The BEST Thing About Marriage Is... w/ Sam Guzman

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  • This clip was taken from a recent livestream with Sam Guzman: • Fatherhood, Devotion t...
    In this clip, Sam talks about the best thing about marriage: his kids! Plus, lots of other nuggets of wisdom from two fathers.
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  • @wholesome122
    @wholesome122 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I wasn’t into kids at all before I had my own. Now I regret not having them sooner and am praying for more.

    • @NicklasNylander87
      @NicklasNylander87 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My first born is only 3 weeks.... but I totally agree! Wish we had her 10 years ago.

    • @MrAyahone
      @MrAyahone 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Most deff 🙏

  • @salud1541
    @salud1541 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I just think the most beautiful thing is the idea of the love you share with someone incarnating into a little person that has all the beautiful aspects of the one you love and all the problems that you know you have that you can have a chance at healing.

  • @Veo87
    @Veo87 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is really good to hear, because it does get annoying to hear all of the complaints about kids from people. I'd like to have kids, I just can't seem to find a wife. . .

    • @cfradd
      @cfradd 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Get more involved in your church, lots of amazing holy ladies there looking for a good potential husband

    • @Veo87
      @Veo87 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I've been involved in churches in varying degrees for over a decade now and it hasn't helped me. That's my fault though, so I'll just have to keep trying.

  • @kynesilagan2676
    @kynesilagan2676 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    10 years ago: "what's so special with those kids and their parents adoring them"
    now: my kids doing seemingly uninteresting things- brings joy to us.
    seeing my kids with their shallow happiness is such a gift.

  • @HopeKing
    @HopeKing 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes. Always apologize to your children.
    Probably the #1 thing I am looking for when my man comes.
    I have always been shocked when people start berating about how horrible kids were.
    I know of a couple who only wanted 2 kids max and ended up with 11. Lol there dream had ended up being 12. But sadly couldn't have more.

  • @jasonfernandez1386
    @jasonfernandez1386 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    00:00:24 if he feels this way imagine how God feels about his children

  • @joshbryan486
    @joshbryan486 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love your Show @Matt appreciate what you do. Thank you! Bless you and your family! ❤️📿🙏🏻

  • @ck337
    @ck337 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so good !! 👏 So many great points.

  • @Archangel76
    @Archangel76 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    So…. the “Sips with Aquinas” concept didn’t pan out? :D

    • @twosilesias7502
      @twosilesias7502 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Maybe he has just been forgetting for the past month. Who knows

  • @Ezekiel336-16
    @Ezekiel336-16 ปีที่แล้ว

    The best thing is uniting with another soul (or souls plural when kids come along) in pursuit of union with Christ!
    In Christ,
    Andrew

  • @MorbSquad420
    @MorbSquad420 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My opinion of kids is the same as the Spartan opinion on kids. To create the strongest of the strongest.

  • @johnb7889
    @johnb7889 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just wait till the grandkids come!!

  • @emilymargaretstoehr9826
    @emilymargaretstoehr9826 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "Good job, Catholic Jamie!" 👍
    *rush of dopamine*

