Finding Love When You Are A Single Mom Ft Kate Actress

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  • Finding Love When You Are A Single Mom Ft Kate Actress
    Single mothers normally give up on the thought of finding love and making a life with someone.
    A lot of things are involved during this process.
    Are you really ready to step out to the dating scene?
    How should you portray yourself?
    What should be your non-negotiables?
    We share tips with the Kate actress on how to find love as a single mum.
    Is it possible? What is your experience like?
    Kindly share in the comments below.
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  • @msorosaine8283
    @msorosaine8283 3 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    Who is single like me with a kid and fears to fall for someone who takes relationship for granted

    • @margaretmwangishow2138
      @margaretmwangishow2138 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me

    • @wanjirukabuchiofficial8466
      @wanjirukabuchiofficial8466 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      With time u will overcome it....I did and am trusting God for this

    • @gracewambui6524
      @gracewambui6524 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Me...Aki even nikiona chali ananiangalia kiplani I start running away na kulenga story weauh

    • @afsatiyah7931
      @afsatiyah7931 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Mine is 11yrs and still single...nikiona mtu hiyo mimi to the left i tell you

    • @evaeve8388
      @evaeve8388 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      me too

  • @audrieashiali7437
    @audrieashiali7437 3 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    I honestly love the two of you. I got my baby at 17 and I became the village laughing stock hmmmm. That didn't bar me from achieving my dreams. The journey hasn't been easy but I've hustled to be where I am today, currently a high school teacher of English language and literature in Bahrain.
    The sky is the limit and my baby is 13 years today.

    • @patriciahkemunto1775
      @patriciahkemunto1775 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Inbox me my head is crushing....the career you dd is my calling but am stuck

    • @How.to.tutorials1
      @How.to.tutorials1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same to me dear am 17 now 😢

    • @michellemuyama9144
      @michellemuyama9144 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      💪💪💪💪💪go girl

    • @angelamayaka9335
      @angelamayaka9335 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amazing story

    • @evelynkinyua6667
      @evelynkinyua6667 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Audrie Ashiali, Me to I got a baby at 20 I didn’t loose hope but now am in Bahrain to🥰🥰🥰

  • @sonniewamuyu8826
    @sonniewamuyu8826 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Tiz has really changed alot i got going in my mind....am a single mom of 2months old baby na am only 18yrs...I was feeling like the world is over...watching tiz has answered so many questions na i feel better thanks kate you such an inspiration 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @MsRombo
    @MsRombo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    BIG LESSON I PICKED FROM THIS...BE YOURSELF...EVERYTHING ELSE FALLS INTO PLACE...

  • @judithnjoroge5338
    @judithnjoroge5338 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    I was brought up by stepdad, the best stepdad ever, I love him so much

    • @FashionableStepMum
      @FashionableStepMum  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That is amazing.. such stories inspire a lot

    • @jainejaine3442
      @jainejaine3442 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for encouragement

    • @blessedfela1515
      @blessedfela1515 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope my daughter says this one day...God

    • @favoredh
      @favoredh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I wish my son says this one day 😢😢😢😢, the step dad is a living hell to him but I had to say no just the other day,.. Saitaaaaaan is a lier! Am sorry my son I was kind of desperate single mama 😭

  • @carolmbaire
    @carolmbaire 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Single mum of 2. Am glad to have listened to you both

  • @chachakamoni7627
    @chachakamoni7627 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I am a single mum hustling for my daughter and trying to recover what I lost, especially with school. I know that my goal of success is achievable and my daughter will grow to be a queen

  • @wanjirukabuchiofficial8466
    @wanjirukabuchiofficial8466 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I was raised by a step dad and although our relationship is not 100% but I love him so much

  • @njambi1860
    @njambi1860 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Am a single mum of 5yrs old gal and am sooo glad I got to listen to this imeni inspire sana keep it up i'v learn alot

  • @MwaleWaGitau
    @MwaleWaGitau 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    My Name is XYZ am a mother of one 😀 I like that intro 👌 It's so much better & positive. I feel it's better than saying "am a single mother." Being single is temporary. It is not an identity. Don't let it define you. You have a future & a purpose as an individual.

  • @njokiwaka
    @njokiwaka 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for this :-) I'm a single mummy and super encouraged!

  • @kibibafrique
    @kibibafrique 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I have been raising my son single handedly for the past 5 years.i thank God cause He was and is always there for us.Thank you for this video.❤❤Am ready will getting out now and start dating.

  • @cloudnathanshorts6197
    @cloudnathanshorts6197 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I could listen to the two CK's for hours. I found myself nodding, laughing and getting wisdom all in one.
    Part Two please and thank you!

