CONFIDENCE, PERFECTIONISM + MY ADVICE TO YOU

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  • @melaniegriesemer
    @melaniegriesemer 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Confidence for me came when I finally learned more and embraced who I was. I actually embraced being an introvert. I took the Myers Briggs personality test and so closely identified to the INFP personality type result I got. I read the book "Quiet" by Susan Cain and I cannot recommend that book enough! And on a religious side I really grew in my Catholic faith and that helped so much with confidence and self worth too. Like Clancy mentioned at the end of this video it reminds me of the dignity of the human person so emphasized within Catholicism- you are no less important than Bill Gates or the person next to you! It's such a beautiful thing to view life that way. We are all so profoundly important and our worth as a human being cannot ever change, even when we think we are worthless. What we think doesn't always reflect reality.

  • @Play_Nice26
    @Play_Nice26 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    You seem so relaxed in front of the camera. Definitely a natural. They are lucky to have you! 💙

    • @ClancyBurkeX
      @ClancyBurkeX  7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      +HomeBodies By Donna aww thank you so much!!

  • @JulietteVeronica1201
    @JulietteVeronica1201 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    How I gained my confidence was keeping my mental and physical state healthy while I learned to accept I'm nobody but myself so there's no point in trying to be somebody else. Also finding your passion helps A LOT because if you aren't confident in your looks, you'll at least be confident with your talents.

  • @SkullDirtChica
    @SkullDirtChica 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think there is definitely something to be said about how you were raised. If you were supported emotionally/physically provided for/financially comfortable, as a child in your home, self esteem is usually less of an issue. Her family is still close even though both children are grown and out of the nest. They may not be lovey dovey...but both her parents and especially her mom were/was there to make she was properly settled in her new home (out of town, no less) Not all of us are so fortunate. Confidence is directly correlated with self esteem..and so for some, it is actually easy. I wouldn't say it's a norm...but it should be. Mentally Healthy ppl should be our goal as a society and as current parents... Even for ourselves. It's certainly my goal for my kids, and self. I think that's her point.

  • @sarahbeackley4134
    @sarahbeackley4134 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Perfect outfit, hair, teeth, and makeup. Plus perfect reporter. Clancy is like a unicorn haha 😉😁

  • @katycheroske8612
    @katycheroske8612 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "You don't like yourself, make yourself into someone you would like" yes!! Perfectly stated! I'm watching this video for a second time because I love the way you speak about confidence!

  • @focusdopis
    @focusdopis 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    That lipstick color is amazing on you!!

  • @AlannaCee
    @AlannaCee 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Clanc, sometimes I just want to hop in my car and drive to Ohio to get lunch with you to talk about being young professionals in the workforce. You inspire me to keep working hard even when I am the youngest hired teacher where I work. I love seeing these vlogs. Get to reading that book!!!

  • @clairegriffith2821
    @clairegriffith2821 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    okay so i freaking love you btw! but i little thing on the whole confidence talk: I don't think it's exactly the best message to be giving out (especially to teenagers) saying that if I'm insecure=i bring all my friends down and therefore no one wants to be friends with me. It's incredibly damaging to say things like that to already insecure people. A lot of people who are insecure (like myself) struggle every day to improve that! It's not like I'm sitting here in a pool of insecurity and saying "wow I'm perfectly content with my mindset right now". I truly love you and your videos but I just had a few words to say about your confidence talk today.

  • @thierry2357
    @thierry2357 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It has been several years since I follow you through your vlogs, you became a magnificent young woman and you really have the era to be very spread in your new job, when I see you in the TV I have the impression that you make your job for years, you are very natural and very professional. I wish you good luck for the continuation of your career. Big kisses of France.

  • @victoriacisneros17
    @victoriacisneros17 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you for adding some clips from your job I personally love getting to see the reporter side of you in action! It's cool!!

  • @lpm827
    @lpm827 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    you're the kind of TH-camr- as soon as I click on your video I have to give it a thumbs-up! keep up the great work, love your Channel!!!

    • @ClancyBurkeX
      @ClancyBurkeX  7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +lpm827 aww thank you!!!

