I was 28 years with a narcissist. I am 60. I left him 18 months ago. Have to go to court to get financially free. I have been listening to you for the past two years and can’t tell you how much you have helped and supported me on my journey out of this living nightmare. I thank you Andrew.
Andrew is a blessing, you should check out Cluster B Free Karen too . Her platform isn’t big ; but she left her Narc after 35 years I think @ age 64 , now she’s living in Hawaii Narc free. I’m glad you escaped
Hatbox948 😂 ditto > on aging narc I knew, plus he looks like he swallowed a bowling ball, while thinking he’s so hot that he will attract young “10” rated women. Denial ain’t just a river in Egypt.
My one started putting wigs on. Nothing against wigs but he’s 41yo and got addicted to wigs and wants to go for hair transplant that’s how crazy and sick they are!
Everything is returning. I got my life back. My hobbies have returned and I’m more creative than I’ve ever been. I’m an empath who always puts others above myself.Not anymore! I see narcissists! ;)
Besides losing their souls, minds & tempers.. ....the narcissist continues to lose the gift of genuine love from the hearts of beautiful people of empathy. Be Well, Be Wise 🌈🎀😘
"The narcissist continues to lose the gift of genuine love.........." That's why they live every day in that empty void.. We know how that void feels after being discarded.They project their own fears and self doubt on to others. Remember who the person is that finds genuine love in everything they do. If you need a reminder....just look in the mirror. ❤
If you don't believe in empathy come and work with me for a day and see the destruction you the narcissist inflict on children and families. Actually no point...you have no heart...no love..no care...no remorse....you have nothing. You are dark, you have lost and continue to lose. We have light, we are light 🌟😉💜
As an empath, it’s shocking to me that there are people on the planet who don’t believe empathy exists…shocking, but the more educated I become, I see that it’s true. Most people are living in the everyday fog, with a minimal level of empathy or awareness. Learning that most people do not have my best interests at heart was a revelation. I’m glad I learned it at 45-better late than never.
I agree It is a shock to find out that people don’t care at all !! They have a vacuous empty heart. Worse still they want us dead if they can’t get exactly what they want when they want it! There’s a lot of very sick humans. Emotionally and spiritually bankrupt!!
Sing to the Tune of "We Are the Champions" by Queen 🎵🎶🎵🎵 We were supply Time after time We did our sentence But committed no crime And bad mistakes We made a few We had our share of sand Kicked in our face But we've come through! And we'll always go on and on and on and on Yes, we are narc-free, my friends And we'll keep on blocking till the end We are so narc-free Yes, we are the narc-free! No time for losers 'Cause we are the champions over Narcs! We've taken our bows And our curtain calls The Narcs tore our self-worth And everything that goes with it We gave our all! But it's been no bed of roses No pleasure cruise We consider it freedom to let go of these Narcs And we'll never lose! And we'll always go on and on and on and on Yes, we are narc-free, my friends And we'll go NO CONTACT till the end We are so narc-free Yes, we are the narc-free! No time for losers 'Cause we are the champions over Narcs! Yes, we are narc-free, my friends And we'll go NO CONTACT till the end Yes, we are the narc-free! Yes, we are the narc-free! No time for losers 'Cause we have control now, over Narcs! 💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪
Thank you SO MUCH Andrew - my fav empath! I grew up as the scapegoat & married a narcissist. When you pointed a finger into my living room, stating "You are winning!" I cried. Devaluation, abandonment, emotional abuse hurts. I have no relationship with my toxic mother; or flying monkey sister who lives with mom and tolerates her, expecting a large inheritance oneday. The pinnacle of indifference is the delightful environment I now embrace. X0
WOW!! 199K subscribers! I was here at the beginning and still grateful. My situation is with a malignant narcissist - a brother. What a nightmare. I went No Contact 3 years ago. Thnx again!
I was not here from beginning but I’d guess about two years now I subscribed straight away when it came up on my feed for you tube Thank you for your comment And thank you Andrew..,,, Helping so many !!! I think I speak for all of us “Thank you”
I was a young boy under five when the abuse started. My father Albert Pluim, would fly off the handle especially when his friend Ray Steele would show up. I realize that my father and my two brothers are and were narcissists. My sister, I have no idea and I hope that I never see my siblings again. A very toxic family. My mother was the only empath other than myself that I know of. God help me if those monsters ever try to contact me. The police will be involved if that happens. I have the law on my side.
my partner said yesterday after his therapist said to him yesterday that he'd never come across anyone like him before and i said that's because you're a narcissist and he said to me no i don't think i'm a narcissist I'm more like a psychopath 😢..getting myself ready to break free now
He just told you exactly who is is. PLEASE LEAVE IMMEDIATELY, even if it means you might "lose everything" (you will not "lose everything" forever, but you are set free by a psychopathic monster). Please LEAVE FOR YOUR LIFE, YOU NEVER OWED HIM ANYTHING. GO!
I can see thru the mask , my narcisist olderst brother has 4 flying monkey brothers, me and my sister are outcasts, im alone but happily married with children and wonderfull friends and a church comunity.