  • @AM-ru5yh
    @AM-ru5yh 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Friday, Week 27, Ordinary Time
    Joel 1:13-15;2:1-2
    Gird yourselves, and lament, O ye priests, howl, ye ministers of the altars: go in, lie in sackcloth, ye ministers of my God: because sacrifice and libation is cut off from the house of your God. Sanctify ye a fast, call an assembly, gather together the ancients, all the inhabitants of the land into the house of your God: and cry ye to the Lord: Ah, ah, ah, for the day: because the day of the Lord is at hand, and it shall come like destruction from the mighty.
    Blow ye the trumpet in Sion, sound an alarm in my holy mountain, let all the inhabitants of the land tremble: because the day of the Lord cometh, because it is nigh at hand. A day of darkness, and of gloominess, a day of clouds and whirlwinds: a numerous and strong people as the morning spread upon the mountains: the like to it hath not been from the beginning, nor shall be after it, even to the years of generation and generation.
    Luke 11:15-26
    But some of them said: He casteth out devils by Beelzebub, the prince of devils. And others tempting, asked of him a sign from heaven. But he seeing their thoughts, said to them: Every kingdom divided against itself shall be brought to desolation; and house upon house shall fall. And if Satan also be divided against himself, how shall his kingdom stand? Because you say that through Beelzebub I cast out devils. Now if I cast out devils by Beelzebub, by whom do your children cast them out? Therefore, they shall be your judges. But if I by the finger of God cast out devils, doubtless the kingdom of God is come upon you. When a strong man armed keepeth his court, those things are in peace which he possesseth. But if a stronger than he come upon him and overcome him, he will take away all his armour wherein he trusted and will distribute his spoils. He that is not with me is against me; and he that gathereth not with me scattereth. When the unclean spirit is gone out of a man, he walketh through places without water, seeking rest: and not finding, he saith: I will return into my house whence I came out. And when he is come, he findeth it swept and garnished. Then he goeth and taketh with him seven other spirits more wicked than himself: and entering in they dwell there. And the last state of that man becomes worse than the first.

  • @blackwaterjim
    @blackwaterjim 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My children are the joy of my life, even now that they're adults. And my granddaughter?....Don't get me started!!!!

  • @thecatholiccorner
    @thecatholiccorner 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I would love to settle down and have children! I'm still on step one tho; finding a man! Lol
    Sidenote:
    Hey Matt are you not posting on Sips with Aquinas anymore?

    • @apracity7672
      @apracity7672 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you taking any active steps in trying to find someone?

    • @Machi74005
      @Machi74005 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@apracity7672 How would one go about doing that?

    • @thecatholiccorner
      @thecatholiccorner 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@apracity7672 Well I'm still kind of new to my state and don't know too many people :/ I would like to meet someone at my Church, but they always seem to be with a significant other already. I pray about it and ask Our Lady to guide me on the right path...

  • @co6742
    @co6742 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So depressing seeing everyone bragging about marriage/ having kids when you have neither

  • @Mokinono45
    @Mokinono45 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Having someone else do the dishes.
    Because doing them for my parents sucks.

  • @judytafoya505
    @judytafoya505 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ARE YOU TRULY; BEFORE GOD, IN THIS MOMENT, NOT BEING TOTALLY DISHONEST IN YOUR RHETORIC AND TOUTING RE: FAITHFULNESS AND FILIAL LOVE…
    GOD AWAITS…
    B R E A T H E !

  • @rachael.t.deckard7459
    @rachael.t.deckard7459 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Not everyone is meant to have children, myself included. I thank God every day that I did not have children. I would not want to “accidentally” pass on my dysfunctional upbringing. If you have been “raised” in a dysfunctional family, it’s easy to revert to those old ways. The hatefulness and anger stops with me.

    • @Pax-Christi
      @Pax-Christi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      You underestimate Gods grace, let our Lord decide that for you.

    • @Subzero-hh8ix
      @Subzero-hh8ix 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      True that, the kid born would be genetically predisposed for damnation. Unfortunately majority of people go to hell as per Bible and when you think of it this way, the answer to saving (or sparing) more souls from hell is to stop having kids if the parents or grandparents have psychological issues, a bad track record of sin and if surrounded by mess of a culture (current western society). We know from Old Testament that a good chunk if not majority of the lineage of Abraham and Isaac have failed so what chance do we have.

    • @sophiahace9920
      @sophiahace9920 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Born and raised in a dysfunctional family right here!!! Through my recovery (therapy and 12-step programs) I have risen above my family’s generational dysfunction. I have learned to detach with love and compassion from my family’s dysfunction. I love them deeply and our relationships have only gotten better since I took the steps to rise up and take responsibility for my unhappiness and misery. Oh! And I have a loving husband of 13 years, three children and one on the way. Life is good! Please don’t limit yourself to your upbringing. Life will get better if you take the steps to get better. You don’t have to be defined by anyone but God your Creator and He is so in love with you and doesn’t want you or anyone else to be held back due to dysfunction. Best of luck and prayers for you!