  • @beautyfromwithin0173
    @beautyfromwithin0173 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's so nice to see how frequently you've been uploading lately! I'm so happy that your job is going well! Keep up the wonderful work as always and lots of love to you!🤗💖

  • @mrswahl219
    @mrswahl219 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really love watching your clips from the day! I'm not in fb much so having them here is awesome. I seriously think you are going to go so far with your career and I'm so excited to watch you along the way. Keep up the good work!

  • @HerBeautysInsideOut
    @HerBeautysInsideOut 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I do like how you are positive about life. Your attitude and outlook. I wish I could be like that.

  • @bluecrush6271
    @bluecrush6271 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sees Clancy uploaded a new video , drops everything &watches it .❤

  • @emmamay9942
    @emmamay9942 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    love the live showing. please keep it up!! love you Clancy!!!!

  • @paulinaa1066
    @paulinaa1066 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Clancy love this because you made me be more confident!!!!

  • @inkorpor8ed
    @inkorpor8ed 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for your positive and encouraging words Clancy! It is so inspiring to watch your videos!

  • @23lovelovelove23
    @23lovelovelove23 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love you Clancy! Great advice ❤️

  • @brendakamga777
    @brendakamga777 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow Clancy you're so professional and amazing

  • @Katiexobeautyyt
    @Katiexobeautyyt 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That lipstick is my favorite actually!

  • @Han.Dunigan
    @Han.Dunigan 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I absolutely love you and relate to you so much! I love that you're an old soul!

  • @btillie8282
    @btillie8282 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    NOTIFICATION SQUAD WYA

  • @h4ppyc8mp3r2
    @h4ppyc8mp3r2 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "The mirror of life" lol I love how you have been saying that forever alsoooo . . . I think that the great lipstick controversy of 2017 has died down because that lipstick looks good, girl yes 😂. P.s I love how your personality shows through so well when you report love it Clancy ❤️

  • @victoriacisneros17
    @victoriacisneros17 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Good morning Megan ...hehe
    Also omg I'm totally buying that lip product. I love recommendations

  • @jennabrasuell9378
    @jennabrasuell9378 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You should make a vlog of a day of yourself at work!!

  • @pinksphinx8197
    @pinksphinx8197 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Clancy I recently bought a matte liquid lipstick from Violet Voss in the color Haze. It was $13 and the best liquid lip product I've ever purchased.

  • @soccerchick9841
    @soccerchick9841 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    How do you be confident when you feel so unattractive especially around friends who are gorgeous? Asking for a friend....

  • @karacarter911
    @karacarter911 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Holy shit I love this lip color on you ! 💋

  • @aliv7300
    @aliv7300 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    House goals!

  • @yarahsarab5977
    @yarahsarab5977 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I like the lip color too😍

  • @melissalynn3939
    @melissalynn3939 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Clancy! Maybe if you find the time you could do a livestream answering questions! That would be so cool to watch and laid back!

    • @ClancyBurkeX
      @ClancyBurkeX  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Melissa Lynn Great idea! I'll definitely do that on my Facebook page sometime soon!

  • @alainawood1676
    @alainawood1676 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey Clancy! The Maybelline SuperStay Matte Ink color is super bomb. It literally lasts me allll day and are a good price as well. You should totally check them out!

  • @alexandramei1975
    @alexandramei1975 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Clancy the color is super pretty!

  • @MerlinBorghuis
    @MerlinBorghuis 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    After a year of being bullied, i came in a new class, and since then, i have much more confidence

    • @beautyfromwithin0173
      @beautyfromwithin0173 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Merlin Borghuis Aww , well, that's great to hear! You are very beautiful if that's you on your profile pic! Whoever bullied you was just jealous or insecure with themselves! You do you!

  • @wackygals2862
    @wackygals2862 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    First like and comment!!!❤️

  • @theMadisonRegan
    @theMadisonRegan 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just recently got that same lip color! I love it so much!!

  • @victoriagiordano1321
    @victoriagiordano1321 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    That is my FAVORITE lipstick and In that shade too!

  • @maviexmaddy
    @maviexmaddy 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    the lipstick is beautiful on you ♥

  • @inkorpor8ed
    @inkorpor8ed 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the lip color!!

