back, in order to move forward. And surprisingly so, it's The Child Self
okay but imagine trying to get permission to film this "we're gonna film this, is that okay?" "sure but what for..?" "...nothing don't worry about it fam"
my grandfather... i could have said so much, been there more for him... and now I can't. please love your grandfathers and grandmothers and visit them from time to time
I will never forget having “the talk” before my dad passed away. He was 50. I was 11. I am 15 now. I have so much respect for the people who work in end of life care. ❤️ Update - I am so grateful for all of the kind replies I have received. This past Thanksgiving marked 4 years without him, and though it was difficult, I felt his presence and love. Reflecting on his passing and the traumatic circumstances under which I lost him, something that has and will always stick with me were the wonderful people who worked in end of life care and were a rock for me and my family. I count my blessings every day and they are certainly in them. If you are reading this and dealing with loss, recent or not, please know that things get better; they certainly have for me, even since I first wrote this comment 6 months ago. Thank you. ❤️
I've experienced the same thing only 2 months ago with my dad who was also 50 , I lived most of my time with him , I'm only 16 , I was 15 at the time , I had seen him the day before he collapsed , it was so sudden and all of his family flew over from England to say goodbye to him , I honestly just struggle to think about it , I was the last person to see him and I made sure of that , as much as I struggled I was also proud of him as he had donated his organs and saved the lives of four children , it gives me alot of strength to see others who have experienced very similar things and manage to get through like yourself , im very sorry for your loss , just know that he is proud of you and will always be with you ❤️❤️❤️I wish you and your family the best , love from Ireland
That “I love you” he managed to get out, through so much pain, caught me very off guard and brought tears to my eyes. I’m glad he’s not in pain anymore and I pray his wife has found some peace.
This video is a powerful reminder of the difficult conversations that doctors have to have with patients and their families. It takes incredible empathy and skill to navigate these discussions
@leza :Seriously ... you ought to have the Secret Service monitoring your comments . You are SICK & Dangerous and when you physically die & go to Allah , your virgins may be all MALE .
I can sympathize with the families; I lost my wife, of almost 27 years, after having the privilege of meeting her almost 30 years ago. She was young and beautiful and I miss her so much after two years of her loss. She passed at home and I devoted myself to taking care of her in her final weeks, hours, and seconds in this world. I would do it all again if I have to. Although we know that death is certain, we do not get used to that reality, not even the very fine doctors and care professionals in this video. I guess that a measurement of how much one's mission on earth has accomplished is how much we are going to be missed once we start the journey into the sunset.
Yes and more common now. Especially when its not about "there are no more cures" Because its actually like, "we dont know anything until its stage 4 so Um sorry" Docs arent available anymore and PAs dont know until its obvious.
Its horrible because they have to see the worst part of everyones life over and over again. And then when their time comes they know exactly the terror and suffering they will face before then end and no one can save anybody! Very very difficult job but very important, possibly the MOST important part of medicine.
My mom died 3 months ago at the age of 60. Losing your mom at any age is hard, but I’m 28. And it’s been effin hard. Hospice was absolutely amazing and gave us the opportunity to spend time with her without her being in constant pain. RIP Ma.
I lost my dad 9 months before i was born to a car crash its been 21 years i turned 20 yesterday, its hard to not have a dad thats there when you need it especially the last 3 years 😭
My wife was diagnosed with cancer, aged 38, on the 22nd December, and died on Christmas Eve. More than 16 years later the speed and suddenness of it still haunts me. RIP Claire.
Oh dear, that must have been a tremendous shock. So sorry for your loss and the way it had happened. I hope you do find the strength and peace to not cross your border.... The sun does shine again! I will pray for you.
Greetings from Mexico, I love what I am seeing on your profile. I apologize for jumping into your comment in such a way. I'm really looking forward to get to know you better. If you're comfortable with it, I'd love to talk somewhere outside the TH-cam comment section. and get to know each other a bit more intimately. What do you think?
William Hall all the good works of a man cannot cover up his one single bad work. Just like when you take a criminal to court for a bad offense he committed by breaking the law of a country, all the good things he has done in his entire life cannot cover up that bad offense he committed. He will be sentenced to prison no matter how hard he begs for mercy and promises never to do it again. That is justice not wickedness. That is how it is with GOD. And throughout the bible GOD calls himself a just judge who will also judge all people that ever lived on judgment day. When someone sins, he breaks GOD'S law and commandments. The punishment for sinning against GOD, is death, hell and be thrown into the lake of fire on judgment day. For that reason, GOD showed mercy because of his love for mankind, and the mercy is, he sent his only son into the world in human form as a man named YAHUSHUA whom the world calls JESUS, to suffer and die for the sins of the world so that whoever repents and turns away from his sins which includes, sexual immorality, drinking, disobedience to parents, disrespect, curse, or insult one’s parents, or one’s elders. smoking, partying, clubbing, tattoos, drugs, fornication, adultery, must not commit incest; which is, unlawful and forbidden sexual relations between siblings, or other close relatives. violence, pride, cursing, using the title GOD. And the name of his son JESUS as curse words, many christians said that Jesus warned them in visions, dreams and death experiences that women and girls who are using makeup, bleaching of skin, relaxation of hair, curling of hair, dyeing of hair, ornaments, wigs, short skirts, trousers, tight clothes or half naked clothes, artificial nails or eyelashes and wearing high heels will end up in hell because these impure things lead men and boys into sin of lust, fornication and adultery. and stopped doing to others what he does not want others to do to him, and believes that JESUS the divine son of GOD came to this world in human form to suffer and die for the sins of the world and his sins and rose again from the dead on the third day after his death, and beg him in prayer for forgiveness, and to be his lord and savior and that he believe he is the divine son of GOD who came down to this earth to suffer and die for the sins of the world and rose again from the dead on the third day after his death, return double what he stole from others, forgive those who wronged him, apologizes to those he wronged, is baptized in the name of the father, the son and the holy spirit. Then GOD Will forgive and save him from The end of the world and the end of the universe, where God will send fire down from heaven to the earth, to consume and destroy the whole universe, the whole earth, all people, houses, cars, mountains, everything on earth and the universe will be melted by the fire. and God will also save him from hell, judgment day and the lake of fire. And will then be given everlasting life in heaven and the new indescribable, beautiful, Heavenly earth, where there is no sorrow, pain, suffering, sadness, crying, hunger, thirst, sickness, disease and death. Only everlasting happiness. Do that now for after death it is too late. Everything i have written here is truths from the bible.
Samuel Fritz i know. I came here to preach the gospel. In the Bible, in Mark 1:15 Yahushua Jesus said: The right time has come,“and the Kingdom of God is near! Turn away from your sins and believe the gospel!” The gospel is about how Yahushua Jesus the divine son of God came to this earth and paid for our sins, so that if we repent of our sins and believe in him as our lord and savior and beg him for mercy and to forgive our sins, and are baptized in the name of the father, son and Holy Spirit, then God will forgive and save us from the end of the world, where he will destroy the whole earth with fire from heaven everything on earth will be destroyed and melted by the fire. He will also save us from hell fire after death and from the lake of fire on judgment day; and will give us everlasting life in the kingdom of heaven and the new indescribable, beautiful, heavenly earth. Where there is no sorrow, pain, sadness, crying, hunger, thirst, suffering, sickness, disease and death. Only everlasting happiness with God forever.
Samuel Fritz What do you mean by general thread? This is definitely the place to preach. A place full of unbelievers. Jesus wants us to preach to unbelievers. When I tell people that Jesus died and rose again from the dead so that their sins can forgiven, so that they would escape hell fire and the lake of fire, so that God would give them everlasting life in heaven and the new indescribable, beautiful, heavenly earth. Where there is no death, sorrow, pain, crying, sickness, disease, suffering, hunger, and thirst. only everlasting happiness with God. is that not Gods love? they will know that Jesus did that because of his love.
Talk about heartbreaking, this brought a tear to my eye. You have to give credit to the doctors and staff who show a brave face when telling others their loved ones are at the end of their life.
I love the stories they tell, of a bygone age. I like to imagine them full of energy and smiling, just living life. My mum tells the same stories over and over again but I just smile and nod ❤
i work as a carer in a care home for elderly with dementia and it’s the best job ever honestly. the shit they come out with, the stories they tell, the advice they give. it’s truly magical.
My biggest fear is not being ready. I remember when my grandpa passed, I was there when the doctors told him he wasn’t going to make it. He cried like a kid, saying he didn’t want to die. Eventually the sickness got to him, and I guess he was suffering too much and he kinda gave in. It never felt beautiful to me, I never felt like he got peace. And it’ll forever haunt me seeing him cry like a kid and how unfair it felt. He really wasn’t ready to go.
