Omg I needed to hear this because I’m battling this right now wondering if I should end my marriage but Derrick you are correct he’s never going to change because he took his mask off & revealed who he really was 2 yrs ago & I should have left then but I was honoring my vows. 😞 🤦🏾♀️
Yep , I brought us up and he dragged us down, 17years of one sided love. He was never going to change cause he was never trying to build a loving relationship on the first place. Years wasted on a POS
Oh I know the feeling especially when he leaves you for a woman he thought was much hotter and better than you but in reality wasn't because he was lustful in his ego and pride !!!!
I. Yup almost 3 years and he was never gonna change. Making me pay for most of the bills, he couldn’t even pay half of rent, he would only pay for fast food but make me pay for expensive dinners, he has baby mama drama, and he put me down to make him happy. He just never admits it.
Hey @QueenWndr, I just want to say that I admire your strength and courage in opening up about your struggles. It's okay to have setbacks and moments of doubt, but remember that you are capable of overcoming them. You are deserving of love and happiness, and I believe in your ability to find peace within yourself. If you're looking for more guidance on navigating relationships and self-love, don't forget to check out my new master class. It could offer some valuable insights and support on your journey. Keep pushing forward, you got this! 💪🏼 #YouAreNotAlone
I wish I knew about you years ago … everything you’re saying is so true.. I have experienced it all. I feel like I’ve wasted so many years on these assholes.!
I and earlier today I talked about something that bothered me when he came and got mad and stated he going to find a new girl but we not in a relationship and left
Hi Alma, I'm so sorry to hear that you're feeling lost and disconnected in your relationship. It's completely normal to have ups and downs, and it's great that you're seeking support to help navigate through this tough time. Remember, communication is key in any relationship, so don't be afraid to open up and share your feelings with your partner. Just know that you are not alone in this journey, and there are resources out there to help guide you towards a healthier and more fulfilling relationship. I actually just released a new master class on improving communication and connection in relationships, which you might find beneficial. You can check it out in the description below. Keep pushing forward and never hesitate to reach out for help. You've got this!
That is exactly what I am dealing with. Zero accountability! Projecting finger pointer!
Men who is like that never changed, they were like that in the first place, they were just good at masking their true self.
Omg I needed to hear this because I’m battling this right now wondering if I should end my marriage but Derrick you are correct he’s never going to change because he took his mask off & revealed who he really was 2 yrs ago & I should have left then but I was honoring my vows. 😞 🤦🏾♀️
This is me too we have something in common
Mine never says sorry, I apologize if Iam wrong.
I have read the way they treat you that's how they see you
I been married 9 years the last 2 been the worst for me
Facts
It is crazy how we hold on to something that we got to move on from when you love hard thank you
I walk away from it all... !! I also did my self challenge...!! he didn't value my present!! he will respect my absence. Ty! ! Big Brother!! 🙏
This was for me! Thank you. I’m always looking at self to blame for my actions but I truthfully know these people are not accountable.
Yep , I brought us up and he dragged us down, 17years of one sided love. He was never going to change cause he was never trying to build a loving relationship on the first place. Years wasted on a POS
i ,was in a spot for a while I tend to be a magnet for needy crafty men who are selfish but I broke the chain and im free 🎉
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I....😢😢😢😢😢 sobbing and weeping 😢
Thank you, D! 🙏❤️ Another real talk message! 💯
My ex left me for another woman, and he will do it again. I'm single and staying there ❤❤
Oh I know the feeling especially when he leaves you for a woman he thought was much hotter and better than you but in reality wasn't because he was lustful in his ego and pride !!!!
Just left him.
I. Yup almost 3 years and he was never gonna change. Making me pay for most of the bills, he couldn’t even pay half of rent, he would only pay for fast food but make me pay for expensive dinners, he has baby mama drama, and he put me down to make him happy. He just never admits it.
Hey @QueenWndr, I just want to say that I admire your strength and courage in opening up about your struggles. It's okay to have setbacks and moments of doubt, but remember that you are capable of overcoming them. You are deserving of love and happiness, and I believe in your ability to find peace within yourself. If you're looking for more guidance on navigating relationships and self-love, don't forget to check out my new master class. It could offer some valuable insights and support on your journey. Keep pushing forward, you got this! 💪🏼 #YouAreNotAlone
I wish I knew about you years ago … everything you’re saying is so true.. I have experienced it all. I feel like I’ve wasted so many years on these assholes.!
