Courting is TRADITIONAL. Feminist fought to destroy these traditional gender roles because they were patriarchal and sexist.. why would males need to be traditional for UNTRADITIONAL females?
That kind of attitude is exactly why maybe your single. Shows you think your better than others. Reason why is because women today scream wolf and there is none.. or you guys are so damn rude shooting men down. That's why. RBF is not cool.
One day I was so fed up cuz several guys were wanting to be the female n thought it was ok, so I flat out said n excuse me but it needed to be said, if they waiting on me, I'm putting on a strap on n using it, not doing that but I had to get my point across cuz I'm sick of it
Real men would never NOT want to be with a woman or be hateful towards women. And if he does any of the top two things he’s not even worth speaking too! He just has plans to hurt you! Real men understand their role and don’t let weak men influence them of it!!! ❤🎉 real men who have the bag and good qualities love to provide and protect and be gentlemen! The rest are immature and mentally I’ll! And wouldn’t make good partners anyway
They just want to chill at the crib, not trying to take you out. Ladies just don't accept that behavior. It's just simple. Stop blaming the men, they only do to you what you allow.
Then there are the guys who want to initiate, but then start dropping the ball and so when you are an adult and tell them that you want to actually spend time together, they start pulling away
Derrick we really appreciate you! Thanks very much for speaking up for us; a lot of us are only now understanding and learning what’s really going on out there! Some of us were not out there looking, for years; until now!!! Do thanks for all your teachings and leadership!!! Appreciates you, big brother!!!
I've come to realize ❤that God loves me, thinks I'm beautiful, IS MY PROVIDER AND PROTECTOR...AND knowing THAT GIVES ME THE CONFIDENCE THAT I DON'T HAVE TO RELY ON A MAN'S ANYTHING!! ❤❤
Sir, you are brilliant‼️. Your children are blessed and you are blessing women and men in the most Godly way. My son is 22 and I send him your vids. What he wants he is not ready to accept. I feel the rejection he gets from young women is a blessing to him because he is not trying to pull them panties off too quickly and some modern girls equate lust with love.
From 8:40 on you spoke TO SSSOOOOO MANY! YES, a lonely, cold, and unresponsive marriage partner IS NOT where is at! Respect comes from leading by example.
It’s the idea that they can level up and get better. The dating apps have caused so much damage to normal relationships. You date for a bit, but they are still scrolling and exploring, hooked on the idea that there’s going to be something better, so every relationship is just a temporary one until he feels he needs to move on. They keep their options open, so they never invest in something that could actually be good for them and help them and build them up. They are blind to the possibilities because their focus is always on the next.
💯💯 this is my ex husband. He ignored my needs all the time. I was the bread winner for 23 out of 25 years. I never asked for material things. I only wanted his emotional connection and time. He never wanted to give it to me. Now, he gives all of it to his new fiancée after being with her for a year.
Yes, I was told its 2024 u should pursue me and then he proceeded to try and show me his phone and say look at all the women who want me. I just shook my head and rolled my eyes.
They don't court because they want the path of least resistance. A self-possessed woman with high self esteem turns them off.
Nah, a lot of women aren't worth pursuing.
@@alvincoleman4581 and you are worth it?
Yes! There are too many women who turn up to man's place on the FIRST date. Obviously, men won't try harder,cos there's lots of cheap easy 😼
Exactly! 🤗
@@alvincoleman4581 sounds like hot bitter tears coming from your eyes
If you need them, they use it against you. If you don't need them they use it against you. I'm confused🤷♀️
I'm not. Take out the trash.
Guys don’t approach me nor do they court me. When they do they give me the bare minimum.
That's why im done with dating. I'm old fashioned girl and want to be courted. Until things improve which is never, I will be single ❤❤❤❤
Courting is TRADITIONAL. Feminist fought to destroy these traditional gender roles because they were patriarchal and sexist.. why would males need to be traditional for UNTRADITIONAL females?
Have fun being single
That kind of attitude is exactly why maybe your single. Shows you think your better than others. Reason why is because women today scream wolf and there is none.. or you guys are so damn rude shooting men down. That's why. RBF is not cool.
One day I was so fed up cuz several guys were wanting to be the female n thought it was ok, so I flat out said n excuse me but it needed to be said, if they waiting on me, I'm putting on a strap on n using it, not doing that but I had to get my point across cuz I'm sick of it
My ex wants me to Chase him, but he will be waiting!! love this message 💯
Yes these men don't need a relationship they need therapy...level up and do the damn work
Therapy is generally ineffective for men and there are strong reasons for that. WOMEN need therapy
Courted but he never wanted to “sit at the table” for discussion on issues. Not evolved and not ready for WORK!
They never want to discuss anything! Just slide it under the rug !
Modern women have some of the worst communication skills I’ve ever seen but will often be the first ones to say communication is key.. laughable
They moving too fast because they see something they can get out of you. ‼️🎯‼️
Exactly!!! They are about to Rob you of something they want!
Real men would never NOT want to be with a woman or be hateful towards women. And if he does any of the top two things he’s not even worth speaking too! He just has plans to hurt you! Real men understand their role and don’t let weak men influence them of it!!! ❤🎉 real men who have the bag and good qualities love to provide and protect and be gentlemen! The rest are immature and mentally I’ll! And wouldn’t make good partners anyway
If they are not moving forward...Not God's will..move on without them
I think you need to teach these guys how to know how to treat a woman come on have a one on one ☝🏽 with these guys Derrick
They just want to chill at the crib, not trying to take you out. Ladies just don't accept that behavior. It's just simple. Stop blaming the men, they only do to you what you allow.