Jesus loves you and can help you be ready when the time comes. I’m so sorry for your loves. Read the book of John in the Bible to find about eternal life through Jesus’ death and resurrection. Jesus came into the world to destroy death and it’s sting.
@@Danmansri I don't think you understand how unbelievably arrogant, selfish, inconsiderate, and rude it is to shove your personal faith onto hurting people. If someone wants your religion, they will tell you, they will find it themselves.
@@queengoblin Raviolo Sponge Bob Reference, I am sorry for your Father's Loss. For everyone going after Daniel and Hannah J, You've got the wrong idea about the reason why Christians choose to share our faith. Why do you think we tell people about Jesus? What do we have to gain by it? A lot actually. First, please understand that we actually believe in Jesus. If we didn't we wouldn't be bugging you. Second, when Christ has entered into a heart, that heart is filled with peace and joy, knowing that we have been forgiven by God and that no matter what happens we will live with Him in paradise after death. It puts even our greatest sufferings into perspective. Not only has God forgiven us, but He has adopted us as his children! He does not simply tolerate us, He choses to love us! I can close my eyes and speak to the creator of our universe whenever I like! He hears me 24/7. No matter how bad things get, I cannot be snatched from His hand! I firmly believe that all who place their faith and trust in Jesus, declaring Him as their Lord (meaning we live according to His word) are saved from an eternity of unimaginable misery. Kory Toombs, when you say you are going to Hell, I hope you have researched what that means. Please cry out to God, ask Him to forgive your sins. Ask him to help you believe. He assures us in His words from Jeremiah 29:13 that if we seek Him, He will be found. He also says that no one who ever comes to Him is turned away. John 6:37. I am one who did not believe, but I asked God to help me believe, and He did. He can do the same for you. Now getting back to what we have to gain by sharing our faith, as reborn, forgiven people, we share the desire of our Lord Jesus who wants all people to be saved. Morningstar, You accused us of arrogance, selfishness and rudeness, but can't you see that with the knowledge Christians have (which we genuinely believe to be true) it would be highly selfish and arrogant, even murderous of us to withhold our good news! If we keep silent about what God has done for us, that is true selfishness. When you know a wonderful secret, you tell it to your friends. And I claim you as a friend. Morningstar, I would like to know more of your experience with Christianity. There are a lot of people who claim to follow Christ and don't. I hope you will share the reason why you aren't currently a fan of Christianity.
I lost my father last year at 63. Unexpectedly, and found him on his bathroom floor. As bad as this sounds, it makes me wish I could have seen him age all the way to this age, about 20 years later I wish I could have seen him look older. I wish I was able to kiss his forehead goodbye and hear him say I love you to me one last time. Life is really short. Live it to the fullest and always hug, call, and love your family …you never know when they’re not here with you anymore.
You be surprised on what you can do when you need to do it. I a worked with a company that cleaned up death and other life accidents, the way I looked at it, the problem of mine is to clean it up.
The emotions aren’t always public. You do get “desensitized” but every loss does come with sadness. Getting emotional when treating someone won’t help them or their families, but remaining empathetic and compassionate is important. Sometimes the cry comes on the drive home, before bed, whenever it hits...but keeping the professional front for your patients/clients is usually what they need.
My loved one of 15 years died of covid October 22. I am still crying. He is in Heaven Thats my peace. Please pray for me My home is not a home anymore One day I will join him.
My grandfather died of coronavirus in June 2020.…..we were not allowed to meet him till the last moment... He was all alone in the hospital..... I really cried after watching all these people in the hospital as in the corner of my mind, I know that my grandfather also knew that he was going to die Edit: Thank you for all your kind responses! It means a lot to me❤ Edit 2: I have read all your replies and I can't be more thankfull to you all! ❤Happy to see that people are spreading love from all around the world even without knowing the actual person.❤ Condolences to all the people who have lost their loved ones and are sharing their stories! Better times are waiting❤
I am so thankful for all the wonderful people that were caring , honest and helpful at the end of my parents’ lives. My mother didn’t have the same peaceful passing as my dad did and didn’t have warm, loving people by her side. They didn’t help her prepare for her passing. She was another warm body in their facility. My sister and I spoke to her less than 24 hours before her passing and we gave her the choice to let go or fight. She let go. Thank you God, for the good caregivers they both had.
not sure it should be seen as kind, because that implies the patients who didnt want the world to see their absolutely personal realisation of death, were not kind and selfish etc - but, it is appreciated that they were happy for cameras to intrude them
@@cate01a The opposite isn’t necessary implied just because it’s the opposite. You have only perceived it that way because you chose to. It can still be kind in my opinion, and I believe it is. The ones who allowed not can be just as kind
We feel bad for them but in the recesses of their mind they know they are dying, telling them out loud is just bringing it into a tangible state. The person dying deals with it a lot better than their family. They know it was going to eventually happen the same as you know you will eventually die one day. Mostly when someone is about to die they do so with so much dignity, despite them thinking they are weak, what I see are very very strong people, who all die gracefully,
Its rough but its a tremendous service. In a way they were both immortalized forever. Generations hundreths of years ahead will be able to look back on this and realize (if we haven't conquered death yet) that no matter what year, decade or century, human life will always be the same.
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Almost two years ago, I watched this and the full documentary. I learned a lot from it, and I'm glad, because in February, if found out I have palliative anaplastic thyroid cancer, with not much longer to live. (months, likely.) Thanks for posting.
I wish I could have given this woman a great big hug,God bless you😥❤♣️
It looked like my husband in the last few days of his life.
God bless
I want people to know about the young man who found us who had jumped the train traveling. He got to Canada, but told the RCMP that he had gotten drunk and fell asleep and that's how he got over the Border. I told him that if he got to Canada again to tell them he wanted to stay. He wears Tattoos of Tear's on his face that are indicative of a homicide victim and/or someone seeking Justice for a homicide. He has a Tattoo on his arm that say's Too Stubborn To Die. If you see him see he gets someplace where people are human beings. I have a life threatening Medical Condition & numerous times have not been able to get the medication because somebody else who has been using my Stolen Identity doesn't need it. Without the medication Coma & death. One time I heard my husband in the hallway of the hospital telling the Medical Staff that they were supposed to give me IV'S that are proper procedure and protocol & without it I would likely die. He went to the parking lot to go to our vehicle and had a gun held to his head and told him that I had died (he was wearing Military Insignia on his back). He was detained, but obviously got to me. I made him promise that we won't die in the Country that we worked for & my children were kidnapped in. I wear scar's from when I nearly lost my life shortly after the kidnapping of the children and the theft of my Identity at that time...
Marriage is literally agreeing to live with each other until you die. The worst part of marriage is one of you will watch the other die.
Anthony R or until Karen takes all your money in a divorce
Not always.
In Phil Hartmans case that sadly was too true
Even through cheating, lies, drama etc
If the love is there, it’s still painful af. So sad
Not if you die together in a car accident or something...
Worst thing about life is seeing others end.
Your so right😭
It's the most painful thing in the world. Heck it hurts even if you don't know them very well. I cried for hours after learning my next door neighbor died, even if we didn't speak much it was scary to see that the woman who would smile and wave each morning is just...gone.
It's a part of life, our eventual end. And it's not a bad thing; it happens whether we're ready or not. It's important to love as much as you can everyday you're here, you never know. I wish all of you much love in life❤
@@mai227_ yeah like on the news and stuff. Not many people seem to think into it as much as I do.
@@janedoe-ex5wo it's still scary. And thank you, I wish you love too xxx
I’m not afraid of dying. I’m afraid that somebody that I love dies.
I would rather die before my parents. I would not be able to handle pain.
@@flame9999 i tough that too, just spend as much as u can time with them
FlameTheLava FlameTheLava same
Same over here I struggle with separation anxiety so I can't imagine when they die I'm the youngest and I don't wanna be alone
I've been suffering for months and I dont wanna die there's a lot of things I want to do.
When she said "I don't like it" and was holding back her tears, trying to be strong, that got me instantly. I've never dealt with loss in my family before. I don't know how I would manage losing my grandmother, mother, or partner.
My dad died on my birthday
@@kingskid5130I’m so sorry to hear that. Sending my condolences x
@@bethanwatkins1164 thank you
I would tell them “Rejoice, because the Holy Mother Mary is bringing you home!” 🙏🙏🙏
my grandfather died about 1 1/2 years ago. this sounds corny to some, and im sure youve heard it a million times, but my first regret was not being able to spend more time with him. yes it was out of my control (him living in India and me in the US, and i had school going), but i still felt horrible that we couldnt play one last game of carom with him. just one last game...
pretty difficult for me, as an atheist, to deal with it, and i began to see why people followed religion. best i can say is just enjoy your time with your loved ones, and when they pass, stay strong :)
I’m more afraid of my mother’s death then my own
Same. I’d rather me die than me dog. I just tear up thinking of life without them.
same🥺 I would rather go first coz I’d be miserable my whole life after
We all are
@@ayeyae6244 your mom wouldn't like you to be miserable after she's gone, Don't think that way.
