Aki that pressure for ‘mzee is coming back, that cup is still on the table since morning, atafikiria aje???’ That pressure is soooooo real! I am not alone!
I would have never imagined these two mums can come together, I didn't even know fashionable mum knows swahili- wololo that is another side of her that has never come out on her previous videos. I love this discussion I can relate with everything, I have been married for 10years and seems like we face the same challenges.
Talking about kurandaranda, I am so grateful that my spouse just let me be. I have walked into my house every hour from 8.00pm to 8.00am at some point bila kuulizwa maswali. Yeye on the other hand anafurahia kukaa tu kwa nyumba na hana shida. 20 plus years later I realize how blessed I am that I have always had freedom to do me and be me without pressure.
Ladies, it’s very possible to share chores with your husband if yours is a true partnership. Been married almost 5 years and we’ve always handled chores 50/50. In fact he insists on it. Why would he allow me to do all the house work when we are both busy professionals and I sometimes get home from work even later than him? I don’t see it as a favor either because we both live in the house and our relationship has never lost its spark. We are both happy! (And yes, I showed him this part of the video and this comment)
louder for the ones at the back!!!!! am not married but i tell my friends that 50/50 house chores is VERY POSSIBLE but they think it cant happen. Kudos to your hubby for being a good sport!!
Rough Petals Don’t let anyone tell you it’s not possible. Create the life you want, and look out for these traits right from when you start dating. It’s possible.
This video has made me ask myself two questions. 1.When was the last time I had me time...over two years ago. 2. When was the last time I bought clothes...over a year ago... Women we have both societal and personal pressures to b perfect.
Mara ya first I cooked and did a lot. They used to take advantage, I gave them a piece of my mind. I've never cooked again. Kwangu wakija nawapikia, nikienda kwao wanapika. We respect each other
I also said I won't conform to pressures of being a good wife. Hell no!! Proving that I am good wife. I try to help my mother in law when I go visit and she declines sometimes. So I just decide to chill and not care. I dnt even cook cs if I cook she is monitoring how I am cooking it annoys me. I prefer to go visit and go back to my house the same day. I hate to be in an environment that I feel pressured.
You guys back in Kenya mko very lucky, at least before getting married you get people to sit you down GUTARWO, as for us here in diaspora we moved here when we were so young with no idea what married is really is, we got married and we do it freestyle
My goodness I have heard so much of things my husband and I went through. For me that one shirt just "disappeared". You should have seen me helping him look for it kumbe I already threw it away. 🤣🤣.
The dressing is so on point. I cant even comment on the pressures, societal or self-inflicted 😥, but the talk is so necessary for young wives to emulate.
i like catherine... i always feel she understands what i go through everyday... getting married so young and boom step kids.. pressure ya kujisahau...ukitry kujenga home
it has worked for us 3yrs now..... last year nkiwa na ball he decided to be doing everything till the baby was 4 months in april and i had recovered atleast. now our baby is 7 months and we decided kila mtu na siku yake coz we have no nanny still and it has been working.
Waooh from today i subscribe to this channel...fashionable step mom is so lovely...mama Tugi ameimprove sana nowadays...its evident she is a good wife....
Am really inspired by you ladies, Am in the same boat ya kuficha nguo, we really work hard with my hubby whom we are 3yrs in marriage but he kinda complains akiniona na nguo mpya, which SAA zingine makes me feel guilty and still I need to take care of myself
This the otherside of fashionable stepmum and I love it..I also love Celestine she is amazing..Keep up the good work/content.. always here to get inspired and motivated..God bless you ❤️🙏
The question men ask avout the future and sustaining lifestyle should they not nbe there is exactly what my husband asks. "Should I die now, will my family be able to sustain this lifestyle?" Touched a cord
Kuna ile guilt ukijibuyia food nje alafu hujabuy for your partner na umemwacha home then ukirudi baadae unaskia akisema anaskia njaa .... unafeel vibaaaaya na hujakosea mtu
What i have learned is to accept that both of you are different, that sometimes the things you want are not the same things your partner want, learn to appreciate your differences. That was my hardest part!