  • @RAE.ofSunshine
    @RAE.ofSunshine 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    "what would the alternative be.. you don't like yourself? that would be terrible" ...... yes girl, it is. depression sucks 😔😭😭 i like your tips tho. gonna work on it 😇

  • @danceteam33
    @danceteam33 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    you're the best!!

  • @kananiseven
    @kananiseven 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    congrats!!

  • @aseelxx9023
    @aseelxx9023 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can u make a video about fake friends advice and stuff btw illyysmm

  • @AmandaMBooks
    @AmandaMBooks 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Try tarte rainforest of the sea lipstick in salt lyfe! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @katymay486
    @katymay486 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I LIVE THRIFTBOOKS SO MUCH OH MY GOSH

  • @karacarter911
    @karacarter911 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thrift books is awesome good quality and prices !

  • @Kourtney-Bellamy
    @Kourtney-Bellamy 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    We are practically neighbors girl!!

  • @RaqMor13
    @RaqMor13 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What was that white thing wrapped around your leg?

  • @JulietteVeronica1201
    @JulietteVeronica1201 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The amount of comments about your lip color is kinda ridiculous 😂😂 But you look great!

  • @kananiseven
    @kananiseven 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    u did so good

  • @h4ppyc8mp3r2
    @h4ppyc8mp3r2 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is me this is real this is exactly who I'm supposed to be . . 😂😂

  • @lollol-rq9ji
    @lollol-rq9ji 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're so pretty & you're really intelligent go you

  • @bellazahringer555
    @bellazahringer555 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So wise!! ❤️

  • @darkoshmarko
    @darkoshmarko 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    LOL Clancy I love you for trying but the confidence talk wasn't very helpful 😹 thank you for trying

  • @masonbaremore3313
    @masonbaremore3313 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    First comment!!

  • @welcome2angelasworld
    @welcome2angelasworld 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I actually love your videos

  • @nataliechase1784
    @nataliechase1784 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes with a capital yes 😂

  • @stephanyyang418
    @stephanyyang418 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Clancy! I really love your videos! Do you have any other books you recommend for broadcast journalism? I'm going to order the book you mentioned in this video! Thanks

  • @gabriellerivas8678
    @gabriellerivas8678 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Have you tried color pop clancy? The lipsticks last me all day or all night long and they are cheap!

  • @wassa50z27
    @wassa50z27 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    🖐🇺🇸

  • @kananiseven
    @kananiseven 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    what news do u work for?

  • @boppyoffthewalls3496
    @boppyoffthewalls3496 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Are you still at home in NY?

    • @leeannamarie3667
      @leeannamarie3667 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      BoppyOffTheWalls 34 I don't think she is

  • @twopaddles1
    @twopaddles1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    forget the lips
    look at them eyes.

  • @Toriv-dq3dt
    @Toriv-dq3dt 7 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    You're ignorant in saying that it's easy to be confident

    • @olivialayla6916
      @olivialayla6916 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      she's only speaking from experience. for her, it was something that was just there and made sense. everyone has different experiences so it would be hard for her to relate when she hasn't gone through it herself. personally I'm v happy she is genuine to us and herself

    • @VolumeVita
      @VolumeVita 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      youre ignorant to think everyone is the same.. she thinks its easy, dont be rude

    • @SchokoN
      @SchokoN 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It´s the way she sees it. Everybody is different. :)

    • @PeterKJRichterIMHO
      @PeterKJRichterIMHO 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Feels like she's wired i.e. one too many Red Bulls ;)

    • @makaylakahn3972
      @makaylakahn3972 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tori.v1316 no one is confident in themselves EVERY SINGLE HUMAN has issues with themselves and the way they look. Be open minded and compassionate as human beings. But you WILL be miserable and not be able to improve yourself if you do not have the confidence of the QUEEN OF ENGLAND walking around everywhere you go. No matter if your eyebrows are messed up, your clothes are what you want, or you have some extra pounds or not enough weight. BE CONFIDENT AND TREAT PEOPLE WITH THE KINDNESS YOU WANT TO BE TREATED WITH. The world will be a better place. SPREAD LOVE 💞🌍