João Costa I know but I’m currently battling with a mental illness and my mom is the only who’s always been there so if she goes I’m gonna lose interest in life
I could never be a doctor.
They're such strong people. They can't cry. They have to be strong for the patients.
I would be a mess
We do cry when noone sees us.
@@emis4608
Thank you for saying that.
I'm a nurse but yes, we do cry. Sometimes we sit in our cars to sob, sometimes we shed some tears during our breaks or when we step off to the side, sometimes we sit with the patient and wipe away tears with them
But we've seen so many deaths that we've learned to push past it in the moment until we have the opportunity to let it out
medical professionals do cry. but yes, they are strong people for not showing their emotions in front of these people.
You get used to it
I just learned that the woman died in 2016 just few months after his death, so sad hope they can go fishing with peace in heaven
RIP❤️😢🥺🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
R u sure?? Where did u found tht news??
Jayarambr Ram yes
Oh far out,nine months later...that was her love of her life,she couldn't handle life without her love bittersweet.
Better up there’s lake at heaven or else I’m filing a complaint.
Sad but inevitable will happen to us all..... and sadly there ''Won't be any fishing either''......
“We’re going fishing…” and he never got to leave the hospital. 😢 May he rest in peace. He is so lucky to have such a loving wife by his side the entire time.
fishing is bad
@@stuffnthings111 I was crying and idk why but your comment cracked me up lol
@@joltyflare im glad
@@stuffnthings111 I'm a vegetarian punk I'm not supposed to be disagreeing with you but what kind of a s_ithead do you have to be to comment that under a video like *THIS*
@rafaeldejesus8199fish overpopulating is also pretty bad
The walls of Hospital's have heard more prayers than any other church, mosque & temples
Also Prisons
And still these “gods” don’t answer and kill these people with great pain. How can you still believe in a god when there’s so much suffering?
True true
Lithostheory that’s why they die as to relieve the suffering
cool cat But why would God make them suffer in the first place?
Two things I learned I don’t want to see:
1. An old person crying, and
2. Dr Selavaggia walking through my door
THE 2ND ONE LOL
@@butterboy8594 LOL shut up you insensitive little fuck
@@DUCKSXLE LOL you said LOL to you insensitive fuck
Honestly, having a father who is undergoing palliative care (Granted no where near the level of this gentleman, but still we are aware he is not going to recover) I have to say I would be at first apprehensive, and then deeply comforted to have someone like Dr. Selavaggia working my father's case. That being said, the Palliative team who has been working with him to date have been awesome. They are encouraging and push Dad to do everything he can, but are also compassionate when it comes to the real truth that he will only be able to manage so much, and eventually even that will become a challenge. My heart goes out to professionals in this field, who have the challenge of balancing a need for compassion toward their patient with the requirement of explaining what is going to happen at the same time.
lmao
It really hurts when the person who gave you the best memories becomes a memory
This is true..
Holy, just reading that brought me to tears :(
I'm getting juicy eyed
Bro, I'm not crying. My eyes are just sweating
Memory either way?.. no disrespect just saying
My dad died 2 weeks ago. Stage 3 colon cancer. I tell him straight to the point when I got the news from doctor. I cried when I told him. He is strong, he isnt cry. he even comfort me and said "its ok son". I miss him.
im sorry
So sorry for your loss.
My dad died in May from kidney cancer. I'm only 16 and I was at school until I walked into his room and I watched him die. I had no idea what hospice was. I love you bro we will get through it.
Youll see him again soon God has a plan for all bro
@@joe-op2gryoull see him again soonish man life on earth is short. But whats next is glorious eternal life for all
I cant believe "End of life care" is a specialty, mad respect to the people who has the balls to do it
When it was clear my sister was going to pass, they moved her to the hospice floor of the hospital. She only lasted two days and she passed away after all the family had gone home for the night. A nurse was with her in her final moments. I’ve always been very grateful for that. Can you imagine their courage?
@@sarahewson3607 o so sorry to hear that are you alright?
(the doctor was a girl)
@@maisiewilson9103 it’s been ten years since she passed away, she had been sick for a few years before that. I find comfort in knowing her suffering is over. Her youngest daughter lives with me and she’s so much like my sister, it’s almost like having her with us still. Sometimes that makes the sad days sadder, but in a way my children are growing up with that same spark that I did. The love never goes away, she left us with a lot of love. ♥️
@@sarahewson3607 She is an angel and is in heaven watching over you and your beautiful family God bless 😊💖
Last thing my sister told me before she died, on her death bed she said, “I’ll still be prettier than you.” And laughed, saying she was kidding and she loved me. She was 15 and fighting cancer ❤️ rip sis ily ❤️🕊
Edit: thank you for the replies, it means a lot ❤️
I lost my mother to cancer
Lmao feelsbad
so sorry
🙏🙏🙏
I Don’t Know What To Call This I’m sorry for loss, May god grant her heaven ❤️
I feel so bad for the old lady. She’s hiding her pain and we all know it
@@unshdhGbzbs What a horrible thing to say. It's very painful to see a loved one decline or in the dying process ITS NEVER EASY NO MATTER WHAT AGE!!! DO YOU HAVE ICE WATER IN YOUR VEINS?...........Oh wait.......YES YOU DO!!
@Psychic Medium Di yes, but Victor's heart is stone cold already..........very sad........very
I did twist ur mind on ur comment
@Joey Robertsonson bla bla funny guy spare us your fairy tales
@John Locy thank you for your service 🙂😇
I watched my daughter die of cervical cancer over a 2 year period . most of it in St johns hospice and a home . Then 2 years later my wife got taken in with a chest infection . 3 weeks later i lost her . never came home . Watching your loved ones take their last breath is the worst thing that a human can do . Even after 4 years i still break down most days . I miss them so much .
I’m so sorry. I have no words, only tears and many hugs for you, if wanted. ❤
I am very sorry for your loss, I have lived through something similar, and I want you to know that you are not alone. The love that we feel for those who are dear is so powerful that not even death can reduce it
❤ I’m so sorry for your loss.
I am very sorry about ur loss sir,my heart goes to you,i will keep u in my prayers❤
It is definitely the hardest thing you do, but after watching both my parents take their last breaths, I also look upon it as a great privilege to be there with them. So, so difficult but I'm so pleased I was there with them. Condolences to you ❤️
It hurts me the most whenever I see old couples and one is looking at the other dying one.. They have spent so much of their life together, and just looking at the other after one has passed away is heartbreaking
At least one of them is not alone when dying.
My great Grandma passed away and my great grandpa had dementia and was always asking where she was, he ended up passing away a few weeks later though so they weren’t apart long
Usually the other is not far behind.
You do realize they just met
Don't be hurt, they just met each other as newlyweds.
He was once a young healthy boy hanging out with his friends
Its crazy to think that most of us will be in his position one day..
Yea.. I can feel it ..
Subhan003 if we’re lucky
@@subhan6363 if we're lucky.
@Flight 32X could you do it though? With Coronavirus, I've been forced to thinking of suicide should I catch it bad as i don't fancy struggling for breath and drowning in my own fluids for possible days on end. I dont know if I could actually do it though.
imagine being with someone for more than 50 years and one of them die ,could you imagine the feeling , damn we cry over breakups for 1 or 2 year.
Didn't she also say newlyweds?
Edit: exectly why does this comment get 80 likes. It's unimportant.
Kinda break up have u been going thru 😂they last weeks maybe 2 months tops
@@truthmatters758 deadass 1 month tops shawty out the way
There newlyweds, but still!
@@megansmoker9982 oohhh 50 mins ago 😂
That second doctor they brought in has such a calm, reassuring presence. You can really tell she's good at what she does. She's so comforting and she says just what is needed to be said, no more and no less. All doctors should strive to be like this.
I don t agree. This was a ridiculous scene and disrespectful.
@cloudman8911 How was it ridiculous and disrespectful? I'm genuinely curious.
@@mannygonzalez7735 Its not dying its murder. The NO1 leading cause of death is pharmaceutical MD direct treatments. The MD`s make direct cuts from prescribing drugs and getting as many people onto a payroll prescription as possible. They get houses bought for them, luxury holidays, hotels, all different kinds of benefits. High grade pure THC oil and diet change would have cured the cancer very quickly.. An MD does not even know how to cure heartburn. The average cancer patient is worth upto $1.5million dollars in the USA alone. GOOGLE IMAGES - ACIDOSIS CYCLE.
@@cloudman8911What are you talking about?
She's a physician who specializes in end of life care. The average practical nurse is capable of doing that job, and for much less money. What is the worst that could happen?