  • @wambuimuriuki
    @wambuimuriuki 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is a wonderful conversation Cathy and Kate. Thank you for sharing yourselves with us

  • @catherinemwaura100
    @catherinemwaura100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow that's a very mature talk Cate, you've no idea how many people out there will benefit from this. God bless you mightly as you keep the spirit.

  • @immajosh8566
    @immajosh8566 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Weeewe! Ladies thank yooouu! So much.we need more of this talks to encourage more single moms to learn to appreciate themselves.

  • @kajoyi
    @kajoyi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great conversation, very informative and useful. Thank you ladies. Cathy, it would be wonderful to hear your voice on these topics; loving yourself as a single mom, rebuilding confidence and self esteem as a single mom amidst the family/social stigma and rejection, how to manage finances and red flags in dating for single moms. Thanks.

  • @rosemarymuguru7947
    @rosemarymuguru7947 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks cuties for the encouragement,, May the living God Bless u for encouraging us n our daughters too🙏

  • @lizz202
    @lizz202 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow wow this conversation is dope...watching it for the third time now...am so inspired

  • @gracemwangi2104
    @gracemwangi2104 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Very interesting discussion. This a timely message for me, i really needed to hear this. Thank you Cate and Cathy

  • @rehemamaina7814
    @rehemamaina7814 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    😂😂
    This lady is awesome!. Thankyou Cathy for bringing her.

  • @dianakamau4188
    @dianakamau4188 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I am a silent follower but this is the best discussion i have watched. Kate is real and she has made me laugh so much.

  • @Gichiritrizah_Ke
    @Gichiritrizah_Ke 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This is such an eye opener. Bringing up two kids and am loving it. When time comes and I find love again,,,,, why not?

  • @virginiawanjiru4500
    @virginiawanjiru4500 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    i really enjoyed watching this growing up, my mom got married with me .throughout the years (i am 19) i have seen her bitter about her situation ,her in laws ,the society it took me time to understabd i now understand,i feel like you guys are the online aunties we need thank you so much❤️

  • @lydiahmaina8506
    @lydiahmaina8506 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is so interesting and eye opening, thanks Cate and Cathy.
    How Cate switches to Kikuyu so hilarious😂😂

  • @veronicagitau8516
    @veronicagitau8516 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I was brought up by a single mum. A God fearing woman I will forever cherish. She struggled, hustled, sacrificed, toiled....the list is endless...to make the five of us who we later became in life. I salute single moms. They deserve respect and their rightful place in the society. We should not be quick to judge them. Cate I love your story and may you continue to encourage and mentor many.

  • @idafaith7300
    @idafaith7300 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You're extraordinary and no one is doing you a favor, beautiful interview ❤️

  • @pamziziqueenworld4792
    @pamziziqueenworld4792 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have been single mum of 3 .... separated with baby daddy with very young babies...fear of falling in love again ...but who is God. I found love that changed my life...thanks to my hubby .

  • @jenniferchichi7641
    @jenniferchichi7641 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Wow. I lost my husband few days after our wedding and I was 4 months pregnant. I felt lost trying to navigate life because I felt I was too young to experience such pain at 24 . My baby is 4months now and this video has really given me so much confidence. I’m never going to settle for less regardless. I’m going to put myself out there but not rushing it. I’m taking baby steps and that’s ok. I’m still grieving and that’s totally normal. I’m going to move on and not put my life on hold. Thank you so much Kate, I really needed to watch this

    • @malkiadebbie
      @malkiadebbie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sending you hugs❤️❤️

    • @Flourish_today
      @Flourish_today 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You will do well. Just keep your head high.

    • @Sylvia-sd4mf
      @Sylvia-sd4mf 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh

    • @CWM-1606
      @CWM-1606 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How are you now girl? God bless and keep you

  • @KeruboNyantika
    @KeruboNyantika 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Who came back to listen to interview

  • @lav_33
    @lav_33 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So glad I watched this! thank you ladies ❤❤❤

  • @luciendegwa1313
    @luciendegwa1313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Her humor is on another level, i love her

  • @emmaterryw
    @emmaterryw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wuuuuiiiii. My best!!!!
    I needed this chat!
    You're both Amazing lovelies ❤️❤️❤️

  • @nashenesamo3681
    @nashenesamo3681 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Parenting my son alone for the past 3 years...after listening to this I am ready to go back to dating.

  • @sandyjyn8473
    @sandyjyn8473 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had so much fun watching this & such a learning moment, so guys dropped some important gems 😉

  • @liliannyakundi7104
    @liliannyakundi7104 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Am not ashamed ...I got pregnant at 15...can say my parents pushed me more so my mum...but I forgave her...and am a happy mum ...my son means the world to me...

  • @puritywanja8029
    @puritywanja8029 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    so amazing,so inspiring...Kate you are an amazing soul.lots of love from here.