This is very true, societal expectations have our womxn being part time slaves and they seem to be okay with it. Thank you for sharing your experience on marriage with us. You all have good partners. 😊
This was so much fun to watch, even as a young 22 year old, I've learnt so much. Thank you for sharing, am now even more excited and looking forward to part two.
How come this passed me! I salute you gals,,, I'm like 16 yrs in it n the story you're talking is the same to my experience 😅😅😅😅kwanza hiyo ya kununua nguo kisiri,,,, 😅😅😅 Yani hii maisha ni sawa kwetu sote,, ladies 👍 thumbs up let's keep it up,,,ati upike , na juu umepika uweke miguu kwa meza na yeye aoshe vyomb!!!! Ngaiiii🤦si ndio vita haitaishia kwa nyumba!
@@FashionableStepMum By the way I must congratulate you so,so much ! Must admit you've a big big heart, if you became a step mum at 20s na ukavumilia haki I've just loved you dear, I admire you ! Congratulations dear. Not many can survive it !!! I love your talk for sure it's very mature n not misleading even but though homes are different advice them that talking n letting your partner know your plans is beautiful n very important if at all it's a marriage manenos but if it's about friendship then each can go their direction,, kudos👍
Celeste welcome on board,we.love it here.Cathy I have been married 11years,with three kids.I can tell for your sure that our expectations while getting into marriage are very different from reality.Our expectations can be likened to what we think an ideal marriage is,but ideal is never realisty...1-3yrs, 5yrs, 10 yrs etc are all very different and with different experiences as you both go through different stages of life.Along the way we drop our expectations and accept the reality marriage becomes more manageable and interesting
Wow guys, can we have more of this talks especially with wakavinye, I feel she's more real and and educative too. Kwa ground surely vitu huwa different Waiting for part2
I love this combo its amazing... hapo kwa nguo my hubby is the complete opposite he buys his own clothes n his style ilinishinda 4 yrs in marriage n i have only bought a pair of shoes as a gift n i was freaking out he myt not like them😊 hes such a good stylist he literally buys my own clothes too most of the time n his taste is A1 i love love
Wakavinye ametuleta huku .alafu tukasubscribe mbio .hit like yake hapa
wakavinye ameleta pia
Welcome guys. Subscribe. Remember Part 2 is coming up soon
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Nani amejikuta uku ju ya Wakavinye??? Let's show her some love with a like ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
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Cele brought me here...aki mwenye amefanya mama Tugi make up atume paybill nibuy chai...Mama T umewezaaa
She's pretty today
I think she is called Nzilani on IG
I know she looks gorgeous 😍😍
I think ni M.U.A WA fashionable step mum amefanya coz she's always on fleek.
Ameweza sana
This is the last combo I would have imagined. But you've done well.
So do I!😂
Me too!
I was surprised... Beautifully surprised
I know right,? But they did well
Aki that pressure for ‘mzee is coming back, that cup is still on the table since morning, atafikiria aje???’ That pressure is soooooo real! I am not alone!
i love the maturity of these two..they mind their business and no dramas...just simple mature, beautiful women
My love for wakavinye is natural. Nampenda tu bure...thanks for bringing such an elegant, humble lady to our channel!! Keep it up !
Hello Veronica, she is absolutely amazing. Thanks for watching
She is amazing
I would have never imagined these two mums can come together, I didn't even know fashionable mum knows swahili- wololo that is another side of her that has never come out on her previous videos. I love this discussion I can relate with everything, I have been married for 10years and seems like we face the same challenges.
Fashionable stepmum speaking in Swahili😂we need more of this. My favourite video of all time...
She always does, i have never known her to have a problem speaking in Swahili ... She throws Swahili in most her videos
I'm not married but I love this conversation 🙂
Talking about kurandaranda, I am so grateful that my spouse just let me be. I have walked into my house every hour from 8.00pm to 8.00am at some point bila kuulizwa maswali. Yeye on the other hand anafurahia kukaa tu kwa nyumba na hana shida. 20 plus years later I realize how blessed I am that I have always had freedom to do me and be me without pressure.