"Narcissism as a personality trait doesn't require a cure or treatment" -that's true of "community narcissists" people you might describe as "arrogant' or self-centred" We aren't talking about those people here. We're talking about people who have *an agenda* -for you before you meet them. It's typified by quick sex (to get you hooked) -then the emotional abuse begins (put-downs, name-calling, flaking, faking and taking) that's followed/sometimes concomitant with the smear campaign -which is designed to isolate you socially. To use a metaphor -the *community narcissist* is the guy who cuts you off on the freeway -without indicating. *The Pathological Narcissist* is the guy/girl who identifies you/your home/car/kids/bank account and then *infiltrates to destroy*
Im realizing the “romantic” relationship with a narcissist guy had to happen so I could discover who I am and why relationships/interactions in my life have played out the way they did. It happened to wake me up and reveal to me my own strength!
Thank you Andrew :) Congrats on 199 subs !!! I am going to listen to “silent battles of relationships” next * Friend sent it to me/ of your videos Appreciate your channel ❤ For me this channel is about positivity not just about narcissism education
Hi Andrew, I could not agree more. Here in France we unfortunately have the same kind of freaks. I managed to get rid of mine few weeks ago in a way he did not expect before going no contact. As a yoga teacher (he took advantage of this by the way) I have my own ressources 😊 Now I am recovering from this toxic relation thanks to really good ayurvedic massage I had (abhyanga marma). It allowed me to get rid of all this toxicity in my body and in my mind. It is vital to break this negative energetical bond. My body and mind weren't free despite the no contact. During the massage, I have been told that my muladhara and anahata (root and heart) chakras were completely unbalanced. This was confirming me all the bad I felt physically and emotionally. The narc is so evil. But since this wonderful massage I feel so much better and relieved. With all the yoga postures, breathing exercises, meditation and this massage I feel now more at peace. The bond has broke. Hope this can help some to find the strenght to move forward and go in grace in this beautiful life. Sending you all lots of positive vibes and thanking you Andrew for all your helpfull videos. Take care of yourselves. Blessings from France. Namasté 🙏🌞
I was with a Narcisstic for 8 years I finally left and it took me 6 years to get financially free and another 2 years to get divorced Finally free with no contact Thankyou for all your videos they all ring true to me ❤ I have always been an empath It’s easier not to date anymore
I love this channel. I know you are an empath because your compassion is palpable. Your words help me to feel better. Also, thank you for the injected humor!
I've been watching your channel for the past year and always love the locations you shoot at. It'd be cool to see you do videos in Alaska one day. Every time I see amazing scenery I say, "that's a great shot for an Andrew video!" 😁 Thanks for all you do, you bring lots of positivity to so many!
Got used to it from so many directions just seemed normal until I started getting better. Wow! Glad the worst was over. No idea where I was in the process. I had a "you are here" experience through this channel, constantly making it make sense. Priceless
My husband used to always say he could bear his own cross when he messed up bad. He used to say he had demons. I remember he would be in the shower singing and having himself a grand old time and I would be in the bedroom casting out demons in Jesus name! And praying so hard. When he came in our home every single night after work, the times he did come home, he would change the energy in our home to gloom and doom. Every Evening. Every morning. I was truly with a demon filled vessel.
I went through all of this with my mother and daughter. I am an Intuative empath. I wasn't the golden child, but dealt with it cognitively. My daughter I put up with a lot for the sake of my suffering grandkids.- they lived with me. Essentially, I brought them up and they know this behaviour is bad and not their fault. I taught them to love themselves, and be kind to others. I will break this cycle. Thank you Andrew. Light and love will always win out.
I love you Andrew. Your talks and walks in nature help me so much. Your smile is awesome. I wish we could meet and just walk a trail together! In peace and just enjoy each other's company and smiles!
My daughters mother is now on a hoover trip and playing her narcissistic mortification show...her smoke show has only worked for a short period this time trying to catch other fish in the ocean...what a zero bore she is, and no change whatsoever..I know her mask games in and out, and are almost vomiting when I see her fake face and disguised facade ..I only care for my daughter being caught up in the narc mothers maskarade and slimy mud hole...I wish the empty mother will one day say to me I can come and pick up my daughter 10.000 km away from me because her mother is getting tired of my daughter or has spent all my daughters money in the bank...a new supply guy will not last long because the mothers share value on the stock market is rapidly declining and will continue to shrink into more chaos, stupidity, loneliness, paranoia, indifference and finally ending up in a vast black hole....I use the small word no with a big importance to avoid abusive people. And I also use the small word yes with a big importance to do what I like and feel for...thank you Andrew. Enjoy your day and keep up your good work
I’ve missed watching you, love it!! Be strong everyone, it took me 2 years to reach “indifference” you will get there! Keep listening to Andrew! 💫💚🙏🏼💚💫
I would have to say they lose attention and resources. Namely someone to pin it on. I said it 2 years ago, "The most valuable resource on Earth IS attention." The Interwebs is a perfect example of external validation. It baffles me how many people are externally validated, when they could just look inside and be happy. I have dated women that did not have a personality, they mimicked mine, my interests, my mannerism, all the things that make me an individual. The last one, I lost myself in the relationship, later to discover, once again humility and an undignified soul searching. That crap took 8 years to heal from. I am still an asshole, no doubt, but fairness and generousity comes first, not gonna budge on that. We can heal these aged children whose parents failed them out of fear of shame or judgement. And there it is, it is parenting that failed them. Andrew I thank you for helping folks understand this crazyness, Could you please cover the parents role in developing or continuing this awful character disorder? Thank you sir, you are appreciated and meant for what you are doing.