“We’re going fishing after we leave here.” That broke my heart! 💔🥺
One day they’ll be reunited and able to go fishing again❤️
🥺
“til we meet again.”
No matter if she goes fishing alone, he will always be there 🥺
😢
At one point, everyone in this video was a young, happy, carefree child. Life moves by pretty quickly. Never pass up an opportunity to tell your loved ones how much they mean to you.
Everything is tampon, so be happy and Forever Living.
💓 💓 💓
@@OCD-GUY yes, everything in life is a tampon. I couldn’t have put it better
Lmao
@@bob2k375 the fact that you say lmao after people grieve just make you a bad person and noone thinks you’re funny
@@buenoazzbeaten5607 bruh I laughed at the tampon joke
Relax
Clyde knew he was dying when he said “ I love you” back to his wife. It’s good that he got a final chance to say that to her before he left this world.
5:03
what was his COD?
that broke me
I mean I feel like he could hear the conversation between his wife and the doctor as well.
Yes
Kudos to that poor woman for letting them film her in such a vulnerable moment. Because of her and her husband, we can be educated on how this conversation will go down and what to expect (if we're lucky to have compassionate doctors). A lot of us will be in her shoes some day. RIP Clyde.
Last thing my sister told me on her death bed was "It isn't fair"....she was only 44
i’m so sorry. may she rest in peace. ❤️
SO WAS MY DAD 44 WHEN HE PASSED. HE LEFT 9 CHILDREN. TO THIS DAY I NEVER MET ANYONE THAT COULD MATCH HIS WORK ETHICS. ALL HE WANTED WAS A LARGE FAMILY. THANKS TO HIS HARD WORK, MY MOTHER WAS ABLE TO RAISE US NICELY.
So sorry for your loss, hope youre healthily coping and living to your best 👍
That's actually old asf
888 ??? A prayer for the loss of your father but that’s so rude saying SO? like man yeah your father was probably a amazing person but you being a jerk to a person who lost their sister is disgusting I hope u learn and forgive.
I never really understood when people said they felt their heart jump when receiving bad news until I witnessed a doctor tell my brother he only had a few months to live. I literally saw the blood drain from his face and felt my heart in my throat. RIP dear Brother.
that’s tough man 🙏🏽 god bless you .
This kind of comments always make me cry... May he rest in peace, I'm sure that at the end he was really grateful for everything
J E Your brother is fine now. Circumstances surrounding death can be very tragic, but death itself isn’t, it’s
just the gateway to reality. One can see people age 3O years when they are suddenly told they have weeks to live, proving time is a psychological construct and birth and death mental concepts, so no worries my friend all works out fine in the end. Good luck
J E I'm really sorry for your loss...
I wish you the best in the future. Keep believing and know that God is watching you always along with your brother. Especially in the times you need him. 🙏
Damn when she said "I don't like it..." oh my Lord....
Right. It crushed my heart. Crushed it.
@Psychic Medium Di Sad to say, if you truly love that person, their dying moments will just stay with you for life, you just need to learn to be stronger to keep on going and always remember the good times.
Immmm crying so hard
We are fucking helpless. After centuries of research and study, still powerless to our own mortality. Even single one of us must face this completely on our own.
@@camillemoore7247jn
My Dad died looking like this at 74 years old, riddled with a cancer that took hold very quickly. He had been so fit and active just months before. It was unbelievable.
May he rest in peace
Seen it happen 4 times in my life to close relatives. Definitely not a good thing to watch.
My condolences
I'm so sorry to hear that. That must have been so terrible to go through. Rest in peace. He's in a better place.
Same thing happened to my grandpa. He was gone within months and deteriorated fast. He went from talking, walking to looking like this man in the video within two days. 😢
I’ll never forget the first time I was told I was dying. I was 18, which felt pretty old at the time, but looking back now, as a 26 year old, I can’t believe how young 18 really is. Anyway, I was in the hospital for a fairly standard procedure; I was getting a feeding tube placed in my stomach. A bunch of you probably just read that and went uhhh that’s not a standard procedure? But I have lived my entire life with a progressive muscle-wasting disease. I never crawled or walked, and I got my first wheelchair when I was two. For ~most~ people with my disease (spinal muscular atrophy type 2) a feeding tube becomes a regular part of life between the age of 15-30ish. So I knew it was coming, and even though it sucked, I eventually came to terms with needing it and all that jazz.
Anyway, I was in the hospital for several days after I got the tube, mostly for precautions and for learning how to hook myself up to the magic formula. Important stuff, but I felt fine and my mind was mostly focused on returning to my freshman year of college. I had assignments and friends I missed and there was lots of FIFA playing to make up for.
One afternoon, quite unexpectedly, this morose-looking nurse entered my hospital room and announced she was from palliative care (i.e. the people who care for the dying near end of life). She looked me square in the eye and said, “Are you prepared for when you die?” I, obviously, was quite taken aback by this question, so I told her I thought she had the wrong room. “No, I have the correct room. You have a progressive disease and you’re now on life-support for nutrients. We need to make you a will.” She had the bedside manners of a dead horse.
People with my disease routinely live full lifespans, and as far as I’d been told by my doctors, the feeding tube was simply meant to improve my health and quality of life, giving me that much of a better chance of living into old age. I kindly told the nurse to leave my room. I know she was probably assigned to inform me about end-of-life choices and whatnot, but the way she did it with such a complete lack of empathy really ruined me for a long time.
Also, plot twist, a few years later the FDA approved a the first ever treatment for my disease and I’m thriving like never before!
Squirmy and Grubs I love your story, thank you for sharing!
I don't know about living with a major disease/problem/ilness but i try to understand. These kind of stories are extremely touching and i could not be happier for you. And i do not say that to many people truly from my heart.
Squirmy and Grubs ❤️❤️❤️glad for u
That's terrible. And I'm sorry. To suffer that would leave me with a post traumatic syndrome. Hope you're good now. And I hope medical technology out does itself to improve things for you further. And if it doesn't come up with a plan to Implement a Vendetta. VENDETTA! ok seriously now, you should be playing Forza. Fifa is ok but every year a new version sucks.
thank you for sharing your story. I'm happy your okay!
Why does it hurt so hard watching other people die, even if I don’t know them
Cause u are Human.
Mr. Cringe nah I’m a carrot
It’s because u have a loving heart..
@@cocraine a Carrot with a Human Feelings
That's emotion and that us what makes us human
I hope Clyde is sitting by a lake fishing someplace at peace.
I'm sure he's fishing free from pain. 😪
Uhmm....based on his final wishes he's more than likely just wormwood at this point. The bright side is, once those worms get nice and full you can catch them and fish for yourself...y'know cos you're alive and stuff...
Claire Harrison yes! I was sad he didn’t get to go fishing 😞
If he was buried, he is being eaten by worms and insects and if he was cremated, he is now a cloud floating around because he evaporated. 🙋🙋😂😂🐭🐭🐭🐜🐜🐜🐜🐙🐙🐛🐛🐛🐉🐉☁️☁️☁️☁️☁️⛅🌙🌙🌙
@i n f i n i t e T y l e r Have I not stated the absolute truth? Oh let me guess, the truth offends you.. 😀😀😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🐭🐭🐭🌙
Impossible not to cry with her “I love you”.
So touching.
RIP Clyde!
😔
@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?
The fact that he was able to say “I love you” in that state is beautiful. Rest In Peace, Clyde
It broke me with a very strong intensity.
The cycle of life and death is a mystery so sad to see him leave her like that 😞 May he Rest In Peace
agreed, I wasn't expecting that was a blessing. My Grandma's last words to me on the phone were exactly that too.
i was 18 when my mum was given the "only a few days left" diagnosis. cancer. couldnt speak, couldnt move, severe pain. she told me "i love you" and it was like strained and mumbled but i got it. and i dont think ill ever forget it. until i die. you know when someone is in so much pain and they give everything within them to say that to you, that they mean it.
absolutely
When Mr Earle's wife said: "I don't like this"
My heart just shattered.
same, jesus christ that hit like a ton of bricks
this is exactly im facing with my father right now...
@@kenrock2 I wish you the best of luck, and I am sorry to hear that
@@lemon.3560 Tq.. God bless u
@@kenrock2 I am sorry to hear that my friend . Wish u strength.
I'm not afraid of passing away , I'm just afraid of how I go , how my family would feel and if there's really an afterlife
Yeah, being dead will be the easy part. It's how you get there is what is hard.
There certainly is an afterlife, the Bible tells us so. There’s a heaven and a hell. Hell for those that reject the Lord Jesus, heaven for those that believe He died for us on the cross. Read it all in a King James Bible, year 1611, not revised one. God bless you.
@@janisewellington3971 yeah bible this bible that , I believe in god but sometimes I really question if there's a heaven or hell because it's a BELIEF. See if scientists could prove that's where you go to then I wouldn't question it at all.