Ladies, it’s very possible to share chores with your husband if yours is a true partnership. Been married almost 5 years and we’ve always handled chores 50/50. In fact he insists on it. Why would he allow me to do all the house work when we are both busy professionals and I sometimes get home from work even later than him? I don’t see it as a favor either because we both live in the house and our relationship has never lost its spark. We are both happy! (And yes, I showed him this part of the video and this comment)
louder for the ones at the back!!!!! am not married but i tell my friends that 50/50 house chores is VERY POSSIBLE but they think it cant happen. Kudos to your hubby for being a good sport!!
Same here, and even his parents have lived the same way for 26years. Ni venye mmeamua, no rule book.
@@esthermuthoni2267 Big Facts!!
Esther Muigai True. It depends on the values that were instilled in him growing up. 👌🏾
Rough Petals Don’t let anyone tell you it’s not possible. Create the life you want, and look out for these traits right from when you start dating. It’s possible.
I'm not married but my long term relationships so far have taught me so far is pick your headache and swallow your pills in peace.
wow well said
This video has made me ask myself two questions.
1.When was the last time I had me time...over two years ago.
2. When was the last time I bought clothes...over a year ago...
Women we have both societal and personal pressures to b perfect.
Mara ya first I cooked and did a lot. They used to take advantage, I gave them a piece of my mind. I've never cooked again. Kwangu wakija nawapikia, nikienda kwao wanapika. We respect each other
I also said I won't conform to pressures of being a good wife. Hell no!! Proving that I am good wife. I try to help my mother in law when I go visit and she declines sometimes. So I just decide to chill and not care.
I dnt even cook cs if I cook she is monitoring how I am cooking it annoys me.
I prefer to go visit and go back to my house the same day. I hate to be in an environment that I feel pressured.
You guys back in Kenya mko very lucky, at least before getting married you get people to sit you down GUTARWO, as for us here in diaspora we moved here when we were so young with no idea what married is really is, we got married and we do it freestyle
My goodness I have heard so much of things my husband and I went through. For me that one shirt just "disappeared". You should have seen me helping him look for it kumbe I already threw it away. 🤣🤣.
lol! been married for 16 years,but hiyo ya kuficha nguo, na ni pesa zangu tuko wengi, or even lying it was on sale. na pesa ni zangu. lol!
Hi Fashionable StepMum, kindly include subtitles for us who don't understand Swahili.
The combo we didnt know we needed, yaaaaay!!
I love how mama tugi is a Listener 🤗.
Didn't know Cathy speaks Swahili that well, anyway this combo was awesome with real situation kwa ground. Camping here for more.
The dressing is so on point. I cant even comment on the pressures, societal or self-inflicted 😥, but the talk is so necessary for young wives to emulate.
The pressure is real.Been married 4 years,every time someone will be telling me"lisha Mzee aache kukaa kijana mdogo"(he has a small body).inachosha
That is not very polite of them
Boom my favourite youtuber and woman Cathie... keep moving mama
Thank you Christine
i like catherine... i always feel she understands what i go through everyday... getting married so young and boom step kids.. pressure ya kujisahau...ukitry kujenga home
Fashionable stepmum and Wakavinyeeeeeee two you are amazing ❤️
I love your authenticity ,the content is bomb
We need more and more of this
Hi Khisa, thank you. More amazing content to follow
wakavinye amenileta huku,fashionable step mum u awesome
Aki Catherine kumbe hizi mashida zinakupata pia.am happy the way you've opened up and I can relate to all those things.we keep on learning.
We all go through these things. Thanks for watching
Great natural conversation. I like how Fashionable Step Mum engages Wakavinye...the conversation just flowed seamlessly.
Anyone else with a note book and nodding vigorously??? This was awesome!
sure
it has worked for us 3yrs now..... last year nkiwa na ball he decided to be doing everything till the baby was 4 months in april and i had recovered atleast. now our baby is 7 months and we decided kila mtu na siku yake coz we have no nanny still and it has been working.
Wakavinye huku niwapi umenileta😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️
Two beautiful women 🌻🌻 supporting each other and giving us what to expect and lessons of "marriage" 😍😍
Why is this such a good combination♥️......I love love the content . I felt like I was getting advice from my mum🌹
Cant wait for more .