The part on the being a friend to my daughter, never set boundaries, not letting me parent her is spot on. Was waiting for this be said. Thanks for this helping me heal. Saw my daughter half hour in the last 2 years. It’s all getting clearer. Tnx !
Thank you for all of your videos. The one I met was from another country. He was my first narc and hopefully my last. He has supply all over the world. Didn't realize they existed. 5 months no contact. It's still hard to unsee what I seen.
Well, my parents (the narcissists) won. They have millions of euros and i am starving to death from mental illnesses. The way how my parents destroyed me is unprecedented.
I am so very sorry. Never give up. Keep following Andrew. There is a light at the end of every dark tunnel. Keep pushing forward. I am praying for you. Namaste.
After 3 people say the same things its no longer is a coincidence, and we have 200,000 people here with similar experiences. Not a coincidence.....for sure not. ❤ keep moving forward ❤
Here's what I experienced: 1) Love Bombing - She completely had my trust and love. She said we were Partners - She said we would spend our lives together. I was committed 100% 2) She started to distance (7 months into the Relationship) 3) Super Distance: Started listening to her Children that said she could do better. 4) Discarded: 1 month later - She came over and she told me she could not do the relationship any more 5) ME Heartbroken and shattered for 6 months at least 6) Started understanding and still wanted her back 7) (90 days later) Burned all the shite that she left in my house 7) Started hating her (and that felt much better) 8) 18 months later I am educated (Andrew - GREAT JOB) 9) Looking for another Woman that will treat me like I treat her. Ex can kiss both sides of my azz. And yes.... she took alot of my finances with vacations - meals - Presents etc...etc... And YES ..... She is AGING !!!! And aging BADLY. You get what you Play for.
😮I never understood and never met a NARCISSIST before. 2 years of a roller coaster ride. I'm so happy he dumped me. I can breathe. ALL he has left left is hovering with words fooling himself that I still care. Him dumping me was a blessing
I always love❤ when you refer to the Narcississt as a having a "tiny little pea brain 🧠!" So funny!! 😆They think they're in a movie, forrel. Life is not a movie 🎥 Feels to go laugh at them now🙃😆😆 Good video, Andrew!!😃
You are right on!! Love your teachings and that you are helping to bring awareness to narcissism and the damage and destruction it can leave behind. We empaths must learn to love ourselves enough and learn to set boundaries. Narcissists hate boundaries because they love control. Love you Andrew! Namaste 🙏
The worst part for me after walking away is completely understanding what happened while nursing a broken heart. It’s taking so long to heal and it’s a lonely journey. I have to pretend I’m okay most of the time because family and friends don’t understand
Two years ago when I found out my second wife cheated I got my eyes opened to the fact that narcissists exist and thanks to Andrew and the community I now have a far better understanding of what took place during our five years together. I've also come to realize that my first wife has heavily narcissistic traits. I took her through med school to become a physician and supported our lifestyle with hobbies and travel during that time. Once she was finished I didn't amount to anything, knew nothing and did nothing right. Looking back I think I understand her behavior better and realize that she has no old friends, always complains and picks on her sister, her mother, her ex brother in law and her step mother. She's constantly in some form of conflict and I'm now grateful for not having to deal with her since our son's are now legal adults.
I deleted some photos off of my phone today from a vacation 3 months ago. It's unreal how when I look in their eyes they knew what they were doing. Evil, pure evil. God is love. Embrace God. (One month free yday)
Congratulations on cutting off the Narc from your life!!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉You DESERVE better! Like Andrew says, "You will NOT be where you are weeks, months, or years from now." I wish you the very best! 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I am a year on my healing journey. I had no idea what a narcissism was until I came across your channel. Healing for me has been life changing. I still deal with the hoover, etc. because we have two children. I come to this channel for strength and knowledge. Thank you so very much for sharing your wisdom.
Great video as always. This morning I woke up with the message I’ll have a friend spending his holiday for a couple of days. I moved to another part of the country, speaking another language. A couple of days later I’ll have another guest from the US, a French American, whom I met last summer. Great, looking forward to some positive vibes!