@@daerituals3465 Scientists are the same humans as we are and it's not In a human mind to answer those questions
@@txrzandd6577 We are human because we seek answers and question things. That's what a human is
This is so important. My husband had cancer and I needed help. I needed palliative care. When I brought this up my kids saw it as me giving up. I was an RN for 38 years and I knew my husband was dying. It was very difficult to take care of him and to do what I needed to do and think of him as my husband. I had to put my nursing cap on and see him as a patient. When he died I robbed myself from feeling the grief I should have felt. For Five years I suffered and made some terrible choices. After going to therapy and having someone help me by telling me I was suffering from overwhelming unresolved grief was I able to heal.
@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?
you are so strong
Clyde's wife saying "i know" and holding tears back made me cry :(
People killing each other over religion
@@paulineheaney1981 tacky, what does that have to do with anything here?
@@paulineheaney1981 wt 😆😆stupido
@@paulineheaney1981 wtf does this have to do with anything in this video you deranged FOOL.
@@paulineheaney1981 so what? so ur saying there is no god? stupid
It sucks being the only living creatures on earth to be cursed with the knowledge of our own mortality.
A blessing and a curse
But how do you know that what if other animals know that like cats usually take themselves off to die so that their owners won’t feel so bad, it’s as if they can tell when they will die even if it’s a habit it’s still an understanding of some degree.
Well, I think others’ mortality is much worse, and many animals can certainly feel it, such as elephants.
KoKane exactly
animals know it too.
"The future is unpredictable, but the past is unforgettable"
Edit: don't use this quote, everyone just made me realize how terrible it is
Unless your the Simpsons
Yeah the future is unpredictable, but I cant even Remember What i ate for dinner
Just realized after you guys replied, WHY
Till alzheimer's sets in
Tell that to people with Alzheimers
I lost my partner of 45 years just weeks ago....this video is so raw for me.I fought off Hospice and made preparations to have him home. That was not to be.He lasted 3 days in Hospice. I had doctor after doctor tell me what I didn't want to hear until I was befriended by a neurologist who did everything he could and knew I was in denial . In the end I looked to him for answers and he shook his head saying it was time and it was. I was slowly coming around to the reality we didn't have much time. He passed on his 3rd day in hospice...
i am so sorry
This is a very private moment, it’s pretty incredible that they allowed a crew to capture it all on camera and share it on public television.
Feels unethical tbh. I feel icky seeing the second part of this video.
@@GoldenHairErik It looks like the footage they captured was pretty limited, and respectfully done. Nothing "icky" about that.
@@GoldenHairErik it’s something that happens, and people should know about it. Dying is not “icky”, it’s part of life.
i mean considering it’s a hospital there was probably already a bunchhhh of paperwork involved so i’m sure she consented and they would’ve left if asked
@@leigha4449 holy shit common sense! Something that most people lack lol
I can't imagine doing a job like this, they are VERY SPECIAL people.
Being in Palliative Care is very difficult, but can also be very rewarding. The ability to help someone know that it's okay to LET GO, to stop enduring the pain of their current situation, to just let those they care about speak with them and see them one last time not in pain, but instead telling them how much you care for them and wish them the best in their life; it's gives those in the field a feeling of happiness.
@@TISOA_1173 and get paid enough
Yeah right. They want you to DIE. SAVING LIFES ARE LOOSING MONEY
people who watched this from 2015 will NOT understand this, but if they see this again, there are hundreds of thousands that are close to dying and require oxygen to breathe. 4 Million people have died from Covid19, out of 187 million infections. the deadliest and worst variant is the Delta variant discovered in 2021.
@@Thebombonlyone lmfao then there would be no point of a hospital. Just stop
Her little “I don’t like it at all” broke my heart into a million pieces
Made me tear up bro
lmao
@@llllIllIIl Bruh why are you saying "lmao" this is serious shit, there's nothing funny about it.
@@llllIllIIl I'm really surprised you said that in a video where it includes death and no one should be laughing at something who is dying
@@llllIllIIl PLEASE STFU
After battling with chemotherapy since last August, and expecting surgery this Ferbruary, I was told that my condition (cancer) had progressed too far to be operated on, and that I would likely lose my life within 2 years. At the age of 24, recently being engaged and the hopes of starting a family, myself and my partner's worlds came crashing down. It's never easy for the person who receives the news. The most painful thing for me however, is seeing just how much my condition and prognosis affects the people around me. That is what I wish I could take away for them.
I've had "the talk" with a doctor and my husband survived, it's 37 years later and he is still surviving.
Which is great. No one can predict death. It just helps you prepare for the worst. Should It come.
Doctors are not god, dont trust them when they want you in a nursing home or hospice. It is your choice, I choose to forget what they wanted and will continue to live till god desides.
@@kayt9576 No doctor wants anyone to die, and it's always your choice how to live your final days. But it's important that you make that choice with all the information laid out in front of you, and with expert advice to guide you. To tell you "you definitely won't die, just keep fighting no matter what" would be inhumane and amoral.
A doctor's job is neither to play God nor to control lives as they see fit, it's to provide medicine and medical care for which they've been trained. It's our job to listen and respect we can't be all-knowing, even when it comes to our own bodies.
Allow me to present an alternative. I've had "the talk" with a doctor about my father. Hours later and he indeed died. If that doctor had done anything other than prepare me, I would've been substantially more devastated than I already was.
@@kayt9576 Then don't go to hospitals from now on.
Let's get it 💪
Why do I do this to myself? Watch videos like this and make myself cry at 3AM? I hope you’re somewhere peaceful now, Clyde. May your soul rest in blissful tranquility.
люблю if u r watch this at 3am that means u r unemployed!)
ITS LITERALLY 3:00 AM EXACTLY
@sunrise you make no sense, i am employed and im not a student lol
12:11am here.
@@allengarcia9152 or it means you're an as sumptuous asshole....people work night shift and stay up late on nights off dick head
I remember my dad had stage 4 colon cancer and didn't know it. He collapsed in the living room and was rushed to the hospital. The doctor said that this cancer is very aggressive, and that he would barely survive the week after the collapse. He gave it so gently, and wished my family the best. He surprisingly survived it through a lot of prayer and love and effort. He's now cancer free. It's been nearly 8 years and my dad is still with me. I feel so bad for those who don't have the same outlook, and I hope their families are shown the most love possible
The power of God is amazing
@@stephen_boss power of belief and law of attraction.
Hi my mom also has stage 4 colon cancer, I dont know how old you are but it turns out we had a genetic disease that made us have a 50 chance of having it in the future. I dont know if you have this but just in case
@@tubbier I'm 16. And I'm likely to have it
@@baronzemo8871 get tested when you turn 20-ish, you gotta push for the testing because they might say you are too young. The earlier the better, stay strong
I watched this video six or seven years ago because it was recommended by TH-cam. For whatever reason, TH-cam wanted me to see it again. I am currently taking a medical/linguistic anthropology class where we have been discussing how doctors talk with dying patients and how important it is for doctors to assess the goals of the patient in regards to what they'd like to do or accomplish before they pass before it's too late for them. This video demonstrates what I have been learning perfectly. Thank you for sharing your final moments with us, Clyde. Rest in peace.
I feel so bad, she looks so innocent and she doesn’t deserve it. I almost started crying
Jesus Bless U
I started to tear up
I did cry and had to pause the video multiple times because it was so heavy. 😭
No one does, but everyone has to go through it at some point
i started crying i had to watch my mom die when i was nine im eleven now also i had to whatch my grandma and grapas all die so i know what it feels like
I was shaving my dying Grandfather, shaking and barely holding it together when he looked up and said, "Awe, it's gonna be ok". I was a teenager and will take that memory to the grave.
😢😢u made me tear. I lost my grandfather too, and it so sad.
I still spend time with my grandfather and he means the world to me. I prefer sitting with him and listen to his stories rather then going out with other people.
Same with my grandma. She is having an operation in a few weeks and I'm afraid to lose her.
It was her 70th birthday yesterday
@Ranjit Tyagi I'm sorry for your loss. Sure, times are hard but everything heals some day and you should never forget the positive memories you had. If you remember them, a person is never completely gone. And I'm sure they loved their lives to full extent💜
Thank you, it means a lot to me. I send all love back too you from East Germany❤️I hope all your dreams come true and that you will find true love soon! My mum is 45 on 06/30 and single too. I think sometimes true love is hard to find. Especially if you are a hard working person who deserves so much, that God had to create special people for you😄💜
Please stay safe in those trying times🌺
@Chris Craft: Oh, the same happened to me. We visited my grandpa and he was doing pretty fine that day. He even managed to get out of bed and my mom showered him in the shower cabin. Later on he came back to bed where I shaved him. Then we talked about me going abroad soon and starting a new life. We talked about more and less serious stuff. Just a casual talk, one of hundreds we'd had. And then we got up because it was time to leave. He said goodbye to my parents the usual way and when I came closer he grabbed my arm and looked me in the eyes like he never had before. It was that typical you-are-going-away-and-I-am-dying-and-we-both-know-we-won't-see-each-other-anymore look. It broke my heart. He indeed died 1,5 months later when I was abroad and I couldn't come to the funeral. He had bowel cancer but died of a heart failure.