  • @favouredwoman87
    @favouredwoman87 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    There is love after being a single mum. I was a single mum who feared falling in love but I meet a man and he changed my whole life

  • @wahomealice3884
    @wahomealice3884 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    🤣 I can listen to Cate hours she is so interesting with kikuyu mix

    • @justmo6896
      @justmo6896 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣🤣ikr

  • @oliviaadimola1120
    @oliviaadimola1120 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow. I needed this. Thank you 😊

  • @nyamburakimani3726
    @nyamburakimani3726 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is the best TH-cam video yet!!!!!!

  • @naomikiarie7456
    @naomikiarie7456 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I knew Cathy would do well on TH-cam channel, such class...

  • @jescakawira6538
    @jescakawira6538 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very encouraging to us sigle moms. May god bless the two ladies.

  • @bettykimeu9163
    @bettykimeu9163 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Best video I have listened to. Never settle for less especially we who are single parents. So spoke to me. Wao

  • @bellabk420
    @bellabk420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Kate is such a vibe....so interesting and funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @bw4423
    @bw4423 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great conversion ..Yes ladies YOU R ENOUGH

  • @jacinta_wangari
    @jacinta_wangari 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I will listen to this again when i get time!.

  • @idawairimu7093
    @idawairimu7093 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Waaa this is Selina in the add disinfectant... Wow such a great sharing. Thought she was south African gal... I've learned a lot. Thanks

  • @janenjeru7948
    @janenjeru7948 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love your teachings,so encouraging.. love you ladies.

  • @gracewaceke8561
    @gracewaceke8561 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Single mum of two,,,am happy to get inspired by Kate❤️❤️

  • @MCLYNN_LIEN
    @MCLYNN_LIEN 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel so encouraged. Thank you guys.

  • @africanqueen4768
    @africanqueen4768 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awww you ladies are so beautiful.the topic is so engaging i love love Baraka tele.

  • @carolyneauma838
    @carolyneauma838 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The ck's.... Catherine kariuki n Catherine kamau...wat an amazing eloquent combination..love u gals❣️

  • @nancykathure4182
    @nancykathure4182 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Cate and Catherine thank you for this have learn alot,now i know my worth no matter how many kids you have😍

  • @chepkwarat
    @chepkwarat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow, there are far too many take homes. I can't even type. Kate, you're a voice to recon with.

  • @kleiyahralexis4624
    @kleiyahralexis4624 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This video was very informative and cate's kikuyu was just humorous... Watoto si mandazi ukule na Chai... Embrace your own

  • @rachaelkamau1661
    @rachaelkamau1661 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Cate is so interesting her humor is 👌👌. Especially when she adds the Kikuyu part.

  • @gladysndungu3447
    @gladysndungu3447 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow am glad I bumped into this video .Time to live life

  • @silaton305
    @silaton305 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great Video and very funny. You guys are extremely gorgeous! More of you two Please!!

  • @michenijanet4515
    @michenijanet4515 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kate is such a vibe... loved every minute of it.. bring her back!!

  • @paulyneodemba1931
    @paulyneodemba1931 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Beautiful, beautiful session. Made my Sunday afternoon. Thank you gals for sharing, looking forward to the next session. Wishing both of you continued success.

  • @joymutiga3219
    @joymutiga3219 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Bring Kate back again.... She is just positive vibes

  • @chachakamoni7627
    @chachakamoni7627 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I wanna make some parts of this interview as my alarm sound everyday coz the power in this interview aki

  • @nancychumbaa5488
    @nancychumbaa5488 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Waaaw amazing story,love it strong single mummy 💓

  • @margaretweru447
    @margaretweru447 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are so AMAZING just by overcoming what you have overcome you are EXTRAORDINARY.Cate Actress💯💯💯
    This made me feel energized 🙏

  • @eunicechege1103
    @eunicechege1103 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Learnt alot from this..thanks cate and cathy

  • @evelynngugi8206
    @evelynngugi8206 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You should definitely bring Kate again. Spot on

  • @frieda24
    @frieda24 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is very educative please more episodes akii

  • @florencewahukinyanjui6696
    @florencewahukinyanjui6696 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It’s heart warming watching this am a single mum of 1 and have been single for 4yrs now it’s not easy getting a serious guy with clear intentions.I have been through heartbreaks that i gave more than I received.They all think they’re doing you favor by simply just been with you .Its encouraging will get out now and hold my head high now.

  • @staceymukami9852
    @staceymukami9852 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kate has definitely changed my mind about staying single for the rest of my life as a single mom

  • @jennifermungai4012
    @jennifermungai4012 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am still healing.. I can't wait to get out of this mess of transition to a single mum, self acceptance and moving forward. And if it happened for you guys, I pray one day I get over the trauma and find my personal person. 🙏 this was so encouraging...