It was the blame game that put the nail In the coffin for me. A loving, kind person just cannot sustain or internalise the blame-shifting forever. I did 15 years on and off and this channel was a game changer for me! Thank you Andrew. I’m firmly no contact of 4 months and it’s getting easier. My finances are improving and I have a lot more confidence 🌷
Thanks Andrew as empath to empath, you’re great! For sure empaths exist and it’s exactly why I started my channel when I met one of these demonic entities. Couldn’t believe it. But I was in a battle for my life. I’m out! Get out and stay out! ❤
The best advice I could give anybody who is healing from narcissistic abuse, especially in those early days, is to get rid of all social media and ask your friends and family not to post any pictures of you or tag you anywhere. You need to go really cold to them, so they have no idea what you are doing, who you’re spending time with etc. you’re probably at home taking life slowly and trying to recover from the trauma, but they don’t need to know that. They will be the one posting everything they do, exaggerating their every move, new clothes, probably found religion and virtue signalling with that. But they need to have no idea at all how you’re spending your days. Blocking them won’t do much because you know they’ll have 5 fake profiles to stalk you on. Love to all xx
At my mothers funeral i saw how disgusting those monsters truly are. It took every bone in my body not to embarass my sister,her husband,and others but the Lord told me my child no. When i got back home the Lord told me forgive them and move on from them my child.
Black or White ? Good or Bad? Angel or Demon? Coke or Pepsi ? Lightness or Darkness? Normal empath or monstrous Narc? Choose Wisely. Thank you for this very insightful video. So happy I found this channel😊😊😊
I appreciate you Andrew! I can rewatch every single video over and over... Each time every bit of information is spot on & makes more sense now that I am on the other side with you! Cheers!
I just started following this channel less than two weeks ago. I find myself saying I come first, second and third. I am undoing a lifetime of conditioning. I feel blessed by your daily input. It totally resonates with me and is taking me further up the mountain. I think that soon I will be indifferent 🙏🌺💜🌈
I don’t know what is worse from a narcissist, the silence treatment or the non stop talking. My ex never gave me silence. This person lived to talk non stop. It got the point that just hearing the voice will get me irritated. I never thought I could feel hatred towards someone but I did to this person.
My X gf isn't hurtn for supply her new guy is taking care of her, but I think their relationship is a " open " relationship, I believe he's a Narc too. But idk fosho. Don't care anymore
There you go again 😅 making me laugh 😁 I just love your sense of humor Andrew! You always make your point, but the medicine goes down better with your humor! Thank you .. 🙌 just do you! Looove you Andrew!! God bless you 🕊️🕊️🕊️💞
Bingo. My ex wife wanted our daughter as a friend, someone to go shopping with. I was a parent first, friend second. Ex practised parental alienation. Daughter has grown up and keeping very little contact with mother. Unfortunately I have none. The ex is isolated from people who have seen through her lies. I am indifferent and live my life in peace and balance. God bless
I was 28 years with a narcissist. I am 60. I left him 18 months ago. Have to go to court to get financially free. I have been listening to you for the past two years and can’t tell you how much you have helped and supported me on my journey out of this living nightmare. I thank you Andrew.
Andrew is a blessing, you should check out Cluster B Free Karen too . Her platform isn’t big ; but she left her Narc after 35 years I think @ age 64 , now she’s living in Hawaii Narc free. I’m glad you escaped
All the best with court, my story is similar.
Ditto!
Good luck, dear Caroline. ❤
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“The truth is… you just met your worst enemy.” 🎯🎯🎯
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Betrayal never comes from your Enemies
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“ believing their looks haven’t changed in 20 or 30 years..”boy are they wrong
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My nex still thinks he has a full head of hair. I'm guessing he's never noticed his bald spot in back of his head.
Hatbox948 😂
ditto > on aging narc I knew, plus he looks like he swallowed a bowling ball, while thinking he’s so hot that he will attract young “10” rated women.
Denial ain’t just a river in Egypt.
My one started putting wigs on. Nothing against wigs but he’s 41yo and got addicted to wigs and wants to go for hair transplant that’s how crazy and sick they are!
@@fahimashuma I'd have trouble being seen with a guy in a wig.
Everything is returning. I got my life back. My hobbies have returned and I’m more creative than I’ve ever been.
I’m an empath who always puts others above myself.Not anymore!
I see narcissists! ;)
Bingo I put all that time and energy into myself now.
have you gotten your ability to love someone back and are you with a new lover?
Besides losing their souls, minds & tempers.. ....the narcissist continues to lose the gift of genuine love from the hearts of beautiful people of empathy.
Be Well, Be Wise 🌈🎀😘
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"The narcissist continues to lose the gift of genuine love.........."
That's why they live every day in that empty void.. We know how that void feels after being discarded.They project their own fears and self doubt on to others. Remember who the person is that finds genuine love in everything they do. If you need a reminder....just look in the mirror.
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Such a sweet soul Chaz, wishing you a bright day!
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"No" is a whole sentence, ,
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If you don't believe in empathy come and work with me for a day and see the destruction you the narcissist inflict on children and families. Actually no point...you have no heart...no love..no care...no remorse....you have nothing. You are dark, you have lost and continue to lose. We have light, we are light 🌟😉💜
That’s right! No sense in trying to reason with them. Zero.