@@abdelkaderelbrazi Yes...I felt that pain.
*The worst thing about this, is the woman going home and being alone, having that gap in here life, remembering the old times, having that empty side on the bed.*
My grandma was like that since my grandpa passed away nearly a month ago, 11 January.
been there
Life is full of challenges and great pain.
@@zaf2774 damn that's my birthday
@@MarstJohnson ??
This lady was so sweet and real. The pain is palpable, but she was so strong.
This really made me cry, remembering my Grandma when she passed away. Sorry for your loss.
I’m so sorry About that god bless
@@NatandJaysVlogs thank you
@@angelswift7946 I'm so sorry to hear about that I hope you and your family have a good quarantine
@@merceyless3483 thank you
My grandpa passed away a couple of years ago, I'm sorry for your loss...
When she says “I don’t like it” while holding back tears, my heart absolutely broke for her.
Yeah that's the moment I broke and teared up
Yes, I understood her completely. 💜
I wish i could exchange my life with him , anywhich ways mine is useless and i want to end my pain.
@@sauravsamdarshi730 hey, sorry to hear that you’re feeling like that. If you want to talk/chat, let me know and I’ll find some way to get in contact, and hopefully we can ease the pain
I pray this woman was able to navigate her way through such a difficult time..
When he tried saying “I love you” back... My fucking heart
Oh my God I didn't even realize that. That really sucks.
😭
Absolutely heartbreaking..
He did say I love you back. I see people in that state a lot and many of them cannot speak.
I’m in tears at that part 😭
When the doctor pat on Audrey's shoulder at 3:26, she clearly wanted to say something but it was inhibited.
It's this scene that puts me to tears every single time.
Yeah you’re right it seems like she was trying to say “i know”, and couldnt get it out, probably “i know he’s dying”
I well remember how a surgeon broke the news to my father who was stricken with cancer. He looked at my dad and said, "Get your affairs in order, make peace with your God as your life is coming to an end." My father was born in 1929...part of that generation who were bred tough. He listened to the doctor, thanked him for his honesty and forthrightness and stood up and walked out of his office. I was in tears but my father grabbed me by the arms and said, "Son, I need you to be strong because you are going to have to help me on this journey...so wipe away the tears and take me home. I'm not dead yet...I have some months to go so don't cry for me now." He was brave right to the end. They made his generation out of very strong stuff.
Thank you for sharing..
I am sure he is in peace now.. 🍀
No other comments made me cry besides this. Your father was a strong man.
What a strong man
This touched my heart and I know your Dad was strong. And so are you.
That’s badass. RIP
When I watched my dog die, I remember saying “I don’t want you to go away.” In that moment I was in so much pain that I spoke like a little boy. The way she simply said “I don’t like this” reminded me a lot of that moment. It’s like when we face real fear and loss, we return to our child selves.
Aw I’m sorry for your loss of your beautiful dog
Yes. This is true. I don't have the correct terminology for it, but speaking from my own perspectives, it's got something to do with going back, in order to move forward. And surprisingly so, it's The Child Self
@@josephvasquez8278 No we don't. It's perfect
I called my Mother Mommy while she was dying. Yes we do, it feels safe.
Bruv it's a dog get over it
All he wanted to do was go fishing....
Damn my heart
Lmao
My grandpa promised he would take me fishing some day but unfortunately he passed away and till this day I never went fishing.
@@kostalazic6531 dude... I feel for ya
That man’s last words were MILF. Man, I love fishing...
@@petergriffin8767 XD NICE
It's so hard. Watching the love of your life slip away, and there's absolutely nothing you can do to stop it. I lost mine a little over 2 years ago.
I'm so very sorry for your loss. ❤
okay but imagine trying to get permission to film this
"we're gonna film this, is that okay?"
"sure but what for..?"
"...nothing don't worry about it fam"
🤣🤣🤣
Oh I needed this I was bawling at this video
wonder how they treated people especially minorities back in the day?
imagine they were just like the prank channels and said "it's just for a stupid youtube video, i make this kind of things"
fam
I’m currently 14 and I just wanna say this will all be us some day so let’s live now and I just wanna say I love all u guys no matter who u are.
Keith busjs I love you, too!!
:)
gross bunny aww thank you
Coder boi thanks bro
Thank you as a 15 year old that makes me smile
Idk why but when he sounded so exided to go home and go fishing it broke my heart
Same to me!
:'(
My dad just wanted to go home to our old house where he was happiest. Near his pond. . And he died in the hospital. I am hoping he went there after
E.x.i.c.t.e.d= Excited
he's up there with god, fishing forever
@North-East yeah your right. The universe and humans randomly appeared. Same as cars and houses appeared because they had no creators😂
my grandfather... i could have said so much, been there more for him... and now I can't. please love your grandfathers and grandmothers and visit them from time to time
I will never forget having “the talk” before my dad passed away. He was 50. I was 11. I am 15 now. I have so much respect for the people who work in end of life care.
❤️ Update - I am so grateful for all of the kind replies I have received. This past Thanksgiving marked 4 years without him, and though it was difficult, I felt his presence and love. Reflecting on his passing and the traumatic circumstances under which I lost him, something that has and will always stick with me were the wonderful people who worked in end of life care and were a rock for me and my family. I count my blessings every day and they are certainly in them. If you are reading this and dealing with loss, recent or not, please know that things get better; they certainly have for me, even since I first wrote this comment 6 months ago. Thank you. ❤️
i’m sorry for your loss ☹️
proud of you
Lily, my father passed away on 18.11.21 after 2 months of hospitalisation. He was 80.4 years old.
I am 46 and I miss him to this day everyday🙏.
you have to be strong for him. comment section is always here for you. stay strong sister
I've experienced the same thing only 2 months ago with my dad who was also 50 , I lived most of my time with him , I'm only 16 , I was 15 at the time , I had seen him the day before he collapsed , it was so sudden and all of his family flew over from England to say goodbye to him , I honestly just struggle to think about it , I was the last person to see him and I made sure of that , as much as I struggled I was also proud of him as he had donated his organs and saved the lives of four children , it gives me alot of strength to see others who have experienced very similar things and manage to get through like yourself , im very sorry for your loss , just know that he is proud of you and will always be with you ❤️❤️❤️I wish you and your family the best , love from Ireland
The old woman came across as a lovely person...
I hope she’s ok now.
Sadly she died too
VIOZO how do you know?
They look like a beautiful couple
She died 2016 😔
Aww that's so sad that she died... rip 💔😭
That “I love you” he managed to get out, through so much pain, caught me very off guard and brought tears to my eyes. I’m glad he’s not in pain anymore and I pray his wife has found some peace.
@@ketwarrior1981 it's a bot
@@ketwarrior1981 Yes ma'am
@@ANGELSURS that would explain the lack of heart.
@@ketwarrior1981 Wait a minute, I'm super confused. What just happened in this thred?
@@ANGELSURS Either that or
the TH-cam channel owner does
This video is a powerful reminder of the difficult conversations that doctors have to have with patients and their families. It takes incredible empathy and skill to navigate these discussions
Poor thing. When she began to cry, I did, too. No matter our age, we are always still little children inside.
but crying about someones death at any age is normal
@@geoverse2921 That's true. It's just the way she looked when she began to cry. Her expression was so heartbreaking in its sweet childlike quality.
Your comment made me emotional, but I do have to agree.
@@biri_o Hi. Thanks for your comment. 😊
@@geoverse2921 its normal to cry about anything at any age, anyone who doesn't is considered more weak than someone who does cry
"Death smiles at us all,but all a man can do,is smile back"
-Marcus Aurelius
And his son, Commodus was a megalomaniac and hated his papi.
@@vasishtsudharsan8867 whatever happened to that commodus dude? I heard he dresses as a clown nowadays
@@williamquantrill9076 he’s busy being dead rn.
And I'm smiling at it first😃
Smile for me now brother! 😀😀😀😀😀😀👄👄🙌
This man lived a full life, and died beside the one he loves. I think that’s a success full life
Pepper Guy The only succesful way to die is on the Battlefield so you can join your ancestors in Valhalla. Can I get a hail odin, brothers!
@@weberowatchero4303 wtf
@leza :Seriously ... you ought to have the Secret Service monitoring your comments .
You are SICK & Dangerous and when you physically die & go to Allah , your virgins may be all MALE .
@Tyrone Catkiller Kang why use offensive language when we are blessing a legend who died? How can you be so selfish? Tell me!