Now I focus on building a cosy home and a wonderful garden ( Stability )
Love that!
✨Why is he ALWAYS always always on point! Thank you Big Bro❤️
Love the consistency 💞
Thank you!!!! Needed this today!
I really needed this. Thank you
AMEN, SO TRUE 🙏🏾
U always have the real life message for me luv ya bro thanks
Brother you are preaching God is really using you to help your sisters 🙏 thank you 😊
I applaud your honesty he is telling it straight ..
Nope they don't change. Another great message brother ❤
Thank you!! 💚💚💚
Per usually,!’ 💯💯.. you leave me speechless…
I was listening I heard hubby foot steps downstairs glad he was listening to the hell he put me through Because Truly I know he isn't going to change
Id catch some words from mine if he heard me watching these videos…..im working up the courage to just playing a relevant video where he can hear.
Thank you, Derrick you’re 💯 percent right. He has blamed me, said I left foot whole open for the devil. So evil. Thank so much, I’m getting there.🤗
I right now Derrick. So painful. I walked away thank you for supporting me and guiding us woman.. thank you sincerely my big brother
Thank you 🙏🏼💯
Thank you Sir🙏🏾
He used to say “all my problems in life were caused by other people”
Iv learnt that today
He who the Son sets free is free indeed
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Thank you Derrick you are on point he does not want to change really?
Growth takes place hopefully
Great message❤
I finally finally finally blocked him OMG took forever for me
Good for you! 👍
He tried to turn it around on me But I DIDN'T STAND FOR THAT NO WAY NOT ME😊
Thanks for your info it is true in many ways
😢you're right I finally got it!!!
Fact!❤🎉
Yes you are correct.
Thank you, so right, I will go left even I know it will hurt..
I’ve got you too but I’ll never get better until icanforgive❤❤❤❤❤❤
I’m here listening
❤❤❤❤❤❤ yes I do no matter what ❤❤❤❤❤😊😊king 🤴 😊 thanks so much 🙏 for sharing your thoughts 😀 🎉🎉🎉🎉
I'm going thru right now
This Brother talks real 😊
💯 Facts
I hear ya
Facts
Thank you
I and earlier today I talked about something that bothered me when he came and got mad and stated he going to find a new girl but we not in a relationship and left
That Part!!!!
TLOL you are so funny..Straight shooter..sooo honest..thank you...right agreed
Yes u right
Yes
Thanks again
Speaking facts…..
I deal with this!❤
Yeah!!!!!
Posture is true🇧🇧
Late night dosis Derek 👌 good video.
Yes..... trying to decide if should break contact......he says hes will sacrifice now
Right 👍
Facts🇧🇧
Yes, how do I better communicate without sounding like his mother 🤔
Derrick how do I become a member of the inner circle?
I I’m listening
💜💜💜
Amen Amen Amen Get the stepping psycho
Interesting topic
Always a good video
💯
I and wonder if I can still do something, did I actually do anything that made it worse? What can be done?
We all did tht
I'm going through that everyday he tell me all the time to know where the door 🚪
Hi Alma, I'm so sorry to hear that you're feeling lost and disconnected in your relationship. It's completely normal to have ups and downs, and it's great that you're seeking support to help navigate through this tough time. Remember, communication is key in any relationship, so don't be afraid to open up and share your feelings with your partner.
Just know that you are not alone in this journey, and there are resources out there to help guide you towards a healthier and more fulfilling relationship. I actually just released a new master class on improving communication and connection in relationships, which you might find beneficial. You can check it out in the description below. Keep pushing forward and never hesitate to reach out for help. You've got this!
Whew....I....Lawd....
Lord, this is me going threw 😢
Am still in that situation and it keeps bothering
How can I join your inner circle??
🎯🎯🎯
On target here!
Celeste from NC
Mr.Jaxn Thanks😊😊😊😊🎉😢😅.
Dealing with this right now 😞
Currently
😢😢😢😢😢
I swear this was my relationship 😮he was never never going to be accountable and make change ! I am out
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I tried however it said Closed.
Oh yes, i put boundaries. So my limits would not respect. So goodbye have a nice life
I!!
Iii done that n still
He never changed when he get punishment from God.
I developed myself. Can I get a big brother like you
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I 🤷🏼♀️
I fact ✔️
" I " I'm a Late, but YES Yes, 11 years GONE.... 🤷
I/AYE