As an empath, it’s shocking to me that there are people on the planet who don’t believe empathy exists…shocking, but the more educated I become, I see that it’s true. Most people are living in the everyday fog, with a minimal level of empathy or awareness.
Learning that most people do not have my best interests at heart was a revelation. I’m glad I learned it at 45-better late than never.
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I agree
It is a shock to find out that people don’t care at all !!
They have a vacuous empty heart. Worse still they want us dead if they can’t get exactly what they want when they want it!
There’s a lot of very sick humans. Emotionally and spiritually bankrupt!!
Sing to the Tune of "We Are the Champions" by Queen 🎵🎶🎵🎵
We were supply
Time after time
We did our sentence
But committed no crime
And bad mistakes
We made a few
We had our share of sand
Kicked in our face
But we've come through!
And we'll always go on and on and on and on
Yes, we are narc-free, my friends
And we'll keep on blocking till the end
We are so narc-free
Yes, we are the narc-free!
No time for losers
'Cause we are the champions over Narcs!
We've taken our bows
And our curtain calls
The Narcs tore our self-worth
And everything that goes with it
We gave our all!
But it's been no bed of roses
No pleasure cruise
We consider it freedom to let go of these Narcs
And we'll never lose!
And we'll always go on and on and on and on
Yes, we are narc-free, my friends
And we'll go NO CONTACT till the end
We are so narc-free
Yes, we are the narc-free!
No time for losers
'Cause we are the champions over Narcs!
Yes, we are narc-free, my friends
And we'll go NO CONTACT till the end
Yes, we are the narc-free!
Yes, we are the narc-free!
No time for losers
'Cause we have control now, over Narcs!
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Love this
Thanks love the song it was great,and very true too😎
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Thank you SO MUCH Andrew - my fav empath! I grew up as the scapegoat & married a narcissist. When you pointed a finger into my living room, stating "You are winning!" I cried. Devaluation, abandonment, emotional abuse hurts. I have no relationship with my toxic mother; or flying monkey sister who lives with mom and tolerates her, expecting a large inheritance oneday. The pinnacle of indifference is the delightful environment I now embrace. X0
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Even Empathy can Be Swallowed Up By the Black Hole of Narcissism.....Hi Everyone
Andrew, you always speak the truth about narcissism. I am so glad I found your channel. You've helped me tremendously 🥰
Thank you..💜😌🙏💯
I agree 100%. Andrew helped me tremendously also and continues to do so. He is my support system. Namaste.
They are the master destroyer. Blessed to be in No contact 👍
Thank you Andrew 🤝🙏🏼
Sometimes life smacks us in the ass to where we finally create a tipping point to where we are right now and then we need to let go.
What a gorgeous background.
You look great. 🪽🪽🪽💐🪽
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WOW!! 199K subscribers! I was here at the beginning and still grateful. My situation is with a malignant narcissist - a brother. What a nightmare. I went No Contact 3 years ago. Thnx again!
Welcome..😌💯🙏💜💪
I was not here from beginning but I’d guess about two years now
I subscribed straight away when it came up on my feed for you tube
Thank you for your comment
And thank you Andrew..,,,
Helping so many !!!
I think I speak for all of us
“Thank you”
I was a young boy under five when the abuse started. My father Albert Pluim, would fly off the handle especially when his friend Ray Steele would show up. I realize that my father and my two brothers are and were narcissists. My sister, I have no idea and I hope that I never see my siblings again. A very toxic family. My mother was the only empath other than myself that I know of. God help me if those monsters ever try to contact me. The police will be involved if that happens. I have the law on my side.
Like you my sib was a narc. Haven't seen or spoke in 30 yrs. It's been nice. Thank goodness my mom an empath like me I surmise.
@@jackiepowell7513 Hind sight is 20/20. I wish I knew what I know now. my life may have been better than it is now.
my partner said yesterday after his therapist said to him yesterday that he'd never come across anyone like him before and i said that's because you're a narcissist and he said to me no i don't think i'm a narcissist I'm more like a psychopath 😢..getting myself ready to break free now
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Run!!
Hurry quietly...
Narcissists tell on themselves....
Time for a plan
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He just told you exactly who is is. PLEASE LEAVE IMMEDIATELY, even if it means you might "lose everything" (you will not "lose everything" forever, but you are set free by a psychopathic monster). Please LEAVE FOR YOUR LIFE, YOU NEVER OWED HIM ANYTHING. GO!
I can see thru the mask , my narcisist olderst brother has 4 flying monkey brothers, me and my sister are outcasts, im alone but happily married with children and wonderfull friends and a church comunity.
That is wonderful... you are blessed. The brothers have apparently chosen a different path. Prayers for your mom.🙏❤
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God Bless you brother! Amen
YES, the narcissist does not know he has ALWAYS dirty fingers...💯%!!🌠👍🌟
I blocked the narcissist and packed up all my things in my car but I'm homeless now trying to figure it out, at least I'm saving my mental health.
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"We treat life as an experience." 💯❣️
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@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone BTW, 70's jeans were the best! 👖😍😉
Absolutely and a journey
Your channel has helped me so much.Words of wisdom.