I can sympathize with the families; I lost my wife, of almost 27 years, after having the privilege of meeting her almost 30 years ago. She was young and beautiful and I miss her so much after two years of her loss. She passed at home and I devoted myself to taking care of her in her final weeks, hours, and seconds in this world. I would do it all again if I have to. Although we know that death is certain, we do not get used to that reality, not even the very fine doctors and care professionals in this video. I guess that a measurement of how much one's mission on earth has accomplished is how much we are going to be missed once we start the journey into the sunset.
@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?
In tears. What a hard job
Me to.
Yes and more common now. Especially when its not about "there are no more cures" Because its actually like, "we dont know anything until its stage 4 so Um sorry" Docs arent available anymore and PAs dont know until its obvious.
@@PhyreReighn Scary, we've come so far, only to continue to keep coming up short.
The lady was so sad and broken. It just makes you ache.
Its horrible because they have to see the worst part of everyones life over and over again. And then when their time comes they know exactly the terror and suffering they will face before then end and no one can save anybody! Very very difficult job but very important, possibly the MOST important part of medicine.
My mom died 3 months ago at the age of 60. Losing your mom at any age is hard, but I’m 28. And it’s been effin hard. Hospice was absolutely amazing and gave us the opportunity to spend time with her without her being in constant pain. RIP Ma.
Sending you lots of love, my dad died 3 months ago x
Rip stay strong ❤️
So sorry for your loss. ❤️
It does get easier.
I’m so deeply sorry🙏
I lost my dad 9 months before i was born to a car crash its been 21 years i turned 20 yesterday, its hard to not have a dad thats there when you need it especially the last 3 years 😭
My wife was diagnosed with cancer, aged 38, on the 22nd December, and died on Christmas Eve. More than 16 years later the speed and suddenness of it still haunts me. RIP Claire.
Oh dear, that must have been a tremendous shock. So sorry for your loss and the way it had happened. I hope you do find the strength and peace to not cross your border.... The sun does shine again! I will pray for you.
@@milahvocals That's very kind. Thank you.
@@afc358 I really do pray for you. God sees you. God knows you. God loves YOU.
I’m sorry for your loss, you’re really strong. that’s one of my worst fears.
@@sillyperson1610 Thank you, that's very kind.
100% courage and love to the patients and their family who allow this to be filmed.
Greetings from Mexico, I love what I am seeing on your profile. I apologize for jumping into your comment in such a way. I'm really looking forward to get to know you better. If you're comfortable with it, I'd love to talk somewhere outside the TH-cam comment section. and get to know each other a bit more intimately. What do you think?
I broke down when she said “ I don’t like it” and now I can’t stop crying
Me too
My man Clyde is up there fishing and having the time of his life.
William Hall clyde is a bro for life
@@Doors067 and death.
William Hall all the good works of a man cannot cover up his one single bad work. Just like when you take a criminal to court for a bad offense he committed by breaking the law of a country, all the good things he has done in his entire life cannot cover up that bad offense he committed. He will be sentenced to prison no matter how hard he begs for mercy and promises never to do it again. That is justice not wickedness. That is how it is with GOD. And throughout the bible GOD calls himself a just judge who will also judge all people that ever lived on judgment day.
When someone sins, he breaks GOD'S law and commandments. The punishment for sinning against GOD, is death, hell and be thrown into the lake of fire on judgment day. For that reason, GOD showed mercy because of his love for mankind, and the mercy is, he sent his only son into the world in human form as a man named YAHUSHUA whom the world calls JESUS, to suffer and die for the sins of the world so that whoever repents and turns away from his sins which includes, sexual immorality, drinking, disobedience to parents, disrespect, curse, or insult one’s parents, or one’s elders. smoking, partying, clubbing, tattoos, drugs, fornication, adultery, must not commit incest; which is, unlawful and forbidden sexual relations between siblings, or other close relatives. violence, pride, cursing, using the title GOD. And the name of his son JESUS as curse words, many christians said that Jesus warned them in visions, dreams and death experiences that women and girls who are using makeup, bleaching of skin, relaxation of hair, curling of hair, dyeing of hair, ornaments, wigs, short skirts, trousers, tight clothes or half naked clothes, artificial nails or eyelashes and wearing high heels will end up in hell because these impure things lead men and boys into sin of lust, fornication and adultery. and stopped doing to others what he does not want others to do to him,
and believes that JESUS the divine son of GOD came to this world in human form to suffer and die for the sins of the world and his sins and rose again from the dead on the third day after his death, and beg him in prayer for forgiveness, and to be his lord and savior and that he believe he is the divine son of GOD who came down to this earth to suffer and die for the sins of the world and rose again from the dead on the third day after his death, return double what he stole from others, forgive those who wronged him, apologizes to those he wronged, is baptized in the name of the father, the son and the holy spirit. Then GOD Will forgive and save him from The end of the world and the end of the universe, where God will send fire down from heaven to the earth, to consume and destroy the whole universe, the whole earth, all people, houses, cars, mountains, everything on earth and the universe will be melted by the fire. and God will also save him from hell, judgment day and the lake of fire. And will then be given everlasting life in heaven and the new indescribable, beautiful, Heavenly earth, where there is no sorrow, pain, suffering, sadness, crying, hunger, thirst, sickness, disease and death. Only everlasting happiness.
Do that now for after death it is too late.
Everything i have written here is truths from the bible.
Samuel Fritz i know. I came here to preach the gospel. In the Bible, in Mark 1:15 Yahushua Jesus said: The right time has come,“and the Kingdom of God is near! Turn away from your sins and believe the gospel!” The gospel is about how Yahushua Jesus the divine son of God came to this earth and paid for our sins, so that if we repent of our sins and believe in him as our lord and savior and beg him for mercy and to forgive our sins, and are baptized in the name of the father, son and Holy Spirit, then God will forgive and save us from the end of the world, where he will destroy the whole earth with fire from heaven everything on earth will be destroyed and melted by the fire. He will also save us from hell fire after death and from the lake of fire on judgment day; and will give us everlasting life in the kingdom of heaven and the new indescribable, beautiful, heavenly earth. Where there is no sorrow, pain, sadness, crying, hunger, thirst, suffering, sickness, disease and death. Only everlasting happiness with God forever.
Samuel Fritz What do you mean by general thread? This is definitely the place to preach. A place full of unbelievers. Jesus wants us to preach to unbelievers.
When I tell people that Jesus died and rose again from the dead so that their sins can forgiven, so that they would escape hell fire and the lake of fire, so that God would give them everlasting life in heaven and the new indescribable, beautiful, heavenly earth. Where there is no death, sorrow, pain, crying, sickness, disease, suffering, hunger, and thirst. only everlasting happiness with God.
is that not Gods love? they will know that Jesus did that because of his love.
5:00 when she said "i love you" and he responded "i know" damn that was hard to watch.
It sounds to me like he just said it back
Yup
Major Star Wars vibes.
Alex Jameson stfu
Hi! Jesus loves you! Make the right choice,i want to see you in Heaven!
Talk about heartbreaking, this brought a tear to my eye. You have to give credit to the doctors and staff who show a brave face when telling others their loved ones are at the end of their life.
Nobody:
TH-cam recommended: you haven’t cried in a while
I know right. Damn Algorithm!
Jake Ostler yes true
So true 😂
Yep and it’s 6am I haven’t slept at all IM BAWLING😭
This made me laugh after watching this video.
I never thought a 5 minute video could put me on the verge of tears. I have a soft spot for the elderly. RIP Clyde.
I love the stories they tell, of a bygone age. I like to imagine them full of energy and smiling, just living life.
My mum tells the same stories over and over again but I just smile and nod ❤
i work as a carer in a care home for elderly with dementia and it’s the best job ever honestly. the shit they come out with, the stories they tell, the advice they give. it’s truly magical.
There are 30 second TH-cam shorts that make us cry… I knew this would bring tears
Yeah I remember this. It wasnt even supposed to be this big it was just a little PSA about discussing end of life care. But its real AF.
Same, i'm a strong person, i don't cry almost never, but today...
My biggest fear is not being ready. I remember when my grandpa passed, I was there when the doctors told him he wasn’t going to make it. He cried like a kid, saying he didn’t want to die. Eventually the sickness got to him, and I guess he was suffering too much and he kinda gave in. It never felt beautiful to me, I never felt like he got peace. And it’ll forever haunt me seeing him cry like a kid and how unfair it felt. He really wasn’t ready to go.
Jesus loves you and can help you be ready when the time comes. I’m so sorry for your loves. Read the book of John in the Bible to find about eternal life through Jesus’ death and resurrection. Jesus came into the world to destroy death and it’s sting.
@@Danmansri plss can you stop talking about religion in such beautiful moment!!...grow up man!!