Thank you Liz. Keep it right here for Part 2
Best combo. Hands Down!!😃😃
Haha hio pressure ya tidying up the house ukijua hubby anakuja! 8 years later bado naifeel!
Hahaha aki tuko wengi 😂
Lol I thought I was the only one
Hii nayo haiishagi 7yrs later
😂😂we saw our mothers do it hence the reason we doing it.African women we go through alot.
Am guilty 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Karuheni 👏😂😂😂 hii inafaa kuwa segment on your channel. You make a good duo for the Married and mummy folks. Good job
Am learning Kiswahili because of this channel. Great content by the way, it’s not easy especially with pressure from in-laws and society
Vyenye nimeona wakavinye nimejipata mpaka nime subscribe ❤️good content gals
I feared mother in laws but thank God l got the best.....kaa ukiamka 8 anacomplain watu wapumzike hadi 10 ama 11
What!!! What a combo... I love this was never expecting this 👐🏿👐🏿👐🏿
I am glad you were pleasantly surprised. Keep it right here for even more amazing content
Nimekwama hapo kwa manguo,countless time i have done that she show is lit 🔥
The team is growing
I still feel that pressure after 18 yrs I think it’s a lifetime pressure.
Haha looks like it never really goes away
Waooh from today i subscribe to this channel...fashionable step mom is so lovely...mama Tugi ameimprove sana nowadays...its evident she is a good wife....
Cathy I have great respect for you as a mother.
I think am a liberal. I don't bow to pressure bt i keep my distance to avoid any crash.
Oh, na hapa hii discussion #wisdomdetected
I've been married for 9 months and I've had those same same issues. This is enlightening
Sure is. May your marriage thrive
I loved this conversation na ninapenda wakavinye
Tunampenda pia sana. Thanks for watching
"Si mabacon na masausage ziko, si tukule!" 😂 😂 😂 😂
Exactly. After kuzikosa.
Oh I know!!
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This was such a nice jell of personalities!!!!! Serious stuff being said with a touch of humor. No filters! Love it.
Fashionable mam is now an international character some of us were left out coz of Swahili.
The makeup is just awesome...hadi the words are becoming wiser.
Am really inspired by you ladies,
Am in the same boat ya kuficha nguo, we really work hard with my hubby whom we are 3yrs in marriage but he kinda complains akiniona na nguo mpya, which SAA zingine makes me feel guilty and still I need to take care of myself
Your both looking very lovely n the combo with mama tugi is great.
She is absolutely gorgeous. Thanks for watching. Remember part 2 is cooking
This the otherside of fashionable stepmum and I love it..I also love Celestine she is amazing..Keep up the good work/content.. always here to get inspired and motivated..God bless you ❤️🙏
Thank you! Will do!
Make up ya Celestine imegewesss😍😍😍❤️ I hear Tugi talk about Esther 🥰🥰This lady is amazing
The question men ask avout the future and sustaining lifestyle should they not nbe there is exactly what my husband asks. "Should I die now, will my family be able to sustain this lifestyle?" Touched a cord
Lovely ladies, lovely conversation. Cele's laughter is so contagious
Bring Celestine back I enjoyed and related with the conversation
Kuna ile guilt ukijibuyia food nje alafu hujabuy for your partner na umemwacha home then ukirudi baadae unaskia akisema anaskia njaa .... unafeel vibaaaaya na hujakosea mtu
Aki for sure 😂😂🙉
What i have learned is to accept that both of you are different, that sometimes the things you want are not the same things your partner want, learn to appreciate your differences. That was my hardest part!
This is very true, societal expectations have our womxn being part time slaves and they seem to be okay with it. Thank you for sharing your experience on marriage with us. You all have good partners. 😊
Thanks Ngina
My favorite real people together in one video. Yeay!!!
I’m here because of wakavinye ❤️
2 minutes into this and I'm loving it 😍,thanks for bringing wakavinye she's always so real
You're welcome
This was so much fun to watch, even as a young 22 year old, I've learnt so much. Thank you for sharing, am now even more excited and looking forward to part two.
You're absolutely welcome. We're always learning here
This is the best best combo so far,can't wait for part 2
Thank you So much
I thank God for my mum inlaw she usually cooks even when am around.