Exactly! Refuse anything that isn’t your standard ! Don’t let loneliness limit you
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You ain’t lying
Then there are the guys who want to initiate, but then start dropping the ball and so when you are an adult and tell them that you want to actually spend time together, they start pulling away
Something is wrong with them
There is Something For Real Wrong with Them...😢
@blingblingnelida they are not healed. Don't want therapy. Don't want to be better men. Want to be chased like a woman.
1000%
Something wrong with those that chose them
They, choose us, then they chase us, and then when you slow down, they disappear.
The women is fixing and protecting the men
you're so on point it's painful
Completely yes felt alone in the relationship DerrickJ, emotional needs were never acknowledged
Derrick we really appreciate you! Thanks very much for speaking up for us; a lot of us are only now understanding and learning what’s really going on out there! Some of us were not out there looking, for years; until now!!! Do thanks for all your teachings and leadership!!! Appreciates you, big brother!!!
"How you do anything is how you do EVERYTHING! "
Derrick Jaxn
God Bless you, sir! Those words are absolute gold!
I've come to realize ❤that God loves me, thinks I'm beautiful, IS MY PROVIDER AND PROTECTOR...AND knowing THAT GIVES ME THE CONFIDENCE THAT I DON'T HAVE TO RELY ON A MAN'S ANYTHING!! ❤❤
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Amen! 🙌 ❤️🙏
Sir, you are brilliant‼️. Your children are blessed and you are blessing women and men in the most Godly way. My son is 22 and I send him your vids. What he wants he is not ready to accept. I feel the rejection he gets from young women is a blessing to him because he is not trying to pull them panties off too quickly and some modern girls equate lust with love.
Yes. Unfortunately. Where are the real MEN??
Derek my respect for you goes up through the roof each time I see you with that little girl. Just precious 💞 so precious
Men want to be the prize... 😢
I have felt that rushing before from men
EVERYTHING YOU SAY IS SOOO TRUE 1000% 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
Ain't nothing like the real thang baby
From 8:40 on you spoke TO SSSOOOOO MANY! YES, a lonely, cold, and unresponsive marriage partner IS NOT where is at! Respect comes from leading by example.
Derrick your understanding of women is CRAZY IMPRESSIVE. We looooooveeeeeee yooouuu ❤️
Mr. Jaxn, you covered exactly what is happening in the dating world🙏🙏🙏
I. The staring is annoying. Now I get it. Thankyou Big Brother 💯
SIR,YOU ARE TELLING THE TRUTH,WOW
It’s the idea that they can level up and get better. The dating apps have caused so much damage to normal relationships. You date for a bit, but they are still scrolling and exploring, hooked on the idea that there’s going to be something better, so every relationship is just a temporary one until he feels he needs to move on. They keep their options open, so they never invest in something that could actually be good for them and help them and build them up. They are blind to the possibilities because their focus is always on the next.
💯💯 this is my ex husband. He ignored my needs all the time. I was the bread winner for 23 out of 25 years. I never asked for material things. I only wanted his emotional connection and time. He never wanted to give it to me. Now, he gives all of it to his new fiancée after being with her for a year.
How he treats you is how he feels about you!! Truest statement ever , always love yourself first if he isn’t meeting your standard let him go!!
Yes . . .absolutely!
I so appreciate your insights, knowledge, wisdom, and Truths!!!!
Wow I love this, you, your message. 🔥
It happens to me all every single day. That's why I rarely go out.
Truth and nothing but the truth.
Of course but we didn't see healthy in ourself...If you are healthy you turn away from that
Im dealing with this situation right now.i thought it was just me.
Everything you have said is why im single
When u brace yourself they can’t brake u or hurt you. It’s the disappointment 4 me
Amen
Love your honesty
They want someone to take care of them. They want a mama.
That's so truth Derrick
Spot on
You are crushing it with these spitfire vids!
Shared and loved this so much!! Thank you for this video
Love this Message❤
I applaud you for this and all that you do 🎉.
Lonely in a relationship 🙋♀️🙋♀️
You are really Really goed Derrix.
Thanks for your help to the community
Shared 🎯
Great topic
I can’t like this enough, you are correct!
So on point Derrick look for the signs
I needed to hear this thanks
Me too
AMEN
100% truth brother
Yup! 💯
Yesss!
True🎯
Yes they do .. they are looking for women like that ... They use the women
Your daughter is beautiful! ❤😊
1 Straight Facts 💯
Do not expect everything out of love.
Great message. Did the cover of that book say "Put I Down In The Chat. ❤
You are so right on so many levels I’m going to put this on my page 👍
Yes, I was told its 2024 u should pursue me and then he proceeded to try and show me his phone and say look at all the women who want me. I just shook my head and rolled my eyes.
Here’s whose number? Must be mine…cause I ain’t calling first. Period.
Get Therapy and move around....BIG Facts
I have audible so will check out your book
Yep !
FACTS
Yup!!
They use to break there toys too...destructive ...
This was brilliant beyond brilliant❤
You really have an excellent voice of reason in your mind,very insightful n very well explained,thanks brother
Every word you're saying is true!
You got that right 😢
❤❤❤❤Amen.
Yes
Facts
🔥
True
Yes he is like that and it's a 😮mess to deal with
Yes - not evenly yoked.... they show up emotionally at first then it changes
❤❤❤❤
Oooh weee. Tell it, tell it
Men have tried to love balm me... After a few lovebalming interactions I've come to realize a lot of men try this... Thank God I catch on fast...
How can I forget!!
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Some women get that old school attention, but they look way different in the negative 🤦🏽♀️
Sweet daughter ❤
ON 🌎 Point• 👑 BRO 🐦🔥 FACTS 👑 unfortunately REALITY.
Right
Yep.