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"Narcissism as a personality trait doesn't require a cure or treatment" -that's true of "community narcissists" people you might describe as "arrogant' or self-centred" We aren't talking about those people here. We're talking about people who have *an agenda* -for you before you meet them. It's typified by quick sex (to get you hooked) -then the emotional abuse begins (put-downs, name-calling, flaking, faking and taking) that's followed/sometimes concomitant with the smear campaign -which is designed to isolate you socially. To use a metaphor -the *community narcissist* is the guy who cuts you off on the freeway -without indicating. *The Pathological Narcissist* is the guy/girl who identifies you/your home/car/kids/bank account and then *infiltrates to destroy*
Im realizing the “romantic” relationship with a narcissist guy had to happen so I could discover who I am and why relationships/interactions in my life have played out the way they did. It happened to wake me up and reveal to me my own strength!
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Support for Andrew and everyone here,💗💗💗💗💗💗💗t.y.😊
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Congrats on 199 subs !!!
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Appreciate your channel ❤
For me this channel is about positivity not just about narcissism education
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Hi Andrew, I could not agree more. Here in France we unfortunately have the same kind of freaks. I managed to get rid of mine few weeks ago in a way he did not expect before going no contact. As a yoga teacher (he took advantage of this by the way) I have my own ressources 😊 Now I am recovering from this toxic relation thanks to really good ayurvedic massage I had (abhyanga marma). It allowed me to get rid of all this toxicity in my body and in my mind. It is vital to break this negative energetical bond. My body and mind weren't free despite the no contact. During the massage, I have been told that my muladhara and anahata (root and heart) chakras were completely unbalanced. This was confirming me all the bad I felt physically and emotionally. The narc is so evil. But since this wonderful massage I feel so much better and relieved. With all the yoga postures, breathing exercises, meditation and this massage I feel now more at peace. The bond has broke. Hope this can help some to find the strenght to move forward and go in grace in this beautiful life. Sending you all lots of positive vibes and thanking you Andrew for all your helpfull videos. Take care of yourselves. Blessings from France. Namasté 🙏🌞
I was with a Narcisstic for 8 years I finally left and it took me 6 years to get financially free and another 2 years to get divorced
Finally free with no contact
Thankyou for all your videos they all ring true to me ❤
I have always been an empath
It’s easier not to date anymore
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I love this channel. I know you are an empath because your compassion is palpable. Your words help me to feel better. Also, thank you for the injected humor!
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I've been watching your channel for the past year and always love the locations you shoot at. It'd be cool to see you do videos in Alaska one day. Every time I see amazing scenery I say, "that's a great shot for an Andrew video!" 😁
Thanks for all you do, you bring lots of positivity to so many!
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Got used to it from so many directions just seemed normal until I started getting better. Wow! Glad the worst was over. No idea where I was in the process.
I had a "you are here" experience through this channel, constantly making it make sense.
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Thank you Andrew. First, Second, Third now. Doing the best I can do much solitude.❣️
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Yess indeed Andrew so true.
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Everything returning especially the Bank Account!!
Thank you, Andrew. Your delivered narrative helps. You are a warrior.
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My wife once broke down crying and told me she thought she was possessed.
My husband used to always say he could bear his own cross when he messed up bad. He used to say he had demons. I remember he would be in the shower singing and having himself a grand old time and I would be in the bedroom casting out demons in Jesus name! And praying so hard. When he came in our home every single night after work, the times he did come home, he would change the energy in our home to gloom and doom. Every Evening. Every morning. I was truly with a demon filled vessel.
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I went through all of this with my mother and daughter. I am an Intuative empath. I wasn't the golden child, but dealt with it cognitively. My daughter I put up with a lot for the sake of my suffering grandkids.- they lived with me. Essentially, I brought them up and they know this behaviour is bad and not their fault. I taught them to love themselves, and be kind to others. I will break this cycle. Thank you Andrew.
Light and love will always win out.
I love you Andrew. Your talks and walks in nature help me so much. Your smile is awesome. I wish we could meet and just walk a trail together! In peace and just enjoy each other's company and smiles!
Powerful...Amen brother 🙏
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Wow, all so true!! Awesome video
My son Andrew told me..Mom if it's too good to be true then it is. Don't believe it. Funny how your young adult children know better sometimes.