    • @CWM-1606
      @CWM-1606 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hope you're better now? Make Christ your friend, He cares

  • @ms.marynjonge345
    @ms.marynjonge345 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I wish Cate the actress was my one of girlfriends!! I can see myself laughing in with you, the kikuyu jokes, with the high fives!! You are such a beautiful soul! God bless you Cate

  • @debrahmuthoni2113
    @debrahmuthoni2113 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is soo encouraging. Thanks Kate

  • @MwaleWaGitau
    @MwaleWaGitau 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I think we need to normalize going for counseling or therapy especially when someone has gone through traumatizing things. Get someone to talk & process the drama. Don't take it to your 2nd date 😁

    • @lyneadetyfitness
      @lyneadetyfitness 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Very True ...Chronic Trauma is real and our society don't really acknowledge that.

  • @sarahkaranjamuhoro6041
    @sarahkaranjamuhoro6041 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My sister got a baby in form two ,she's now in form four and am telling you I can for see my sister being the greatest woman in Kenya and the world at large .I love my sister so much ❤️❤️

  • @cynthiaogechi5929
    @cynthiaogechi5929 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A much needed conversation.
    Where did you get your wig from? It looks amazing 👏

  • @sabinakanyi1018
    @sabinakanyi1018 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am a single mum...I got my daughter when I was in form two that's 16yrs old...after listening to this am really encouraged en one day i will sit there en also encourage others...I don't blv in failures...

  • @emmamugambi1333
    @emmamugambi1333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So hilarious very interesting and educative, y'all looking awesome ladies,! ❤❤ ati gukama na kuosha mabati😂😂😂😂

  • @Ndaps1
    @Ndaps1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It’s such authentic and insightful conversations that I enjoy from this channel.

    • @FashionableStepMum
      @FashionableStepMum  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Am glad you enjoy the content. Thank you for watching .. 🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @gacheriword2259
    @gacheriword2259 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Haha! The vernacular ikiingia it's real convo enjoyed the conversation Sanaa

  • @nellywanjiru9593
    @nellywanjiru9593 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Cate is just a force to reckon with.I love her energy.

  • @robinahnyambusi1377
    @robinahnyambusi1377 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the talk...being a single mum at young age wuueh isnt that easy...picking up the pieces and coming up strong

  • @jainelangat
    @jainelangat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I am raising two on my own, i have indeed learnt something

  • @brendahemelia8466
    @brendahemelia8466 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Two impeccable women having a very necessary conversation. I'm so proud of you.

    • @gathoniwainaina9118
      @gathoniwainaina9118 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I came back here to draw inspiration and encouragement. These two ladies are goals. Kate Actress you remain my role model regardless

  • @ruthwainaina460
    @ruthwainaina460 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Oh my this is so encouraging! Kate your great, inspiring and for me as a single mum you have given me a new feel to life all together. Thank you.

  • @wanjirukimani6262
    @wanjirukimani6262 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    What a wonderful discussion and Cate is such a breath of fresh air❤

  • @Kenyan28
    @Kenyan28 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Ladies you have changed my life❣️❣️From today iam owning my life

  • @joycekoech8277
    @joycekoech8277 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Cathy thanks for bringing Cate, both of you are hilarious

  • @MsDirectorInHeelsProductions
    @MsDirectorInHeelsProductions 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing video, very informative and so funny Kate ;)

  • @gracewambui6524
    @gracewambui6524 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love Kate..she is hilarious,she is funny,she is pretty and very intelligent

  • @Missmwangiwanjiku
    @Missmwangiwanjiku 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank God,I never look down on myself

  • @wangumakeri4337
    @wangumakeri4337 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was awesome 👏🏾. When a woman is loved right @Kate and Cathy. Good job 👍

  • @maureenchebet733
    @maureenchebet733 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    "Ukianguka town unakaanga hadi 2022" LOOOOL...Always inspiring Cate. Much Love

  • @rozzettee8
    @rozzettee8 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I need to meet Kate when i come back to Kenya.... her energy is ❤❤❤❤

  • @lydiakhalai7801
    @lydiakhalai7801 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loving the discussion

  • @doreenonekalit9888
    @doreenonekalit9888 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy Belated Mother's Day
    I'm back to 💕💕💕
    You are looking gorgeous.

  • @marygathoni1905
    @marygathoni1905 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great content I wish we could have more of such conversation learnt alot as a single mum

  • @shironene2489
    @shironene2489 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Both CK's amazing women....And as a single mom i can relate...

  • @Elly_285
    @Elly_285 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This has changed my mind set thanks

  • @user-hp9wx1qe3x
    @user-hp9wx1qe3x 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi thanks for your encouragement uuh am a single mum of two a girl and a boy but still hustling for them without fear and I believe there's a Day for me thanks so much ❤❤❤