@@Danmansri I'm going to hell though. I'm not sure anything you say comforts an atheist.
@@Danmansri I don't think you understand how unbelievably arrogant, selfish, inconsiderate, and rude it is to shove your personal faith onto hurting people. If someone wants your religion, they will tell you, they will find it themselves.
@@queengoblin Raviolo Sponge Bob Reference, I am sorry for your Father's Loss. For everyone going after Daniel and Hannah J, You've got the wrong idea about the reason why Christians choose to share our faith. Why do you think we tell people about Jesus? What do we have to gain by it? A lot actually. First, please understand that we actually believe in Jesus. If we didn't we wouldn't be bugging you. Second, when Christ has entered into a heart, that heart is filled with peace and joy, knowing that we have been forgiven by God and that no matter what happens we will live with Him in paradise after death. It puts even our greatest sufferings into perspective. Not only has God forgiven us, but He has adopted us as his children! He does not simply tolerate us, He choses to love us! I can close my eyes and speak to the creator of our universe whenever I like! He hears me 24/7. No matter how bad things get, I cannot be snatched from His hand! I firmly believe that all who place their faith and trust in Jesus, declaring Him as their Lord (meaning we live according to His word) are saved from an eternity of unimaginable misery.
Kory Toombs, when you say you are going to Hell, I hope you have researched what that means. Please cry out to God, ask Him to forgive your sins. Ask him to help you believe. He assures us in His words from Jeremiah 29:13 that if we seek Him, He will be found. He also says that no one who ever comes to Him is turned away. John 6:37. I am one who did not believe, but I asked God to help me believe, and He did. He can do the same for you.
Now getting back to what we have to gain by sharing our faith, as reborn, forgiven people, we share the desire of our Lord Jesus who wants all people to be saved. Morningstar, You accused us of arrogance, selfishness and rudeness, but can't you see that with the knowledge Christians have (which we genuinely believe to be true) it would be highly selfish and arrogant, even murderous of us to withhold our good news! If we keep silent about what God has done for us, that is true selfishness. When you know a wonderful secret, you tell it to your friends. And I claim you as a friend. Morningstar, I would like to know more of your experience with Christianity. There are a lot of people who claim to follow Christ and don't. I hope you will share the reason why you aren't currently a fan of Christianity.
I lost my father last year at 63. Unexpectedly, and found him on his bathroom floor. As bad as this sounds, it makes me wish I could have seen him age all the way to this age, about 20 years later I wish I could have seen him look older. I wish I was able to kiss his forehead goodbye and hear him say I love you to me one last time. Life is really short. Live it to the fullest and always hug, call, and love your family …you never know when they’re not here with you anymore.
how can doctors hold in the tears? im literally crying. i feel bad for lady she has to go on without him.
Desensitization. I was an EMT and it comes on fast. When it wears off it leaves you full of dread. For some people it never wears off.
You be surprised on what you can do when you need to do it. I a worked with a company that cleaned up death and other life accidents, the way I looked at it, the problem of mine is to clean it up.
@@scottsmith1349 meant to say it wears off mostly at home, away from work. Some don't develop symptoms of PTSD until after they've quit or retired.
The emotions aren’t always public. You do get “desensitized” but every loss does come with sadness. Getting emotional when treating someone won’t help them or their families, but remaining empathetic and compassionate is important. Sometimes the cry comes on the drive home, before bed, whenever it hits...but keeping the professional front for your patients/clients is usually what they need.
My loved one of 15 years died of covid October 22. I am still crying. He is in Heaven
Thats my peace. Please pray for me
My home is not a home anymore
One day I will join him.
Rest In Peace Clyde Earle. My condolences to the family and widow.
I- why the fuck did I read window ? Wtf is wrong with me
@@eloosh8737 we don’t know yet
capoislamort100 I don’t know man it’s been five years
@@capoislamort100 You're either delusional or trying to be funny. Can't tell tho.
@@lukeWiz44 it said at the end of the video that he died five days later
My grandfather died of coronavirus in June 2020.…..we were not allowed to meet him till the last moment... He was all alone in the hospital.....
I really cried after watching all these people in the hospital as in the corner of my mind, I know that my grandfather also knew that he was going to die
Edit: Thank you for all your kind responses! It means a lot to me❤
Edit 2: I have read all your replies and I can't be more thankfull to you all! ❤Happy to see that people are spreading love from all around the world even without knowing the actual person.❤ Condolences to all the people who have lost their loved ones and are sharing their stories!
Better times are waiting❤
S I am so sorry for your loss. I have lost 3 people since April 2019, one of them my mom. It’s hard.
TH-camName sorry for his loss
We all know that no one is immortal , and we can't change it🙂this is life
I’m so sorry.
Vivek Anand your heartless comment is completely unnecessary! Stop trying to to belittle what other people feel
I am so thankful for all the wonderful people that were caring , honest and helpful at the end of my parents’ lives. My mother didn’t have the same peaceful passing as my dad did and didn’t have warm, loving people by her side. They didn’t help her prepare for her passing. She was another warm body in their facility. My sister and I spoke to her less than 24 hours before her passing and we gave her the choice to let go or fight. She let go. Thank you God, for the good caregivers they both had.
When Mr Earle said "I Love you", through that pain.....my heart almost split in two.
Rip
shows you how much he cares about her… even if he’s struggling to breathe he will let her know he loves her :(
I want this kind of relationship so bad :(
They were meant to die old together. The love that they have is real
@@sj_2k I promise I want that type of relationship
This is why I wouldn’t be able to be a doctor.
Yeah same, that and I'm pretty dumb lol
@@collinkelley9906 lmao im dead
@@emmavaccova8695 sorry for your loss
You could be a dentist!
Well you don't really have to deal with that, it was transfered to the end of life specalist like in the video
You can tell that she’s a professional. She genuinely showed empathy and showed her she cared. Then allowed her to express her grief. Amazing
who ? The Mulata ? As cold as ice....and dont forget when ppl are on camera they can act nicer
@@IwasBlueb4 That's very true.
@@IwasBlueb4 shut up, you have no idea of what her job involves.
Seeing the wife cry made me cry so hard. I could never ever tell someone that their loved one was dying… ever 😭
How kind of the couple to allow others to see what they went through.
not sure it should be seen as kind, because that implies the patients who didnt want the world to see their absolutely personal realisation of death, were not kind and selfish etc - but, it is appreciated that they were happy for cameras to intrude them
@@cate01a 🙏
@@cate01a Boring
@@cate01a The opposite isn’t necessary implied just because it’s the opposite. You have only perceived it that way because you chose to. It can still be kind in my opinion, and I believe it is. The ones who allowed not can be just as kind
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Omg, he tried to return her "I love you", you can hear it. :'(
Guilmon470 STOP UR GONNA MAKE ME-
Guilmon470 he said " i know "
I saw it i am crying my eyes out. This life is so fucking cruel
He said "I know ". Plain as day.
Guilmon470 I heard it :(
I just hope my death is painless. Thats all.
Ok painless as possible. Lol i hope i dont have to kill myself due to a painful death.
Painless,quick, and when im old. When i cant fuck move and barley enjoy life. Then i would be like, well then i rather be dead.
Same
hehe my death is gonna end up being shot... by someone I know
JessRyePlayz ohh lucky you. A mystery :) i get a boring usual death :(
I’m not afraid of dying, I’m afraid of leaving my loved ones sad and hurt 💔
I would feel so damn horrible giving people these messages that their going to die
Not easy at all
Unfortunately someone has to do this uncomfortable job.
You’d be surprised how quickly you get used to it. The human race has a great capacity for kindness and extreme cruelty / numbness
@Phazelight at least it's not as bad as losing your parents at the age of 12 or 13. That would be far worse, considering the dependency involved.
We feel bad for them but in the recesses of their mind they know they are dying, telling them out loud is just bringing it into a tangible state. The person dying deals with it a lot better than their family. They know it was going to eventually happen the same as you know you will eventually die one day. Mostly when someone is about to die they do so with so much dignity, despite them thinking they are weak, what I see are very very strong people, who all die gracefully,
I lost my dad 2 years ago, I think about him every day and still can’t believe he’s gone. Miss you so much Pop.
sorry for your loss..i know it hurts :(
Why your dad sick 0r traffic accident
My dads time is coming, and I don’t know what to do.
@@nachc6459 Cherrish every moment with him. I've never met my dad, I can't imagine how it feels
Lost my paps 20 Years ago and still I’m crying.
RIP Mr. Earle, thank you for letting us see this footage. Sorry you had to go through so much pain.
Its rough but its a tremendous service. In a way they were both immortalized forever. Generations hundreths of years ahead will be able to look back on this and realize (if we haven't conquered death yet) that no matter what year, decade or century, human life will always be the same.
🙏🏽
@@popz4470 Same, athiests keep targeting us like were minding our own business