❤Thank you Andrew ❤
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My daughters mother is now on a hoover trip and playing her narcissistic mortification show...her smoke show has only worked for a short period this time trying to catch other fish in the ocean...what a zero bore she is, and no change whatsoever..I know her mask games in and out, and are almost vomiting when I see her fake face and disguised facade ..I only care for my daughter being caught up in the narc mothers maskarade and slimy mud hole...I wish the empty mother will one day say to me I can come and pick up my daughter 10.000 km away from me because her mother is getting tired of my daughter or has spent all my daughters money in the bank...a new supply guy will not last long because the mothers share value on the stock market is rapidly declining and will continue to shrink into more chaos, stupidity, loneliness, paranoia, indifference and finally ending up in a vast black hole....I use the small word no with a big importance to avoid abusive people. And I also use the small word yes with a big importance to do what I like and feel for...thank you Andrew. Enjoy your day and keep up your good work
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I’ve missed watching you, love it!! Be strong everyone, it took me 2 years to reach “indifference” you will get there! Keep listening to Andrew! 💫💚🙏🏼💚💫
I would have to say they lose attention and resources. Namely someone to pin it on. I said it 2 years ago, "The most valuable resource on Earth IS attention." The Interwebs is a perfect example of external validation. It baffles me how many people are externally validated, when they could just look inside and be happy. I have dated women that did not have a personality, they mimicked mine, my interests, my mannerism, all the things that make me an individual. The last one, I lost myself in the relationship, later to discover, once again humility and an undignified soul searching. That crap took 8 years to heal from. I am still an asshole, no doubt, but fairness and generousity comes first, not gonna budge on that. We can heal these aged children whose parents failed them out of fear of shame or judgement. And there it is, it is parenting that failed them. Andrew I thank you for helping folks understand this crazyness, Could you please cover the parents role in developing or continuing this awful character disorder? Thank you sir, you are appreciated and meant for what you are doing.
You are my current motivational coach!!👍🏼
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The part on the being a friend to my daughter, never set boundaries, not letting me parent her is spot on. Was waiting for this be said. Thanks for this helping me heal. Saw my daughter half hour in the last 2 years. It’s all getting clearer. Tnx !
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My bestee got away from her x narc x 37 years, unfortunately her daughter seems to be one, she's not buying into it.
Thank you for all of your videos. The one I met was from another country. He was my first narc and hopefully my last. He has supply all over the world. Didn't realize they existed. 5 months no contact. It's still hard to unsee what I seen.
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Well, my parents (the narcissists) won. They have millions of euros and i am starving to death from mental illnesses. The way how my parents destroyed me is unprecedented.
Horrendous for you I can only imagine ☹️I hope you get support from the community here 🙏
I am so very sorry. Never give up. Keep following Andrew. There is a light at the end of every dark tunnel. Keep pushing forward. I am praying for you. Namaste.
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Wow ,,,so demonic
I feel for you, these Narcs are Pure Malevolence 🔥
Andrew,,,, it sounds like you were there all of those years.
This is Not a coincidence folks!
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After 3 people say the same things its no longer is a coincidence, and we have 200,000 people here with similar experiences.
Not a coincidence.....for sure not.
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Run for the hills! Absolute truth!
Here's what I experienced:
1) Love Bombing - She completely had my trust and love. She said we were Partners - She said we would spend our lives together. I was committed 100%
2) She started to distance (7 months into the Relationship)
3) Super Distance: Started listening to her Children that said she could do better.
4) Discarded: 1 month later - She came over and she told me she could not do the relationship any more
5) ME Heartbroken and shattered for 6 months at least
6) Started understanding and still wanted her back
7) (90 days later) Burned all the shite that she left in my house
7) Started hating her (and that felt much better)
8) 18 months later I am educated (Andrew - GREAT JOB)
9) Looking for another Woman that will treat me like I treat her. Ex can kiss both sides of my azz.
And yes.... she took alot of my finances with vacations - meals - Presents etc...etc...
And YES ..... She is AGING !!!! And aging BADLY. You get what you Play for.
😮I never understood and never met a NARCISSIST before. 2 years of a roller coaster ride. I'm so happy he dumped me. I can breathe. ALL he has left left is hovering with words fooling himself that I still care. Him dumping me was a blessing
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I always love❤ when you refer to the Narcississt as a having a "tiny little pea brain 🧠!" So funny!! 😆They think they're in a movie, forrel. Life is not a movie 🎥 Feels to go laugh at them now🙃😆😆 Good video, Andrew!!😃
Thank u Andrew I was lost 3 yrs ago. U helped me find resilience and a new life. Ur the best.
You are right on!! Love your teachings and that you are helping to bring awareness to narcissism and the damage and destruction it can leave behind. We empaths must learn to love ourselves enough and learn to set boundaries. Narcissists hate boundaries because they love control. Love you Andrew! Namaste 🙏
We are Judged Relentlessly by People Who Think We Are Weak for being an Empath
Spot on Andrew. Thank you 🙏
Really appreciate your breadth of knowledge Andrew, thank you.
Thank you for sharing your experiences. It is helping me very much! Cheers,
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They have the spirit of self sabotage.. they will destroy the next relationship
The worst part for me after walking away is completely understanding what happened while nursing a broken heart. It’s taking so long to heal and it’s a lonely journey. I have to pretend I’m okay most of the time because family and friends don’t understand
I understand- it sounds just like my story. Good luck in your recovery and God Bless.
Two years ago when I found out my second wife cheated I got my eyes opened to the fact that narcissists exist and thanks to Andrew and the community I now have a far better understanding of what took place during our five years together.
I've also come to realize that my first wife has heavily narcissistic traits. I took her through med school to become a physician and supported our lifestyle with hobbies and travel during that time. Once she was finished I didn't amount to anything, knew nothing and did nothing right.