Am a newly wed learning a lot. I hope there is a part 2 and 3 .
Y’all blended in so well! Didn’t expect it.
This speaks to me direct....Ku walk on eggshells about feeding your child in love
Hey, I don't think walking on eggshells is healthy! Consider looking into narcissistic abuse
hahaha i love Cathy, but i saw her and wakavinye and stopped whatever it was I was doing. i love how cele laughs
This has made my day!...taken me back so many years....so REAL
Love this sooo much , thank you❤ … please add English translation next time for us international followers 😢 ❤
Oooh.. This is very real... Kuna vitu mumeongea mingi vinanipataga ...thank you for sharing with us...
How come this passed me! I salute you gals,,, I'm like 16 yrs in it n the story you're talking is the same to my experience 😅😅😅😅kwanza hiyo ya kununua nguo kisiri,,,, 😅😅😅 Yani hii maisha ni sawa kwetu sote,, ladies 👍 thumbs up let's keep it up,,,ati upike , na juu umepika uweke miguu kwa meza na yeye aoshe vyomb!!!! Ngaiiii🤦si ndio vita haitaishia kwa nyumba!
Ann Njoki Am glad you could relate. We are in this journey together so supporting one another is key..
@@FashionableStepMum By the way I must congratulate you so,so much ! Must admit you've a big big heart, if you became a step mum at 20s na ukavumilia haki I've just loved you dear, I admire you ! Congratulations dear. Not many can survive it !!! I love your talk for sure it's very mature n not misleading even but though homes are different advice them that talking n letting your partner know your plans is beautiful n very important if at all it's a marriage manenos but if it's about friendship then each can go their direction,, kudos👍
Cathy umeweza this was a good combo ENLIGHTENING!!!!!
Celeste welcome on board,we.love it here.Cathy I have been married 11years,with three kids.I can tell for your sure that our expectations while getting into marriage are very different from reality.Our expectations can be likened to what we think an ideal marriage is,but ideal is never realisty...1-3yrs, 5yrs, 10 yrs etc are all very different and with different experiences as you both go through different stages of life.Along the way we drop our expectations and accept the reality marriage becomes more manageable and interesting
Thanks for sharing. We've got this
I've learnt alot, just about to get married . This has really come in handy.
You're welcome Eve. May your marriage thrive
AMEEEEN
AMEEEN
Now imagine being married into another totally different race. Pure stress.
Wow guys, can we have more of this talks especially with wakavinye, I feel she's more real and and educative too. Kwa ground surely vitu huwa different
Waiting for part2
Nice conversation, next time get a step mom like you...to share experiences and help us into this life.. loving it!!
Mama Tugi amenileta hapa..... And I subscribed pap
Loving this talk...as a millennial...its an insightful talk..
Love you ladies
Thank you so much
Wakavinye who does your make up ?? It's always on fleek ! you always look super cute !
Wow! Nimmoh your work is great! Keep it going
You ladies are looking good.
This is so interesting to watch and listen to. I kept nodding like oooh, haiya, eeeh 😂😂😂
Thank you Rubies. Glad you agree
the part ya nguo is so true....all my clothes "hii ni ya kitambo,kwani hujaiona?"hehehehe
Ladies you are full.of wisdom,l.love it
Just two beautiful African women💝❤️❤️❤️🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬
Make up artist wa Cele apatiwe fanta kubwa ntalipa
Please part two ikam through.... Powerful information
Celeste you look 👌🏾 you need your own channel please
Wow celestine in the 🏠. Yeay
So glad to have her here
I love this combo its amazing... hapo kwa nguo my hubby is the complete opposite he buys his own clothes n his style ilinishinda 4 yrs in marriage n i have only bought a pair of shoes as a gift n i was freaking out he myt not like them😊 hes such a good stylist he literally buys my own clothes too most of the time n his taste is A1 i love love
'Baby Elephant' comment...I laughed Soooo hard too🤣🤣 though it was harsh
Good content.....coincidentally both of you didn't have rings on this video
Such a great conversation! A lot of wisdom from you two lovely ladies.
Thanks Annie. Keep it right here for part two of this series