Looking back I think I understand her behavior better and realize that she has no old friends, always complains and picks on her sister, her mother, her ex brother in law and her step mother. She's constantly in some form of conflict and I'm now grateful for not having to deal with her since our son's are now legal adults.
Your right Andrew sometimes love is blind,it’s even worse when your physical challenged😎
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We were three children raised by a narcissistic father and an enabling mother. We were all treated like shit by the narcissist.
I deleted some photos off of my phone today from a vacation 3 months ago. It's unreal how when I look in their eyes they knew what they were doing. Evil, pure evil. God is love. Embrace God. (One month free yday)
Congratulations on cutting off the Narc from your life!!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉You DESERVE better! Like Andrew says, "You will NOT be where you are weeks, months, or years from now." I wish you the very best! 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@wickedwisdom6088 thank you for your very kind message. I hope you're dancing down the healing path yourself
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I am a year on my healing journey. I had no idea what a narcissism was until I came across your channel. Healing for me has been life changing. I still deal with the hoover, etc. because we have two children. I come to this channel for strength and knowledge. Thank you so very much for sharing your wisdom.
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Thanks, I needed to hear this.
Great video as always. This morning I woke up with the message I’ll have a friend spending his holiday for a couple of days. I moved to another part of the country, speaking another language. A couple of days later I’ll have another guest from the US, a French American, whom I met last summer. Great, looking forward to some positive vibes!
New subscriber this has helped me so much.
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Thanks God !! I'm in relationship with no future I'm in US he's in EU.... it's time to find some one close to home....
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Thanks, Andrew, you are 100-percent correct. Your insights are extremely valuable.
Never stop little brother, never stop.
It was the blame game that put the nail
In the coffin for me. A loving, kind person just cannot sustain or internalise the blame-shifting forever. I did 15 years on and off and this channel was a game changer for me! Thank you Andrew. I’m firmly no contact of 4 months and it’s getting easier. My finances are improving and I have a lot more confidence 🌷
Thanks Andrew as empath to empath, you’re great! For sure empaths exist and it’s exactly why I started my channel when I met one of these demonic entities. Couldn’t believe it. But I was in a battle for my life. I’m out! Get out and stay out! ❤
The best advice I could give anybody who is healing from narcissistic abuse, especially in those early days, is to get rid of all social media and ask your friends and family not to post any pictures of you or tag you anywhere. You need to go really cold to them, so they have no idea what you are doing, who you’re spending time with etc. you’re probably at home taking life slowly and trying to recover from the trauma, but they don’t need to know that. They will be the one posting everything they do, exaggerating their every move, new clothes, probably found religion and virtue signalling with that. But they need to have no idea at all how you’re spending your days. Blocking them won’t do much because you know they’ll have 5 fake profiles to stalk you on. Love to all xx
At my mothers funeral i saw how disgusting those monsters truly are. It took every bone in my body not to embarass my sister,her husband,and others but the Lord told me my child no. When i got back home the Lord told me forgive them and move on from them my child.
I’ve always know I was an empath too. I never knew what to call it till now. Thank you Andrew.
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Black or White ? Good or Bad? Angel or Demon? Coke or Pepsi ? Lightness or Darkness? Normal empath or monstrous Narc? Choose Wisely. Thank you for this very insightful video. So happy I found this channel😊😊😊
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I appreciate you Andrew! I can rewatch every single video over and over... Each time every bit of information is spot on & makes more sense now that I am on the other side with you! Cheers!
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I just started following this channel less than two weeks ago. I find myself saying I come first, second and third. I am undoing a lifetime of conditioning. I feel blessed by your daily input. It totally resonates with me and is taking me further up the mountain. I think that soon I will be indifferent 🙏🌺💜🌈
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Another great reinforcement of the truth!
I don’t know what is worse from a narcissist, the silence treatment or the non stop talking. My ex never gave me silence. This person lived to talk non stop. It got the point that just hearing the voice will get me irritated. I never thought I could feel hatred towards someone but I did to this person.
God yes most of them never shut up.
Awesome video Andrew! Thank you for providing these videos.
Thank you Andrew for your daily dedication ❤
Tu Andrew. Definitely needed to hear that today….❤❤❤
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Agree!
Nailed it! It's exactly as I experienced.
My X gf isn't hurtn for supply her new guy is taking care of her, but I think their relationship is a " open " relationship, I believe he's a Narc too. But idk fosho. Don't care anymore
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There you go again 😅 making me laugh 😁 I just love your sense of humor Andrew! You always make your point, but the medicine goes down better with your humor! Thank you .. 🙌 just do you! Looove you Andrew!! God bless you 🕊️🕊️🕊️💞
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Bingo. My ex wife wanted our daughter as a friend, someone to go shopping with. I was a parent first, friend second.
Ex practised parental alienation.
Daughter has grown up and keeping very little contact with mother. Unfortunately I have none.
The ex is isolated from people who have seen through her lies.
I am indifferent and live my life in peace and balance.
God bless